Is Waiting For Marriage Worth It?! - WTW

Welcome! In this episode, Dre and Bre take their experience of waiting for marriage and give their opinion on if you should or should not do it. They also give practical advice how to make waiting work if you choose to do it!
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[@mrsb0215]

My husband and I both waited for marriage and we were both virgins. We waited for 4 years which I also agree was too long but now we’ve been married for 7 years. I am so glad we waited!!

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching!

[@mrsb0215]

@@relationshiprestored5016 You’re welcome ☺️

[@Gwaycee]

@@mrsb0215 Bless you! Thanks for your comment, it has encouraged me very much.

[@mrsb0215]

@@Gwaycee you’re very welcome ☺️

[@stephanieh5478]

Does that mean no kissing or touching either?

[@daddysgirl42194]

Definitely after having a baby. A man begging you for sex while you’re trying to heal is one of the worse things mentally

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching!

[@dejanae7336]

Indeed.

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

Wow ! 😔

[@rachyeji]

I need a man like Dre. Praying for a godly man like him!!

[@genesisperaza6440]

I believe God continues to bless you all because He can trust you guys, I pray you guys continue to flourish and grow together as one.

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching!

[@ThrivingNotDying]

Bravo for waiting 👏 Especially that long. I think communication is key. I look forward to an open and easy communicative relationship in the future.

[@relationshiprestored5016]

Absolutely!! thanks for watching!

[@cocosha5589]

Y'all story has truly been a blessing. I've been here since the beginning. Thank you both for sharing 💗💗

[@tamarajohnson3167]

love you guys so much. been watching since the beginning. real life goals. I love every single thing about you alls journey. and take all of your advice very serious. yuuuup they didnt believe you could do it.. because this world is what it is... and they dont have the relationship with God that you all do. when you do things god says to do .... blessings are abundant. appreciate your full transparency. love yall and here for all of it. thanks dre and bre.

[@JoseWrightJr]

Yeah I remember sharing the reel on my IG stories Dre, and I am in total agreement with you. It's insane how ignorant a lot of people are. You did the right thing, and God sees it all. People are psychotic and wicked in nature...so those comments were definitely coming.

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching and sharing!

[@JoseWrightJr]

@@relationshiprestored5016 Not a problem at all!!

[@ctanaw]

Thank you Dre and Bre for sharing your story! Your video was in my recommendations, and I'm blessed to have found your channel! I am grateful to hear of your commitment to The Lord, your strength in self-control and the blessings that God has given you because of your obedience. I'm single and currently not dating. I'm undergoing a transition with God in full surrender and preparing for the best days He has in store ahead of me. I believe marriage is in my future, and though my husband hasn't been revealed to me, I pray for him every day. You guys have really inspired me to keep trusting God's plan for my life, and I know my husband and I will honor Him in our marriage! Blessings and love to you both! 🙏🏽💛

[@lynnthecreator8132]

WOW....your sound Quality is on another level ❤️

[@kaylahood1000]

i'm 33 years old I haven't met a man who is waiting until marriage. I have came across men who have told me what happens if there not good in bed. I feel like giving up on my journey on waiting until marriage. Plus i haven't met any men who are okay with it. Majority of them won't wait until marriage at all.

[@MsJPrecious]

Don't feel pressured to compromise, it's a sign that they are not worthy of you! A secure and respecful man of God, would wait

[@peacelovetash]

@kayla hood Sis, I just turned 30 & I’m still waiting. I’ve been talking to this guy who has been persistently trying to court me for the past 9.5 months and it wasn’t until about 2 months now, have things actually got serious & intentional between us. I just told him him last night that I am actually a virgin as he keeps bringing up us getting physical. Mind you, he is younger than me. Although he respected it, he told me the same thing about “what if my future husband isn’t good in bed” and I responded with “well that’s for me & my future husband to figure out. Respectfully.” Not gonna lie, at times I feel a bit tempted and feel like giving up somewhat as we created such a deep emotional bond and things are starting to get a bit more physical as we just kissed recently. I am sure about waiting but I feel like he secretly intends to be my 1st as his responses seemed a bit on the manipulative side which concerns me a bit. Just know you’re not alone on this journey. I’ve dated a majority of black men as well and it’s tough but I know it Will be worth the wait. Stay encouraged sis. I’m sitting here looking up these videos to remind myself that I’ve waited this long, to Not just give up on what I promised myself and God. Also to focus on the promises God intended for me. Praying for you sis! 🙏🏽💛

[@keajaalexander5429]

The ones the won’t wait only want your body. Keep going and god will send you someone you have to wait on god.

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

Me too I'm the same age also still a virgin I pray that a good man will find you and marry you. They're out there in Jesus name. ❤

[@takwwnwilson7628]

That is not all of us black men

[@marqueradelk9012]

New subscriber here! I'm so glad I found your podcast. You make a lot of sense in the way you speak and I love that

[@relationshiprestored5016]

Welcome aboard! thanks for watching!

[@kelvisyounis6945]

thank god there are still people who think like this

[@estherduah1983]

Dre God bless you for trusting God and insisting on the right lead. Bre God bless you too.

[@estherduah1983]

God bless you for testifying of God's faithfulness.

[@asiajames7421]

Yeesss y’all this is everything! Thank you for sharing 💜

[@relationshiprestored5016]

Thanks for watching!

[@DGSCOMMUNITY_]

I absolutely ADORE this ❤

[@kaysuksess]

This is great bless you both❤

[@charmainemathye8662]

Been here for years. Happy for you guys! ❤️✨

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching!

[@brookiev]

🙏🏼✨ beautiful couple. Thank y’all

[@Brittanywright331]

Thanks for doing this y'all this is amazing.

[@relationshiprestored5016]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Ronsstudios_YT]

U Just Got A Sub Brother Beautiful Marriage God Bless Yall

[@pppppppieeeeeee]

Great videos💪🏽

[@NavigatingSinglehood]

Powerful waiting together, I have been waiting almost 9 years alone .No dating

[@LeslieDRogers]

I love this!

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching!

[@michellefung18apr83]

Amusing Truth worth the wait. 🤣🙏

[@mightymir2784]

Yeah I got discouraged at 17:18 why would I wait 4 years to be told “I forgot we can do it” “I don’t feel like it”? Exactly what I’m scared of. I will not be locked into a sexless marriage. If this is immature to say lmk I’m open to all criticism

[@bethc3503]

How old are you ? Honestly I don’t think they mean that comment in a negative way . Because the guy was agreeing with her. What they mean is that waiting though them self control and it’s kind of refreshing seeing that the girl was actually struggling more than him . They didn’t based their relationship on sex to a point that is very important but is not the main focus. I asked your age because usually when people are very young they think they will want to do it every day and the reality of life will set your priorities straight.

[@lamunudaisy3306]

I like you, you like me, we like God😂😂❤❤

[@tamperchamaine8663]

Ok

[@random-dc3xr]

Not the 9- toers out there 😂😂😂😂😂

[@narrowroad8385]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Hallelujah thank you Jesus Christ

[@relationshiprestored5016]

thanks for watching!

[@Grass1981]

Sounds like the friend zone life

[@ashLen868]

I noticed that y’all are not wearing wedding rings. If you don’t Mind me asking, why is that?