They’re both so young. They don’t have kids together, a house, cars, etc...just find someone else..not worth it
@mandyyyyyy4 жыл бұрын
Easier said than done until it happens to you tbh
@Summer098244 жыл бұрын
Amanda it has happened to me & when I was young & had no ties to this person outside of the relationship, I wish I would have just moved on & found someone else. There’s sooo many people out there
@Summer098244 жыл бұрын
David Mack I just mean they don’t have many ties together. It’s not like they have kids and a house and own other property together. They don’t have to go through separation, divorce, legally separating assets. They can make a clean break and just start over with someone else.
@Summer098244 жыл бұрын
David Mack yeah course he will be, it’s really messed up but I think they’re both in a position where they can find other people to date (after they process the heartache) idk I spent way too long with someone after they cheated on me when I was younger & really wish I hadn’t. It wasn’t worth all the drama & pain when we could have just moved on as hard as it is at the time. It’s hard to see when you feel like this is “the one” but you’ve got a lifetime to live and another “the one” will come up that’s more suited for you. Just what I think.
@Summer098244 жыл бұрын
David Mack hm yes I see your point & it’s true. Everyone has to do what they feel is right in their situation to live & learn! But I just meant with the material things that it’s a lot harder to be married and/or share assets/property to then have to separate if you get me.
@shoaibkhan-vi8ux4 жыл бұрын
Imagine she is still liking his photos 🤦
@tejaslambade80803 ай бұрын
No remorse
@evanderarcher8223Ай бұрын
Is it a movie or series
@yossyo32264 жыл бұрын
Listen as much as Jamie can’t talk in this situation , u can’t deny that he did give some bloody good advice
@nikkigrey20204 жыл бұрын
Facts
@aminaa70354 жыл бұрын
Fr
@sanjarsocool4 жыл бұрын
@@nikkigrey2020 takes a cheater to know one
@lilJennmanley4 жыл бұрын
"She was the one" and so was tiffany habbs and so on lol
@devanteedwardsss4 жыл бұрын
Don't forget Fran 😂😂😂😂
@lilJennmanley4 жыл бұрын
Oh yh and Fran lmao
@scarfacegaming98484 жыл бұрын
Yeah but every time you get in a relationship you want to believe they’re the one
@dianaosazenaye13134 жыл бұрын
They always the one
@sandorclegane60804 жыл бұрын
He's addicted to love
@AM092864 жыл бұрын
Jamie giving relationship advice is rich 😂 he’s cheated on every girlfriend he’s ever had.
@tessareaston22084 жыл бұрын
he gets his boy back if he can get him away from Zara🤣
@Jess_ica29274 жыл бұрын
He's bang on with this though
@__porter4 жыл бұрын
To be fair that probably makes him the best person to be advising him on a cheater
@ava-tr9nt4 жыл бұрын
thought he was gay wow
@feyrol424 жыл бұрын
@U A so, does Zara get a pass since she’s been cheated on too? There’s no excuse for cheating. Be single and have no strings attached relationships if you’re ‘hurt’.
@h_m_a12324 жыл бұрын
Jamie has cheated countless times. I don't think this is his place to give advice on this.
@letgogleeks4 жыл бұрын
It’s different though because he actually loves and red him
@weepingangel68054 жыл бұрын
On the contrary, I believe it is his place. 1) it’s his best friend. 2) he’s been around the block so many times on this issue (and been on the receiving end) that he knows how this plays out and it only ends one way.
@tomhal75024 жыл бұрын
He’s the ideal person,
@jpai14114 жыл бұрын
Is lucky because habbs don't think like him lool
@okamiwolfee56994 жыл бұрын
I dunno, you can give great advice but not follow it yourself
@juliaparker42124 жыл бұрын
Jamie actually talks so much sense to sam.. thank god he gave the right opinion!
@xxpollypocket4 жыл бұрын
Yeah but he’s a big fat hypocrite, no credibility.
@enadine64054 жыл бұрын
@@xxpollypocket hes a hypocrite but for once he has spoken facts!
@sashanyawalker56844 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm what if Habbs had remembered Jaime's betrayal???😅 Dont get me wrong Zara is a cheater but so is Jaime so I would think he would have a bit more empathy
@flossssssy4 жыл бұрын
Seriously, Jamie has cheated on every girlfriend he’s had 🤣
@noideawhattomakethishandlename4 жыл бұрын
@@flossssssy Jamie wants to seem like the best wing-man yet he’s as slimy as Zara 🤢😂
@mohen29604 жыл бұрын
@David Mack the biscuit man cheated with Rosie
@raquelvasquez20804 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!
@angelajdlf4 жыл бұрын
Empathy from Jamie? Have you ever watch the show? Maybe twice in the whole series I’ve seeing him having empathy
@Celeste-wx8ce4 жыл бұрын
For all it's foibles, I really respect the show and these two men for expressing sensitivity, kindness and vulnerability in this scene, something we rarely see on television. Even if it is a little orchestrated, I think it is important, and will do good.
@Esther-fh4lf4 жыл бұрын
Zara fumbled the bag
@siobhanair26594 жыл бұрын
Big time
@SpitfireMLG4 жыл бұрын
You fumble a ball
@jhart11274 жыл бұрын
@@SpitfireMLG the bag as cash. Her income. A man who comes from money.
@dosman34584 жыл бұрын
@@jhart1127 But Zara has her own income, no? She's at least working. Not sure what it is that Sam does
@shesdiverse58024 жыл бұрын
The bag can also be opportunity. With him she was more than a chick from love island
@Uygjyghg4 жыл бұрын
In these situations I think we all need a friend like Jamie, someone who will remind you of your self worth and what you deserve
@yonchrr Жыл бұрын
Sam forgave her. He is worthless.
@jakejeffery809711 ай бұрын
hes a lying cheating scum bag too u really want advise off someone like that? lol
@nikkigrey20204 жыл бұрын
Regardless Jamie giving advice he’s giving him the truth
@justinesimpson79694 жыл бұрын
Not that it was incorrect advice but it’s hard to take it seriously coming from Jamie who has been given so many passes for cheating and bad behaviour 🤦🏼♀️
@kenrehill87754 жыл бұрын
He gets passes because he’s fucking loaded and girls will always go for the money, they’ll even share for the money.
@Ch7rz4 жыл бұрын
He was bang on tbf
@noway3254 жыл бұрын
He's a better friend than a partner obviously
@sugarush14764 ай бұрын
I've always thought Jamie was one of the least misogynistic of the Chelsea men despite his cheating ways, but this showed that is NOT true. He fucked up multiple times and had others guys backs when they cheated, but when a woman does it it's suddenly all serious faces like she's killed someone, "think about the betrayal", and he can never be friends with her. This was true because Jamie and Sam were close, and now you never see/hear of them together. It's a bit awkward because Sam dated Habbs, but they were even tight after that. It was at this point that they stopped hanging out, which shows Jamie is not better than the other boys really. I watch his KZbin shows religiously, but you never know if the kind/caring Jamie is the real him, or if he's just as bad as Spencer etc deep down.
@chayanacenise2 жыл бұрын
Just reflecting I think the fact that Jamie has cheated so much means that he knows Sam shouldn’t go back to her because it takes a cheater to know a cheater
@raquellennan17604 жыл бұрын
I know Jamie has cheated but I do think that’s a good friend stepping in there. People can change.
@suntan78654 жыл бұрын
Be strong Sam. You have good, loving, support system around you. If she really loved you she would not have done it in the first place let alone kept it from you for this long. She had no respect for you or the relationship. It is how it is.
@sv-bd5em4 жыл бұрын
Leaving Zara was the right choice but it wasn’t Jamie’s place to say that. Sam should’ve made that decision himself and he’s way too easily influenced by Jamie given that it’s the same guy who had no problem dating one of his exes.
@Summer098244 жыл бұрын
Well he did say if you go back I’ll support you & really think about what’s in your heart and what to do..
@sophieeel44782 жыл бұрын
dude so what, if he cheated he would actually be the perf one to give advice
@fikemifemi-fred91762 жыл бұрын
jamie has his fair share, however, without him saying that to Sam, Sam could possibly have gone back. So, kinda just happy He gave that advice. Cheating messes up the victim's sense of trust, and anyone going back in has to forever think that they could do it again if something goes wrong
@georgepostlethwaite98334 жыл бұрын
‘She’s going to cry’ does crying with no tears count ?
@Nadia-wd1gc4 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs a friend like Jamie
@xxMakeupforever12xx4 жыл бұрын
Jamie was the biggest cheat, he can’t really talk
@Nadia-wd1gc4 жыл бұрын
@@xxMakeupforever12xx true! haha but a friend for the right advice sam needs this!
@angelaalex80864 жыл бұрын
Jamie,jamie,jamie 🤦♀️ biggest cheat but wouldn't give a pass to anyone else lol unbelievable 🤭
@goodftoest3 жыл бұрын
Advice was still great tho
@neeshatg49164 жыл бұрын
“She was the one” Sam’s fave quote 😂😂😂
@lightandsymbols11114 жыл бұрын
If Zara slept with a producer was she hoping to sleep her way to fame. Was Sam option 2? The fame game?!? Really?
@omadjourney4 жыл бұрын
But do we know who this consistent shagger producer is... I need to know,no reason but I just have to see who he is.
@zarachoudhury68544 жыл бұрын
@@omadjourney Brahmin fouradi
@omadjourney4 жыл бұрын
@@zarachoudhury6854 thank you,I'll go check him out.
They are back together 😂 after she kept liking his photos... what a shambles
@davrolla4 жыл бұрын
But hold on haven’t they both betrayed women and asked for forgiveness? Relationships are complicated
@jamespeters77074 жыл бұрын
Jamie easily forgets.
@suntan78654 жыл бұрын
You will find someone or they will find you. Patience is virtue Sam. Good things come to those who wait and when you least expect it. Quality time with your family and friends.
@mandyyyyyy4 жыл бұрын
Every situation is different and people cheat for a million reasons.. the only advice that truly counts is do whatever your heart tells you to do. Can’t let people who would cheat for fun give you advice on this... they’re only giving advice from a personal mindset...
@StevenAkamelu4 жыл бұрын
For me whatever the reason cheaters have no excuse idc whatever that reason is
@mandyyyyyy4 жыл бұрын
@@StevenAkamelu I’m just saying advice is unwarranted when it comes down to shit like this.. taking advice from somebody who cheated for fun isn’t necessarily the best idea. Also you can tell Zara loves him to death so it’s more complicated than just... fuck off out of my life. That’s why I meant to say
@ellarose16854 жыл бұрын
But sometimes your heart can tell you to stay in something toxic and you need to let your head take over
@jhart11274 жыл бұрын
He's soooo young and he's honestly addicted to being in a relationship. Why he doesn't wait til he's in his thirties I do not know. Wait til you're 30, find a woman with a bit of sense who's round the same age for God's sake!! 🙄
@tessareaston22084 жыл бұрын
Lol he's closer to 30 than you think. He just acts like a child
@cheyennebritbrat4 жыл бұрын
because it wouldnt make good tv
@abbypengelly14324 жыл бұрын
"I've never cheated in my life" that's what they all say 😂
@elliejanewilliams15724 жыл бұрын
*reads the video title* also me: as he should
@turtletara_4204 жыл бұрын
My heart is broken for Sam, but Jamie is the absolute one person, who doesn't have any right to say shit. After what he did to Habbs last year, he is a total hypocrite for telling Sam to leave Zara. He needs to stay in his own lane. I hope Sam finds the strength to do what's gonna be best for him. He seems like such a nice bloke.
@ms.npritchard Жыл бұрын
you can’t slate jamie for being a cheater when sam is literally a cheater as well. he cheated on tiff many times.
@adamrubinson68753 жыл бұрын
"I hate being alone" is terrible reason to be in a relationship, let alone being in a relationship with someone who deceived you for a whole year. What a weak person.
@ingaju884 жыл бұрын
“Like stepping on a puppy”, but remember.... What a great friend.👌
@AbraarKhan1234 жыл бұрын
This is why people can’t be trusted
@chuck2754 жыл бұрын
The friend seems a very logical and objective person. The other guy is insecure.... "i don't want to be alone" ffs you're young, live your life. And as for "innocent and moral"... Those ppl who bang on about that are the worst
@sophiamahoney45524 жыл бұрын
Listen to Jamie. There is someone out there for you. Your amazing Sam stay strong
@pepperless72184 жыл бұрын
Jamie hypocrite
@mistsrider4 жыл бұрын
always has been
@lyndseydavies98164 жыл бұрын
Sam deserves better she’s a fool to cheat on such a lovely man who deserves the best!
@ava-tr9nt4 жыл бұрын
why is he saying mate every 2 seconds but like “mahyte.”
@Hi-mb1rr4 жыл бұрын
duuddeeee buttt mayttteeee 🤘🏾
@Nova_Shiny4 жыл бұрын
Cuz he's british
@ava-tr9nt4 жыл бұрын
ShinyUmbreon#197 yeah so what... so am i & many others & i don’t do that
@Nova_Shiny4 жыл бұрын
@@ava-tr9nt i say mate a lot in a scentence especially when im aggregated
@rhys49984 жыл бұрын
Because he’s a posh bloke from Chelsea
@sarahlowe88834 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else find Sams voice got significantly less posh during his relationship with Zara? 🤣🤣🤣
@SpitfireMLG4 жыл бұрын
@velveteyes79 hahahahahahah
@InYudeBaybee4 жыл бұрын
They put their posh voices on incredibly didn't you know
@kahsatan4 жыл бұрын
Her Instagram is “me me me”. That’s a no, no, no - major red flag! Dodged a bullet, Sam. Just because it feels good, doesn’t make it right. Stay strong pal.
@mickydooda124 жыл бұрын
He is so broken bless him! I feel for him, you can see it in his face 😔 she obviously isn’t the ONE” if someone does that to you. Simple
@adamburling95512 жыл бұрын
" i can't be alone ".. he doesn't know himself very well that's why.
@tom-tx9md4 жыл бұрын
If he goes back to her he’s a mug
@shelleylynn61764 жыл бұрын
Oh, Sam...I've been where you are. Stay strong. Sending love your way!
@SunnyyScott4 жыл бұрын
Shut your eyes for the first 10 seconds lmao
@Taylor-li9vm4 жыл бұрын
Sam dropped this 👑
@aishaedh56894 жыл бұрын
What Zara did was so wrong and she lied to sam for so long but how has Jamie got a leg to stand on when he’s cheated on every SINGLE one of his girlfriends, even habbs, the fact he can say all that to sam without laughing is insane because he is such a hypocrite
@markadamson21023 жыл бұрын
Remember what they say nice guys finish last... fortunately Sam you're too nice stop being a nice guy!
@jacqueb73954 жыл бұрын
oh Zara....why....why you still likin that boys photos!
@katem864 жыл бұрын
I've been in a similar situation but it went on for 7 years. You will not be able to trust her. Sorry. Dont put yourself through that
@sarimanne62044 жыл бұрын
I don’t watch this show anymore but I’m confused, can someone explain to me how they filmed this in a pandemic?
@seneldeveci8344 жыл бұрын
this show really aggs me out like deffo should be renamed - HYPOCRISY - but i can’t stop watching help🤣🤣
@ellelouise14754 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for Sam ❤️
@lizzy.c.t4073 жыл бұрын
I am just sat here thinking 'Omg Sam is beautiful' 😍
@Over18Mayn4 жыл бұрын
Jamie might be a cheater but I actually think that makes him well placed to give him that advice 🤷🏾♀️ who knows better that a cheater can’t change than a cheater lol
@arwaalmoumen77154 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy how Sam is always the one that gets cheated on not the other way round it’s kinda of sad
@sophiegonzalez1684 жыл бұрын
I’m confused when this is filmed cause Zara only recently has posted a picture with him?
@PixelStacker4 жыл бұрын
Jamie has cheated countless times. I don't think this is his place to give advice on this. right
@Ancasterboy6 ай бұрын
What a great friend, solid advice
@MillerTheOriginal2 ай бұрын
Didnt know she still liked his photos. Can't beleive he took her back. She WILL do it again if not already
@MiniMissTerrah4 жыл бұрын
Jamie is so unqualified to give advice about cheating 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@sanaa73 жыл бұрын
Did Jamie think of any of the things coming out of his mouth when he cheated on pretty much every person he's been with? I doubt it.
@michelleroche1874 жыл бұрын
He is definitely going to pork Tiff now. Out of the frying pan into the fire 🤣 .
@DS-zx6tl4 жыл бұрын
I wonder what Jamie would say if Habbs (or any of his ex’s) mates gave them that advice when he cheated. Something along the lines of how dare you, it’s non of your business, please forgive me...
@SpitfireMLG2 жыл бұрын
Fast forward 1 year: He didn’t leave her lol
@emilyvfletcher95194 жыл бұрын
He is so young! A lot going for him. Have fun, and settle down in 30s/40s.
@shannonmasters36924 жыл бұрын
I'd never cheat on you Sam 🥺
@mr._unchained3 жыл бұрын
Yea right
@ryanc12154 жыл бұрын
0:51 and 2:02 magic necklace. Sam should use that magic to go back in time and not settle down with Zara.
@thewess26 Жыл бұрын
Nah, NO WAY! If she is still liking his photos she's still interested in him and is still contacting him. Sorry But THAT right there plus the lying about it WHILE accusing him of having feelings for Tiff is CRAZY, and would be the end for me personally. Chances are she would cheat again at some point.
@kettycabrera82134 жыл бұрын
I also thought she was the one but then she became more and more dramatic, now we know why.
@louisgreen39154 жыл бұрын
The title of this one made me "CRY WITH LAUGHTER". Someone that I never heard of, tells another person (that I never heard of) to leave a (yet another person that I never heard of) alone. Well!...Thank you so much for letting me know. My life is now complete.
@TizzyTillyTicks4 жыл бұрын
yet you took the time to click and also write this comment. obviously you have a lot of free time
@louisgreen39154 жыл бұрын
@@TizzyTillyTicks Anyone writing comments has a lot of free time. Aaaaaghh there goes another 10 seconds. My point is, It's not often that I laugh so much that I end up in tears, but everyone's humour is different I guess.
@step96243 ай бұрын
That’s very ironic coming from him 😂 how can he be talking to him about betrayal lol
@Elmerphant3 жыл бұрын
Jamie is wise. Sam sending you mad love dude. He's so cute. I hope he finds a good woman.
@prahasiniselvakumar71104 жыл бұрын
Jamie is highly intelligent he has common sense
@mmblue39863 жыл бұрын
Poor guy... I will never understand human nature to throw away love. He deserves better.
@freedomlightss4 жыл бұрын
Good advice!
@axzx80005 ай бұрын
It's beyond me how Sam was smashing Habs and now Jamie's marrying that 🤣
@MJforever127i4 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha Jamie can talk!
@TatianaND4 жыл бұрын
Jamieeeeee knows all the excuses that cheaters give 😏. As for her liking mans picture - the audacity 🤯 and then making cringe Instagram posts and crying . Sis sis sis other men would have dealt with you differently. Please just go sit somewhere quietly and wait for 2020 to be over like the rest of us are doing sis 😂😂😂
@olgae95484 жыл бұрын
This!! 🤣👏🏼
@aishablack24264 жыл бұрын
😆😂
@msrita4 жыл бұрын
The acting 😆😅🤣
@AprilRubyB4 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else notice Sam’s necklace disappear half way through the first scene lol
@naomil38864 жыл бұрын
Jaime is a cheater too , and Habbs gave him a chance so who the hell is he to talk ?
@helenholmes35304 жыл бұрын
People in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. I love Sam but he needs to remember what he has done in the past, not a saint! Now Jamie, he can talk - come on boys grow up a bit, everyone makes mistakes and this was at the beginning of the relationship. I think Sam is an idiot, not working through it and finding out why, just saying. Serves him right if she is snapped up pretty soon. Isn't it amazing how their morals are so high and mighty.
@1st_b4 жыл бұрын
Whoever considers snapping her up is a fool. She’s not worthy of commitment, clearly.
@inty20052 ай бұрын
Giving advice like a wiseman to other is an easy thing, when they encounter same situation like him then they will know, cheating are the most worst thing in relatiionship and it is not compromisable in any condition otherwise it eill ruined the internal peace completely.
@milvache4 жыл бұрын
Jaime is right. Sam should leave Zara McDermott. She betrayed him and cheated on him. She has played the victim card for the last time.
@kikidomain80904 жыл бұрын
That’s a good friend I’d tell my friend the same
@maxfitnesstraining15854 жыл бұрын
LOL Oh please, Jaime is the last person to take advice from
@lili-jv9ku Жыл бұрын
Zara traumatized him so bad. She never loved him. She deserves to be alone with no men
@JennyInTokyo4 жыл бұрын
I know Sam has been a shitty partner to his girlfriends in his past, but no one deserves to be cheated on like he has.
@siennamay32814 жыл бұрын
TBH I think it's dangerous to take advice from Jamie. I have a feeling he would always say to 'leave them', even if it's a situation that's fixable. (I do agree in this situation though, as I don't think Zara & Sam are compatible. From what I've seen of them anyway.)
@davidlawson33184 жыл бұрын
Jamie did the same thing to girls.
@dannni17x11 ай бұрын
Bit rich coming from Jamie to give relationship advice wonder if he told himself that when he was cheating non stop!
@jazzynanlohy72893 жыл бұрын
Jamie was best friend ever
@tessareaston22084 жыл бұрын
These two make me laugh. They could barely keep a straight face through this. Bet They both were high fiving getting rid of her annoying arse and getting Sam off the hook of having to just dump her because he wants to get back to ho'ing around
@triantamallis55674 жыл бұрын
Jamie is emotionally underdone, he just wants his mate back. who would listen to him. Their problem is between them. No matter what, if they need to find forgiveness. Not forgiving it like taking poison and expecting the other person to die. Would Zara forgive Sam, if the same were to happen, could this make their relationship stronger, and open up lines of communication. It happened early in the relationship, in troubled times, that does give it a different complexion. A simple my heart and ego is hurt does not mean that you throw away something worth having. Many relationships face bigger things and fail.
@hollykarimi6173 жыл бұрын
Everyone saying to get over it, if it was the other way round everyone would be trashing Sam and supporting zara, he was obviously heartbroken and was going through a hard time
@mandoza994 жыл бұрын
Jamie knows what she would say cos he done the dirty so many times himself! The cheek of him, it's a pity their relationship has down down the pan but onwards on upwards for Sam, hopefully he remembers this so he never treats his future GF the same