Help Your Friends Get Sober (Official Music Video)

RØRY - Help Your Friends Get Sober
Out Now: lnk.to/GOOD_DI...
Written by RØRY, St3fan
Produced by: Stefan Abingdon
Mixed By: Sam Cramer
Mastered By : Kevin Petterson
Director - Lee Jones (leejonesmedia.co.uk)
DOP - Rob Wilton

[@bufferkiller]

I’ll be 22 years sober in November. I was a dealer on everything I got my hands on, with a crew of people the same. Met a girl that never used and was full of light. I quit on the spot. Listening to this song I realized the friends I had, the only friends, were all addicts and dealers that acted like we were family. 22 years in November, and not one of them has ever offered or encouraged the use of anything since the moment I told them I’d quit. I’ve spent nearly 22 years thanking the woman made of light, but it was my friends, that motley crew of drug dealing addicts, that kept me sober long after her light had moved on from me. Thank you.

[@victoriairvine6768]

I love this so thankful for your chosen family for supporting you and congratulations on 22 year's that's amazing!

[@bufferkiller]

@@victoriairvine6768 Thank you!

[@Kier97]

“No more one more just to feel alright” - I’m doing it. I’m becoming sober. Thanks Roxy

[@CidMcTab]

How is your recovery going? I hope you're doing well and I wish you all the best. I know personally how hard that journey is.

[@springskyllark]

You got this friend. It is a daily fight but every day is a new chance

[@GothicLane]

Wow, sucker punch to the gut, but the message is one we needed to hear. It's hard to help those who don't believe they need the help or don't want it. The only thing we can do is try to help, but inevitably it is completely in their hands. To all those who've lost friends or family because of this, I'm sorry and I'm here x

[@Sarah-fx3sw]

I love this comment honestly such a lovely comment your right even if your friends don’t want to hear it at least try because if you don’t it could be to late for them 🥰 I’ve lost a few friends to addictions I’m only in my 20s it’s hard x

[@reneemozeliak4141]

Meeting the person where they are at is what helps. I work at a recovery center and there are some people who at this moment don’t want the help but, for those who aren’t ready I focus on harm reduction. After a year of helping one person with harm reduction they are now sober with a job and working on themselves. Sometimes it takes a while but all who are addicted want to stop. Don’t let the demon of addiction have you think differently.

[@taylorbunch7825]

Fuckin tell me. Need it

[@taylorbunch7825]

Digging my grave alone

[@stuartarthur9844]

15 months on Sunday. Best life I've ever had. Message needs to be given that substances don't equal life. Love this song

[@rachaelnance1888]

As someone that's lost a lot of friends to drugs and alcohol (and have a brother fighting addiction) this song hits hard. Fuck! Seriously help your friends (and family) get sober 🖤

[@caidenbaillie1382]

Thing is you cant help them unless they want to be helped I know from experience fighting addiction

[@chloebear25]

My brother is fighting as well. He's been sober since April 6th, the day after my wedding. I'm proud of him.

[@davidwashburn4953]

I’m 2 years 6 months sober and I will always miss the friends that didn’t make it Your music has made me cry more than I have in a long time I’m truly grateful to have found it.

[@BreakiingDad]

I've lost 5 friends in 4 years and 4 due to drugs/alcohol. Last one was on Saturday and honestly I can't take much more. This song breaks me every time and rightfully so. This song is a work of art and needs more recognition even just for the message. Keep this up please Rory you wonderful human

[@KatnipUK1970]

I'm 14 years sober now. This song made me cry. I lost my brother too drugs he was 36.

[@kelseybunce9754]

[Intro] Jimmy's got depression, he's got some shit at home All his friends are texting, they know where to go There's a party on the east side of town We'll get some bags and some beers and we'll talk it all out [Pre-Chorus] But where does he go when the party's over? When he's coming down and he's never been lower? It's hard to say, but you're digging his grave, oh oh Help your friends get sober [Chorus] In December, just gone, I lost a friend I remember the last thing he said "Where do I go now the party's over?" Fuck, help your friends get sober [Verse 2] Her daddy died in April, and Sarah never healed Credit cards on tables, all over drawn but she'll Grab a round of drinks from the promoter she knows Then move on to the strip club 'cause they never close [Pre-Chorus] But where does she go when the party's over? When she's coming down and she's never been lower? It's hard to say, but you're digging her grave, oh oh Help your friends get sober [Chorus] In December, just gone, I lost a friend I remember the last text he sent "Where do I go now the party's over?" Fuck, help your friends get sober [Bridge] Whoa oh, whoa oh, whoa oh Help your friends get sober No more Fridays to Sunday nights No more "one more" to feel alright No more Fridays to Sunday nights No more "one more" just to feel alright [Outro] But where do we go when the party's over? When we're coming down and we've never been lower? It's hard to say, but we're digging our graves, oh oh Help your friends get sober In December, just gone, I lost a friend Got a call from his mom, saying, "Jimmy's dead" Where do we go now the party's over? Fuck

[@smurfs2883]

I just wanted to say thank you so much. I am so glad you posted the lyrics. It helps me learn the song faster. Once again thank you so much. I hope you are having a great day.

[@PKr_0]

Fuck. Been sober 2 years. I love this song so much.

[@kelseybunce9754]

@KitKat924 honestly I love this song but I need lyrics if I'm listening to a song so I gotchu x

[@kelseybunce9754]

@@PKr_0 it's such a good song x

[@smurfs2883]

@@PKr_0 congratulations on you being 2years sober. I am so proud of you. Cheers to many many more sober years ahead.

[@bradleycondrit2619]

Cannot fault this song one bit, strong message, beautifully delivered and most importantly, sung to you not at you. I miss music like this ❤

[@pinkmoon99]

I hate that so many people, including myself, can relate to these types of songs. It hurts to think that so many people don't know where the dark ends and the light begins. To be so low that you'll do anything to numb the pain for a little while is exhausting :(

[@Limooncik]

It hits you inside even more with the video

[@gavin2678]

So powerful and amazing message. Unfortunately I think we all know someone who is impacted by this lifestyle.

[@whateverraven4072]

This was a punch in the heart and I mean it in the best way possible. I cried, such a beautiful masterpiece

[@lauraharwood6581]

Wow this hits hard. I didn’t help my BF Ali get sober. She asked me for help in a way, I helped her home one night, and she told me ‘I’m finished Laura‘ and I didn’t take her seriously. I was in too deep myself, I guess. This video hits different because we were supposed to meet her at the pub on New Year’s Day after the madness of the night before. She didn’t come. We went to her house, and I knew, I knew, what we were going to find. RIP Ali. 😔

[@mojofilter2285]

I'm an addict and the hardest thing isn't quitting and staying clean nbcan you deal with reality with out your fix ...

[@EmoPrincess93]

It was a week after listening to this song (when you first released it I think or not long after) I got sober after being an alcoholic for 15 years. I’ve been sober for around 5 months

[@its_r_o_r_y]

Absolutely amazing. So so proud of you 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@felixfem]

I have cried to this song WITHOUT the video and the video just punched me even harder

[@laurascott7239]

RORY!! You are so bloody amazing… Ive been following you / a fan of you for a while.. but have only just discovered your music and I COULDNT BE HAPPIER!! This genre of music is perfect.. I’ll be screaming these at the top of my lungs!!

[@neoscencez]

I remember that feeling when I first found this beautiful sound! Hope you're good.

[@hannahcantwell3996]

This song already made me cry! Add in the heart breaking video and im over here bawling!! You are amazing rory!!

[@casshields4616]

This is such an important song and the video really speaks volumes about the reality of living with this

[@musicmonkeycovers4456]

No more Fridays to Sunday nights.. no more one more to just to feel alright.. I feel that too much.. we all need to change.. any tips

[@frankbullock2012]

Another masterpiece, Ms. RORY. Buying it now.

[@L3l1nk]

Damn... Gets me breaking down every time... 💔 Absolutely freaking love you!!! Keep breaking our hearts 🖤♥️

[@adamsellick3927]

So many true words. True feelings, true pain 💔

[@steveklinedinst8662]

Oh I'm so glad you made an official video for it, I love it

[@DVS-Projects]

This music video deserves waaay more views...!

[@alandonovan5585]

Cannot be more thankful for this whole album. Great reflection of someone realizing they have a problem and getting better or at least dealing with the problem head on.

[@Twisted-Manic]

I’m so happy with myself I am 3 years sober and I was a everyday drinker from the age of 9 I’m now 34 and my kids are happy Honestly never thought I could stop and sometimes it gets hard but I am still going one day at a time ❤

[@bigpuma2149]

I fucking have been waiting for this song to come out cause I love the message but I can't help me get sober or anything but listening to this song is my favorite thing

[@kerrihumble8745]

Wow such a powerful video Rory I love your music it's so emotional and raw I follow you on tiktok and you and your husbands tiktok channel your voice is incredible x

[@kerrihumble8745]

We almost lost my brother this year to drink he was not far off from needing kidney dialysis it scared him he's now almost 7 months sober

[@Immafun12]

Such a great song, message & video! Love you Rory! ❤️

[@samiballew4609]

Thank you for this and for all of your music. I'm currently trying to keep a friend sober. I love her so much and don't want to lose her. I had her listen to this and This is a song not a suicide letter. She uses them to help her. Thank you for helping to keep her alive

[@gumonmyshoemartinbakerfran701]

Lyrics hit hard, exactly as they need to. Thank you

[@porcelainbabie3339]

I came across this song a year later, and this song is stab through the heart because i lost my mother due to addiction, and my sister who im super close with now is also battling an addiction. I dont know how to help her, and all i can do is be there for her & listen. Because i feel like that's what she needs. I don't know what I'd do if i lost my sister, but I'm hoping she gets sober soon because she deserves it. Thank you for making this song❤

[@CandyGirl481516]

The whole video gave me chills. Such a powerful song and music video

[@matthewloat6982]

So close too home I cried

[@toshi9660]

Good keep it up 😊 røry you the best

[@alexfrommwa]

A wonderful song with a really strong message behind it! One of my favourite songs!

[@hardsuge5016]

Ily Roxanne Emery 🌹

[@lizAscully]

I found this while getting sober ❤😭

[@jillianswart7752]

The ad was for white claw🤣 This song hits hard

[@its_r_o_r_y]

Oh my god… !!!! 😂😂

[@jillianswart7752]

@@its_r_o_r_y oh my god rory!

[@hardrocklover55]

It’s too early in the morning to be crying like this 😭

[@Theesepotatoes]

Rest in peace brother wish we both could have got sober

[@dezi_rose13]

This is my first time seeing the music video. I cried so hard. I know what this is like, chasing the parties, the drugs, the lows... oh god did I want to die. I hated myself, I hated everything and tried to overdose on purpose once because I couldn't take it anymore. I am sober now, facing all the heavy emotions, my years of childhood trauma that fueled my addictions, it's like a steam roller is endlessly running me over. Thank you for this song. I'm on your discord group and your music has inspired me to be sober. You don't know how much it means to me, thank you for being alive Rory and writing this music. Much love, Dezi

[@rapidfreeman420]

Thank You !!!!Thank You !!!!Thank You !!!!!

[@sarahquinn1833]

Awesome video and amazing song ! 🙌

[@Lexx18673]

This was the first song of yours I ever heard and I've only just gotten around to checking out the music video 😅 but I'm so glad I have! I'll forever be thankful that dr*gs and drink aren't my brand of addiction (v easily could have become so in my early twenties tho) but this song really helps me to keep fighting my SH addiction when the urges get too strong...

[@Megmaf111]

This is so real. Thank you Rory ❤

[@dianteori1986]

Love your voice

[@meagonhardy6834]

As someone who was addicted this song hits home . Thank God I'm sober. Meagon

[@antuloiotile9344]

It's been a time since a song gave me chills, but this one really made me shake violently. It's so raw. I can not begin to describe how much i liked it. Thank You so much!

[@edin3074]

Where do we go when the party’s over? Fuck. Please help me get sober..

[@neoscencez]

I will if you will.

[@lorimerdavidson2728]

I’m 46 and I have lost more friends this way than I can count literally. It’s all fun and games Until the fear takes hold and you can’t see past the pain.

[@jacklinvollmer365]

My brothers name was James. We called him Jimmy. He died of an overdose when I was 19 almost 15yr ago. This song hurts.

[@samanthaflora1923]

🥰🥰 you’re amazing!

[@user-qt8ck7gs1c]

My best friends name is jimmy and he died from an overdose 💜 miss him everyday. Now I’m sober over 2 years

[@jonathontregaskes2182]

Over a year clean thank you for this beautiful song

[@summerfireking]

As someone who forced themselves to get sober to make myself dig my way out of my deepest depression it works I don't even like drinking I don't like drugs it saddens me when I have to watch my friends go down a horrible path of addiction and not listen to a word of reason

[@DouglasAnyna]

Awesome song !! ❤

[@vidhoard]

Amazing message ❤

[@I_am_not_your_sister]

Sebastian I wish I was brave enough to say the word alcoholic to you and try to help you get sober- I'll always love you babe, see you in heaven

[@mysterygirl1606]

I'm almost 8 months sober...I don't like who I was when I was drinking. I was drunk the majority of the time from the age of 12...I'm 21 now...my fiancee is great with stopping the cravings by shoving fizzy drinks down my throat

[@gurdenator85]

💚

[@vampire20518]

Im very good friends with my boss and the owner of my job. Its a bar. Im the cook. I came to work there by living in the small town. The owner is a drunk. Everyone had/ has given up on him whennibstarted a year ago. I have tried and tried to hel0 him get sober and stay sober. He detoxed this past weekend and im so proud of him. But everyone says hes just ganna go back. And i spazed out telling them they need to keep that to themselves cuz its not helping. Support him. I now have to move to another state and i know im going to get a call that hes passed. I am not looking forward to it cuz i love the guy like a goffy uncle. It brakes my heart that i cant help him. Pls pray for him.

[@carlosblanka3001]

Alcoholism is the most ruthless addiction it's repetitive and easily accessible and the quickest go to when things get rough. As a 14 month sober repetitive alcoholic please don't let a pattern emerge drink one day then not again for some time because the cravings and the addiction itself is a sneaky and fickle mistress offering a blank mind and an easy way to pass a day but trust me the vomiting the diarrhea the dry wretching the shakes the hot and cold sweats the fear of even moving your body ever so slightly just incase you accidentally set it all back off again unable to sleep mind racing with thoughts from something to nothing constantly and it's the only withdrawal on the planet that can kill you if you try to withdraw without professional help so please do the best you can to pick a can of coke up instead of a beer or a bottle of tonic instead of spirits just choose the alternative and good luck you got this

[@thinair6338]

This one is so deep T-T

[@IzzyThomasOfficial]

amazing xxx

[@thatboiikraz]

🥺

[@elizabethharvey7351]

I need a version that says "brother" instead of friends, I lost my brother to fetenyl, we were both struggling with addiction and I tried so hard to get him to come here and be with me so I could protect him and he went to my dad's house and overdosed only days after getting out or prison

[@Lin_Linz_]

this song makes me cry fuckin hell

[@mcdeuz]

💕💕💕

[@xenisthename]

Help your friends get sobber before they decide drinking and driving us a good idea and kills another one of my friends!

[@carlosblanka3001]

Nail on the head if alcohol was made brand new in this day and age it would be a class a illegal substance Rory stay strong everyone else if you go to a party when it ends leave the drink what you have in your hand at the party place and make your way to your home don't let beer control you you need to become stronger so you can control the beer instead and this is from a recovering alcoholic i control beer now im in charge stay strong and don't forget there's always a friend who will help you

[@saraha5425]

There should be some function that disallows alcohol ads on this. -_-

[@AWKN]

nice

[@carlosblanka3001]

KZbin ADD A FUCKING HEART REACTION EMOJI! ♥️♥️♥️ Uncomplicated got me through a mental health section with a couple of other songs staff looked confused trying to order me to do something and my reply was uncomplicated 1 nurse figured it out but if she heard me say that then my room door didn't get chance to shut before she was in my doorway

[@Iamirxclej]

Sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh milady this is epic ♥️🙏🤘🙏

[@tiachristi4630]

what do you do when they seem to not be able to..... :(