Jada Pinkett Smith On How To Heal Your Past And Love Yourself Again

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Jay Shetty Podcast

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Jay Shetty and Jada Pinkett-Smith sit down and discuss how her childhood shaped her in good and bad ways. After leaving home for Los Angeles at age 18, Pinkett-Smith had to learn how to allow herself to lay down her ego and live with an open heart.
Everybody has a story, and Jada Pinkett-Smith has developed the unique ability to take any life experience and find the good in it. Watch the episode of On Purpose to learn how Jada Pinkett-Smith was able to overcome her past and thrive.
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@lightworker9517
@lightworker9517 2 жыл бұрын
Ego death, everyday! And when Jada said 'realizing that relationships are simply there to show us ourselves'. I resonated with so many things she said!
@SUCCESSBOSS
@SUCCESSBOSS 2 жыл бұрын
*Ultimately, there is only one person responsible for your happiness, and that person is reading this right now* *stay blessed friends* 🙏
@aidavillanueva202
@aidavillanueva202 2 жыл бұрын
Thankbyou
@chouayang81
@chouayang81 2 жыл бұрын
True
@keumamelanie5602
@keumamelanie5602 2 жыл бұрын
Stay blessed Queen!
@Nah-ah
@Nah-ah 2 жыл бұрын
Gracias 🙏🏽
@KenyettaMonique
@KenyettaMonique 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@9Javo
@9Javo 2 жыл бұрын
I'll say this: I have never rewinded and paused a video this much to take notes and reflect. Thank you for sharing this conversation!
@TheNelsonsanchez
@TheNelsonsanchez 2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t make notes cause I knew I was going to watch it enough times until the key notes were engraved in my heart. I had a number of places where I had to stop it cause it hit me so hard, that I cried.
@Keala18
@Keala18 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@Keala18
@Keala18 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@937sha
@937sha 2 жыл бұрын
Literally!!!
@puremusic6450
@puremusic6450 2 жыл бұрын
fr
@rozaliaslaboiu7810
@rozaliaslaboiu7810 10 ай бұрын
I Love Jada's wise approach to life and childhood drama... I learned so much from her right now. A big THANK YOU.
@Shylaoutdoors
@Shylaoutdoors 2 жыл бұрын
I always had to remind myself that the Universe wouldn’t have given me all of these challenges and setbacks in life if I couldn’t handle it
@miraclek4656
@miraclek4656 2 жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@TroyTodd999
@TroyTodd999 2 жыл бұрын
We signed up for it before coming back to the 3D dimension 🙏🏾
@JasonGafar
@JasonGafar 2 жыл бұрын
you really think that to be true? So all these billions of people stuck in poverty, I guess the "universe" gives it to them, too?
@ClayMastah344
@ClayMastah344 2 жыл бұрын
I think people tell themselves things like that to feel better about the situation. Some things are overwhelming and insurmountable. Can you handle it, perhaps. But some can't. And you shouldn't have had to handle it.
@Shylaoutdoors
@Shylaoutdoors 2 жыл бұрын
@@JasonGafar that is how I dealt with being in poverty throughout my childhood and also dealing with my severe back pain I’ve had since I was 10. Thinking the universe knew I could handle it helped motivate me vs thinking poor me
@OliveWa93
@OliveWa93 Жыл бұрын
Listening to her talk about having fighting be her first instinct due to her upbringing and how Will and her had that in common really brings light to what happened at the Oscars. They're just humans working on themselves and have bad moments like any other person.
@noam2315
@noam2315 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad this interview popped up on my feed and I pressed the play button because this has made me see everthing from a different perspective, see her and Will from a different perspective.
@OliveWa93
@OliveWa93 Жыл бұрын
@@noam2315 I'm so glad you had a new insight 😀 you inspired me
@imlskr
@imlskr 2 жыл бұрын
That thing she said about "They're supposed to know how to love me" just shattered everything I thought I knew about love. I'm just so grateful for being able to hear such insights for free from the other side of the world. We're truly blessed.
@asamakhtn
@asamakhtn Жыл бұрын
Heavy on the "for free" it's so amazing
@mariapinkney4877
@mariapinkney4877 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is amazing! She blessed me in ways she’ll never know 😭
@tamlynn786
@tamlynn786 2 жыл бұрын
She’s not amazing … are you a joke? She’s a narcissist and toxic!
@katarinamilutinovic5431
@katarinamilutinovic5431 7 ай бұрын
oo god..if a narcissist who cant raise a normal child and have a happy faamily is helping you you need more help than you think,,is all a show dude.she says things but read between the lines and you will see how selfish she is
@kefoxxie3691
@kefoxxie3691 2 жыл бұрын
Ego deaths... wow! Love is blue... wow! Allow children to learn their own self-discipline. Stillness and the intention to reach your higher forces. Thank you Jada and Jay xx
@Marianastarss
@Marianastarss 2 жыл бұрын
Every single part of this interview IS FUCKING AMAZING!! Am I the only one listening to it at least once a day? I swear every time I listen to it I swear I learn something new!!!
@deborahvanrijn2275
@deborahvanrijn2275 2 жыл бұрын
It is really good
@patrycjagumola4464
@patrycjagumola4464 2 жыл бұрын
Time to check if it works thus way! But yeah that woman is powerrr
@tamlynn786
@tamlynn786 2 жыл бұрын
That woman is a narcissist and toxic. Jada is nothing but talk.
@yostruly2605
@yostruly2605 2 жыл бұрын
It feels like she has lived the life/ experiences/ traumas that most of us have lived, and she has found her purpose; healing herself so she can teach us how to heal. Most of the advice she gave are things I learnt from years of therapy, self development and pain. I’m only just happy to have learnt all of this while relatively young. But tbh, divine healing is a lifelong journey.
@mirelladlima5278
@mirelladlima5278 2 жыл бұрын
it's so excruciating to get to know one's true self however it's also liberating.🙏
@divineamazingmoments2745
@divineamazingmoments2745 2 жыл бұрын
"be thankful for it all love yourself even the bad things about yourself .. love your shadows
@musicmaker1311
@musicmaker1311 2 жыл бұрын
Man that really hits…I’m trying so hard to love myself & FORGIVE myself 😓
@Tina52516
@Tina52516 2 жыл бұрын
@@musicmaker1311 🙏🏽🙏🏽 me too sis me too
@J.Venus20
@J.Venus20 2 жыл бұрын
Her talking about shadow work, is getting me serious about my spiritual journey.
@nicolesmith2891
@nicolesmith2891 2 жыл бұрын
I'm from Baltimore too, and she's so right about everything. Had to change my way of thinking away from just being from Baltimore. Because it's so rough. It conditions you to be emotionally closed off. Self growth . Love her ❤
@willdickens7712
@willdickens7712 2 жыл бұрын
Preach she reminds me so much of my mom who is also from Baltimore.
@t.l1357
@t.l1357 2 жыл бұрын
Pain is from my false belief. That part! I con myself all the time. That pain is teaching me to listen to my intuition....painful but necessary. My intuition is never off.
@jodirowe2996
@jodirowe2996 2 жыл бұрын
Acknowledging and releasing the ego takes a lot of work, usually with help from a professional. “Releasing the warrior” was very deep for me. As many people bring out their safety mechanism or protective, toxic behaviors to be safe, they sabotage their best interest. It takes so much work to see the harm in your self treatment and projections, but is so worth investigating and resolving. There is no hierarchicy in pain.
@tnt01
@tnt01 2 жыл бұрын
Her skin is gorgeous. always glowing.
@sandram6913
@sandram6913 2 жыл бұрын
This is one of the best conversations I've ever heard. It's taken many years for me to get to this point also, while it is the place where I'm at. It is so liberating after the confront. It is a place of peace. It's a new beginning. Wow!!! So great!! Love you, Jada and Jay!!
@nawalelabbassi7509
@nawalelabbassi7509 Жыл бұрын
my kids came through me, they are not mine. wow, if only everybody would realize that. i dont know if Jada talks about childhood in her show but her view and spreading these words could litterally change the world- God bless our marvellous childs
@mirelladlima5278
@mirelladlima5278 2 жыл бұрын
Ego death is so vital for self development and growth.🙏
@abbieyandle4986
@abbieyandle4986 Жыл бұрын
I'm about as immune to pop culture as an American can be. What I love about this interview and so many others is the practical, applicable and useful conversations. There are so many nuggets here. Some that I have integrated. Many that I have not been aware of and now can see playing out in my own life. Deep Gratitude ❣️🙏
@alishalittle453
@alishalittle453 2 жыл бұрын
This interview showed me how true law of Attraction is.Im on a spiritual journey and this has given me such hope.I have so much in common with Jada with past and present..She has brought me to joyfull tears .I'm so grateful from one woman of love to another .I have so much love for you
@Proletprolet
@Proletprolet 2 жыл бұрын
I am 24 year old and because i ve been through some toxic environments growing up I started to work on myself a couple of years ago this video really helped me to realize some of the things that i missed going through my spiritual journey. Thank you for being so honest and real.
@spunky1able
@spunky1able Жыл бұрын
I don't believe they were honest about their toxic relationship, the cheating, lying, keeping one person in love with someone & devoted to them to know their spouse is cheating on them is wrong, wrong, wrong, when they ignore it, it's narcassitic & toxic, & harmful to that perfect family picture ya'll painted. We all have our struggles, but a wife could have the courtesy to try to hide them, but doesn't, poor stupid will, what an example ya'll are setting, it's not nice, good, lovely, or right.
@Taiba-dijoo
@Taiba-dijoo 8 ай бұрын
This podcast was different from the usual, it resonated on so many levels.❤️
@Shylaoutdoors
@Shylaoutdoors 2 жыл бұрын
I had to grow up fast extremely young due to my family. I relate to this so much. THANK YOU 🙏
@petrinadesilva4283
@petrinadesilva4283 2 жыл бұрын
This is a masterclass- take notes. Tq for your generosity in sharing this…
@sexyblackcharlery
@sexyblackcharlery 2 жыл бұрын
This has come at the right time, for the last few days I've been looking back at my childhood and hating my dad. My dad used to physically and emotionally hurt me over the smallest thing. Also, my ex stole a lot of money from me and cheated etc. I thought I was ok but sometimes these memories just creep back up and I get so angry but I dont know how to release it. Great episode xxx
@angelclements2946
@angelclements2946 2 жыл бұрын
Find meditation vibrations on KZbin to help open up your Chakras. Pray, forgive seek God. Letting go of my ego I didn't no I had lol. Love you and there's nothing you can do about it Namaste
@tnt01
@tnt01 2 жыл бұрын
try therapy. it helps.
@hilaryhislop4524
@hilaryhislop4524 2 жыл бұрын
Check out the tapping solution
@AminahMcKenzie
@AminahMcKenzie 2 жыл бұрын
She is the one person I truly want to talk to. Even if I get a chance to go on the red table talk one day lol. I will rewatching this because these are the conversations and the kind of people I want to connect with. She was saying everything that im going through, especially with my ego. I try to run away from silence but I know whatever I'm running away from will continue to come back. Thank you Jay for bringing on someone I lookup to so much. I cant wait for the day I can speak with her.
@angelclements2946
@angelclements2946 2 жыл бұрын
OMG that street warrior in me. Beautiful lady you telling my story of course with different situations. I'm learning how to love myself first which is so hard why I don't quite know yet but I am all in to uncover my true self. Thank you for sharing your story I seem so alone sometimes but I know God and my spirit team are with me. Thank you thank you thank you
@evandercaldwell9993
@evandercaldwell9993 2 жыл бұрын
💖💖💖💖💖
@Katice634
@Katice634 2 жыл бұрын
What an amazing interview. I’m glad that I was finally able to listen to it fully. Working on being better to myself and acknowledging my shadow. It’s very hard to look at the not so good parts of myself when my image has always been sweet and supportive. Realizing that I need to work on truly loving me. I also realized that since removing negative people from my life they try so hard to come back in. When it gets hard I remember Trent Shelton saying “facts over feelings “. I am love and everyone who surrounds me is love too.
@Starlitebrite1
@Starlitebrite1 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much Jada and Jay, I truly needed this right now, this very moment, asked God a question this morning and he lead me to this video and I'm truly grateful to both of you but especially to Jada for being so profound, genuine and vulnerable. it could not have been easy for you to do this video but I know every word you said is the truth, brave and honest. Thank you for this gift 🎁 of enlightenment. God bless you both for it. 🙏
@937sha
@937sha 2 жыл бұрын
This interview was absolutely beautiful. She is so knowledgeable and inspiring 💗💗I’m so thankful I was able to hear this today
@kristaa24
@kristaa24 Жыл бұрын
wow been going through a hard time when she said stand still brought tears to my eyes I definitely needed to hear her words she's so amazing!!!!! so humble and chill want to be more like her lol love this podcast!!!
@skiniminonochie
@skiniminonochie 2 жыл бұрын
Rich Beautiful people addressing timeless questions and being our philosophers…how invigorating!
@sacdaabdurhman
@sacdaabdurhman 2 жыл бұрын
Determine your priorities and focus on them. Sharing some love with all of you Have a good day and keep smiling you are beautiful.
@jordanclemons4147
@jordanclemons4147 2 жыл бұрын
How can anybody dislike this seriously?! This is real, intellectual talk that everybody isn’t ready for but is greatly beneficial to hear and know 💯 Thank you Jada and Jay for sharing this ❤️
@katarinamilutinovic5431
@katarinamilutinovic5431 7 ай бұрын
oo the hollywood bulshit show??is all a sham dude
@keumamelanie5602
@keumamelanie5602 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not even 20 minutes in but I can tell this is special! When Jada mentioned about the other spectrum of ego😭🙌🏾 I can relate to that so much and it can be one hella of a beast to get to the point you actually recognize that! Thank you Jay and Jada🤍🙌🏾
@isabelochoa7377
@isabelochoa7377 2 жыл бұрын
"There's no more room for pretending, you know each other so well, you can't hide" ... Listening to all this gives you strength to keep forward for yourself and self-love. Thanks for those words that we all need to hear time to time!
@mirelladlima5278
@mirelladlima5278 2 жыл бұрын
I love her infectious, contagious yet sincere laugh.🙏
@KlassiChoclit
@KlassiChoclit 2 жыл бұрын
I took 2 days to listen to this because there was SO MUCH information shared that I found valuable. This was absolutely incredible!
@judithpriestess7781
@judithpriestess7781 5 ай бұрын
I love Jada. Brave, badass, striving, lovely soul.
@serenamarie6211
@serenamarie6211 2 жыл бұрын
Wow , my heart and soul right now. Helps me know I’m okay and not crazy 🙏🏽✨
@zararichards1197
@zararichards1197 18 күн бұрын
I get this was two years ago but i really want to thank you for this podcast. At 37 i have finally realized I’m ready to self heal after the hardest heartache I’ve ever in-counted. Been cheated on, lied to, ghosted and loved those whom didn’t love me back…. This one felt the worse as 7 years of loving a man from India, two weeks before he went home he informed me he might get married…… ouch, he is now married and I’m left to put myself together. So this time i thought i would do it the right way. Jada has opened my mind to what it is I truly want in a relationship and has given me motivation and strength to go and fight for it when I’m ready to try again. Love you jay and thank you for years of wisdom xox
@tempa04
@tempa04 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness me!! 😱 The part about taking ownership and inviting.. was what I NEEDED to hear not what I WANTED 😭😭😭 Thank you xxxxxx
@rigbi889
@rigbi889 2 жыл бұрын
Magnificent. This conversation was sooooo deep! Had do listen in normal speed (twice) to absorb all the existential and life insights. Thank you Jay and Jada for sharing your wisdom.
@Marcelinadiana
@Marcelinadiana 2 жыл бұрын
"find the courage to be still"Jada
@maralharris779
@maralharris779 2 жыл бұрын
OMG I LOVE Jada! She is so wise and knows how to communicate it in such a lovely and casual way that you just have to listen 😁 this women is awesome! Thanks for sharing these truely clever wisdoms ☺️
@PermanentHigh
@PermanentHigh 2 жыл бұрын
Yes she knows how to use words to twist reality. Saying things such as "Entanglement" instead "I cheated".
@indigoGoddess7
@indigoGoddess7 2 жыл бұрын
@@PermanentHigh LOL Who cares...Will and her have always had an open relationship and said that there was nothing any of them could do to divorce.
@PermanentHigh
@PermanentHigh 2 жыл бұрын
@@indigoGoddess7 Will look extra extra hurt when Jada talked about it on that show. She cheated.
@klt3065
@klt3065 2 жыл бұрын
I stumbled on this video and was first going to add "to watch later", so glad I didn't. But best believe I will watch it later, and again, and again, and one more time. EXCELLENT conversation and transparency. I have received this conversation as a full meal of nutrients for my heart and soul. I am stuffed and love it.
@mirelladlima5278
@mirelladlima5278 2 жыл бұрын
Have the courage to look at ourselves honestly...that's awesome 🙏
@vinicostaalves95
@vinicostaalves95 2 жыл бұрын
best podcast I ve listened to this year
@torian367
@torian367 2 жыл бұрын
this is my second time watching this video. I came across this video this morning and now I am taking notes on what is being said. You guys are amazing at expressing your words this was a beautiful podcast and I know you can reach and touch all kinds of people. This video is a well explained and well detailed explanation on shadow work. I love you and thank you so much for this video ❤️
@SweetHeavensSunshine
@SweetHeavensSunshine 2 жыл бұрын
This was WONDERFUL!!! Big fan of Jada. Great talk!! Took away a lot of gems that I can apply to my life right now, that were very relevant, and I feel like I’m stepping up my spiritual game because of it. That’s pretty darn significant. Thank you!!!
@sedi2066
@sedi2066 5 ай бұрын
This is sooooo gooooood😭😭😭 i have so many thoughts but ill keep it at this. The best way to express self love is to be self aware. I LOVED THIS !❤
@catrinagriffin6141
@catrinagriffin6141 2 жыл бұрын
This was an awesome interview!Thank you Jada and Jay!We meet the best version of ourselves in stillness😊
@lightnessbeing64
@lightnessbeing64 2 жыл бұрын
her energy is so beautiful
@celineseunarine5303
@celineseunarine5303 2 жыл бұрын
Not even halfway through the interview and I KNOW I NEED A PART2
@melissamonzac5166
@melissamonzac5166 Жыл бұрын
Jada is so amazing. The 'embracing shadows' tip is a very healthy practice.
@aprillee8226
@aprillee8226 2 жыл бұрын
This really hit home... it has helped me on my journey... thanks Jada and Jay
@mirelladlima5278
@mirelladlima5278 2 жыл бұрын
So true I was not aware of the flip side of ego... victory in feeling that the worst was done to me...poor me..feeling the martyr...victimhood. Tks🤗🙏
@dianajohn3615
@dianajohn3615 2 жыл бұрын
You both are awesome! I absolutely love listening to these conversations. You two are powerhouses!
@brandypeay5350
@brandypeay5350 2 жыл бұрын
This interview never gets old😌
@AddictedSoulsMusic
@AddictedSoulsMusic 2 жыл бұрын
I had stopped being a fan. After watching this, Im more than a fan. Im a fellow human watching another human trying to enjoy life with all its tests..
@musicmaker1311
@musicmaker1311 2 жыл бұрын
👌🏾
@nataliav1541
@nataliav1541 2 жыл бұрын
God bless KZbin's algorithms that I"ve found you. Jada is such a wonderful person full of light.This talk is so pure insperation.
@jessicamarieporter5391
@jessicamarieporter5391 2 жыл бұрын
Jada you are one of the most Beautiful Beings on this planet!!! Wow, this was Enlightening...
@knc910
@knc910 2 жыл бұрын
I love this interview so much. This is the third time I listen to it, and, every time, it hits me so deep. Even deeper, for some points. I love how Jada is so genuine and sincere. Thank you very much, Jay, for sharing such good content. It helps a lot. ❤️
@aaronortiz917
@aaronortiz917 2 жыл бұрын
When she said love is not red it's blue, it reminded me at extremely high temperatures flames turn blue rather than our common conception of red flames. Which also flows with what she's saying.. that higher temperature, that higher level, more fiery love and passion. Love when spirituality and science blend together. Also it's like mastering firebending... so, so many synchronicities.
@tehya6912
@tehya6912 2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or could just about everything she talked about be a beautiful quote 🌸🙏🏻
@shenaazbhima1032
@shenaazbhima1032 Жыл бұрын
Jada is otherworldly phenomenal. Honestly.
@Authenticleatrice
@Authenticleatrice 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this is so powerful, I can relate to her on so many levels. Thank you for this 🙏🏽
@debosgoodmusic4969
@debosgoodmusic4969 2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️Thank you Jay and Jada for shining your beautiful gifts of love and light with the world. You give me hope. Peace and Love back at you both. ❤️❤️
@elaineyoung2753
@elaineyoung2753 2 жыл бұрын
Jada is hitting all the right things that I have been fighting about within myself! Thank you Jada!
@kimboykin3454
@kimboykin3454 2 жыл бұрын
Dear Mrs. Jada this interview has been very enlightening. I cannot thank you enough for sharing your wisdom and being so authentic. Thank you to the host Jay. This is definitely on my favorites list. Many blessings to you both and continued success!
@Bailemos888
@Bailemos888 2 жыл бұрын
There are always going to be challenges in life, unfortunately some of us have bigger challenges to deal with. Humility is key.
@omnificent15
@omnificent15 2 жыл бұрын
My appreciation💕 One of the greatest enlightened sages to ever live, Ramana Maharshi, was once asked, “How should we treat others?” He replied, “There are no others.”
@kamlapersaud4393
@kamlapersaud4393 2 жыл бұрын
I am watching this twice now in the same day…. Never did I thought I will be so hook on what she is saying… so much truth…
@cleonadivineofficial
@cleonadivineofficial 2 жыл бұрын
Articulated beautifully, so relatable to my journey. Thank you 🧚🏾‍♀️🧚🏾‍♀️🧚🏾‍♀️
@tedoragardner8946
@tedoragardner8946 2 жыл бұрын
My goodness this resonated with me on sooooo many levels. Jada girl portions i thought you where telling my story. Thank you for the reminder that it takes time, work. Giving thanks to the shadows quote was powerful. Thank you Jay for this interview. Namaste
@johnayala2540
@johnayala2540 2 жыл бұрын
Jada is so right. Some people suffer more than us. I used to complain that my father was emotionally & mentally abusive but when my friend told me that he grew up in foster homes and he was given for adoption immediately after birth and his mother abandoned him as soon ad he was born and he hasn't seen nor heard from any of his biological mother and father. I don't know if it's possible to survive in this world without a mother. My mother was everything to me and she was the best mother for being so kind, good cook, she's very affectionate and loving. I realized that my friend has it tougher. He is 39 y.o. and can socialize with the locals like he's normal. It's a mystery to me how he survived in this world without a parent. This really broke my heart.
@karmareadingz
@karmareadingz 2 жыл бұрын
Same here; I was given up at birth and definitely struggled through life to find role models; struggling to fit in and find a sense of self esteem; still working on my own personal growth; I know God sent me here for a reason & im committed to finding a true purpose and adding some positive influences into the world while im here and learning any life lessons I must learn; Love & light to everyone 🤗❤️
@sherrienglish8650
@sherrienglish8650 2 жыл бұрын
I have been called stupid or overly sensitive (by family) bc in the news reports of horrific events, I stood there and asked or wondered out loud what the person acting out these events had never been allowed to heal from or through? What traumatic wounding could they not process or forgive someone else of. I believe that until we choose to ask those hard questions or find out, we can not rehabilitate the perpetrators of today successfully back in to a society or community that wouldn't now sit judgement on. Accepting the shame our environment places on us regardless of the offense can be more unbearable than the sentence received from. A completion of sentencing or time served does not mean that person should be rehabilitated if the emotional journey was not taken. I realized that in my journey, there has to be a balance in every area (a minimum of 4 areas, I think) of an individual being in order to align with the rest of the healing process. For me, I imagined those areas to match the 4 seasons and 4 directions and then spread out into other areas that felt more manageable only after these were in balance. So, like externally: North, south, east and west; Winter, spring, summer and fall; Internally: physical, spiritual, mental and emotional If any one of these were out of balance, it seemed like everyone was or would be. Then you would need to give yourself permission to look at, magnify the hidden and process everything especially the ugliest parts we have or think we had. Choose to heal, forgive, accept and let go of so you could be a being of love you carry and reflect from. Forgiveness is something you give yourself and the understanding that you choose to let go of the traumatic barriers doesn't mean you allow them to step back in or a chance to do again. It means you have carried this far enough and love yourself enough to set it down, prepare for emotional processing, and a releasing of the weight. They are to free to choose but they are not free of the consequences of their choices. Your condemnation of them is your choice to carry the pain but is almost never as bad as their own guilt and shame they place on themselves. Or just a thing each generation and individual went through and will be there demanding this healing journey be realized and processed. If you don't find yourself and answers you needed from the experience, it will somehow return or pop back up for you or the next generation to heal. So I propose to understand and accept that we all have or have been in witness of a trauma or emotional setback we will have to deal with until the path of healing is revealed. We should never be judgemental of anyone's journey or life bc it's a choice to heal only that person or family can make. Every generation is a bit different and every person will react as they move through. And the perspective of each other is different or opposite from yours. Not worse or better than what you experienced, just on a different vibrational and emotional level. So not or wrong either. I have researched universal laws and what resonated, I kept and let go of what didn't. It's never an easy process and every answer or piece researched, opens up more questions. Don't focus on overwhelmed feeling of it never ending but take it step by step and move forward only when you're ready. It's not a race or competition. And the only trophy or reward is you finding YOU AND allowing yourself to just do it and know you're okay, everything is going to be okay and there's always something else to laugh about.
@johnayala2540
@johnayala2540 2 жыл бұрын
@@karmareadingzit took my friend about 5 years before he could tell me that he didn't know his biological parents. He grew up in a foster home and when he was 9 he was adopted by a Vietnamese couple. He's Caucasian with blond hair and blue eyes. When he was talking to his adoptive Vietnamese brother on face time on FB was when he told me his story. He said he felt embarrassed telling people his story that's why it took him 5 years to tell me and if I didn't see his adoptive Vietnamese brother, he probably wouldn't have told me that he was adopted. He's a cool guy but complicated & have trust issues and don't believe in a lasting relationship with women. He's afraid of a committed relationship and he dreams of having a family of his own but are afraid of big commitments. He can't stay in one place for over 5 years. He lives in Southeast Asia, Vietnam, the Philippines, South Korea, Malaysia and now he's in Cambodia. He never wants to live in the US again. He claimed his life experiences in the US was too traumatic (he was sexually molested) and he claims that Asian people treat him so kindly especially the Filipinos are nice & friendly to him and he's happier living abroad. He supports himself as an English teacher and online trading stocks. I think your belief in God sets you in the right path and have more meaningful life and recovery. My friend is an atheist and he feels lost and drifting away. I feel bad for him but I wouldn't know how to help him stay grounded.
@karmareadingz
@karmareadingz 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnayala2540 it's sad that your friend can't find some peace with his lot in life; I depend upon my faith and definitely believe in GOD, higher Power etc. I have learned a lot from Peter Levine's audio book on Trauma and believe everyone should read it! When we die and cross over everything will seem minor in comparison to what we feel in This lifetime, love and light everyone!
@johnayala2540
@johnayala2540 2 жыл бұрын
@@karmareadingz I will checkout Peter Levine's work. I also had a childhood trauma. Even though we have not personally met I know something very personal about you. You are desperately searching for peace. We all need peace for our soul as much as we all need air for our body. We cannot live without peace and we cannot even die without peace. When they finally put us in our grave they will pray may we rest in peace✌. To deepen in humility, I focus on these passage. 1 Corinthians 2:9 “What no eye has seen, nor ear heard, nor the heart of man imagined, what God has prepared for those who love him”- FIX YOUR EYES ON CHRIST. John 14:2 In my Father's house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? John 14:6 “I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. It is that peace which surpasses all understanding which the world can neither give or take away. Peace is the proof of the Holy Spirit's activity in the Christian soul...love, joy, peace. Peace is the birthright of every child of God but look at all the Christians around us who have no peace and they have no peace because they do not know the Lord. When you and I want to know the Lord, we dare not consult our imagination because it will play havoc with us. We go inside of ourselves and we find there all our limitations, our peculiarities, all our hang-ups and we project them into a supreme being whom we call god...commonly known as ego. I am the Lord thy God thou shalt not have strange gods before me. But look at all the strange gods so many men and women worship...puny gods, tiny gods, vengeful gods, capricious gods like themselves. When you and I want to know the Lord, we have to go in faith to the gospel and read what is written and it will take all the faith that we have to accept what is revealed in those gospels. Our Lord to aid our imagination went around telling stories to help us grasp something of the love and mercy and compassion of our God and the world loves the story he told of the Good Shepherd
@riva7061
@riva7061 2 жыл бұрын
When big hurt comes, sit with that pain with an open heart. Difficult to look inwards and accept the things about yourself that don't confirm who you thought you were. Then look at how it has affected the people you care about. There are some really powerful blessings on the other side of pain, if we are willing to embrace the experience.
@limmingming4022
@limmingming4022 7 ай бұрын
"Thank you for that shadow n sent it off with TANKS " it makes me cry
@LineoRangoanana
@LineoRangoanana 2 жыл бұрын
The gems coming out of this interview are timeless. Past, present and future generations could really use them. Wow
@kojinmaster
@kojinmaster Жыл бұрын
Honestly I see what your seeing. Tell me what gems you got?
@onlineenglishlessons918
@onlineenglishlessons918 2 жыл бұрын
Regularly I watch your videos one by one. It heals my wounds in heart. Sometimes, I watch 05 or 06 videos a day. Thank you so much Jey Shetti.
@olonamakele3365
@olonamakele3365 2 жыл бұрын
So many gems here man… thanku for this 🙌
@bontlekekana6283
@bontlekekana6283 2 жыл бұрын
This is a life transforming interview. I thought my growing up was a bad omen, after hearing Jada, I fully realized I'm the the chosen one My love for Jada and Jay is refined and solid. God bless you you both and keep on preaching that is the BEST gospel the World needs. Shout out from South Africa
@adistyjeanne
@adistyjeanne 2 жыл бұрын
Gospel?
@GypsyEyes27
@GypsyEyes27 2 жыл бұрын
Thus is absolutely amazing, so helpful to listen to and self respect. I love jadas journey and self awareness and how she’s still growing. Thank you!
@LinaMystic
@LinaMystic 2 жыл бұрын
31:10 !!!!! YESSSS Relationships are reflections of ourselves! However it may more so be a reflection of what we allow, or what we do ourselves, etc. Reflection is KEY!
@Smjourney1223
@Smjourney1223 2 жыл бұрын
Jada, is so inspirational and honest. I truly respect her authenticity. Interesting “ego in reverse.” I relate to managing the fighter warrior. It’s so true … the warrior says “what do you got bring it on.” People that have been very traumatized typically have a fighter in them. I also relate to being more spiritual due to growth. It’s a long journey.
@jadeherbalco.9721
@jadeherbalco.9721 2 жыл бұрын
Yesss Jada I’m starting my journey and I always known it was there and that is who I am. Laying down my warrior and DIVING DEEP DIVINE. Thank You for sharing ❤️
@TheNelsonsanchez
@TheNelsonsanchez 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you to both of you. This is a LIGHT. This is LOVE. This is the answer my heart has been seeking. Blood is Blue 💙💙💙
@jenniesandstedt1415
@jenniesandstedt1415 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE her!!! she is soo authentic and real!!
@MarinaCassandra66
@MarinaCassandra66 2 жыл бұрын
This was absolutely amazing. Thank you both. Definitely helped me on my path to healing & recovering. ♥️😊
@ArtByHazel
@ArtByHazel 2 жыл бұрын
Wisdom from Jada! Notes taken and integrated. ❤️
@jarayshaw9928
@jarayshaw9928 2 жыл бұрын
So powerful. I have to watch a few times to take it all in. I love how close they were sitting to one another
@brightonheightsjavancreamh7211
@brightonheightsjavancreamh7211 5 ай бұрын
I totally agree with you Jay her whole energy has captivated me with watching this interview. I would watch the Red Table Talk Religiously... Thank you for this very illuminating discussion🕉🕉🕉💞💞💞 Much Love💜💜💜
@kiagovan7959
@kiagovan7959 Жыл бұрын
This was so good!!! Omg!!! Thank you Jada and Jay!
@darrianrambo7946
@darrianrambo7946 2 жыл бұрын
So beautiful. One of my favorite interviews yet ❤️
@nunusameera1523
@nunusameera1523 Жыл бұрын
I try to heal my heart since the day it was broken. Thank you a lot for helping me. It's easy to break someone but it's very painful journey to recover.
@tehya6912
@tehya6912 Жыл бұрын
“Find the courage to be still” 🤟🏻🌸💖
@sophiyyaarthur2550
@sophiyyaarthur2550 2 жыл бұрын
Pure openness and honesty❤️ Awesome interview!!!
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