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[@shelbycaudel5876]

“In a room of strangers, I belong with him” 😭😭😭😭 my heart

[@louloulouise670]

Ashley's reason for loving Dallin literally brought a tear to my eye. Watching both of their expressions...❤ How completely raw and beautiful was that!? ❤ "He notices Me" and "My soul belongs with your soul". What a great love story you guys have! The honesty of ups & downs is SO appreciated. 🙏

[@TheDashleys]

Thanks so much Tara ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mkingzett11]

Thank you for being so open. This felt really grounding and was a level of vulnerability that not a lot of people are brave enough to share in this space. Really wishing you the best as a team

[@nikkismith3877]

I love that y’all admit that it’s not always perfect that makes y’all perfectly imperfect and that’s a great thing to be💕

[@ekc4759]

It’s amazing seeing your growth in the 2022 vlogs and how in love you are ❤

[@biggirlmentalworld]

Such a real couple I like how realistic you are how genuine and completely in love you are

[@interstellarshelbers5177]

Love the openness and honesty of y’all’s answers! It’s amazing how much you can grow in a relationship through therapy and team work. Also totally get not being able to play games with your spouse 😂

[@kelseymardis2878]

How do they not have 1 million + subscribers! They’re awesome, love you guys! ❤️💕

[@hannahboykin9656]

absolutely love this and y’all!!😍❤️

[@susancampbell8492]

Ashley totally just made me cry. I adore your relationship! So happy you found each other...

[@Meag123451]

I love you guys so much! Your videos and podcasts are amazing!

[@mhof1146]

This was so inspiring to watch. My husband and I both work at our church in the same department, and we have been working together for the past three years. We have definitely had our fair share of fights.. weeks with nothing but fighting. But it’s gotten so much better after going to therapy and getting help. We definitely still fight.. (we fought every single day before Christmas haha), but we have learned how to hear each other out. Thank you Dallin and Ashley for not being afraid to share the truth behind the camera! I love you guys so much!

[@Maris_Likes_Games]

Thanks for blessing us with another video. Thank for answering these questions 😏

[@nurseylori]

Thank you for this and your very honest answers. You guys rock!

[@tammie24051]

I absolutely love your guys show and I love the way you’re so honest with people and how you guys deal with things it’s an inspiration keep it up thanks again for all the enjoyable moments And being so honest

[@tiffanyann7409]

I can’t wait to find that person that makes me feel the way Ashley feels for Dallin! I love how candid you two were about relationship struggles and growth ❤️

[@beverleypicard2116]

Yay , let’s get trying for the new Bambino!!! lol , love you guys ! I was wondering why there were no vlogs for a few or couple of days , missed you guys ! Y’all are the best , James is growing so much these days especially her sweet vocabulary!! Love this family !!!❤️

[@stayfrostypatrick]

Aww y'all are so made for each other. I got teary eyed during the mushy parts.

[@laurennicole8822]

I know this is an older video but have to tell you, thank you for sharing this! Getting to know your relationship a little better was really nice! We’re all just doing the best we can & you’re both amazing humans! Love your love! 💜

[@TheDashleys]

You’re awesome Lauren ❤️ thank you

[@mariebarrett8774]

Parenting is an a going learning experience.....& also every child is an individual so cannot be categorised....You are super parents & give & take & allow your beautiful-kiddies to grow in a beautiful nurturing environment full of love ....Beautiful couple...xx💙💖

[@kelseymardis2878]

My soul belongs with your soul..... I’m sobbing 😭😭😭😭😭

[@brookefire19]

Way to keep it real guys! I admire your honesty and realness. :) Ashley I love your best date ideas those would be mine too! As a married woman I definitely can relate to the "you wouldn't get bored and rush me" part of shopping haha. totally my hubby!

[@hersheyybar]

I can't tell you how much I enjoyed this vlog.

[@beverleypicard2116]

Love the podcasts !

[@melrhea12]

Ahh my fav family on social media!!😭❤️ I’ve been traveling for Christmas and am a couple days behind on videos! So even though it’s like 5:00 in the morning and I haven’t been to sleep yet, I’m watching your videos because they make me happy 😂 you guys seriously have such a beautifully open and honest relationship with each other and with your children! I’m a single mother to a beautiful 10 month old little girl & I can only hope and pray that I find someone that fits with us as perfectly as your family does!!😍❤️

[@TheDashleys]

Thank you for your kind words Melissa❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Get some sleep! Love having you with us!

[@stanleyt2960]

That was the most beautiful way to describe your love for him. 😍 I love your family so much.

[@rebeccastewart4013]

You guys make my day instantly better ❤️

[@TheDashleys]

Awe thanks for your kind words Becky ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@belajones1336]

the thing about therapy is that it is completely normal and everyone should go, I'm glad that in the time we live in now people open up about going to therapy and normalize it.

[@lanitoomer1889]

Uuuummm I’m gonna need to see them country dancing skillz folks! I think you have just found your next vlog 🙌🏽❤️🙌🏽 I managed a ballroom dance studio for 7 years and we didn’t do enough country 2 step or like dancing or just playing of country music period! My Texas heart missed doing it so much🤗💃🏽🕺🏽

[@stephaniezepeda21]

Yeah I’m 5 months late.... I can just say I absolutely love you guys!! You guys are the only family I watch on KZbin. Sending love from Long Beach CA.

[@TheDashleys]

Thank you! You rock Stephanie

[@rbennett199092]

I absolutely loved Ashley’s answer about her soul belonging with Dallin’s. I can 100% relate. That’s exactly how I feel about my husband. I spent a long time looking for someone who I felt like saw me, understood me, and fully accepted me. A flawed me. I definitely found that in my husband. I struggle with anxiety and depression and he is always there to hold my hand and help with whatever I need. I can’t thank God enough for him. ♥️

[@sharondelaney5448]

So glad to hear that you're not perfect! Welcome ! 🤗👍😉

[@lorenargue5609]

You two are amazing, and so brave. ♥️

[@TheDashleys]

Thanks Loren ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sarahwyatt4271]

Ashley got me ready eyed. So sweet

[@margaretscott5961]

Since my kids and grandkids live 6hrs away Y’all are my baby fix. George and James have the sweetest little face

[@kariconroy1250]

You guys are wonderful people and an even better couple.

[@lapecosa68]

Her response on what they like about the other person legit made my eyes well up with tears 😭😭 ♥️♥️

[@TheDashleys]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@brittanyc9144]

You guys are the SWEETEST. my goodness!

[@mariebarrett8774]

You are an amazing couple....totally upfront & honest with your followers.....You have a wonderful relationship.... Because you love each other so much it upsets you both to argue......I totally admire you both for such a young couple you are amazingly aware & respectful of each other’s feelings but also so much in love you have couples counselling to enhance & protect & grow your love....xxx❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@TheDashleys]

Thanks so much❤️❤️❤️❤️ You’re so kind Marie!

[@shelbywalker6324]

Wow thank you guys so much for your raw vulnerability. I used to live in Riverton, I totally wish I could’ve met you guys. You both are so fun to watch and soo relatable (besides your cleaning habits hahah) 😆

[@TheDashleys]

Hahaha you’re awesome Shelby

[@munoz102810]

I always look forward to a video from you guys 😃

[@TheDashleys]

Happy to hear that 🌴 Thanks estella!

[@Fix.family.]

We went to a love and logic seminar. They have a book too and we highly recommend it. It helps a lot!

[@jadamathews4984]

Everyday after "I do" is an adventure! Just keep working on moving forward and progress will happen. You two are young and have a long long life ahead of you. Best wishes and luck as you take on the journey together. 💚

[@messymusings1812]

I also watch the April & Davey vlog - they have read and use a book by Nicholeen Peck. Sure can take a little time, but I am impressed with their six kids and how their family interacts. Not sure what the book is that they have read (because I do not have any kids), but they too recently started a podcast!!

[@gracelee3956]

Oh my goodness! My soul belongs to yours!

[@cynthiam1637]

Well said Ashley about he is your soul. It's what I feel about my fiance I'm 47.

[@cousinregs4007]

I didn’t follow when this was posted but honestly you can tel Ashley is happier and comfortable in the camera now then in this video

[@claudiaraducanu5751]

You guys rock.

[@tburbank1]

So proud of your decision to go to couples therapy ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nicoleherbert8507]

I have been married for 24 years and we are still trying to figure it all out! Communication is so important!

[@TheDashleys]

Congrats! Agreed!!

[@cassidyley3403]

You have a beautiful relationship

[@LHunt90s]

Love your family ❤️

[@TheDashleys]

Love having you with us Larissa ❤️❤️

[@oliviacollette9873]

The way Ashley talks about dallin is the way I want someone to talk about me one day

[@dixiekildoo3549]

OMG I LOVE TEKASHI!!!

[@ginalexiemartinez7743]

Omg I love y’all 💙😂💙

[@kellislifefromherchair748]

Y’all are just great!

[@mperez6670]

Awww @The Dashley's belong together soulmates

[@lesmess.]

Marriage is hard and messy! Just try not to hold grudges, and have faith in each other. ❤️ get some rest Ash.

[@8687cjackson]

Dalin I think you should create Ashley’s dream date (as it was mostly affordable) and vlog it! Surprise her 👍🏼

[@sammypigeot5797]

I love your Souls too! 🔖🔖🔖🔖🔖🔖🔖🔖🔖

[@babygurl45050]

Hope you can understand why am saying I just can’t read and spell that well are you just Google thing says the right things I want to say I love your

[@babygurl45050]

Hi 👋

[@TheDashleys]

Hey Kayla!!

[@mperez6670]

❤️❤️❤️❤️🐕🐕🐾🐾🙏🙏

[@alexapetersen8853]

You can borrow our Tesla!!!!

[@TheDashleys]

OKAY🙌

[@cherylsmith4389]

I really want to know all long you had together before kids.

[@babygurl45050]

I love you baby KZbin well if you change

[@crystaldockstader3961]

I loved learning more about your relationship iv watched your vlogs since the beginning but Ashley you seem so uncomfortable with this kind of video

[@TheDashleys]

It was just really late and past bedtime ❤️🌴

[@crystaldockstader3961]

Haha I can understand that if I'm up past 10 I'm a zombie .. mom life !

[@cyndilanders1409]

What Ashley said about Dallin was beautiful, but I can’t help but notice she looks upset during this vlog. Either upset or uncomfortable.

[@joannaowen6653]

Yes I noticed the exact same. I think she looks sad.

[@dawnboucher3344]

Hey Ashley , hope all is well. It’s okay not to be okay

[@TheDashleys]

Thanks guys :) We wanted to film this vlog all day, but by the time we did it was just really late 🌴 I’m fine❤️❤️❤️

[@cyndilanders1409]

THE DASHLEYS , so glad to hear it was just the sleepiness setting in. I can only imagine filming so late after taking care of a house and 2 babies all day. Good for you for pushing through and getting it done. Thank you for the video. 😀

[@suedavidson8085]

Ashley looks pissed off (or sad) during this video. Be kind to yourself my dear. You are beautiful inside and out 😎

[@mauodendaal7353]

I agree, she looks pissed off and bored with very cold closed body language. Spoiled the video a little for me.

[@ginalexiemartinez7743]

I thought she was kinda sick these passed days ?

[@parlandoliz]

Sue Davidson it was one of the most raw videos, vulnerable and yet beautiful. I wanted to reach into my tablet give her a hug and offer to take the kids for an afternoon so she could rest or recharge. So glad they are being open about therapy and learning tools for this phase of life. You’re doing great Ashley, during such a busy time of year. Be kind to yourself and know we see your awesomeness!!! Dallin too!

[@peanutbutter35]

She’s been sick and I’m sure very tired! I don’t think she’s pissed or bored!

[@MandyDawn11]

Is it just me or does Ashley seem supper depressed in the video?? ☹️

[@mahlimimurray8576]

I also feel like that

[@caitlindaugherty6210]

I came here to say this. She seemed sad and not really wanting to be there. Hope she’s doing okay!

[@melissam874]

After admitting to fighting all week, it shows. Fighting with anyone, let alone your spouse, takes such a gigantic toll on your emotional state, then add in a sensitive personality, and the look she has is what you get. Things will improve!! So happy you both are going to counseling!! Praying for your marriage and family xo

[@joannaowen6653]

I feel that too

[@mahlimimurray8576]

Ashley u dont look happy...what happen...

[@jesscreech2408]

Ashley seems totally not into this vlog 😂 maybe even a tad grumpy?

[@TheDashleys]

lol We we’re wanting to do this all day but it didn’t happen until way late after the kids were asleep. But we still wanted to answer all your questions. ❤️🌴

[@jesscreech2408]

THE DASHLEYS gotcha, tired parent life is tough! Trying to keep my eyes open right now actually 🥱

[@mkingzett11]

Thank you for being so open. This felt really grounding and was a level of vulnerability that not a lot of people are brave enough to share in this space. Really wishing you the best as a team