IxxPs trying to process Tribe

[@blakewood2755]

As INTP I don't idolize people in general. It's true tho that I have a kind of flash in the pan fascination for people that are not garbage-brain stupid :). Also, I help and I'm dedicated to people sharing similar perspective on life.

[@nattifrutti]

That's exactly what they were talking about, lol.

[@mia_f]

As an INFP, same!!! I almost obsess over people. People are the coolest.

[@notjohn2672]

yep, this video in a nutshell

[@DmitriyRGolovko]

INTPs be the smartest when it comes to making things work and understanding but when it comes to emotions they are clueless as cucumbers.

[@KajsaBernhardina]

Processing the tribe is really hard. It is painful too. Goes from having full faith in people to having no faith in humanity, and it vascilates back and forth with no in between. It is just exhausting! And then the sense that you’re completely alone in the world with your weirdest self and ultimately invisible and powerless in the world as soon as that mob comes for you there is no way to fight, just run and hide lol… IxxP’s you know what I mean!

[@greenlimabean]

I literally hide. Under my hat, under the covers,in the bathroom. I chose clothes so as not to stand out in any way.

[@DmitriyRGolovko]

Learn how to find the balance and double decide. It should be like a constant tug of war in your head maintaining a relative balance. Consider what you want and what others want and practice this constantly. Make decisions where you can align both

[@DmitriyRGolovko]

Also: ISTP, still trying to figure out the emotions game

[@KajsaBernhardina]

I’m INFP and this is scary accurate. Once I find a tribe member I look up to I idolize them, because it’s so rare to find one who doesn’t suck XD and when I realize they suck like everyone else I feel personally attacked and betrayed. I don’t idolize people I know though, this only happens with tribe members I look up to but have never personally met (like famous artists and scientists)

[@Kuzaki1530]

👆 I identify with Neil Gaiman & fictional character named Yoh Asakura, but identifying with some1 I know personally feels too basic or unauthentic somehow.

[@lalalanding234]

"... when I realize they suck like everyone else I feel personally attacked and betrayed. I don’t idolize people I know though, this only happens with tribe members I look up to but have never personally met (like famous artists..." Same OMg!! I get OBSESSED with one person per year. Last year it was BTS. still continues tho. Last year was CRAY-ZY with BTS!

[@ahabalheis2478]

Shows how superficial you are if you think about it, you could use a little Ti in your life

[@Lmaoeatrr]

Mine is Kid Cudi and Kurt Cobain!

[@zachferdinand6633]

Best Ni explanation ever. "Wow, something in my box doesn't suck?!"

[@aidanhunter6195]

**Something outside my box doesn't suck lol

[@desireez5740]

RIP Bourdain. Loved his shows. He seemed rough around the edges but so eloquent with language at the same time. No other travel experience show host compares, in my humble opinion. I haven't found a replacement as of yet. He was a unique. 🙏😔 Thanks for the IxxP break down.

[@RoqbinReality]

The "surprise" and "excitement" as discussed with Jimmy is something you might not associate with DEMON state right away, but that is a really good thing to point to as an example of a demon state reaction. He is getting weirdly excited about a thing outside of his saviors that he actually likes! Example: Me getting weirdly excited about my particular NT interests like... um... this stuff. Example2: Dave and In and Out Burger :D

[@findingninno2]

As an INFP, I can say that finding someone to who I can relate feels like the biggest relief ever. Like I've found someone who stands out from the crowd.

[@wawede]

My secret as an INTP: I don't love, I obsess 😎👉

[@meghanahanchate8667]

INFP here .I always wondered why i idolize some people so much😅. Yes once i find someone who according to my brain is a good person and not a dumbass or bullshitter,my brain absolutely jumps over their dumb and bullshit aspects. And suddenly one day it all comes crashing down and i am forced to process we all are equally human.

[@KajsaBernhardina]

So true! I feel you sister

[@talorix]

Preach it! The toughest thing to accept is that no one is perfect when you have just happened to find that one beautiful soul who you have fallen in love with

[@Lmaoeatrr]

Me when it comes to Kid Cudi and Kurt Cobain. Somehow without even knowing what an INFP was, I knew that they were similar to me. Then I took the test and found out that I was an INFP and like a year later I found out that they were the same type as me. The things I would do to be a rockstar…

[@heartpoint5289]

Oh my, this was pure gold. As an EP who is surrounded by IPs, you totally articulated a dynamic that has perplexed me. There’s a focus on one “amazing” person who to me resembles a lot of people. If I try to vibe with the IP by talking about overlapping similarities I see, they look real suspicious or just tune me out.

[@cross-eyedmary6619]

Lolol I approve this message. -INTP

[@greenlimabean]

An an intp I can't imagine an intp focusing on a person and declaring them amazing and then refusing to engage with you on patterns between thing's and people. I'd love to talk to you.

[@_VISION.]

5:25 as an ISFP I literally did that with Philosophy. I looked at so many philosophical movements trying to find a someone I could relate to (someone else who wasn't a dumbass). I had to go all the way back to ancient skepticism. Every time I find a tribe member who isn't a "dumbass", I say to myself, "FINALLY"

[@aljakobsson]

How terribly accurate! After you guys typed me as an ISTP, I realized that all of my former and current 'idols' that I had modeled myself after were some sort of IxxP that had made it to the top of their particular IxxP game. Really a lightbulb moment for me. Great video!

[@KajsaBernhardina]

INFP here! I can relate!

[@anonymouslearner2454]

How did this realisation help ? if you'd don't mind sharing

[@aljakobsson]

@@anonymouslearner2454 It increases my self awareness. It helps me understand why I do it, and to be able to catch myself doing it, so I can decide whether or not I should be doing it. The alternative is that I just run my default program, possibly into oblivion. I'm still going to go ahead and do it 9 times out of 10, but on the off chance that I can stop myself now and then, that might improve my life by just that little bit. When you're all in on your saviors as an IxxP, you're basically getting high on your ability to set yourself apart from the tribe. When you take that to its logical end, it ends up with you being totally excluded from the tribe, which is a road to ruin. That's what I'm trying to avoid, and the reason why I use OPS.

[@anonymouslearner2454]

@@aljakobsson I see... Thank you so much for explaining. It helps a lot. Still need to try to wrap my head around why totally being excluded from tribe is always bad 😅

[@Retrogamer71]

IP confession, I've been over idolising Shan. 😳

[@findingninno2]

I've noticed that Shan has been growing on me lately, especially as I've watched videos of her talking about her Fi. From my observations, I've found that it is extremely rare to hear lead masculine Te's talk about their emotions, so I find it very admirable when I hear them do so. Especially with the level of depth that I've heard Shan talk about her personal Fi. It is evident that she has found the guts to look within, and develop a conscious understanding of a part of her that other people of her type usually do not have the bravery to focus on and talk about.

[@naletai]

@@findingninno2 THIS

[@user-el6my6vi7p]

At work I have to process Se-Fe and I just look like a dumbass and have to roll with it. The amount of shit I’ve discovered through this system is mind blowing while everyone else is all “That was so obvious”. Man…

[@tosh471]

Want an IxxJ to have a nervous breakdown? Make them download speachify, and amp up the words per minute to 230wpm or higher on a subject they don't like but feel they must listen to. Instant information overload and psychological inferior SE break down. I know. lol

[@sbeve1238]

This is very embarrassing.. This is what I've been doing my whole life 🙊 Thank you for calling out my bs again Dave and Shan :)

[@Dolph-fe2ks]

Translation: "Oh my awesome! I *finally* found a REAL *Friend!"*

[@andrewcurry4745]

The tribe can be primitive and boring. Individuals can be deep and interesting.

[@redhotsizzle2121]

I can't shake the feeling that you both look like talking mannequins now thanks to the lighting and whatever beauty filter you turned on.

[@angelagoodwin5758]

As an INFP, I get a thrill when I find a tribe member and hopefully, we can form a friendship. However, I don't idolize anyone.

[@MrLuigiFercotti]

Became friends with ISTP and we were tight for many years. Now looking back on it, he decided I was cool to hang with. Didn't really have a very high opinion of most people.

[@alext5497]

Dude was clintoned

[@talorix]

This is literally what Malcolm Gladwell's book "Blink" is about!

[@talorix]

They typed him as an intp

[@talorix]

@Saadet oh i just assumed because of Fe, but ENTP makes much more sense since he's excellent with people

[@DmitriyRGolovko]

Wow I just realized how everybody I idolized were very similar types to me (Ti/Ni). David Goggins, Mark Manson, Many great physicists, all share the extreme self over tribe deal. When it comes to discipline and intelligence, very intresting.

[@loglyn]

I will have to watch myself to see if I do this... Can't think of any role models that i have.

[@justinwhite2725]

I think this analysis is incorrect. I've noticed a gross misunderstanding they have of functions they don't have between themselves.

[@ИльяБелов-э8р]

@@justinwhite2725 Well, their system is actually works. That's the the only thing that matters. They have the best personality typing system i've seen so far. There's a ton of youtubers who has a "great understanding of functions" but yet they're not able to type anybody. OPS actually helps you to type yourself and then predict and solve your life problems. So, what else do you need?

[@aprilhelm518]

@@ИльяБелов-э8р If it's inaccurate, it doesn't work. God, how do you make any sense of what you just said?

[@aprilhelm518]

@@ИльяБелов-э8р If I tried to type myself or fix my life with their system, it'd be bunch of nothing useful.

[@ИльяБелов-э8р]

@@aprilhelm518 What is the 'accurate' definition of functions then. And how these 'accurate' definitions are gonna help me to type someone? I've tried to type almost every person in their class docs and got almost the same results as them. So... I'm pretty sure that it does work. They're trying to get their definitions based on data they have - not backwards. It's still your choice whether you want to use their system or not though.

[@somewhereisgone]

Ouch I feel this hard. I definitely idolize those close to me and when they disappoint me in some way I determined it breaks my little world for a hot min. "How could you?!" Vibes lol 😅

[@jessicapurple3737]

Can you guys do Alan Rickman?

[@SCREAMOguy413]

OMG OPS AND PAULA DEEN YTP PEWP TWO OF MY ALL TIME FAVORITE THINGS ULTIMATE CROSSOVER AHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@FrownyMascot]

INFP ...the only books I could ever really Consume are auto/biographies 😂

[@annatigreat2050]

Thinking about all the kpop stans...

[@condotiero860]

INTP, basically the reason i read. All the good tribe members get written about. Unfortunately most of them died.

[@aresp2707]

L🤣L... "What's.. F@%king" How sweet! 🧸

[@greenlimabean]

I'm intp . Telling me how a system works is treating me like I'm stupid. Let me discover and use my powers.

[@someonerandom713]

"So we're talking about the category of cooking, and he's talking about some specific chef guy" I haven't seen how the talk got to that point before Jimmy brought up the book, nor am I saying this is *not* decider stuff, but: Are we, Dave? Are we really talking in that "category" exclusively? Or has this person, who happens to be a chef, engaged in a conversation that wasn't exclusively about the category he's in?

[@SpookyGhost11]

Right? Is a topic a category? I didn't understand it very well.

[@justinwhite2725]

I think this was part of the book tour promotion, from the context. Usually the only time people talk about a book on a show like this is when it just came out and theu are promoting it, so the subject would be about the book and why he wrote it.

[@someonerandom713]

@@justinwhite2725 Yeah. What I'm getting at is that it seems like such an Ni-dom/Consume last way of Dave to view this.

[@L.l.I.ia_N]

I have real life time story, there's one guy in my class the only one I say is cool and others are suck, and his the only one I praise out off all people, I think his an ixxp guy, ISFP, and everyday all day I'm like "his really cool", "his the best" etc, etc, and everyone else is suck. That so true.

[@wisdomseeker3132]

Yes, This is Accurate I Am An INFP ❤️😇

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

Fe: The eyes Chico, they never lie.😂

[@TwoFunPlays]

Well i am a IxxP with maybe demon F-Fe that idolize in rare cases

[@actazrath5878]

How hard do u wanna get slap by the universe again?

[@wendybird7059]

Well...nothing is more important than PEOPLE!! But. Do I do this? Must observe!!

[@orangeziggy348]

He’s relating his celebrity status to the other celebrity status in order to process and understand his own life. You learn about others in order to learn abt yourself. He is not food. He is a human. Food is a simple to understand object, humans are complex therefore interesting. He talks about what fascinates him, which is humans. To talk abt food would bore him.

[@devinbailey4725]

It doesnt matter because it's Fi and it's very interesting to My Fi; so 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@carolineangelard4274]

Thank you for all your vids etc etc... I think I heard you several times saying that Jimmy Fallon was an INFJ, here and there... but i cannot find any video in your database of him... and he is not in your personnality class archives... Am I missing something? I would love to see him typed!

[@Baamthe25th]

Tbh, I have time I get surprised by people like that, yeah Didn't expect that out of them, but all you would actually here from me would be a "Uh" at best

[@marinamarina6687]

Person A: “Fi you” Person B: “Oh, Fe you”

[@craigmiller1870]

Jeremiah Tower is still alive by the way, also American. He also thought Atlantis was in the Pacific, haha. Everyone knows its in Africa, Mu is in the Pacific.

[@ChaosBetwenEchos]

I have the curiousity what exxps are processing, one of perciving groups

[@Rin-red]

That excruciating so hell-deep Oi!!!

[@craigmiller1870]

Wait, what was the corporate greed guy's type?

[@actazrath5878]

I think I could say I admire no one, but I have 'some' mentors. Can u elaborate this psychological phenomena? Dududu

[@IlRincreTeam]

I can see myself somewhat in this idolizing IP, but i tend to do so with "groups of people"... i wouldn't say it's a EJ thing, since it looks too similar to the IP obsession, can someone hand me an insight?

[@mikeyankee3139]

I’m Isfp if I worry it tends to be what people think of me do entjs worry about how people feel about them? I also have a small friend group because I think a lot of people suck lol

[@alajndress]

Why wouldn’t you want to be recognized for your contributions, regardless of field? Is this saying that only IxxPs understand what life is about? Objectively, what else is there?

[@talorix]

Hahahah maybe realizing that everything has happened before like an istj or that everything in world is explained by chaos theory like an exxp or that the narrative or the direction of people should be better like and inxj or that you don't live to be recognise but to be loved by the community like an exfj... It really isn't just about being recognised, everybody dies and then we fight over was that person of this nationality or that, was he good or bad etc. We use what has happened to our benefit, but not just to be recognised, sometimes just to survive and fight back or to live harmoniously/in the best way/happiest etc. It really isn't just about ourselves or others but some preconditions that shape our lives or building new systems that might lead us to better life...

[@abraxadabra4224]

What do EPs try to process??

[@talorix]

The need for control. They see they miss it in their life, but whenever they are in a controlled environment they hate it, because they don't know how to narrow down and it's always expected

[@SJ-um8zc]

so out of curiosity, what does demon Ni process then?

[@thescowlingschnauzer]

What type are they saying Paula Dean is?

[@CRIMS0N_KING]

What was Bourdain's full type?

[@eddiekitzhofer4245]

5:32 Yep, caught me.

[@noturbo]

Jeremiah was a bullfrog?

[@ridvantahir3755]

As intp I can relate

[@michaelbindner9883]

Bordain had great Ne

[@actazrath5878]

We just pipe pal, dont kid urself

[@orangeziggy348]

Y’all are making fun of IP for studying people when in fact your own KZbin is about studying people- which is what you’re laughing at him for doing. Book maybe? If y’all ever consider writing a book about human beings, you’d be doing the same. Why study people if instead you can study beef stew? Maybe bc humans are more interesting.

[@brkovicsara5783]

Yes

[@michaelbindner9883]

Does Demon Si have a Pugpen problem (hair missed, shirts never survive dinner without a spill, not shaving or combing, not bathing given the choice)? Looking for ENTP v INTP coin). Also not doing final edit well.

[@gooddaygene8355]

Di= 34,56,22. Goes up to De= 78,27,99. -Hell no, nothing in common... Di is outta here. Then De=56,57,20. -Eh, kind of... Di walks away. Finally De= 34,57,21. -Okay, close enough.

[@DerpxGames]

This isn’t accurate

[@dianadias3]

I ideolize Billie Eilish 😍😍

[@dinardojacintodelaalt9674]

Se non-binary

[@Human1136]

Yawn..

[@actazrath5878]

I just got intj-a. Whats that mean?

[@findingninno2]

If you are a beginner in Myers-Briggs typology, my first advice would be to learn about the 8 cognitive functions, and how they determine each of the 16 types (including INTJ). Then, it might be good for you to study Dave and Shan’s Objective Personality System.

[@actazrath5878]

@@findingninno2 🤣

[@actazrath5878]

Thank god I still have limbs

[@aresp2707]

@@actazrath5878 what is that supposed to mean? What... because you just learned what type you "possibly" are?

[@actazrath5878]

@@aresp2707i keep getting nt tho

[@justinwhite2725]

🤔 3:28 this does not relate. I don't idolize anyone, and I don't care if my successes live beyond me. If we all are following 'programs' and I don't fit into what you think my program is, then your understanding of the IP program must therefore be wrong. Try again. (given how off you are about Ne, At least as relates to INTPs, suggests a fundamental base flaw) 5:19 now THIS is accurate. The works is full of dumbasses and I'm better off doing my own thing. 5:23 😂 5:33 maybe it's because I'm not a blaster? I don't need to write a book about someone. I'll follow them so I can consume their information, maybe share their Facebook posts once in awhile, bit I won't idoloze them or write a book about them and they don't take up my world. You make it seem like this is my 'story' or 'obsession'... But it just isn't.

[@satoshinakamoto5710]

Jimmy Fallon NiFe. yeah this one is a really solid but can be really difficult typing for beginners and most people in general.