Jae (DAY6) Discusses Love Languages (FULL EPISODE) I HDIGH Ep. #8

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[@virlymarta5736]

I miss eaj 🥺🥺

[@냥냥_eaJ]

시즌2 해주세요. 제이의 팟캐스트 최고야

[@bee_max5802]

Jae: "don't tell anyone your love language bc it could be used as a weapon" Also jae: * proceeds to tell us his love language *

[@kialuv8457]

poopa0_0 his name is Jae 😂

[@heejin3947]

jae*

[@bee_max5802]

@@heejin3947😂😂haha didn't realize that lol thxs

[@bee_max5802]

@@kialuv8457 didn't realize I put Jay 😅🙃

[@darmastutiutami2002]

Diane "im not your co-host" Jae " okay lets talk about this" Diane "im not your co-host" Jae " okay lets talk about this" Diane "okay" No one can beat jae....

[@bobthebuilderday6leader]

_I think Diane is THE co-host._ Love her.

[@pokemoon_____]

His voice is sooooo gentle and nice and soothing I can't

[@yougotnojams6784]

I would love to have him at my side when Im sad ;-;

[@potatehosh4679]

Trueee, that's why I often listen to hdigh when I'm studying >

[@letsHugElefanten]

@@simpayshenaides It's from a few months ago, i don't think they've released any episodes yet that were recorded after the album release, the most recent ones where he has blond hair are most definitely pre-recorded from shortly before the release :)

[@ritalubeck5129]

I’m talking voice is smoothing😊

[@Unknown-ph8ii]

i always forget jae isn't 18, i always have to remind myself my boy is almost in his 30s jae is really everyone goal in aging

[@docanj812]

I KNOW RIGHT... I always forget that he's a 92 liner... Lmao

[@saeradien]

True... its happened everytime i saw him, i'm not lyin😶

[@saeradien]

@@youtubeku111 he actually turns 29 this year in korean age

[@guneehunee]

When I first saw him I thought he was 16

[@jor9400]

hes OLD and i hate that cause he looks so young auoshfnewoids

[@jwaecheeks3386]

i think diane needs to have a camera i love her thoughts

[@bobthebuilderday6leader]

Seconded!

[@arivele__]

samee

[@hamham1498]

fourthed!!!

[@suzetteellasoriano512]

truee huhu

[@fernandazagal7684]

yes yes

[@ilooklikebread9115]

jae is such a good listener, it’s literally his show but when diane was explaining how she feels about the love languages and her personal experiences he was listening so attentively i feel like he really makes people feel heard, i’ve never really been listened to the way he was listening to diane it just made me feel so warm okay imma go cry over jae now lol bye bye

[@chass.4615]

i’m sorry i can’t focus on what you said your pfp 😭 i’m crying !

[@ilooklikebread9115]

chass. omg i always forget ajznskxn idk why i expect ppl to take me seriously 😂

[@dosmapatricia5132]

Love the way he talks, is not too fast. I learn speak english well by this podcasts.

[@myDan_delion]

Woww you did it 👍

[@whistle5322]

Omg me too

[@salma1865]

Me too! It’s so clear and well-paced

[@melv5816]

He's also eloquent and has good vocabulary.

[@dindapermatasuhantoputri1004]

Omg that's me i literally reply to jae podcast everyday!

[@erin94]

diane: do you tend to do acts of service for the ppl that you CARE about? jae: yeah you asked me magnets from europe, i got you magnets from europe aww how to have a friend like jae

[@marycharmpelayo554]

Jae’s podcast is the only podcast that I can finish and don’t get bored by listening to it. Ily jae!!

[@humbug575]

when they were talking about ghosting, I had to turn my head because I do that...often lol. I never thought of it that way of needing space without really vocalizing it... Conversations do get exhausting after awhile. No hard feelings. Just my brain is overheated and I need at least 5 business days to recover.

[@sarangbiy]

Omg sameee

[@veeveegem]

Saaame haha. But i only do this after being sooooo exhausted with the other party. Like my words no longer penetrate them, and then I couldn't care less anymore.

[@melissaa4918]

Especially for introverts

[@AnhNguyen-wt3jf]

Jae's voice is sooooooooo ASMR material. Like I know I'll have a goodnight sleep if I listen to his podcast before bed. His giggles are just crunchy and bouncy (if that makes sense) and JaeDiane is life. I love how one sec they're arguing and the next they're having a heart-to-heart 😌😌😌

[@AshleyGarcia-jv8gs]

“my acts of services weren’t appreciated” “thank you for the magnet!! ... for going to a tourist shop” 💀💀 “ApPrEcIaTe Me AgAiN” 😂😂 omg

[@dazaiii6363]

Ah yes, the 5 love languages: -Touch starved -My parents never told me they are proud of me -I love Stuff -Im so fucken tired please god just let me rest for 5 minutes -Hey pay attention to me

[@leviosadream2454]

Well, guess we're the same 😅

[@bobthebuilderday6leader]

*The accuracy.*

[@kai-ve6mf]

i guess im *hey pay attention to me*

[@ellisalabaster2068]

I’m cackling

[@hannaheom17]

STOPPYOYOOTO

[@eriwoojae]

Let's all say THANK YOU JAE, THANK YOU DIVE STUDIOS. THANK YOU DIANNE

[@army_carat_stay_exo-l_fiji6757]

0:42 Jae says that it's "a barrage of useless information" but I honestly do learn a lot. *It's not useless at all that I can both listen and stare at your gorgeous face Jae*

[@solartidoh]

wow I did not expect Jae's answer to the ghosting question to hit home. I never thought that the other person would understand that I needed space but I went anyway. When I finally was able to figure out myself and clear my head, 3 years already passed and I felt like I lost a good friend. I never forgot her. Recently I reached out to her and she was welcoming and forgiving. I didn't realize it was a whole other weight on my chest that I never apologized about it until she replied back to me. I thought I was the worst person for doing that to her. My thought was that it was better for her that I exclude myself from her life or else she would have had a liar and a fake for a friend. The pain that she'd bear when I leave her life without a word would not be compared to the pain of finding out that your best friend was a fake the whole time. I'm glad we're okay now. It turned out we both needed that space whether we knew it or not.

[@lobsters4jaejje197]

Watching and listening to Jae are two whole different experiences.

[@gnihcneuy]

I agree so much with Jae's answer for the very last question about ghosting your friend. Because like I do that too to my friends and was wondering is it like an introvert thing? Most of my friends understand and feel that its okay to not reply for hours/days. However, I do have friends who felt that like "hey, why can't you reply?" I do feel bad at times though but is just really "I want to do what I want", rather than needing to keep carrying on the conversation. After listening to what Jae shared, I felt assured that it's alright to "ghost" your friends sometimes like I need that personal space. So thank you for the advice Jae

[@belle_1219]

20:21 "appreciate me again" that got me in tears, idk what's happening with me lmaooo. It's my fault to watch the vid at 3.30 a.m :(

[@wenjaellay8609]

ㅠㅠ

[@daesixnine1045]

Diane need her own podcast but its ok since i binge listening to ALL Dive Studio podcast and mostly i can hear diane voice, idea and thoughts Thank u Dive Studio Thank u HDIGH Thank u Jae Thank u Diane

[@leighdaphnerevellame1205]

HDIGH easily became my favorite podcast in the world because the topics are always interesting and Jae is so fun to watch and listen to. I barely know Day6 when he guest on KPDB and when he had his own podcast I was a listener since the beginning and now I'm a very big fan of him and Day6. Waiting for your return on HDIGH, Jae.

[@isabelcusihuaman]

I love this because I feel like Im talking with my buddies about the random stuff that pops up in my head! Love the vibe of the podcast! The fact that I can relate to sooo many things Jae and Diane share its craazy and I LOVE IT!

[@y.7261]

he is actually so smart and deep I am IN LOVE

[@DeeRafatSweileh]

About to watch this right now. First of all, Diane, you are an awesome woman I'd love to meet one day! 💜🙌🏻 Second of all, Jae, miss you, buddy! 💙💙 hope you're doing alright. We love you and you know we got your back! 💙✨ Lastly, Dive Studios, you guys are amazing! Thank you for your hard work. We really do appreciate every one of you and all of your different projects! 💚 Excited for the new ones!!

[@kyrstiejoycesanjose9335]

The way Jae emphazised "This is a weapon" made me wheezing

[@miaa3723]

I love just how Jae listened to Diane like really listened to her. He always listens to people when they're talking. What a good boy Jae :')

[@bangtansugakookies1550]

Ohhh I'm so happy to see this finally up! I have been waiting loool. Also, a bit side tracked, but *JAEEE!* There's a webtoon called Lost in Translation and the author is a myday! You're her bias and there's a character who was inspired by you! I was so shocked and happy when I saw the reference as a fellow myday ahahha. I hope you can check it out too! 💙

[@AlwaysKrn212]

Oh I've seen that on Webtoons but didnt know the main character was based on Jae! That's so cool, might check it out more 😁

[@bangtansugakookies1550]

@@AlwaysKrn212 Oh not the main character, but one of major side characters.

[@AlwaysKrn212]

@@bangtansugakookies1550 ahhh gotcha, that's so cool ^^!

[@heejin3947]

ahhh omg i read the latest episode & noticed daehyun holding a chicken little plushie, was daehyun based off of jae? they have similar names too!

[@bangtansugakookies1550]

Yes, that's him! Daehyun! He's wearing the same outfit as Jae in his skateboarding meme clip. 😂

[@wuendypedroza1247]

His voice is so relaxing 🧡

[@Lucy-gs9dx]

theres also the two different sides of love languages - how YOU feel most loved but then also what love languages youre inclined to show others, so like I might feel loved through quality time and physical affection but often i show others i love them through gift giving etc.

[@lerie9647]

4:31 I definitely agree with Jae, cause knowing this can make a person manipulative. In my opinion, same goes for the MBTI personality, there's a lot of ways to get to know a person and to know how to make that person feel good in your presence when you know them inside-out and they don't. Love the podcasts and everything Dive Studios does!! ❤️ (sorry if my english was bad)

[@ZeinaIan]

Jae saying it can be used as a weapon reminded me of a story I heard where this girl used the Pavlov's dogs psychological study/classical conditioning on her crush. Every time he would see her she would give him his favourite candy bar and then he would be happy to see her even if she didn't give him anything. 😂 My number one is acts of service too.

[@pristoste]

Wow when you literally can say that you are pleasing someone for science lol

[@aditikulkarni8552]

His voice is very clear and unrushed way of speaking. That actually makes listening to him even more enjoyable.

[@user-2024wtrsfm]

목소리도 너무 듣기 좋고 발음도 잘들리고 너의 논리와 논쟁을 즐기는 내용도 좋아 ❤

[@trixie237]

Those 5 points are equally important and I think it works for friendship as well in a different level. And just like they said about having toxic relationships, you might have toxic friendships.... In the end, I hope we can all find someone who we can be sincere and comfortable too without feeling down. 🙏

[@trishamae705]

I just love it when he attentively listens to Diane while my eyes roam around his background 😂

[@koitsukiaya8454]

I'll do marathon with JAE'S podcasts cuz it brings me a full energy to finish my article. Jae deserves all the love and support from his hard work

[@TheMonicain]

19:57 Jae: Appreciating an active service an active service itself

[@belladiaz5142]

"physical touch, that's right. I researched yesterday" i love him omg

[@anitahidayah2138]

I had no idea how much I've played this episode on Spotify. I mean, I listen to it when I'm going to sleep and when I'm commuting to work. His voice just ah! *chef's kiss

[@gabriellic.119]

the best podcast ever

[@gyenzengyenzen931]

It's just so captivating the way Jae leads all of these podcasts. Never knew I'd find myself sucked into this rabbit hole and binge watch it all. Kudos, Jae! You're doing such an excellent job 🖤

[@williama64]

15:06-15:50 When this line was said, I was thinking that this shift might be in cause of a more egoistical world, in which people wish others to follow their own desires but not wanting themselves to follow others.

[@chiec9590]

I just woke up when I saw this on my notifications. What a beautiful way to start my day.

[@wenjaellay8609]

Same ^^

[@wenjaellay8609]

btw, good morning!

[@chiec9590]

@@wenjaellay8609 good morning to you too! (I don't know if it's morning in your place but, yeah)

[@wenjaellay8609]

@@chiec9590 oh it's morning here too haha

[@lysanderh3625]

I’m living for these full video episodes, thank youuu 😍 great chance to re-listen to more Jae (and Diane!) too!! 💕

[@Laura-z2s6j]

I really enjoy listening to Jae's voice and today's topic was interesting. I really like the advice he gave at the end regarding friends ghosting their friend and the possible reasons why. Keep up the great work Jae!

[@Maha-xb9vu]

I don’t want this to end I’m enjoying every podcast and repeat most of them without knowing that I feel safe listening to Jae and Diane discussing interesting topics ~.~

[@giovannacruzeiro9660]

i usually don't go into podcasts but i really enjoy listening to jae's!! his amazing voice and incribles contents always make me happier♡♡

[@mammamonssterr]

"This is a weapon!" Jae who hurt you 😭

[@enaszakiya6358]

One of my source to improve my listening skill. Thanks for the podcast dive studios. Always waiting for HDIGH. Miss you jae

[@khwaishjain1796]

This was a good one and I love how Jae is being honest mannn

[@army_carat_stay_exo-l_fiji6757]

I can't be the only one that looks forward to this!

[@analuiza-rm2yh]

THANK YOU JAE, THANK YOU DIANE, THANK YOU DIVE STUDIOS, you guys are the best

[@tapapatasa]

I'M SO PROUD OF YOU, JAE!!!! STUDIO J IS DOING THEIR WORK NOW, FINALLY

[@zilien4255]

Extrañaba tanto a Jae, simplemente los podcast hacen que mi día mejore, Jae espero que te encuentres bien y que DAY6 regrese pronto. ♡

[@tjoanathasia3615]

I dont know why but i just feel so happy watching Jae smile and laugh while talking. It makes me want to have a real convo with him😂

[@myyunni]

18:21 j: yea acts of service. you asked for magnets from europe, i got you magnets from europe. d: you gave me ONE. >> j: magnet from europe. 🙃 HAHAHAA love these two man

[@maryamd.7608]

so glad to see you, jae! we love and support you 💖 thank you for being so brave but also for being a light in so many of our lives.

[@mordecaisilva2275]

I miss Jae being in Dive Studios Podcast! I love the way he speak, it's so lively but calm at the same time. Please please bring back Jae. He really has a gift in being a podcaster. Jae and Alexa clicked in being a podcaster. ❤️❤️❤️

[@MsPukingrainbows]

Okay but Jae's philosophy with love and life just resonates with me 💕

[@stopitlou1271]

That’s why, as an INFJ, I’m really good at interacting with ppl since I learn their love languages and give them what makes them feel most loved🙃

[@ayudeswita9189]

Jae with black hair is perfect thing ever

[@nurafifahrustan6394]

This podcast helps me to get out of boredom of doing my tasks in my master degree.. Love your voice. Thanks Jay, Love You..!!! 💙💙

[@trynslvs]

dang i was not ready for jae to whip out them glasses!! i love love love it when he wears glasses 😍😍😍 and i'm really so proud of him and his podcast, i hope he keeps it running for a long time :))

[@elainecampbell8083]

I like Jae's podcasts and I think it's because he's a smart guy and has a lot of common sense, and he's often funny. :) Nice job!

[@tslsavida]

Fighting!!!!. We'll always support you. 화이팅 #ParkJaehyung #JaeDay6.

[@eden6111]

i always watch jae podcast before i sleep, until i sleep, such a deep sleep 💀💞

[@ritalubeck5129]

Boy I love his voice

[@saras.5619]

Thanks for taking good care of him. Thanks for uploading the full episodes. That chair really neads Jae. We all need to see him. His podcast is definitely my fave~

[@wuendypedroza1247]

It would be completely amazing if Jae and Tablo do a podcast together ✨

[@namiranovia312]

always fun listening to hdigh podcast. thank you very much for this. during quarantine i spent my time listening to this podcast and i felt really good.

[@Sky.26]

Jae and Diane thank you for sharing this with us, this interesting episode, as always a useful and light , You are awesome!

[@norazirasyazwani4535]

I love the way of you explaining things! Keep inspiring us jae!

[@juliennefayemaravilla5715]

I really love his soothing voice.

[@WalnutTulip]

I've never seen anyone explain not replying to messages the exact way I feel. Thank you Jae!

[@ellaluga]

in my opinion there is what we call giving and receiving love languages. what love language you give is different from what love language you want to receive. it actually depends on the people. late to watch this but it is actually very interestiiiiing.

[@lesliesandoval6533]

Ok but i can’t be the only one that feels Jae voice went deep on 12:39 and I’m not going to lie. I like it. It’s cute 🥺

[@cherrywavesjk]

when jae answered the question about the person being ghosted by their friend i agreed w everything he said, i’m that friend who’s been ghosting people for the past months just bc i need space to work on myself but i feel like some people don’t get it, i lost a lot of friends bc i sometimes just need time for myself and don’t want to meet them or respond to their texts

[@faithrodriguez4185]

It can be in a friendship! The love languages are just how you express and receive love

[@ShutupHaeri]

Omg yesss I binged all the videos of Jae and I needed it more! Thank you Love from Mexico!! 🇲🇽

[@karimirak]

i love these episodes! jae and diane speak so well together

[@mlilib]

creo que con este podcast puedo aprender inglés, la velocidad con la que habla, está super bien para hacerlo

[@tyaschyn]

Jae voice helps me to learn English. Thanks jae 💜

[@shampoofairie]

i'd actually argue that love languages are just for people involved romantically. in my youth organization we've been using this for years in order to minister to one another better and it's been really useful. some interesting stuff! your "receiving" and "giving" love language may be different! my love language is words of affirmation, and it's the same both for my giving and receiving but i know other poeple who have different receiving and giving love languages. for example, someone may feel most loved through quality time - that's their receiving love language - but express their love to someone the most through acts of service - therefore, their giving. it's reallt interesting and helpful to know which is which!

[@ayunnurul464]

jae, Im not sure you gonna read my comment. I'd like to say thank you for the positive vibe you always spread, it means a lot for me. Thanks for inspiring me to be better and better in everything. Please please please keep urself healthy. You did a great job, hope you always blessed.

[@mrunmrun3818]

I am obsessed with his podcasts....I have watching them all day today.....I wish I would have counted how many times he says interesting😂

[@FLYWITHBIEBER6]

I've been Ghosted and Ghosting my close friends in the past months. What Jae explained was totally right, they/we just need space for themselves/ourselves

[@DracoDraconisggg]

I never realised how much jae pays attention to his co-host before. Like in the audio it does sound like it however seeing it makes it way more clear. Not sure what to do with this information

[@myyunni]

isit just me or it feels kinda weird having watched a video when you've already listened to the whole podcast. maybe cause im usually visualising his expressions but now i have the actual visuals to put together with his voice ^^" ok im being weird sorry. thanks for the full video!

[@joeducz6579]

I was on a relationship for 11 years We dated since high school til after college. His love language was physical touch. We broke up when someone else showed him and gave him what he needed. Damn! After 11 long years, he just went his way to be with someone who was better with that language. And I was left singing Day6's Congratulations.

[@elle8322]

I love their podcast because you can learn something from them 🍀

[@everyyoja]

Thank you Jae, seeing you means a lot. Promise 💖

[@kafalotofeao462]

I went through that portion of my life during COVID where I just stopped talking to any of my friends online for a week or two and some of their reactions were astronomical. I could never fully explain my disappearance and that never gave my friends any closure or reassurance that it wasn't because of them. All I cld say was "it's not ur fault, dw abt it" which does sound sus, I admit, but u just said it perfectly. I needed space. I wish I could've just said that.

[@yjas8904]

2:31 man I really need that instead of the second one. When the lazy me went out of my way to do something, and the other person is just being sarcastic it's really hurtful. One of the reasons I hate socializing is because people love to judge and talk about other people so much.

[@lizeywilliams3647]

That's right! I researched yesterday 😉 Gotta love Jae 💜

[@ems5454]

jae is just too cute man, i've missed him so much

[@anashiamerliana9663]

I am watching this episode with my boyfriend. And then we make a little discussion with our love of language. Seriously, jae's husky voice really made this episode more interesting

[@TruDesi101]

mine is acts of service. I like performing acts for someone I love and I'm always grateful when someone helps me.

[@maryama3831]

I didn't know I need a better version of hdigh until I listen AND watch him talking over for hours and it calmed me somehow

[@linamarcelina4245]

i can't wait for #9, keep spirit jae.