As a four year old I had an unnatural attraction to glitter. The rest is history.
@KrnelPanc Жыл бұрын
I just discovered Randy Rainbow and love everything he puts out. Glitter is on the top of the menu.
@magnetdesignandadver Жыл бұрын
LOL! Luvvit
@jobskinner833 Жыл бұрын
Oh, the shame you must feel 😂
@aewcontrol2984 Жыл бұрын
😂
@chrisdagoat42089 ай бұрын
Idk if anyone ever said this to you but u can like glitter and still be the most manliest man out they’re im sorry this happened to you and the people around you misleading your young self
@harveythrondsen9354 Жыл бұрын
As a gay man I have a very high verbal fluency. I write poems. My friend always tell that I can point out their mistakes in a way that doesn’t hurt their feelings. At the same time my spatial perception is very very good. I mean I am the one always leading the group using maps. If I don’t have maps I use the sun. If you are with me you simply don’t get lost. Am I secretly straight?😂 (Kidding) That’s the problem with people. As Humans we love to classify, name everything so that we can process them in our little brains. But what’s funnier is that generalisation doesn’t work with humans. Life should be easier without categorisation. ❤️
@Cabinet445 Жыл бұрын
be careful leader! cockiness can be damaging!!
@JeffRebornNow Жыл бұрын
I agree with you, Harvey: 'homosexual' is a verb denoting an activity, it is not a noun denoting identity. There are no 'homosexuals' or 'heterosexuals,' there are just people, some of whom like to have sex with their own sex, some with the opposite sex, and some with both. Why then do we persist in calling ourselves gay or straight? Obviously, it's for political reasons. We don't want to be persecuted or discriminated against just because we like to sleep with members of the same sex. It's a banner under which we organize politically.
@farokhnaegamvala1707 Жыл бұрын
You are blessed with male beauty Harvey!
@jjbud3124 Жыл бұрын
I'm an elderly woman and I have those same qualities. I was quite the tomboy when I was a kid. I went through a period where I wished I were male, but when I met my husband to be, I knew I am, and was meant to be, female. Sex and sexuality is a very complicated thing.
@lynnbaker2336 Жыл бұрын
You bring up an important point regarding the categorization of people. This is precisely the reason for the term " homosexual lifestyle " it categorizes a group of people in order to make it easier to vilify and demonize them through subjective comparison. The reason that we never hear the term " heterosexual lifestyle " is because there is no need to categorize heterosexuality with such descriptively inherent connotative oversimplification in order to subconsciously justify contempt and hatred through subjective comparison.
@nickbarcheck1019 Жыл бұрын
I honestly don't know if I or anyone is "born gay" but I've been attracted to boys/men from as early as I can remember until now in my late 20s with zero attraction whatsoever to girls/women. I think it's a pretty safe bet you're born gay or straight and that it's a certain thing in your brain.
@davidmeadows5627 Жыл бұрын
Different gays are gay for different reasons than other gays. Some were born that way. Others were touched by their uncle Bob when they were 4. It depends which homosexual individual you're talking about.
@maxmax-hv4ck Жыл бұрын
@@davidmeadows5627 “touched by their uncle” 🤣 Do some people still believe that?
@davidmeadows5627 Жыл бұрын
@@maxmax-hv4ck Everyone does. They just don't talk about it.
@eirikgogstad5875 Жыл бұрын
@@davidmeadows5627 I know it's hard, but it is very important to not confuse what you believe is logical, with what everybody else thinks is logical. It's easy to connect dots in your own mind - I know I do it all the time - but it is critical that we all realize that there is so much we don't know about so many things. Forming an opinion on a complex topic based on few sources of information and your own gut feeling can only lead to very subjective, and in the worst case very wrong, conclusions.
@maxmax-hv4ck Жыл бұрын
@@davidmeadows5627 Huge exaggeration. Maybe “everyone” in your circle and/or your info bubble.
@dewanmdurnto35922 жыл бұрын
As a heterosexual man who wants to understand homosexuality better; this video was very helpful.
@Fleetstreetbestone Жыл бұрын
@@UnderstandingCipher Ew you creep some of us just want to know the science
@rose.thorns2014 Жыл бұрын
@@Fleetstreetbestonehow is that creepy to want to understand more about other sexualities than your own?
@patrickjamesr.quijano3918 Жыл бұрын
This video and analytical findings offers just a small percentage data and populations and small samples. Haven't you notice that there are peole who are gay before but now are straight. Are you satisfied with the data you have? Are you biased to people who does not know their gender then after some time they finally come up with an idea that they are a man. Looks like science is not on you. Do you want me to provide it for you? And let me tell you the truth, genderism and role plays are largely and may depend on the family dynamics and an individual's individual implications and aspirations largely affected by the society and community in general, but at the personal level it is adhered to insufficiencies of someone to be identified as man without a father figure or with father figure but inefficient and irresponsible or absentee in one's child(son's) need will render the son have an abnormal attraction and deviate from cultural norm and christian values which is heterosexuality affection and attraction. Personal and good relationship is highly encouraged. Trust , loyalty, and heterosexual family where a woman may be absent for the son to thrive its manhood/manliness sexual desires, or i may put them on the normal family- (heterosexual unit) wherein the wife should be obeying and submitting to the husband that is admirable and respectable in all obedience and reverence. For me i prefer truth and science, rather than man's individual perception of the world and personal opinions far from the truth and science. Gay brain study loses its significance when applied to the general population. We needan to take in charge, to be in charge, and to lead others to Christ and to godly behaviors accepting and worth praising. They need to be emotionally matured, both intelectual and spiritual so that they are capable of helping others and not hurting them. An abled leader! The family should monitor if the child is influenced by others such as the television, ask yourself if the program they are watching incorporates and symbolizes the truth and intrinsic quality of life and values the importance of family and tradition. Are they worth watching for or are their parents, friends, family etc, are there for your young child to have special parental guidance while watching that these media are not all true and that they need to say things which are for them and not. Then gender dysphoria can outright be solved by correcting their environments and bad influences to their developing minds. God given roles should be fulfilled and its value are of great importance because it tells you who we should and who shouldn't be. We are loved and we stand corrected in the error of our ways. Making and doing things wrong are humanly, but forgiving and loving truth, are truthfully divine and awesome qualities I wish others also have. Let us say that teaching your conscience is absorbing wether you are taught right then in social science we have what we called as relativism "truth is relative" (the society dictates which is right or wrong, and conscience is subjective not objective = you can be right even if you are wrong) but in Christianity we have absolute truth and that is God. Bible is the hardest thing you can disprove as unreal and unscientific and unhistorically accurate, authoritative and valid.
@Fleetstreetbestone Жыл бұрын
@@rose.thorns2014 I didn’t say that, the guy deleted his comment but he said that you’d have to be ‘slightly’ gay if you researched this.
@patrickjamesr.quijano3918 Жыл бұрын
@@Fleetstreetbestone i am researching and pondering things since I was in my mother's womb if gayness can be reinforce and totally demolished. I found the answer in neuroplasticity science topic. Even if you aged and old, there are cases where one can change their attitudes, and even their gender.
@stanrix Жыл бұрын
As a gay this topic used to enrage me 20 years ago…. I didn’t want to be gay and would have preferred the easy life. Now I gotta admit, it’s pretty fascinating… 😂
@nickbarcheck1019 Жыл бұрын
Being a gay dude is really fun. No strings attached pleasure at 2 AM with little to no verbal communication is a pretty damn good deal.
@stanrix Жыл бұрын
@@nickbarcheck1019 as an older dude, I absolutely agree. It’s a great life.
@nickbarcheck1019 Жыл бұрын
Yea. Growing up gay was shit but once you get to your 20s it's a blast.
@nickbarcheck1019 Жыл бұрын
@Paul-fs8hm Degenerates?
@PS1995-u8r Жыл бұрын
@@nickbarcheck1019 wow your quick. Being sexually promiscuous and admitting in public that you have loose morals is NOT something to be proud or boast about
@conlon4332 Жыл бұрын
What about bisexuals and asexuals? We need more research into this topic, but especially into people who don't fall into this simple monosexual binary of gay or straight.
@scerb100 Жыл бұрын
I feel like the theory here kinda does answer the question. If there is a divergent neural development, something may happen where it is not a one or the other. Like, it’s not developing a 100% gay or straight brain but winds up somewhere else. It also depends I think what we consider bisexuality to be. Is it bisexuality if a man engaged in sexual activity once or twice with another guy? What the level in which we consider a person bisexual? As for asexuals (currently an even small population group) perhaps the same neural development is just underdeveloped. That’s all I can think of. But essentially the answer according to this is finding the parts of the brain that influence sexuality during development.
@mackayladavis4021 Жыл бұрын
@@scerb100 Sexual activity is different from sexual orientation. A lot of gay people feel pressured by society to sleep with the opposite sex. That doesn't mean they are straight. Same with straight people. Just because you slept with the same sex a few times to experiment or for any other reason doesn't make you gay or bisexual. It is ATTRACTION that is the key component in determining sexual orientation.
@JohnDoe-vp9ey Жыл бұрын
There is only one healthy sexuality where men love women and vice versa
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
I listened to man instead of God my whole life they always said homosexuality is not in the Bible or it’s man and child or it’s just love. I was bisexual for 18 years I’m 23 now and I always thought I was born this way until I started questioning if it was okay. It was always in the back of my mind when I was with the same gender and God showed me it wasn’t okay, the reason I like the same gender was because of sexual abuse from the same gender I was 6 and she was my teacher. That is what created me gay and perverted my mind. Jesus will not shame you he loves you all equally so much. He just wants to help you and save you turn to him before it’s too late when he comes back he won’t be merciful anymore. Jesus delivered me from homosexuality, video game addiction, depression, self harm, gay relationship, fear etc… he can to you too. Stop listening to man and start listening and following God read his word (the Bible) and see for yourself or just talk to him and he will show you anything and help you with anything.
@mackayladavis4021 Жыл бұрын
@@SaucyCow19 Lol your comment is so ridiculous it reads like a typical bigoted fabrication from a homophobe. Anyone with half a brain can understand that none of the nonsense you claimed in your comment actually happened. Anyone who claims that sexual abuse changed their sexuality is a liar.
@Blueyzachary Жыл бұрын
As someone who thought they were gay for most of their teenage years but has now recognized they’re bisexual, this is fascinating. I appreciate knowing that I’m not going to be like everyone else, and I enjoy finding the little things that make me a little different. Finding where I sit in the “middle ground” (tbh it’s more like sitting in both grounds) is fascinatingly fun to explore.
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
I listened to man instead of God my whole life they always said homosexuality is not in the Bible or it’s man and child or it’s just love. I was bisexual for 18 years I’m 23 now and I always thought I was born this way until I started questioning if it was okay. It was always in the back of my mind when I was with the same gender and God showed me it wasn’t okay, the reason I like the same gender was because of sexual abuse from the same gender I was 6 and she was my teacher. That is what created me gay and perverted my mind. Jesus will not shame you he loves you all equally so much. He just wants to help you and save you turn to him before it’s too late when he comes back he won’t be merciful anymore. Jesus delivered me from homosexuality, video game addiction, depression, self harm, gay relationship, fear etc… he can to you too. Stop listening to man and start listening and following God read his word (the Bible) and see for yourself or just talk to him and he will show you anything and help you with anything.
@vithanatopraxie Жыл бұрын
@@SaucyCow19 Which Jesus? The one with blond hair, blue eyes?
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
@@vithanatopraxie there is only one Jesus and he is the son of God it does not matter what he looks like but if you truly cared It says in the Bible he is of olive skin so not white and he had brown or green eyes. I do not think he looks white, black, Hispanic etc… at all he was Jewish.
@vithanatopraxie Жыл бұрын
@@SaucyCow19 I absolutely do not agree with you that there is only one Jesus. If I tell you that "my" Jesus is historical and was just an apocaliptic jew prophet(prophecy that never came true), probably died crucified and left on the cross to decompose after his death. Would you say it is the same Jesus as yours? You have the right to have your view of Jesus (inaccurate but hey if it makes you feel happy, good for you). But YOUR Jesus wouldn't like that you weaponize him / your faith to spread hatred on already marginalized groups. You are doing exactly the same unhinged things that you don't like about minorities, forcing your ideology down people throat and I do agree on the fact that this is obnoxious. Live and let people live, that's that simple.
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
@@vithanatopraxie hate to break it to you but there’s only one Jesus and you’re wrong and all your opinions are false. Your opinions or views on how you want “your” Jesus to be is just ignorance, laziness so you don’t have to accept who the real Jesus is. Jesus stood up all over in front of thousands telling them about the kingdom to REPENT, SIN NO MORE, GIVE YOUR LIFE UP AND FOLLOW HIM! That is who Jesus was, is, and is to come accept it or not. You can easily ignore my comment cause God gave you free will no one is forcing anyone you’re just offended. Everyone has a choice to follow Jesus and eternal life or follow Satan and eternal punishment. All unbelievers and believers who reject Jesus and are living in sin their days are not promised people die everyday. I hope Jesus appears in your life and guides you to the truth and to salvation God Bless. In Hosea 4:6, the Lord says, “My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also reject you.”
@Zwhg7 Жыл бұрын
I am a lesbian and my mother was very careful during her pregnancy, i was raised the same. I have a heterosexual twin sister. Everything was normal growing up.
@reefcrow9818 Жыл бұрын
Get help
@Jitlynn Жыл бұрын
@@reefcrow9818 she is fine
@ethem9933 Жыл бұрын
wait are you identical twins?
@rokor3578 Жыл бұрын
@@reefcrow9818 You first
@Iac8 Жыл бұрын
@@Jitlynn no, she's lesbian
@kickflipmaster11694 жыл бұрын
Who else here is gay
@isaiahbelyea27804 жыл бұрын
meeee🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈
@bottombitch74054 жыл бұрын
Hello 🏳️🌈
@4toeffectsproductions6864 жыл бұрын
The meme master here
@rivvy21384 жыл бұрын
@Death is our worst Enemy characteristics of gayness....elaborate.
@samjadps5134 жыл бұрын
Mee
@SlowInfinity Жыл бұрын
I am straight but I am here to understand if gay people are actually different and what makes them different. I just dont want to blindly hate on people like others do.
@insanatty Жыл бұрын
Lol, so you’d rather have the science to back up your hatred??
@SlowInfinity Жыл бұрын
@@insanatty Nah bro, all my friends are just hating on gay people and when I ask the reason then they are clueless. What's the point on hating people if you don't even know the reason what you are hating for? So I will just form my opinion on whether I should hate, support or not indulge in the matter based on my personal research.
@craigyboy7843 Жыл бұрын
Good for you mate. Shame not all people think like you.
@IntegrityMeansAll9 ай бұрын
Often times they were mol. and/or watched p. content in their formative years where their brain was not developed yet (it’s still developing until the late 20ties) and other type of infiltr. Supposedly only very very few men are actually truly born like this and rather socialized/changed.
@IntegrityMeansAll9 ай бұрын
@@SlowInfinityhate is a strong word. Most people don’t just hate, maybe you just perceive it that way because you’re hypersensitive in that particular area. Also keep in mind many people don’t care what practices you engage ij privately but they still want to keep their distance for whatever other reasons. Many people simply feel repulsed by someone being in intimate contact with fec.bacteria all the time also bcuz of the risk of ecoli and many other dangerous horrible diseases that many people don’t want to come in close contact with. It’s not about hate but more about unsanitary/dirty and high risk of diseases to many people which is also a huge turn off. And the more intelligent someone is the more they usually consider all those risks etc
@revvincentowenholland-gonz2949 Жыл бұрын
I'm gay. My two younger brothers are SO straight, so is my older sister. My mom never smoked, nor drank any alcohol. You need to emphasize and re-emphasize that what you presenting is nothing new, they are the same regurgitated THEORIES that are at least 20 years old or more. I don't think my existence needs defending by unproven speculation. I tried living as a straight man married for 27 years, 4 kids, 3 grandkids. I struggled with my sexuality growing up in the 1950s & 60s. I came out at age 48 and it was a huge adjustment. I've been with my husband for 20 years, legally married for the last 8. I would never go back even with the anti-lgbtq bigotry resurfacing in American society.
@TheChippewa775 жыл бұрын
Interesting presentation. However, being familiar with a fair amount of the literature in this area it must be remembered that the studies suggesting both congenital and genetic models are based on very small samples and are very difficult to replicate. The presenter, who does a good job, suggests that this wholesale accepted science, it is not (it may be someday) and ought to be viewed objectively as science dictates.
@happyclam1266 Жыл бұрын
My instinct is not to trust him.
@maikeweige1548 Жыл бұрын
thank you.
@jesterr7133 Жыл бұрын
He mentioned the fact that it was not settled science on several occasions. He said multiple times that the differences have been observed, but the causation had not been fully established. Studies on homosexuality on a neuro-scientific basis have begun relatively recently in the grand scheme of things. It will be decades before anything is fully settled on the matter.
@JCastell1953 Жыл бұрын
@@jesterr7133very interesting.
@niculaelaurentiu1201 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for pointing that out. So many fake scientific presentations on the internet pretending that if a study found a result it's reality.. So far from the truth
@fp5495 Жыл бұрын
I'm too practical a person to have chosen to be gay, BELIEVE me. When God was handing out sexual preferences that day, the last thing I would have decided was to choose the harder way to fit into society. "Hmm, I think I'll choose the one that makes life harder"
@boriskaragiannis Жыл бұрын
good point except the fact god's do not exist...and hey...do not be so sure having to deal with women and the best case scenario in this life...as a heterosexual some times i think homosexual would have been more fun
@ztechnology43344 жыл бұрын
I’m currently a teenager who is confused about there sexuality and watching this did clear some confusion that I had about mental perception. But it almost made me feel like less of a man and how a man should be even though biologically I am male.I think I might be bisexual but my situation is really complicated and I’m just not sure if I actually am. I really really wish I was just 100% straight and “Normal” so I wouldn’t have to deal with any of this confusion which I think is unnecessary and people shouldn’t have to deal with this. I’m know I’m not the most stereotypical “Gay teen” but I do lean more towards the feminine side based on how I present myself. At school people would catch on to this and everyone thought that I’m most likely gay. Just to add, I have one very close best friend that is male and people at school have asked questions like “Are you dating him?” Even though he is just a friend and I have never thought about him in that way. Also I live in a very conservative part of the country were there is no gay people that have came out in my school and practically nobody fits the stereotype of being gay. I feel like I will always wish that I was strictly straight and never questioned anything. In my situation it’s so hard to accept who I am and I now don’t even want to accept it.
@deniserobalo87373 жыл бұрын
hey, have you figured it out yet?
@butimar683 жыл бұрын
give yourself time and let your heart leads you. sometimes a deep connection with another person can give you many answers. we're heart and soul too, not only body. best of luck in your inner search.
@Scar-jg4bn Жыл бұрын
Been there, done that; life gets way better. 🏳️🌈
@gohotboy Жыл бұрын
I think the sex of the person you are thinking intimately about on your verge of ejaculation is a good indicator of your orientation. Short form is "your penis knows what it likes". There is no urgency to decide, so take your time and try to develop into the best human you can be. I think there is a whole 0-6 point Kinsey scale of hetero/homo. and you can be attracted to both. 0 = exclusively heterosexual and 6 = exclusively homosexual.
@moolcazy3805 Жыл бұрын
Same Hate how life's so confusing
@TheEarthRealm3 жыл бұрын
My brain is 100% male, normal testosterone levels, but I still like both men and women. 🤷🏿♂️ I can't help but notice that you completely left all of us bisuexual people out of the equation. Also, everyone just assumes I'm straight, but most straight men secretly want to 'experiment' with hot guys.
@jayf88713 жыл бұрын
Sexuality is a biological predisposition. There are still environmental and psychological factors. Also, how are you so sure what your brain is? Have you had MRI confirmation?
@TheEarthRealm3 жыл бұрын
@@jayf8871 Because I'm male, genius.
@TheEarthRealm3 жыл бұрын
@@jayf8871 **biologically male. Bye.
@jayf88713 жыл бұрын
@@TheEarthRealm just because you make doesn’t mean your brain structures aren’t feminized.
@TheEarthRealm3 жыл бұрын
@@jayf8871 Even playing along with 'gender identity' ideology, I've still always *felt* (as the kids say these days) like my male self.
@haggaigertz5 жыл бұрын
Maybe the best video on the subject: precise, clear, well documented, quoting the sources...biasless.. thank you for share.
@beatifulMovie3 жыл бұрын
That easy
@beatifulMovie3 жыл бұрын
Love does not meet expect between the heart of a man and a woman
@fhchbigdft10173 жыл бұрын
@@beatifulMovie That's wrong and don't bring ur religion to science
@danielcrescini1133 жыл бұрын
I'm gay but I probably love my boyfriend way more that you with your wife
@TimesUhave2BA_radicalintellect3 жыл бұрын
@@danielcrescini113 or maybe you don’t
@jmrocks49 Жыл бұрын
I wish those who are anti-gay, anti-trans, and anti anything other than a strictly male/female heterosexual world, would listen to this video. They may not understand all the technical terms and processes, but they certainly should be able to recognize that sexual identity is multi-faceted and that conversion therapy, Bible thumping, and general hatred of anyone different than they are will NEVER change a thing about a person’s sexuality, whom they love, or how they express that love.
@Bliss-l1t Жыл бұрын
They sadly don't care about actual science passed their own beliefs
@ضياء-ف6ط Жыл бұрын
I am not anti gay and anti trans ,etc... but they cant force me to respect their choices and their idendity
@ضياء-ف6ط Жыл бұрын
I have my life and they have their lifes just let them away from me
@ضياء-ف6ط Жыл бұрын
Own*
@jmrocks49 Жыл бұрын
@@ضياء-ف6ط I suppose by “they” you mean gay. The interesting thing about your comment is that you deal with gay people every day. The straightest appearing man can very well be gay, and I’ve know some men with what may be called “gay” mannerisms to be very straight. It amazes me when “straight” men find out a friend of theirs is gay, the relationship can change-I don’t know why because the guy was gay all the time they knew him.
@Eliaflute4 жыл бұрын
This video is just so useful! Awesome job, the argumentation was very well planned and connected, thank you so much!
@kokokol7003 жыл бұрын
Are we considering tho the impact of growing up homosexual in a heteronormative society? How the brain would adapt itself to overcome the absence of recognition and representation?
@boredalchemist3 жыл бұрын
the important part is at 11:28 onwards where he explains that its not proven and they are just making conclusions
@jamiefranklin37543 жыл бұрын
I knew there was some biological/ nature drive to me being gay. Makes sense, I have been a tomboy since I could remember & felt more comfortable around boys because I would get insane crushes on girls growing up.
@katwilliams29503 жыл бұрын
LoL I was the exact opposite. I was definitely different from other girls and had guy friends but I couldn't get close to guys like I did girls. Crushes were just my best friends
@ijansk2 жыл бұрын
You are conflating sexual orientation with gender expression. The fact that you are a tomboy has nothing to do with homosexuality. Any woman, regardless of sexual orientation, can be a tomboy.
@StephfUck2 жыл бұрын
@@katwilliams2950 SAME
@katwilliams29502 жыл бұрын
@@StephfUck hahaha your username is the same as my gf and I had to take a double take at first
@StephfUck2 жыл бұрын
@@katwilliams2950 AHAHHAAH you just made my day lmao
@dan69052 Жыл бұрын
helpful information If you are gay or transgender and know someone who is, this is important information! Sexual orientation is determined in the womb during fetus development. Various hormones are introduced at specific times to accomplish this. The fetus plays no part in this process. A person is born with predetermined physical, biological & psychologic features. It is, therefore, not a choice & consequently not a sin & not immoral. It is a natural path of our evolution & found commonplace in nature. Medical research in this area clearly explains this process. Those who believe it is an abomination do so based not on facts but on religious authority. It is their right to believe this and I understand them. It must be made clear however, it is based on religion not science. If you are truly interested in the truth based on knowledge, the book Gay, Straight & the Reason Why by Dr. Simon Levay explains this with numerous research articles. If you want to understand the truth & have respect for others & yourself, this book will help. It also has, unlike the bible written over 2000 years ago by men that had no understanding of science, an extensive bibliography. I strongly recommend the book. If you chose to respond to me, please read this book &/or the numerous articles referred to in the reference section before hand. The public must be exposed to facts & knowledge. It is an obligation for those who know the truth & must defend it. Don’t let the religious pull you down to their level of ignorance. Peace
@susandrakenviller3683 Жыл бұрын
The only problem is religious people, let’s say men, thinking when they stick their penis in a woman they are somehow blessed and do some holy act, whereas if they do it to a man they go to hell. It’s dumb and hateful and how a person becomes gay is irrelevant to me. It doesn’t matter if someone has a choice or not or if its wired in the brain, its not bad. The only thing that is bad is this judgmental part of religion. Would be more interested to see the brains of people that have these backward thoughts.
@gabrellfabian6704 жыл бұрын
I finally got the whole idea of homosexuality scientifically,,,, thanks helped a lot keep the great work up
@Theo-tc2pl2 жыл бұрын
He knows nothing Nothing scientifically prouved Some st8 turn gay in their 40 60 70 Some after a deception So it means that the possibility always existed latently , and on day something Triggered the change Most of these studies are homophobic Or religious payds
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
I listened to man instead of God my whole life they always said homosexuality is not in the Bible or it’s man and child or it’s just love. I was bisexual for 18 years I’m 23 now and I always thought I was born this way until I started questioning if it was okay. It was always in the back of my mind when I was with the same gender and God showed me it wasn’t okay, the reason I like the same gender was because of sexual abuse from the same gender I was 6 and she was my teacher. That is what created me gay and perverted my mind. Jesus will not shame you he loves you all equally so much. He just wants to help you and save you turn to him before it’s too late when he comes back he won’t be merciful anymore. Jesus delivered me from homosexuality, video game addiction, depression, self harm, gay relationship, fear etc… he can to you too. Stop listening to man and start listening and following God read his word (the Bible) and see for yourself or just talk to him and he will show you anything and help you with anything.
@LilSailorrr10 ай бұрын
Firstly, the thought of choosing your sexual orientation doesn't make sense to me and never has (I'm Gay). I'm a bit of a scientist myself, so when talking about homosexuality I always ask the other person, "Did you choose to be straight, or did you simply always know you we're attracted to men/women?" The answer has never been yes, everytime I ask, they always say I am just attracted to men/women and always have been. Well, it's the same for me, I've simply always known I'm attracted to men, and the possibility of me being attracted to women has never occured to me. When I speak with other gay people regarding homosexuality, they said the same thing, some have questioned whether they actually liked women or not, but they have all explained that they simply have always liked men, negating the possibility of a choice, everyone seems to know. I think that the answer to homosexuality is alot more simple than that which we ponder. Perhaps, sexuality is simply a scale and we lie wherever we lie. The brain is obviously wired differently, and there are obvious discrepancies when observing a homosexual and heterosexual neurological system, but thats not to say its irregular. You can compare somthing like OCD (which I have) and Homosexuality. 2.3% of the world has OCD, imteresting. It's estimated about 21% of the world is homosexual or bisexual. It may not seem like much but 2.3% of the world having a known neurological disorder, and 20% being Homosexual, is a huge difference, and could infer that it's nothing more than just a scale that different individuals lie on.
@JESUSistheWORDJn15 жыл бұрын
Love this I was an RN a lifetime ago and alot of these studies are so scientifically worded that to explain it someone outside of the medical field is EXHUASTING. This is well spoken understandable and truly brilliant!!! thank u
@doncooper47292 жыл бұрын
alot is spelt a lot fyi
@TheEarthRealm Жыл бұрын
That's because it's not based in scientific fact.
@gemsstr7933 Жыл бұрын
I had an experience with a friend when we were teenagers. We were wrestling and his hand grazed my junk, and long story short, we both got each other off. BUT the weird thing was we didn't feel it was gay. Really just an experience. It did however open me up sexually to dudes. But I still don't feel like I'm gay. Would that put me on a bi spectrum?.... This vid was great!
@Susan_R Жыл бұрын
@@TheEarthRealm There is no such thing as "scientific fact."
@TheEarthRealm Жыл бұрын
@@Susan_R Say something else stupid. 😂 Go ahead, I'll wait... 🍿
@DarkHillsHound Жыл бұрын
I was bisexual during puberty but as those hormones settled down, I became almost exclusively gay. So I identify as just gay now. This video is giving me a little bit of imposter syndrome now.
@marknikovvelesky296011 ай бұрын
Why are you gay?
@womanpower497411 ай бұрын
bi cycle
@Rae.Jac-Knowledge10 ай бұрын
I'm gay and born this way. And I get tired of this constant debate of whether or not someone is born gay. I'm 35 years old and I knew when I was three or four that I was different. Not in any other way. Not in some perverted way like people like to think is the case with the fact that I like to wear boys clothes at a young age being a girl and I screamed if I was in a dress. There's nothing crazier to it than that. I didn't know anything else until I got of age and then I knew what a crush was and I did crush on girls being a girl. So thank you for this video. Because it is the most aggravating thing that I come across in my life are people who think they know what they're talking about when they talk about us.
@Carlosr2rp4 жыл бұрын
I don’t like to be homossexual. It’s too much suffering. More than I can handle. I have depression that has no cure. I try to understand why I am like this. But it seems it’s just a matter of bad luck. When someone says I had an atypical development that makes me sad and I wish I didn’t exist!
@beerbatov4 жыл бұрын
dude just enjoy life, you're overthinking it
@Carlosr2rp4 жыл бұрын
beerbatov I don’t know what’s your sexuality. What I can tell is that when one is born homossexual one will overthink everyday of life. What’s wrong with me? I am different, why? I don’t like that! No one must know about it! What will happen if someone finds out? What my family will do to me? Nothing will be the same. I don’t want to get hit! I will never be happy! Why the world is so hostile? Why people are so stupid and aggressive about it? Should I tell friends? What will happen if I tell anyone? That’s what we overthink while we are talking about ordinary things with friends and family things. Sometimes we are smiling but screaming inside! I wish I could simply enjoy life right now, but after 30 years screaming inside, denying my thoughts and my feelings I just don’t know how to deal with it. I feel like I have created a character to interact with other people. I feel like I don’t know who I am. I have hidden myself harder and harder and harder that I don’t have a mental basis to enjoy anything. Every time I am about to feel any joy the same time my brain starts to process that it’s not real. I guess when you suffer for such a long time you get used to suffering. It becomes a part of who you are. Furthermore if you get told all the time for so many years that something is a shame, dirty, filthy, indecent, ridiculous, an abomination and dangerous it’s really hard to feel good about it even after you are grown enough to know the truth! You are living a lie for so long time that the truth is painful and strange! Is it worthy to live like that? I am sorry if I am being annoying! But simply enjoy life is a matter of choice not for everyone!
@dawsoncarpenter22444 жыл бұрын
Carlos Tavares you just have to accept the fact you can’t change it so you might as well just accept it and live your life don’t let it get in the way
@gentlemanfox13264 жыл бұрын
I love being gay! Best sexuality ever!
@r.m.pereira59584 жыл бұрын
@@Carlosr2rp We must accept what we can't change. That's the biggest life lesson I can give to anyone. If we don't accept things as they are then we won't be happy. Is it worth not being happy? No. And a depression is not homosexuality's fault. It's the society that has to learn and being tolerant. Don't massacre yourself with those thoughts. Are those thoughts useful? No. So don't think them. It's a big mental exercise, but try to surround yourself with friends, activities that you enjoy, a boyfriend, whatever. And remember that there are people who are born with conditions that are much worse. We gay people, nature made us this way, so let's enjoy the best we can.
@johnathanstevens8436 Жыл бұрын
After reading at least one teen here say, "I hope I'm not less of a man" I would say that being a man is less about WHO you are intimate with and more about HOW you treat yourself and the people you care about .. the men I admire the most are the ones that use whatever strength or power they've been endowed with to encourage people, to protect the vulnerable, to lift people up instead of tearing ourselves and others down. The stereotypes aren't real, I know a sea captain who can swear like a sailor, works his fingers to the bone, but still enjoys knitting .. so whatever.. as long as you aren't being hurtful or abusive, just be you .. people will either like you or they won't, that's okay .. I would rather have a handful of loyal friends than a thousand "acquaintances" that I barely know.
@robertmeyer7836 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jonathan! I'm 85 and have lived with this "blessing" all my life. I don't consider myself to be "cursed", quite to the contrary! Your word are true and wise; I probably say that because they reflect my thoughts and values to a "T".
@johnathanstevens8436 Жыл бұрын
@@robertmeyer7836 thanks for the encouragement. For God knows what reason I've been watching a lot of videos about men and women who were abused as boys and girls and I really needed to hear some kind words today. 🙏 I am so glad you have such wisdom and a positive outlook on life. The only thing I've ever wanted even when I was young is just to love people and be loved. It never mattered to me what was between their legs. Hormones did complicate that a bit but I still feel the same way. Every day is a good day for healing.
@muzzcovw7674 Жыл бұрын
SO well said! I'm a gay man who is quite masculine... restored the car in my avatar and have a blue collar job, but will cry my eyes out watching the latest Asian B.L. drama and get totally triggered when I see people abusing others
@johnathanstevens8436 Жыл бұрын
@@muzzcovw7674 been though some, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It's not fun, but the more people can talk about it and work on healing, the better I think I ultimately just want people to be as happy and healthy as they can be.
@gus6910 Жыл бұрын
Your understanding of science is insane, far better than nearly all of the professors I know at my uni and all the guys on youtube too.
@johanncross7 жыл бұрын
Amazing work! You speak quite nicely - clear english, graphic video, talked about little details, and the most important: gave us the references. Keep up the good work - this kind of dedication deserves thousands of views!
@happyclam1266 Жыл бұрын
lol
@nikita5662 Жыл бұрын
Well the earliest memory I can remember is me admiring girl stuffs and men. I have a brother 2 years older than me and we raised in same environment but he is very straight. When I was younger i felt normal until someone told me in school and told me Im gay and that its not normal. Thats when I started to question my myself. I even tried to act like straight and hide my femininity when I was between 11 To 13. Because of the stress and pressure, I became very introvert , spent of my time alone questioning myself that i developed a bad habit of pulling my hair called trichotillomania. When I was in highschool i get tired of hiding or pretending so I slowly letting it out because I am more productive being me. I wished i was born straight so I dont have to face these bullyings but it is what it is.. This is how my brain is wired .
@gabrielmendez4349 Жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid to tell someone you feel you can trust and get help. Take your time to understand yourself and don't be afraid to be who you are. It's okay if your friend circle gets a little smaller as there's plenty more people out there who are kind and accepting. If you can, find friends who might be able to relate to you, who know how it feels to be "in the closet" and/or in the process of coming out. You got this! I believe in you!
@benbill8739 Жыл бұрын
We all wish if we were born heterosexual, the life will be much much easier, I personally consider homosexuality as a handicap in life, like any other physical handicap a person can born with it and should deal with it all his life… even the openly gay people suffer from that but don’t show, also the so called tolerant heterosexual who tell them there is no thing wrong, you are just normal, no one of them wants his to see own child born homosexual… sad but it’s our reality 😢
@nikita5662 Жыл бұрын
@@benbill8739 well said. Exactly how i felt. It hurts most when people tell us its our choice. 🙄
@craigyboy7843 Жыл бұрын
@@benbill8739 That is myself in a nutshell. I hate being bisexual, and have a physical disability. I can accept my disability, but to make me bi too? I have found it mentally tortorous most of my life. I am better better with it these days. I cannot ever change my sexuality, so I try not to beat myself up about it. It has only taken 30 years to get to this way of thinking haha.
@Ghost_Hybrid Жыл бұрын
You don't have to accept a "gay identity" or "straight identity" or LGBTQIA+ specification. These sorts of labels more often than not reduce you to an avatar of a stereotype. Just be yourself, love who you love and insist on being treated with the same respect and dignity you show to others. Focus on your physical, mental and financial health, and surround yourself with friends who live out the values, morals and beliefs you want to internalize. No one should feel a need to accept an abusive situation. Take action to change your situation, and never be afraid of asking for help. Life does not come with an instruction manual sadly, but tapping into the experience of someone who has navigated similar challenges can save you a lot of pain. We don't all have to learn life's lessons the hard way, or brave the wilds alone. We can learn from others, and sometimes Frodo needs a Gandalf or Sam to lean on.
@musicandfanart5787 Жыл бұрын
Your video wasn’t terrible, but it could be better. 1. You stress how homosexuality isn’t “normal”, and how it’s because of “disruptions” in the womb. That might be true, but you could’ve worded it in a better way. 2. Where are the other sexualities? I’m not straight or gay, but bisexual. What’s the science behind that? 3. You said in your video that everyone experiences sexual attraction, but many asexuals actually don’t. 4. Not all gay people are the same, and the only thing they all have in common is in fact their sexuality. Many of us LGBT people might share some traits, but not all. I definitely have a gaydar, but some of us can seem “straighter” than others, and we can’t just guess what everyone is. All in all you had some points, but it could’ve been worded in a much better way.
@Weiya-qm6jz Жыл бұрын
Great video, as a homosexual woman with an interest in Neuroscience and Psychology I always wondered.
@cradica Жыл бұрын
I'm not entirely sure if it's based on genes. After falling down a rabbit hole of porn related content I started developing gay kinks. Now I think I may be bi but I prefer not to categorize myself
@melon_choly Жыл бұрын
@@cradicaNot everyone is a porn addict. My attraction to the same sex has always been there all my life
@cradica Жыл бұрын
@@melon_choly I'm not anymore I just happened to stumble across it.
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
I listened to man instead of God my whole life they always said homosexuality is not in the Bible or it’s man and child or it’s just love. I was bisexual for 18 years I’m 23 now and I always thought I was born this way until I started questioning if it was okay. It was always in the back of my mind when I was with the same gender and God showed me it wasn’t okay, the reason I like the same gender was because of sexual abuse from the same gender I was 6 and she was my teacher. That is what created me gay and perverted my mind. Jesus will not shame you he loves you all equally so much. He just wants to help you and save you turn to him before it’s too late when he comes back he won’t be merciful anymore. Jesus delivered me from homosexuality, video game addiction, depression, self harm, gay relationship, fear etc… he can to you too. Stop listening to man and start listening and following God read his word (the Bible) and see for yourself or just talk to him and he will show you anything and help you with anything.
@deaththekid3998 Жыл бұрын
@@SaucyCow19sis, you’re the one who needs help
@mehran28774 жыл бұрын
Bisexual,asexual? I think it has a lot to do with group and evolutionary biology
@sunshinemilkshake91524 жыл бұрын
Mehran Dolatkhah So you saying liking both genders and not wanting to have sex is connected to group and evolutionary biology? Please explain how and wtf you think that.
@mehran28774 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry if it offends you . But as it is seen among other species too. Bisexuals tend to have a stronger relationship with their group .and as for asexuality I think it benefits the whole group to lack sexual interests because it will be helpful for raising other children within their social group which have been born and lack the maternal care and support due to the number of children. I am not saying the whole porpuse of LGBTQA+ community is to serve other straight pairs raise children.( I am a part of the community).but from a theoretical standpoint this is what I think natural selection leads to .for the best
@sunshinemilkshake91524 жыл бұрын
Mehran Dolatkhah Oh ok, and yeah that actually makes sense ( not being sarcastic. )
@chrisa.k.a.pandagaybro57784 жыл бұрын
Hi Chris from South Africa here! Evolutionary biologist in training. What youre referring to is known as the "gay uncle" theory and it has substantial evidence supporting it, however, the theory is still being debated. Basically the outline of the theory is that homosexuality acts as social glue among social animals! Think of it as an ant colony phenomenon... Where the queen can selectively uncoil certain dna strands to either birth worker or soldier ants. It is being speculated that this may somehow be the case with humans and other soecies as well...think about it... Gay people tend to have very distinct personality traits unique to them... If a mother is subjected to lots of stress and other factors then it is likely she will give birth to a gay child... A social glue so to speak. Hope this helps😁
@chrisa.k.a.pandagaybro57784 жыл бұрын
Oh sorry saw you were talking about asexuality as well. This is not really being investigated as of yet as we still have much to understand about the evolutionary and biochemistry involved in homosexuality alone. Asexuality is a bit hard to explain and comprehend with respect to evolutionary biology simply because it seems counterproductive to the biological norm of reproducing and passing on genetic traits to the next of kin. Sorry for not reading properly the first time😂
@simonmccullough9424 жыл бұрын
I wish you’d touch on the topic of identical twins.... 75% of identical twins have the same sexual orientation, gay as straight. But what about the other 25%? If the development of the brain is identical but still can be developed into “one gay” and “one straight” twin. How does that work? What do you think?
@GavinAlexander.4 жыл бұрын
"Identical" twins are not actually genetically identical. The term is a misnomer.
@simonmccullough9424 жыл бұрын
Gavin Alexander ops I’m sorry. That might be true. Although the term for twins that share the same egg and sperm is “identical twins” and not just twins. And I wanted to be specific on what type of twins we were talking about. Even though if they aren’t genetically identical it sure is the closest it could be. And as written 75% of “identical twins”, share the same sexual orientation. Which is interesting since it might show that you’re born gay, which I strongly believe. That percentage is not the same in “non identical twins”. What are your thoughts on that Gavin? /
@GavinAlexander.4 жыл бұрын
@@simonmccullough942 I don't have any thoughts on it. I was just trying to stress the fact that "identical" twins are not actually genetically identical. So the usage of "identical" can lead some to assume they are identically the same, therefore, leading one to wrongly conclude that both would/should have the exact same orientation, genes, brain structure..etc.
@jayf88713 жыл бұрын
Read up on the prenatal hormone theory. Sex hormones during brain development probably influence the sex differences in the brain. Twins are identical genetically, but hormonal environments aren’t.
@willnye9788 Жыл бұрын
I had this discussion with a few twins, twins usually involve identical appearances (usually) but they are not 100% the same. I don't want to go too much into detail but it involves genitalia (the penis/scrotum). What I have noticed is, it has to do with probability when it comes to twins. The first born is more likely to be gay depending on how many boy births the Mother had, the probability is low if it's one of the first. Almost always, the second twin is different than the first especially with triplets. As a result, the chance of the first twin straight and the 2nd gay is extremely high.
@mariag83244 жыл бұрын
I’m lesbian. My family and friends say I’m too beautiful and get mad when lots of guys go after me after me just being normal. If my sweat has pheromones of another straight man why do they go after me. If I smell more like them why do I get extra unwanted attention from nowhere?
@antonioalmanza80814 жыл бұрын
You have Woman sweat, woman sweat brings both Straight Men and Gay Women. The chart indicates that each sweat coming from different bodies attract a straight one and a gay one. Remember gay indicates they have the opposite brain, Gay Men have Straight Female Brain, so, Gay Men are attracted to MEN SWEAT.
@andretasse16074 жыл бұрын
So, does that mean there is no such things as straight sweat and gay sweat, then?
@antonioalmanza80814 жыл бұрын
@@andretasse1607 yup, only female and male. Gay men have female receptors (they will like male sweat)
@toyosioyejobi3094 жыл бұрын
Maybe because you are a woman who us suppised to pair with a mab to produce life as it should be
@MrDANGitall4 жыл бұрын
Easy peasy - Men are attracted to the overall LOOKS, first, then everything else. We don't need to sense your sweat from across the room.
@Pengalen3 жыл бұрын
So, anecdote, I, a gay man, have cognitive abilities (per the chart around 15:40) more like a straight man. Also I am an INTP, which is a more "masculine" type, especially in the sense that more men have this type than women. I'm not sure how you're measuring verbal fluency. I'm actually pretty good with linguistics, but I'm pretty terrible at actually verbally expressing myself unless it is something I am super familiar with, or have rehearsed a thousand times. I think this has more to do with being an introvert than with my sexuality.
@goldenrothrock55163 жыл бұрын
I wonder if this has anything to do with Top or bottom preference too. Tops always seem more masculine I guess.
@Johnprize282 жыл бұрын
Why are you adding MBTI??? It’s an undeveloped theory, not proven scientific.
@pixelandbeat Жыл бұрын
I know that mbti isn't scientifically proven but I'm an intp aswell and I can say I pretty much feel identified with your comment lol
@naughtyducky6325 Жыл бұрын
@@goldenrothrock5516false I’m a bottom and more “Masc”
@gabrielmendez4349 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@Oli_the_Alien5 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that this video exists. Great to have reliable information at hand when you become curious about unusual topics. Thank you. But there is one question I have that is still unanswered. What about bisexual brains? Is there even a thing like this? How does it look like and how does it differentiate from the gay and straight brain? As I am bisexual myself that's something I am still really interested in.
@terrylunsford3525 жыл бұрын
Good question.
@ethaan18544 жыл бұрын
yeah I legit thought my brain was going nuts when I saw my f u t u r e b o y f r e i n d
@contemporaryspectrumoperat90804 жыл бұрын
i love this question you ask...perfect
@sunshinemilkshake91524 жыл бұрын
Jolly Hackz *NO.*
@darrentan80164 жыл бұрын
When someone is bisexual, then there is the "nurture" factor. In psychology we always discuss Nature or Nurture. Of course this video talks about the "nature" effect, which explains why gay people are biologically wired in this way, and no matter how hard they are exposed to environmental influences, u cant change them. But not the same for bisexual.
@patrickbennett439 Жыл бұрын
As a man, I wish all other men were gay because then Id get to have all the women, at least the straight ones!
@alexandrulupusor3969 Жыл бұрын
As a gay person, I don’t think the verbal fluency applies to me😂. I’m pretty bad at talking, but my mental rotation and spatial perception are actually great. Who knows maybe I’m bisexual and didn’t find out yet.
@Psychol-Snooper Жыл бұрын
Do you like sports? Do you love strong women?
@muzzcovw7674 Жыл бұрын
@@Psychol-Snooper LOL how does that apply?? I love sports, appreciate working with strong women (and men) and absolutely no bisexuality here. I've never met a woman where I said I could be aroused by her
@Psychol-Snooper Жыл бұрын
@@muzzcovw7674 Are you confused at the concepts of questions? Do you want to know how a question directed at someone else applies to you? Do you really want to talk about yourself today, princesa? "I've never met a woman where I said I could be aroused by her." Verbal fluency? More like verbal diarrhea.
@dhruvbhatnagar4180 Жыл бұрын
One thing I have always found problematic with neurological/ prenatal developmental theories to homosexuality is that they suggest that same sex attraction is an abberation; a defect which shouldn't have occured. But if upto 10% of the population is gay, how is this so called "defective" trait occuring so consistently? More recent theories which suggest that homosexuality may be a natural variation of sexual behaviour - caused by a multiplicity of factors - seem more plausible to me.
@CBatista1234 Жыл бұрын
Homosexuality occurs consistently in between 4 to 5 percent of the general population.
@raulantunez42284 жыл бұрын
I’ve always wondered this because in natural selection, homosexuality would have ended a long time ago. But still here I am completely unable to stop fantasizing about guys. So scientifically, why is this still a thing?
@GavinAlexander.4 жыл бұрын
There is no reason to assume natural selection would have eliminated this.
@raulantunez42284 жыл бұрын
Gavin Alexander I’m not an expert in science but I’ve heard other people say that natural selection would do so.
@GavinAlexander.4 жыл бұрын
@@raulantunez4228 Based on what rationale?
@raulantunez42284 жыл бұрын
Gavin Alexander they said it was because not having children would be a flaw to natural selection. Let’s say you’re part of a small tribe and if half of them were gay it would probably end the tribe’s existence in a generation or two.
@GavinAlexander.4 жыл бұрын
@@raulantunez4228 *"Gavin Alexander they said it was because not having children would be a flaw to natural selection."* Not necessarily. There are numerous traits and/or biological conditions that hamper and/or impede reproduction. Infertility among heterosexuals is a factual occurrence. If nature and natural selection weeded out any and all traits and/or biological conditions that negatively affect reproduction, then this would not occur. So any claim that natural selection absolutely zeros in on, and eliminates traits and/or biological conditions which hamper and/or impede reproduction, is demonstrably false. *"Let’s say you’re part of a small tribe and if half of them were gay it would probably end the tribe’s existence in a generation or two."* You just constructed a false scenario. Same-sex attraction only occurs in an estimated 2-6% of the population. Not 100%, not 50%. So the scenario which has been constructed to make the point doesn't represent reality or what occurs in nature, therefore, is not a valid argument to present in defense of your claim regarding natural selection.
@BoardroomBuddha Жыл бұрын
On a related note, the hypothalamus also regulates handedness, which is why gay men are 4x more likely to be left-handed than straight men. It's also a perfect analogy for homosexuality. You are born left-handed, but it is the circumstances around you that allow you to express it. In the past left-handedness was perceived as sinister or a mental defect.
@franciscodesdeecuador62944 жыл бұрын
Honor to goodness, all these brain architectural features, whether similar or different, are still human traits
@mironstrelov9856 Жыл бұрын
This video is proof that you cannot explain human behaviour simply trough neuroscience because you will get to wrong conclusion. Most of the time you cannot tell the difference between gay and straight man by behaviour, and you didnt mention neuroplasticity as an integral part of brain development, also there were gays in same percantage as today long before cigarets and drugs. I dont think this theory is entirely wrong, but defenetly flawed.
@mironstrelov9856 Жыл бұрын
And it doesnt include bisexuals
@i.est.del2991 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been crazy about boys since the 5th grade. I remember being genuinely attracted physically and emotionally for the first time at that point, to a boy in my year who had grown particularly close to me. Since then, regardless of the societal pressure to stay hidden or attempt to change myself on moral grounds, I have been unapologetically gay. I dated a few girls in high school in order to make my social situation easier in an extremely religious and conservative community. But, behind the scenes, I spent most of my time fantasizing about the boys who surrounded me and acting on my fantasies with willing partners…Haha, good times. College was incredibly important to me, as it was the first time I truly allowed myself to be publicly gay and affectionate with other young men in a way that didn’t prioritize hiding oneself and one’s relationships from those closest to me. I was privileged enough to study abroad in France during my time at university and had the immense privilege of living in a socially progressive city where I could be even more open. My open homosexuality wasn’t a big deal to the Europeans. In contrast, I’ve not understood the American obsession with other people’s sexualities since my time abroad. Our obsession with sex is a strange, unhealthy and uncomfortable attitude that seems to permeate just about everything we do in the US. At this point, regardless of what the science says, I know I am forever and irrevocably gay, and not by choice. I choose to live my life freely and how I wish, finding intimacy and romantic/physical fulfillment with other men as a proud homosexual. I sincerely hope that the obsession with homosexuality from those who attempt to control and categorize the world from an ideological vantage point dissipates. In any case, to anyone reading, I would recommend accepting yourself, and if possible, relocating your life to an area that is socially progressive. It’s just not worth it to spend your life among those who will never be able to reconcile your sexuality. It’s a dry and empty life, the life of a gay man surrounded by right-wing cultural conservatives and religious folk. Find your chosen family in a place that doesn’t give two s**ts about who you sleep with or love and live your best life!
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
I listened to man instead of God my whole life they always said homosexuality is not in the Bible or it’s man and child or it’s just love. I was bisexual for 18 years I’m 23 now and I always thought I was born this way until I started questioning if it was okay. It was always in the back of my mind when I was with the same gender and God showed me it wasn’t okay, the reason I like the same gender was because of sexual abuse from the same gender I was 6 and she was my teacher. That is what created me gay and perverted my mind. Jesus will not shame you he loves you all equally so much. He just wants to help you and save you turn to him before it’s too late when he comes back he won’t be merciful anymore. Jesus delivered me from homosexuality, video game addiction, depression, self harm, gay relationship, fear etc… he can to you too. Stop listening to man and start listening and following God read his word (the Bible) and see for yourself or just talk to him and he will show you anything and help you with anything.
@michaelcherokee8906 Жыл бұрын
Accepting yourself as you are is a good start, but keep in mind that you are not and never will be perfect. You always have room for improvement, even when you are justified in being proud of yourself. One of the things I find quite odd, and that may be a area of possible improvement, is this idea of gay pride. How absurd. Flip the script and think about how ridiculous it would be for a straight person to claim straight pride. Sexual orientation is (probably) an intrinsic inborn trait. Pride in that is inapplicable. Secondly, please judge people as individuals, not as groups. There are plenty of just swell conservatives and religious people. Also, religions are dead. A religion is a set of rules that are impossible to fulfill, that you must fulfill in order to EARN your way into whatever nice afterlife is relevant to that religion. There was, however, one person who was God Himself, embodied as a human, who made for us a way to spend eternity with Him, so that we dont have to earn our way there.
@capt_toad78904 жыл бұрын
Well done!! I love how you organized this!
@kalatapie Жыл бұрын
My hypothesis is that homosexuality, transsexualism, etc. Are a type of neurodiversity where, similar to how in the Autistic brain certain layers are "switched" leading to social underdevelopment and greater sensitivity to stimuly, the brains of gay people are "wired" to feel the attraction of the opposite gender. Or with transsexuals, they are wired to expect that they will be born into a different body. I believe that in time neuroscience will advance enough to confirm my hypothesis and once this understanding is reached all of those "gay virus" / extreme religious folk will be silenced once and for all. Scientific evidence that being LGBTQ+ is not a choise, nobody is coming for your children and the whole gay propaganda thing is a lie spread by fascist extremists.
@slobo1987 Жыл бұрын
But where does bisexuality fit in here? That must be a complete chaos of traits from anywhere 😊 A very good and informational video 👏
@SaucyCow19 Жыл бұрын
I listened to man instead of God my whole life they always said homosexuality is not in the Bible or it’s man and child or it’s just love. I was bisexual for 18 years I’m 23 now and I always thought I was born this way until I started questioning if it was okay. It was always in the back of my mind when I was with the same gender and God showed me it wasn’t okay, the reason I like the same gender was because of sexual abuse from the same gender I was 6 and she was my teacher. That is what created me gay and perverted my mind. Jesus will not shame you he loves you all equally so much. He just wants to help you and save you turn to him before it’s too late when he comes back he won’t be merciful anymore. Jesus delivered me from homosexuality, video game addiction, depression, self harm, gay relationship, fear etc… he can to you too. Stop listening to man and start listening and following God read his word (the Bible) and see for yourself or just talk to him and he will show you anything and help you with anything.
@ahse479 Жыл бұрын
I'd like to ask the same...
@cyrilmauras42478 ай бұрын
@@SaucyCow19 - Sorry for you having been brainwashed by homophobia in the church. Homosexuality is present throughout the animal kingdom. It is natural and normal. Homophobia is also genetic, and the heterosexual majority is wrong to say homosexuality is abnormal. God makes people either LGBTQIA+ or straight. Science has found that our sexuality and gender identity is genetic and is wired in our brains between conception and birth by the genes and chromosomes we get from out parents. Psalm 139:13-16 (KJV) For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are thy works: and that my soul knoweth right well. My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continu- ance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them. Also in John 1:3 (KJV) All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. Jesus said: 'And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.' (John 8:32 KJV)
@alexhjc84 жыл бұрын
So if I'm bi, both of my amygdala are big. if that's true, it'd explain my anxiety issues.
@teehee40962 жыл бұрын
@@JOK4AllTime such an ignorant comment. where do you get this information?
@greengorillah Жыл бұрын
My mother took diethylstilbestrol during her pregnancy. I always wondered if that hormone like substance might have caused me to turn out gay? There is also a subset of people (both male and female) where I can tell that they are gay by looking at their facial features. Btw in this documentary I find that things are often looked at from a rather gay vs straight perspective, what about bisexual people I wonder?
@lynnbaker2336 Жыл бұрын
Not trying to sound stereotypical, but, many lesbians have masculine looking faces.
@greengorillah Жыл бұрын
@@lynnbaker2336 Some stereotypes might (in part) be based on reality I guess... It would make for some interesting research, though one would have to compensate for things like hairstyles, make-up and jewelery as they can make a face appear more or less masculine / feminine too.
@wafflewaffle8529 Жыл бұрын
I remember there was an AI project that was able to guess sexual orientation fairly accurately with just a picture of one’s face
@greengorillah Жыл бұрын
@@wafflewaffle8529 Yes have heard about that as well, pretty scary when you ask me.
@lynnbaker2336 Жыл бұрын
@greengorillah yes, that's true, but I have seen alot of lesbians, whose normal facial features were very masculine! I've seen it with gay men,too, but moreso with lesbians. Have you ever noticed how much like a little boy Chaz Bono looked? I never noticed until he transitioned.
@lukad3325 жыл бұрын
wow, THE BEST explanation i've ever heard and i've watched A TON of videos like this one. Thanks
@christinamaxwell62223 жыл бұрын
This is really cool. Ik this video was made a while ago but I’m curious what this would mean for bisexual brains.
@eastfrisian_88 Жыл бұрын
Anyone who doesn't want to understand that people don't consciously choose sexual identities "outside the norm", but are just born that way .... should watch this video. Especially in puberty, I would've given anything to be straight and not confused about why I felt about men what all the male friends around you felt about women. And although I grew up open-minded, it took me several years until I was almost 20 before it finally clicked. I was a late bloomer in that regard. 😂
@bradsillasen1972 Жыл бұрын
Outstanding production! This ought to be mandatory viewing for all U.S. legislators upon induction to office as well as in the appropriate educational grade level.
@contemporaryspectrumoperat90804 жыл бұрын
I totally disagree with the steryo type explanation concerning the difference of brain function between heterosexual men and homosexual men...that finding is like black and white...but it's not as simple as that...some gay men may act, speak, talk and walk effeminate, a little similar to women, but not at all exactly like women..in most cases it seems like a superimposed version of what we believe is feminity, but is actually very different to women, its a Gay way, that even women can imitate, to the laughter of many, yet these same men undergo gender reassignment surgery and have to do therapy to bring their way to more resemble the way of a woman.. then apart from this they don't think the same as women, they analyze things as men because they are men, if one would take into account that most homosexual men are more in touch with some form of the arts and always outdo women by far, that's because they are men and the man's brain is more apt to imagination than the woman's brain....examples: designing,( cooks,fashion,hair stylists ect).. technical systems, troubleshooting/ problem solving, Art , ect ect...there are women that can do these things yes and true, but the majority are men and homosexual men are usually even more fine tuned in the area of the Arts in general..( women in general are better multitaskers than men, men are more focused in an area at a time and go deep, while women can handle several different things at the same time without going too deep into any yet not making mistakes that some men would..differences in brain operation...so i totally disagree with what is being said concerning homosexual mens brain operation is like that of straight women, yes they are attracted to men physically and some emotionally, but they are men... what about the very masculine Gay man? of which there are many, some who get married to women and have children , yet internally suffer putting on a show all their life to convince everyone that they are a normal heterosexual man, what about them are their brains like that of a straight woman... I clearly see that these experiments were done by someone who knows nothing about what causes differences in sexual orientation......a challenge here..go back to the drawing board.
@flooferpuffanimationz47003 жыл бұрын
There is possiboy some truth to it as well as your comment i agree with ya i honestly agree with both the video and u rn
@flooferpuffanimationz47003 жыл бұрын
Btw can you sum that up? y'know make a long story short?
@contemporaryspectrumoperat90803 жыл бұрын
@@flooferpuffanimationz4700 to sum things up making a long story short...the study and evidence that they produce is shit...simply put.
@Usthereout Жыл бұрын
I knew cause my heart would beat really fast around this one boy in middle school. He was fit, athletic, and had good hygiene.
@luislozano6073 Жыл бұрын
Me, a bisexual, with low mental rotation, low spatial percpetion and low verbal fluency
@Omnicient. Жыл бұрын
The presenter is incorrect when he says homosexuality is thought to be around 1 to 6%! 40 years ago the number was around 10% and that was a conservative calculation so likely to be higher. He asks the question 'why are some people gay and some people not?' but never phrases it 'why are some people heterosexual and some people not?' which shows an underlying prejudice that he may well not be aware of.
@michaeldavis91904 жыл бұрын
Can we examine the differences between top, bottom, and verse brains please?
@cecilarthur35793 жыл бұрын
Gosh I wish I too had laser eyes
@邓梓薇3 жыл бұрын
Science isn't everything..I am pretty sure some things are just exclusively cultural...Top and bottom is one of them
@adrianhp65492 жыл бұрын
Don't exist "top" "bottom" and "verse", all those roles are learned, no one are innate in gays.
@sandrajackson709 Жыл бұрын
Still something I think lies within the hippocampus and amygdala, I am not a gay man but I don't think there are hardly any of what you call "tops" and are simply verse or bottoms (probably the majority) who only play that role to attract more gay men. The men that are closets to what you call "top" are those wtih more of an inclination towards women that simply like to take advantage of gay men. No man is with another man to not like penis.
@IsaacJu09022 жыл бұрын
Is this really true? Is it fixed in the Brain or can you rewire or learn other attractions with enough effort? I know it’s easier as women’s sexuality is more fluid but how about men? To me it doesn’t seem logical how hormones in the uterus would impact the brain that significantly.
@sandrajackson709 Жыл бұрын
I think you underestimate the power of hormones and how malleable the brain is in a develping fetus. In a fully developed human emotional changes can physically alter the structure of the brain which of course still works through hormones. What you are saying is analogous to saying that chemicals do not significantly impact living organisms, If hormones give each sex its physical characteristics then it is certainly capable changing how the mind is structured in a developing brain.
@maximebernard62736 жыл бұрын
I'm sad how real science videos like these have such a small audience, while quick "science" videos which are quick google facts search have a bigger audience. It just fucking dumbs the population...
@pixelandbeat Жыл бұрын
I'm part of the community myself and after watching the cigarrette thing just thought "maybe if active smokers (who are also homophobic) saw this they'll never want to be near a cigarrette again
@rickberglund2134 Жыл бұрын
This information adheres to stereotypes that homosexual men always have feminine tendencies, or mannerisms. What about all the hyper masculine homosexual men..?
@olracsobi8352 Жыл бұрын
Well, I was attracted to males already during my time in the kindergarden, so well before my puberty.
@MikeAnderson-mh2og7 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for this very informative video sir. I'm gay and this was a good explanation.
@thisisyourbrainonscience45977 жыл бұрын
no problem glad you liked it
@boynton205 жыл бұрын
What if pedophiles claim they had a pedophile brain would it be ok too ?
@terrylunsford3525 жыл бұрын
@@boynton20 that line of thought is rapidly advancing in the Libs world of sexual deviance.
@WanderA45 жыл бұрын
@@boynton20 Is not about pedophilia, or any paraphilia, is ok or not, is about if it involves individuals that are consenting or not. Additionally for children (or under 18, etc.), such (sexual) behaviours may disrupt their brain development and cause physical & psychological trauma, which could be permanent.
@ronaleman33994 жыл бұрын
Fuck you
@ManiacMonkboon Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your concise and straight to the point explanation. I learned/was taught so much. My girlfriend has a gay best friend of 46 year's and a gay son and I have a daughter who identifies as lesbian and yet date's a trans woman. I'm heterosexual and from the old School. I'm a Gen X'r and I know which bathroom I'm supposed to use. This video has shed so much light on many questions I've had and explains so many questions. Thank you. No matter what, I've always loved my daughter. Never once have I not loved her. She's my baby girl forever. I just had some questions about whom she chose to date considering she identified as lesbian. Again, thank you. ☺️
@Egriffinacting Жыл бұрын
Honestly I'm really proud of you for trying to understand your daughter and her girlfriend instead of using it to just hate and trying to go against them. You're a good dad🤙‼️🙏
@ManiacMonkboon Жыл бұрын
@@Egriffinacting Thank you. I've always tried to be since day 1.
@HilalFCB Жыл бұрын
May God guide you
@mironstrelov9856 Жыл бұрын
This is hypothesis defenetly not a theory, and pretty flawed one as well.
@RealCrate Жыл бұрын
Kind of mad that they kept homosexuality together with pedophilia at 4:42. In my opinion it creates a very discerning comparison between two atypical phenomenons.
@DrDespicable Жыл бұрын
"When I *became* homosexual"? That still makes it sound like a decision or option - was I born like this or not?!
@gustavo042Ай бұрын
You born Some people is sexual abuse
@theleviosadi Жыл бұрын
this is an important and great Video. thank you
@viderethevaccinatorfromhol7536 Жыл бұрын
I am gay because my mom was stressed and smoking during her pregnancy 😂. "Oooh no dear. I am not gay. Only my hypothalamus is gay". Let me tell you this. It's all nature. Nature = diversity. We need all kinds of people to survive. I had very high testosterone levels at the age of 11. Above average. Hairy legs at the age of 10 and a full hairy chest at the age of 15.Not very funny when your classmates still looks like baby's your I knew that I was different when i was just 6 years old. I was "interested/ attracted' to my sisters boyfriends. Maybe even younger but I have no memory of that time. I never played with Barbie's and I never felt the need to. I didn't have to go to the gym when i grew older because I am very muscular by nature. I am definitely not very female. I never was. I am not very creative and i hate shopping. Thist is pseudoscience. Grab some maybe's and whatif's together and here it is. The gay gene. It simply doesn't exist. How many different straight people do you know? All of them are different. Even their brains. All gay people are different. All people are different.
@junglestickss Жыл бұрын
Seems like nature gave you homosexuality to save your mother from being depressed. No hate speech you're all the same as heteros like me (・∀・)
@tonniakter78002 жыл бұрын
I can sound dump but i wanna know . I came to know that brain is changeable , than why when it comes about gay brain it becomes rock solid ? I don't have hatred against gay people but I'm concerned about the women babys and human kind altogether .
@infinitefuture1828 Жыл бұрын
5:00 As a scientist, I cannot agree with this. It's not that easy, otherwise we would've developed a way to test for homosexuality by now. It's much more complex
@boriskaragiannis Жыл бұрын
maybe you are not one (scientist)
@scottconnuck2632 Жыл бұрын
My boss at work has an identical twin brother. His twin is gay, while he is straight. Since they are indeed identical, I cannot understand how one could be gay and another straight. Any ideas?
@Robert-vf6ny11 ай бұрын
I think the brother is a closeted bisexual tbh
@Andronichus Жыл бұрын
Thank you for a calm and comprehensive review of this. It is fascinating to understand just a little about the things that influence us and make us who we are.
@mozzy29684 жыл бұрын
I don't know if i agree with the cognitive part of the video, I excel in science and math but struggle with language. However, I do accept the possibility that I am an outlier considering that does line up with most of the gay people I know.
@CoolMintMC4 жыл бұрын
I mean, bisexual & people on the asexuality spectrum exist, but this is what conclusions neurologists & the such have been able to come to so far. There is still possibly even infinitely more we can learn about these subjects in different ways in the future, so nothing is set in stone.
@butterflygirl33592 жыл бұрын
This is why straight women love their gay male friends so much. They understand us better because they think more like us then straight men do.
@RS-zl4vs Жыл бұрын
yeah but its kinda weird how straight men and gay women dont get along like gay men and straight women are, i wonder why
@Scar-jg4bn Жыл бұрын
@@RS-zl4vs idk. Sounds like straight men are the problem. They usually don't like gay men, can't relate to women, and have a hard time making friends with other straight men. 🤷🏻♂️
@paulthor6255 Жыл бұрын
As a gay homosexual man I obviously doesnt fit into this scheme, since all my best friends are bisexual or hetero men.
@peregrino9154 Жыл бұрын
@@RS-zl4vsBecause straight men are only interested in women they can bang. Straight women don’t care about sex as much as straight men do.
@petrasb1 Жыл бұрын
So not true. I am 90 perc. gay and I don't get women at all 😅I mean, not better than any straigt guy.
@Timely7 Жыл бұрын
He didn’t mention the birth conditions that could affect being straight or gay. He didn't said that people are gay as nature’s natural birth control, but I think this is part of it, but there could be other factors that influence being born gay or straight. For example, I’ve been gay since birth and it could be related to my mother having a C-section instead of a normal delivery. Also, the mother’s gut or general bacteria biome in her body could play a role. I’m not a health professional and I only got this information from some studies I read a while ago, so don’t take this as fact. But I do think being born gay is as natural as being born straight and I wish people would fully accept gays like they do straights. No one compliments a straight couple for being brave or proud of them for finding love. I hope we get the same treatment someday. I hope this adds some insight. Have a nice day!
@pnadk Жыл бұрын
It is important to point out that it is not a binary choice. The brain of a homosexual male does not just develop to become a female brain. These are subtle shifts that makes the brain "a bit more like" a female brain, and the amount of that shift will vary between individuals.
@EugeneVerster Жыл бұрын
except studies dont show this as true. guess you were two years out
@pezvonpez Жыл бұрын
What studies? Link sources or you're adding nothing to this conversation
@EugeneVerster Жыл бұрын
@@pezvonpez lol you do know you cannot put a url in KZbin comments right?
@pezvonpez Жыл бұрын
@@EugeneVerster is that so? kzbin.info/www/bejne/eKSskpKCgNSdgKs
@EugeneVerster Жыл бұрын
@@pezvonpez to external sites mate, generally when I read studies I will go to the institution site that published the study, not all of us get our knowledge from KZbin videos mate
@EugeneVerster Жыл бұрын
@@pezvonpez "Large-scale GWAS reveals insights into the genetic architecture of same-sex sexual behavior" thats the studies name
@lannercooper55387 жыл бұрын
So strange. I am a lesbians. I am not going through menopause and I am 27 yrs old. I have too much of 3 male hormones. I have asked myself this because I love learning about the medical subject and neorology.
@marklewis27805 жыл бұрын
I am no expert. But maybe your brain absorbed too much testosterone whilst in utero
@mircotrolsman28054 жыл бұрын
@@marklewis2780 It didn't absorbed "too much" testosterone whilst in utero. She didn't ask you to evaluate whether homosexuality is good or bad and by reading this you get the conclusion that it is indeed bad. And it ain't. It is natural and it might be "abnormal" in a sense, but many things that are "abnormal" are either neutral or even good to somekind of extent.
@ricardoribeiro8037 Жыл бұрын
There are variations in gay men too. Some are great at driving, and have good motor skills. Some of them are quite masculine too. It seems this research was done on the feminine gay men.
@petrasb1 Жыл бұрын
I have same feeling.
@JohnDoe-vp9ey Жыл бұрын
there are no masculine gays, all of them are 100 percent feminine
@Eragarev Жыл бұрын
I was definitely gay at 5 years old. My attractions have always been set in stone, as well as my expression. I also had/have gender dysphoria that started around puberty about my more masculine sex characteristics, but that all came about because of my homophobic dad drilling it into me that I was going to be trapped in the life of a straight guy. I've gotten on top of it after 10 years and am actually fine with my masculine body, but it was rough for a long time.
@TazPessle Жыл бұрын
Lot's of little things littered throughout this come across as really regressive. I feel like this stance is from about 20 years ago.
@Joy-mw8gz2 жыл бұрын
Very informative piece of information. Thanks science for being able to explain it today.
@r.m.pereira59584 жыл бұрын
An important fact that was not mentioned: the prevalence of the LGBT+ population, which is about 5% to 10% of the general population.
@ijansk4 жыл бұрын
I would remove the T from the rest of the letters. Thinking that you are of the other sex which has no scientific evidence is not the same as sexual orientation which is inborn.
@celso28434 жыл бұрын
@ijansks yes there is? Have you done any research bro??
@masnwrdl0511 Жыл бұрын
Apart from transgenders. That's a choice
@lep71383 жыл бұрын
I've notice that some gay people I knew "including me" mentioned that there moms were under stress and scrolled up their pregnancy.. I can relate to that
@notyourdoggo75403 жыл бұрын
Same, my mom was in constant stress of losing me because her immune system is a little messed up and a friend of mine’s mom was in a depression during her pregnancy, we both turned out lgbt.
@Amal-vf5wu3 жыл бұрын
That's also true for me! Is it just a coincidence?
@VNuxion3 жыл бұрын
@@notyourdoggo7540 I was born within 7 months of pregnancy. My mom was in her 30s, idk if that would change anything but... anyway.
@mm-dn6oe2 жыл бұрын
Not true in my case 🤷
@Nokedliszaggato-pj2so2 жыл бұрын
Yep, it's true for me too...
@bily45664 ай бұрын
Do you think living with two smokers with all the chemicals that are in smoking that could cause a child to be a homosexual or alter the brain thoughts or because both my parents smoked constantly train chained smoked could have that made me dumber could that altered my brain where I wasn’t as smart as I should be
@israelolivares1876 Жыл бұрын
Six years, this information is so outdated, that's why I thought there was something weird about the theory. Many things have changed already in the studies about homosexuality, but this was a great video for the time it was uploaded.
@CBatista1234 Жыл бұрын
The findings in all these studies are still valid. Would you care to share what specifically is outdated?
@AlicksL.S. Жыл бұрын
I watch these about 100 times over, because I don’t pay attention to 99% of it 😅
@meropale Жыл бұрын
I've always known I was gay. It blows my mind when people only discover their orientation late in life.
@randydickison2304 Жыл бұрын
I knew I liked boys the way I was supposed to like girls when I was five years old. Those feelings never changed. They only got stronger as I got older. I'll be sixty-five in a few weeks. I believe that I was born gay.
@muzzcovw7674 Жыл бұрын
That's always surprised me as well! I think it happens with some gay men who see themselves being masculine and not realizing they can actually be gay as well. Not all of us enjoy the vibe of a pride parade...
@edsel6818 Жыл бұрын
I'M THE OLDEST, AND I'VE GOT 3 SIBLINGS, 1 SISTER, AND 3 BROTHERS, Alota people don't believe me and I don't care what you say or believe, but I knew I was gay since I was born, I KNOW EVERYONE FINDS THIS UNBELIEVABLE BUT IS TRUE, I knew their was something bothering me a lot as a child and I just couldn't figure it out, but as I grew up and got a little older slowly but surely, I knew exactly what it was, I NEVER CHOSE THIS WAY, WHY IN THE HELL WOULD I, I don't know how this happened, NOR WHY IT HAPPENED, IT JUST DID. AND NOW IM 100% GAY. IT IS WHAT IT IS, LOVE IS LOVE 🥰🤗😁🤠👌😁👍
@JohnDoe-vp9ey Жыл бұрын
Man my condolences
@hastaelfuego Жыл бұрын
Living in Indonesia with such a poor level of tolerance for homosexuals makes me ask why am I gay? I was born in 1998 in Borneo, around 2002 or 2003 I returned to Java, That means I'm 4 or 5 years old. When I was in Borneo (that means before the age of 4 or 5 yrs) I remember asking my mother to buy a hijab for me to wear and I felt comfortable. After returning from Borneo (around the age of 4 or 5) I felt A feeling of liking to boy older than me, I always felt like I wanted to meet and be with him. What I'm thinking about now, how could I be gay when I was a child, let alone understand and know about gay or homosexual, not even hearing it. Some of my friends say; Maybe when my mother was pregnant, she wanted a daughter, but a boy was born. If that's the case, It's not fair to blame And put a "deviant" stamp on a baby who doesn't know anything and grows up with what he has
@kimrobbiearts Жыл бұрын
Cool video, although a tip is to use a noise cancelation funktion that you can find in most video editing software or turn the volume on your mic down, because it's picking up too much noise.
@camelCased6 жыл бұрын
Curious, what about bisexuals and those for whom sexuality has changed during their lifetime? Do bisexuals have brains "somewhere in between" and do those with sexuality changes experience also corresponding brain changes? For bisexuals, we can perform the same tests. But for those with "fluid" sexuality it would be difficult because you can never know beforehand that some person's sexual orientation will change in the future thus you have no reason to scan person's brains before the change occurs.
@eliciagarcia94116 жыл бұрын
There’s people who change sexuality in their lifetime? Didn’t know that existed.
@SoyGeminis5 жыл бұрын
A bisexual girl usually likes straigh men and lesbians. They like someone with a male brain. Its not common to see to masculine girls who look and act like men together. I dont know any bisexual boy so i cant speak of that.
@M-CH_5 жыл бұрын
From what I can recall: There are left-handed people (minority) and right-handed people (majority). Then there are ambidextrous people. Brain lateralization is responsible for this. The people whose brains are weakly lateralized are more likely - for example - to become stammerers than those, whose brains are strongly lateralized in either way. People who are neurodivergent in one way (say, on the autism spectrum or non-heterosexual) are more likely to be neurodivergent in other ways (say, not right-handed). Therefore the developmental trajectories involved may be similar and even interconnected.
@lynnbaker2336 Жыл бұрын
@@eliciagarcia9411 I believe that in many cases, they are in denial, and once accepting the truth, define said acceptance as " changing their sexuality".
@stanbily9416 Жыл бұрын
You cannot change your sexuality. The guy said that at the start of the video.
@poodtang2104 Жыл бұрын
Probably most gay men knew they were somehow different from a very young age. This would be me. Always knew I was different since way before puberty.
@dubon9999 Жыл бұрын
Me too. I always knew that I was extremely different than the rest of the boys and that's because I am Gay. We, Gay men are not like straight men, we are different, and lesbian women are different from straight women and that's not something bad at all, that's something good.
@poodtang2104 Жыл бұрын
@@dubon9999 Agreed.
@stanbily9416 Жыл бұрын
Same!
@robertandleonaburnsroberta7023 Жыл бұрын
I am a proud supporter of LOVE IS LOVE. if any of you cannot handle that, then how about just mind your own business?? Spread love in the world.. you never know how much time you have on this earth, right??? So why not leave it a kinder more compassionate place. God will be happy and you will be rewarded greatly ❤❤❤
@no.-trip4304 Жыл бұрын
“Jewish foreskin demon loves the gays” What did he mean by this?
@michaelfairbairn4283 Жыл бұрын
There are far more LGBT people than the 1% to 6% quoted. The latest survey of young Americans - who have grown up in a time and country with far less stigma attached to being non-straight, and thus feel less pressure to hide their sexuality - showed that 20% identified as being on the LGBT spectrum.
@naughtyducky6325 Жыл бұрын
I believe it’s prob more like 10%, 20% is abit of a push the reason it’s that high is prob because its “cool to identify as non/binary or queer” theses sorta people shouldn’t be classified as LGBT, it’s abit if a joke tbh. I’m gay myself so I can have my opinion
@MegaMayday16 Жыл бұрын
What I don't like is that it is a dichotomous definition were there exist only hetero brain ( brain in alignment to body) and gay Brain. But it doesn't represent the reality where there are probably more differences between individuals than between gay Brain and straight brain. Is a straight serial killer similar to a straight suicidal person? Humanity is more complex i think