Is Paramotoring Selfish?

[@mikeolson6843]

I'm a 75 year old father of four. I parked my motorcycle when our youngest was born. That was in 86 shortly after I took a couple rides on a paramotor trike. The kids were all out of the house nineteen years ago. I now have a 95 Goldwing. I'm not exactly a risk taker. I'm content cruising the back roads. I enjoy your videos. It gives me the experience without the risk or expense. I'm a Vietnam Veteran. I was Army Airborne. We did static line jumps. Jumps always were over too soon. Paramotors are ideal in that you have more than two to three minutes to enjoy the ride. Keep the videos coming and stay safe.

[@clintwhitman]

Thank you for your service & our freedom! God bless....... Sir!

[@airmagic2199]

WOOHOO 🙌 I gave up motorcycles with having kids also.. Have been flying Motors and Free Flight for over twenty years now, I guess... Also Skate, Surf, Snow and Electric Unicycles!!!! I'm drawing the line before base and wingsuits. Stay Healthy and Happy

[@bigjim3644]

Thank you for your service. God bless you and your family.

[@mikeolson6843]

@@airmagic2199 I don't do bungee jumping and not a fan of rollercoasters which my wife likes. But, a couple years ago I got her on a zipline course. That's my speed.

[@TuckerGott]

I appreciate your service and your thoughts! I'm glad I can share some risk taking experience!

[@joshmedina5471]

I’ve always just been a flat and level flyer. Wing overs and acro have never interested me. Just being up in the air has always been good enough for me. 😋🤘

[@petervaughan3875]

Tomorrow is promised to Noone. We don't paramotor to die we do it to live.

[@rule1dontgosplat]

"Most people tiptoe through life, hoping to make it safely to death. What a dumb game!" - some dude on the internet.

[@MrRatchaphruek]

It is selfish if you have a family and children. I'm not saying stop doing what you love, but dail it back. Motorcycles are extremely risky. I stopped riding superbikes (which I loved) My passion is Surfing and still do to this day. I'm nearly 70. Fly safe 🙏🇹🇭

[@TuckerGott]

Exactly! I hate when people say I have a death wish. If I did, I would be dead by now. I have a life wish.

[@shanesplanetshane3795]

@@TuckerGott exactly! Well put. Some people wrongly assume that people who take risks, havent calculated them. You can't live forever, but you can exist without living at all.

[@tompatton2086]

@@shanesplanetshane3795 "You can't live forever, but you can exist without living at all." Nailed it. Well said!

[@orion_13]

I had a sudden illness that took my ability to walk away in 2008. It wasn't until 2012 that I managed to get my legs back enough to achieve my dream of riding motorcycles again. At that time my kids were 9 and 7. I rode until 2018 when my legs just couldn't hold up to it anymore. I'm glad I got those few years in again and to appreciate them for what they were.

[@smokingspitfire1197]

My viewpoint is that you need to decide for yourself what is the risk and as long as you ensure as close as possible to zero risk for anyone else, you can take that risk. You cannot live life and never do anything, sometimes you gotta do things for yourself. That being said, as soon as you have kids at home who need you. A partner who needs you, you have to understand the risk is no longer just yours. If stopping completely isn’t in the question, you should at least take a few steps back from the limit and do things as safely as possible. I’m a light aircraft pilot and get to fly historic fast jets and other high-risk machinery, but I carefully choose what risks i take. If I’m flying low-level, I do it at slow speeds in slower aircraft. If I’m flying a fast jet, I don’t get stupidly low or push the limits in maneuvers. Effectively, what I’m saying is you can’t never do anything you love because of risk, but you can minimise it, and there’s no reason to push the limits unless you have nothing to lose and noone else is at risk.

[@urazz7739]

Yes, like if you have a wife and kids then you should not be doing crazy stunts, and such like Tucker does in my opinion.

[@TuckerGott]

Very well said. I like this.

[@grub1962]

It's not selfish in a sense that deep inside, you find what you do interesting and enjoyable! The problems start when ego takes over and you start to do maneuvers that pose too much risk, where the consequences for "Showing off" can be deadly. Tucker... you have a ton of skill and are possibly caught in the KZbin content trap. It would be a shame to hear that something malfunctioned or poor judgement occured and you are now part of the Geology of Arizona. Please remember to stay humble, fly within your limits and continue to make the world a better place for a long time to come ! All the best. Fly Safe.

[@TuckerGott]

Thank you! I really don't think I'm caught in a KZbin content trap. That would imply that there is a correlation between more risky video and more views. Which there is not. Some of my most popular content isn't that risky. For example, the electric paramotor review and hopefully the upcoming four stroke paramotor content. That type of stuff gets me excited. High production quality, informative content, but low risk.

[@grub1962]

@@TuckerGott Thank you for your reply Tucker. Honestly your video today showed how level headed, insightfull and humble a pilot you are. The message you convey is one of safety and adventure. The flying adventure spirit from your earliest Ikarus race videos were simply awe inspiring and I am sure many have been a fan ever since. Regarding my comment about the KZbin content trap, it was a general comment relating to almost all KZbin content creators, where they feel they have to keep upping the ante to retain viewership. In your case of course some of the flights are a little more "Risky Biscuits" than others and I would genuinely hate to see you get injured or worse. From a viewers perspective, your top notch naration while providing the best scenery backdrop goes so far to educate an stoke people on the joy of flight. Keep up the great work and have fun while flying safe. :) Rock on :)

[@MikeSparamotor]

Anything can hurt or kill you. For me, flying a paramotor is what keeps me feeling alive. Do it safely and it's the best therapy money can buy

[@Brad_Whitley]

@@MikeSparamotor and that my friend is why I say it is selfish

[@hifiandrew]

I hate when people who say everything or anything can kill you, so do whatever. Because it's total BS. In the real world, there are known risks that have different magnitudes. Yes you could slip in your bathtub and die, but that's probably a 1 in 10 million chance. Drunk driving on the other hand probably has a 1 in 100 chance of killing you. There's a different risk between different activities. If you're okay with high risk because you need the dopamine to feel alive, fine, admit it, accept it, but don't act like it's the same thing as getting in the bath tub.

[@markbrown-us4xe]

I think that's why they invited tandems, We can share. Seeing the smile on family when returning home from a fly day is pretty rewarding. We all win. Nice choice for a giveaway !!! New camera has better colors. Gertrude seems happy as well. Thanks.

[@fellowtraveler]

Motorcycling and base jumping are definitely much riskier than paramotoring and PEVs. Please stay safe out there, man 🤘

[@daveketelsen1773]

I fly my paramotor like its a big old Honda Goldwing motorcyle. Nice and easy and take very little risks. Because of this I don't look at my paramotoring experience as being selfish. My wife and kids see how much happiness I get from this activity and have never voiced concern, which I am grateful for. I would also have no problem with any of my family members going up for a tandem ride to see why I love being in the air. ( My wife's family however has asked if I have an updated insurance policy which is a little weird) Love your videos Tucker. Remember, tomorrow isn't a promise, its more of a gift.

[@johntyson]

In the spirit of risk mitigation, I sold my motorcycle and quit doing risky stuff when I decided to have kids. Life is actually pretty long and I’ll have decades to do risky stuff again when they aren’t so dependent on me. Edit this by adding, to me, being with my kids and watching them grow up is way better than any skydive or motorcycle ride. I’d hate to miss it.

[@briencrotty2322]

My awesome Mom used to HATE that I rode motorcycles. For her 62nd birthday, though, she asked to go on a ride with me. I took her about 7 hours away, and it rained cats and dogs the entire time. I was positive she'd had a miserable time, and would never do it again. To the contrary, the next year, I took her on a long ride around the whole continental United States. My tiny Mom, on the back of my Harley. Over 9,000 miles. Best vacation in my entire life, hands down. Risk is relative. Now that my Mom is gone, I think about that trip every day. I could have taken no risk, sat on the couch, and never had that trip. Instead, I have the best memories a son could ever have.

[@Brad_Whitley]

Of course it's selfish, but to be able to share your ability with others who can't do that is phenomenal. Thanks for sharing, Tucker. I've watched all your videos from beginning to now. I can't do it, but I live it through you.

[@TriumphRC]

Well said.

[@sculter8]

Me too!

[@lewisgiles8855]

But why do you believe it's selfish tho?

[@Brad_Whitley]

@@lewisgiles8855 who else are you paramotoring for?

[@lewisgiles8855]

@@Brad_Whitley Tucker paramotors for us!

[@cgbach]

Keep doing whatever you want to brother. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise

[@dshall442]

I gave up motorcycling when we started our family... got back into it after my youngest turned 5. The giggles of a young kid on the back of a motorcycle tootling around the neighborhood makes it worth it. Don't worry, it's an Ultra Classic, so they can't really fall off without trying...

[@Irishkov]

I'm 2 minutes in and out of all the channels i follow, from farming, ranching to paramotoring and skydiving, those shirts are dope!!!! And i'd consider buying. If I had any money and wasn't sick. Anyhow, friggin love the designs! Good job.

[@barkin-brit486]

Flown PG's for 35+ years. Then I crashed and got lucky. Way after the bones healed, my mind had not. I stumbled on you Tucker and PPG all on the same day. Long story short, I bought a PPG, did a class and some flights then finally found my PG grove again. All air-sports are risky. It's the rewards they bring that makes them worth the price we pay. Thanks Tucker, you got me back into free-flight!

[@friedclutch97]

His freeflight/gliding unpowered really speak to me. If I need to get somewhere I have an airplane for that.

[@larryshair]

On the premise of the video title, I would say the total opposite. It brings fans and flyers together. If I were to see you fly by, I would be so happy for you and it would brighten my day (especially if you were to pick me up for a flight, then brighten wouldn't come close! lol). Have been a huge fan of your channel for a long time. I have a music reaction channel that I've had for a handful of years and the way you come across to your viewers in such a genuine way really inspired me when I was starting out. Great content my friend! Glad you're safe.

[@DirtmopAZ]

Supes are finally open again. That fire devastated the whole backside of the mountain. Going out there this weekend. I’ll keep my eyes to the sky! Hope to see you out there haha

[@SchmidtintheWorkshop]

Tucker getting jacked brother! Love the new t-shirts man. Keep up the good work. Cheers.

[@TuckerGott]

Appreciate it!

[@payton4148]

You said it perfectly. Its not selfish as long as you're trying your best to be safe. Its definitely selfish to go out there and try the most ridiculous things and purposely put yourself into danger, just as its definitely selfish for the people that care about you to stone wall your avenue of enjoyment or purpose based only on their feelings about the activities. Taking away all of someone's activities is equivalent to taking their life in a way. Everyone dies, but not everyone lives.

[@patrickgreen9879]

Hey Tucker, I’m 51 and got myself a 2015 KTM Superduke 1290r for my 43rd birthday, because I decided to quit drinking. Let me tell you my girlfriend and her two kids that I’ve raised for 12 years far prefer me on the bike, than drinking. The only other fun thing I do anymore is ride my electric unicycle, which is bonkers fun since it’s the nimble KS16X, so the bike makes me happier overall and I think that’s also very important. So to your point, I simply stopped doing “stupid shit” on the beast, and that’s the compromise. Many guys who give up riding for the kids become miserable. It’s all perspective. Thanks for your videos, yours is the one channel I watch when I’m down. It’s my long term goal to enroll down in lake wales, now that parkour has left the building. Fly safe, keep the videos coming!

[@JohnD-bs4qi]

I like the chase cam way better than the other one. Thanks!

[@dallinbriggs]

I almost died two days ago driving on the freeway during my usual commute back from the office. After i barely escaped a really bad car crash, i thought about how lame it would be to go out that way. I can't get into paramotoring yet because my young kids take up all my time and money right now 😂 but would if I could. Keep flying man.

[@gio2275]

Homie I live at that mountain, it would be great to see u one Day 🙏🏽

[@TuckerGott]

Will be flying and jumping more often around the Supes this winter! Wave frantically if you see me!

[@gio2275]

Will do, I'll be wearing orange if I see you!

[@friedclutch97]

I like this topic Tucker. Thinking about safety never hurt anyone. Being as safe as possible is a choice. Having a plan is a choice. And It's free of charge. The longer you live, the more flying you can do.

[@stefanastley]

What a question. My perspective on this has changed significantly since becoming a father in May - and I know that puts me with the majority of fathers. The risk was always the same, before and after that though and it's been refreshing to have the benefit of hindsight in advance. When I was young I took risks due to inexperience (again that probably puts me in a majority), and before even thinking of a family self preservation and a sense of mortality does grow in us with age. It shows in even your early videos that you're very balanced in thinking that way already. You covered all of the points of the argument here wonderfully. The only addition I would make is for those of us that continue to pursue our risky passions, *have the conversation with your loved ones now that you can't have if one day it takes you*. I get great comfort in knowing that nobody I am close to should be left wanting for that discussion and that I continued to do it whilst mindful of how my departure, if it ever happens, would affect them.

[@barrywebber100]

Have fun and enjoy your sports Tucker. Above all though stay safe! Thanks for posting.

[@petejoyce3572]

I feel that risk assessment is up to you. Everyone has a boundary, some choose to push that, some don’t. Both are totally ok. We love your content and want to see you continue 🤘🏻

[@noyopacific]

I am glad to hear you asking these questions. I got a pilot's license and had a motorcycle when I was in my twenties. I eventually came to the realization that I lacked the judgment and impulse control necessary to operate both with an acceptable degree of caution and safety. I got married, had a daughter and didn't have a strong desire to resume either flying or motorcycle riding. My wife's father was a pilot who died in an airplane accident when she was 12. He had experienced a structural failure in bad weather and was found to be at fault. When I showed an interest in ultralights and paramotors it was clear that she wasn't comfortable with it. I did take up motorcycles again 8 years ago when I was 60. Just a little street legal trail bike that I enjoy at very low speeds. I can't answer the question about whether this activity is too selfish for you but it is a good question for you to be asking. Best wishes and good luck !

[@steveknaggsadventurechanne5121]

I have been enjoying adventure sports and a motor sport driver since I was 16, I'm 70 now. I've never had an injury in all these years skiing, white water kayaking, free solo climbing etc. Am I selfish? No, because I'm always performing withing my limits. Keep entertaining us Tucker, and stay within your limits.

[@dirkhoekstra727]

The camera footage and quality from the chase cam was really amazing in this video!

[@flyingdanwitha29sedan]

Epic video man!!! Paramotoring is everything to me!! You definitely make the best paramotor content!!

[@TuckerGott]

Thanks man!

[@mikepierce1228]

I am a 68 yr old father of 13 and have a rebuilt custom 1981 CB750four and an 07 wing for when wife goes. Not stopping riding anytime soon BUT 90 mph is my limit on straitaways in the Michigan wilderness. Another great vid Mr T!!!!

[@swiftadventurer]

LOL, father of 13... that's the riskiest extreme activity description yet! Loved my 750K.

[@mikepierce1228]

@@swiftadventurer We are blessed BUT you know how each day has good and trials.... Never laid one down in 50 years after about 150,000 or so. Biggest threat are deer and ppl dui. Other than that it is what I love to do. I WISH I had discovered Tuckers channel about 45 years ago but he didn't make to many vids back then...😊😊✌🏻 Have a great night.

[@MichaelRei99]

First and foremost you have really upped your T-shirt game!!! Second the camera looks amazing. Thirdly I think you have elucidated your point very well. There is a difference between being risky and reckless. I have never seen you do anything reckless . As far as being selfish, no you are not being selfish. You need to do what makes you happy. And unfortunately you will experience loss as you have and you have to come to grips with that. The people who love you should respect your decisions with how you live your life as long as it is done in a healthy non reckless way which I believe you have always done and will continue to do. Plus you inspire millions of people with what you do and we are grateful you share your experiences with us! You do it right and are a great ambassador for risky sports! Much respect to you Tucker !!

[@walk4718]

Your attitude is right on; breaks down to responsibility. Like you said, wife that understands your passion but kids in the mix change things. Chase cam was primo👍

[@robertlewis8773]

I couldn’t agree with your comments more. The balance is hard! I gave up my motorcycles when the kids came. I still fly fixed wing and my daughter is starting to be interested in flying. There’s nothing better than sharing your passion with those you love. If they love you they’ll understand your passions…just don’t let the passion come before them. Life is never guaranteed and you have to enjoy it.

[@bb19873]

We went out this week, when things get any bit dicey im out immediately, if the flag is waving, Im not flying. 8 kids need me here, but I love to fly when its calm.

[@JohnD-bs4qi]

I believe that once you have a family and kids it is your duty to put yourself at risk as little as possible. You then have a responsibility that goes well beyond just you. I have sacrificed a lot since having my children, financially, responsibility wise and so on. When you do have a family, it is not about you anymore. Your family and children come first. That being said, you could do all those things and be walking down the street one day and a bus takes you out. You just never know. But I think you should always try and be as responsible and safe as you can be no matter what you're doing. Thanks, this was a good conversation to have!

[@Wondering_Not_lost]

I think you hit the nail on the head. When you were talking about BASE jumping. There has to be a fine balance of risk vs reward. I don’t want to be old laying in bed wishing I did something. But in the same breath I don’t want any to leave my friends and family sad.

[@skycowboyak4549]

Chase cam footage: Excellent! Also, looking forward to the 4-stroke review!. My POV on "the selfish thing" is that it's a spectrum rather than a yes/no answer. For example, one of the good book's commandments is "love your neighbor as yourself." So the takeaway for me is that you can't love your neighbor if you don't love yourself...or put another way... take care of yourself so you can take care of others in like fashion. Narcissism on one end...Altruism on the other...everyone falls somewhere between.

[@thomasroutson3046]

Tucker, I appreciate your discussion of risk. I am a 72 year old male who has owned motorcycles since I was 16, I skydived in the 1970s and got to 40 jumps before I severely broke my ankle landing. I also got my private pilot's license in the 1970s. I also was a Risk Manager for a large teaching hospital system in Atlanta so I'm well versed in risk. I would love to paramotor, but that may be behind me. Risk has a large financial component. When you are a young (or old) person with no one counting on your income then taking larger risks is something you can consider or do. Once you have people (family, company, etc.) that depend on your ability to make money then lowering your exposure to risk should be considered. You could somewhat minimize the risk with some financial solutions like insurance and/or investments and savings. This is one way to continue with an increased risk exposure without affecting people who count on you. However, it takes a lot of money to assure you won't put people who count on you at risk. There is also emotional risk which is difficult to quantify in financial terms. I did give up motorcycle racing when my kids came along, but I continued to ride both on and off road. It helps me deal with life and I'm about ready to die when I can't ride anymore. The injury to my ankle and then marriage/kids kept me from skydiving although I would like to do it again. Flying has a special place in my mind, but the expense has kept me from it. I do follow the industry and use a simulator, but with a fixed income and disqualifying medical conditions it is no longer possible. Tucker, do what you want to do for as long as you want and can afford to do it. It's what makes you, you! Just remember that when you become responsible for the well being of others, you need to think of the impact your death or serious injury will have on them. You are an inspiration to this old man! If I was 29 I would probably be doing exactly what you're doing!👍

[@el0zilcho]

Thomas, well put. If you are interested in skydiving again I'd definitely encourage it - it lights up a lot of peoples faces and one of my favorite parts about being at a DZ. Since your risk minded I suggest looking at the injury and fatality statistics with parachuting too. Death rates per jump have plummeted. Gear and training have come a long way in 50 years. You were trailblazing back in the 70s. Today ram air canopy opening and performance has improved a lot. Technology like automatic activation devices (AAD) and reserve static lines have also helped make it way safer. Paramotoring & paragliding are also amazing. All 3 have a tandem option, so you don't need much training or preparation for the experience. Best of luck!

[@tonytrumble]

Great editing Tucker on your new merch line

[@GodzillaGoesGaga]

A very well thought out discussion point. I believe you are getting wiser as you age and you are now seeing things through different lenses. My view: There will always be an element of selfishness in what anyone does but it all comes down to minimising risk. Now what that risk level tolerance is is up to the individual. I learned paragliding (P2) but after careful analysis I felt the risk profile was too high so I stopped pursuing it. However I ride motorcycles (but I don’t race them). Each to their own. No one can make this choice for you. You have to balance your needs with that of your loved ones. Where that balance is differs for everyone. Just never be one-sided with that balance!!

[@cllnmahoney]

Great video! Reminds me of the old school ones.

[@mattkski3396]

Yes. Very wise monologue. Risk is truly relative and assessment of it should be from a perspective of who and what relationships are affected by being involved with X,Y, or Z. I think it very prudent to adjust risky activities based on family commitments (i.e. kids, concerned new wife, etc) but as always, open and clear communication is always key.

[@mjbishop2k3]

I often think, especially with a baby at home, that flying PPG is selfish. However, sometimes we have to be selfish to be happy and fulfilled in life which makes us the best form of ourselves that we bring home to our families. Also PPG as we all know is as safe as we make it, with proper weather checks and conservative flying - the Risk vs Reward to me makes it worth it. Admittedly my first flight after having a brand new baby at home had me all jacked up. Once I got that monkey off my back I felt good. I also fly with a community of other dads in PPG that promote safe and fun flying which helps a lot. But at the end of the day - there is a level of selfishness to it and I’m willing to accept/admit that.

[@psychoPINKgirl]

I was involved in high-risk adventures pre kids, then when they were out of the house, I went back to that lifestyle. It's a personal choice, but i do not feel like I've missed out on anything during that temporary hold. And I'm pretty sure my kids are happy I was there for them growing up.

[@chrisbajema8002]

It’s a dance and I’m not a good dancer… live life never cut corners and always ask questions. You got this, our making deposits on your memory and that you can make withdrawals on for the rest of your day to come

[@williamisaac2689]

Self-aware of risks involved. But most things we do after rising from our beds puts us at risk in this world. Humans are fragile, and we only get one run at finding the thrills in everyday mundane cycles of survival. I'm glad you're enjoying your life, brother, and should you die one day doing something that you loved, then I have no place to be angry or upset at that fact. "Live long and prosper"

[@juleesadventures7925]

Keep doing what you love we don’t know what’s around the corner for us ❤🇬🇧

[@up2u162]

Love your uploads, boss! I realize this is a content topic but it's clear you've given considerable thought to this complicated topic and FWIT, I think you've adopted a mature approach and understand the need to be flexible as your situation and responsibilities evolve. Please continue on this path as so many of us appreciate your content and that all starts with the personality on camera 👍👊 One question though, what bike do you ride? All the best from Da Nang, VN🙏

[@AX01Adventures]

There are a couple paramotors that fly my local area in Eastern NC. It’s all farm fields & swampy timber for the most part. These two pilots seem to enjoy performing maneuvers that take them close to the ground on purpose. On more than one occasion I thought I was going to witness crash. I don’t understand this part of it…it seems a little risky, when all it takes is a gust of wind or even the wake from your own paramotor to alter your flight path. I found your website after seeing the local paramotor nearly crash about ten years ago. I wanted to learn more about your hobby. Now your videos show up occasionally, and I enjoy watching them. I get the thrill part. I’m a PP SEL, flew aircrew in Coast Guard helicopters for 24 years (2000 Hrs). Used to ride motorcycles, and could do some very long wheelies. Drag raced for a couple decades. I am not afraid of “sending it”…lol I just don’t get the obsession with playing chicken with the earth. You can tie the record for the lowest pass, but you will never perform the lowest pass. Your video of flying in the quarry is pushing it in my opinion. Maybe the camera view changes the real life perception. Anyway, that’s my thoughts on flying paramotors.

[@GoldenMuscleBunny]

It’s hard to put into words, but once you have kids, the love you feel for them changes everything. (And just to put in perspective, I used to ride motorcycles and was Just getting my feet wet with skydiving.) that love that you feel gives you a whole new perspective on life and you would do anything and give up everything for the people that you love. That love also opens up new doors that you had no idea existed until you get to that point.

[@ligz2786]

You said it! Balance for both sides is the key to happiness

[@georgedunkelberg5004]

THANK- - - - -YOU! FOR THE HUMANE INTROSPECTIONS ON LIFE, LIFE WELL LIVED, AND THE MOST OF HUMANESSES OF PAYING IT FORWARDS - - - - - SHARING.

[@alphaofthebetas4780]

Paramotoring is outside my comfort zone, but I’m grateful for Tucker inviting us along for the ride. No video is worth your life, but life is about taking risks. Just not unreasonable risks. That’s why, years ago, back in the early days of the channel, I was impressed with Tucker’s safety consciousness. He refused to fly low over large bodies of water without the height required to glide to land. He was always on the lookout for emergency landing zones, and would fly around dense forested areas if he was low. It reassured me that this young man was extremely responsible, and didn’t have a devil may care attitude to danger. He *knew* it was dangerous. He respected the danger, and didn’t take it for granted that he was young and invulnerable. He seemed wiser beyond his years. That being said, base jumping is a different animal. I can’t help feeling it’s an extremely high risk to little reward. I don’t watch those videos. Each person has to make their own choices in life, but I would certainly dial those back if nothing else moving forward with a wife and kids.

[@blue_beephang-glider5417]

I fly hang Gliders (Powered abd nu-powered) which aside from the kit, is the same thing. One big difference is the age of the pilots, with the average being about 45 and the eldest still flying 92. A really common life pattern is to give away fling for about 20 years, while you have children. Once they are adults we tale up the risk again so, yes a bit selfish.

[@Clif_Brown]

I have ridden and competed in most forms of motorcycle sports for 50+ years, commuted by motorcycle in all weather for 30+ years, did skydiving up to solo status for a few years, extreme skiing for many years, and flying airplanes as a PPL, all while my kids were growing up. Spouse was supportive of my passions. Got my paramotor cert at 60 and had a green Maverick paramotor. Also did paragliding. Mostly still flying airplanes now. Spouse still very supportive. Kids grown up and have grandkids. So, you can do your passions and have a family. As an engineer, I always do any adrenaline sport with plenty of research and training first, then take calculated risks. Sure there’s been a few broken bones, blunt trauma, multiple rehabs, but I’m still very active and no pain anywhere. Go for it!

[@barrydaniel3308]

Great video tucker. You have to enjoy life, if you were calling emergency services out ever flight or every ride , you might have to reconsider, you don't. Enjoy life, every days a gift, there's a risk walking along the road, do what you enjoy, and keep doing what your doing. Some day you may find risk out weighs the rewards... until then.. stay risky 👌

[@amfwelsh]

My only worry with anything that has a higher risk is that some people become complacent. That is even more dangerous. Love your uploads

[@EnzoGorlami5497]

I’m about the same age as you and have been really wanting to get in to paramotor/speedflying. I was introduced to aviation since I could be part of the EAA young eagle program. One of the guys at my home field flew paramotors and ever since then I’ve wanted to experience it. The way I look at it now is that everything carries inherent risks. The only difference is the severity of the consequences pertaining to those risks. Hopefully I’ll see you up there someday

[@billhull6842]

I believed we talked a couple months ago. I broke my foot and I am all better now!!! I want to win the complete set up and also win an all expense paid trip to have complimentary lesson on how to fly that thing. That looks like so much fun. And you have to balance what you do that is extreme with your family. You don't want your family to look a husband or a father. But you still need to have fun for yourself.

[@randys1889]

Absolutely Not selfish, and I understand your thoughts on having a family of your own, changing your risk acceptance. I sold my motorcycle because of the increased risk of where I live. Every day is a gift brother Enjoy life to it's fullest ✨️

[@michaelalphin]

Glad we have some 4 stroke stuff coming im excited! Something id really love to do is figure out how to use an FZ07 motor for a trike? I think it would be awesome!

[@andreinij]

My wife and I have discussed this exact thing. Her opinion is that as long as i try to mitigate the risk, the gain to everyone around me (I am apparently far more pleasant to be around if I get to fly in the morning) outweighs the risk, so while I may do it for selfish reasons (I like it) the benefits outweigh the risk

[@JeffKlavir]

I agree with your assessment. Engaging in these types of sports or activities when my son was young, wasn't for me. Plus, they require a significant time commitment, which becomes scarce when you're raising young kids. Now that I have both the time and the funds, I took up paramotoring and I have a track car. However, the most limited resource I have is my own physical ability. Despite staying in shape, I find these sports much more challenging at 60

[@raymondanderson1026]

I think your attitude of not being reckless and maybe dialing back certain elements of BASE jumping + plus your self awareness of your behavior on motorcycles is really healthy. Lean into that! My perspective as a 45 year old airline pilot who flies GA too + likes quick cars that make cool noises. And a married father of a 19, 17, and 12 year old.

[@DaveCollierCamping]

Lots to think about- what if a job you have is high risk- is that the same as high risk sports- both are choices- if either side can live with lifes risks- then all is good. I like the DJI stuff- take care Tucker

[@garyjackson6836]

I think paramotoring is the safest with the best view over motorcycles and base jumping. It's the coolest. Keep the videos coming. Awesome entertainment

[@laurenloucks7707]

Solo sports are by definition just that. Not selfish just self evident

[@shannonwhitaker9630]

Just find someone engaged in the same Solo Sport(s).

[@Kievlar]

The moonrise shot is sweet!

[@windjammer1958]

Tucker, I wouldn't call it selfish, particularly with you being single right now, you do a good job if keeping yourself in good physical shape, but soon you will find the older you get the longer it takes to heal, I'm 67 years old, I do ride a motorcycle, and someday I'm sure I won't be able too due to getting old. but I'm glad I never quit early, as long as I'm not a danger to others... I will live to ride and teach others from my past. I have two grand kids both have hot fast bikes. I hope they learn from my past, as to not repeat my errors. But I could never passed on my errors if I hadn't had them in the first place. I currently can say I can look back and say I've had a lot of fun, and glad I didn't miss it. be safe buddy, I've followed you for years, I want to keep following you. Peace out!

[@CamTheNomad]

I myself come from a background of action sports. Dirt biking, street biking, snowboarding, skateboarding, DH mountain biking, etc. Currently 35 years old and still keeping up with all of those things minus the street biking. However having two younger boys now like you said I have naturally dialed it back. Not so much because I’m aging but more so because I am the sole provider for my wife and kids and I want to be in a place to be around a long time to enjoy life with them. I still do everything I love but with more caution and a lot more decision making. I actually earned my ppl not long ago. Wife is super supportive and we know the risks involved. The riding motorcycles on the streets has taken a backseat since there are so many factors out of my control involving other road users.(Still ride dirt) Now that my boys are getting old enough to be involved I am including them in everything I love and teaching them the same passions I have with the sports/hobbies. It’s super important to me that my boys know my passions and I show that to them so they can know hard things and challenging things are good in life. My youngest loves flying with me and my oldest loves MTB and dirt biking with me. There is no right or wrong in this situation, for sure a personal decision based on experience, knowledge and what you assess as risk. But my personal opinion is you shouldn’t ever fully stop what brings you joy but rather show your kids that life can be full of joy from those things. At the same time adjusting those choices so you can enjoy it with them as you age and they get old enough to join. One more factor that comes into play is time. When single your time is yours. When married and have children your time is yours but also shared with those you care for. Time in my hobbies is a lot less now for me to help my kids grow in their sports, talents, passions, knowledge and to just be there for them. I try to make sure to balance my wants while making sure I’m there for the short time I have my kids at home before they grow up and move out. Because that is time that I can never get back and it goes fast. Parents should always be there for their kids if life and work schedules allow them to be. Hobbies should never make it so anybody is an absent parent. This would be the only instance I would say that hobby would need to be reevaluated.

[@hud86]

I realized that I liked flight so much because I hated being on the earth more. People bother me a lot and are often cruel for seemingly no reason at all. Flying took me away from them and was one of the few places I felt free. I needed to find more commonality with people in order to want to be grounded.

[@etbenson67]

People who love u and want u around as long as possible are not selfish for being worried and concerned about u participating is high risk activities. It's love and concern. That doesn't mean u r selfish for needing/wanting to do some/all of those activities. The mature healthy way to thread those needles is to talk about it in advance to come to a mutual agreement and understanding. Look up the words and thoughts of Travis Pastrana's father about his son's choices. To thine own self be true! Great video.

[@Walt-w4f]

Love the T-shirt good job

[@jimf671]

I totally agree with your position about taking a responsible attitude to mitigating risk. Non-smokers in my family tend to live into their 90s and my big plan is be part of that. Mountaineering, winter climbing, mountain rescue, white water rescue, downhill skiing, crosscountry skiing, motorsport, working with helicopters, working on drilling rigs, and motorcycling have so far failed to upset that big plan. To some extent, that is because even as a child, I had an analytical side that was always working away at what would now be called dynamic risk assessments. I used to see the same thing with my daughter when she was very young so there may be a gene for it! People thought she was very timid and easy frightened but it became clear that the reality was that she simply would not take an adult's word for things until she saw the evidence and did her own risk assessment. So we're talking here about the apparent extreme of a three year old doing a risk assessment for things like walking a convoluted path beside a river in spate. At the other extreme, there is an idea that young men in particular have a tendency to believe in their invincibility. A tiny minority of such guys are very talented but the remainder simply don't have the analytical skills and will probably eventually naturally divide into two types: the frightened witless and the organ donors. [What is the rate of ankle injuries in canopy sports and why don't more people wear high boots? There seem to be arguments out there that are irrational about this.]

[@el0zilcho]

Good discussion on risk vs reward. Something I have given a lot of thought to over the years and come to a similar conclusion. I was in my late 20's and very interested in BASE, but after spending time reflecting on it I decided the reward was not worth it. I also decided not to get a street bike because of the risk from other drivers. Other than really dialing back my speedflying, I haven't changed many risky activities now that I have kids. But when you do have kids there is less time for your own recreation. In a way it makes it less risky by taking away from how many hours you're exposed, but you also can't stay as current, so is the risk really reduced. One thing I've found is that not getting enough of what I love (usually flight time) makes me more irritable, and that hurts quality of life with family. Another thing to notice is the age demographic of the risky activities your involved in. I've noticed with paragliding (I've only been flying with a motor for a few months) that there are plenty of pilots that are over 50 and have been flying for decades. To me that's says it's something you can do for a long time as long as your being reasonable with your progression and decision making.

[@hateeternalmaver]

I'm a Gopro fanboy but i can not lie, that chase cam looked sweet as hell. ^^

[@RogueCanopy-i6g]

OEF 3 & 4, Disabled airborne combat infantrymen. 39, married & 3 kids. I’ve chased adrenaline my whole life but predominantly since combat. This is where “Risky Biscuits” comes into play. Have your bases covered, living will, executor, life insurance etc. I rode bikes for many years. I gave it up due to lack of wrist control & due to how many vehicles just don’t look for bikes. With paramotors there’s still risks but you have a whole lot more control over them.

[@ikefork2606]

I wouldn’t say that high risk or “extreme” sports are selfish; but obviously they can be dangerous. And if you end up in an accident in a remote area w/ high angle rescue required, you can place the lives of the emergency responders in danger. Something to consider!😮

[@shanesplanetshane3795]

Flip side. If you DONT do anything dangerous, those responders dont have anything to do. Most of those people ENJOY taking risks to help others. Its not a secret, it's their job description. Similar to how firemen get all excited when its time to go face a fire.

[@steve3po473]

Not selfish.. you do you, Boo..🤩

[@zefflynx9243]

I recently started paramotoring and have had a lot of discussions about risk with my family. If my flying scared them, I wouldn't do it. They feel good about it because they know I am careful about it. (Picky about weather, fly high with a reserve, have proper training, location tracking/alerting...) I was surprised how unbothered they were when I started. They said it was because I was open about the risks and how I was taking steps to make it as safe as possible.

[@TheFlyingAnvil]

I don't normally comment; however, seeing some of the comments from your previous truck jump and your ask regarding selfishness, I figured that I'd comment. I've always taken risks since a young age with cliff diving, motorcycles, etc. I died for a period of time in my late twenties. As soon as I was recovered from that, I took up using two (one when possible) wheels as my primary mode of transportation when not transporting my family around. I also took up skydiving and quickly became a coach, racking up 495 jumps before switching focus to off road activities with my kids. Risk is what scared people call it. Living life is what others call it. Selfish? No, not if you still make time for others. I just took up paramotoring this summer knowing that my wife will be a spectator until I get her up on some tandems or she gets comfortable kiting and is ready to go airborne. She did join me in skydiving by the way but had to stop after 13 jumps due to cancer. She still does every 'risky' activity that her body will allow. She has also spent 22 minutes on the other side and choses to live life to the fullest because it can end at any moment, regardless of risky activities. It's each of our lives and we should all live them to the fullest that we can while we can. When you're in that moment that nobody else is, that's a perspective that nobody else has and is unique to your experience. People get jealous of that because they are unwilling to take that step and live life the way that we do, cherishing our moments and generating experiences. Life is too short, live it!

[@eduardschnakenfuss9411]

You are right. Life is short. But consider. Life after Life is not short. It is eternal. Read the bible and search Jesus. Greetings from a retired german policeman with a former risky life.

[@swiftadventurer]

@@eduardschnakenfuss9411 I'm still waiting for the eye-witness account on that theory.

[@AdventureOtaku]

As a former paramedic, I have worked dozens of motorcycle accidents. You hit the nail on the head with the risk of motorcycles. It is frequently other drivers doing something stupid or unpredictable. I know they are fun, I know they are cool. I’ll never ride one.

[@davewoundedknee]

Action Cam footage is crisp and clear! It's about time someone stepped up to challenge the GoPro ecosystem

[@donindri]

Agree totally with you. Also, being alive gives each one of us a very high chance of dying, one way or another!

[@4321Lando]

Tucker - don't give up on motorcycle riding -- switch to doing TRACK DAYS !! Way more fun and much less dangerous... I've been a trackday rider for 20+ years -- way more fun and you can actually build your skill to be a very fast and safe rider. I've lot a dozen friends to street bike riding accidents and I can't enjoy street bike riding because of how dangerous it feels to me (so many unknowns out of my control - and we all ride too fast). I won't sugar coat track riding too much - as I do get hurt more often than most people - but I do 50+ days on track every year and have a great time with my buddies :) Reach out if you're interested ... happy to help (I'm an instructor .... maybe trade ya for some paramotor training!!)

[@larryshair]

Can you show us how the chase camera launches and lands? Would be interesting to know if the GoPro was at risk by bouncing around or getting dirt on the lens during takeoff and landing.... Curious.

[@onecar13]

Hi tucker.. love your vids. You know how you love flying (paramotoring) and base jumping.. Well, i was wondering if you have ever thought about combining the two and trying a wingsuit? 😃👍

[@princecoulter1747]

You do YOU Tucker. You are Single and God has Blessed You in So Many Ways. Don't know about a future Wife,Because You are So Popular You will have ALOT Of "Goldiggers" In Your World. I Don't Fly Because I am Afraid of being that High.But You Put me in That Paramotor when You Post. I Can Feel The Sensation Just by Looking and Listening To You Narrate The Moment. You Rock My Brother.

[@thedanmaas]

I've pondered this topic quite a bit throughout my ~8 years of paramotoring. I think about it more now than I ever have. Generally, I agree with you; I don't see a future where I'm not flying paramotors, but I do think that if I were to have kids I would definitely think twice about every single risky decision. As for motorcycling, I am grateful to have traveled to nearly half of the states of this country on an dual-sport bike without any issues, I had some amazing experiences, however, I have also known a fair share of motorcyclists/friends who are no longer with us due to motorcycle accidents. I ride motorcycles occasionally and I enjoy them, but usually I'd rather be flying. On the other hand, I've also lost friends & family to entirely unforeseen accidents where no recklessness was involved on their part, and to unexpected/unforeseeable medical issues that occurred way too early in life. In summary, I don't think that I will stop doing the things that I love, but I do think that I have already started a trajectory towards decisions that involve less risk while still getting to enjoy paramotoring, motorcycling etc.. PS - Miss you dude!

[@topotone]

It’s common for people to re-evaluate the risk factors when you become a family guy. Mostly because you put emphasis on the fact that your demise will have serious consequences to those who depend on your existence. And, probably as important, you value your loved ones and want to be around to enjoy life with them. It’s a balancing act for sure.

[@jeffmcdonald8373]

I'm 54 and just started my paramotor journey but I've been riding motorcycles since I was 5. The selfish question has haunted me all my married life LOL. I've had a bike when I got married at 26 and both my daughters rode with me. My oldest likes to ride but my youngest (21) LOVES to ride. She even has her own bike now, a SV650 and my wife rides a Honda 919. Motorcycles can be dangerous but it is still an activity that the entire family can enjoy be it dirt or street. I can't tell you what it means to me to be able to mentor my daughter in her motorcycle journey. Scary-YES. But to be able to teach her and mentor her is awesome. I wouldn't trade that time for anything. I've wanted to fly all my life and passed up a couple good opportunities over the years. Now that my girls are out of college I've decided to pursue that dream and paramotors fit perfectly, but no one else is interested. Family changes your view on a lot of things and your priorities also. When you do get married, you two will find your dance. It will change when kids come along but again, you all will find your dance. The dance changes all though your life, just make it the best one you can.

[@butchdavis2703]

Those shirts are sick. I can’t wait for this giveaway to drop. The EOS Quattro looks awesome. Tucker is going to give us the truth about it. I’m happy that that guy came to apologize for what he did.

[@matthewdrew6268]

Ive been thinking about getting into paramotering for a while now. There's a guy local to me in attleboro mass that flies above my house all the time. I have dreams of being up in the air all the time. But the risk involved would drive my family crazy and that definitely keeps me from getting I to the hobby

[@sidekickfanboy2904]

paramotor, motorcycles, Indy race car, Skydive, bungee jump. Any other extreme sport. Do as you please it's not selfish. And for those that physically can't do it. we enjoy watching it. does that make us also selfish.

[@740nate]

Another point to this would be "where do we draw the line" on selfishness? Not eating as healthy and possible, not exercising, driving over the speedlight, etc. The truth is we are all a bit selfish, we are just human. The idea is to accept your significant other and family as they are, because asking them to alter that is the equivalent of saying I want you to be someone else.

[@martysoulard7349]

Hi Tucker. I enjoyed the dialog and exploration of the idea, is paramotoring selfish. I have not done it so I don't feel qualified to attempt an answer myself. In this video you were making mention of your approach to this sport being in the safe manner. I have to say though, when I was watching your episode the day that Jeff through his reserve, I was really uncomfortable when I was watching you do low altitude turns. I guess that it was because I was worried what would happen if you had a collapse or malfunction at that low elevation above ground. My reason for mentioning this is that is seems from my uneducated view a bit inconsistent with, approaching the sport in the safest manner. This is intended for thought, and exploration of the videos overall topic. I wish you joy in what you do. I think you are really good at breaking it all down and helping others learn how to get involved in a smart way. Best wishes and thanks for the thoughtful dialog.