Milton Erickson's Secret Ingredient | Deep Psychology Beyond Hypnosis and NLP 'Techniques'

[@heithwatkins]

There was a great teacher that one walked planet earth. He spoke of loving yourself and then loving others the same way. Love alone brings healing both inside and outside. Love wins everytime.

[@JohnMorleyJT]

Awesome summary of Erickson thanks and you don't define HOW TO BE. Erickson's secret ingredient is outlined in a book called Phoenix by Dilts where they say Milton would do ANYTHING to get into rapport with his client. Now, if you truly (and not superficially) understand what it means to get into total rapport with someone then you would understand that, being in rapport, that you are now so much like the them that they and you are one... and therefor you can do anything with them. That's how Erickson was able to get such amazing results... also, being in total rapport means that you can now see what needs to change because you are in and understand their model of the world so completely that it is "obvious" what needs to change... i.e. what behaviour you need to inject that will cause the change... that's the real secret ingredient (total and complete rapport with the other person's model of the world) that only a handful of people are able to do!

[@missmolly5129]

Awesome !

[@hi-ks4rl]

Having genuine care for others is a way of getting rapport. you can't fake that .

[@evyandonch553]

www.amazon.com/Phoenix-Therapeutic-Patterns-Milton-Erickson/dp/0916990109 THIS ONE?

[@heartandmindovercome3214]

Damn! Thanks for this gold nugget 👍🔥

[@haroldgoodman130]

It's all about Love. How would you truly want to be loved, supported? Open to this and both you and the patient will experience healing.

[@guiomarrebelo6494]

Authenticity + Compassion + Love = Beingness. Beautiful said, thank you for sharing.

[@TheTrippnotist]

And thank you for sharing your response, Guiomar... very much appreciated!

[@thezireffect]

A palpable vibration of love and compassion -- I have witnessed this in action. This is what opens the doorway to healing. Seems evident that Erickson possessed this in grand amounts. Thank you for your words, James.

[@TheTrippnotist]

You're welcome, Ana!

[@marshwetland3808]

Need this. Not from my mother, not my ex, my friends. Need this. Seen it in Marshall Rosenberg and Erickson, but never had it personally.

[@ChPonsard]

"I'm sick of cynicism" Thank you for voicing that.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you for appreciating it! :)

[@bebopbountyhead]

Hah! Erickson treats people like dogs, and yet y'all are "sick of cynicism"? Good one.

[@ZipZenBodyMindAlignement]

Valuable sharing! Thank you. Being a Trager Practitioner I can feel the essence of being with the client reflected also in Milton Trager. And this goes far beyond the technics and so. Yes a great un-learning - just to be!

[@scottturcotte1860]

In Ledochoeski's hypnosis course, he talks about the technique of "going before" that is, sub communication or subconsciously communicating, by focusing on the feeling of the desired objective, not simply thinking about regular hypnosis technique skills, but focusing on the feeling of being relaxed or at peace, or projecting the feeling of desire for wellbeing for every person, and so on within yourself, in addition to the actual hypnotic process technique used, because your feelings for a particular outcome, have a powerful and dynamic impact and can oftentimes communicate more effectively than just trying to consciously use conscious hypnotic techniques alone to communicate with the other person's subconscious mind... love for your fellow man, is a powerful emotional state for helping you sub communicate, along with hypnotic process... what you are saying makes sense, but most people don't really teach technique with this amount of depth in mind. I would guess Erickson knew this along with his many other legendary intuitive abilities. My 1st time watching, I agree with you. Thanks, great video.

[@quantumhealinghealth]

I would have to agree with you, and I also would agree that it is also understanding your client from their point of view, in their world and their reality, and in their energetic field. As a spiritual hypnotherapist, I spend at least 5 hours with my clients in a one-off session, and the results are nothing short of phenomenal. I have come to understand that it's not the words that I'm speaking but the energy that is behind the words. It's my intention prior to the session. I go into a deep meditation where I contact their higher self, and I allow my higher self to blend with theirs. So when I meet the customer or the client, I've already made an agreement with their higher self for them to have the best possible outcome. Once I'm with the client, we have a warm conversation, which is a deep listening service. This, in itself, is an opportunity for myself as a spiritual guide and assistant to Alchemize the energy in the space. Once we go into the hypnosis part of the session, their higher self takes over, and we have an incredible time travel experience. It's all about building rapport with them. But prior to building a rapport with your client, you need to make sure that you have an amazing rapport with yourself and what you're doing. That will translate into what you're giving. If you are very confident, comfortable, humble, and full of integrity about the work you're doing, all of your clients will be the reciprocal of something beautiful.

[@Spitfireseven]

This is a fabulous video because the essence of what is being presented here is the true nature of the desire to help someone. Too often 😢 the desire to help someone gets twisted by some corporate edict and people die. I have watched people die for no good reason accept that there was a profit motive to be served first. In this environment everyone loses a piece of their heart. Not just the person in need of healing.

[@sukeshipandit5246]

Loved the message in this video. It makes perfect sense...true compassion for fellow human beings equals Beingness. That is the ultimate quality in a healer.

[@Micky2009-s4s]

7:53-8:14 goosebumps! Tingling sensations started going up my legs and spreading everywhere I felt "the Shift" that was a fascinating story of Milton The true spirit of Love lays beneath for sure

[@graigmoriarty6043]

Your stories in this vid - about Erickson, yourself and others - underline the heart & soul of healing ourselves and others. Beautifully said and much appreciated James.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you, Graig.

[@kigormley]

My thoughts on this after listening to an awesome 11mins 59 secs is that what you describe as beingness is synonymous with what people would perceive in a soulmate and would engender the safe and cosy feelings of this. Thank you for this really meaningful piece.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Joe G thank you for commenting. In answer to your question - yes, most likely very close!

[@TheBeachHermit]

Ultimately, all healing is self-healing. Great facilitators simply provide a context in which you can be your best by being their best :)

[@AaronTjomsland]

"Wherever you are, be the soul of that place"

[@derickwilliams2195]

i just absolutely appreciate the fact that you do not swear in your clips. Thank you sooo much for that. Also please know that I found these most empowering as well. Blessings Derick - Paarl (South Africa)

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you Derick - glad you got some goodness from the videos. I will say I'm not anti-swearing at all myself, I just don't tend to do it that much! :)

[@derickwilliams2195]

Thank you for your reply James. I hear what you saying and peradventure I can qualify it to you this was - when swearing you most assuredly will offend some people (that group of folks who do not speak that way). However not swearing or cussing or being profane or blasphemous does offend that group of folks who speak that way. When last did someone comment asking you to swear more in your clips. Wishing you a most outstanding day. Warmest Regards from a cold Paarl - South Africa.

[@naemasufi]

I agree, i was going to sign up with with one fellow but he constantly swore in every video. Not something i accept from professionals i pay.

[@albdim1]

I keep coming back to this video. Your presence is also touching welcoming.

[@TheTrippnotist]

🙏🏻

[@b.angelekunkowski4892]

this reminds me of a program in psychology to help build realationships with your children. ive not really thought of it outside the context of a close relationship. its called circle of security.

[@emilymurphy1888]

THis felt great to listen to, much admiration for Erikson, I can see you have developed your thoughtful presence as well. Thank you for sharing

[@TheTrippnotist]

Glad you got some goodness from it Emmy!

[@aworlds1]

I teared up listening to you describe his key factors. 🙏🏿 Thank you.... 🧘🏾‍♀️

[@DavidAsh42]

Hi James, thanks for being so open and sharing with us. Your words are helping me to reconnect with that nourishing centredness in myself. I believe this subject is deeply important for all of us. Thank you!

[@TheTrippnotist]

David Ashwanden 👍

[@junktube4000]

I noticed pretty much the same thing within 2 minutes of watching him. Very well said.

[@TheTrippnotist]

junktube4000 🙏🏻

[@ErifilyNikola]

Thank you. :) I am fascinated by Erickson's work and this makes more sense than any video I have encountered.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Glad you got some goodness from it... that video was from a few years back, but I'm coming to see it more and more deeply as time passes.

[@ErifilyNikola]

@@TheTrippnotist I really like your work! I took a look at your website, but I'm in a middle of lockdown and a bunch of things (including an Eriksonian webinar on May 2nd) so I bookmarked it to come back when things are settling a bit...

[@TheTrippnotist]

@@ErifilyNikola Honestly, my website sucks :D But thank you for checking it out. If you are on facebook I livestream there from time to time so you can follow me for some of that. As an aside, I was just about to embark on some Feldenkrais exploration (via a class) when this lockdown kicked in! It is something that my spider sense tells me will have much goodness in it.

[@jellyphish2112]

I had this very idea whilst reading Grinder and Bandler's breakdown of his speech patterns. It always appeared to me, in watching the little of him available, that what he did was based more on who he was, rather than necessarily what he said. Fascinating consideration.

[@jimmacy228]

Most times I think that the best therapist has four paws.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Jim Macy Quite so... just recently we (at Rock 2 Recovery UK) had a therapy dog brought in for a client. The session created a very powerful shift!

[@jonkomatsu8192]

Thank you so much for these words!

[@TheTrippnotist]

You're most welcome, Jon!

[@positivechange2000]

Not sure if it would be called groundness, but one thing that I have often heard from my own clients is that many of them have told me "I don't know...there was just something about you that seemed like you really cared about my success." That has always resonated with me when I hear it.

[@TheTrippnotist]

I think where we are coming from is such an important aspect, be it groundedness or caring (both valuable!)

[@nickvanwhy9762]

Thank for sharing. Fred Rogers had that gift as well.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Yes. My friendJohn keeps nudging me to watch the Fred Rogers documentary... I'll get to it at some point!

[@coach_albert]

Awesome....

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you indeed!

[@jackievanbeest183]

Awesome and Inspirational and so familair Namasté, Jackie

[@tamarindtrick]

this is really helpful, because my therapist sees so many patients that she can barely remember my name never mind important things i've told her. It makes me crazy, always trying to get through her faking it, ... but listening to this .......it's not me...thankyou

[@rendacriativabr]

So my friend thank you for share such great material ... it has been verry useful for me as studant of MIlton Erickson Hypnoterapy

[@TheTrippnotist]

You're most welcome!

[@bighead4u]

Carl Jung, colleague of Sigmund Freud, said "it's the man, not the method," many decades ago. I delve into this as Hypnotherapy as a modality under the umbrella of healing, a calling, a vocation. Techniques make you a technician, not a healer. Agape love, i.e. love of humanity is the motivation of the true healer This includes unconditional acceptance, which in turn yields deeper rapport than hypnotic rapport, as it is human to human rapport. This connection is a channel that allows a receptivity to healing guidance beyond that of somnambulism, even in a "light" trance. I deal with this aspect of trancework in my hypnosis manual, "Mind-bending For Mind-mending, Wizard Ways With Words."

[@TheTrippnotist]

I love all you have to say here Brian! I really see the value in the 'healer' paradigm (archetype? to keep Jung in the mix) and one of my favourite books on Erickson is 'An American Healer'... but, as a professional 'change catalyser' the healer archetype is not *for me* personally! I do love the title of your manual... that certainly does resonate (the magician/wizard archetype, tat is). I looked on Amazon and couldn't find it though!

[@bighead4u]

@@TheTrippnotist Here it is on my website and Amazon. www.mindmagic123.com/id66.html www.amazon.com/s?k=mindbending+for+mindmending&i=stripbooks&ref=nb_sb_noss You may have to cut and paste as utube doesn't allow live links. Contains original methods for trance induction etc. and novel explanations r.e. trance and trancework.

[@bighead4u]

Look up Holistic Hypnosis and Hypnotherapy - Los Angeles. Go to my website. Row of buttons on the left, one for the manual to purchase direct from me. I looked it up on Amazon and it came up for me. KZbin doesn't seem to allow posts with links. The manual contains many original ideas that can help even lowly technicians, lol!!

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

Great video! Great topic!!

[@TheTrippnotist]

Glad you liked it!

[@eezee5744]

Yes, I can imagine someone's "beingness" can also affect or change someone else's consciousness which leads to their change of behavior, though it may be somewhat nebulous what that beingness is. But whatever works is whatever manages to change one's underlying mental pattern or way of being, I think, regardless of trance or no trance.

[@TheTrippnotist]

It is indeed nebulous... but I could have a fair crack at breaking it down! (that may be a video on the way).

[@annagrear4167]

Stunning

[@evyandonch553]

You're amazing. Thank you for being.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you, Evyan. 🙏

[@thebibafrequency1]

Well said ✨

[@danl.4743]

Beautiful, James.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you, Da L.

[@AZTigerMMA]

Please drills for grounded !!!! Ok I’m looking forward to checking your course

[@TheTrippnotist]

When I work with people to develop grounding it is more about getting specific realisations to occur combined with processing through personal shadow material and reprocessing some personal psychological structures. I did run a webinar based program called Beyond the Subtle Fears which works through as much as I can without being in person (I still have the recordings of it and may find a way to bring it out into the world again soon).

[@jamesandrews4238]

outstanding video -- i do not believe connecting with, and influencing people at the highest level is something that can be taught/learned. either you possess this rare ability or you do not. it's an art.

[@lewismcdonnel1]

perhaps it is a rare art but we each have the potential within us to craft, sculpt and refine the pureness of our presence. as the protective layers fall away through introspection and the desire to know our true nature the light of life will begin to shine through us brighter. so much in fact that a visible glow actually begins to emanate from our being. as seen around many depictions of buddha, jesus, krishna and other self realised beings. shine on my friend!

[@Stargateseven2]

james andrews SO TRUE!

[@Stargateseven2]

SO TRUE!

[@merianjoyce9523]

james andrews an art, nlp coupled with genuine care... and language patterns

[@merianjoyce9523]

Imagine such a wonderful and interesting mix of different patterns. It really made me think.

[@eezee5744]

I read The Easy Way to Stop Smoking by Allen Carr and just as the author stated in middle of book, I did stop smoking from simply reading the book from beginning to end with no urges to smoke. I wonder if this book was similar to some kind of "hypnosis."

[@TheTrippnotist]

I think the Easy Way is pure 'hypnosis' - reorganising perceptions through reframing and suggestion.

[@mgrjade8807]

You are awesome!

[@TheTrippnotist]

Thank you, my friend!

[@翟豫萤]

Hi,James. This is Bridge from China.We are processing a project about Erickson. We are going to introduce Erickson to people in the easy understanding way.Could you provide more story about Erickson?Thank you very much.

[@uncleinflammatory9916]

Profound and enlightening...thank you James. Just a thought ...were people capable of such BEing once a long time ago not called "saints"?

[@TheTrippnotist]

Very possibly so! Saints, sufis, buddhas, shaman... I'm sure this shows up in many different guises across different cultural contexts.

[@danielnovak8293]

Thank you James.

[@TheTrippnotist]

Daniel Novak you're most welcome!

[@nlpvehipnoz4582]

It is a pity there is no kindle version of the book "An American healer" :-(

[@TheTrippnotist]

It is indeed. You might have to go 'old-school' with it! :)

[@nlpvehipnoz4582]

You are right! It is a challenge though when you are in Turkey :-)

[@swish2727]

Thanks for sharing ....

[@shannonrogers6925]

So are you offering this program again or offering it in some form of an online course?

[@TheTrippnotist]

Without rewatching the video, I'm not sure what training I was referring to... was it 'Beyond the Subtle Fears'?

[@A_Jel]

Inspirational

[@alfredbellanti3755]

Thank you for this.

[@TheTrippnotist]

You are most welcome, Alfred.

[@Osoba333]

Absolutely true

[@drmichaelharris]

well done Sir

[@TheTrippnotist]

🙏

[@drmichaelharris]

I'd be interested in interviewing you for my show... email me [e-mail] if interested

[@itspapapvphd654]

The tuth about chrisyianity astrology And magic ..

[@Rhombohedral]

the soft voice with little volume already inducded confusion and trance trying to folow hat he says. and then his language patterns are right out of Oz and beyond

[@mgrjade8807]

Please make a video about how to learn so much faster. Just a friendly suggestion. :)

[@TheTrippnotist]

I'll put that on the list!

[@TheHartsook69]

Well I have reached the conclusion that Erikson would be best compared to Bruce Lee when it comes to hypnosis he had his own style and people still talk about him to this day of being one of the best just my opinion

[@TheTrippnotist]

There is something that all the greats do... go beyond the rules and connect with the non-linear

[@ptbaines]

I didn't find the book, "The Healer," on Amazon, is there another place I can find it? I have one the is titled, American Healers, that include a few other people besides Erickson, could that be the same one?

[@TheTrippnotist]

Rosemarie Faye The book is called An American Healer and has a purple cover! If you google it it is the first thing that comes up.

[@ptbaines]

Thank you, I didn't have the American in my search. I actually found it and it's on order. Also, thank you for your great videos, you have given us wonderful information!

[@TheTrippnotist]

You're most welcome, Rosemary!

[@AZTigerMMA]

No shit. This rocked my shit.

[@MrTcuk]

I have always said that about NLP you can model Jordan but that will never make you Jordan, because if it was just for the model than why train, where is the talent, where is the work, the being, the inteligence. The Model is great but cmon you can't duplicate the result unless you have the same person with equal talent and being.

[@tthegreattt]

I want to be the very best. I am open to this

[@adamatiyeh8662]

Google: KZbin-Adam Atiyeh man who made To the Top his dating An is about go in deep so tune in to his channel in a week TO THE TOP

[@Vidyut_Gore]

How did your wife take the insight about cynicism?

[@TheTrippnotist]

Vidyut G K She took it just fine (though was surprised).

[@Vidyut_Gore]

Thanks.

[@loveofinquiry8067]

👍

[@sharps8726]

Cynicism is to live a life of virtue so why would you be sick of cynicism ?

[@TheTrippnotist]

I am using the word in it's contemporary form not to refer to the philosophy of the Cynics.

[@TheTrippnotist]

I am using the word in the manner of it's contemporary popular usage rather than to refer to the philosophy of the Cynics.

[@sandymoonstone855]

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[@bebopbountyhead]

So you're simultaneously saying that Erickson didn't give straight answers and that he had an "openness" about him? Not a valid analysis. Perhaps you're just one of their targets: people who are generally suggestible. Sounds like cult leader "charisma" to me.

[@TheTrippnotist]

bebopbountyhead yes I think there is probably a great deal of overlap with ‘cult leader charisma’

[@toobalkain]

nice shirt. Baby snake skins?

[@mirnaiwaza7351]

I am also sick of cynicism!