Is your INNER VOICE a MONSTER? dealing with insecurities, social media, imposter syndrome| ep. 4

[@shrutikumari9993]

Advika you are enough don't feel insecure or agar mind me insecurity wale questions aye then just said to your mind "maine poocha kya tere se" 😅

[@JANHVIDHIMAN]

Loved your response 😊

[@shrutikumari9993]

@@JANHVIDHIMAN thank you 🌺

[@geetanjlisharma4203]

That's such a nice and tricky solution😅

[@shrutikumari9993]

@@geetanjlisharma4203 😂😂

[@consistenttraveller]

i read it somewhere-"only the insecure, strives for security"

[@2SidesofaCoin]

That’s true, well said✨✨

[@ella7304]

My god 😢😢😢 I am literally going through this phase of major major!! Insecurity, that I'm not good enough and I'm not doing anything. And people around me r just thriving and balancing their studies n life.. I am literally so greatful to u guyss, for talking unfiltered and being so supportive 😢😢 Just love u both❤❤

[@2SidesofaCoin]

❤️

[@mediocre_struggles]

Cant agree more,,, i can relate to you on body insecurities,,, people really never will be satisfied and impressed and there is no fun in impressing or satisfying people i swear 😭😭

[@2SidesofaCoin]

It’s you vs you 🫶🏻

[@Dasi9849]

13:44 This melted my heart 🥺🤧🤧✨🫶Akshaj and Advika are literally the friend's I need in my life 💗💗💗💗

[@2SidesofaCoin]

🥹🥰

[@AnushkaSharma-ft6wc]

All set to bless my ears with this podcast after 2 whole weeks ❤

[@2SidesofaCoin]

This means a lot thank you 🥹❤️

[@AnushkaSharma-ft6wc]

@@2SidesofaCoin always there to support good content like yours 💗

[@anjali-gy4qt]

i love akshaj's voice, its so calming

[@sxnlv]

This is such a good video. It started to make me think about my insecurities. Honestly, even though I have many insecurities I would never want it to get out or other people to know. Even if someone hits my insecurities, I wouldn't immediately react to it or cry in front of everyone. This helped me so much throughout my life. I hope it would help you too! and yeah this video is very informative and educative. I adore you both!

[@2SidesofaCoin]

🥹🥹 thank you so much

[@Candy47547]

Thats so true you start questioning yourself which is worst...lets stay strong together 🙂❤️❤️✨

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Yes❤️💪

[@Candy47547]

@@2SidesofaCoin ❤️

[@yourDeveloper11]

Advika , thanks for speaking out the insecurities of so many girls that goes unsaid and unnoticed many a times !! loving your podcast and the topics you both come up with

[@youcandoit.8722]

Advika's narration on insecurity was exactly what I go through, and yes it's not about 3-4 times. The inner soul just creates a jail to let you all out. I feel you bro completely and wholly🤍

[@geetanjlisharma4203]

When Advika di said 'Am I pretty enough' believe me when I say that I always thought why can't I look like her. She is so pretty . I just want her face. Why can't I ? I have said all this to myself. Basically beauty is itself an insecurity and it's not us who are to be blamed about not being pretty. Still jugling with this thought of Why I am not pretty. But it is what it is so better to love ourselves the way we are.

[@KritikaGupta-bb3yd]

Thankyou guys, I related so much with all that and started tearing up when advika cried. I used to be very self insecure especially becauss of family and societal norms though my frnds were always very supportive which helped me a lot. Now I think ive become very much confident though still socially awkward haha, I feel confident in myself and I never think that I'm not better than anyone else around me. So I believe time plays a very important role in going through insecurities and over time as we grow up, we are able to take better care of ourselves... Also, I'd like to say that though social media always shows the perfect side, some influencial social media influencers which motivate and inspire us that being fat or short or not 'pretty' doesnt make you any less better than anyone else. So social media in a way helped me overcome with tthe insecurities that my family and relatives put on me. Thankyou guyz, I love you both so much.

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Well said ✨🫶🏻

[@Karina_2023.]

Advika you're literally so inspiring.We love you and support you!!.Obsessed w your videos. And for background you can like use some fake plant decors at the wall,x ❤

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Thank you🥹✨❤️

[@ritijamir4171]

Akshay saying "But you look cute tho" in a deep voice got my heart🥺

[@2SidesofaCoin]

😳✨

[@kavitameena7528]

I am literally crying after watching Advika’s crying face 🥹 every single insecurity that you guys mentioned is just so so relatable guys 💯 Thankyouu So Much for making video on such sensitive topic….Your Content is just so Amazing Guys 📈❤️⭐️ Your video just made my bad day into a better one. You Guys Are like Our Best friends Far away From Us. 🫶🏻🌸 Keep Going Besties ❤️

[@2SidesofaCoin]

That means a lot , thank you!!🥺🫶🏻❤️

[@srivalli7818]

Finally they r back I was waiting for this episode 😊

[@samruddhifarate9506]

Well done Akshaj nd Advika. Such a relatable content in this video. Every single word you both said hits the subconscious mind. I am a neet aspirant and marks nahi aye to insecurity hoti hai to what I do is i think that me us test me first ayi thi and i suddenly feel good. Also what Advika said appearance am i looking good enough or whatever kyuki ki i am also a short heighted girl. But how I deal with it I just say my dwarfness is my cuteness or my charm. Suggestions for next podcasts 1. Neet journey and honest tips and motivation kyu ki me next yr neet dugi. Also wanted to hear ur scores. Physics ko kaise padhe? 2. Personality development 3. Myths and realities about doctors these days. 4. How to improve concentration. All about meditation and human psychology 5. Obviously KZbin expectations vs reality. The psychological version Also some tips how to make good reels.

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Thank you🙇🫶🏻

[@AditiPant724]

Advika for me you are perfect. For me you are the only insipiration and if you say you are not perfect then who am i . If you will let yourself down bcz of such insecurities then think about your tru fans whose days are incomplete without your vlogs/podcasts ..😊😊❤🎉

[@avocado-nr1fm]

this was so good and i literally relate to all this so much and after watching this i feel normal and not different or abnormal. i remember asking your height when you posted "ask me a question" or smn i feel bad rn that i might hv triggered your insecurity but i asked you cuz i look up to you , just like you searched heights of famous celebrities and im myself 5'2. i hv been preparing for neet and im suffering from body changes and its really mentally unhealthy to just listen to all the mocks and etc etc but yea it was a helpful podcast💕 and thankyou for talking about imposter syndrome, i now know this feeling has a name

[@roshnipatil1658]

Dear advika , honestly I have related with you so much , I mean have gone through the same situation Just want to say we all are extremely strong and there's one day where you feel you are proud of who you are !The kind of topics that you bring through your podcasts are wholesome real ones which people like us are afraid to discuss . Keep up the good work going❤️ and also akshaj is such a matured human.

[@tahura6017]

I ask the following the questions 1. Why do I think this ? Is there a certain incident or series of events that made me think this 2. Is it under your control If it's like something like public speaking, or talking to people, try to get out of your comfort zone. It's it's something like body hair , accept it and understand that's it's normal

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Nice advice👌✨

[@sundararajanr7732]

Hi advika I am the first viewer Please make podcast of your neet journey and study tips

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Okay noted 📝

[@aanyayadav12]

​@2SidesofaCoin and tell how much did you scored in 10th and 12th boards?

[@besankahalwa1445]

advika di I overcone my short height ki insecurity by taking inspiration from u... and trust me! Tum jaise ho perfect ho ❤❤❤

[@ShyDiaries.]

This podcast felt like a hug 🥹❤

[@2SidesofaCoin]

We try🤗

[@samridhitandon5605]

really a beautiful podcast!! And Advika I am only 5 feet even i have the same insecurities so chill and big hug to you!! : )

[@Saumya_G]

You are enough the way you truly are dear💗💗

[@2SidesofaCoin]

🥹🫶🏻❤️

[@studybeans00]

I am guessing advika cried during the shoot so sending loads of strength and love to both of you super ready to watch this video

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Dekhkar batana yeh sach hai ki jhut 🥲

[@harshvardhansinghrathore8822]

Loved this podcast , made me feel a bit secure idk why, had so many thoughts in my head about the way I look but anyway I can't change it the only thing I can change is my thoughts . I had this opinion I might be wrong but I think girls have more insecurities comparitively to boys. Strange opinion but I think it's true. love you guys keep up the great work Ikno I'm late😂 Byeeee.

[@janvi2816]

You'll thoughts- Wow❤

[@neha008]

Ironic but i relate to akshaj. Being a girl and having hairy genetics passed on from my parents i always felt it as my biggest insecurity. In sch where i have to wear shorts daily i considered it as such a huge embarrassment and i always compared my body to my friends thinking why should it be only me having such hairy legs and arms. But as days went by and as i grew i got tired of shaving and waxing every week. Ive cried because of being so hairy and even though people have complimented me i always feel i domt deserve it because im hairy and its not aesthetic or feminine. But now being more mature than before ive learnt to just accept my body and deal with it, its just hair afterall i can shave whenever i want. :)

[@ankitasahu4624]

keep going!!!!!!!

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Stronger than before 💪

[@chaitalisingh3179]

Advika are you a pieces cus mahnnn😭😭😭 our minds work so similarly regarding the topic of this podcast ....just bizzare . it was like seeing myself talk in the vid and i have been binging all your podcasts and have to say that akshaj's voice is so calming. hope to see more of this and loved your recent podcast w anuj pachel as well🫶🫶

[@Urmi-nu7yz]

Feel proud your self Adiii ❤you are the best and unique love you always

[@radhikachopra999]

ye to pyara sa video tha ☺️

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Just like you 🥹🫶🏻

[@rashmishaw8862]

11:11 It was sooooo relatable

[@advikasingh]

🥹🫶🏻

[@akshigupta5705]

The way akshaj say- u look cute tho 😂❤

[@consistenttraveller]

Advika-"Damn its hard!" Akshaj and my mind's immediate response-"Thats what she said" and of course followed by the disgusted face of Advika ..lmao

[@2SidesofaCoin]

😂😂

[@Girlywoman296]

Wow you both are brilliant

[@MonikaMonikaaD]

yk this voice inside us, that says nasty things about us, it actually is also for our good, so that we accept and love those parts of us, we don't do that and we look outside, wanting that the world validates us and proves those voices wrong, that doesn't happen, the inner voice starts to reflect in our experiences of the world, that hurts us, anad upon reflection we realise that those are the things we've been saying to ourselves subconsciously, and then we finally take them head on, and when we do that, question them, and really encounter them, we realise that there is no meat in them, and we become freer and freer. viola!!!!

[@deepu1335]

you know what Advika .. Akshaj is the best boy for you.. mark my words he is literally the best

[@maheejaiswal2022]

Next time we want to know about your neet journey plzz ❤

[@Mewmew088]

All the best adiii n akshajjj ❤

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Thank you ❤️🫶🏻

[@nand123kishor]

Thank you❤

[@Candy47547]

Amazing ❤ ❤

[@anshareeb9094]

Had a shitty day! This podcast made me feel better ❤

[@2SidesofaCoin]

I am glad it helped 🥳🫶🏻

[@khushisingh9971]

best of luck guys ❤

[@tanusha_03]

Please make next Vedio on mental health

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Check out our episode 2- from burnout to brilliance which talks about mental health and more✨

[@palak959]

omg I totally get what advika's feeling. people will always find kuch na kuch fault in you but no you've to be strong and like have the attitude like I don't give a f about what you say or think about me bruh

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Strong mentality gang💪🫶🏻

[@Ak-kg4lv]

Uff girl u r so nice I just love u ... I just love to watch u and I don't find anything else to watch on utube other than u ... I can't expresses how much I love uuu girl I really want to meet u but I am from Pakistan 😢But I really want to meet u

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Sending love❤️🫶🏻

[@itschesta]

I relate with advika so much :\ its brutal out here

[@imuskandua]

Please make more

[@KritikaGupta-bb3yd]

Best of luck for your exams akashaj and advika! 🎉❤

[@srivalli7818]

I love u guys You are my fav ❤️ i like advika didi and Akshaj Bhai podcast😄🫶

[@advikasingh]

Thankyou so muchh🥰

[@zealhirpara511]

u can add cute plushies and pillows on your sofa

[@2SidesofaCoin]

Good point 😳🥰

[@Priyapinkiee]

❤

[@rashijain6957]

you guys 🤌

[@vedanthapak237]

That’s what she said 😂

[@2SidesofaCoin]

😂😂

[@Devanshi_2403]

Istg, i thank kim kardashian for bringing attention to "thick girls" changed my vision of myself. Sometimes you need validation from famous people....

[@curiousme5931]

What was that?

[@cozwhynot58]

Plz Something horror nxt time ❤

[@drvans17]

Advika see to the camera not akshaj , looking like akshaj face is the camera

[@yuktikabawa4821]

advika you have no clue how many life's your are influencing just by being yourself. 🤍