Is Tiger Parenting RUINING Kids' Sports? | Football Dreams The Academy |

[@reef4hmmm]

I take my hat off for Shys dad.. he kept it honest and knew that he was the issue..

[@simonpaul9654]

All parents can make the mistake of being over bearing but it was good to see Mo be self aware of what he was doing and take steps to correct it

[@nikisawyers7559]

Absolutely

[@JMartin-d3k]

fr I know sports can be like that but you gotta know when to stop

[@nwsoccer2335]

These parents have no idea how much they are harming their child's mental health and long term development. You cannot put them under constant pressure like this. Especially shys dad he is doing it all wrong

[@ModelAviationYT]

its not harming its preparing

[@tiffanyroberts2979]

@@ModelAviationYTconstant pressure is never good for a child

[@arizonad8012]

@@ModelAviationYT Praparing for what? Everyone expirience certain situtions in different ways.

[@harveycooney279]

To early to prepare an 8yo, your silly comment shows yk nothing😂​@@ModelAviationYT

[@NoLifeFischers]

I mean my dad does the same to me and Im now like top 5 in my state

[@ReyGarcia-r8h]

I really like the idea of having parents involve in the game but when you have them telling kids not to pass the ball that's when the cable gets cuttoff, this is not an individual game is a team sports if she wants her kid to play alone taking to play tenis.

[@minerran]

Parents who aggressively "helicopter" their kids, resolving every issue for them and attacking anyone not supporting their child's happiness and dreams, think they are helping their children. In reality, they prevent the child from facing the challenges, setbacks and disappointments that they need to learn about when they are young so that they can mature into self-sufficient strong adults. I know the results of when parents do this. I have a 40something step-son who's mother still does this for him and he's totally incapable of mature adult decisions, controlling his emotions when things disappoint him or moving forward. He's been frozen in life for the 15 years since I married his mom. When the parent is no longer here, then what?

[@frickofunky2008]

That Kaleb kid and Mo's kid are really good, you can just tell it when they're on the ball. They just need to know when to pass and when to dribble. If somehow their parents are reading my comment then I'd advise them to keep going on because I see talent right there, even if they don't secure the contract from their clubs in england but I know these kind of talents are highly sought after in countries like Spain etc. Physical development will be crucial but don't let these coaches take away the flair away from these kids. Cheers to them and others too, keep working hard.

[@Haunting_story]

And then they wonder why their kid did not make it. If you see some videos from this channel off the kids in u17 and u16 getting a contract their parents are super supportive and let the coaches do the pep talking and all that. Parents can really ruin a dream and a good footballer.

[@chrisallen1049]

Keep the parents away from the field of play, the coaches are telling the boys one thing and they're whispering in their ear, if I was running those sessions I'll ban the parents FFS

[@YehiaSamehMohamedEmara]

Mo is probably the parent who wants his kid to be a pro the most!!!

[@Lioness452]

I happen to have a child who is extremely gifted in football…we do everything in our power to keep her challenged but tell her to remain humble and a good player knows when to take that third, 4th, or whatever goal for themself- and when to pass it off and play smart. Some of these moms are delusional and are going to crush the passion and love of the game and that spark that their kids naturally have. Being good isn’t just about being good all on your own. No star player goes out on the pitch as a one man show, that’s not how it’s done, never has been and that’s not what elite coaches and leagues are looking for anyway.

[@obieWanmotivation]

Yep. Hands up. I was like Mo as a Dad when my son was in an elite Youth u11 team because I coached him & his teams all the way from 5yrs old that it was hard to trust his new coach. Ultimately I had to back off. Easier said than done though. ❤

[@johnglue1744]

Fair enough.

[@malikarustam7311]

Respect that Mo is putting in the effort To change

[@mvolf2225]

Very often it is this same story: single child in the family or single parent with the child (or both)

[@Zeno_334]

Shay’s father, Mo, revealed his true nature twice: when he protested during the meeting with the coach: “I have INVESTED so much” in him. And immediately following that meeting, when explaining what the coach’ said to his son, Mo sneakily accused his son for compelling Mo to react whenever Shay looked up to the stands following a mistake during play. I can only imagine the mind games this “faith and family” man plays on his son when not being filmed for a documentary. It is all disgusting.

[@Bobbeld]

It's shy🤓

[@Lioness452]

You here to spit on his religion you’re not on about football or parenting. Get over yourself

[@Lioness452]

I don’t understand, Shy’s dad tried to react the best way he could for his son by taking a step back and accepting what the coaches were saying. Which is more than what the other mom did.

[@Lioness452]

He kept silent and got over his own inner will, taking a back seat and letting his son thrive. You’re a crazy person mad about things that have nothing to do with football or family. Don’t know why you would bring your disdain for good people and people with different faiths than yours into a comment for nothing. Check yourself 😢 the dad backed off and you’re just hating for nothing

[@MLSNYC88]

Shy's dad is exactly what clubs tell you not to be. You're overloading a young brain.I also would like to have seen what else he does for Shy. He says he's willing to do everything, but it seems like that only is shown as turning up to training to give him bad advice.

[@Grimmes12]

They said the same thing about Lavar Ball

[@Lioness452]

A good player knows when to take it themselves and when to share it, they have skill, hard work, and team strategy. Parents need to get on board with that. Soccers not a one man show, they’re not happy? Sign them up for track

[@JC24.]

Out of all the players to ever play football she said Marcus Rashford he is a good player but a good example 7:49

[@johnglue1744]

Is there not a club closer to Shy’s house? Or is Palace’s academy that much better than other London clubs? At this young age traveling that far daily for training is crazy to me considering London is loaded with professional clubs.

[@kiwi792]

it’s one thing to encourage and push your kids to get the best out of them, as that is required to some degree. But if they don’t really “want it” then it’s not gonna happen no matter what you do or want as a parent. They are not YOUR ticket to wealth or fame. There is a long way to go from age 10/11 to the senior level. Lots of training, dedication and performing to occur consistently between now and then (and hopefully avoidance of injury). If you ruin their enjoyment and mental health between now and then you will kill their potential. Maybe some of these parents need to chill a little, let the kids be the driver. If the talent and desire is really there then it will happen. If not then it won’t and you will be left with a potentially damaged adult.

[@averycoolguy6953]

"their playing like a grassroots team" arghhh this such a dumb thing to say, most of those kids have just only left grassroots teams. you can't expect a world class performance. Sure you can expect a better team and opposition at this level but I don't see any need for such high expectations.

[@jarrahwestera]

I play for Sunshine Coast academy and I agree I and others play way worse when there parents are negative

[@Nuello15]

Poor Kayleb had a mom like that

[@billy4eyes512]

She’s a terrible piece of work.

[@ZaynHersi]

Shys dad kept it honest ❤❤

[@antodu93]

I feel bad for all those kids . I wish I had their opportunity but I hope It won’t be this way

[@memo-eh9wt]

Lost me at that ADHD scene...

[@BigGuff304]

😂

[@formulaic78]

What's your best attribute? Speed AND strength. Zinger.

[@NitaStevens]

Shy,s is a wonderful footballer my his dreams come true Amen ❤

[@Lioness452]

Amen! ❤

[@Lioness452]

“We don’t go on holidays, we just work hard”❤

[@NguyenNguyen-ve4gg]

@@Lioness452 yeh even god can't help him with that type of environment

[@seikotlhabaki1727]

Shy has a great father for real

[@mikemount4102]

Why is he on the B team? Because I don't have a C team.

[@kzmstories1614]

Shy is phenomenal! His natural ability is beyond his years...Blessed to have such a dad.

[@FranCisco-hs2cn]

most of this parents dont play soccer at all . smh . but they spea like they know the game . like the coach said : stick to been parents . just make sure your kid is having fun! if he is good at it he will be someone .

[@nikisawyers7559]

Shy’s dad is a boss ❤

[@nofurtherwest3474]

Interesting. We are in the US. I would like my son to play soccer every day. He plays at a club year round, but not daily. His mom likes baseball and pushes that. He is good a both soccer and baseball. Just an interesting difference between growing up in the US vs England where it is probably seen as normal for kids to play soccer every day for hours. I wonder if this keeps our kids in the US behind other kids. My kid's mom doesn't know anything about soccer so she just isn't into it.

[@nothanks8368]

Multi sport play is better for their bodies and mind, specializing young raises their ceiling in one sport but is worse for their overall coordination and injury resistance

[@tbxgaming3893]

That is why alot of footballs don't make it, .. very week mentality. My son and are correct each other when it comes to football.

[@jreviews5924]

Damn these parents are insane some of them are borderline abusing their kids mentally. Not good for the kids. Football is 50% talent and 50% mentality and some of these parents are ruining the second 50% making their kids have no chance.

[@Zodley]

those kids are not making it with parents like this. Im 100% sure they will grow up to hate football and going to training cause of their parents... It happened to me

[@dominiquedourneau7425]

Nothing new here…i coach soccer..and before game we gave lollipop to all parents…they think their kids… are M bape or caitlin …

[@johnglue1744]

Hahaha the good old lollipop of shame.

[@BCSimonYT]

Saffron is a lovely mom and honestly, the other mom is just upset that her kid struggles.

[@MLSNYC88]

No. Saffron learned a lesson that most of these parents struggle with - it's a professional environment, so act like it. At the age her son is at they aren't dividing up 'A and B teams’. If she truly believes her son is being demoted then she needs to raise that concern privately after a session. Not only is she damaging the development of the other kids in her son’s cohort, but she's also undermining the coaching staff in a public setting. I understand why it upset that parent. It’s a demanding statement to make. It looks like she realized by the end of the episode she was being too much and course corrected.

[@greatman5885]

NO. respectfully. She's acting like a... It's fine if you think your son is the best player in the world, but if you have negative thoughts or opinions, keep them to yourself. The other kids are there for their own development as well.

[@Lioness452]

No I don’t think you teach your kids good life lessons or how to work harder or be better and strive for more- by making them repeat a mantra “I am the best player in the world” that’s psychological mind games

[@AJ-rd4ng]

She's nuts

[@CoachTunde6]

The fact that Saffron is still tying the boy’s shoe mid game is ridiculous.

[@captainamerica348]

Parents shouldn't do this..Let Coaches do their job..Please..!!

[@franzbrunner499]

super when parents want to "push" their kids to something they wanted to be and failed -niw it's about fame and money for the parents through the kids (that's their motivation, not "i want the best for my kid")

[@Marlontobar44]

Im so glad she is not my mom

[@timcleasby8377]

These moms are the worst.

[@ianwhelan6983]

So.....which mum would you go out with?

[@steam2011]

Bro

[@GregKozak]

mental hospital is this modern football meat machine

[@bennyflint]

Here’s what some kids have to say about all this. kzbin.info/www/bejne/q2Ovg2eZaK-mo7csi=G9jF7UC5EZR_2_Fs

[@billy4eyes512]

Hmmm, these parents are terrible.

[@kevinnix5495]

I fucking hate sports parents! I'm so glad my parents didn't let me play on those types of teams and really encouraged me to play team sports for the fun and fitness. Winning ain't shit

[@ayturkd5526]

winning is everything. The problem is parents view their child as a paycheck and that they will turn the family rich

[@bambamrubble151]

It's not about the team it's the parent my son plays soccer at a high level and I nor the other parents do any of this nonsense

[@jackmasterdick]

It’s not about winning at that age. It’s about development, it’s natural for competitive kids to want to play with and against the best kids and improve. It needs to come from the kids though, and not the parents. If you were better than other kids and wanted to improve you would have told your parents to put you in a better team or club.

[@thug588]

winning aint shit says the loser