Islamic Parenting - Mufti Menk

Ideal Muslim Family ~ Mufti Ismail Menk
Mufti Ismail Menk of Zimbabwe is a motivational speaker who has travelled around the world. He lectures at Darul Ilm in Harare and is also the Imam of the Arcadia Masjid.
His approach has been well received internationally by young and the old and his eloquent style being simple to understand, dynamic, clear and to the point.
Ismail Musa Menk was born in Harare, Zimbabwe. His family originally hails from Gujarat, India. Each year he spends the month of Ramadhaan with a far off community explaining the Qur'aanic teachings. This work is all done solely for the Pleasure of the Almighty without any monetary gain or remuneration involved.

[@omairshahab8137]

What I learnt from this very educational video: 1) Dua 2) Know who you are 3:40 3) children are a gift 4) Parenting = dependent => independent adult 5) Parents are role models to children 6) Teach your child in the best manner so it will comtinue to do good practices when parents slowly lose control over children 7) Maintain a good balance of education and deen 8) marriage is the decision of a child with the guidance of the parents 9) It is beneficial for children to have open discussions (about marriage) from an early age 10) Understanding Children 6 A's: Attention (listen+ notice), give children a lot of attention so that you have a big say in the child's life, otherwise a little bit of external attention might divert the child onto the wrong paths. Give equal attention across children Acceptance Approval especially verbally. Also, some expectations are just words e.g. my child will be hafiz, business owner etc. Mothers who listened to quran during pregnancy have a much more calmer child. Appreciation Affection Authority - Rules 11) Confide in your children, show your human side. 12) Listen, take opinions 13) Discipline is different to Punishment, physical means can be classed as outdates and other ways should be prioritised such as points system. Use polite words and reward children for their polite words. 14) Resourcefulness - Cooperation, children copy behaviour of parents e.g. the way one spouse treats the other 15) successful parents minimise their own issues, draw lines between parents and spouses 16) conflict management, reject the child's behaviour but not the person 17) to be fair, but firm. Implement fair rules 18) positive living, a child can say anything to you, request rather than command, show physical affection to children too, show love in different ways 19) Don't give children everything they want, rather bargain for Jazakallah Khair for reading. Please like so more people will see.

[@hajaaminatamorleh1690]

Alhamdulilah brother for a comprehensive analysis

[@ajasawaneh]

❤

[@ibrahimkamara6225]

Allahmdullillah 🙏 for the analysis.

[@joysarr1969]

🤲🙏

[@hayatruhi7924]

Jazakallahu kheiran for simplifying

[@padillonalmira111]

I am a newly revert as a Muslim, I am a Christian since birh, I am now 45 yrs old at my age I am overwhelmed that I seek my refugee to Allah, words of wisdom that I never heard alhamdullellah I'm so bless to hear them

[@foxfilmz9096]

Same here I'm 37.

[@mulatadhadacho-bt6cr]

I am overwhelmed with live getting hard on me I never give up Mohammed Oman Brough in this country when Teenager young man Lift me alone he should take me school or Mak make married

[@srimulyaniofficial7164]

Mashaa Allah Alhamdulillah Barokalloh welcome

[@joysarr1969]

MashAllah

[@NazirAlladin]

Ameen Assalaamu Alaikum welcome to the religion of peace ❤

[@zacoboy1]

Im a christian from england. Your teachings are good. And you seem a good man.

[@AsgarAli-iu1tf]

Askarali

[@DragoMusivini]

He is one of the reasons that I have so much faith

[@jaredkinley8302]

He is.

[@michalblasko8740]

@@DragoMusivini he is going to hell

[@DragoMusivini]

@@michalblasko8740 who are you to ultimately determine who is going to hell,are you God?

[@nelunelu6333]

I don't no ,who dislike this amazing great message, I'm Christian, and I'm convernt to Islam, alhamdunellah

[@hazratusman7596]

MashaaALLAH

[@sumaiyabegum1407]

Alhamdulilah

[@nilophernisha2174]

Alhamdulillah

[@fathiyamurima4996]

My brother,may allah grant you with jannah firdus,insha -allah

[@zumaribrahim7572]

Uuuh

[@angelhamood1388]

that is proven to me while being pregnant I read and listen to Quran all my 2 children are calm. To my firstborn, I am not yet Muslim but in my heart, I wanted to be in Islam. so when I have my second child my heart is at peace. Alhamdulillah

[@kamthou]

May Allah bless you and guide you sister.

[@KingEriginda]

Come to the truth inshAllah sister

[@desertrosedia8812]

Alhamdulillah..

[@riswqnkhan3400]

May Allah guide u and me all of us

[@mansoorsyed5290]

Q see do it e

[@namukasamary869]

I have just turned Muslim but your teachings have really changed my life I don't want a day to pass by without listening to your teachings masha Allah

[@Nailekrbs]

please do not fall into the pitfalls of Wahhabism, he is a wahhabi.

[@aadilmohamed7704]

Wahhabi means

[@luleedward829]

I too might follow you my sister

[@mymoonseerattan2498]

May Allah bless you and family

[@nadaismail5765]

​@@Nailekrbs Hasbuna Allah wa ne3ma Alwakil 👎👎👎👎👎

[@narmeenwasi8093]

He is a blessing for the Ummah. May Allah grant you Jannat-ul-Firdaus.

[@taofikabdulsalam9486]

Ameen

[@taramisu1483]

Allahumma Ameen

[@farisUllah]

Ameen

[@maribelbalquiedra6444]

im christian but ive learn more from your preaching so so blessed ...i always listen the dua every day ...alhamdulillah🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰❤❤

[@ChildProsperity]

Lovely

[@antipathy17]

I accidentally clicked the video. At first though, I had caution. I guess American media leaves it's effect. I kept my mind open though. I know very bad impressions have been made labeling negatively against Islam. I don't mean to offend when I say I have no interest in your beliefs. With that said, I respect your ability to hold your own beliefs and wish you the best in life. It's good to see the positive side of Islam, which I feel I have seen in this video.

[@kuldude9211]

thank you for understanding. the media pot rays islam negatively a lot, this is not to say that there are no bad muslims. however media picks them up and put them up as good muslims. you said you don't have any interest. however if you can please do some research on islam from Islamic websites.

[@-Muhammad_Ali-]

+antipathy17 thank you for not closing the video right away after that you have clicked it accidentally. Because, due to media I could expect somebody out of Islam to have allergic reaction to people with Muslim looks. Wish you the best and as a Muslim I wish you that God helps you and me reach Jannah after this life.

[@imamuslim375]

May Allah guide me and guide us all. Ameen

[@seasoningfine5562]

nicely said thankyou, there is no negative side to islam and the Quran itself, if a negative is perceived, it is from a human perspective and thought... including ethnic, cultural traditions or influences and political strains on people. so in theory a creator who makes rules knowing all the outcomes should not make any rules that will negatively affect society or a humans prosperity. the media associate many things to islam disregarding events that’s push people into negative actions (ISIS etc..) and the media also fail to demonstrate the actual religious teachings regarding those negative human actions that are condemned in the Quran.

[@unique5413]

@@-Muhammad_Ali- AMEEN

[@ashuus946]

May Allah grant you Jannatul Firdaus

[@ChildProsperity]

Alhamdulillah

[@shakeelansari8657]

I love this man. Actually it shows his efforts before speech and his way of speech is unmatchable.

[@leonifernandez7170]

i love all ur preachings.even im not a muslim

[@oul6you870]

May be Because we can feel his reality.

[@hamzayass8094]

Mufti menk simply explains the message of Islam he does a excellent job at it but what’s even better is the message (Islam) itself. May Allah guide me and you to the right path

[@aminamohammed3805]

may Allah guide you

[@user-qb6jz5sp8h]

May Allah guide you my friend

[@arooba6807]

May Allah guide you towards the right path

[@shalizamohammed868]

Daily Dhikr Reminder ♥️🌻Bismillah 1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah 3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar

[@royelyncarnain1534]

You are a blessing to mankind. Allah bless you more with good health so you could spread more Islam teachings

[@Happyhearter]

1. Duaa for children 2. We are here to make our child to live depend to independent 3 .Early learning stage.. Teach what your child want to be.. 4. pre school is very important becozs teach them both dunya and aakhirah study.. 5. Open talk.. talk to children.. play big role ... fulfill ur role in this life.. dont associate partner with Allah - luqman (Ali) advice # Attention for children.. siblings give even attention.. # Acceptance # praise them Affection make duaa for children Quran tilawah in womb Molesting ❌ # set rules discipline Maintain routine Punishment ❌ Environment is very important # sit and talk .... smooth talk # speak to ur spouse to show how good relationship... children are watching ... teach them good # Avoid Anger... control ur temper # positive living... correct ur children by living... # though words and touch.. Kiss shows affection... and words how much we loved... # reward them ...

[@ambergray7552]

I love your sermons, and I love your laugh! You have so much of Allah’s love and joy pouring out for all!! 😊

[@Brokenheart-of6jh]

Every word he says, it expands my mind and every word of his is so perfect so amazing. I have learnt a lot from this beautiful and amazing speech of him. This is a million dollar speech. May Allah's peace and blessing be upon you brother mufti menk! Ameen! 🙏🏽

[@sameergore2121]

Aàmeen.

[@muslimaairahvlogs6449]

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[@ammarsumandar2513]

Your dua convey islamization may us going to jannah in sha Allah!!

[@fatimradji7390]

I can see myself in the exemple of intelligence, I was very dull at school at primary school but with the Grace of Allah I’m now always between the best students at school . You don’t have to reject your child because of is result at school Allah is the one who give at the appropriate time Inchalah 🙏🏽

[@edwardmillan2440]

Beat the shit out of them! If they misbehave and wont obey? Beat the shit out of them until they grow up and realized they are wrong! They need to recognize authority. Thats the problem these days, kids dont obey parents anymore! You cannot descipline you kids just for talking nice to them, they will just laugh at you! Kids these generation are pussies! They need to be disciplined the hardway if necessary to be tough in life.

[@thatstory1092]

Your fabulous. I don't have a faith as such, or should I say, no religion. Listening to you has been a fresh breath of air. You make a lot of sense. Bless you.

[@haideemaing9440]

May Allah grant you long life and more knowledge Mufti you are one in a million. May Allah grant you Jannatul Firdaus in the hereafter.

[@mimosa1542]

Alhamdulillah i have mother in law whose very easy and wise person that it is very comfortable to talk with her... Maasyaaa Allah....

[@wardatilhaya]

MashAllah you are a great role model I wish all men & fathers be like you and know how to treat their kids and wives with respect and love.. This was my favorite lecture may Allah give you lots of kheir in this life and after. Especially fathers should try to be very close to their daughters! A lot of fathers these days are not educated to be a good father

[@shaheenmohuddy3987]

Hope that his lecture will benefit the whole humanity.jazak ALlah.

[@wafamarie726]

I'm not a parent yet but when I discover the topic "Islamic Parenting" I didn't hesitate to tune in. It's worth it because I can apply it in my life being an Aunt/God Mother in a present and When the time that I can be a great Ummi, Inshallah. May Allah grants us wisdom to have a source of good foundation according to Allah's teachings and will.

[@noraisaesmail5767]

Subhan Allah wa Alhamdulillah ,May Allah grant all of us guidance Aameen

[@ChildProsperity]

Lovely

[@beckybrynjolfsson]

I am concerned about my children. Two boys and two girls. They are in their thirties and the boys are dependent upon their father. I tried so hard to teach them to be grown and independent but now they are with him. Please pray with me for them🙏

[@ChildProsperity]

Good blessing your son

[@joejoepeace1136]

Thank you Shaykh for your teaching that is here for all to learn from almost 10 years later. May Allah reward you abundantly in this life and the next. ❤️

[@akbaralipharm]

Masha Allah What a wonderful speech. May Allah give you long long life So that We may know more about Islam..

[@fatoujammeh3874]

Am a Muslim I feel very educative for listening to your preaching may the Almighty direct us on the right way

[@muniabdu22]

A great lecture with lots of parenting tips. May Allah reward Mufti Menk, organisers of the talk and people who shared it online.

[@aliuabdulsalam6755]

I pray Allah continue to spare your life and enable us to adherent to all your teachings and grant everyone of us Al-janah

[@rahmaethiopia3317]

Jezakelah you opened my eyes about my kids in sha Allah May Allah (sw)make me a good Mother......

[@SN-wz5ls]

I wish to meet Mufti… 🙏 in person.. I recently converted to Islam , and his teachings and lectures are beautiful and makes me so happy

[@AhmadAli-je7jg]

This is the beauty of Islam bro ,its not special guidance for Muslim but its for the entire humanity those believe that is right path to live our life , So brother come forward strongly and be a part of success life .

[@pappy9892]

Religious nonsense

[@AmmaraSHAH773377]

AAAHHH YESSS i love him for the sake of Allah for teaching Attachment relationships and positive discipline to everyone without them knowing lol alhamdulillah that he and nouman Ali have come to understand the importance of Attachment relationships with parents instead of consoles tv or friends. And the importance of discipline in the right way in the long term they will not go behind the back of parents and to be balanced that they have independence within limits. Loving but firm. Consistency. I love how ge basically went through 3 whole books on these topics in one hour and half. Muslim parents need this lecture. In sha Allah. Allah forgive our parents and us as children and give us strength of patience. In sha Allah we will have a better relationship.

[@ilmasharaz3280]

May Allah make us good parents & good examples to our kids. May we be able guide them towards the right path & May they always be dutiful,kind and loving towards us and make dua for us always ! May Allah grant us goodness ! AAMEEN !

[@harnieismail5046]

Subhanallah anak adalah cerminan ibu ayah..apa yg ibu ayah buat itulah yg anak2 akan contohi..Subhanallah

[@1jenniferlala]

Thank you, I needed this. Ameen.

[@thegirltee838]

Masha Allah Mufti, you give me strenght to carry on

[@eslamdaineh2377]

When you listen to Mufti Musa Ismail Menk he sets such a high bar masha'Allah.

[@fantafofana2575]

Thank you very much,this is very important and educational to parents,I feel guilty after listening to you this morning,May Allah bless you and we all,Ameen yarabi

[@alhagibambojallow6337]

MashaAllah

[@ibumas2012]

Masya Allah. M using your video in my teaching for Bachelor Programme in Education (early Childhood Education) Honours. For my subject Family Involvement. Tq so much

[@khanmohammadasimghazi3182]

Masha Allah Iman is refreshed , ❣️

[@hammud567]

That is 100%true, alhamdulillah While me pregnant I'm always read Quran and I can't sleep without listen or read quran.then my baby age 7days until now 6yrs old he can't sleep without listen and read Quran alhamdulillah he memorize short sura and love also story about islamic.and he love mufti Menk his dream become mufti and he always ask Allah to build home in Jannah..

[@AgobiruFaima]

Assalamu aliakum warahmatullahi wabarakahuh and I enjoyed his preaching so much may Allah adds his years more and more so that he teaches people like me who are still in the darkness

[@ChildProsperity]

Absolutely

[@preetikamaly1284]

Masha'Allah Many thanks, I've learnt a lot from this lecture.

[@muslimaairahvlogs6449]

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[@fathiyamurima4996]

Mashallah,your word will make many of us to be good parent inshallah,.

[@islamhi23]

Masha'Allah! Truly amazing knowlege, may it benefit us all insha'Allah and may we all have the mercy of Allah swt

[@demetriovazquez1777]

ALLAH gave me my children may ALLAH guide me to be a special parent amen

[@mawandaali8081]

Thanks sheikh.we pray Allah guides u and we and protects u for our benefit generally as mankind

[@mdakibzabed2104]

রব্বানা-হাবলানা-মিন আজওয়াজিনা ওয়া জুররিয়্যাতিনা কুররতা আ’ইউনিউ ওজা আলনা লিল মুত্তাকিনা ইমামা। অর্থঃ হে আমাদের প্রতিপালক! আমাদের এমন স্ত্রী ও সন্তানাদি দান কর, যারা আমাদের চোখ জুড়িয়ে দেয় আর আমাদের মুত্তাকিদের নেতা বানিয়ে দাও। ~ সূরা ফুরকানঃ৭৪ 🌼🌿

[@queensqueen798]

Subhanallah 😅 Allah you know what and exactly when it is all needed‼️ ALHAMDUILLAH I love you

[@ashuus946]

Jazakallahkhairan for this lecturer

[@murtuzapubg]

I m a great fan of this mufti mashallah He's deep mashallah... Without mind no one can understand him( non muslims)

[@muhammadbabar8343]

I thought he is from Middle East, when I know he is from Zimbabwe then I like him from my heart!

[@ChildProsperity]

I think so

[@ashuus946]

Jazakallahkhairan

[@ChildProsperity]

MashAllah

[@thefoodicon7919]

subhanAllah subhanAllah subhanAllah Glory be to Allah jazakumullahu kheiran

[@ChildProsperity]

SubhanAllah

[@pinkyelesabith4244]

You are great great great Shekh Mufti Mink

[@ChildProsperity]

I agree with you

[@jamalkhan5694]

MashaAllah, Jazakamullahu Khairun.

[@thoushi213]

Really inspiring 🎉Alhamudillah

[@khadijahoyesola3800]

A man of value, he teachings based on realities. The knowledge, instilling are on beliefs and values about life ( facts and truth) and how these help us in our day to day activities with our families and other people( muslims and non muslims) is a plus for him and if we all adhering to them, these will make this world and hereafter perfect for us as ordained by Allah (SWT). May Allah continue to bless and increase him in knowledge. May he and his entire households be rewarded for here in this world and the hereafter.

[@americamania902]

May Allah guide our children in the right way

[@gikiesa.9946]

i always love the way you preaching the word of allah.allah bless you always

[@USER-po5jg]

Allah gives you bless amin .MUFTI MENK THE BEST SEYX IN THE WORLD

[@WhyBeComplacent]

As Always such Great Knowledge to make applicable for those of Us who strive to become Muttaqun.. ALLAHU Akbar, Ameen

[@aminajamal593]

Baaraka ALLAHu fikum,May ALLAH SWT guide us all and welcome to all reverts to Islam .May we be a means of guidance to all we meet.

[@harnieismail5046]

Subhanallah parenting is a proses..proses membesarkan mereka dgn baik...akhlak yg baik..Subhanallah pasti ada cabaran..tp inilah mujahadah kita..anak adalah amanah dr Allah Swt..Subhanallah yg akan di pertangungjawabkan di hadapan Allah kelak..Subhanallah

[@sophikateregga3982]

Jazakallahl hail muft.menk

[@ChildProsperity]

Lovely

[@tashadainkeh9110]

Mashallah 🙏 I learn alot from this beautiful massage may Allah bless you mufti Menk you are a great man 🙏

[@mohammediliyas2042]

May Allah continue to guide us and make our way to Jannah easier

[@hawwazahira1674]

Maasha Allah! Such a beautiful and inspirational sermon. May Allah bless you.

[@rurus22]

8 years ago!But will always have the capability to answer the current questions

[@sarahcraig7713]

This guy is my favourite speaker. Mashallah

[@yasmine5105]

Masha Allah!!! A very good khutbar!!!

[@Bilaliya78]

Beautiful lecture, masha Allah!!! Jazakum Allahu khairan!!

[@80Afiz]

jazakallahu khaeran , may Allah continue to guide u

[@pogota1]

shukran ya cheikh

[@RahmaARahma]

❤❤❤ masha Allah subhan Allah verry nice via jazak Allahu keyren 🎉🎉 insha Allah for every things u teach us we will going on

[@ChildProsperity]

Right Brother

[@yamandustephen6695]

I thank Allah Subhanahuatallah for the wide range of knowledge that he has given you ,as a teacher of teachers, I have personally found it very useful to guide them in their path of supporting the ECD Learning process and to be a good role model to help you, your fellow friends and colleagues then them the children Subhanahuatallah Alhamdulila,Laila ailala Allahuakbar. Amen.

[@hongkongmusiccontent7157]

I love you mufti Sab

[@FahadKhalil1]

MashaAllah beautiful lecture. JazakAllah Mufti Menk

[@marthaungerer5282]

Time spend with a child the parent to be much more in advance before time spend with you child. Wait for the child and always stay positive and friendly Love your children and since birth start talking with the best Love No baby talks.🌈

[@Vorii.]

thank you for the reminder 'brother'

[@jalikagassama5214]

I love all your Islamic parenting

[@andreaboyd3433]

Walaikum Salaam WaRahmantuallahi WaBarakatuh Sahabah Muft Ismail Menk and to your Family & Companions.

[@ChildProsperity]

Assalamu Alaykum

[@afghanistan313]

Zajakallah ho khairen Mufti for the good lecture.very good

[@monjur62]

Masahallah very good lecture

[@zahraaabdallah8273]

Maa shaa ALLAAH. Jazaak ALLAAHU Khair Aljazaa

[@janettemccuien4249]

I don't have children. This teaching is very good

[@soffijarju9129]

Mashallah Allah akber

[@TijjaniUmar-dx4kn]

Masha allah.ya she jazakallahu bil khair

[@MyCindou]

Translation in Turkish would make many lifes of the Younger Adults with their Parents better. I'm one of them. Especially those Videos on Parenting. But mashallah, every Video of Yours teaching is appreciation worth. Inshallah one day they will see what we see in Islam and in our hearts

[@ShamsiyaMohammed-xu8ce]

Maa Shaa Allah ❤

[@faridakhan3705]

Very clear and applicable speech Masha Allah it,l definitely be implied by parents,to bring up refined children Insha Allah

[@mumtee4581]

Mashallah am so grateful for this speech it teaches me a lot of things that I need to work on I have three kids a boy and two girls and the boy is the oldest since I have the girls I have not been giving him enough attention compared to the girls he 9 now need to do better on that

[@nonofina]

jazak Allah kharan mufti.would you pls do lecture regarding single parenting in Islam pls.

[@muslimaairahvlogs6449]

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[@medlokivaz]

Truth will always be beutiful to listen at

[@lenardfloyd8204]

I understood everything that was spoken here....✌🏼&💖

[@abdiaaisha7199]

Excellent lecture Brutha...I passed this off to my daughter. In Shaa Allah it will help with her boys