It's not easy to get along well with mother-in-law(Mr. House Husband EP.235-4) | KBS WORLD TV 211231

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[@atemajo]

Mother-in-law shouldn’t go against the mother in front of the kids like that. I think it undermines her authority as a mother. Children need to understand that their mother should be respected. If the grandmother takes issue with the parenting of the children, she should discuss it with the parents in private. Edit: I really appreciate everyone’s replies! I believe it is beneficial to hear other people’s experiences, beliefs, and perspectives (So long as it is all respectful). I am very interested in learning more about family dynamics in other cultures. Very glad to hear from the international community

[@skulfitt]

Well said !! But we asians learnd to have respect for elder people . But its whats he said she's raising them in a liberal way and the grandmother in the old fashion way .we are a humble, so we will never go against the people who build the country for us and in some cases fight for the rights and freedom we all have right now

[@user-hl4vl8qd7h]

@@skulfitt when you say asiens raised to respect the elders for me who lives in korea as forgeiner means accept what elders say or do even If it is rude, bad... Do you think the rest of people in other countries dont respect their family, parents?? Do you believe that we mistreat elders..?? In korea society almost everything has to do with age but being older doesnt mean you have the right to critisize or interfere in others lifestyle even If they are your children! We learn from elders but life moves on, things must change for the better! We respect all people, young and old ones and we respect them for their personality and their actions! The mother in law has a different mindset but cause of age experience shouldnt make the mother feel bad! The husband should also be more energetic with his kids and more supporting to his wife(thats a huge problem for most men!)

[@nadeshdaamina]

Right. And often the children not like the grandparents. I see how my grandmother treat my mum. And I hate her. And I don't wanna see her, she don't know where I live. And my father hate it too. Because he is her son and she don't know how to speak well with other.

[@ayatahery1427]

@@skulfitt Respect for the elderly does not exist only in South Korea. It is the same where i live but that does not mean they have every right

[@yasminlee8]

@@user-hl4vl8qd7h well said!! 👏

[@priskakh7597]

I think Yulhee is doing great as a mother. She is still young & already has 3 kids. Moreover she had to sacrifice her career to take care of her family. It must be not easy.

[@roodamaxamud3103]

It's not a sacrifice it's bless and good thing to be a parent and it's a choose she chooses

[@Nanda_ares]

Yes it's not like her kids are just skin and bones. They are well fed

[@comradeleppi2000]

​@@roodamaxamud3103still it's sacrifice

[@Pwrettybossy]

​@@roodamaxamud3103 it's a sacrifice and bless at same time ...

[@jeanysong9468]

Now i know why they divorce.. she is doing the right thing by leaving him... such a bad mother in law.. i can only imaginge how she treated her off camera...

[@delphinea.2848]

Though the grandmother means well, it is not her place to comment on their lunch and go bring her own for them. Minhwan saying he "walks on eggshells" because of his wife and mother's different parenting styles is wrong on so many levels. You are raising these children with your wife, how your mother thinks shouldn't matter; it isn't about her.

[@kimqaisara]

*sips tea* for real tho He needs to step up and be active with parenting. I mean I said this as a fan coz I'v been a primadonna (their fan name) since Ftisland debuted but ever since he impregnated his wife ... who is an idol herself and is still active at the time ... I lost respect for him coz ... hmmmm he completely ruined her career and the group that she's in. Plus, I doubt that her wife's fans got any kind of closure from her 'sudden' pregnancy.

[@user-hr8vp2nu5q]

@@kimqaisara everything about what he's been saying and doing so far only screams mentally immature momma's boy who shouldn't have ruined his wife's career and started a family (not hating on the kids tho) because he don't have the balls for it. Yulhee deserves better

[@baesoo3601]

Cultural differences Uh r may be talking about western culture but in Asia it's common for grand parents to interrupt on grand babies best decision I think uh r right but on your way

[@kimqaisara]

@@baesoo3601 Naaaaaaah. Im asian too and wht grandma's doing is not ok. Plus, OP's main point is about Minhwan actually. About how "supportive" he is when it comes to parenting. LOL.

[@MariaValdez-pv2wi]

@@baesoo3601 I’ve witnessed this so many times in my family and it’s a culture difference that needs to go. Doesn’t benefit anyone at all

[@monaegielove885]

It must have been hard for Yulhee. I truly hope she is happier now. It is obvious that she loves her kids and took good care of them, she was a great mother. But when her husband doesn't stand up for her in these kinds of situations, it makes it hard for the marriage. Fighting Yulhee ❤

[@Mtzmtz540]

I hope the Mother-In-Law can watch this episode and see with her own eyes how NOSY she is. He has so much pressure being an idol. And now he wants to come home and enjoy his own family. But guess what?? He not only has his own family to worry about but his mother adds so much pressure in these young parents. One day she will realize how much harm she did to them. You never know, she can be the cause of a separation. Sad, but true.

[@keripikkentang72]

And now..... they got divorced😢

[@kuxikuzi7622]

U come from future?

[@andiuptown1711]

🎯🎯🎯

[@ecodor6257]

They are divorced în 2024

[@MissGourmandefr]

Why do men (and especially Asian men) have such difficulty to express that they disagree with their mom ? Or that they think their mom do something wrong ? I get that they value their mom and their wife but staying silent will only increase their wife’s stress, loneliness and uneasiness. My dad was like that and my mom fell into depression because of it

[@nabilaezzati6259]

i know right.. they are so coward ..like i know its not good if you dont listen to your mom but not all the thing your mom doing is right

[@user-hl4vl8qd7h]

@@nabilaezzati6259 he is not a baby to listen to his mother! He's a grown up with a big family to support!! He has to make his own decisions!! The meaning of respecting the elders is so twisted in korea!! I have seen elders mistreat their chirdren and noone did nothing! In west we would call the police for abuse but not in korea...

[@nabilaezzati6259]

@@user-hl4vl8qd7h only not in korea but in asia ..and im from Malaysia i've seen this a lot in my country ..the wife always being the victim bcs of the husband and his family

[@user-hl4vl8qd7h]

@@nabilaezzati6259 I know but I mentioned korea because of the video. Unfortunately still in 2022 women in Asia are consider second class citizens even by law and not only by culture!! I even saw how they treat a wife from a poorer country like Phillippines... I will say it again asien have a twisted idea about respect! But also at west we see women being mistreated and thats something that must be changed!! North european countries like Sweden protect women rights and help them a lot! They support single mothers and noone badmouth them... That is a great example of a country who treats people equally.

[@justmayie8699]

@MissGourmandeFr Hmmmm Maybe you're not asian so in your perspective he might be a mama boy, but for mostly asian man, he is quite more active than many others. Most Asian men in his situation often just sit there and say nothing, trying to avoid participate in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law because they are afraid of trouble and do not see it as their responsibility. Or worse, a lot of asian men just listen to their mothers without caring about their wives' opinions and assume that their mothers are always right. Because the majority of Asian grandparents are also involved in the care of their grandchildren, plus a generation gap and a culture of respect for the elderly (sometimes a bit exaggerated), they think they have a complete right to interfere in raising their grandchildren, because they think that the parents "have no experience as parents, so they do not have the right to raise their opinions on how they do it". He already understand what happens in relationship between his wife and his mother and comforting Yulhee. Of course that he isn't good when not step up and solve the problem but... Yeah atleast for me, he did neither good nor bad. (Sorry for my bad English)

[@Ann3v]

I empathize with Yulhee's situation. Observing her on this show and their vlog channel, it's clear she's a fantastic mother. It's disheartening to see her struggle with raising her children in the way she desires, especially under the critical gaze of her mother-in-law. I also really like her message about wanting to rediscover herself after their divorce because she was a full time mom for so long. I hope Yulhee and the kids are all okay.

[@denden2935]

Wow, that mother-in-law is so direct. Yulhee is an absolute saint to endure that. Yulhee has been raising 3 children who are obviously healthy and happy in her own way..plus looking after Minhwan! Generation gap or not, the mother-in-law should learn a better way of discussing such things with the daughter-in-law!

[@varshitapendyala2401]

Maybe this might be the reason for their divorce as he is clear not a supporting her wife and a dominating mother-in-law will always be a problem

[@nicat26]

If this is what you show on TV… what goes on in the background without cameras around… ?

[@dying_carat]

@@nicat26 that's the thing. Even in front of cameras it's like this, there's a huge chance that the situation was worse behind it

[@andiuptown1711]

*What I’ve been saying!!*

[@betnak6283]

If the in laws are involved in the marriage especially how to discipline your kids,be prepared .

[@gimmegoodusername933]

I like how these comment section support the mother. There's no comment supporting the mil loll. Passed the vibe check

[@aliciachin4183]

If I was Yulhee, I would have immediately fight and break down into tears, knowing that my ‘’mother-in-law” is doubting my parenting style.

[@alisonfraser8231]

Yeah, but that lets her know she hits the mark. Better to agree verbally and do whatever the hell you want just the same.

[@goodpocky2]

That was so rude how she said "See the kids like this more than bread" WTH

[@zee9233]

This I also agree on she cooks them just as good meals this was just meant as a snack before dinner probably I think the MIL was just taken aback a lot when she felt like she wasn’t heard maybe idk 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@meteik]

Not rude

[@farahsyahidah4318]

yulhee doing good as a mother of 3 kids. her mother in law should give her respect & space for her daughter-in-law. Everyone has their own way to raise their kids

[@IffeMalli]

Nothing gives you the right to tell a mother how to raise her own kids Infront of said kids, you're basically undermining her authority and her husband is of zero help, dude just clammed up, like speak up for your wife and help her and your mother learn to get along with each other

[@utubesucks9302]

With the lack of support no wonder they’re divorcing

[@fearyfore]

I think the MIL's treatment of Yulhee, undermining her parenting and Minhwan not saying anything contributed greatly to their divorce.

[@k.rystyl4084]

combined with him not home much def !

[@lilolikespinach7912]

Just got here after the divorce announcement. This is so sad, it reminds me of the series “because this is my first life” 🙁😔 All the best for yulhee and her ex husband, also their kids.

[@leeboonchea530]

I think this is the cause of divorce, leave them for parenting their children,and the husband didn’t support her enough,never marry mamma boy😮

[@oshriegirl]

Agree. They live for the sane roof .. I cant imagine how hard for yulhee

[@erikajaney._.]

​@@oshriegirlfrom i remember the sis in law also lives in the basement 😢 Im so sad but eonni must've probably felt suffocated

[@christelhilario8086]

You guuuus should watch them in The Return of Superman this year,, they're trying to clear their name while low-key invalidating the sacrifices of yulhee..😢😢

[@erikajaney._.]

@@christelhilario8086 FR 💔 poor eonnie

[@YunahKUnnie]

It's not because they live in the same big house that the grandmother can come when she wants and tell what should be done...Poor Yulhee :( We don't really know what happened, but that was certainly part of the decision to separate...

[@rainoftranquility7735]

this mother in law is too much. she needs to mind her business. the kids are being well taken care of and she is simply being rude and disrespectful to the mother of these children. its even sadder that the husband sit there and says nothing to his mother. Its at this point that they need to move away from the in-laws beause I would never be able to tolerate this level of disrespect

[@itz_tami_9067]

They got divorced 🥲

[@florentinag1712]

This is so sad, if that lady continued to impose her opinion, which is probably one of the reasons why they divorced. 😢

[@NaJwa2273]

No wonder they got divorced, Yulhee really look uncomfortable with her in law in this show. I felt bad for the kids 😢

[@arinaelmairvany]

I watched this episode after hearing the news that they were divorcing. Hopefully they will continue to be good parents for their children

[@ruhanizza807]

That is why we cant live in the same house with mother in law.

[@razioradz]

Cant help to think that mother in law might play role in their divorce.

[@SheeChuMwa]

I second to that. I feel Yulhee's struggle. She is just trying to be respectful to her knowing that her husband is right infront of them.

[@thruthewrld]

the mom seems so sweet. grandma didn’t have bad intentions but could’ve handled it differently because it isn’t her household to control.

[@sassyish247]

Minhwan should be the one convincing his mother, to stick with his wife parenting.

[@Hoid.]

Yulhee is honestly a saint and the grandmother should learn her place. She isn't even giving advice, she's odering her around

[@gracewood6768]

seeing this made me realize this might be the main reason why they got divorced. anyone?

[@ayatahery1427]

honestly, i would not like my mother-in-law interfering with how I educate MY kids. It is fine to help out and give advices, but i chose how i want to raise them since they are my kids.

[@cha4050]

I understand if she just said it and tell me to next time feed them rice. But to actually go and bring her own food and still make snarky remarks is so annoying. But I guess that's the downside of needing help from others.

[@AimanArif-ez5eq]

So this is the reason of their divorce. I get it the mother is still so young and inexperienced, but how on earth will she be able to gain experience if you are going to over take every single thing. As an elder and we'll wisher you can give suggestions or guide the new and young parents, be mature or else you will ruin others' lives like you did with your son and daughter in law along with your grand kids

[@vliz4467]

It must’ve been hard for Yulhee. I know where the mother-in-law is coming from but that’s crossing the line, the words she said are so direct. I hope she’s not the reason why they got divorced. 😞

[@onlinegamingasia]

I watch this after watch their divorce. N understnd a bit.😅

[@normalaharun5812]

Young couples shouldn't live with or too near to their in-laws.

[@ritikaritika3327]

No wonder she got divorced !!! Why is the mother in law being too much

[@tulipmars]

I understand the mother in law but those are yulhee’s children. She has the right to raise them her own way. As long as the children are feed and well taken care of there shouldn’t be much debate on which parenting style they must follow.

[@rainoftranquility7735]

knowing that they are now divorced, I can see that the families interference probably had a big part to do with it.

[@yuvikishore6102]

Hope the kids see this when they grow up and they'll know that there grandma was behind their divorce

[@Jthkwy]

The mother-in-law is the only big problem here. Hope Yulhee is happier right now.

[@user-jh7le4vs1r]

dont know why but i somewhere feel like her mother in law was somewhat reason for their divorce

[@BemEam]

No wonder they are divorced now.

[@AllyMark-xy8ry]

After seeing only this little clip, I understand why they're not together anymore. When you marry your wife, she is now your immediate family and your Mother is extended family. He should have put his Mom in her place and stood up for his wife more! I would have gone mad dealing with such an overbearing in-law. Smh. I'm from the US so our culture is different, but this borderline worshipping of parents I've seen among some eastern cultures has to change. Wrong is wrong.

[@mraanj3118]

It’s easy to get along with MIL if the MIL is nice, respectful & knows her boundary. The problem with a monster-in-law however, is when she doesn’t know her boundary and always feel welcomed to criticize and step in whenever she feels like it - I know it’s hard for a daughter/son-in-law to speak up about boundaries because of fear of coming out as disrespectful. In my opinion, the real daughter/son needs to get a spine and let their own parent understand to trust & respect their way. I know we should respect our parents but once you’re married, your priority should shift to your spouse thus comes your duty to take care of your spouse & protect their dignity - by allowing your parent to walk over your spouse’s decisions or as a couple is not only disrespectful to your spouse but also neglecting your vow & duty as a partner.

[@casstsj]

The mil just contradicted herself. She said at first that bread is not enough then she says the kids won’t eat lunch after having bread for breakfast. If the kids won’t eat lunch after having bread for breakfast, it means the bread was filling enough for them.

[@hwanggummy5018]

Exactly! The mil just wants the kids to eat rice instead for meals. Honestly I think the mil overreacted. It's not like eating bread will make the kids not want rice. We'll always love rice anyway so idk why the mil has to make excuses to get what she wants.

[@NhanySyam]

Well, that's because of the older generation mindset that bread only consider as "snack". Not the main meal. IMHO, this kind of mindset should not be normalize now because these days it's quite easy to find out nutrition information from various food + how they affect a child's growing spurt. Rice is not the only thing that can make you full and children should be given the chance to experience multiple taste/texture. I really wish Yulhee the best in her journey as a wife, mother, and daughter-in-law.

[@wondersdancing]

The MIL did not seem this aggressively insistent when they had their son and can only guess it is because they opened the door for her input when Minhwan enlisted. They essentially redefined her role (MIL) as the the third parent and are now struggling to walk back the choice now that Minhwan can be more physically present. The MIL comments are eroding their trust in their decisions as parents, but they have to balance critique because they still need her.

[@brooks1529]

yep, 3 kids is a lot. they need her and need to communicate their feelings instead of push her out.

[@Lightup12]

I feel bad for Yulhee.

[@user-lv4sq4gf1x]

I sometimes feel like maybe this was one of the reasons too

[@youssrasara3350]

the grandma should mind her business and let the mother do her job . cause at the end it's not her place to comment on how the kids are raised

[@denii7094]

mother in law is overstepping. she's not the parent. the husband is doing a bad job at standing up for his wife. if there is not a good relationship, living this close to the in laws is a bad idea.

[@trazhi868]

i feel so bad for yulhee 😢😢😢😢 girl u better step up and talk it out with yo husband

[@Winter-ny2rp]

And now they got divorced because of that mother in Law 😂

[@suzy1076]

I am MIL. While I am willing to be there and help with my grandchildren I’ve always believed in following the parents rules. I have faith that I raised them to the best for their children as I did for them. Once married I do not involve my self in their decisions rather I support them. After all I didn’t do everything right I made my share of mistakes. Of course culturally we are different in the US but not so much. Respect for those with more experience is something we believe I here as well. But ours is to advise and let them decide if your advise is sound.

[@heonibee95]

I don't like the way Minhwan just stays quiet and says nothing like boy it's your children and your wife's not your mom's children

[@multistan9582]

Omg...not the over bearing mother- in- law😑... Look at how uncomfortable Yulhee looked...seems like they disagree alot from the looks of it....I wonder if these issues and or other led to them them getting a divorce....its sad seeing such a beautiful family seperate liks this....but if its for the best for both persons and all involved then sadly it has to be done. Wishing all involved the best....esp their beautiful children.

[@TheSparkleina]

man, I would have been so pissed off with the MIL if I was in that situation. Either make a comment when the children arent there, or offer before the meal to bring food... not while the kids are eating... and the mom already said shes going to give them other food afterwards.... Like I dont disagree that MIL's food was probably healthier, but theres ways of handling these situations.... dont alienate your DIL like that

[@yamangela]

more than the mother inlaw I'd be pissed at the husband. why isn't he speaking for his wife

[@user-hl4vl8qd7h]

@@yamangela he's not the only one... Thats classic mens behavior!

[@choobi2522]

They should talk with this matter privately. This is unhealthy.

[@cupiddoIIs]

ha… no wonder why they divorced. yulhee you should run far from this MIL

[@wheeinjung3559]

the fact that bread for europeans is a lunch/ dinner food lmao, it’s a lot nutrient so i don’t see where the problem is

[@nuridwyn]

The thing is asians consider bread just as a snack, not a meal😂 If we haven't eat rice, it would be considered we haven't eat yet, especially the elders. for me, I often get hungry really fast if I only eat bread

[@user-hl4vl8qd7h]

@@nuridwyn but it was a snack for the kids!! And as you said you get hungry when you eat it so kids wouldnt lose their apetite! And we dont eat only bread for snack. bread in korea got nothing to do with bread in europe!! And as far a I know as a doctor eating so much rice is not good for your health...

[@hwanggummy5018]

@@user-hl4vl8qd7h i think European bread and sandwiches are really filling! Im asian and I love to have both bread and rice. Its just a preference so idk why the mil is so insistent and pushy. Also yes eating too much white rice is actually not really good compared to brown rice or mixed grains.

[@user-hl4vl8qd7h]

@@hwanggummy5018 european bread is different from the one at least in korea. But generally its not easy to find real european bread as asien are more close to american culture!! But I found it in China!! We can eat bread every hour for breakfast, snack, lunch and dinner! We have our food and escort it with bread just like you do with white rise which indeed is not good for health. I miss a lot many things from my country as in korea some kind of food is so expensive(fruits, meet..) and of course bread!! Totally different eating culture from my country, Greece...

[@hwanggummy5018]

@@user-hl4vl8qd7h ooh you're from Greece? That's so cool! I've always wanted to go see athens! Also which chinese bread did you find? I'm interested hahaha I'm part chinese living in southeast asia and sometimes we have kaya bread/toast with eggs for breakfast!

[@sassy_ct]

This is going to cause a big rift one day. While we shouldn't be privy to their affairs, I hope the couple talks about this and resolves it before it gets big. I remember there's a similar issue in one episode for My Neighbor Charles or something where the MIL stepped in. Thankfully, for that couple, the panels for the show spoke out about how the MIL shouldn't intervene. It's not easy to bridge a generation gap but someone needs to step up and speak up. What works during their time does not mean it works the same way now.

[@keripikkentang72]

And now..... they had divorced😢

[@Winter-ny2rp]

The got divorced 😂

[@joayeo_]

Mother in law should give them a space that's rude to say that her grandkids like her food more than their mom's bread

[@jmsmung5790]

I seriously hated the mother in law in this particular episode. First she forced yulhee not to let the kids have bread and secondly with that air filled play thing ... And the way how she got upset and slammed the door on her way out. Seriously, yulhee is doing a great job at raising her kid. The mother in law shouldn't intrude so much and try to control their lives like this. I hated her particularly in this episode. Sorry.

[@andiuptown1711]

Yup and divorce

[@cint29]

After hearing their divorce news and watch this episode…. i think i can understand a little….

[@yyykkk6]

Sad to see how she’s trying so hard but the mother in law is being difficult. I hope yulhee is happier now after the divorce and that her ex mother in law knows how good yulhee is to raise up such a nice son.

[@shahirahshapiee]

I think this guys is a mama boy. "So Weak So Weak" uncle roger voice

[@dvhyvhjig9652]

Nope. Mom always first No comparison Between mother and stupid wife. That girl is a trash. She should listen her mother in law.

[@MsLilyx22lips]

It seems like her MIL tries to nit pick everything that Yulhee do that is never up to her standard..your marriage is yours, and her marriage is hers. Not her place to meddle in the place..

[@mirroruniverse9331]

Just in case u don't know they are now divorced 😊

[@MsLilyx22lips]

@@mirroruniverse9331 yes. N it just felt like her former MIL was one of the cause..

[@erikajaney._.]

So sad but thats how she is from the very beginning of the show. Minhwan even said on one episode how his mother didnt really like Yulhee when she first met her 😭

[@rahmahyusoff4978]

Kaypoh MIL...Get a pet if u r too free lah.. I will be offended too if I were in Y's situation...Dont make it a habit MIL... your presence may not be welcome.. i always suggest, live between both inlaws, not near to any sides... less stress n conflicts...

[@hyde5091]

saya sokong!!!

[@fin1224]

yeahh!!!

[@userplay305]

That "kaypoh" tho😭😂😂

[@alisonfraser8231]

The MIL is apt to give the kids an eating disorder carrying on about what they are eating in front of them and taking away foods. Once food is given and a kid is enjoying it, you don't snatch it from them. Stressing them out with arguments during mealtimes can lead to digestive issues and mental health disorders galore. And I'm a bit suspicious that the rice was brought out after the mother stated she made a rice-based dish for lunch. (Beautiful lunch spread, by the way.) Was she hoping the kids would turn up their noses at mom's food? This young man needs to grow a pair and have a firm talk with his mother like the grown-up father that he is. In private, just the two of them. A mother's love is infinite but a son's is finite if you get between him and his family's well-being. They should hold off on more babies until this ship is back on course. MIL issues are a major cause of divorce.

[@tyecollaborator5017]

Korean culture doesn't work like that, standing up for yourselves as someone younger may cause a fuss in their among them. They simply hate the idea of a young adult objecting an adult's opinion, especially when it's a mother.

[@weiminong302]

As a mum myself I hate it when my mum does this. Thankfully I don't live with my MIL nor see her often so I don't have to deal with the same problem on that side.

[@lieues]

I like eating snacks before my lunch sometimes, so this is understandable 😂

[@nurfarhanamohdzali9776]

I think grandparents should not interfered on how their child took care their family..

[@ifallapart2000]

Grandma has to go. The two of them can raise their kids on their own, if they’re not asking for advise, then she needs to mind her business. Yul needs to go ahead and say what’s on her mind because her husband obviously won’t step up and tell his mother to back off. They need to move as well, that gives grandma the idea she can impose whenever she wants, and one of the kids will stop listening to Yul because they know grandma will always go against their mother.

[@brooks1529]

Its more complicated than that. she got pregnant on accident, the in laws helped lot, especially since they had more money i believe than her family. when he was in the military and she pregnant, the helped again. now with 3 kids they really help. i think boundaries need to be set up but they will still need help with 3 kids. talking is needed. these young people are having babies before marriage and dont know how to take care of them, yulhee has gotten so much support from her family and his.

[@elithluxe7568]

@@brooks1529 especially since he basically impregnated her and ruined her career sigh

[@Winter-ny2rp]

The wife left instead of the MIL. They got divorced now

[@Vivio8897]

her mother in law is true, if she give a sweet things or bread @ noodles, kids really wont eat rice.. its hard to put kids into ideal weight, i know my nephew have some problem, n the doctor keep telling us not to give him other sweet or salty food since he dint gain so much weight (now he 3 y/o) n he dint want to eat rice and dint drink milk, all he want is snack😢 remember the return of the superman, daehan minguk manse, his father really taught his son well.. his baby eat well.

[@comradeleppi2000]

Kids are enjoying bread a lot Bread are breakfast in many countries. Its okay to bread as a breakfast once in while. Father in lAw are gem, but some mother in law are problematic with both son in law as well as daughter in law they try to ruin peace and happiness, if this continues either she will feel useless in this marriage or a divorce will happen as an Asian i have seen many cases like this

[@DaFroBroforeal]

Unfortunately, they are now divorced.🙁

[@maricelpiaoan]

I always say ..you have the chance to raise your kids on your own way..now is my chance to raise my kids on my own way..

[@keziahA07]

Leave and cleave. Two queens in a household is going to be a challenge. That's why when you marry, you discuss this sort of boundaries and level of access or help because now that you're married you start a new life together as husband and wife with your own rules for your household.

[@Chickachoochoo]

Mother in laws should understand that this is her son’s family . All she can do is give advice and help out . Yes , she’s a mother and she knows best but let her daughter in law learn . The daughter in law know what’s for her kid . This is one reasons why mother and daughter in laws don’t get along . Siiiigggh .

[@sugmanots]

I mean, the grandmother isn't wrong. A toddler can't just eat white bread and strawberry sandwiches for dinner, the meal she made for them is more balanced and healthier. A tiny sandwich isn't going to be filling either....

[@liyanaahmad1856]

I know her mil means well, but it is not right for her mil to straighfowardly said to her in front of her childs like that. If she think that it's not right to feed bread as a meal to her child, she could talk to her in private as an advice instead of shove the words to her that it is wrong. She should respect her as the mother. And i can see Minhwan try to take Yulhee's side, but he can't be firm with his mother.

[@srimegawati4231]

They're Yulhee's children, even if mom in law thinks yulhee's way isn't right i think she better observe it first before cutting yulhee's method (and in front of her kids, at that..) The 3 doesn't look malnourished either.. so why did the mom in law kept correcting yulhee's way of raising her kids?

[@k.rystyl4084]

they grew up so well yulhee raised such sweet kids especially her son

[@klougoher]

Minhwan you better treat well Yulhee. She just endure A LOT...

[@ecodor6257]

I was în her shoes once😢but I grow up🎉and my mother îl law can say what she whants at her place😂

[@shabrinaria622]

Omg I can’t handle this, Y is a great mom already. I hope the MIL respect how Y is as a parent. A few suggestions is great but not in that way,,,

[@naufalabmajid1062]

I'm sorry to say this. But Minhwan saying "..you raise them.." makes me furious. It supposed to be "we". They should come to an agreement on their parenting style. I don't care if people are saying this is purposely edited episode. But Minhwan should not be saying that.

[@athirah6645]

Me as asian prefer eat bread for breakfast 👁👄👁 even my mom eat bread for breakfast sometimes.

[@NatsumiiHina]

Sorry, but Brazil flag caught my whole attention! I am from Brazil and I really love this program!!!

[@invinciblecucumber]

Maybe she was little rough in her delivery, but grandma was definitely right. Bread and jam is not a healthy meal for children. Her food was so much better.

[@j.haganuschannel1130]

its good if the grandmother will give some advice on parenting to the young mother but its not good to do what she think she want just like that...

[@Donnie-ys7vr]

Honestly, what's the big deal with giving kids bread? It's still gonna fill them up anyway and if the kids are still hungry, the mother can give them other food later. I really don't like the mother in law interfering and insist on giving rice just cus she think rice is more of a 'proper' meal. Does she think after eating rice, the kids won't ask for snacks or other food? The husband also need to step up and tell his mother to not interfere with how they run their own family

[@amyliachan]

Im glad yulhee file a divorce.. after see this, minhwan mother so toxic and minhwan also keep on silent lol

[@cgore1105]

I hate how they justify this by saying “they have different parenting styles”. Like those kids only have 2 parents and MIL ain’t one of them.

[@razioradz]

Annoying mother in law!!!! I hope she knows how she wreck her own son's marriage!

[@priyanka63993]

That's why they got divorced now.... Thnks to that nosy mother in law.... And she was shedding fake tears.... Aigoyaa... 😑😑😑

[@sharosejose1299]

The Mother-in-law should understand that shes not the mother of those kids, and let the mother learn more and share her own waysof parenting. And husband 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@maryalthene]

3:05 Itzy Loco playing in the background makes watching more fun😄

[@ann07ps49]

My paternal grandmother was very nitpicky. And my father's relatives attitudes were bad as well. It's even worse since my father's family was much wealthier (but less educated) and we lived with this grandmother in her house because my father was the last child and expected to take care of his mother in my regional culture (it's not asian thing or religion thing, it's not even my ethnic group thing, just my region). My father was a long haul driver so it could be days for him to came home... When my mother was newlywed, my grandmother would made her do all the house chores even though there were paid helper... What's amazing was that my mother used this as a way to learn to became excellent in every house chores. She even learned to cook so well and so fast that she won our district cooking competition in one of our independence day celebration... And my father eventually built another houses so we could just leave if my grandmother became too much... Then, it was her turn to dictate the in laws how to do things while still taking care of my grandmother (and also her own parents since my mother was also the last child of her family) and she was very capable that others would inevitably consult with her about everything. Of course there were still negative voices here and there but it's ignorable... In her deathbed, my grandmother called my mother instead of her own 4 children since she was so thankful. She knew she was a difficult person but my mother was the only one patient enough to always be with her... How's that possible? Since she was from the last generation and we lived in remote village 😅

[@SolangeLOLable]

Isn't bread and rice both starches and just carbs soooo

[@jamjin8158]

This also happened in our family when my brother was young (I wasn’t born at that time) since my father didn’t step up. But, my mother asked my father to move to other city where none of relatives from both sides don’t live with the reason of education. My grandmother and aunt don’t like me cuz I usually speak out what I want or what I think I have right to have, not like my cousins who always follow what they said only in front of them. So, I think the problem here is not only MIL but also the husband who is mama’s boy.