it girl diaries | being a house wife & mommy for the first time | Vlogmas day 16 I AALIYAH JAY

[@barrieladipo7783]

regardless of anything, you constantly showing up no matter the weather, the feeling, the pressure, the depression, the anxiety, the overwhelmness, thank you, thank you, thank you for always showing up!

[@ceecee366]

Wait, so we don’t get to see how the food came out! 😮 I know you asked us not to complain about how short the vids are, but sis…please give us a complete vlog. No need for cliffhangers, I promise you we will be back tomorrow. ✨🫶

[@greenleesuperfan]

If you need a break take a break. We always welcome you back. A break would actually be preferred over these short vlogs with extremely abrupt endings because we can understand and empathize with that vs feeling like we are getting minimal effort content. I know you said you wanted to push through this year and commit to vlogmas but if your heart isn’t in it, we can tell and you can’t force yourself. There is always next year 😉🤗

[@AleciaAnnmarie]

Low key agree

[@MmapulaTlhabiso]

This💯

[@kiaranelson5602]

Her heart clearly isn’t in this anymore guys, this video and previous videos in this series have proved that. Not sure why she’s forcing it.

[@britney44371]

U can tell when a youtuber’s heart isn’t really in it..

[@MsSahai]

Coins over quality is the basic consensus of this video. No one puts out proper content anymore. Luckily, i read read the comments before clickbait.

[@chelseafreeman5533]

Choosing to complain about what someone OFFERS you instead of just choosing not to watch is insanity. Y'all do know none of us are entitled to anything regarding her and her content, right? Be grateful for what she chooses to show and allow us to be a part of or nothing at all. The real ones know whats up anyways and love and appreciate her regardless.

[@britney44371]

This makes no sense. People wouldn’t know something until they watch. We’re entitled to have an opinion.

[@chelseafreeman5533]

@britney44371 ....but if you're someone who's BEEN watching and supporting her you'd already know that her vlogmas can get a little choppy. She's openly talked about her struggles with it before. Of course we can have opinions but it doesn't mean we need to verbalize them in the ways that I'm reading people do it in the comments. At the end of the day we're outsiders looking in and if you look in and don't like what you see... STOP LOOKING!!! Have the day you deserve. ❤️

[@britney44371]

@ Aaliyah said in one of the most recent vlogs that she has elevated because of constructive criticism and that she welcomes/loves constructive criticism. Some of the recent vlogs do feel like low effort. Someone has to say it. We aren’t yes men. You have a good day aswell 🌺

[@chelseafreeman5533]

@@britney44371 Correct. However there's a difference between constructive criticism and just straight criticism, complaining and being rude. If YOU SPECIFICALLY are someone who is able to share your thoughts in a respectable way that helps her instead of bashes her I don't understand why you felt the need to say anything to me.

[@ShenellM]

No seriously I’m appalled with the comment section! That’s all she had for us and that’s OK. I h8 ppl fr 😅

[@iriswood3744]

Youre talkin about Marriage and a Baby you got to be in the Right frame of mind you will have to get your mind right you will have your work cut out for you everyday will not be a Honeymoon.

[@hunnyblush]

No man is gonna sit around admiring a woman all day, eating take out food for meals. The childish mummy/baby/marriage/cooking attempt always pops up when there is a man around.

[@tracerene]

This was cute I loved the vibe of this video. Now boo you know we want to see how everything turned out and your final thoughts on your test run day!! Love that you’re preparing for that season in your life ❤

[@LadyGabrielleT]

The struggle faces you made as you were cooking were priceless 🤣🤣

[@JessIAMM]

Aaliyah lol....... how are you gonna ask us to take it easy on you and not complain about vlogmas when you give us this shitty quality of a vlog?!?! like girl lol what was the point. you could have combined this with a another day and give us one long vlog.

[@ReallyVerdreana]

11mins? Aaliyah be frrr!

[@thatgirliman]

not too much on my girl , it’s not that serious yall . i loved the vlog❤️

[@MsImaniE]

When the video just ended I thought my husband came up here and changed the channel 😂 shout out to the abrupt endings, my girl said AITE BYE!

[@italiangirlzarefire8071]

@MsImaniE very same thing I went bk and was like I did not change this and then nothing 🙃

[@ms.aranxajoseph]

Im dying laughing at the faces you were making while cooking 😂😂 that was me too about 7 years ago, but now my confidence is sky high in the kitchen. Keep going, you'll get there too ❤️

[@raveenmichelleeeee]

Coffee giving you anxiety is so real! I be having the shakes and the shits😂😂😩

[@lexhall6863]

I had to switch to Half caffeinated and drink two cups of water afterwards

[@mmmmukbang2884]

@@lexhall6863thiss!! I can’t even do half. I drink decaf now. Haven’t had a shot of liquor in a year!!!! Mine is terribleeeee

[@queenbreannawilkerson1186]

Nahhh not the shakes & the shits !! I almost fell out the bed , that is the whole truth !!😂😂😂😂

[@briannakjarrett]

I appreciate any Aaliyah Jay vlog that gets posted ❤💕

[@honey4727]

Love you so much girl!! Your videos no matter how long or short make my day!!

[@DaniWantsLuxury]

I love you! I appreciate you and your effort! Every time I see you uploaded I’m geeked! 🤎

[@Mini-rt8bm]

Isn't the whole point of vlogmas is to show what goes on as the days go on? The people complaining, are ya'll doing extravagant things everyday!? NO so why are ya'll expecting every vlog to be eventful? Ya'll need to be for real! Aaliyah your effort is appreciated sis--short and uneventful vlog or not.

[@itsci]

They living through her instead of living their own lives lol

[@Shaediva38]

I feel you on eating out all the time. I have to force myself to cook. 😂

[@ThatsBabyJ]

S/o to the hard working woman who don’t have time to cook 😂😭😂😂

[@VANESSASDAILYLIFE]

How many of yall rewind to where you seen the man?!? 😮

[@iriswood3744]

@@VANESSASDAILYLIFE I saw the guy

[@_iamshaenate]

Y’all act like she don’t be in the car with the man in every video lol. He’s not a secret, he’s just private

[@TheaCammock]

Aaliyah if you don't cook usually, like what do you eat from day to day?

[@_jadaxoxo]

I was wondering the same thing. Maybe her mom cooks for her

[@TerikaHaynes]

I stop the coffee! Because it was taking a toll on my health I Need it i work 12 hours overnight i also have anxiety! But I had to make a decision! It does make it worse

[@pinktink_fairy]

Use decaf

[@osato2066]

You left us hanging with day 12-15 and now you didn't even finish this vlog 😞. Anyways sending you love ❤

[@moni23me]

I so feel you at the beginning. My cooking spirit hibernates all summer pretty much. Fall I get to baking things & then winter/spring I love to cook. 😂 & I'm working on being a better homemaker too. Lol

[@hershebeauty622]

I can but can't wait to really see you in this era!❤❤

[@Kaialeslie]

girlllll be consistent ❤

[@ItsTopnotch]

I’m like okay she said she gon cook but I know she don’t really be cooking so she probably gonna make a lil pasta or something. My girl said collard greens, bake mac & cheese, candied yams…. Ohhhh yu really COOKIN COOKIN!!! 😩🤣 That caught me off guard! Okaaaaay girl!!!!! Do yo thing then! Lol

[@sarahmahlangu5895]

The way I look forward to your videos ❤❤❤, so happy for this

[@rnt2564]

Girl, I was smiling and laughing when you were in the kitchen. . I love it! Yes, to settle down season.

[@oceanbelow]

4:15 GIRL! I literally was thinking that when you said it! 😂 Facts, it’s genius for them!

[@KrissySaysHello161]

I loooove to look cute around the house. People ask me why and I don’t have an answer. That’s just who I am 🤷‍♀️ I will “dress up” to go sit on the couch lol

[@justmichon]

This was so beautiful to watch. I love the transparency and anticipation for mom and wife life. It’s been so nice watching you over the years girl

[@mathebulatshepiso1376]

These cut off videos😩😩😩😩😩, I know you need them coins but girl just take a break ❤

[@jayb.888]

You should do a ponytail install video/vlog 🥰

[@mauriciamone492]

This is ammmaaazziinng. Congratulations 🙏🏾❤️🩷🎉

[@Mzbeauty418]

Aint no way you aint show us the food 😂😂😂

[@AantreklikMalika]

Aaliyah Jay, keep on doing you! I see why you want to take a break from social media, but you do have real fans who appreciate your vlogs. I know it's hard balancing your everyday life and making content. I also glad you're not afraid to talk about mental health.🤎😊🌹

[@shawnadenise5998]

lawdddd these cut off videos, we want to the food sis 😅😂😩😩😩💕💕💕

[@MmapulaTlhabiso]

Aaliyah baby I love you okay but these vlogs honey😭😭😭 They leave me so unsatisfied! I know you really wanted to commit to finishing vlogmas but it's okay. Rather just give us the longer vlogs and not finish vlogmas than giving us these short vlogs that leave us hanging! Love ya❤

[@HairdiariesofanonguruBlogspot]

I give it to the housewives because it’s like a second job for me honestly since I still work 😂

[@italiangirlzarefire8071]

What this was crazy work NGL 😮

[@bellamonae3943]

Aaliyah this was incomplete, we didn't see the finish food boo.

[@breannabanks3740]

Let’s get it ! Don’t overthink cooking can be fun . I’m excited for you

[@farrahbazzelle268]

I just started taking my anxiety medicine some months ago and I must say coffee doesn't have that effect on me even before I actually started taking the medication and now that I am on it I noticed a big difference in my mood I'm not anxious and nervous and worried all the time

[@ceez5276]

the abrupt endings are pretty traumatizing.

[@TheLovelyHeadache]

Me personally, all this complaining I would end Vlogmas right here and say see y’all in 2026 after a year of rest… I want y’all to start knowing the creators you subscribe to. Enjoyed the short video b/c so many people I subscribe to are doing Vlogmas and it’s a lot to keep up with this year.

[@jennifercisneros1232]

Girl hard working women do be cooking ! Idk what u talking about to stay healthy u gotta cook !!!!

[@luvchildnyc369]

Try mushroom coffee. It’s really good and has less caffeine

[@mayasiachose8386]

Is there part 2 or sumthin 🥲we didn’t even get a bye yall

[@SalihaCudri]

Ok it’s givinnnnn that’s definitely me in the kitchen lol

[@Ellenna03]

I rarely comment but ending the video in the middle of you vlogging and not even bothering to close out the video at that is very crazy. I’m shocked you uploaded this because it says I don’t care about what I out put out, I just wanted to put out something …. Very disappointed

[@Ellenna03]

Middle of you cooking *

[@msoddballz5763]

​@@Ellenna03No offense to you, but how long have you been watching this channel? Aaliyah Jay is known for not closing out most of her vlogs. She even stated in one of her earlier vlogmas videos this year that she forgets. Although this is her job, it's also her real life and it's hard trying to get content, while also trying to live in the moment.

[@TheeIncredibleStaci]

@@Ellenna03girl are you new? She never closes out her videos 😂

[@kelsigrace9945]

😂😂 it’s not that serious

[@cherylzuma6485]

😂😂😂it’s not that serious but I also wanted to see how her plate turned out

[@deborahlewis3413]

Gon head 🫶🏽 cooking is so therapeutic

[@tanikamiller216]

I didn’t know that was considered comfort food??! To me in my house as a real “ mommy” , that’s either a Sunday meal or holiday food!

[@SpicyChannelShoutOuts]

Cooking does not cook hours and days. I cook at least 2-3 times a week full meals that take only 30 to 40 minutes mostly. What are you cooking that takes so many hours and days, lol? When a woman can cook it just that extra thing that makes that man love you more and more and want to be home. Also I think its amazing to be able to cook great food for you or you and your family. I love knowing I can make great food, practice is everything and there's so many recipes and quicker recipes online, you do not have take forever to cook meals.

[@DIANAXUNFILTERED]

Start making matcha! It gives the same energetic affects of coffee but without the side affects. No jitters and crashing in the middle of the day. and it’s healthy!

[@zgs2362]

Stop all the complaining , you post everyday and do 30 min videos , she’s literally still pushing , our life doesn’t depend on her videos I hope ??

[@shefanieraychel1783]

Wait until you find out being a wife and mother is the hardest thing you'll ever do.

[@MagicRye_._]

I can’t w the wig lawddd

[@Thedanielleashlee]

Not too much on Aaliyah now! She’ll post what she wants!

[@Diamond41565]

Girl, you don’t even have to boil those yam. Season them and put them in the oven raw.

[@jessicablake6196]

Aaliyah why you didn’t finish the video

[@RayMichelle]

Missed you boo 💓💓💓

[@TannerBrown-j8i]

Cooking with Aaliyah🎶Cooking with Aaliyah🎶

[@AmandazzWorldd]

I love u but this was literally nothing 😢

[@lifewithlesak]

I be focused on my work😂🥰

[@ItsJackieGray]

I usually love your videos but this year’s vlogmas is giving lazy. Like if this isn’t your passion anymore just go do something else. I’m unsubscribing

[@DerrickLouis-c4z]

A lot people have lol smh

[@shaythareal2382]

I don’t think she cares but I get what you mean

[@sherijackson3149]

HAPPY HOLIDAYS💗

[@jabrionna5011]

I love it girl diaries 💖💖

[@fineappleruntz]

Should she have tittle the video different? Yes but a bad vlog ? Naaa it was good and well edited for me

[@RayMichelle]

Like Before i Watch. Gurllll i clicked so fast

[@aliceaj3521]

Hey! Happy Holidays!

[@diamondk4648]

Now Aaliyah lol why would you end that vlog like that

[@LaShaynaMonique]

*pssst* the title in the thumbnails have a typo… ♥

[@mauriciamone492]

I’m sorry for commenting so fast. Girl I thought we were getting big news!

[@allenettem]

My Girl 😍💕💕

[@tearrahampton4562]

Yeah I don’t like this! I tried to watch but I’m not into it anymore.

[@loriamison4057]

Happy holidays...🥂😘

[@KimmieCole-rp4hp]

I have depression & anxiety I cry for no reason , I get stress out over little things , I been listen to spiritual message so that helps a lot.”🙏❤️I’m glad that u speak on mental health cause it’s so real .”

[@kbougie5095]

Me too, I have been dealing with this issue since high school. Now I’m in college about to get my bachelors in arts and feel more relaxed and comfortable with setting goals and achieving.

[@MrsMarahh]

what happend there

[@tearrahampton4562]

Her thumb tag we don’t get to see she don’t close out

[@Mslilbit]

❤❤

[@PatriciaTA-888]

I thought you was pregnant I was happy for you!

[@pellejess]

Try mushroom coffee research it !

[@shay7065]

🙏🏽❤️

[@ChareniaDiaries]

It Girl❤

[@AnunnakiAngel]

PILL POPPER TO STOP THE DEMONIC VOICES. 😢

[@mschari1484]

The hair line on that wig….. the receding hair line is in the wrong place

[@experiencealist]

Omgggg ❤❤❤

[@ariellafonte]

Hey boooo❤️

[@NishaTanae]

💗

[@daniellehelem4281]

❤

[@sharonbrown7806]

Whatda?! World was that?!

[@ChareniaDiaries]

I just had to be first❤

[@DerrickLouis-c4z]

You fell off bad sis smh do better

[@dechellacurrie4737]

First View and Comment 🎉❤

[@msbuzo4116]

Now I can go to bed Watching from Nigeria and it’s currently 1:56am

[@TheLitsisters-ui9ud]

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