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Jaisay Aapki Marzi | Episode 10 | Dur-e-fishan Saleem | Mikaal Zulfiqar | 26th Sep 2023 | ARY Digital
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Jaisay Aapki Marzi | When Narcissism Takes Over Love
Jaisay Aapki Marzi is an incredible story that portrays how a person can change their behavior when they come under the pressure of a judgmental society.
Directed By: Saba Hamid
Written By: Naila Ansari
Cast:
Dur-e-fishan Saleem
Mikaal Zulfiqar
Ali Safina
Kiran Malik
Javed Sheikh
Ali Tahir.
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@atifazafar3577
@atifazafar3577 Жыл бұрын
What a dominating husband . Aleezy's sister Ramza is so right when she said to her mother, AP KI GENERATION NEY BETI KO AAG MEIN PHENKNA SEEKHA HAY UNKO BACHANA NEIN !! So true !
@ritarachh9692
@ritarachh9692 Ай бұрын
😅⁸8😮in 😅😅😅
@rizv5368
@rizv5368 Жыл бұрын
I had been in the same situation for 3 and half years. Despite being a doctor, I was told I was good for nothing. Came out of that hell, living independently and alhamdolillah flourishing everyday.
@sonusharma-wd3pe
@sonusharma-wd3pe Жыл бұрын
Well done
@rifatparveen1362
@rifatparveen1362 11 ай бұрын
So happy for u and well done for helping yourself
@sabaejaz1638
@sabaejaz1638 11 ай бұрын
@bakerssecret2164
@bakerssecret2164 11 ай бұрын
I was also dealing with a narcissist for almost 15 Years and I got to know his true nature now. Still I am living with him because of kids. But now I know how to deal with him. And keep him on his place. I wish I could negate the social pressure and get out if this relationship. But one day Allah will show him how bitter n self centred he is. And how he ruined lives of his kids n wife and even himself.
@deborahsookram7695
@deborahsookram7695 11 ай бұрын
Listen to me because I went through the same situation. I had 2 young children and was a "stay-at-home" mum. No close family around for emotional support so I did feel trapped. I eventually got out when my children were in high school and I wish that I had done so earlier. It has affected my children, negatively, who are grown up and independent now. GET OUT for your and the children's sake. You will lose your self-esteem if you haven't done so already. The ex, I spoke about is still a NARCICCIST! You think you may be able to handle him but you are destroying and wasting your life with an insecure asshole! Your happiness and peace is worth more than any man! Good luck!@@bakerssecret2164
@sidrashaikhji7884
@sidrashaikhji7884 Жыл бұрын
Alizeh's father is the kind of father all daughters need❤
@gousiyapasha5218
@gousiyapasha5218 Жыл бұрын
Like Mehar Ali
@mirsameer3386
@mirsameer3386 Жыл бұрын
Shere phle to mara jarha tha,ab Pagal hogaya he
@siuliataimalie3081
@siuliataimalie3081 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely ❤❤
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
I totally agree as the daughters need such father to understand them
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
Ramza is such a sensible girl, why have girls like alizey always to bend in front of the husband and in laws just because he is a man
@kanikakaul416
@kanikakaul416 Жыл бұрын
Identity crisis.. Narcissism.. Gaslighting.. Emotional triggers.. Toxic partner.. Red flags in a relationship..ghosting.. Vengeance..All these are present day issues which current relationships face.. Superb theme of the drama
@saimakamran148
@saimakamran148 Жыл бұрын
I am living with Narcissit husband for 16 years.
@rifatparveen1362
@rifatparveen1362 11 ай бұрын
And can you see how they very easily make "alizay " the one with issues
@kanikakaul416
@kanikakaul416 11 ай бұрын
Manipulation another thing
@kanikakaul416
@kanikakaul416 11 ай бұрын
@@rifatparveen1362 they are excellent manipulators.. they will guilt trip you for ur right thoughts and feelings too and wrap the whole thing around you as if ur the culprit
@kanikakaul416
@kanikakaul416 11 ай бұрын
They break you brick by brick till the time u loose ur self confidence and identity and believe in their perception of you
@neeli8423
@neeli8423 Жыл бұрын
OMGGGG HE'S TRYING TO BREAK HER PIECE BY PIECE . This isn't dying . It's like slow suicide. He suffocates her & gives her just a bit of breathing space so she doesn't die and he can continue his abuse.
@HaeppyUnni
@HaeppyUnni Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Jo wife abuse bardasht kerti hai, usay toh khud pata bhe nahin chalta kay woh abuse horehi hai. Yahan per society ko, khas tor per maa baap ko, behn bhaiyoun ko, dostoun ko, doctors ko, sub ko mil ker aurat ki madad kerni hoti hai takay woh abuse se bahir nikal sakay aur apni zindagi dubara shuru ker sakay. Iss tarha torture hogi toh mentally unstable ho jaye gi.
@soniashahid6429
@soniashahid6429 Жыл бұрын
Yes typical narcisstic behaviour
@sangeetaseth2954
@sangeetaseth2954 Жыл бұрын
Alizey was such a confident girl but Sherry is making sure that she loses all her self respect and confidence and continue to save her marriage as her mother dictates …. the worst character in this play .. mom who cud not see fear and sadness in her daughter,s eyes
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
He is a psycho person which girl can be happy with a person like sherry
@mariumfaisal8123
@mariumfaisal8123 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone is showing it
@seeya7610
@seeya7610 Жыл бұрын
The thing I like about this drama is that they’re showing narcissist behaviour step by step. That’s how they trap their prey. People who have experienced or seen others going through narc abuse can tell.
@momonizami5547
@momonizami5547 Жыл бұрын
😢smj ni ata how to deal
@seeya7610
@seeya7610 Жыл бұрын
@@momonizami5547 you can’t deal with them. The only way is getting out completely cutting off. Longer a person stays, longer the damage & trauma would be. This is not just regular abuse. They play mind games to completely cripple you in every way.
@rninstructor5061
@rninstructor5061 Жыл бұрын
Yes same like my partner
@rozinabaloch6217
@rozinabaloch6217 Жыл бұрын
i personally experienced this with my past relationship and even i feel the same pain in my heart when i remember something about that ,and the writer and makers performed everything very well....
@rozinabaloch6217
@rozinabaloch6217 Жыл бұрын
​@@seeya7610agreed
@muhammadabbas950
@muhammadabbas950 Жыл бұрын
Ramza is very sensible and intelligent 😊
@fz4004
@fz4004 Жыл бұрын
Every time I see this drama, I am just appalled that how the writer has perfectly portrayed this intricate abuse! I have lived this life!! Lies, deception, manipulation, sadism….. and much more 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻to the writer to bring this side of abuse! And this is not only about the narcissist. It’s the whole family dynamic and the the community expectations. And I love the young sister of Alizeh💕 and not to miss the sophisticated gaslighting leading Alizeh to question herself :((
@tomatotutor369
@tomatotutor369 Жыл бұрын
and did you noticed, how first time she said I love him was during the abuse only. The manipulation works on the victim making him/her feel that they are in love and want the person.
@fatemaali6379
@fatemaali6379 Жыл бұрын
Every aspect of narcissist is bang on but what I have experienced in last 8 years that narcissists don't say sorry 5hat easily to convince even if it's fake
@user-mh4sz7dq5d
@user-mh4sz7dq5d Жыл бұрын
Some of the dialogues show that the drama is meant to promote FEMINISM CRAP. 1. Yh lrki itni smart hy lekin shadi sy pehly socha nhi. Shadi ko mazaq samjh lia. 2. Boss's dialogue: YH PHLY HMARI YHN PHIR APKI was absolute shit. And the heroine smiling at that was just CHEAP AND THIRD CLASS 3. "Freedom is more important . Tum shadi na karo". What really?? Kiya bakwas hy? Freedom or shadi ka kia comparison hyn? Not all the husbands are abusive. Sherry is wrong but alizay isn't also a white character.
@Rinee_96
@Rinee_96 9 ай бұрын
@@fatemaali6379 yes my husband has never in 5 yrs of marriage accepted his mistake or said sorry
@AGARWAL28
@AGARWAL28 Жыл бұрын
I really loved mindset of Raza such a neutral man who tells what is right or wrong
@criticsensible8262
@criticsensible8262 Жыл бұрын
What does the fiancé find in Natasha🤦🏻‍♀️ Dump her!
@kanikasachdeva5321
@kanikasachdeva5321 10 ай бұрын
😂😂
@nosheenamustafa5634
@nosheenamustafa5634 10 ай бұрын
Her money.
@nidakhalid2484
@nidakhalid2484 Жыл бұрын
Hats off to ramza when she say apki generation ne betiyo ko aag mai phenkna hota hai....
@punelzafar3484
@punelzafar3484 Жыл бұрын
Epic! Such a perfect demonstration of narcissists. Both brother and sister are the same 😂
@SairaAmirProduction12
@SairaAmirProduction12 Жыл бұрын
Allah Kary iss nature ka husband kisi ki beti ko b na mily ameen
@shahidchaki4568
@shahidchaki4568 Жыл бұрын
Aameen
@shahidchaki4568
@shahidchaki4568 Жыл бұрын
Lekin kuchh aurate Aaj bhi aise husband ke saath rahti hai
@me-khan
@me-khan Жыл бұрын
Mje mila hai😮
@Sgvsdjjs-db3ht
@Sgvsdjjs-db3ht Жыл бұрын
Ameeeeeen
@muhammadaatif394
@muhammadaatif394 Жыл бұрын
اور اس نیچر کی بیوقوف ماں بھی اللہ کسی کو نہ دے
@nadlefaz
@nadlefaz Жыл бұрын
So good to see how Sherry knows who is the softest in the family.. her mother... with her fears and traditional values... And he can get what he wants by manipulating her I love how subtle and slow behavours are tearing her apart... 😢
@nazbegum4759
@nazbegum4759 Жыл бұрын
Highlight - Taming the cage Birds conversation.
@meeramathew1640
@meeramathew1640 9 ай бұрын
Lol, when Natasha said they share the same soul...so true!! Both are insane and feed off each other's negativity and ego. I can't believe people like this really exist.
@MuhammadBilal-cw8dw
@MuhammadBilal-cw8dw Жыл бұрын
Is drame ka name hona chahye tha "Sirf Meri Marzi" 😁🤣🤣
@somiaarshad6599
@somiaarshad6599 Жыл бұрын
Sad to see how so many people think that abuse is just the physical one. Mental torture is so ruthless. Allah sab ke naseeb achy karien. Ameen
@appletreeappletree3605
@appletreeappletree3605 Жыл бұрын
Aaaameeeen
@DEEVIJ_memes
@DEEVIJ_memes Жыл бұрын
I like Ramza's character. She is the strongest part of this drama .
@kandeelzahra8971
@kandeelzahra8971 10 ай бұрын
Inspite of having independent thought and letting herself free from alll such toxicities .... She herself indulges her in being a house wife and leaving everything without which she vant survive
@whoawhoaization
@whoawhoaization Жыл бұрын
This drama is a super accurate description of abusive marriages.
@Shcbittybob
@Shcbittybob Жыл бұрын
Omg this is so scary, how alizay is giving in to sherry’s manipulative behavior. Now she’s started seeing faults in herself, she thinks she has failed him and the relationship is suffering because of her. God this does happen in real life, a narcissist can have you wrapped around their fingers like that. 😢
@afreenamjad3396
@afreenamjad3396 Жыл бұрын
Yes , this is fact in real life alsi
@lovedeepsidhu9941
@lovedeepsidhu9941 Жыл бұрын
Yup. Gaslighting by the narc makes the victim start doubting themselves.
@drafshansamee8437
@drafshansamee8437 Жыл бұрын
So true. Gaslighting does exist and it kills
@HaeppyUnni
@HaeppyUnni Жыл бұрын
Exactly. Jo wife abuse bardasht kerti hai, usay toh khud pata bhe nahin chalta kay woh abuse horehi hai. Yahan per society ko, khas tor per maa baap ko, behn bhaiyoun ko, dostoun ko, doctors ko, sub ko mil ker aurat ki madad kerni hoti hai takay woh abuse se bahir nikal sakay aur apni zindagi dubara shuru ker sakay. Iss tarha torture hogi toh mentally unstable ho jaye gi.
@farihanaz9808
@farihanaz9808 Жыл бұрын
Its reality.....
@mariyawhd6647
@mariyawhd6647 Жыл бұрын
Ramza's acting is so outstanding ❤ The way she takes stand for Aliza is mind-blowing
@mojiznaqvi1560
@mojiznaqvi1560 Жыл бұрын
Ramza's words to her mother was so true. Each words of her was based on reality
@thumbplayer3909
@thumbplayer3909 Жыл бұрын
Yeah right
@neeli8423
@neeli8423 Жыл бұрын
Yes she is the only voice of reason
@ummekalsoom5049
@ummekalsoom5049 Жыл бұрын
True ramza sahi kehti hai ghar ko bnana sirf larki ka kaam nahi marad ka bhi itna hi kaam hai ghar sirf ourat hi nahi ujarti mard bhi ujartay hain sherry ak zehni mareez hai
@sanayaagarwal7031
@sanayaagarwal7031 Жыл бұрын
yes
@mirshabnam1828
@mirshabnam1828 Жыл бұрын
Aliza was doubting herself... But she forgot the car scene where he clearly threatened her ,made her to call them just to say sorry and also expressed that he was taking vengeance for making him wait that day!
@emansheikh2736
@emansheikh2736 6 ай бұрын
Exactly , I was thinking the same
@rachurachu2994
@rachurachu2994 5 ай бұрын
I too thought so. But this happens in reality too. We will know something is wrong. But will be confused. And on top of that parents always advise to tolerate and we don't have patience etc. etc...
@ainaa3019
@ainaa3019 Жыл бұрын
Each and every scene of this drama is based on reality
@afreenamjad3396
@afreenamjad3396 Жыл бұрын
Right 100%
@amberq4515
@amberq4515 Жыл бұрын
Our Asian society doesn’t realize mental manipulation and mental torture is a form of abuse. Abuse isn’t solely in physical form, it can be mental, emotional, financial, as well as sexual. This drama depicts a narcissist husband who is mentally and emotionally abusing his wife for the satisfaction of his ego.
@alikhaan9755
@alikhaan9755 Жыл бұрын
Bht sy Mard asy he Hoty hen..same my situation..
@gkwithshafaq8591
@gkwithshafaq8591 Жыл бұрын
.yes right!!!
@princeveer6794
@princeveer6794 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@huzaifagill001
@huzaifagill001 Жыл бұрын
Wife should compromise
@kainatorakzai981
@kainatorakzai981 Жыл бұрын
Narcissistic sherry
@fazimughal7944
@fazimughal7944 Жыл бұрын
Even educated and independent woman have to suffer ,i had been through the same but nothing changes , its a continuous torture and you can't even get out from this trauma , never . So so much relatable
@neeli8423
@neeli8423 Жыл бұрын
💯 I believe that's why they have shown alizeh as a strong independent educated girl... This can happen to ANYONE .
@Upasana158
@Upasana158 Жыл бұрын
Even though we come out of it the trauma never goes away.
@YuvrajNijjer
@YuvrajNijjer Жыл бұрын
tu iska solution kya hai Independent larkion ko shadi nahi karne chaye
@fazimughal7944
@fazimughal7944 Жыл бұрын
@@YuvrajNijjer they should keep their eyes open or ak bhi red flag nazar ay tu usy miss na kren due to societal pressure don't get married. At the start , sherry threw tantrums and kind of red flags actions but girl ignored at all. If u r Muslim must do istikhara divine help u will get
@Upasana158
@Upasana158 Жыл бұрын
@@YuvrajNijjer iska solution hai ki ladko ko sahi tarike se palna chahiye. Unko kind, open aur compassionate banana chahiye.
@emmasuo272
@emmasuo272 Жыл бұрын
Oh finally someone brought something very needful to the screen those who don't know narc abuse and consider it love are unaware that this actually is trauma bond with the narcissist which will eventually damage the brain cause stress PTSD and the symptoms lasts quite long the blame shifting gaslighting and many more in this abuse I appreciate the writer and both the actors for writing such a needful script and amazing acting durefishan.
@rajitta100
@rajitta100 Жыл бұрын
Natasha has portrayed her role so well. I have started hating her literally , she has aced her role
@sumairaliaqat7625
@sumairaliaqat7625 Жыл бұрын
Ramsa is the most sensible person in the whole house. She always spoke facts 😍
@Foodart2023
@Foodart2023 Жыл бұрын
Suaral susral hai ....chahay ameer hon yan garib .... similarities are there 😢😢😂😂
@hammadmailk454
@hammadmailk454 Жыл бұрын
True
@munazzaadil6913
@munazzaadil6913 Жыл бұрын
This drama depicts true colour of our society where men are so self obsessed, self centered to the extent that belittling their spouse gives them pleasure and women are supposed to let them humiliate her. Perfect story script with perfect drama cast, mikaal zulfiqar did justice to his role👏
@deborahsookram7695
@deborahsookram7695 11 ай бұрын
It's in every society, sadly!
@afia9641
@afia9641 8 ай бұрын
@@deborahsookram7695 no, not in every society. This emotional abuse is not acceptable in every society. In countries like Pakistan, women tolerating abuse are called AZEEM AURAT. That is not the case in West, no one glorifies abuse in West
@syedaramisha2079
@syedaramisha2079 Жыл бұрын
As per this drama A man always only wants to see her wife like being so poor and being sorry all the time. his real happiness and satisfaction level while she was saying sorry to him describes the whole story and mindset of a man.
@HusnainEditor403
@HusnainEditor403 Жыл бұрын
اللہ کے ہر فیصلے پر مطمئن رہیں، کیوں کہ اللہ وہ نہیں دیتا، جو آپکو اچھا لگتا ہے، بلکہ اللہ وہ دیتا ہے، جو آپ کیلئے اچھا ہوتا ہے۔
@anuchopra3903
@anuchopra3903 Жыл бұрын
Oh god itni Educated ladki aur Working hone par bhi iska kaya haal bana diya....😢
@muhammadasjad7401
@muhammadasjad7401 10 ай бұрын
aisy hi mut maar detay ha sari khoobiyooo ko nooch kar nikal detay ha
@shahinershad3924
@shahinershad3924 Жыл бұрын
I was in this situation for a long time where no self respect, dignity, not from my husband but from mother in law...later I took the toughest decision..now Alhamdullillah
@cosmicconnections1130
@cosmicconnections1130 Жыл бұрын
So good and damn natural acting by dur e fishan 💕 as wife she became attached with sherry now and she is getting emotional for him acted so well 👌 this is how ladies tolerate such kind of mentally retard men's due to certain attachment sometimes their emotional sometimes for kids
@muslimah_peace1907
@muslimah_peace1907 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes for lifetime ...
@garimaa01
@garimaa01 Жыл бұрын
True❤
@tomatotutor369
@tomatotutor369 Жыл бұрын
yaa I felt so relatable when she said I love him when it was the peak of abuse. Thats how manipulation works on victim.
@cosmicconnections1130
@cosmicconnections1130 Жыл бұрын
@@tomatotutor369 that's the way actually narc leads partner
@SaniaTasnimBasher
@SaniaTasnimBasher Жыл бұрын
Perfect example of Stockholm syndrome where victim falls in a neverending cycle of love and hate towards abuser. You don't need a villain in this drama. The hero is the villain.
@Muhammadumer-z4f1m
@Muhammadumer-z4f1m Жыл бұрын
Raza character is very sensible and acting 👏👏
@user-zq9bj3nk3y
@user-zq9bj3nk3y Жыл бұрын
I comment here every week on how accurate this portrayal of an abusive narcissist is. Some of the textbook tactics / behaviours of my ex - feeling relief when I am sad or crying, “accusing” me of being a “feminist” or losing his temper if I said anything he perceived as “feminist”. Triangulation and giving importance to other people to feed my insecurities - Sherry does it with Natasha and my ex used some of his “female friends” and side ladies. Not relenting when I am begging for forgiveness.
@misbhayasin5727
@misbhayasin5727 Жыл бұрын
So sorry you had to go through this
@fungshui4850
@fungshui4850 Жыл бұрын
As well as being a Narc, the character is sadistic. Dark triad vibes. Our sick south Asian communities create such monsters, it's a cancer we have to eradicate. Wishing you the best for the future.
@user-zq9bj3nk3y
@user-zq9bj3nk3y Жыл бұрын
@@fungshui4850 thanks! I got out 6 years ago and am okay now but so agree with you. Some of it is so entrenched in our culture.
@fungshui4850
@fungshui4850 Жыл бұрын
@@user-zq9bj3nk3y good for you, stay strong.
@kumudatayannavar9686
@kumudatayannavar9686 Жыл бұрын
Living with naracciest person like Sharry and Natasha is hell , thoughts freezes and end up in suicide 😢
@sidrabatool9839
@sidrabatool9839 Жыл бұрын
Hmmm
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
Really no one can live with people like sherry and natasha both are psycho
@YuvrajNijjer
@YuvrajNijjer Жыл бұрын
pata to shadi ke baad hi chalega pehle to acha he lag raha hota hai Shaadi is like lottery😅
@binteshahid9825
@binteshahid9825 Жыл бұрын
Aik toxic partner kese apko apni identity question karne par majboor kr deta hai alizey is the correct example of it. A wrong partner can literally destroy you in way even you won’t realize.
@ikiaa1499
@ikiaa1499 Жыл бұрын
My sister said this drama matches my past relationship (engagement) and yes it does, thank god I got myself out of that
@bushraharoon5930
@bushraharoon5930 10 ай бұрын
Same
@ritchiehere
@ritchiehere Жыл бұрын
Amazingly written story, screenplay. That is how life is, people gradually crush you and you start doubting yourself
@sarajamshidi6034
@sarajamshidi6034 Жыл бұрын
Sherry has a personality disorder called Narcissism. It has no cure sadly ! And the only way is to run away from these type of people :(
@truthanddare3446
@truthanddare3446 Жыл бұрын
No one is talking about why this happens
@SanaShortVideos
@SanaShortVideos Жыл бұрын
Raza andha hy kia 😂 why is he tolerating Natasha churail 😂
@nuzhatsalman9615
@nuzhatsalman9615 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@aminahameed8530
@aminahameed8530 Жыл бұрын
Story of my life and this is exactly what I had faced. Everyone around me could sense it, except me. Currently, I am a patient of Clinical depression, have survived 5 panic attacks in a day, and have been admitted to CCU for a good 3 days. All because of severe narcissism I faced.
@rupakaur4912
@rupakaur4912 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear about what you went through. Focus on your life and health.
@zaraali6006
@zaraali6006 Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢ALLAH PAAK aap ko theek kr dain ameeen😭😭😭
@hscreation830
@hscreation830 Жыл бұрын
may Allah give you good health and make us stronge ameen❤️
@NargisKhan-hl9sh
@NargisKhan-hl9sh Жыл бұрын
ALLAH PAK aapko achchi health de aap Durood Ibrahim padhe mujhe bhi bohot sukoon mila h
@glowwithoriflame3739
@glowwithoriflame3739 Жыл бұрын
Are you still living in your toxic relationship
@husna8388
@husna8388 Жыл бұрын
Exceptional master piece..after a long time ...iam hooked to this drama..at times it gives goosebumps and at times give tears..
@TheRandom108
@TheRandom108 Жыл бұрын
It always seems to me that the people who haven't seen or lived through such abuse think all these are cute little tantrums that Sherry is throwing. It's so toxic and so harmful, and only gets worse with time
@saraqudoos2657
@saraqudoos2657 Жыл бұрын
Very true
@ainaa3019
@ainaa3019 Жыл бұрын
And they try to sound fair by blaming both partners. Husbnd did this but wife also did that. But they don't realize that wife only reacts to what husbnd did.
@ifraqazi252
@ifraqazi252 Жыл бұрын
QQ QQ q
@Chichipara_
@Chichipara_ Жыл бұрын
💯
@gameplayvideosyt7721
@gameplayvideosyt7721 Жыл бұрын
Exactly...my sister is going through this from las 22 years and my family always say sab theek ho jay ga but ya kabi theek ni hota
@Beyondstalites
@Beyondstalites 11 ай бұрын
There is so much to learn from this drama . So many theories , social issue, mental health, entrepreneurship, sensitivity and insentivity, personal and professional dealings, commitments, social and professional life, practicality and idealism and so many things to explore ...
@Keemham
@Keemham Жыл бұрын
یا اللہ ہم سب کے حل پر رحم فرما ہم سب کی جو بھی پریشانیاں وہ دور فرما یا اللہ یہ تیرے محبوب اس مہینے میں دنیا پے ائے تھے یا اللہ ہم سب کے صغیرہ کبیرہ چھوٹے بڑے سب گناہوں کو معاف فرماتا کہ ہماری دین اور دنیا اچھے ہو جائیں امین
@soc1596
@soc1596 Жыл бұрын
Damn the gaslighting is on point. A narcissist can never ever be pleased, it's never enough.
@azrafida1604
@azrafida1604 Жыл бұрын
Alizey is not in love with sherry. Sherry has trapped her so bad that she thinks she is in love with her. Typical manipulative, toxic behaviour from a narcissist. What he does to alizey after he commits a mistake is called gaslighting (becomes a victim and puts the blame on wife instead of accepting mistake). Alizey's mother is feeding sherry making him even more powerful
@lovedeepsidhu9941
@lovedeepsidhu9941 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@soniashahid6429
@soniashahid6429 Жыл бұрын
So true
@zehrasohail5714
@zehrasohail5714 Жыл бұрын
Very true, a typical narcissistic behaviour !
@tomatotutor369
@tomatotutor369 Жыл бұрын
exactly, this is what I noticed the most, she said i love him only after the abuse, that shows how manipulation works.
@natashawajeeh9295
@natashawajeeh9295 Жыл бұрын
Aleezay k baap ko salaam....hmein ese fathers chahye jo stand le sakein😢😢😢love this man
@ainaa3019
@ainaa3019 Жыл бұрын
The start scene where alizey is blaming her ownself. Always narcissists try to put blame of everything on you and make you confused so you think that may be you over reacted.
@shahhashmi8647
@shahhashmi8647 Жыл бұрын
Right
@charanjeetkaur4697
@charanjeetkaur4697 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. It's famous trait of narcissistic behaviour. Trying to blame others for every thing.
@rajitta100
@rajitta100 Жыл бұрын
True
@billgatess1
@billgatess1 Жыл бұрын
Yep. Self doubt is the first stage of abuse working
@sumanreactions
@sumanreactions Жыл бұрын
So true, actually i have the same type of husband 😤😤
@humanasir9091
@humanasir9091 Жыл бұрын
I can't believe Alizeh is mishandling her situation. She herself is a confident motivational speaker.
@zain9356
@zain9356 Жыл бұрын
The scene when alizay says sorry to sherry and he also reply sorry Ohh my eyes filled with tears but that's true sherry is narcissistic person because husband this behaviour is not acceptable for a girl and drama story is just 💗💗💗 can't miss 1 second scene ❤
@wazhmarahmanzai6921
@wazhmarahmanzai6921 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤Yas
@naseemafarheenshaik8936
@naseemafarheenshaik8936 7 ай бұрын
The transition from super strong amd super confident, having clear and intact opinions and understanding on everything to self doubting and getting weak, confuused personality..... exactly what happens to the victims of the narcissistic toxic abuse...very precisely shown
@nusratparveen5704
@nusratparveen5704 Жыл бұрын
ایسے ذہنی مریض کبھی ٹھیک نہیں ہوتے.😣😣😣
@umb7088
@umb7088 Жыл бұрын
Mein is situation ki Ak misal hon..zanhni mareez khabhi theak nae hotay..wo theak hay or mughay cancer ho gea hay..big lesson for everyone...
@lailahussain4910
@lailahussain4910 Жыл бұрын
Bilkul
@farmingbasicinfo
@farmingbasicinfo Жыл бұрын
​@@umb7088Jb shadia mgrur aur dulat kay sath ho ge lalchi log
@zaraali6006
@zaraali6006 Жыл бұрын
​@@umb7088ALLAH PAAK aap ko sehat lambi zindagi dain ameeeen😢😢😢
@mariammursalanhaider8682
@mariammursalanhaider8682 Жыл бұрын
Every episode of this drama amazes me it’s so true to life showing the real tortured lives of women married to narcissists. And what amazes me is that this means it’s all very very common
@jasminemody799
@jasminemody799 Жыл бұрын
If a educated independent girl like Alizey can behave like this than what to say
@shahhashmi8647
@shahhashmi8647 Жыл бұрын
Education aur dil alag cheezay hai insaan muhabat mai majboor ho jaata hai khas tor say jab muhabat shohar say ho
@iqraanees1666
@iqraanees1666 Жыл бұрын
Our society ruined the educated girl ..
@bushraa9944
@bushraa9944 Жыл бұрын
But she has to save her home too
@bushraa9944
@bushraa9944 Жыл бұрын
Every eastern married girl do the same
@EnlightenedU19
@EnlightenedU19 Жыл бұрын
Education b humri zindhi k yae issue kbi solve ni kr pati hum educated girls ko limit set kerwai jati hum tabha ho jati hum
@rachurachu2994
@rachurachu2994 5 ай бұрын
My husband was also the same. I did everything for him to please him. He decided everything about me. Even my dressing. Still he was rude. Later I started ignoring him and I firmly stood for my rights. Then he would not talk to me for several days. That was his way to break me. I used to be broken initially. Later I learned to remain normal. I neither argued nor cried. I stopped begging for his love and attention. Then things started to get better. Now, Alhamdulillah I have no complaints about him.
@jasminemody799
@jasminemody799 Жыл бұрын
Ramza is so matured n Understanding
@scholarfieldsgreen9873
@scholarfieldsgreen9873 11 ай бұрын
This is how they destroy a more capable, more talented , more confident and better girl . This is how the jealous husband destroys
@sajjalfatima3118
@sajjalfatima3118 Жыл бұрын
Every girl should have a sister like ramza
@malikraza4732
@malikraza4732 Жыл бұрын
Yes i have
@elsafamily7633
@elsafamily7633 Жыл бұрын
31:18 Very solid point given by raza. K....apny ghar par kya kr rha hai...... That matters a lot how he is behaving with his wife
@saimamajeed2691
@saimamajeed2691 Жыл бұрын
ایسے بددماغ اور بد اخلاق لوگوں سے اللہ بچائے
@MaqboolHassan-be8xv
@MaqboolHassan-be8xv Жыл бұрын
My sis went through the same thing ..she got partner like him who tortured her mentally for Three years.. finally my sister took divorce..now she is in peace and Happy
@sadiaasad2948
@sadiaasad2948 11 ай бұрын
Is divorce best solution
@muhammadasjad7401
@muhammadasjad7401 10 ай бұрын
mujy tu ziyada tar mard aisy hi nazar aaatay hai mashary me
@jasminemody799
@jasminemody799 Жыл бұрын
Really don’t understand why do girls parents feel so weak n low
@cosmicconnections1130
@cosmicconnections1130 Жыл бұрын
Becoz of society yakk
@somayiakhawaja7471
@somayiakhawaja7471 Жыл бұрын
Too scarrd to get the label of divorce
@aimanrani7278
@aimanrani7278 Жыл бұрын
That's how manipulative people make you think that it's all your fault and make you feel guilty.
@gameplayvideosyt7721
@gameplayvideosyt7721 Жыл бұрын
Such a true story...my sister is alizy and I was always talking like ramza lafz ba lafz.but my mom did what her mom is doing and she is still suffering from 22 years ..if someone is in such situations please get divorced as soon as possible 🙏
@Anju_Rajan
@Anju_Rajan Жыл бұрын
Oh seriously
@billgatess1
@billgatess1 Жыл бұрын
And in other people's eyes, she is happily married!
@malikraza4732
@malikraza4732 Жыл бұрын
Yes this is real.I saw this situation.
@seeya7610
@seeya7610 Жыл бұрын
It’s sad. Why don’t you help her get out?
@gameplayvideosyt7721
@gameplayvideosyt7721 Жыл бұрын
@@seeya7610 she is in same situation like alizay...phir wo akdam acha ban jata he and our parents think that everything will be fine
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
This guy with whom natasha is going to get married is such a sensible guy also very understanding person he is trying to make natasha understand things but she is so stubborn she does not want to listen to anyone as it hurts ger ego
@artflow4127
@artflow4127 Жыл бұрын
Ramsa kitni mature hain🤍
@zohradawood3674
@zohradawood3674 9 ай бұрын
My daughter was a chemical engineer nd her husband did the same. He was a narcesist she divorced but still cant find herself he took away all her self respect nd confidence she now works as a teacher. She was a topper in engineering
@saimamajeed2691
@saimamajeed2691 Жыл бұрын
سب تو نہیں مگر کچھ حضرات کو بیوی کو دبا کر رکھنے کا شوق ہوتا ہے ان سے بااعتماد بیوی برداشت نہیں ہوتی
@farwaahmed982
@farwaahmed982 Жыл бұрын
Mikaal doing his role perfectly 😊
@TheHimalyanYogini
@TheHimalyanYogini Жыл бұрын
Such an intense drama ❤ cant skip a single second
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
It is very irritating and boring drama so what if it has a good cast
@wazhmarahmanzai6921
@wazhmarahmanzai6921 Жыл бұрын
Yass ❤❤ ❤
@sumaiyatahir7219
@sumaiyatahir7219 Жыл бұрын
Ase relationship ko nibhana n is se nikalna dono aik azab hai I can feel it
@sattisamina7150
@sattisamina7150 Жыл бұрын
How Sherry became victim typical of Narcs they do wrong n become victim , they like actual victims to say sorry they get Supply out of it., Amazing drama
@legendgamers1852
@legendgamers1852 Жыл бұрын
Crying after watching this episode... seriously felt scare for her...Parents should have to understand
@mahnoorahmad2215
@mahnoorahmad2215 Жыл бұрын
A woman gives her all to the man she marries, while the man is never emotionally connected to her.
@Ummeali77
@Ummeali77 Жыл бұрын
No only narrssist not connected
@suheera2630
@suheera2630 Жыл бұрын
😢
@farihanaz9808
@farihanaz9808 Жыл бұрын
So true
@Allrounder03
@Allrounder03 Жыл бұрын
Yrr... Who the hell told this to you.... Not every man is like this.. And woman of today's time is impatient
@PeachPeach-we8oj
@PeachPeach-we8oj Жыл бұрын
Some men are so toxic whatever you do for them still it's worthless for them. They abuse you through their words from their reactions. This sort of relationship just eat you piece by piece left you empty
@ShaluGupta-oz6rm
@ShaluGupta-oz6rm Жыл бұрын
Who agree " Namaz is permanent solution of all the problems " ❤❤❤
@almasgazali8824
@almasgazali8824 Жыл бұрын
Then go n pray Namaz y u here..
@samiaghansar7864
@samiaghansar7864 Жыл бұрын
What has this got to do with the drama
@ZadduBOY
@ZadduBOY Жыл бұрын
Namaz padho youtube q dekhre
@itsyusrah8997
@itsyusrah8997 Жыл бұрын
You are not even Muslim just here for likes shame on you
@zahidahshah6946
@zahidahshah6946 Жыл бұрын
​@@almasgazali8824good reply
@saminaafzal150
@saminaafzal150 11 ай бұрын
When someone is in this kind of situation they don’t realise the abuse and the time comes when the victim start believing that they are the ones who have problems that need sorting. Then the whole lifetime cycle of torture and abuse starts. Because when the victim thinks they’ve succeeded resolving one the perpetrator creates another.
@bakerssecret2164
@bakerssecret2164 11 ай бұрын
True
@nafisaahmed2640
@nafisaahmed2640 Жыл бұрын
What a story ! Acting, direction ,lighting and casting pair up the two leading Mikaal and Durefishan both are outstanding . Specially Mikaal he has actually justified his role with pure dignity , honesty and dedication. Every second he just play extraordinary . Best wishes the whole team to create this exceptional drama..
@uzmabibi5424
@uzmabibi5424 Жыл бұрын
Natash looks jealous for every one . She needs to eat something sweet 😅
@moonmalik4141
@moonmalik4141 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful relation between Ali tahir sab n their daughters z awsom ,a fathers relation should b like like this ,their relation z as same as my dad n me❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@fouziajawed6481
@fouziajawed6481 Жыл бұрын
یہ ہمارے معاشرے کاالمیہ ہے کہ ہمارے ماں باپ بیٹیوں کی شادی کے بعد خوف زدہ ہو جاتے ہیں اور ہر حال میں بیٹیوں کو ہی دباتے ہیں اکثر لڑکیوں کی پوری شخصیت برباد ہو جاتی ہے اپنا گھر بچاتے بچاتے 😢
@Mustafa-z5t1s
@Mustafa-z5t1s Жыл бұрын
That's true❤❤
@armaghanawan5269
@armaghanawan5269 Жыл бұрын
Allah PAK sb betiyun ka Naseeb acha Farmyan Ameen SM Ameen Ya Rabul Ameen
@ahmadmaher3806
@ahmadmaher3806 Жыл бұрын
Right
@sank4558
@sank4558 11 ай бұрын
Bilkul sahi kaha
@saminamughal3546
@saminamughal3546 11 ай бұрын
You r right
@cosmicconnections1130
@cosmicconnections1130 Жыл бұрын
Jaise apki marzi best show of the year reality based no fussy over drama just a dur e fishan 💕 acting amazing 👏 👍 👌 lots of wishes from india sister is too much sensible
@sidrabatool9839
@sidrabatool9839 Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👍👍
@Abdulrehman-o5r4i
@Abdulrehman-o5r4i Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ 😊😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@aWanderersKitchen
@aWanderersKitchen Жыл бұрын
Only Aleezay's sister understands Sherry
@HiroDiary762
@HiroDiary762 Жыл бұрын
Thats why arrange marriages are scary🙄
@arjunshahani1360
@arjunshahani1360 Жыл бұрын
This guy sherry is sick and irritating guy i don't think any woman can be happy with him
@simran274
@simran274 Жыл бұрын
U have not seen horrible love marriages
@YuvrajNijjer
@YuvrajNijjer Жыл бұрын
sabhi lovers husband hai bante hai Raat gayi baat gayi😊
@mahnoorali2944
@mahnoorali2944 Жыл бұрын
And I find marriage scary.
@samarali73
@samarali73 Жыл бұрын
You never know. A narcissist person never show his true color until he gets married. Once you fall into a trap of marriage you get to see the real character of that person. No matter whether its a love or arrange marriage.
@drshumailasaeed162
@drshumailasaeed162 Жыл бұрын
So much relatable to our society and everyone is outstanding in their performance thumbsup
@mojiznaqvi1560
@mojiznaqvi1560 Жыл бұрын
How can Alizay fall in love with someone like Sherry who is mentally torturing her. Pagal ke saath rehte rehte wo bhi pagal ho gayi hai
@afreenamjad3396
@afreenamjad3396 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@lovedeepsidhu9941
@lovedeepsidhu9941 Жыл бұрын
Because he love bombed her initially. Showed his best side. That facade is what Alizey is in love with. By the time he showed his real face, Alizey doesn't know what's real. She believes that good side (which was an act) was also real.
@mohammadabid3018
@mohammadabid3018 Жыл бұрын
Hatsss off mekaaalll acting....shery k charector ko acha se nibharaha hy ye
@aimanrajput4527
@aimanrajput4527 Жыл бұрын
This drama is so good and so mentally taxing at the same time
@rubabfatima6606
@rubabfatima6606 Жыл бұрын
Common misconception : k narcissists dont say sorry.they do ! Whenever they want to manipulate...they cam even beg for forgiveness....but they will never change...
@bakerssecret2164
@bakerssecret2164 11 ай бұрын
Mine never ever said sorry to me even I caught him red handed . So ot depends. There are types of narcissist. Some never say sorry n never accept their mistake.
@Rinee_96
@Rinee_96 9 ай бұрын
Yes many a times he manipulated me to beleive that it was my fault, always and was never sorry for his mistakes, infact never admitted that he could be wrong.
@rubabfatima6606
@rubabfatima6606 9 ай бұрын
@@Rinee_96 typical narcissistic behavior
@aqsanoran1443
@aqsanoran1443 Жыл бұрын
How Alizay jumped from Ted Talk to boot polish! She is too smart, educated and have seen too much to become this sehmi bechari larki
@farahimtiaz2690
@farahimtiaz2690 Жыл бұрын
This drama become interesting day by day❤
@danishsidra.7865
@danishsidra.7865 Жыл бұрын
Shadi k bad aurat APNA Ghar bachane k Liye compromise Karti hai bas 😢😢😢
@rajausman2859
@rajausman2859 Жыл бұрын
Yaha bi orat he ha jo gr kharab karti ha
@hammadmailk454
@hammadmailk454 Жыл бұрын
Right
@muazzamkhan7011
@muazzamkhan7011 Жыл бұрын
What an acting by mikaal zulfikar one can understand such person who bears him
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