Is She Toxic or Not?

How to determine if she is toxic or not so you can either fix your relationship or move on to find someone better.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss two different emails from two different viewers. The first email is from a viewer who broke up with his girlfriend of two years about six weeks ago when he caught her texting another guy. She’s now trying to get him back and he is unsure of what to do. The second email is from a guy who started dating a new woman whose ex boyfriend was harassing her and trying to get her back. He made some mistakes and she went back to her ex. He is mad at himself for doing things that were unattractive and turning her off, but wonders if he could have made it work with her if he hadn’t made all the mistakes.
“It’s not your job to fix broken people. You’re only responsible for fixing and becoming the best version of yourself. You can’t have a healthy relationship based upon someone’s potential. You must see their present reality and date or reject them based upon how they are showing up now. When you condition your happiness upon being loved and treated the way you want to be, but ignore the reality of how they actually treat you, you will suffer. See people as they are. Not better than they are or worse than they are, because you can ignore reality, but you can’t ignore the consequences of ignoring reality.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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[@JoakimBB]

1. Never says sorry. 2. Lies all the time 3. Super jealous 4. Emotional dmg 5. Projection 6. Talks with her exes 7. Plays with other men 8. Has many guy friends, but freak out if you have female friends. Double standard 9. Shitty former relationships. 10. RUN

[@303cris]

Sprint!

[@shane6284]

You just described my ex lol

[@macarnott]

I wish I knew all of this before dating my ex. I'm pretty young early 20s and my ex was my first long term girlfriend. I'm actually pretty glad she was a walking red flag. It's helped me realize what the flags are now. You've described my ex perfectly. Specially only has male friends. If she only has male friends it's because all the other girls know she's a bad woman.

[@shane6284]

@@macarnott You are doing the right thing, and bag her like garbage bruh. Being so young and having the key 🔑 Is nice..

[@johnpauljacob4596]

I'm amazed how i lasted for 3 yrs in this kind of relationship. I guess Its time to let go.

[@mwanzafitalphamotivation2541]

"Don't settle for a girl that settles for you. Find the one that wants you so bad she'll treat you like the man you should be."

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

That's deep! Very good.

[@LuisFelixphx]

LMAAAAAO SHE BELONGS TO THE STREEEETS! Corey really keeping up with the youth, I LOVE IT!

[@therealuna]

Right? I was dying 😂😂😂 like damn coach staying up on the lingo now too 💪🏻🔥

[@coacheastwood8783]

Corey is more streets than most gangsters. This guy is another level and speaks absolute truth you know how rare that is? F***ing rare but not as rare as toxic woman. Thank you to the bs category of feminists that promote hatred to men

[@coacheastwood8783]

17.26 end of

[@mizzoupatriot8814]

All her guy "friends" at work always ask her how her husband puts up with her ass and that I deserve a medal or something lmao.

[@MafferDragonhandEyed]

Found this dude a few weeks ago. Been sharing him with the closest most trusted people in my life ever since. Your words have had profound effects, we're forever in your debt.

[@hayhacker55]

read his book, its great

[@matthewvasquez9278]

Repetition is the mother of skill, keep that in mind, i certainly did when i read his book 12 times and applied his work in my own life, the book is so you don't need a phone session and be coached, I'd just book a phone session to thank him, he changed my life forever and really opened my mind to reality, not just women, but myself and my surroundings and for that, he's the real deal, but you have to do all the work and journey to be a 3% man. Good luck and good hunting!!👈🏼👈🏼

[@Milan23_]

found him in 2014 changed my life

[@WilyMoROCKS]

Short answer: Yes. Always yes.

[@cassiocj2643]

@@stephen6415 only 3% will get it.

[@profonicsgaming7870]

You're right mostly single mothers raised kids in the 90s through today so unless you like older women they are toxic

[@michellieelizabeth]

This is so true. I'm a woman and grew up w an absent father. Mom was just all over the place with men... Anyways, I've been on the road to bettering myself and it's HARD. I listen to his videos to learn what I'm doing wrong and why. After a broken marriage, I want to show my kids what a healthy, loving relationship looks like between two ppl. A lot of people don't do the work on themselves, but there's some of us that do. 💜

[@zippyblessed839]

Same here...im a woman and these videos help me so I dont make these mistakes. Working on becoming the best version of myself

[@shortingthetrend]

I commend you both ladies. I wish my woman would "work on herself"

[@th3g3ntl3man08]

So you wanna show your kids what a healthy relationship looks like with a man that’s not the father of your kids?

[@planeguy95]

Corey, just wanna tell you man that I've been with my dream girlfriend for over a year all thanks to you and your book. I'm not a born/bred alpha-male. I'm relatively shy, but you gave me the tools/wisdom I needed. We never argue, she adores me and she's an amazing girl. Your stuff works, no question. Thank you!

[@MarkRyanNZ]

I would still recommend reading the book every now and then.

[@planeguy95]

@@MarkRyanNZ don’t worry, I do

[@siegfriedo]

@@MarkRyanNZ Yep, at least ten to fifteen times.. Per year that is... ;)

[@profonicsgaming7870]

@@siegfriedo Per day

[@nasdaqqqq4994]

Coach, I’m totally crazy about my gf. She told me last night that she’s in love with me. Right at 8 weeks of dating, just like you said. Thanks for all your help coach.

[@nasdaqqqq4994]

She’s hot & conservative. Does it get any better?

[@ArnoldTohtFan]

I'm not sure if this is genuine or sarcasm

[@nasdaqqqq4994]

@@ArnoldTohtFan no it’s genuine. I didn’t think it would happen until it did. Everything Corey is talking about is right.

[@jonlaera8164]

8 weeks and you already have her in your yt profile pic? Good luck buddy...

[@brandonpinto5290]

@@nasdaqqqq4994 if this isn't sarcasm and if she isn't covertly hiding her true personality, then , you've hit Gold dude.

[@sandyshealingjourney]

It's so frustrating when you love someone so much but they do things that cross your boundaries. It's like you gotta choose your own self-respect. And that's just the way it is. Still going to love them, but you gotta be true to your # and that's you.

[@davidp2888]

The only person who can improve my life is me. If a potential partner isn't actively working to improve herself, I'm not interested. An ex of mine talked a great game about all the great things she was going to do but never acted on them.

[@popeyethepirate5473]

Sounds like my mother

[@Goofy_Toons]

I try to do the things I say I will do but man it's tough. As long as you're trying you're on the right path.

[@flo_ridaa7074]

Well said

[@davidp2888]

@@Goofy_Toons I can accept "trying" as long as I can see actual effort. Words are cheap, I want to see action.

[@PaulTC777]

My ex gf had her room floor full of crap, clothes and shoes. Whenever I told her to pick her things up she attacked me by saying that I had OCD and anxiety. She never changed. She also ate bad (mcdonalds etc...) and I told her to eat well and do sport.

[@ferenza35]

I had a girl I was dating and she made it like we were a couple. We were always together 24/7 and even slept together. After 5 months , one night I decided to make it official and she told me she was sleeping with the 48 year old guy next door. I was to say the least heartbroken for a while but I did cut off all contact. I watched Coach Corey's videos and figured out that I was acting like a simp, giving up 100% without her ever lifting a finger. I also took the the time to fix my own issues and love myself. Now this girl is constantly leaving me messages crying about how this dude got her pregnant and she needs a real good friend to hold her down. I just leave her on read

[@IS-uh5yj]

You the real MVP NOW

[@tonytang4381]

You had your fun and no responsibilities, you won!

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

It never fails. If she grew up in chaos, at one point or another she WILL sabotage the relationship. And then blame it all on youZ

[@Nourabad]

Ignores all the red flags, 1. Trauma (told me she got raped by a boy, next thing told me she got almost stabbed by her ex bf.) 2. Crossing boundaries all the time (went on dating sites when we agreed to date exclusively), went to meet her 'male friends' secretly 3. Very jealous, accused me of flirting to girls all the time, went through my phone all the time, looked in my car if she could find a hair from another girl etc 4. Manipulating, she dumped my ass saying I screamed to her all the time, but in reality it was because of her own mistakes 5. Mood swings all the time next week she loves me, next week she want to break up 6. Lack of empathy, I got stabbed myself while being carjacked once, she never asked about it how I was doing mentally Man man man, I feel like a weak ass not dumping her first, even bought her flowers to make things right because she kept accussing me that it was my fault for screaming, didnt appreciate the flowers. Blocked her ass everywhere and told her to never come back again to me (because she came back 3 times already) still miss her like crazy, and I am hurt. I love her but I think if she wanted me back, I could never go back for my own dignity.

[@Pistonhammer]

Bro , shes likely a COVERT Narcissist , research into Narcissistic Personality Disorder , look up the 3 Stage cycle in a Narcissistic relationship , the stages are as follows > Stage 1. Idealization aka Love Bombing , Stage 2. Devaluation and Stage 3. Discard , after your discarded your left " Trauma Bonded " too her hence why you find it so hard to let her go , best of luck to you and others who research into Narcissistic Relationships.

[@Dassiz]

Just explained my ex gf , same kinda woman , it's hard to get over all the lies and cheating

[@Nourabad]

@@Dassiz You just look different to women after the experiences

[@davidmambu7936]

Coach, a lot of men are nice guys. Even if they read the book and apply the content, their nice guys tendencies always prevent them from having a blissful relationship with a healthy partner. They allow toxic women in their lives and believe if they are good and nice , they will have a drama free life, which is farther from the truth. I highly recommend Men not only reading 3% Man more than 15 times, but also reading No More Mr. Nice guys by Dr Glover. With these books , Men will become integrated and navigate relationships and life with ease.

[@KVI580]

very true, I'm a natural nice guy, not by choice but by birth because of a spineless beta male father and a dominant mother, I've been always the overlooked innocent harmless guy who wasn't a threat to anyone, and no one even valued me. I was always used and always been put down, never been invited with other males who have strong personality, I've always been shy quiet insecure guy I was taught and molded as that's how a man should be by my family, now I'm 28 still no clue in life no job no gf no friends no social life, I'm just living in my room alone while figuring what damage my family has done to me, I never had a relationship more than 2 months, every girl i like like some other guy with a personality the don't like a pushover spineless guy like me, I came to self diagnosis about being a beta male and a nice guy a year ago, and now I know about Redpill, but most of the time I'm just a nice guy cause its in my genetics, no matter how much I read or watch about alpha Redpill and assertive articles, nice guy tendencies always kicks in first. i really hate my beta male spineless dad, he should have died before he impregnate my mom, fucking useless moron never thought me how to be a man, I'm the one always picked up by others for fun because I'm skinny and I'm innocent and have a feminine face. on top of that i have social anxiety depression and I have no social skill, cause I'm simply from a dysfunctional family without relatives and even i have 0 friends, cause all my friends they re married or have gfs or have better friends, I really hate my cursed life and I'm sad when guys my age having best personalities and have hot gfs, while I just cant get a single date or even a friend, so its easy to say be an alpha but destiny always makes me a nice guy the dork, some times I wish if if can die in my sleep, cant handle this pain..

[@KVI580]

@@LibrarBzd thank you everyday im struggling

[@abhisoni143]

@@KVI580 start by going to the gym. Lift weights things will improve man. Hang in there.

[@KVI580]

@@abhisoni143 iam hanging there man, but it sucks and drains my life. All people around me are having their best lives but mines just a cursed hell. I dont even have a gf or a job and im tired being a beta who have no spine. And im tired being complained and whining about it too. I simply want to go to sleep and never wake up as i have nothing to happy about me. I wonder who gonna love me as every girl i know they have a bf or a man which they absolutely in love with crazily. I wonder what will they look in me and i wonder whos gonna love me like that. Im 28 and i literally have no clue about my life or motivation. Just wanna end my life today

[@abhisoni143]

@@KVI580 the good part is that you have realised the bad in you and on which part you have to work on. Chicks wait at the end line for winners so be one. Wake up early eat clean lift weights. Change the roots and you will see the fruits soon. Watch good movies good videos like these. Even if you cant be an alpha atleast you'll be a high value man. And that is enough in this world for career and around girls. Best wishes for a good life to you man.

[@voltinur]

Remember, always be alert and listen to everything she says also take a look closely to her actions. never ever ignore red flag. That way, you would be able to find out her character even tho you are still in the first 90 days period

[@lifting6248]

Coach is spot on there - my GF has A relationship with her dad and her mum but she is the youngest of 4 others. It seemed she was always craving attention and because she didnt get it she closed herself off. Shes never had a serious relationship until now and you start to find out why the more you get to know people like this. Listen to the coach ... but more importantly listen to your woman and trust your gut!

[@betteryoubetter]

Wow! This video just nailed and solved the problem I'm experiencing right now! The Broken woman with the father problem; exactly what I'm dealing with. Its good to get some clarity on what I had suspected all along! Thanks Corey!

[@vicholtreman1405]

"You can't have a healthy relationship based upon someone's potential. You must see your present reality and date or reject them based on how they are showing up NOW." This is SO on point. I just exited a relationship where I was looking at their potential. Also so many other points in your video related to my situation: Drama, home life growing up, etc.

[@markjohn410]

True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost .

[@markjohn410]

Do you want your ex back immediately, I know someone powerful who can help you get your ex back immediately okay

[@markjohn410]

Text him on what sap

[@markjohn410]

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[@andygarcia4412]

“She belongs to the streets!” Love it coach Corey!😂

[@AngSco30]

And yet again, the Coach posts exactly the video I need right now. Guy has a window into my life!

[@despachantecentral3841]

coach... my girl ran away with my best friend.... i dont know him but he is my best friend now... hhahahaha

[@brendanmcpike184]

Cory, been watching for probably a month. The more I watch the more you feel like a friend🤝

[@ajikanfan2]

This hit home in a really uncomfortable way, time to take a really honest look in the mirror. Thank you Coach Corey Wayne. Funny how common sense really isn't common

[@matteovari7404]

Coach, you changed my life. Matteo here from Rome, Italy. THANK YOU

[@TheAspiringFitnessGuru]

I love that you talk slowly so I can watch at 2x the speed and still hear everything.

[@robpoliti616]

Great video I’m definitely going to buy your book soon because I keep attracting toxic woman and it needs to stop.

[@cloudattack3279]

Take control early with any new girlfriend. You need to be content with who she is at this early stage. I have learnt from a catastrophic failure of my own marriage of 10 years, 3 beautiful sons out of it. I feel deeply in love with her way to soon. After a couple of months the truths bombs were slowly told by her, multiple sex partners etc etc. beacause i was head over heels for her I overlooked my concerns and pressed on with her. I was depressed after this, smoking weed to suppress the constant thoughts about it. Here I am today, I complained to her about being unhappy in our sexless marriage, and now she is divorcing me. It has destroyed me and our family. Please men, get these important issues learnt of early to take the potholes out of the road ahead. The hurt of now being a defendant in a divorce is a cruel, evil thing. The pain is unbearable..

[@cloudattack3279]

@@matthewschwartz6607 A few months into the very beginning of us going out together we had an argument and I split from her, she rung me up a few weeks later to get back together, didn’t tell me over the phone but waited until she was with me then confessed to a one night stand. I was a fool for not being strong enough at the time to send her away. That’s the power of love mate, it was always the core of our arguments after that though. It was all my fault for being weak. That’s why I want to warn men to have their shit completely together before taking anything serious. Thanks for the reply 👍 I’m in a shit state at the moment my mind is always soaked thinking about her.

[@MrHydevsDrJekyll]

Good advice. I hung onto a relationship as seeing potential. The dairy is I missed listening to my intuition and cutting the relationship ASAP

[@jordangould1541]

My girlfriend and I split up because she was having feelings for her co-worker. She also went out for lunch with a guy she used to fuck. It’s heartbreaking but you have to admit when something just isn’t working. She would never apologise for any of her actions and would somehow always blame me for her mistakes. I’m no angel, but I at least tried to rectify our broken relationship, as I care about her and wanted us to be happy. It’s tough, but sometimes you gotta move on

[@Blodia1990]

You're worthy of everything! Good job and chin up champion🙌🏿

[@spooklook9]

YOU THE MANNNN coach corey wayne , ur advice is on point

[@knkpro011]

I'm always excited to see what CCW's mug will say in every new video.

[@growing367]

Same similar situation as me. I flew a girl from the East Coast to here in Cali and let her lived in my home for 3 days. I know too very fast. We had the same chill vibe and enjoyed each other. But the moment that I was displaying weak behaviors, and then she started subtly disrespecting me and I was just letting it happen, she took advantage of me and became very aggressive/abusive. I thank God that I was just seeing these things happen on an observable point of view and I wasn't fully attached to her. She then madly packed up and left. But the fact that I was allowing this to happen to me, I just can't tolerate it anymore. Time to fully commit in being a 3% Man!

[@normantheforeman9866]

Wow that Frankenstein boyfriend thing is eerily spot on... I’ve been there dating a lady, all these guys around. But now I know

[@lilianarodriguez9283]

Great stuff!! Had to watch it twice just to make a couple of notes. This video was sent to me by my now "Ex" and I love it. The type of woman I am comes off very different and tends to blindside most men. I've been independent all my life as I grew up in foster care and still was able to go to college for my career. I enjoy working on cars and Crossfit, now I say all that because every single man I've talked to has grown insecure even those I kiss a lot of ass. I used to go to the gym on Saturdays which I stopped due to this relationship. I stopped working on my 64 and slowly stopped enjoying most of what I would do. Loyalty has never been an issue as he has full access to my phone and even leans in to read my texts, I have nothing to hide. But somehow I'm the one always being accused of hiding something. As far as other women, we check out hot girls together. I'm not insecure because I know how I look lol. The biggest issue honestly are the put downs. Be more like a woman and less like a man. If his mother is on one of her alcoholic trips and calls my 10 year old a b**** just excuse it because she isn't thinking clear. I have put up with a lot but man I'm done. Also as far as exs go I agree with the no contact because there's no reason unless there is a child involved. Which in my case , lucky me, that is what he is most insecure about. All the communication is done thru my 10 year old and her father waits in the car just so there's no chance for contact. With all this said and done it was still not enough. Look ladies no man should ever call you stupid or have their mother call you out of your name. If my "Now Ex" wants to call me toxic then I'll go ahead and own it. There will be a day when the TRUE will come to light. And when it does your own tongue will testify against you. Have a blessed day everyone and remember to love yourself first. 🥰

[@THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG]

“HIT THE ROAD JACK & DON’T U COME BACK NO MO” 😭😭😭😭

[@ML-wj4nb]

Won’t ever forget about your impact man. Thanks

[@lorilove686]

Love your videos! So much truth to them! Thanks for sharing your invaluable knowledge!!! Happy Sunday, Corey! ✌

[@h.s.4795]

Since I behave like a man and have a relationship like coach teaches, I miss the time I was too much in love, did stupid things and cried myself to sleep after they broke up.

[@grey7757]

Respect for you sir since your attachment style is changing and you are becoming a 3% men.

[@FreeTheJambon]

I don't get if your comment is ironic or not

[@MrDick-kz8qc]

Right? Who doesn't miss being miserable? It's great

[@Mr_Never_Sad]

Yo Corey that story you told about your brother’s friend was tragic as hell. RIP

[@chriss5484]

I know this is off topic but I was wondering when your third book is coming out. Your first two books 3% man and how to master yourself has completely changed my outlook in life and my mindset and I just cannot get enough of it. Thank you so much coach.

[@j.l.7325]

Thank You coach!! Speaking the truth I respect the coach truly appreciate how he has changed my life relationships!! So so honest realistic truth if she's not trustworthy she belongs to the streets and it's great how he indicates an alternative solution instead dumping keeping her as a friends-with-benefits sex Playmate that's it best answer coach knows his stuff!!

[@claydonkey2181]

Hey Corey. Are you ever gonna fold the concept of the Cluster B Type Personality Disorder - namely Narcissistic partners into your narrative?

[@Pistonhammer]

Thats exactly what am saying , these woman are suffering from NPD aka Narcissistic Personality Disorder , Narcissists are not " SELF-AWARE " hence why they must be FORCED or MANDATED by a court issued 1-to-1 therapy session with a trained therapist order by a Judge in order to get diagnosed

[@TheGreatPower365]

@@Pistonhammer unfortunately there is nuance to the diagnosis part, and to psychotherapy more generally, that you and many others miss. Because it is meant to be therapy, and 'do no harm', an individual must self-identity as having a debilitating condition before a diagnosis can be made. As such, it is impossible under the present system to diagnose someone against their will if they refuse to acknowledge they are debilitated or sick in any way.

[@brunowario5169]

So true I have learned so much from you sensei.

[@ericaz6249]

If you have to ask that question....yes

[@markcitronBroadcasting]

Cory is the biggest beauty of a life coach ever..thanks coach

[@Mr_Steve3D]

I bought 3% Man paperback, starting my first read of 15🤩

[@suplex57]

I learn more from this guy than any other relationship KZbinr

[@raygipson8896]

Another awesome coaching session, thanks Coach👍

[@mooreorlessvideos]

My gf ghosted after 3 weeks ... bye Felicia 👋

[@bellakim9404]

@@matthewschwartz6607 if he knew, he wouldn't have used the word Ghosted.

[@janco333]

My house is a temple of peace and tranquility. No Drama

[@JordanAlexochannel]

Another important thing to know is the type of relationship women had in the past. If they only had toxic relationships, then that's a huge red flag.

[@frankthetank6661]

I always wonder when they finally find someone who is totally different with no toxicity they somehow still try to ruin it with toxic behavior 😶

[@demetriuspowell29]

@@frankthetank6661that’s because of their current program subconsciously weather they admit it or not they crave that shit

[@tekonethemc]

If you see those red flags get out like your hair is on fire.

[@buttnakedsignatureseasonings]

See belongs to the streets!!!! Thanks Coach

[@lifebydesignstudioproductions]

You’re a Hero Corey

[@stephenmac23]

U can ignore reality, but u can ignore the consequences of reality. That shit is profound

[@Possiblyabandaid]

This should be good, needed this.

[@the_phope]

You deserve a Nobel prize, sir! 🙌

[@youngrozay3576]

If she cries because of a political argument, she’s for the streets.

[@tonygee6418]

"She belongs to the Streets" 🎶 *(Sung to the tune of Glenn Frey's "You Belong to the City")

[@Nightmare_-ix7dk]

If she says her ex is reaching out and she responds to it... without blocking you leave or tell her to stop talking either way she wouldn't be good long term she will cheat sooner or later.

[@gamecast10]

I needed this. I'm going through this exact same problem

[@PaulTC777]

My ex lied me about her being pregnant because she wanted to test me and see my reaction. Instead of me telling her "everything will be okay" I told her "Really?, I thought you were on birth control" and she felt disrespected because I didn't want to have kids with her.

[@kentd7380]

A good song for this, Steely Dan's "Black Cow".... (Donald Fagen said a Black Cow was a root beer float...) See if you recognize the girl in the song, many of us have encountered her...

[@lukehart7225]

I asked a coworker out twice, she turned me down then when we were working together one night, she was like, “I don’t know you well enough..”

[@armandiver]

I have CCW book I can Fix things. I like it.

[@KehY91]

9:24 That's what my gf is doing. When I call her out on that, she claims she is joking.

[@bigsneak12]

"She belongs to the streets" lmfaooo

[@leisurely6711]

Big ups coach. Unfriending for political views is childish.

[@DarthVeach]

When I saw the messages between her and a guy that she SWORE she wasn't interested in, I did about the same thing. She talked a good game and apologized and I (stupidly) gave us another chance. Then another...then another. Yeah there was a pattern and I should've been gone way sooner. When she blew the 2nd chance, there never should've been a 3rd and that is on me. live and learn I guess ☹

[@bellakim9404]

Lack of emotional control, disrespect & the lack of loyalty. How does he not see the 🐘 in the room? Travesty is ineveitable.

[@TheSm1thers]

It's very difficult when you're in love with someone, cos if you're truly in love with someone you love them unconditionally. I saw red flags in my first relationship, like when she was flirting with another dude, but forgave her and made her promise not to do it again. I didn't give up on her because of how I felt about her. Obviously with impulsive idiots like that it doesn't work, and it didn't work for me. Found out she cheated with him from her own friends.

[@bellakim9404]

When a person unconditionally loves someone, it could be Themself first. & No matter what is said or promised, there is no way to monitor another person 24/7. The blood in their veins either run with loyalty or it's doesn't. I'm sorry to hear about your experience 😌

[@LukasP143]

Coach corey wayne looking healthy sir!

[@speedone1771]

“ she belongs to the streets” laughed my ass off.

[@tuftrucker]

😂😂😂

[@profonicsgaming7870]

17:25 is the best lol

[@zubinphilip2960]

Men need Coach Corey! Period!

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

1:45 Ideally if you're looking for an LTR, is that women who have good relationships with their fathers and mothers, and the parents have a good healthy relationship with each other. If she walks all over her dad and treats her dad like a b**h, that's not a happy, healthy relationship. Rather, it's where she talks to her father, respects her father, listens to his his advice and his counsel, seeks it out. Her parents talk things out. It's extremely rare to see that nowadays because so many people come from broken homes. 2:50 Most people will never do the work on themselves to fix what's broken or what's wrong with them, or fill in their knowledge gaps. It's too much work, too much effort. Fixing something about yourself starts with admitting something is messed up in the first place. Most people would rather just pretend that the elephant in the room is not actually there. 4:25 Political arguments causing rifts in families. 6:40 Women that come from broken homes - no dad, or bad relationship with their dad, they're just insecure, they never learned these things. They never learned a healthy way to interact with other men. Because they were disappointed as a little girl with daddy not coming through, then they become desperate for male attention and validation because they didn't get it as a little girl. Create a Frankenstein boyfriend. Dangles carrot because men around her stuck in friend zone are trying to get in her pants, and uses men to get what she wants. 9:00 It's not your job to fix her, it's not your job to make her into a loyal girlfriend. 9:25 The hallmark of a lying devious, cheating person. No one will ever do or say anything to you that isn't a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves in the moment. So the liar and the cheater always accuses the other person of lying and cheating, when in reality that's how they are. If you're dating a woman who's that way - that's a major red flag. She's either extremely insecure, or she's the type that would be a liar and a cheater. You have to put her in her place and see what happens after that. 12:50 A woman who violates your trust - you're enabling her behavior, and you're teaching her that there's no consequences for lying, cheating, and being devious. So by giving her another chance, you're enabling her behavior. 14:20 If you get involved with a woman who doesn't value loyalty, who never saw it growing up, you can't expect her to value that. *She may tell you that, she may tell you she wants to be loyal - but when you look at her actions, she's a drifter.* 17:08 F buddy, sex playmate, FWB, open relationship, that's it - she's not girlfriend material. 18:10 Don't get involved with women who have messy exes in the background, who are showing up at their house at night. 18:20 Corey's brother's friends from college was murdered by a woman's crazy ex he was seeing. 19:50 A woman growing up without a good strong, masculine father presence - whether it's an uncle, grandfather, stepdad or dad - is probably not a good judge of character (backup boyfriends, toxic). This is why you want to be inquisitive, especially in the beginning, and find out about the parents and the family. Her mother and father might have a dysfunctional relationship. If he spoiled the daughter, and she walks all over him - that's not healthy. *Ask about her family, ask about her parents - because the more messy the home life is, the more messy she's going to be.*

[@D00R]

Men need to stop simping for women. Don’t do anything for women. Only focus on yourself and goals. If she can’t do shit for herself or pay to have it done she’s lookin to use a man.

[@Je.rone_]

Questions married men should asked prior to marriage but often don't

[@emptyclips4442]

What are your thoughts on the 48 laws of power and the art of seduction by Robert Greene, coach? Have you heard of, or read any of those books? Would you recommend them to your students?

[@cyrilcyril2891]

I hated that book, I didn't understand or enjoyed it, how are you supposed to comprehend 48 complicated laws, especially the way it was described, definitely interesting but not practical for anything.

[@fedhater1]

Just Stay Single...

[@thomasyoung3268]

I mean it’s one hell of a solution in this modern world.

[@keithzizis4860]

If you even have to ask that question she probably is

[@LorenElara]

Seattle doesn't get much snow. Definitely not 50 below weather. Thinkin MN.

[@darinattard]

Yes she was - 20 years, Im free 😊

[@studiomacleod]

I love how coach Wayne balances emotional health with straight guy talk. It’s so rare

[@gettrdun6264]

Jesus,,,,,, everything single thing he talks about is literally my exes. 🙄 I wish my dad would have taught me this.

[@cooperstukel5176]

Daddy issues...... fun for awhile but gets old fast.

[@anthonymans994]

What do i do if I'm on the receiving end of this? i.e she's in the relationship, trying to form a relationship with me, and i said no because she's in a relationship. I told her it's okay that we stay friends, but nothing more if she's with someone else. Did I handle that correctly, or was there a better way to deal with it?

[@jloren4647]

Stay away from people who betray their partners for obvious reasons.

[@adamlewis1961]

Sometimes you need to ask a second opinion on stuff that annoys you in life... "how bad is this situation? am I being too sensitive? would YOU still talk to this person or walk after they did/said this?"

[@bl4ckw1ng28]

I love those mugs my man

[@benr4978]

Corey- where is the best place to be in Florida if you are single 30s conservative?

[@THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG]

“SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS” HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG]

COREY’S IRISH COMING OUT AT 20:23 🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮🇨🇮

[@SChome100]

My man said she's for the streets lol

[@MenMovement]

Hmm interesting topic coach👌

[@xHDsKiLLzz]

Love the videos Coach! I live in orlando, do you do in person coaching sessions by any chance?

[@TheAspiringFitnessGuru]

I don't like Biden or Trump. But I hate the fact that both sides won't listen to the other. It's the only way to come to a compromise.

[@jesmann66]

Do toxic people know they are toxic?

[@g405t]

Red flag....Toxic

[@GrowWithTrung]

It is weird that since I read the book until I stop counting and keep reading. I've never had the experience like the guy in the video.

[@reflux043]

I love your videos and agree with them all usually, except i disagree with the parts at 9:21, 9:31 & 9:41. Not everyone who is jealous occasionally and asks if the other person is cheating is cheating themselves. I dont cheat, ive never been unfaithful yet, and i dont lie, but sometimes you get a gut feeling that your girlfriend is cheating and have to ask them... that doesnt mean that you're cheating on them. Im currently listening to your 3% book on audible because ive had trouble with every single one of my girlfriends, and they have all cheated on me so far. All of that makes a man insecure going into the next relationship, especially if its happened in all your relationships. My last ex girlfriend Elizabeth, im still in love with her a year later and cant get over her. I got friendzoned, and she's hot and cold all the time, and its frustrating, because i want her back... and yeah i chased, i begged, i done everything that you said not to do!

[@elsquibbs]

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