Is She Just Playing You ? Signs She’s Not Really Into You 💔 - Open Chats Podcast Episode 62

[@Mwansa_jr]

I like this back to back content

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

You’re welcome!

[@myworld7047]

We've been here chief, you just got consistent. 😂​@@OpenChatsPodcast

[@_nteekay.n.t.k]

​​@@OpenChatsPodcast Guys please monitize your show so yall get paid on Google ads yall deserve to get paid. Your videos don't have ads

[@thandodladla6361]

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[@benilunkeba]

The Real Operators are here for every episode irregardless of character rotation ❤🔥 Lebo and Thato's combination is too good, Mtho is the Main, and Fodo brings balance 👊🏽 Love it All

[@OpenChatsPodcast]

You are officially the OPERATOR OF THE MONTH !!! 🫡 🎉🎉😂

[@TshepangTolo]

I think Mtho is secretly in love with Thato😂😅

[@clintonhartley6093]

They are dating already mhn

[@sandilemandlenkosi7925]

thats why axoshe uSino🤣

[@MrTmolefe]

​@@clintonhartley6093wow, I highly doubt that hey.

[@MrTmolefe]

I think Mtho is very professional on the podcast so he wouldn't want to cross the line in that way with Thato, and Thato also mentioned that she prefers to be with someone who is totally opposite to her, which is fair because opposite does attract.

[@saliediditagain]

You read my mind

[@refilwemashale5856]

Mtho always say "I get it now" only for Fodo to say "Hai uya' ilahla boy" 🤣🤣

[@dembemmbi1988]

Hai Fodo naye🤣🤣

[@macndlovu1226]

Men don't need a specific reason to be celebrated or recognized there's like a million reasons ❤ thanks Fodo

[@DineoKhale]

Thanks!

[@KiNg-yl8hs]

I get Frodo to a certain degree. Women hate patriarchy until it benefits them. They want men to provide, pay most of the stuff yet still want equality in salaries and etc. If you hate patriarchy, remove it as a whole, dont nitpick.

[@Brendon_M30]

Yes now that's true!💯

[@aireolbogopa9726]

That part exactly we all go to uni and get jobs men must still provide

[@harmonaeee]

i lose you here. yes, patriarchy is a social system designed with the intention of benefitting men but its how society has implemented it which is a problem. cause at the end of the day, patriarchy is detrimental to both men and women and its up to us, as a society, to either 1. change the way we implement patriarchy in our modern day society or 2. remove patriarchy as a whole and replace it with an entirely different system. but as of rn, we as a society seem very happy in our complacency with option 1 and until that complacency with option 1, societally, becomes an adamant problem, the need for women to change their own internalised mysogyny isnt gonna happen any time soon

[@EpiphanyWithKosiMerve]

With the men's mental health month thingy, I'm starting to feel like Fodo is not taken seriously here but... Dear Fodo, keep on pushing the ideas you have, some of us relate. Don't let them discourage you, conversations like this need to be heard✊🏽

[@evospunk7745]

*MOST of us relate

[@alltheseeknaturemoves]

I agree with you. Especially that Thato girl

[@alltheseeknaturemoves]

I agree with you. Especially that Thato girl

[@lungiselwemamba5420]

Brother Mtho also being unnecessarily blind to the facts about the harsh reality of men even in comparison. Brother keeps missing

[@harmonaeee]

i dont think so. its just that he didnt have the right terminology to describe what he trying to explain. in all honesty, they were all saying the same thing; the problem is not men, women or even society at large. its just patriachy

[@patikwakwa]

I recently subscribed to the channel because I love love the fact that you guys not only let the voices of the youth be heard but it's everyday people we can come across in our daily lives. I really appreciate the work you guys are doing. I had an idea for a podcast and your platform pretty much sums up what I had in mind. Side note: Lebo is probably one of the only young ladies that I think can go toe to toe with some of the most intellectual and intelligent people we know. How she articulates herself and her thought process is UNMATCHED. This episode solidified why I loved her from the get-go❤

[@NaniMK1]

The "Plot" conversation was them trying to justify leading someone on💀

[@boyinnovation_tiki]

Also brother Mtho with a consistent fresh cut 🤝🏽👏🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯Salute my brother 🙌🏽

[@BassanioAyavuya-wt5ib]

Fodo should run for president✊🏾😂😂😂

[@Mudzoe_Junior]

I feel like Fodo is now getting more love from the operators and I love it "I disagree"😂...

[@BornfreeMpingilwa]

Welcoming everyone back to the number 1 Podcast. Operators check in 👍🏿

[@NKMoloi]

We're getting spoiled with the content also lately 🔥🔥

[@taitai8797]

you know what Fodo is cooking. Fodo gives a different perspective from everyone in the podcast and its more entertaining

[@harmonaeee]

was it really thaat different or was he just tryna explain patriachy😔

[@chikombamulombe9000]

56:10 I want you guys to pay attention to how she laughed when he said men would appreciate that day. It goes to prove Mtho's point no one cares about a man's feelings and they never will. We are the ones who will go to war, work on farms, fix sewers, build the road and stay on the Titanic. A man's value only comes when he is a king or in modern day times a high value male. So gents keep pushing don't tell your problems to huns they will laugh like Thato did. Your main goal is to be the best man you can be and bad times will come so just accept it and tackle them. "There's no Light without Dark." Andrew Tate

[@undisputed_alpha]

I like ur mindset. Watch freshnfit podcast

[@KennedyMarcos-wb3nm]

Yeah i felt too, that this episode was as literally the worst… felt a lot of disrespect from Thato.. that laugh belittles a lot and respect to Fodo for taking it as a man. We understand you bro and it’s these situations we should matter too

[@flapp-jck1226]

that’s true bro 🙇🏿‍♂️

[@eaglegvng5733]

This comment should be pinned

[@chikombamulombe9000]

@@eaglegvng5733 yeah og glad you agree with my message 🤝🏾

[@SLKZ-x1q]

As a guy who lives in KZN, this is one of the warmest if not the warmest winters I have ever experienced. To hear you guys say it was a cold winter... yoh.

[@SLKZ-x1q]

@@ij9375 Not where I'm at. Do you find other people's grievances funny?

[@halalisanidlamini7029]

As a guy who has lived in KZN their whole life, I agree with this winter for was not like any other I've had

[@SLKZ-x1q]

@@halalisanidlamini7029 yeah man. I wonder what summer is going to be like if this was winter.

[@rayhope7840]

The way the podcast is giving mature vibes with Fodo, it's dope👌👌

[@bongumenzimbhamali1724]

Thato was laughing when Fredo was expressing his feelings. Which proves that a mans pain is a joke to these women.

[@plaquetee9891]

True😢I was mad. Fodo is right in this eps

[@unclebryn4932]

I was so pissed FODO is strong , I would walk out , we are having conversations and trying to understand each but if we start to act like someone is saying kaka even if it’s kaka he’s serious about it so don’t joke with it

[@evospunk7745]

Most women react the same way whenever men express their feelings and it's very disturbing considering the fact that we actually opened up to their of us having to express ourselves.

[@JOSEPH-is7wp]

This also really got on my nerves. Theres honestly nothing more disrespectful than that. I think if you dont resonate with what someone is saying, theres better ways of how to disagree than that. And if you noticed its almost like she was trying to also get Mtho and Lebo to do the same

[@youdontknowmemamelodi9172]

most people do that when your cooking and they realize the point, so they start to destructing others so it seems like the person doesn't make any sense.

[@iamrocky-za]

Mtho doesn’t cut or bleed anything 😂😂 but always tell the guys “we’ll cut this part out don’t worry” “we’ll bleep it”

[@B_Quaint]

Somebody get Mtho+Thato a room😃🔥👩‍❤‍👨

[@OarabileGenesis]

I'll never be tired of lebo, I love her so much ❤

[@BoikanyoSeanego-l3c]

The side eye that we get when watching Open chats with our partners😭😭😭😂😂

[@masedimafora5321]

😂😂😂

[@lukhanyisobrukwe5980]

ALSO nani, why?😂

[@evospunk7745]

Fodo my brother🙌That sweetner arguement desreves to land on all the CONTINENTS. You actually brought about a valid point there when you mentioned how woman's rights' actually had a major impact on the lives of men. Yes, we agree that women should also have rights the same as we do, but the problem starts when the main points of correction (unequal pay as well as the law, and etc.) are left unchecked and monitored for so long that we(men) are the ones who are actually being done wrongfully by the systems that at first meant good towards our women.

[@Brendon_M30]

Fodo was cooking there,and I ended up understanding what he was saying💯

[@harmonaeee]

me too. thats why its so important we also emphasise the importance of learning and understanding of words inje. what he was saying wasnt anything crazy, he was just trying explain patriachy without having it locked and loaded in his vocab🥲

[@Forex_Student]

Lebo & Thato combo 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Fodo is actually smart 🤞🏼 he likes having a unique mindset 🏌️‍♂️ but also Chief 😂

[@thapelondzama]

Not Mtho operating in the coming up scenes!!! Already is one of the best episodes... 👌🏾 Operate also chief... 😂

[@keamoG80]

Don't let Fodo come to the podcast sober😂

[@LwandoZukulu]

Fodo is so argumentative and I like that, he always challenging (# tell your understanding)

[@LeilaAkhifah]

Mthoo looks like a guy that's about to fall in love 😭😭thatoo I ship y'all both😂😂

[@Princess_BT]

To us who like before watching the video✨✨

[@AneleRadebe-ek4bv]

To us

[@unclebryn4932]

Fodo I understand you Please come thru into comments and see that we all understood u bro

[@alettamokulubete8605]

Thato and Lebo are holding it down ❤thanks ladies

[@zephyrshopane6273]

A friend of mine once said you have to treat women like children because they want the perks of responsibility without taking accountability for the consequences of their actions

[@harmonaeee]

or maybe your friend was just spitting 100% mysogyny, no bap😶‍🌫

[@LindoGenius]

Men just need to be appreciated for everything they do cause they not doing things to please themselves..

[@Martin-cr8hp]

Lebo checked the previous episode and she’s trying to not be like that again😂 Am I the only one seeing that?😂🤷🏽‍♂️

[@yingisanihonest4952]

Nah bro😹😹😹

[@fanelesiyanda8225]

What do you mean 😂😂

[@Martin-cr8hp]

@@fanelesiyanda8225 😂she saw that episode where they said she was talking too much 😂

[@joymudau7541]

Fodo is so mature to the point I some questions or answers to him sound silly. Also the way Lelo answers or asks questions is from a mature standing point.

[@sparkleswrld]

6:35 Fodo spitting facts, we both beautiful people 😂❤

[@QibhoIntalektual]

You're doing amazing guys, I'm especially proud when I hear Mtho speak lulwimi lwetfu 🇸🇿 Sino you're a star mnaketfu, klean! Also Mtho, stop worrying so much about the mics all the time, you're audible nanoma nikuphi.

[@nkulu_tate]

Foto was killing it today 🔥🔥

[@TebohoKhitsane-jh3xh]

Open chat is so refreshing guys... Keeps me alert when am. Doing night shift😅

[@SLE-fz8cv]

We love the long videos. We need more of this 2 hours video

[@JOSEPH-is7wp]

I really like how Lebo always tries to understand what someone is trying to say and how she never puts anyone down, I think it takes someone with very high emotional intelligence to do that. On the other hand that sarcasm that Tato was putting up and trying to make it look like what Fodo was saying aint making sense isnt cool or respectful. I think everyone should be respectful of everyone else's views

[@Nyambose_SA]

Nice save Lebo on the BMW ai you finished us with all our points 😂😂

[@TumeloKekana-n6h]

Hi mtho my name is Babypandero and I’m a new operator , i really like your content and I actually enjoy it especially when you brought thato and lebo ❤❤ so I wanted to speak on behalf of fordo right , so what fordo means is that “ back then not only women played a role in apartheid, also men but they did it differently in such a way that they did not do it as a whole group but they did it in small group such as the group of Mandela , the group of Steve Biko and many more “so I understand what he is asking for. It’s not for mental but also everything that developed to that mental , also remember not only women were denied rights also men but women did it differently as they became one that is why they call it wathinta abafazi wathinti mbokoto , men did it differently but the media remembered only women because they became one. To sum it all up fordo’s chat is valid to look for a holiday only to celebrate mens struggle the way they celebrate women , it’s not that we want to overlook what they did but we want to also look at what men also did as there is a say called equality. Please i hope you read and talk more further on it please and I want to hear sino side of the story❤and you guys are great

[@thelastchapter1765]

Frodo always speak truth and they dont get him. Thato just proved us men right by laughing when frodo was seriously expressing himself.

[@masedimafora5321]

I wish Thato's reaction doesnt change the fact that there are woman out here who really care about men's mental health.... It's fine to cry and Express yourself. 😊

[@thelastchapter1765]

@@masedimafora5321 yeah right and I love thato I am just disappointed in her

[@OfentseMotlhabane593]

this episode revealed Mtho's crush on Thato 😂☠Anyways thanks for the consistency of dropping content we appreciate it y'all. And I agree with Fodo for a men's appreciation holiday.

[@ScarfoMthombeni]

This was one of the most beautiful episode of Open chats

[@nkosikhonamngoma9550]

Whoever is cooking the scripts for these episodes is making sure. Proper content 🔥🔥🔥

[@AyandaMbadlanyana]

My favorite co-hosts are finally put together for this episode ♥️. S/O to Mtho & Fodo land my brada

[@vusmuzimasilela2358]

Fodo bra thanks for keeping it real and also you didn't allow Thatos annoying laghter to take you off the rail. MUCH LOVE

[@foreveryoungmusicworldwide]

Exactly. It's a podcast, it's a conversation at the end of the day. Laughter throughout communication or a conversation is warranted for to a certain extent, from there onwards, it seems and feels disregarding to the person "trying" to make a point.

[@flowsinmatlala3810]

- This podcast is dope mahn🔥, the cotent🔥At this rate it will grow to be immaculately monumental.....and thats what it deserves🤞🏾. Keep up the good work bros🎉🥂.

[@boyinnovation_tiki]

Both our Fav Queens on set❤️🥹A round of applause to the Podcast for being consistent and spoiling us with hot chats🔥👏🏽👏🏽🔥

[@WalkLife11]

Fodo is official my favourite 🤣🤣

[@everythingmusic3173]

Bro tried to land so hard😂, someone take bro to flight school. Anyway much love from kenya

[@mellowmolapo]

Apart from the public holiday for men, I actually agree with Fodo

[@dondesio_6111]

Keep it up guys,Always enjoy your episodes-Danko Also👌🤣

[@Calvin-qq9bh]

Loved the energy in this episode🔥🔥🔥operators😎

[@faithworldwide8152]

S/O to Fodo for making a valid statement for the gents,for standing up for the bro's,Mtho doesn't want to understand Fodo's point,and we deserve a holiday as gents because we are really going through a lot as gents,many gents will heal from that holiday.

[@amandamadonda7329]

Khona uLebo 💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼♥️can’t wait to watch ❤

[@mcdonaldlekhoaba]

😂😂 33:24 Mtho got flamed with this 'has' and 'had' debate

[@jonathansakuwaha9890]

ALSO you chief. Let's do this. Show me some love, am from Zambia 🇿🇲

[@Katleho_Mufasa]

Thanks for the consistency

[@refilwekgengwe7272]

I commented last week on Tuesday vibes about how the topics were lately repetitive and and and but today I will say that today's one was a good episode❤

[@memorymauluka54]

All the way from Malawi🇲🇼🔥😌

[@felixtambama]

Thanks Fodo for supporting man ....we need a man like yu in this country 🎉

[@Thulare_Ramokgopa]

Sending all the love to Thato & Lebo. Both of you ladies are doing well…🤍🤍

[@South_Africa-9]

Mtho failed Fodo from 49:00 😔We are grateful Fodo for standing up for us as mans. Some people like women wont understand what mens go through... When man cry and complain they aren't taken serious coz we are expected to be strong but they don't understand that we also have feelings. Fodo big up my Guy.

[@foreveryoungmusicworldwide]

Thato, listening is a skill. Read the room, laughter gets cringe to a certain extent, in this context of a podcast. Constructive criticism.

[@DieketsengBroven]

In this podcast she's kind of annoying ... maybe it's because she's in love

[@percymlotshwa]

She's getting excited and it's ruining conversations and chief there being simpy😢

[@unclebryn4932]

Fodo please bring this conversation to gents corner maybe another bruvs will understand, it’s sad how they ignored to understand your simple point Having a Men’s holiday means even at home it’ll be a holiday were mom son daughter they’ll celebrate men not because it’s your birthday but your hard work and it should be out and clear that we are celebrating you men for that

[@LeilaAkhifah]

I ship thatoo and Mthoo😭😂😂❤️❤️

[@owakhe]

Some

[@goitse_wildin]

Fodo was cooking this episode 🔥

[@OmogoloMokgoje]

"I like girls like Thato" 😂😂mhhmmm😂

[@dope_kid_adie6521]

Mtho 😂😂is inlove trust me. Thato make it work for our brother maaarn😂

[@XSodaars]

Fodo's mind is very unique,the way he thinks.WOW💯

[@sebushikimberly]

Hey guys I'm happy to see Lebo & Thato ....♥️ Missed them too .

[@JayHlokzen-ml7qs]

😂😂😂😂Fodo blackstyles: "Im outside GOING THROUGH A LOT" ~ Chief has been fighting all his life.

[@undisputed_alpha]

I want the stuff that makes Fodo spew allat💀

[@LeonChabalala]

Fodo is spitting facts we need more man like him things should just go back to how they were

[@NoahMpofu]

I don't agree with Mtho when he says all IG girls are the same. It's a limiting mentality some people are actually broadminded enough to relate with a beautiful woman without wanting her to lose her morals

[@aireolbogopa9726]

He is talking about thirst traps what are u talking about

[@NoahMpofu]

@@aireolbogopa9726 sometimes you call someone being themselves a thirst trap when you're ine jus being thirsty

[@Psyclique-uo9ei]

When Fodo talked about being manipulated by women when making decisions the operators underestimated it but being honest, I have had a friend who had a girl mark him 2 years before he even noticed her and got in his view by studying him.

[@Thabisa-ej3ue]

1:28:26 Mtho that word'what a confidence booster , look at that highlight'😂😂😂😂

[@boyinnovation_tiki]

1:55:16 it's how Thato and Mtho are not denying one another (having that reaction that screams Never) for me, I smell something fishy here😹😂🔥

[@thatomaluleka6562]

lebo cooked on the gram vs a car part🤣🤣 i also wouldn't let the car go!

[@thatguy8726]

I agree with Frodo. I think Mtho is overly obsessed with pushing basic toxicity as "the way things should be," many men are so good at justifying the suffering of themselves and their own brothers, and even of women, that they cant see the potential for how things can get better. This is why women who can see the potential for improvement have resulted in the growth of women's right, and their stature in society, while men like Mtho contribute to the stagnation of men. Dudes like this will see societal problems and fall for the myth that societal problems can be solved through individual unconnected and uncoordinated efforts. Frodo didnt land, because curtailing the rights of women is not a solution to unfair expectations and burdens, but he flew hard when he pointed out that you cannot have an equal society that still expects traditional gender roles from the majority of the population. For example, lets say 80% of women want and have equal pay and a provider man with a higher salary, only 10 to 30% of that number will have that luxury, the large remainder will eventually have to let go of that delusion and accept that theyre meant for a partnership of financial equals, and that means equal financial responsibility. You cant deal with a society wide problem with individual action and demands, nothing will ever change.

[@TheVideoParadise]

Thato's sarcasm towards Fodo because of their different perspectives has got me laughing😂 but I really get what Fodo is saying or "trying to say" and that it's not from a malicious intent.

[@peaceprodigy]

Thato is speaking music into my ears, whatever she said could relate to that

[@vilmamassitela9365]

I wonder how Mtho is feeling about Thato being asked out and her reaction on everything 🤭

[@oddkid.blxnko]

Mtho your English was correct ❤

[@ayandabrian4125]

1:52 that "Yebana" from Fodo😂😂

[@vusmuzimasilela2358]

Fodo you cooked on this one much us eeal man we get you.

[@lithaloyiso1689]

😂 Fodo today was operating on that Gents corner level with the feelings. Sino was gonna complain

[@masedimafora5321]

To be honest we dont really need a specific day to appreciate both men and women... We need to always see ukuthi men contribute as much as women contribute mo lifeng.... We are a team.❤

[@imthatboyyyamit9112]

Mtho is missing Fodo's point 😂Thato yena was being sarcastic 🙆‍♀️that made her look slow

[@tebogotrevor3808]

Thato and Lebo's energy is vibes! Fodo is also right, men shouldn't be in pain and think that's normal, CRY my fellow brothers, SPEAK UP.

[@vusisithebe6361]

Rasta is cooking today🔥

[@NhlakaniphoMMV]

Yeah I like this combination Lebo and Thato❤🔥✊🏾

[@mosessfiso2833]

Mtho you are disowned as the full men Chamber. Fodo was just asking not only for a holiday, but the recognition of men as a whole, i mean after all women are more than men in this whole world. A lot of men die young. S/O to Fodo Also.

[@Velo88-z4b]

Fodo was cooking 🔥