When a girl is too much of a problem you should let her be somebody else's problem. Why torture yourself with a girl that doesn't respect you? So many other options out there! Some men have no self respect
@victorkiller72 жыл бұрын
Is true but again it’s easy to say harder to do
@supamanlova92502 жыл бұрын
@@victorkiller7 No it isn't? How hard is it to dump a cheating girlfriend? I'd be more than excited to do so if I found myself in this situation. One door closes another one opens. Never waste a good heartbreak
@gtoguy73302 жыл бұрын
It's hard to do when some women show so much potential at first. Doing everything a women should do. It's like they know red flags and hide them. To later show how they really are. It's hard for men to just stop anything they invested so much in. Some women are really good at acting and being so good until they know they have you. Self respect or not. You start to loose it because men are natural fixers and blame bad things happening to them on themselves. It's natural and nature. We struggle because when we invest in something it's hard to give up. Men fight struggle. Don't quit. We are built to tough. It's my belief this is why most men end up in this situation. Women are natural manipulators. Look how a little girl acts. And we are natural fixers. Look how a little boy acts. It's in our DNA. Some women are very good at bringing a good and strong man down. It's too common. Even are expert coach's like Corey Wayne have been on the other side. It's only when we learn and go through these things we prevent it in the future. There's a reason why
@supamanlova92502 жыл бұрын
@@useruser_notinuse Love is out of the window when your girlriend is sucking somebody off while you're at home wondering why she's acting weird and not responding to your messages
BPD alert ! Don't walk away... run ! Your woman is your closest person around you. She needs to be extra high quality. Not trash.
@richardthompson25635 ай бұрын
I completely agree on the Borderline Alert! I can see this a mile away, having dealt with my undiagnosed Borderline ex fiancee and girlfriend of 11 years.
@billyberger24622 жыл бұрын
If your gut is telling you something is wrong, it likely is. And if you've caught her talking to someone else and she continues to lie, throw her in the trash where she belongs.
@patrickorourke412 жыл бұрын
Corey brings up a valid point. When emotions are involved, it’s not that easy to leave.
@andrewmontgomery84282 жыл бұрын
I think its sad that so many men are so scared of being alone that they would rather put up with this awful behavior from someone that is incredibly easy to replace.
@TheInnerCosmos2 жыл бұрын
The instant you learned she picked up her ex from the airport and spent the day with him, you should've ended it for good on the spot. Come on, my guy!
@g405t2 жыл бұрын
yup that would enough reason to walk away, F that.
@lionelt78822 жыл бұрын
One of the reasons why I’ll never date a single mom. Let me be at work, and you’re having a “family day” with your child’s father. Lol
@fruitloops37182 жыл бұрын
absolutely 💯
@stefanfeist9893 Жыл бұрын
@@lionelt7882Actually, I don't See a problem with this. The mother of my children and I do this too, and there is zero interest on both sidea. We separated six years ago. We do this for the kids and to discuss matter regarding our children.
@Dassiz6 ай бұрын
Sounds like my ex , but I wasted 2 years while she screwed around, the red flags were everywhere and I ignored them , I say run and never take her back she's a hoe like my ex
@gtoguy73302 жыл бұрын
If she's a lier despite how you feel. She is also a cheater. No matter who they are to you. If they don't care how you feel. They can do anything to you. I had a girl bring me to her family. Let me use her phone consistently. Everything seemed ok. But when I would ask extended questions about situations that could be something wrong. She would get defensive and not show me any proof. When circumstances change. She would change. And her level of respect for me always dropped drastically when a fight would happen. She would be so smart. So caring and loving to me when I was about to leave. Or to people in the world. Homeless people. She always wanted to help. I thought. This girl couldn't do me wrong. Look how caring and loving she is. But in the end. I was the only 1 in her world she didn't respect. This women would stair and smile into men's eyes for 10 seconds straight right infornt of me and act like she did nothing wrong. She would hide things from me and tell me it's my fault for how I acted. Some people can be so loving in life. But when it comes to a relationship. They can't love on that level. I swear till this day she had a sex addiction or something. If I'm 100% good to her. She would treat me like gold. Feed me in bed. Suck my whenever I wanted. Do everything. But when a man came she liked she stared and smiled. When I wasn't perfect. She treated me like trash. Understand. A women can love you. She can be a good person. But some women are just whores. Childhood trauma in women is a a real thing. They don't plan or want to treat you bad. They just can't be loyal. They can't be in love to that level. They never learned how.
@ForrestThurgood2 жыл бұрын
just came out of this bro. was hectic.
@FtwBohl2 жыл бұрын
Good post
@fruitloops37182 жыл бұрын
it's not learning how. it's that they've never been able to look out for anyone else. they've grown up in survival mode and there's no undoing that.
@jasondorymeade Жыл бұрын
Very true... Half of the time they don't understand why they do it, Which means it's impossible for them to change. Vet your women guys.
@sixfeetunder01056 ай бұрын
No such thing as sex addiction. You can have a high libido and do it with one that matches. Just a liar
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
If she's a liar and a cheater 90% of the time it's cus SHE is from a broken home.
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
@@inconnu4961 I'm in no way giving her a pass. She is for the streets. I'm just repeating what Corey says.
@magicj5992 жыл бұрын
@@inconnu4961 actually, random internet person here to defend the Trend....I don't think Trend is saying that she is the victim, it's an opportunity to identify red flags immediately. If there is a broken home, absent or semi-absent father, mother who blames men for all the worlds problems, etc., run before the crazy come out...cause sooner or later, it does.
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
@@blair5475 ikr... Our generation is traumatized before breakfast.
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
@@magicj599 thank you random internet person 😂 you nailed it on the head.
@magicj5992 жыл бұрын
@@shortingthetrend you got it internet person. Saw someone trolling you needlessly.
@SuperBioMac2 жыл бұрын
Honesty is crucial. If she says one thing and does another, there’s no integrity, and without integrity, no trust. Some girls just get dependent on what they knew, won’t let go, and it will never change. Let someone else deal with that.
@sleepconcentrationmeditation2 жыл бұрын
Wild ride. Good advice from Corey, also I don't recomend "hanging out" or being fwb, she doesn't deserve it. 3% man will help you from now on.
@123aldoaldo2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you on this. Don’t spend time with her. You may get her knocked up and now your fucking stuck with that trash you were trying to get rid of. Regardless if you wear protection. Value yourself more. There are better people in this world.
@jamiedeppe72122 жыл бұрын
“It’s not your fault,” bro. Corey is speaking truth. They don’t change.
@Browningtriple72 жыл бұрын
Corey one thing here that i never hear you bring up. Liars and cheaters always seem to have that ex whom "supposedly" is also a liar and a cheater. A liar and a cheater more often than not always label the ex as a liar an cheater in order to gas light the current bf. I feel like this happens more than 50% of the time. This makes the current bf pursue even more, because he (current bf) can treat her way better than that lying cheating ex can.
@andrebaxter40232 жыл бұрын
This is where the current boyfriend has a decision to make. Tolerate her dishonest behavior, or dump her. I know it's easier said than done, but the boyfriend that's not cheating will end up in a much better situation if he gets rid of her.
@Browningtriple72 жыл бұрын
@@andrebaxter4023 if every guy in America could learn not to get attached after the first date, the dating landscape would dramatically change in America.
@chrisduhaime56892 жыл бұрын
Belongs to the night nothing but pain from here on out .
@agihtiassalam86282 жыл бұрын
This video is a mood booster!!
@mrmmorrow71932 жыл бұрын
If a guy had a girlfriend cheat in the past, and not broken up with her due to this, but the break up was for another reason, he more likely will be less tolerable to forgive if a future girlfriend cheats...
@markmero70582 жыл бұрын
Coach, I’ve followed you for years and this is absolutely your best video! I’m in a somewhat similar situation and now putting the pieces together to do what you say and this video made things crystal clear…
@philwragg97562 жыл бұрын
it's not about the power of emotions it's about the power of the virgina!!
@ryanvertucci79432 жыл бұрын
Has the same thing happened recently. Relationship lasted 5 months. She was Snapchatting some guy who wanted to be her sugar daddy while I was with her 3 weeks into the relationship. I almost dumped her then but gave her the benefit of the doubt after she cried, apologized, and said she wouldn't do it again. Four months later I found out she created a second SNAP Chat account blocked me from it and continued messaging the same guy. I saw some of the messages and it was all pictures of his penis (she claimed it was a platonic friendship LOL). I dumped her. Her own sister messaged me the day after the breakup telling me I was lucky to get rid of her before she destroyed my life. Glad it was 5 months instead of 5 years.
@tradesbyjt2 жыл бұрын
just curious if it was the best why would u eject
@ryanvertucci79432 жыл бұрын
@@tradesbyjt It wasn't ever the best. She cheats and lies to everyone and her life is a drama filled trainwreck. She probably has BPD or NPD. Some loser with no self-esteem will date her, try to help her, put up with the bad behavior and end up getting cheated on, screwed over for money, or stuck with her child. I have plenty of options, no need to deal with that.
@alidohorizonte2 жыл бұрын
5 years here. Wish it was only 5 months. I look 10 years older now. Don’t recommend it to anyone. Don’t ignore the red flags. Don’t relativize reality too much. Respect yourself. Man up.
@stingray91262 жыл бұрын
Coach, I appreciated every video you made that started off with a wise quote before starting the story of your clients.
@ashlast83974 ай бұрын
My ex was dating me while she was still in a relationship with another guy she told me he was just a friend never believed her but went with it, she cheated multiple times with multiple different guys she lied multiple times about guys psrties and cheating she never apologized once to me about her wrongs and she even went off with one of the guys she cheated on me with, so we started talking at a point she we did shii and she cheated on her new boyfriend mulpite times with me and and never told him, they still together but he doesnt know that she cheated on him and she acts happy family with him even went to mother's day with his parents just 2 days after she cheated i have its heart breaking to see that there are people out there with no morals or integrity it sickness me
@Guitarmfig10 ай бұрын
Corey, you are so amazing, wishing you the best for this NY
@user-zx1ip8mk8y9 ай бұрын
Great comment about equal justice under the law.
@charlesthomas33672 жыл бұрын
They Always Lie...On Their Backs!!! CT
@kvs78762 жыл бұрын
Coach Corey is right fellas! You gotta keep doing the work. Keep courting your woman. Keep going to the gym, even if it means getting up five or 6 o’clock in the morning. communicate and don’t hold anything back. And for F Sakes read the damn book!
@shawnparker26922 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done but Corey is right about his relationship advice - Red State Blue State whatever- you are screwy if you believe her ever again
@sjm07400ex2 жыл бұрын
What's up Cory another great 1 as usual Good to see you still making these videos man been a fan since 2011 keep em coming brother ! much love and support From LINY.💪👊👊👍👍
@g405t2 жыл бұрын
It was just your turn! LOL
@alexcardinell72812 жыл бұрын
Look up the video about "when to dump women who violate your boundaries". Been here. Just walk away and find someone decent. There is no other solution as she will always be this way. I think I've had maybe one out of 100 people I've known actually change.
@donniesrobinson2 жыл бұрын
Bravo Coach ! 👍
@d.a.channel38208 ай бұрын
I believe that if you are emotionally invested, you will try to make success and it can be difficult to discern what you cannot control from what you can see progress positively from reciprocal efforts.I believe that a man must always be loyal to hold their personal dignity and value and demand respect without being flexible towards a woman who does not value integrity and just wants their personal wants fulfilled. I think if it is a woman that is devious, it is best to cut her off and I know without sex and companionship it feels like battling addiction but it will strengthen you for a woman who will be more compatible in the future!
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
12:04 SHE BELONGS ON THE STREETS!
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
Hey coach.... You rock man. Love the book!
@stevencudnoch12562 жыл бұрын
It's pretty cheap, averages around $150 .00 per 10 minutes. You can ask him for a deal and make it 150.00 bolivar pesos and see if he'll take a bite.
@tunit202 жыл бұрын
50 rubles
@earthpart32 жыл бұрын
40 rupees
@shortingthetrend2 жыл бұрын
Nice nice. Thanks guys 🙏🙏🙏
@josephercastor80262 жыл бұрын
I can answer for free. Ask me
@cj9922 жыл бұрын
All. Let me repeat all women. All women have a backup guy
@ibziibz18862 жыл бұрын
The girl that I was dating a year ago had a bf I didn't know about and she wanted to monkey branch to me! I didn't accept that shit because I know that if she's cheating on her bf with me then she would definitely do the same to me! Girl was toxic after that, she would stalk my building and go places where she knew I would be plus she dated another guy and she would go places where I wouldn't see them together but would walk around my building by herself or her female friends and act like she was single LOL guys girls always have a backup bf
@tunit202 жыл бұрын
What's the solution to this? Date casually only?
@ibziibz18862 жыл бұрын
@@tunit20 Yeah pretty much, protect your heart my friend! It's brutal out there, women don't give a shit. Date casual until you find one that's a real one, but don't look for it because alot of men wouldn't be running away from dating
@stefbaws2 жыл бұрын
@@tunit20 never get too attached and don't ignore red flags
@charlesthomas33672 жыл бұрын
Yeah, It's ME!!! CT
@alfeldeguadalajara....70122 жыл бұрын
Corey El mejor coach saludos desde Guadalajara Jalisco Mexico
@mattrumans63722 жыл бұрын
On time!
@juanmespinoza652 жыл бұрын
Aside from the great advice, keep safe brother… that hurricane is getting stronger…👍
@N8rtaterАй бұрын
Things we can change things that have to accept- non acceptance looks like trying to change things that you should be accepting… why taking responsibility for shit it’s not your fault … Because if it’s your fault, then you can control it…
@codederick69202 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with Corey on the importance of vetting dating prospects but…how do you actually go about this? Would love to see a video breaking this down
@andrebaxter40232 жыл бұрын
It's in the book. Vetting is being unattached and observing her behavior before committing to her. Seeing if she's trustworthy. Take your time. Even after committed still observe her actions. Trust but verify.
@cryptocruz63122 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!
@chrisjames42412 жыл бұрын
Keep it up al
@Aven-Sharma19912 жыл бұрын
Women need to watch this too, if not all women are like this? Then women need to educate their own gender to learn how to be a good partner and not be labeled as a lascivious liar, men too can’t be blaming women all the time if we want it to work
@elpescadito942 жыл бұрын
Its hypergamy 😂
@-mika18-4 ай бұрын
after 4 monyhs i realized she lied to me the whole time 💀
@usewisdom2 жыл бұрын
DAMN.
@grtfshrmn2 жыл бұрын
I've been through similar crazy women stuff numerous times.
@DougyFreshGames2 жыл бұрын
5:57 hahahaha, she is being a good girlfriend alright lol
@deejaydiabolic2 жыл бұрын
You can't spend your life raising a dog hoping it'll turn into a cat.
@montrose2522 жыл бұрын
This sounds a lot like the married girl I was involved with! Ouf! hahaha!
@ralf4k2 жыл бұрын
Girls like this is just for fun and don’t call her and look for her, date other women
@nwkanion2 жыл бұрын
I believe in order to be on the hook for child support in some places is you have to sign the birth certificate, which is why some people say get DNA test before you do that
@Tin11rooster2 жыл бұрын
Hey coach, I’m in occasional contact with my ex of 26 years and have a girlfriend for about 3 and a half years. Nothing romantic but, we owned a house together and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. My girlfriend knows that we text maybe every month or two. Do you think that’s wrong? We had an amicable breakup and care about each other. It seems perfectly ok to me. What do you think?
@johnmortimerjbmfitness77532 жыл бұрын
As long as its sensible, and decent why not.
@armyparrot93532 жыл бұрын
I think it's pointless keeping that connection...move on.
@dennisrobinson80082 жыл бұрын
@@armyparrot9353 connections aren't always romantic. if they get something out of the friendship its worth it.
@sjm07400ex2 жыл бұрын
FRANKENSTEIN BOYFRIEND PROJECT!! THAT'S GREAT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@berineayala47672 жыл бұрын
Facts
@RaDaGoN012 жыл бұрын
So my girl dumped me last weekend out of nowhere, we even went out for dinner the same night and I knew something was wrong, but before taking her out I dropped stuff at her place for our breakfast the next day and she knew I would. She said she realized she can't go trough with it anymore after leaving the house together. She mentioned she loves me but had moments before when she faked everything being okay, thinking everything will turn out to be good. Earlier that week she asked me "when will I see you again". The weekend before in bed, while cuddling and kissing, she said she loved me, I said I love you too, she said "i love you more", "i love you so so much".....isn't that kinda weird? She didn't mention friendship or anything, just that she decided it is over and she doesn't see a future with me. So the thing is: I kind of stated what I want, sadly not as perfect as in "7 principles" and said "how can you just give up right now" and then left after grabbing all my stuff with me. I didn't say "reach out if you change your mind" - does this change the 7 principles? Does it matter? Or will she reach out anyway if she misses me and realizes that I don't reach out?
@crnivuk70922 жыл бұрын
Her sexual atraction for u has fallen low and she thought about it for a long time believe me. I've been there ,I've done that. Maybe its another guy there ,maybe its not but it does not matter now because she is not your girl anymore. Maybe u'll find out as the time goes on ,but never contact her again first! Believe me, I've been few times im same situations and I know how hard it is when u love someone so much ,but the best way for you and your health is to follow the principles. Now i am glad that i didn't do it no matter how much i wanted because selflove is most important.
@RaDaGoN012 жыл бұрын
@@crnivuk7092 Thank you for your reply. You are right in many ways. The thing is I know such situations too, but it took longer back then with others when I really didn't see the signs and didn't know all that stuff from the book, which I've only read 6 times until now. It was one week before the breakup when she showed affection, kissed me, touched me, enjoyed the sex, talked about bringing stuff to my place to take a bath, how much she loved me, etc. So it is different then with my other ex who stopped showing affection and telling me she loves me many weeks before the breakup. But I guess this only shows that something was wrong....
@crnivuk70922 жыл бұрын
@@RaDaGoN01 that showing afection maybe was just trying to be the best before end thats she is less guilty or she was with someone before and wanted to kill her guilt that way. Iz doesn't matter now bro because contract is broken. When you get fired at Job u don't please and call them ,you just say ok and go next to find another Job . ;-)
@RaDaGoN012 жыл бұрын
@@crnivuk7092 Thank you Crni! I got a request now. Would you please be so kind and delete your previous post, I accidentally switched account and now everybody, including her, will be able to find that on here. They won't know who radagon is, but the other one they do. That would be really, really bad^^ Thank you in advance.
@RaDaGoN012 жыл бұрын
@Crni Vuk thank you again mate! really appreciate you and I wish you the best for your life!
@brandonroyals68532 жыл бұрын
Yup
@green_re4per_9422 жыл бұрын
Bro just call her and tell her you thought about it and want to find someone that’s not going to cheat if she threatens with potentially getting with someone else screw her because girls like this do it anyway throw their hands in the air and blame men
@prevbean2 жыл бұрын
@Ron Star actually he should just not say anything at all and never talk to her again after what she did.
@Jervdbur2 жыл бұрын
Is it okay to check your gf phone? 🤔
@fatu17383 ай бұрын
Let's put it this way...would you rather risk getting lied and cheated on or would you rather know/learn/move on sooner before too much time passes?
@qxponix5892 жыл бұрын
FWB only
@siulong13942 ай бұрын
BTW, Corey what do you think about Harris? Do you believe in her promises? #MAGA2024