It Is Not A "Trying" Process | Changing Self-Concept

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[@shannon9335]

I spent so much of my adult life BELIEVING I always had to argue for my worth/value/deserving love. Spent so much time in a hamster wheel that ultimately manifested out of what I lived 1/2 my life believing under the surface. Since I have been reverse engineering all this, I’m picking up speed in rewiring my beliefs feeling more and more secure in my creating an entirely new self concept. Let me point out I am in my early 50s, AGE DOES NOT MATTER. Don’t ever feel you’re just “too old” to change your self concept and settling for “status quo” I am doing it. It’s like re-birth. 👑💖👑💖👑

[@davieogirl]

I am 47 and I am becoming a conscious creator now thanks to Dylan's teaching #LimitlessTribe

[@chimps7777777]

49 here! Thought I was too late but it’s never too late! I’m already seeing positive changes in my life! 💕

[@sigalm8205]

I’m sure you are a beautiful being!!🌸

[@francis172272]

48 here! and yes, it's never too late when it comes to our lives. I found Neville Goddard in October 2020, I knew that what he taught was/is real, do you know how many things I have manifested just thinking about them, believing that they were true? Many! but I did not remember, until I paid attention to my thoughts, my beliefs and my words. Living in the "NOW" is helping me focus on what I want and what I AM.

[@davieogirl]

@@barnabas5300 I started listening March 12th. So, I'm over 60 days too. Just YESTERDAY do I feel like I'm close to the End State. I persisted no matter what. This is truly a process. You just have to trust that wherever you are and how you are feeling on that day is where you are supposed to be on that day in the process. Persist! We got this! #LimitlessTribe

[@111coolone]

If a person treats you like trash then turns around and treats the next person like gold- that should tell you something. It’s not bc they don’t want you or bc that that “third party” is better than you, it’s bc you created the situation in which you weren’t chosen. If you truly loved yourself, you would always be the chosen one who get treated like gold. Things are starting to click for me every day more and more :)

[@star17ful]

oh omg yes😭

[@manishaojha3382]

@M I know it's the same question again but when I started with the tapes I felt awesome. Gradually as I saw no movement it makes me more sad. And im again on the question whether it's working or would k even get what I want. How do you not let your focus go anywhere else? I had the same circumstances

[@111coolone]

@@manishaojha3382 best thing to do is don’t beat yourself up when you spiral and react. Get back up and continue to persist and work on SC. If you’re still reacting to circumstances, that’s an indicator you need to work on your SC. I’m still working on this too so you’re not alone. Also remember that someone treating you like shit is NOT an indication of your value as a human being. The way someone treats you is merely a reflection of how you feel about yourself AND how you are perceiving that person. Another thing that helps is to remember that the only reason your SP is special in your reality is bc YOU like them and have them on the pedestal. Otherwise they’re an imperfect human being just like everyone else- they’re not some unattainable god or goddess that’s out of your league. This is not in a condescending way bc of course we’re all special in our own way (it’s ok for your SP to be special to you, nothing wrong with loving someone), but you have to have a perspective shift. Understand that anyone would be lucky to be loved by you because YOU are the special prize

[@111coolone]

@@manishaojha3382 and keep listening to the affirmation tapes. You’ll see change eventually. The first change starts within your self which will then get reflected in the 3D. The minute you feel a shift within yourself, that IS movement- regardless of what you’re seeing in your 3D. In the past before my manifestations came in the 3D, I felt good internally despite not seeing physical movement, but then the 3D movement would follow.

[@manishaojha3382]

@@111coolone Thats such a detailed explanation to take away. Thank you so much. My circumstances were like 1.5 months ago and even a flash of any of that makes me feel awful. So I tried revision. Kept on it for days. But now I realised that you got to accept it like it is and put an end to it into your mind. I get your point. It's all about diversion from that thought or flashbacks. I was about to give up but now I feel like I'm going to do this. It's just that it's gets tough if time passes by and maybe you didn't click the shift yet. I love you already for being so supportive ❤️ Can't be grateful enough ❤️❤️

[@SorcererLord]

When you look into a mirror you don't try and change the reflection, you change yourself and the reflection changes accordingly.

[@sudi1353]

Thank you for saying that! ❤️ It really helped me understand better!

[@vivianmontgomery9082]

"let the world adjust to where you are" this stuck with me.

[@BriannaNicole____]

YASSSS ME TOO

[@trust.it.444]

111 likes!

[@davieogirl]

I don't need to play a game that I already won...and that's on Mary had a little lamb!

[@IAm_DylanJames]

PERIOD

[@Ashley-rp8fg]

Yessssss!!!! 👑

[@decide.on.the.inside1251]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂YAAAAASSSSS!

[@Nonoftgtg]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@stephh.3320]

The Stevie Ray Vaughn version of Mary Had a Little Lamb or the actual nursery rhyme lyrics

[@ASMRBarbie]

The term: “Life is not happening to you, it’s happening through you!” My god how true that is !!!!!😍😍😍😍

[@christinalydia]

I love each time he says it 🤩 There should be merch with this line 🙏

[@Power4MyPpl]

“I don’t need to play a game I’ve already won” this is so deep…love this video

[@sheilas6547]

It's like if someone calls you a purple table you'd just laugh you wouldn't explain to them you're not a purple table.

[@amaaa3608]

😂😂😂

[@sanamsitaram7940]

Omg yes😂

[@gbeken82]

Yes! This would actually make it easier to tell people “nope. You’re wrong” I think I may use this when people tell me things. Translate to purple table and “bye Felicia!”

[@gabriellareyes6694]

SO TRUE lol I’m gonna think of this going forward haha

[@shireensaroea946]

:)

[@gbeken82]

I have made my husband listen to you whenever he’s with me. He didn’t believe in my manifestations until he’s started manifesting scratch off wins. I tell him he has to listen to you now. You’re amazing! We’re both manifesting him home this summer after 2 years not living together. We always win in court! And we are worthy of finally having our family together!

[@gabriellepitts3707]

After 3 weeks of The Limitless Manifestor and 5 days of the Confidence tape I can literally finally understand what you’re saying … It’s like circumstances are beneath by awareness. It’s like walking on the sidewalk and no longer seeing the cracks. You fearlessly walk over them because you know they are not craters.

[@sanamsitaram7940]

Many of us know and understand these concepts on a logical level, but you just explain things in a way that makes it all really just "click" when I'm struggling to internalize what I know. You're a gem🙌

[@ElRocco313]

I hope you fully realize how much we appreciate you. You're an amazing coach and the lightbulb you helped to turn on in my mind has saved my marriage when it was literally days from ending 🙏 In a matter of a couple of weeks, I have manifested everything in my life that I had been "trying" to manifest for months

[@khushboobatra5900]

So happy for you! it is so crazy that all we ver had to do was believe and love ourselves! congratulations! ]

[@MultiMusicbeats]

How u did it. What u adopted

[@ZolloBeauty]

We the limitless toe gang!! 😂💫

[@decide.on.the.inside1251]

🤯🤯🤯Ooooooooh DYLAN!!!!! .... got me clutching my non-existent pearls between that 17-18:30 min mark!!!....... when you said “.... THEN WE CAN TALK!...” Babbbby! MIC DROP!!! 🎤 Just mind blowing! You are the best coach out there! Hands down! 💞💞💞💞

[@Ok-qj8rj]

Thank u so much Dylan !! I’m only on day 5 of listening to the limitless manifestations and feel so much more confident and can finally relax without worrying about whether what I want is coming or not. My sp also texted me and were hanging out tonight after he’s been very distant from me !!!

[@amaaa3608]

Awesome! Love that for you

[@brittanys8672]

I’ve been listening for about 8 nights now and I can’t say I *feel* anything specific. Like I don’t feel different good or bad. Do you think the tapes are still working?

[@Ok-qj8rj]

@@brittanys8672 the tapes do work you just have to continue to fall asleep to them for about 21 days. Something I do to help really receive the affirmations in the tapes is telling myself right before I go to bed that I’m accepting these as my new beliefs and letting go of my old ones.

[@krutikadave4534]

It's feeling like a WAR on limiting beliefs right now. I am beautiful and radiant and glowing. I am on the right path now. I am not trying, I am all knowing. Thank you Dylan, you don't know how many people are going to be Happy in their lives due to your efforts. 🤗✨

[@YappyTurtle]

It's so funny that yesterday I was feeling horrible because my reality is not yet what I want it to be and then i decided to fast for a while and focus solely on myself for the next 21 days and then this video lol. I'm finally starting to understand what Dylan mean that life is happening thru us

[@Nicole-po7kb]

I have been listening to your limitless manifestor video for only 3 nights now and I had a dream of my SP texting me wanting to phone me then coming to see me , it felt so real 🥰 I feel so relaxed knowing that it is done and will show up soon 💕

[@kadythompson4538]

D Y L A N... Your presence alone makes me feel so happy, so worthy and so LIMITLESS. Thank you for all you are doing to help so many especially me!!! ✨✨✨💙❤️💙

[@connienisen5564]

I totally needed this! I’ve been looking for the change in him. I am the one who needs to change. Duh! I have bee so stressed over him and what he does and doesn’t do. I’ve unraveled some major beliefs and have encountered this beautiful little girl who has surrendered what she wants to find love. I wrap my arms around her, we laugh, play and smile so big together now. I’ve come to the point of caring so much about feeling good and enjoying my life.

[@ammievachon]

I’ve found my phone off and on the floor across the room multiple times! But I persisted and continue to persist and I feel so amazing! This is a lifestyle for me now!

[@tamarajerilovic7028]

His every video is like a pep talk

[@diamondhunter8494]

Circumstances really don't matter seriously...just realign yourself...positive energy

[@divinely999]

The fucking timing of this video 🙏🏽

[@davieogirl]

IKR!

[@StephaniePisces]

Dylan, your teachings make me feel so much better. It’s the best gift I’ve ever received...now Ima manifest more fabulous gifts for myself. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

[@dbsk06]

14:00 if you’re trying to change your circumstances you’re indirectly reinforcing your old self concept Let the world adjust to where you are. Stop playing a game you already won 13:00 guilt and shame

[@KortneeLeFay]

Damn Dylan this was DEEP! The flirting part made me giggle - since I'm a pansexual I never got why ppl got so offended when their partner would comment on another human being. I love everyone, and everyone has their own beauty. So like if someone looks good I will praise them no matter what the gender! Because why not!! 🥰🥰 I love lifting ppl up! 💕💕

[@soullove670]

Wow! I honestly love you so much! “Why am I going to play a game that I already won?!” Yassss I love that!

[@TheAngelonEarthh]

I made my own belief tape with hundreds of my own new beliefs to target everything I have been experiencing with how I view myself, how others view me, my relationship with money, my relationship with SP. Literally my whole life of jumping into a new reality... even a new story with how my SP shows up for me and I noticed I woke up through my sleep and my EARS WERE CLOGGED. OMG 😂😂😂😂😂🤭 I LITERALLY HEARD THEM UNCLOG WHEN I WOKE UP. WILL THIS GO AWAY?! 😂

[@matthewisthebest8152]

Hey I am over 4 months in of personal take still getting resitance lol keep persisting

[@amaaa3608]

Needed this video! Been a wonky week with SP. Was getting inconsistency and unresponsiveness. Then I just said nope, that's my old story. I don't need to figure it out. I also assumed and affirmed that he knows exactly how to show up. i decided I was manifesting and receiving beautiful connection for us this weekend with openness and great conversation. And he apologised this morning, but we didn't have time to talk at all. Was just thinking "should I text" maybe to "kick start" the connecting lool. Watched your video and now I'm like nope. I'm receiving, I'm worthy, I'm confident and I trust it can shift instantly. It's coming to me, he's coming to me. It's just that right now, I have to restsbilise everytjme reality pops up, which is often 😭

[@belinda72]

I Love "Life is not happening to you, it's happening thru you" 💘 ❤

[@kristinas2231]

OMG These resistance examples are wild 😳😳😳

[@TR-zm5bc]

Does anyone else see the ray of light beaming through him ?

[@tonirusso6686]

You nailed all of it in this one, Dylan - and perfectly at that!

[@rwited9250]

finding ur channel was the biggest blessing... THANK YOU!

[@RachelSullivan73]

Everytime that I watch one of Dylan's videos I'm struck by how much that this process is so similar to Yoda's teaching. "It's not a trying process" is literally "Do or do not, there is no try". Wonderful uplifting stuff.❤

[@MySpiritualFriend]

Been listening to the tapes for a few nights. Wow the dreams. My ego showed up as a demon 🤣 she sure doesn't want to be quieted.

[@gbeken82]

So happy to have found you and have you “in my life” you honestly have helped me so much!

[@kavithag865]

Dylan.. its so good to see you always.. your sessions really motivate me while I am slightly wobbly.

[@binabaka]

Superb as always 🙏❤️. This one resonated with me so much. Thank you Dylan 🤗

[@anaisd3735]

Dylan is a diamond seriously lol you are the best coach. So delightful to listen to your videos

[@luctremblay2228]

You’ve said exactly why I feel low with myself when someone doesn’t like me or give me attention. Thank you again for your teachings, Lianne 🇨🇦.

[@claudiakuhlmann8366]

WOW Dylan, another gorgeous session from you, absolutely fantastic, you are the best, thank you very much.

[@Mrs_Lee93]

What a beautiful soul :) Sending love and light to everyone. Always remember you are limitless and you are the creator of your life ! Always be aware of your thoughts because you are constantly manifesting everything in your life. Be positive and keep attracting all that you desire.

[@tjellis9528]

This is literally the only thing I need to hear ever this is how it works!! Why do I forget?

[@yosychava]

I keep repeating this specific video over and over and over. I totally get it but I need this to get in my system. I need this to become my second skin. Thank you! Thank you. Finally I see the light .🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😘

[@heavenlady8273]

You are gifted in explaining concepts in the easiest way possible for a novice to understand. You put me on the right track. Keep doing what you're doing, you are truly a blessing.

[@Its_Gellz]

Its my first time coming across your youtube page and I've been in a funk about something that I've been feeling. I couldnt quiet put my finger on it. This was it. What I needed. Hearing it outloud made me reflect from a clearer perspective. Thank you 🙏

[@joanie5262]

Your videos about it not being a trying process, is especially helpful to me. I appreciate your explanations a lot. Ty!

[@ivaslife]

There is no one better than you. The best coach ever❤

[@tanyafelts1829]

I love how you said about tech malfunctions. You are the first confirmation of this being something within me as it’s been happening to me at all sorts of points even including phone malfunction to force me to randomly listen to things not just the crazy tech crashes.

[@vandoan8295]

Can't wait to have my session with you Dylan! Ever since I started watching your videos, I've realized so many limiting beliefs that I have, still very excited to talk to you still to unravel further limiting beliefs!

[@anaisd3735]

So so so so right!! Great reminder my dear💯💯💯

[@melinageorghiades7414]

Thank you Dylan, you always help! Love from South Africa 💖🌸🤗

[@lollyjune6576]

Another powerful teaching ! It’s so crystal clear and only watching your videos help you shift your mindset and see another perspective which is much more hopeful than everything you’ve been said before like you have to heal and healing happens in waves so you have to experience shit in your life countless times. No! You keep experiencing the same shit because you have this belief in yourself. It will never heal unless you change it! Thank you Dylan 🙏

[@John-ns5se]

Hi Dylan I just wanted to say thank you for helping us believe in ourselves that we can have the life we desire. Before listening to your limitless affirmations I had always felt insecure about myself and felt unworthy about having what I want especially in love.I'm only on day four and already I feel like I actually can have what I want and I believe that I am worthy. Bit a resistance here and there but I think that it is working. I have never like this before that I am awesome or that I can have what I want. Its a miracle that stumbled upon your channel, can't wait to experience the life that I want. I can already my feel that my desire is mine and any thing is possible. 😊

[@bkskaur7232]

You are on fire! Love it!

[@rissi2352]

Wow Dylan I love you!! This video is gold. Lol I remember after waking up after my 7th night of listening to the limitless tape I had the best feeling in the world and my first word (said internally) were: I love you Dylan :D Seriously you deserve all the success you are experiencing and more, and everybody deserves to listen to your wisdom! Bless you

[@Jolene37]

I love you Dylan. You are helping me build my confidence back up and I feel like my heart and spirit is renewing each day. You are an earth angel.

[@OE2023]

Just watching your videos pick me up, loving it!

[@eglemark3901]

Amazing, asigning the desired meaning to any situation and trusting that it leads you towards where you really want go 🎉🎉🎉

[@sigalm8205]

You are so inspiring!!! Just a gift 💝 to us!!! Thank you , you also have a nice voice:))

[@nicoleatkins8377]

So happy you popped up in my reality ❤

[@chimps7777777]

I recently found you and I love your energy, what you share and how you get it across! 💕 thank you!

[@raylight4238]

One of my favorite dylans videos..

[@Dmousumi]

I had to share this, I was consulting a Vedic astrologer today and the only remedy she suggested me to listening to your affirmation tape ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@zaynabzkh9913]

This video was needed. ♥️

[@jenlee3139]

This video is everything! You have totally enlightened me!

[@reginaalmaraz7561]

I am worthy & and I believe i get everything I want 😁💖

[@Jj-ls1nd]

I’ve been doing the work I have 20+ days doing the sleep subconscious meditation. And I know, I JUST KNOW my sp will manifest as my husband. I’m so thrilled I almost feel like screaming and letting him know!! Ughh yet, I will remain in my feminine energy 🙂

[@Debbie_7828]

Did you do anything else to feel this way or just the tapes ?

[@Jj-ls1nd]

@@Debbie_7828 listening to the self concept limitless manifestor every night. I have deep dreams some are with my sp. after listening to the vid affirmations come naturally to me.

[@Debbie_7828]

@@Jj-ls1nd I’ve been listening for about 17 days now and also have vivid dreams some he’s in but not that favorable and things are not good between us right now 🥺 Thank you for your reply!

[@Jj-ls1nd]

@@Debbie_7828 of course anytime! Hmm tbh I ignore the 3D . I just go in my mind and literally think about what I do want. It takes training and practice but that sleep meditation has helped me a lot. Just leave it playing as background music during the day & sleep with it on at night. It becomes easier day by day ✨

[@Debbie_7828]

@@Jj-ls1nd tysm! I’ll start listening during the day also so that it really sinks in! My constant doubts don’t let me think about what I DO want, I always get a negative thought to counter my good ones so I struggle with like visualizing and stuff. I’ll keep persisting you’re awesome! Ty

[@bobbie750]

You are glowing !!!!!

[@shezsheshezshe9825]

GOOOOOOOOD MORNIIIIIIING DYLANNN ☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️

[@davieogirl]

Dylan, funny side note...last week when you mentioned manifesting a purple car I had a quick thought, yeah, I want to manifest a purple car. I saw 2 purple cars in 2 days 😂

[@BKbaddie]

Thank you Dylan !!! 🤗

[@mikimcfayden5372]

This is so so good!

[@shkullamaiwandi2967]

I love you Dylan, you help me get through every single day and look forward to your videos 🌹❤️🙏😘

[@dbsk06]

This is one of my favorite Dylan videos ❤❤

[@111moonlightX]

Dylan you made me realise that I don't have to fix anything or anyone around me and play a viticom role I knew it before I found your channel but the think was I was tried of fixing me and others feeling the pressure of shame or any low sate of being axtiney controled me for couple years and made me a guarded person just not to get hurt but I know deep down that was not me . I tried and tried. but yes trying brings more trying and more controlling and stress .I am one year younger than you But, You are like role model to me now super smart truly good person after 3 weeks of noticing you I feel much better but much better is not my end I want it all and I wanna live my life fully and be and feel aboundce in all aspects of my life . Thank you so so much sending you love from other side the earth 💕💕💕👑

[@alextfife]

21:12 the Neo reference yessss I’ve watched it so many times recently because it keeps like showing me these concepts over and over My fav movie. You are on it bro 🔥

[@SrtaBGoode]

Great video Dylan. Thank you xxx

[@rebelangel5565]

Can't wait to get my plan from you!!

[@angelicac1125]

3 days after listening your affirmation tape and I am having all kinds of feelings, like both my subconscious and conscious mind are in a “fight”. I know deep in my heart it is done, but my “head” feels otherwise 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[@stormwarrior3609]

I love how Dylan constantly reminds us that circumstances don’t matter. 💜

[@keirakeneallysupermodel560]

I LOVE YOU!! 💖✨💖✨ This is AWESOME!!

[@elma4702]

I`m happy that I found your channel :)

[@gahyaatridevwi6592]

Lotssssssss of love to you, Dylan♥♥♥thank you so much😀😍🙏

[@lisaammerman1596]

I seriously love you so fucking much. You have no idea how much you have helped me. I listen to one video a day. And the things at night and omg it’s amazing for real. Thank you Dylan ❤️❤️❤️

[@Anjewel]

sc is rly the predominant reason of my circumstannces~I'm so grateful to ur videos,which have enhanced my status a lot.

[@1WAQIAH]

Dylan I been listening to you and these affirmations. And I manifested a car crash… I walked away a - okay nothing broken and no internal damage. The resistance is real… I’m going to persist but we are so fucking powerful. I’m so glad I found your channel because I’m about to go thru the biggest changes in my life and I’m ready to come out on top! Manifesting that I’m a winner and I am worthy. FINALLY. What a journey !

[@annekaluna9089]

I love your channel! You’re so much helping me and others I’m sure of also! My personality tests are counselor and uniter and it totally dawned on me I need to stay with my personality in pursuing my job efforts. What I’m passionate about! Btw I love protein shakes and kombucha! You are totally amazing energy!

[@mariamaidana5987]

love love loveeee this explanation

[@Rose-lq7uo]

Damn this one is GOLD ❤

[@Meowsicle19]

I would charge my headphones to 100% and still they would die after an hour or two, or my file would get a random error even though they would work fine before….i must be really powerful if my body is resisting this much!

[@duli931]

Love wins!!!! Yesssss Dylan! 💗💗💗 Love you 😘

[@j2the-Y]

@Dylan James you speak the truth and this is explained so clearly 🙏🏽❤️

[@phoebe9825]

So funny you said that, on the first night listening to the tape I got out of bed asleep and turned it off! I'm not on day ten and feeling so so different.

[@tinanunez6603]

I can’t believe I stumbled across this video today. My sp literally told me I wasn’t beautiful and of course the one video I chose to watch today out of all your videos would be talking to me!!

[@myrahbaby7104]

Omg you are my best friend in my head! You are the truth!

[@AnaMaria-bg8ek]

Thanks God i ve found you!🎉 At 41 you change all my life and all my belives, and incrase my self confidence ! 🙏❤️

[@manjorimondal7395]

Watching one video right jusr after waking up is enough to feel great about my...can I just say I love you ❤️