【精華版】李玟婚姻其實很累？黃宥嘉點破背後完美假象

[@flying1505]

當你發現一個人需要你一直去包容，原諒，讓你愛不像自己時，他根本就不是對的人！ 好的人根本不需要讓你這麼累！！！！ 說實在跟一個人在一起還不比單身開心，滾吧！！！！ 誰需要你啊 臭男人！！！！！ 他老公說穿了現在就是一個又老又醜的老男人！

[@10000Rays]

Your viewpoint regarding unprincipled behaviors is absolutely true. May all people always observe keenly the character of a person and the principles lived by. It is equally true that only being in interaction with a person of good character, who abides by good principles and living by healthy parameter for all can such relationship contribute to companionship and well being. Thus it is important for all parties to pay full attention before and after marriage and while in all relationships. If certain characters show up after marriage or in relationships as human heart is quite easy to change for many and there is no intention and commitment to change, then it is important for the person to exit such dysfunctional relationship. Otherwise apology becomes meaningless and simply a license to repeat offense. While barrenness can be ground for divorce due to lack of children to perpetuate the name of the family, it is important to know that a child is hardly a cure for a shaky relationship due to unfaithfulness. Usually it only means bringing a child to a dysfunctional relationship at best, and in many cases a broken home. It is important to properly resolve the emotional pain. Time does not heal wounds, only dims the pain. What people feel they suppress into the body. The physical body is not designed to hold emotional pain of any sorts. Also, while going through illness and pain of both emotional and physical, unless upgraded to genuine harmony and peace quickly and sustained, the person's energy is low thus susceptible to dark thoughts and dark forces. As to the one who reveals life depleting characters in deeds, the person is miserable within. How so? Harmful deeds are two-edged sword, it cuts both ways, the doer and generally the target. Just look up the life of Napoleon and many others who contributed to much misery. If it is any consolation, they never have any joy even while gaining power, wealth, and in various illicit relationships, etc. The harmful deeds only increase the cravings for more and the fear of loss and these crowd out any pleasure; joy does not even exist as it only shows up when harmony is present. The worse part is what is waiting for them after the physical body is dead. The spirit lives forever so it will inhabit a realm matching its essence. Also, if your purpose is the peace and well being of the world then the behaviors of its inhabitants have to exude peaceful and harmonious essences. I propose you bless everyone, especially the ones committing harmful deeds. Borrowing 2 statements of Lord Jesus Christ: Luke 5:32, New King James Version 32 I have NOT come to call the righteous, BUT SINNERS, to repentance.” Luke 4:18, New King James Version 18 “The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, Because He has anointed Me To preach the gospel to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives And recovery of sight to the blind, To set at liberty those who are oppressed; Note: The poor here is not simply for the ones lack of money, it I also for the spiritually poor. As to the brokenhearted, many people who do harmful deeds do not have a loving heart. Liberty to the captive, it is also those fully being the captive of what the world has to offer. Recovery of sight to the blind, it is also the ones blind to God. To set at liberty those who are oppressed, people can be oppressed by their bad character and addictions, right? Every time we bless all we are also the recipient of blessings. Look at the sun and you will see it shines on all, the ugly, the bad, and the good. And one day all will reap what have been sown. It is a promise of God and He is Love and Just, and the Ultimate Judge. Many blessings to you and yours.

[@microcarpa1]

黃醫師說的太精闢了!!

[@panallen8428]

在美國 常常看到 漂亮年輕的亞裔女生 旁邊男友是個白人老頭或白人魯蛇, 而帥氣俊秀的亞裔男 身邊女友卻是個 矮小滿臉雀斑的白人醜女友 所以看到李玟的婚姻 感到 亞洲人的悲哀 有感而發

[@milliebobbybrown4251]

嫁給了比自己大十幾歲的丈夫，和丈夫相戀了十多年，接納了他的再婚身份和兩個女兒。前後做了九次人工受孕，都失敗了；丈夫多次出軌，也都被她原諒。可縱然付出了這麼多，她依然沒換回他的愛。

[@10000Rays]

After at least 5,000 years of history and countless live examples it is obvious romantic love, in fact all types of human love, can not be inspired, generated, maintained, and sustained long term by how much the other party sacrifice and being permissive. It is based on character and principles the person lives by. This applies to all the relationships including between spouses and parents and children. Despite many examples of wonderful parental love, loyal children and siblings, and best friends there are plenty of parents who are partial to sons or a particular child and blatantly unfair to all other children. There are plenty of parents and children, spouses, siblings, and best friends who sell out, exploit, harm physically, financially, and psychologically each other, even kill each other. The character and principles the other party lives by are visible in the behaviors of LONG standing, even in the choice of words in interactions. Regrettably many are choosing to believe what they want instead of observing and willing to understand and act decisively based on all the obvious red flags repeatedly available. A tree is judged by its fruits. A person can be banckrupted financially, emotionally, physically and even die by ignoring all the red flags existed during courtship. In conclusion in all types of relationship it is important to establish and commit to live by healthy parameters for all. Humanity has abundance of examples reflecting the consequences of failure to do so. May humanity live by God's principles in all aspects of life at all time. Many blessings to all.

[@kunbrotherton2476]

呂宛如你也講的太直白了吧 害我笑到眼淚都流出來

[@DearsLucyNfans]

呂宛如是誰

[@plamgasps]

all these rumours and private matters being aired amidst her battle with depression, her suffering was beyond imagination. RIP Coco

[@一点一滴学英文]

人要爱惜自己，从爱惜自己的身体健康开始

[@蔡淑菁-j1m]

她不是很愛自己，我不是想評論她，只是我認為她的形象是裝的

[@一点一滴学英文]

@@蔡淑菁-j1m 同意

[@LAGirls-lv5gh]

白男人， 表面上有礼貌， 嘴巴很体贴， 在婚姻其实很现实， 电影喜福会里的AA制婚姻， 是常态？ 李小姐值得更好的， 更疼她的男人， 真令人心疼

[@blurdreamer]

如果她成功生孩子的话，会比较有勇气为孩子活下去吧。可惜没有如果。

[@10000Rays]

Looking down the annal of history we can see that no sacrifice however great, gifts of all sorts including children, son in particular, permissiveness, and martyrdom of any sorts can inspire generate, maintain, sustain, and intensify long term what is lacking in character and principles. It is wonderful to love and be generous within healthy parameter for all, not to establish co-dependent relationship of any kind. In other words, they can not serve as the purpose of living for us. All things in this world are subject to change and there is nothing human can do to make them long lasting. History has proven to us that this include relationship between parents and children, siblings, spouses, and best friends. No success, wealth, beauty and great figure, position, family, academic degree, and family background can serve as main reason or purpose of living. And no human will power and inner strength however exceptional are a match to all the challenges of life. All it takes is a terminal illness and a few betrayals and setbacks to show how limited human capacity really is. All these are bonuses of life, not the real purpose of life. May the countless betrayals, misleading and unnecessary sacrifices, tragedies, wars, and deaths serve as clear examples and incentive for humanity to re-evaluate the true purpose of life. Many blessings to you.

[@msyoung0825]

不一定。陈宝莲生下儿子还是自杀了，得抑郁症是病了，不是单纯的心情问题。

[@celiu2228]

不会的，一个不快乐的人没有办法给别人快乐，儿女也不会

[@蔡淑菁-j1m]

​@@celiu2228我也有同感，我還帶給小孩陰影

[@孫秀芳-f7r]

🥺

[@wangy8939]

Amazing performer, kindest soul, brightest smiles...I wish you knew how remarkably special you are

[@calittlegarden-3311]

她嗆導播是為一位學員抱不平，很明顯那學員比另一學員唱的好，分數也高，確被唱的差的替代，她看不過去因此發聲

[@蔡淑菁-j1m]

她不嗆，，她會被學員看不起，而且她並不缺錢，，本身她也可不接受這個節目邀約，大陸節目黑暗面不是個人的能力可改變的

[@暗共叫]

李玟當然可以嗆製作單位 她公認的國際巨星

[@蔡淑菁-j1m]

章子怡也算巨星，巨星也是凡夫俗子😅

[@applelui1694]

那位老男人花心，這是事實。coco跟老男人相比，coco至少比他年輕16歲，而且外型很會保養。是老男人不滿足，喜歡新鮮感，就算老男人娶小40歲女人，早晚也會偷吃 。

[@user-yq3df7kb5e]

「可是難道挑戰極限是一直看到老公外遇嗎？這個叫做極限嗎？」 呃..說實在的這種情況是老公在挑戰極限🤣

[@文子-v3m]

女人不開心，最容易得乳癌，子宮頸癌。 所以嫁人真的要小心，選對了，天天過情人節。選錯人，就是清明節了。

[@chiayilin7715]

不開心應該是較易有肺部問題吧！可能打赫爾蒙排卵針9次有關係吧！

[@koge2347]

為什麼這麼熱的天氣主持人穿套頭毛衣😊

[@pyliu8668]

老外離婚除非前簽婚前協議書，否則應該沒有淨身出戶的問題吧？尤其不是李玟主動要離婚的，又除非....男方故意逼著李玟主動提離婚的...

[@blurdreamer]

富豪应该都会签婚前協議書，尤其是二三四婚的。

[@carryhuang9183]

從事後諸葛的今天來看，那個側邊的引流管應該是乳癌切除的後續處理🧐

[@離譜-l8v]

恩 而且應該是不樂觀了，才會走這條路

[@王斯婷-u4h]

太要強完美的女生有很大机會 得乳癌，所以還是适時放过自已.

[@winghungkuen4598]

山羊座的女性事業心太大了吧，人又好勝又強又好面子，山羊座性格又悶又不懂享受人生，她鬼佬老公又有錢又懂享受，唉！兩人婚姻又甚能長久呢

[@jack19971965]

她已走了RIP

[@王金鳳-w9n]

為何都被不安眠藥的話提，也可教大家怎么的使用安眠藥 謝謝

[@angiel3693]

没离婚的时候为什么会向李玟求婚？

[@haiyanlei6844]

太有预见性了

[@Michael-hc4pp]

認同，男人要變心，女人在怎麽整形都沒有用。 我的工作接觸太多類似客人，10位男生有7位婚姻都不是健康的，男生每次都帶不同小三😅 我還要很識相的不要說錯話。 現在專情的男生可以被歸類成稀有動物了

[@annetsai1496]

It’s a drain for her breast cancer, not a chest tube

[@jamieliu2187]

兩個女兒怎麼不怪爸爸,只怪李文.

[@abcabc-pr9zq]

聪明的决定

[@陳慧娟-r3q]

不懂事的女兒

[@karaz2357]

因为对于她们来说这些女人都是后妈。

[@blurdreamer]

财富在老爸身上+亲生骨肉

[@黃毓嫻-c3e]

畢竟是自己的父親，她們只會覺得家庭被外人破壞。

[@susanyz7864]

太要強!

[@abcabc-pr9zq]

时间久了太累了吧

[@wum70690]

怎麼大熱天的每個都穿的跟冬天一樣呢？

[@季莘莘]

攝影棚裏頭很冷d

[@ellyc6538]

因為這是五個月前的影片🥸

[@lillianlee8618]

It could be the difference in culture and upbringing especially the western people

[@laifunho4569]

很多女強人 女藝人倒貼的命運係好悲慘的。 又要愛面子 搞個狂貴的婚禮. 老外不可能付這麼多錢的. 西方世界 你講笑了吧。是Co Co 愛面子 乜都威過人 老公變心了 自己過不了這－関.

[@吉如意-o1o]

善神擁護 魏恂，唐朝鉅鹿人，曾任博州司馬。神龍年間，加三品，官拜右監門大將軍，平日持誦金剛經。 這時，京城有位名叫蔡策的人，暴死幾天後又甦醒過來，他說：「我被冥官審訊時，看到一位鬼使回稟冥官說沒有追到人，冥官要鞭打鬼使，使者說，將軍魏恂受持金剛經，有很多善神擁護，圍繞數重，追他不得，並不是故意縱放。冥官又換了別的使者前去，回來稟告的話仍是一樣，追魏恂之事遂告作罷，冥官與鬼使同聲讚歎。」 魏恂知道這事以後，從此更加精進持誦。

[@binzen7173]

为什么嘉宾说大陆字幕要改成中国？言论自由呢？

[@chananna1627]

世上一切果皆有因！

[@weikewang98]

这个男的，你了解当时的情况吗？那是李玟为选手仗义执言，导演不公正的猫腻哎！你先搞清楚啦！

[@geokyantan4921]

硬要跳舞，而且是長期勁舞，除了好強，又有些自虐😢

[@音色鑑賞師]

深覺🉐️這些都是多少“加工調🈴️”出來爲了某些考量的說詞⋯她1994跳到2019從沒聽過啥髖關節問題 若真有些天生缺陷能狂野勁舞25年？太匪夷所思了⋯過分神化李玟了⋯

[@982-r6f]

誇張，對世界是有啥貢獻！一窩蜂的迷戀！

[@kongyinfoo6142]

对了，跳舞也有关系:😂好可憐! 又被老外，甜言蜜語給玩弄了:😮😂

[@phoebekhang4612]

國外長大的亞洲女性有些對白人有奇怪的憧憬和迷思，容易過度討好和配合，讓有優越感的另一方更加肆无忌惮. 尤其碰上這種大十幾歲的老奸巨滑生意人.

[@sungchia280]

所以你這麼了解她？ 或者你了解所有在海外長大的亞洲女的情感還是婚姻？ 別那麼白痴, 拜託...

[@phoebekhang4612]

@@sungchia280 別那麼沒水準開口閉口就人身攻擊（罵人”白癡”是可以被告的）…拜託 🙄 “有些” = 不是全部國外長大的亞洲女性（中文理解能力得加強）

[@sungchia280]

@@phoebekhang4612 哎呦，我好怕哦，我可能會因為罵你白痴而被起訴耶.... 死者為大的道理你明白嗎？ 人都死了,嚼別人婚姻感情的舌根讓你有優越感還是怎樣？

[@phoebekhang4612]

@@sungchia280 我沒有説要起訴你所以不用怕🙄 （你的中文理解能力真的唉） 原來你的溝通方式只有”攻擊”和”被攻擊”，難怪雞同鴨講的.

[@sungchia280]

@@phoebekhang4612 你的common sense 才需要更多的努力

[@Legendfound-x8e]

還沒離婚，那不僅是李玟不答應，法律也不答應啊！

[@娜緹-k8s]

所有人人都沒戴口罩，就黃醫師戴是嫌其他來賓不乾淨嗎？

[@陳慧娟-r3q]

這是個人的自由

[@abcabc-pr9zq]

先要照顾好自己才要求别人

[@agnestsao9264]

她是照規矩保護別人和自己，因為疫情根本沒有停止。

[@yungeee-q8r]

李紋都去大陸，臺灣沒看到

[@秋香林-e5r]

說什麼都晚了

[@林靜沐]

她丈夫，真渣男！這麼好的女人不珍惜

[@harryliu2053]

Coco Lee 付出百分之百的她！ 自己什麼都沒有！ 所以她很累！

[@susanyz7864]

報應!

[@amour477]

現在看來，疑似胸腔引流管，是不是就是隱瞞母親的乳癌治療手術

[@鄭珍妮-u1w]

做隆乳手術？

[@陳慧娟-r3q]

應該不是

[@ruty0702]

是乳癌

[@carryhuang9183]

乳癌切除手術

[@katew.3977]

隆乳手術 不會弄成這樣子 。。

[@user-xu1br6ey2n]

當一ˊ男人不愛.做都一樣.要為自己活.....