Jammidodger Doesn't Understand Peak Trans

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00:00 Introduction
00:43 Nonsense
02:36 Defining Terms
10:57 TWAW
19:49 Sexism
22:42 Ignorance
26:11 Science
28:20 "Transphobia"
35:59 Gender Stereotypes
39:46 Transing Kids
43:33 Closing Thoughts

[@CaraHTheRealCie]

I was a wokescold. The first thing to shake me out of wokeness was the "non-men" nonsense. Women are non-men? Really? Then I noticed that TRAs were always insisting that "transwomen are women" but no-one was insisting that "transmen are men." I've been around a while and have always been sympathetic towards people with gender dysphoria. However, in the past, nobody said that people literally changed sex. Everyone knew that didn't happen. The idea is crazy. Next, I noticed that words to describe female anatomy and health conditions, i.e. vagina, uterus, pregnancy were considered "violence against transwomen." Nobody was making the claim that words like penis, scrotum, or prostate were "violence against transmen." Next, the word woman itself was being erased. Women were now "menstruators," vagina-havers," or "birthing parents," or some other such nonsense. Yet men were still men, not sperm-producers or penis-havers. I think the final straw was the insistence that those of us who expressed concern about children and adolescents being given puberty blockers, cross-sex hormones and surgery to remove healthy body parts were "transphobic." By that point, I went full Terven. I don't hate transsexuals. I believe they are entitled to the same rights and protections as other human beings. I don't see where it's "wrong" to realize that transwomen are biological males who have undergone certain procedures to take on a feminine appearance and transmen are biological males who have undergone procedures in order to have a more masculine appearance. In fact, it is necessary for medical professionals to know a person's biological sex. There are certain medications that can be helpful in one sex but harmful in the other, medicine dosages can be different in males and females, and if medical professionals are unaware of a person's biological sex, they may not check for certain conditions (such as potential pregnancy in a transman). Things have really gone off the rails. Denying reality is hurting gender-dysphoric adolescents, women, and transsexuals who just want to live their lives in peace. It's time to apply the brakes to this trend of denying reality and get back to a modicum of sensibility.

[@hope-cat4894]

The removal of female awards is also looking depressing. If you remove the categories 'Male and Female', then it will be only one category that males might win mostly, and if you keep the two categories but still remove the genders, two males still might win both awards. Women might not get a fair chance.

[@c1rcl3s]

The misogyny is what peaked me

[@nicolebell5556]

For me, it was the homophobia. I saw the misogyny after my eyes had been opened and now I can't believe I fell for it.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

My peak trans was two fold, by the same guy. He posted on Facebook about how he now has a vagina (peak 1). And then he posted about how he went to the gynecologist office and had a laugh at the expense of the nurse who didn't understand when he answered "never had one" to her question "when was your last menstruation?" So hilarious! It sometimes takes months to get an appointment with the gyno but this guy took up a spot a woman could have had and had a little laugh about it. I peak every day now.

[@lidahall5928]

Wow...

[@sxylxrr]

so because he had a vagina and therefore still needed to see a doctor he shouldn't have because hes trans? your transphobia is showing.

[@rickytikitavi4101]

He doesn't have a vagina though. He has an inverted skin pocket inside his body which functions nothing like a real vagina. What would the gyno even check for? It's a completely different organ.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Oddly enough, Katy Montgomerie made the exact same argument.

[@boredshrimp9425]

@@sxylxrr he doesn't have a vagina

[@XxYwise]

My peak trans moment: when it was transplained to me that XXY guys like me are members of a non-binary sex. I gently but firmly corrected them, pointing them toward resources that would explain the biological facts, not to mention why hermaphrodite, third-sex, etc. are actually offensively othering to many if not most of us. Since one sex or the other always wins out in a mutually antagonist battle for dominance, the truth is that: 👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻 Intersex men are men and intersex women are women. 👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻

[@manymoonsahead]

Facts! I really wish intersex wasn't included in that umbrella.

[@Jinnyfir]

I love your username

[@balalaika852]

I've had someone explain to me that my PCOS made me intersex XD

[@Jinnyfir]

@@balalaika852 WHAT???? PCOS messes with testosterone and estrogen levels but what that person said was... special.

[@sl33ptilldawn]

Jam doesn't want to attempt to understand Gender Critical. This is why debating someone like this wouldn't work. My peak trans moment was when they were worming their way into lesbianism.

[@palebluedot5773]

The awkward laughter and the defensiveness seems to indicate that Jami is experiencing cognitive dissonance and is very uncomfortable with it.

[@lungisangapi6009]

I'm a man who got peaked when i saw the violence and misogyny that was directed at Kathleen Stock during a debate at Cambridge Union then i watched the Oxford Union debate and when i saw how calm and measured her arguments were vs the emotional extraordinary claims of gender-identity-activists the whole house of cards came tumbling down.

[@patriciag6030]

My peak trans moment was way back in 2014 when my college LGBT society allowed a totally non-passing trans woman to come into a lesbian only discussion group and he dominated the entire conversation and told us that trans women are better feminists than "cis" women because they understand misogyny better. All the other women were too shocked to argue against him and anyway he was very intimidating and probably would have shouted us down but as soon as he left the room we laughed and agreed that it was completely absurd. I knew then that it would only get worse if we didn't stand up to it but unfortunately others at the time didn't believe me. And here we are in 2022 and it is worse than even I could have imagined.

[@istandwithjkrowling3098]

It's a bit hard for me to pin point my peak trans moment in one specific event, but here's one thing that lead me to peaking. So, I've been against female beauty standards for a long time especially when it comes to cosmetic surgery. Women are constantly hypersexualised in media and it makes me sad when I see women with perfectly normal bodies getting breast implants to appeal to the male gaze. When discussing this topic online someone says something along the lines of "but what about transwomen? Surely, they have a reason to get implants. It's healthcare." And this really weirded me out. Since when is getting fake boobs "healthcare" for anyone? Why does womanhood necessitate having large breasts? I say this as a woman who is flat-chested. I have never in my life felt I needed largers breasts to "validate my womanhood" and the idea that any man would is offensive as hell. My feminism has always been about normalising the natural bodies of women. Women are empowered when they're aren't constantly worrying about their physical appearance. And a bunch of men are claiming that they'll never be happy unless they get surgery for fake boobs. How is that feminist? Why can't I tell them to love themselves as they are in the same way I'd tell any real woman? There's something else going on here. Something ... fetishistic.

[@bunnykatzen]

I think it's fair to tell anyone that they can love themselves as they are. I'm looking into transgender issues and the like, and I've been seeing a few people starting to say you don't have to change your physical self to be yourself. So what I'm trying to say is that you shouldn't be attacked for that sentiment. It takes a lot of strength to love yourself as you are, especially when we're constantly bombarded by the media telling us we can be better if we do "this" and buy "that."

[@istandwithjkrowling3098]

@@the.meandering Yeah exactly. If transitioning was merely about "looking like a woman" they'd be content with being average looking women, but so many of them are fixated on looking like supermodels and barbie dolls.

[@helendancelot]

@@the.meandering I have been enjoying watching films and programmes from the 70s, before plastic breasts became a thing. So many of the women have small natural breasts which do not require a bra and yet they are presented as highly attractive.

[@bastetowl3258]

some trans identified males are already trying to justify plastic surgery for themselves by saying plastic surgery is gender affirming for "cis women", too. they just can't imagine that other ppl don't have gender identities, and they can't relate to the misogynistic societal pressure women face to conform to beauty standards. actual women don't need plastic surgery to be women and feel secure in their womanhood

[@ipercalisse579]

Once you see it you never stop seeing it

[@_sofie]

I have seen every single Posie Parker livestream and I have never ever heard her say anything “anti feminist”. She’s a true feminist in my opinion, she’s trying to protect females and children.

[@Takiki]

She said countless times she is not a feminist. She is a womens rights campaigner. She has friends from the second wave, she agrees with many of their ideas I feel like, but she doesn’t agree with the modern / libfems at all

[@dylangarcia3898]

You know she is a white supremacist right

[@annabizaro-doo-dah]

To be fair she herself claims not to be a feminist. Probably be ause she feels third wave feminists have properly let the side down!

[@jackmunch6978]

A fellow biological man wasting my time on a dating app. Chatting with me for a month or so. Then saying “I don’t feel like it matters”. It does matter, I eat tacos 🌮, not hot dogs 🌭 ❌.

[@deufoicinkdix]

Did I ever peak or did I become some sort of gender alpinist, an extreme adventurer who reaches new heights every day?

[@transwomenaremale]

I’m a woman - I got peaked when I saw the hate and threats that were being lobbed at JKR simply because she questioned the wisdom of allowing males to identify into women’s spaces. I realized then that such aggressive males absolutely do not belong in women’s restrooms.

[@dante6985]

That's similar to how I peaked. No one could answer "what aspect, grounded in material reality, do trans women share with cis women to make them *both* women? I never got an answer besides "they both identify as women". Cue the attack helicopter meme, unfortunately.

[@transwomenaremale]

@@dante6985 I think the worst part is that IN SPITE OF their non-definition they continue to insist that “transwomen are women”, and expect us to just say “Oh my bad, you’re totes right” or something. Jammi is one of the worst offenders. It’s like she honestly thinks we’re dumb enough to just accept her nasal “transwomen ahhhhhhh women” at face value right after she provided an illogical, meaningless, intangible, circular ass non-definition of the word in question.

[@dante6985]

@@transwomenaremale and I get that gender theory is making the term "women" ideological, but even in an ideological sense the phrase doesn't make sense to me. E.g. Both Catholics and Protestants identify as Christians (an ideology). Christians believe Jesus Christ died on the cross for man's sins. Vs. Both 'cis' and trans women identify as women. Women are ??? (would love to hear a non-circular answer here).

[@Raven_Fable]

@@transwomenaremale he

[@transwomenaremale]

@@Raven_Fable She

[@opiumbrella3351]

my peak was wheni had to point sexual coersion and homophobia was wrong, to two trans identified males who called themsleves lesbians, ganging up on, and shaming an actual lesbian who answered a question they asked as polite as she could. and then getting open threats of rape and violence , and being the one, along with the lesbian who respectfully said she wouldnt feel comfortable sleeping with a male bodied person, kicked out of the group. where after that the constant rape and death threats to my inbox from strange trans identified males lasted for weeks i actually had to file a criminal report.

[@SubliminalLv7]

I’m so sorry you had to go through that! That sounds horrifying. I hope you’re not having to deal with it still xx

[@leafleafleaf9272]

I remember years back when Riley Dennis did that whole genital preference video, and it felt like everyone was in agreement it was pretty much the worst thing on KZbin. It’s been strange seeing how that attitude has become more commonplace nowadays

[@daraorourke5798]

So the mask slips to reveal something nasty lurking beneath

[@yarajoan841]

Wow crazy … the irony of rape and violence threats 🥲 how womanly of them l🙄

[@edibletom1016]

For me it was seeing a twitter post stating that gay men refusing to date trans men is transphobic and misogynistic - then experiencing dogpiling and being unfollowed by 600 people for tweeting my response to it. I didn’t start getting fully involved until I heard the word “woman” had been replaced in a maternity bill - then I knew it had gone too far.

[@one-eyedghoul7542]

Do I even want to know about dogpilling

[@kelseymathias3881]

@@one-eyedghoul7542 not to worry: Dog-piling, or a dog-pile is a form of online harassment or online abuse. Examples of online abuse include flaming, doxing, impersonation, and public shaming. Wikipedia

[@gamer1X12]

How is it misogyny if they're not women? Morons 😂

[@kornelijastipcevic6511]

Just a little lesbian with so much internalized homophobia. It always makes me sad. I can't believe someone built their whole identity and life around this

[@johannamiller527]

I don't know if it counts as a "peak trans" moment, but the moment the gender-identity ideology started to fall apart for me was when a friend's adult child came out as a transman. My friend loves her child very much, but she was thrown for a loop by the transition, and she was still figuring out how to think about it and talk about it, so she kept referring to her child as "my daughter." At the time, I was all-in on the gender-identity doctrine, and I came embarrassingly close to correcting her - "This person is your son, and he has always been your son, even if you didn't realize it" - when I realized that that would be precisely the wrong thing to say. And it hit me that any ideology that would criticize a mother for saying "my daughter" to refer to someone she'd always known as her daughter is not, in fact, the kind, compassionate, inclusive approach it makes itself out to be. It took me a little longer to discover the gender-critical movement, but once I'd seen that the gender identity crowd's inclusiveness didn't extend to everyone, it became a lot easier to see that there was another whole side to the story.

[@knucklejoe26]

You mean that instead of telling the mother to accept her childs identity, you somehow believed it best that she instead keep referring to her child as something he does not want to be referred to as?

[@lightshiner792]

@@knucklejoe26 Yes, they mean that the mother was not obligated to play make believe for the sake of a full grown adult. Glad you understand.

[@knucklejoe26]

@@lightshiner792 Ah yes "make believe". No wonder the mother likely doesn't have much of a relationship with her kid anymore.

[@exquisitebiscuit]

@@knucklejoe26 wow. you are cruel. Cults socially isolate their members by severing emotional ties to their "former" lives/selves. It's part of the brainwashing. So do abusers. You just made the case that trans is nothing more than an abusive cult.

[@mandy3404]

My peak trans moment was when I agreed to host a party for same sex attracted women. then they wanted a pronoun circle and 80% of the people there were they/them.

[@sxylxrr]

and? someone else's pronouns have no affect on you

[@knucklejoe26]

@@the.meandering No they don't.

[@english3082]

@@sxylxrr but it's an stupidity

[@pythonjava6228]

It makes me really uncomfortable that some women feel like theie sexuality yeets them out of womanhood. I thought we'd gotten past that sort of sexism

[@laurenjones2909]

😂😂 love that mandy ! It's so hard to find lesbian women!!

[@leica0000]

"Posie Parker, who had a different name or something?" I'm guessing 'Jammiedodger' isn't what's on Jam's drivers license...

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

@@the.meandering huh? Lots of people use different names.

[@leica0000]

@@the.meandering Vegans often suffer from irony deficiency

[@leica0000]

@nono meme I’m sorry you didn’t get the quip. Someone using a pseudonym having a dig at someone who uses a pseudonym is ironic. Does that make sense now?

[@douglasfreeman3229]

@@leica0000 Is this irony? I can't tell. I am a Vegan and I have no sense of irony.

[@blotski]

It's hard to know what the Peak Trans moment was. It was gradual but I honestly did start off as a supporter of trans rights. I suppose it was realising that by 'transwomen are women' they didn't mean they need to be allowed to live as women but 'no, really, we literally are women'. This of course involves binning biology, joining the loony conspiracy theory world of treating science as though it was a political opinion and an utterly misogynistic erasure of the definition of woman. Then it was finding out most transwomen still have penises and intend to keep them and many of them are sexually attracted to women. So they have adult penises and want to have sex with biological women but still are totally women and don't see any problem with going into a female changing room with their female loving penises. Eventually, it all fell apart. The final nail in the coffin was personal knowledge of a married couple who split up when the husband came out as trans but kept his penis because he still wants to have sex with women. He's not attracted to men. Particularly pissed off with a couple of female friends who thought her not wanting to have sex with him anymore was not showing enough support for him at this brave and difficult time for him. He was happy with his new persona, she was devastated as her world fell apart but of course transwomen are always, always the victims. As a lefty I also blame them for trashing liberal politics, sending many of my fellow lefties into a cult like lunacy or making them too terrified to say what they really think. It's making left wing politics look more and more irrelevant to the general population.

[@Raven_Fable]

Hope you change your mind back. We trans are not crazy we just want to be treated humanely

[@user-rl3io8nj6t]

You also want to engage in cultural appropriation of the Englishlanguage.

[@Jamie-bu9cq]

Peak trans moment: learning about the "cotton ceiling." Up to that point, I thought I was dealing with women. But I've only ever observed men being so insensitive about getting sex. Things fell apart after that.

[@nereti1303]

same here

[@ellicadiu6410]

Same after I watched a Magdalen Berns video on that very topic.

[@daraorourke5798]

Magdalens dissection of a Riley J Dennis video. The one where he says 'genital preference ' is transphobic. She nailed it.

[@MK_ULTRA420]

"I'm a girl now why won't you mate with me?"

[@transwomenaremale]

Precisely - they revealed themselves as snakes in the grass when they began pressuring lesbians into sex. They proved the theory that they’re just incels who are so desperate for sex that they’re willing to pretend to be women in order to go after lesbians. Why else would 60% of transwomen identify as “lesbians” when only 1% of real women are lesbian? It’s because they’re literally just straight men in costume!

[@lyssadobbins7209]

My peak trans moment was seeing Kellie Jays interview on triggernometry

[@hammylions2569]

They really did not treat her fairly at all. But fawned over India in his interview.

[@catwoman7462]

@@hammylions2569 I think they've changed since then. She's been on since that first time and it was a much better interview.

[@nancyok]

I hit peak trans when I was a member of a group for a uterine disease that made a 'transwoman' with no medical background an admin for our group. I questioned why someone that cannot experience our illness now has a position of power over women that are being very vulnerable. I was dogpiled and called an uncaring bigot and a terf, I left the group, got re-added, and told I needed to "own up to my hate and say sorry to the new admin for making her feel bad". I told them that I felt bad cause I'm suffering from a debilitating illness that [admin name] cant even understand the pain of and left the group while blocking the person I was 'friends' with that had re-added me in the first place. Before that I was a huge libfem.

[@lidahall5928]

Ghastly...

[@olgaradulovic7684]

I'm so sorry. Libfem groups can be incredibly bullying and manipulative. It's the holier than thou attitude with pink glitter on it. Hugs to you.

[@cakeface8414]

No way!! 😱 what is actually going on in people’s heads?!!

[@jupiterisaak1004]

That is just insane. The lengths lib fem’s will go to coddle these men is unreal. They obviously really enjoy throwing women under the bus to show how “woke” they are. It’s actually pathetic

[@jaiafrica6112]

Just another example of women being desperate for male approval.

[@user-nr6po6cy9s]

Ok, the non binary comment had my dying 😂 I go to an art school, and MULTIPLE TIMES a girl has spoken up in class when we’re discussing women’s experiences but always has to preface it by telling everyone she is “non-binary” and therefor actually CAN’T comment on the experiences of women but is going to anyway. 🤦🏼‍♀️ To quote 2009, “I can’t even”

[@lidahall5928]

Yeah! That's some real cognitive dissonance, isn't it? "I'm nonbinary, but..."!

[@leafleafleaf9272]

It’s funny cause I’ve only ever seen ppl say they are non-binary online, so it just gives the impression that in real life, they preface everything they say with “as a non-binary transmasc person”

[@user-nr6po6cy9s]

@@leafleafleaf9272 They do that irl at my school so it makes me wonder if they do that outside of it looool

[@lidahall5928]

@@leafleafleaf9272 Oh, they really _do_ exist in the wild as well...

[@helendancelot]

I don't quite understand this!

[@ojyochan]

Hearing about the cotton ceiling peaked me once, seeing men and boys get to compete with women and girls peaked me again.

[@leafleafleaf9272]

It’s like there isn’t a peak it just keeps going. Like, why is is so important to think transwomen are women and female, when both those words mean seemingly nothing nowadays. WTF

[@lightshiner792]

For me, it was when a cohort at my work place had her name and work removed from a public product because it came out that she DARED say that trans women are not women.

[@SubliminalLv7]

The unwarranted attacks toward JK Rowling by TRAs set me on my way, but it was finding Magdalen Berns’s videos that peaked me. Sadly, it was after she had already passed. She was a treasure and unapologetic in her fight for continued women’s rights and spaces.

[@sachikawaii]

Oh no I’ve stumbled upon a group of your type of people lmao. Trans people aren’t touching anyone else’s freedom, they just wanna exist and not be murdered for it, is that so hard to understand??

[@SubliminalLv7]

@@sachikawaii Is this sarcasm? If not, then you didn’t “stumble” in here. Everything from looking through comments and choosing to reply was deliberate. But, like the TRAs love doing, you’re trying to change meaning of words to fit your narrative. They ARE living their lives, and labeling everything not centered on them as transphobic. I’m not going to debate with you. I’ll bring facts and you’ll bring fiction. It’s not worth the time the conversation would be. You can “stumble” right back out.

[@sachikawaii]

@@SubliminalLv7 no I’m genuinely curious, is it just because they chose to live differently or is it deeper set? I actually would like to know where you’re coming from because I just don’t understand feeling afraid of someone just living their lives. I am also on the outside of the trans community as I’m cisgender but all I see is people wanting to pee comfortably and live happily.

[@hotrightnow8932]

She was a horrible person that had no argument. I am too sad she had to die so young but she was not a hero. Just completely uneducated.

[@SubliminalLv7]

@@hotrightnow8932 When the trans community says zero to speak up and out about the supposed only “14 year olds” that are attacking everyone and sending death threats and rape threats, they’re complicit.

[@lexo3121]

‘gender identity and birth sex are different things’ ‘unicorns and horses are different things’

[@jayjaydubful]

Brilliant

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

LMAO

[@sxylxrr]

I mean science has literally proven sex and gender are separate things

[@jayjaydubful]

@@sxylxrr yeah. In the same way unicorns and horses are separate things.

[@lexo3121]

@@sxylxrr what has science proven about gender?

[@consciousiota2161]

My peak trans moment was seeing FTMs get pregnant and call themselves “pregnant men” and thinking about how confused their children would be when they learn that their fathers are actually their mothers.

[@leafleafleaf9272]

I guess my peak trans would be learning about all the homophobia. Don’t even get me started on it.

[@zhawkmoth3653]

This was mine too... the "genital preference" thing and attack on lesbians/cotton ceiling made me heel turn.

[@littletree1343]

@@zhawkmoth3653 the phrase "cotton ceiling" sounds really rapey to me

[@seto749]

@@zhawkmoth3653 At least in the beginning, it was harder on gays. The earliest trans discussion allowed lesbians an exception; it was okay not to want to boink trans women if someone had been traumatized by a person with male-coded genitalia. But any men not wanting to boink trans men with female-coded genitalia were automatically slapped with the scarlet B.

[@Takiki]

🤯 I just realized what the expression “cotton ceiling” is. It’s like a mockery of the expression the glass ceiling that women experience. Cotton ceiling that these men claim they experience refers to panties that women refuse to take off as they realize these men are not women, men see the panties as a physical barrier to getting what they want in that moment🤢, they don’t care about the woman herself. They blame the woman because shes transphobic. Indeed, very rapey And very homophobic, it’s like these men don’t acknowledge homosexuality exists at all, and all they care about is themselves only, and everyone who does not give them what they want is the evil one😬 I keep peak transing everyday, it’s awesome

[@hereforit2]

6:30 This! Peak Trans is the biggest evidence, we didn't come from a place of hatred. We started from a place of neutrality or even acceptance (in my case) and then we realized that accepting the concept of gender is actually perpetuating harmful stereotypes and is directly opposed to everything feminism fought for.

[@q0dis]

Same, i was very supporting of trans rights, i used to call woman ''transphobes'' a few times no longer than 3 years ago on arguments online, then I started running a group of FB of all girls, suddenly i was friends with a bunch of rads and woman (it was mostly lgbtq people before) and then one day friend told me ''what does it feels to be a woman'' and I started to question and everything made sense lol, because I too suffer from dysphoria but gender expectancies were something that since I remember felt off with, I was neither feminine nor masculine. I even nitpicked words i will use to defend my now gender critical views in order not to be seen as transphobe myself by other friends from the community. Once I started seeing that no matter how nice I am, how educated, they will probably just discard what I have to say, they will call me a bigot either way, so I stopped caring more now even tho I still don't like to insult trans people like I've seen some woman do. Just out of respect. Right now I even question if transphobia is even real (as misandry that I used to think it was something real lol but now I think is a lie made by dudes hurt that there isn't a system to press them and they need to come up with something to feel bad for expressing our concerns and fears)

[@titansammy1825]

all our experiences are so same lol

[@user-yy5di3qg5u]

@@q0dis But women can despise or feel aversion against men - but it can be a response for thousand years of women's suffering by men.

[@SidBlackheart]

My IQ drops every time Jammidodger utters a word.

[@palebluedot5773]

I wonder if there are any good peer reviewed studies on the effects of testosterone on cognitive abilities.

[@coolcat6341]

He is a silly girl

[@levans2693]

Not so fun fact Jammidodger is a Doctor of Philosophy Department of Psychology.Jammidodger has a PhD. The thesis is online. Granted in 2021. Being Transgender: Effects of Behaviour, Arousal and Wellbeing. It is mentioned by Jammidodger in some videos. I didn't believe it but it's true.

[@SidBlackheart]

@@levans2693 Well, there is a silver lining here: if such a dunce can get a PhD, so can I, I guess.

[@levans2693]

@@SidBlackheart I was thinking the same.

[@davidkennerly]

Jammi has a DOCTORATE in psychology?! I have heard him say NOTHING which gives a hint at any level of advanced education, let alone a PhD.

[@rhymerlegend2717]

Exactly

[@_sofie]

Watch the podcast (not Corey’s podcast which is also awful) where Jamie talks about his/her thesis on trans people and sex if you wanna cringe your heart out. Jamie doesn’t even know wth the thesis is about.

[@lithelily]

They never really put forward any argument. Just call people names and get mad. It's so transparent.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

"Transparent" also a show about a trans parent

[@heatherwilliamsbuell3232]

My peak trans moment was two things. Bio men claiming they get their period, and the transing of children. With the period thing, I just can't support utter stupidity, and nonsensical claims. I also will never be on board with harming innocent children.

[@olgaradulovic7684]

You're a brave man, off into the vast wasteland of Jammi cringe.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

All of her content, like Samantha Lux, is making distressed faces and complaining about transphobia. There's no actual content. No legitimate reactions with evidence. It's just her and her shit hair cut going, "That's transphobic!"

[@patty1181]

@@blacktigerpaw1 *his

[@blacktigerpaw1]

@@patty1181 Jammi is biologically female.

[@patty1181]

@@blacktigerpaw1 so what? He is a man, and is referred to with male pronouns

[@knucklejoe26]

@@blacktigerpaw1 Okay so you're just actively trying to be a prick good to know.

[@forelithe]

reality is transphobic

[@patty1181]

So we have to change it!

[@agathatrunchbull7524]

I used to think I was a "trans man," and I used to watch "trans man" youtubers similar to Jammi Dodger. Then someone asked me: if you don't feel like a woman, does that mean all women feel the same? I couldn't find a non-sexist way to answer that question. I had this view of myself as one of "the good men," chivalrous, better than "cis men" because I could relate to women, having "lived as" one. I couldn't reconcile my "good man" identity with this obviously sexist belief that I apparently held. The whole ideology fell apart fast.

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

ok so you are just a transphobe then. i mean,you are now just saying trans men as if they aren't transgender men

[@MilwaukeeWoman]

@@dontspikemydrink9382 at this point I don't care about being called a transphobe anymore since you didn't even deal with the argument you just went to calling names. Were you really triggered by quotation marks? Argue the point. Do you think all women feel the same?

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

@@MilwaukeeWoman no i won't.

[@CG-fy9jz]

I find all of this so confusing. I don't feel like a woman - I am a woman because I have a vagina and boobs, glossy hair, no body hair and I don't have a penis. My personality is a lot more complicated than all of that and that is who I am (my identify).

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

@@CG-fy9jz you are a woman because you feel like you are. you are cisgender

[@spacecase7566]

My peak moment was hearing all the racism and homophobia. "G3nital preferences are transphobic" creeped me out. "If black women are women then tw...” and "mouthfeel / ladydique" rhetoric was peaking. Magdalen solidified my position. RIP. The Vancouver rape relief centre set that in stone.

[@Geminisparkles]

Im a detrans but I didnt reach peak trana til I watched a Vladimir video (a guy dresses a woman with filters and pranks peoplw in the vids) and trans women in the comments started to say every guy is secretly attracted to them or secretly bi. They said they look more like women than real women. I just realized how much they don't think like women. They are like men in that they only see the pretty girl experience and not the realities of fat, old or lesbian women. It's insane, looking like a twitch e-girl with 10lbs of makeup on and filters doesnt make you more of a woman than a young woman with no makeup on. Another point us when I watched a vid on uterus tranaplants and trans women were wanting them real womenover with cancer or fertility issues. They alao didnt care that people have to die ti make these tranaplant happen. It's me me me .

[@gck9237]

Oh and my peak trans moment was clicking on a Magdalen Berns video. Bless her soul forever.

[@SubliminalLv7]

And ever and ever! 🙌🏻 She’s the one that opened my eyes to the nature of what was really happening to women and women’s spaces! Grateful for her, and her words, always.

[@nolanolivier6791]

Totally agree, her work had a profound influence on my understanding of feminism...

[@boredshrimp9425]

@@nolanolivier6791 same, I miss her

[@georgejuravlel1352]

I like some of her videos

[@grimaceschaos3148]

I think my trans peak moment came and went a few times. I was always brought up to accept people for their differences. My mother instilled this in us because her family was very racist against certain groups and she wanted different for her children. Being part of the LGBT community I also felt at first like how could I go against people in my own community, that would be completely hypocritical. I did however keep up with the agenda of genderists just to see how far it would go. When the whole trans women get period too and trans women are just women I began to have a problem that was my first big peak. I would go back and forth because my upbringing would cause guilt so I would go back to be accepting or at least question if my discomfort was actual bigotry. My last and final peak I think was just seeing not only the entitlement of trans” women “ thinking they has the right to go into women’s private secure spaces but the misogynistic way in which they were speaking to women who were only sharing their realistic concerns. Not just that but being part of the LGB community and seeing it’s erasure of lesbians, gays, and even bisexuals at times sexualities has caused me to peak for the last and final time.

[@milquetoaste7144]

Cotton ceiling and Jockstrap ceiling peaked the absolute fuck out of me. Tag-team effort. I was super supportive of trans everything before it all turned into a rapey homophobic shitshow for us gays.

[@zhawkmoth3653]

The male equivalent is "jockstrap" ceiling? Interesting. Your experience is what peaked me too.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

@@zhawkmoth3653 i thought it was the boxer ceiling

[@leafleafleaf9272]

If there’s one thing that going to get some of these ppl to see sense, it’s the abuse towards gay men and lesbians

[@lightshiner792]

@@leafleafleaf9272 They're even abusing straight people now (hence the super straight movement). It is amazing, the gall of the trans movement to pick a fight with EVERY OTHER GROUP OF PEOPLE THEY CAN. The backlash is going to be brutal.

[@doobieddooo]

I heard a trans-identified male refer to his body part: calling it a “she-nis” 🤮 The homophobia is so glaring, but supposed “transphobia” trumps all.

[@elise4359]

My peak trans was getting on dating apps as a newly out lesbian and having to swipe through hundreds of biological men who I knew I would be called bigotted if anyone saw me swiping them all left

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

@@electricfishfan7159 they are literally nazis

[@sleepysmartboy6287]

The reason they put trans in the bio is to let people who don't want to sleep with biological men to swype left... It isn't bigoted you just got in your own head and exposed your own biases. There's a difference between not wanting to sleep with someone and harassing people/advocating against their rights

[@gypsylee333]

Dylan Mulvaney peaked me, seeing all these big companies back this obvious misogynistic man just using offensive stereotypes to mock women.

[@superswiper7666]

Cotton ceiling peaked me instantly. I was like "let's be kind and inclusive" before, then BAM... Once I read about it I never looked back

[@mybalcony4066]

Can you link what you've read?

[@ipercalisse579]

@@mybalcony4066 medium.com/@mirandayardley/girl-dick-the-cotton-ceiling-and-the-cultural-war-on-lesbians-and-women-c323b4789368

[@ipercalisse579]

Cotton ceiling = rape culture

[@jerryulrich2637]

I'm a man and a recent subscriber, who kind of ignorantly accepted the general pop-left consensus on trans people while not knowing much about it at all. My "peak trans" moment was a few days ago, I saw a tweet insisting that men can be lesbians. It seemed so bizarre and frankly wrong to me that I decided to learn more about transgender ideas, as well as the "other side" of the argument from an unnamed female GC forum, which led me to your channel. I mostly watch your videos because I frankly don't know much either way in terms of what the arguments are, and I find you very persuasive and thoughtful.

[@HorseyWithNoNamey]

I thought my peak trans moment was lookong at Jazz Jennings and the whole "transing kids" debate. I realized I would have been transed had I been born 10 years later than I did.

[@sondraarrache1908]

I am older than you, but same. They would have biologically destroyed me had I been born later.

[@smartin5888]

Leftbook, Jenner woman of the year, Yaniv... it never ends. I peak anew weekly.

[@hotrightnow8932]

So because of very specific crazy people everybody universally dislikes you want to deny medical rights to millions of people ?

[@radairosseb92]

Realizing "trans women are women" is meant literally and, hence, for every single context.

[@melissamccann5931]

ditto. I would say TWAW, thinking I was saying, "Just be considerate and pretend they are women." I had no idea they meant it in a biological sense. I had also forgotten about paraphilias.

[@arlolarso9343]

I hate how the community chants it like a religious mantra. It means nothing at this point

[@melissamccann5931]

It started for me with JK Rowling. When I looked to see what she'd said that was so hateful, I couldn't find anything hateful at all. That's how I realized that the trans movement was not at ALL what I had assumed I was supporting. The more I saw of people like Jammidodger, the more appalled I felt.

[@alexiswells7390]

I just want to point out Jazz jennings was transed at 4 years old, taken to doctors and socially transitioned and we all know where they are now.

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

she was not transed. Her parents were careful.

[@alexiswells7390]

@@dontspikemydrink9382 by 'careful' do you mean jeanette is a munchie mom and her kids body is ruined forever now? Because he liked mermaids and dresses when he was 4...

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

@@alexiswells7390 no idea but jazz is a kindhearted woman

[@Walklikeaduck111]

Child abuse really.

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

@@Walklikeaduck111 nope, not at all. it is the opposite. Allowing trans kids to transition is a sign of support and understanding

[@pattim8036]

Following the JK Rowling debate. Her comments seemed reasonable to me, pro-woman without being anti-trans. Everybody lost it because she wasn't on board with extremist ideology and with considering males women in contexts that could hurt women and girls. Bottom line, I agree with her. And the movement for men to be accepted as women is off the rails. Jamie (Jammidodger) dismisses any and all disagreement or women's concerns as transphobic bigotry. He's heavily invested in self-id ideology and must defend it by labeling all dissent as transphobia. That being said, to be fair, Jamie may have been referring to a study that showed the brain scans of trans people looking more like the gender they identify with than their biological sex.

[@Dr3Mc3Ninja]

That study doesn't justify anything, because they haven't proven that brains are sexed in a way that is significant. Male brains are bigger because males are bigger, but that hasn't proven them to be smarter. Plus, if we went down the road of, "Trans brains are like the sex of the brains they identify as." Then you would have to dismiss every cis male and cis female, who have brains that more closely resemble the opposite sex. I am also unsure if that study was large scale enough, or if the trans patients were never on any form of Cross-sex hormone treatment. Unless we can reliably identify how visible brain characteristics manifest, then the study doesn't provide useful info as of now.

[@liberality]

@@Dr3Mc3Ninja People who cite the 'lady brain' argument usually forget that the brain is a living organ. We don't have the same brain we did on the day we were born. So any differences we find between sexes could just as easily be due to differences in lifestyle or jobs as they are innate. See for example the studies on London cab drivers, who before satnav were required to memorise every street and route in the city centre. I have a video on sex and gender you might find interesting, I'd appreciate any comments: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lWqZe2WXhZl-rJo

[@xz740]

@@Dr3Mc3Ninja And there are 100s of studies of brain scans and post mortem brain tissue studies that show conclusively that it is not possible to tell what sex a person is from a brain scan or brain tissue, that the brains of males and females are mosaic. I have a long list of references. Sounds like JD has cited a single paper that reports her own wishful thinking.

[@user-nr6po6cy9s]

I’m on what feels like a never-ending peak. I get angrier the longer this goes on. 10 years ago when I was 15 was my first contact with all of this, a friend of mine came out as tr*ns but that was about it. I shrugged it off and didn’t think too much about it because I’d decided there wasn’t enough evidence to pick a side and it wasn’t a huge thing where I was. As the movement gained traction and up to this point I’ve been waiting for a solid enough explanation from their side. I still don’t have it. It’s ridiculous. I guess you could say my peak moment was when JK posted her essay. I thought, wow! These are things I’ve wondered, finally someone else gets it! And then when I shared that with social media, I got plenty of flack for it. But whenever I asked someone to “please explain what it is to be a woman outside of biology and stereotypes” I got labeled as a tr*nsphobe. In fact, most of these people didn’t even read the essay. They dismissed it entirely without so much as looking at it. So here I am. I was raised to understand that hair, interests, toys, colours, and (most) clothes aren’t gendered. If they were I’d be a man. I’ve actually had dysphoria, and learning to be content with my body has made me far happier than I ever have been. I’m very grateful to my parents for not forcing gender roles or regressive stereotypes on me.

[@jupiterisaak1004]

People have a knee jerk response because they are cowards who know all this crap is regressive and sexist but they are too afraid of being called transphobic to admit it. So they themselves lash out at those who have the bravery to admit the truth.

[@user-nr6po6cy9s]

@@jupiterisaak1004 Makes sense

[@sachikawaii]

@@jupiterisaak1004 can you explain to me please how accepting someone living as they feel the most comfortable and happy is regressive and sexist?? I’m not quite seeing why anyone feels upset by people living their lives as happily as they should.

[@familyguyfreemoviedownload8314]

seeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeethe

[@Elizabeth-po4qd]

All of this!! You phrased it better than I ever could've. This whole thing feels so backwards to me. I'm not a stereotypical woman by any means.. most people aren't, to varying degrees. But I really don't see the point of trying to stick people in a bunch of different categories based on how feminine or masculine they are. I'm a woman because I'm a biological woman.. I don't know how else I could even see it

[@diy_cat9817]

My peak trans moment was when someone I consider a friend, who is trans, basically said, "I'm a woman now so I'm allowed to be slutty." And I say basically because I don't remember the exact words. But that's what they said. And I realized that they thought being a woman was taking and posting scandalous photos of themselves, wearing pretty makeup and having long hair made them a woman. And that being a woman was to be a slutty bimbo. And I finally snapped. "Woman" isn't a costume. It isn't your makeup or your hair. And people treating it like it is is highly indicative of not only the way they see women, but they think women should be in the world. You'd think my moment would be when my ex husband came out as trans, and it damn near was. But for what it's worth, he isn't using his mental illness to create a gross caricature of us.

[@tkps]

Gosh that's a handful. But you're right. I was supportive of the trans community and I do watch at least one TiM. But when UK's only childrens' gender clinic has case increases between 2010/2018 of around 70 to 2400 co-inciding with social media explosion, 70% being girls whilst activists say 'how dare you imply social media is relevant - trans is just more accepted' (total nonsense). When 88% of children with disphoria who do not take puberty blockers remain their birth sex whilst 93% who do, go on to take opposite sex hormones, one Dr calling it a self fulfilling prophecy, pause is necessary. Especially when we're finding the majority of TiM 'decide' they're trans in middle age, making it more likely an expression of their fetishizing of women. Therefore to transition for them usually means big boobs, long hair, makeup, long painted nails, high heels the whole 9 yards. My current view: 'if it don't make sense, it ain't true'. We've had no scientific proof to the contrary. Psychology has never been an exact science and lobotomies were once thought a 'good idea'. Performing experimental & high complication prone surgery on bodies with no studies that show it helps (and one large long term one showing it doesn't) is an equally 'good idea'.

[@diy_cat9817]

@@tkps 100% Thanks for the reply!

[@overcatter7647]

I used to be very libfem. Honestly I still don’t really care if men want to dress up as women and call themselves women. My problem arises when these males want to come into our sex-segregated spaces where we are vulnerable. I am deeply disturbed by so many people’s lack of concern over violence and threats made by TRAs and trans women and trans girls against women and girls. I have been called a terf because I don’t believe one gender can ever transition to the other. I’ve also been called a biology denier for the same. I think we are in some new era of backlash against women and girls because we don’t want males in sex segregated spaces where we’re vulnerable. I find it completely absurd and shocking.

[@eiyukabe]

My peak trans moment was the very second I saw someone say "trans women are women." How can people so easily give up on reality?

[@communityrags6048]

Why do you think they wouldn't be? It's all definitional.

[@communityrags6048]

​@Autumn Leaves Yeah, you are onto it, and you are almost there. In my humble opinion. *Scientifically* yes. You are right from *that* dimension. But somebody needs to explain why (in this issue alone) science needs to dictate every socio-cultural aspect of gender/genetic sex. When we are usually happy enough to separate the socio-cultural from the scientific. In recent decades, we have made the choice (at an academic and political level) to separate the scientific from the social, as it is quite clear that socially something extra is going on. After all, the genetic sex and genitalia and reproductive capacity/capabilities of the person at the checkout when I do my shopping shouldn't be relevant, should it? But yet I might (weirdly/pervertedly?) signify them as 'man' or 'woman' (according to your preference) on the basis of these things (strictly, and nothing else whatsoever). Nobody seems to think the weirdness of that is worth explaining or justifying to those of us who don't really like it, or think it makes no sense whatsoever. What about people who dye their hair? Are you actively applying the same philosophy there? If I am 'blonde' and decide I want to be brunette, must I not dye my hair since it "isn't scientific" and it will somehow mislead and horrify people that I am actually scientifically blonde, trying to "fool the world" that I'm a brunette? But on top of that, it seems you are intent on removing words from the dictionary that defy all (or some) scientific definition. So on that level, I wonder about the word 'god'. Can you define that scientifically? If not, are you recommending it be removed and relegated away from dictionaries, and all texts that we be allowed to read, and into the realms of fantasy, where you strongly feel it must belong? After all, it is a concept that seems to you, no doubt, to be 'a great bag filled with hot air floating in the air, drifting with the wind, with nothing grounding it,' surely? Eagerly anticipating your explanation.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

Reading all these peak trans stories helped peak me again and again and AGAIN.

[@FleurPapillon]

I peaked because my older autistic daughter thought she was trans from 14 to 16. We went home for the pandemic. She blossomed into an extremely happy, feminine young woman. She told me people were pushing her to be masculine and to transition to prove she's trans. Then she started identifying as mythical creatures. My younger daughter was adamantly a girl, had a (personal) difficult experience and started having trans identities also at 14. My daughters had 7 friends, autistic girls who dress as girls with mythical pronouns severely harmed by extremely irresponsible medical transition and mastectomies (some disclosed to me about their mentally ill & abusive mothers). Therapists lied to me while encouraging transition, gender clinic became more harmful towards my family, especially once all the women and trans men quit because they didn't want to harm these autistic girls. I was part of LGBT my whole life, trans friends for 30 years, I had gender confusion as a teen. My FtM friends are upset by trans ideology as well. Some of them were harmed by metoidioplasty. My daughters were influenced by Jammie. Death threats and dead animals nailed to the rape crises centre also peaked me. Is Jammie dumb, or a sociopath?

[@megmidyette6662]

I have ridiculously heavy periods, to the point of needing to bring a change of clothes just in case. I also have PMDD. I used to be very involved in LGBT activism. I whispered a complaint to my friend/ coworker (a trans woman) about my "lady issues" interfering with my work. Their response? "I wish I had a womb and a period. It's transphobic to talk about menstruation as a women's issue. It's also causing me immense dysphoria to hear you talk about something I only wish I could experience." I thought this was a one-off thing. I go to an LGBT event with said coworker a few days later. I was the only "cis" person there. Not only did my coworker bring up my "transphobic comments" talking about my period, but at least 5 other trans women agreed with her and told me to... wait for it... CHECK MY CIS PRIVILEGE!!

[@saileenaway6457]

The narcissism.. my goodness

[@annamariposa6959]

Wow. Crazy.

[@MayIPleaseAskYou]

WOW 😯 The misogyny is REAL 👩🏻‍💻

[@doeeyed7498]

I am so sorry this has happened...

[@ojyochan]

Sorry to be tacky af and comment so much, but the gender ideologues have me wondering if actually all of us gc feminists are DISABLED because we were born without a gender identity. Some youtuber please create a PSA to bring awareness to the tragedy of being born without a gender identity!

[@alexiswells7390]

They'd say that makes you NoNbInArY, wait till they figure out everyone is nonbinary.

[@hotrightnow8932]

Your gender identiy is you being okay with being in your body. that is it.

[@alexiswells7390]

@@hotrightnow8932 no, that's just my biological reality, no gender identity needed.

[@amuljanov]

@@hotrightnow8932 So, body dysphoria is a gender identity? If I wanted to cut off my arms, would my gender identity be armless?

[@knucklejoe26]

@@amuljanov That's...Not an actual argument though, because body dysphoria isn't a thing. Unless you mean Body Dysmorphic Disorder, inwhich case that's an entirely separate thing from gender dysphoria.

[@ElDrHouse2010]

Reading the crazy people at /lgbt/ was my peak trans moment. Saw them write about how they see pregnancy, how many of them off themselves (the board with the most suicide rates go figure), saw them posting about their fetishes and how they talk about women calling them "roasties" made me realize they are just incels with a different way of life. Transcels if you will.

[@ElDrHouse2010]

just look up /cute house/ /r9k/ on google if you wanna arrive at the conclusion that those people belong in the psychward. Jeez. That will Peak Trans anyone.

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

Wtf is a "roastie"??? God, do I really want to know?

[@ElDrHouse2010]

@@ASMRyouVEGANyet incel terminology for women who get sex (because they dont and they are jealeous) roastie refers to their vagina being a roast beef because it was used. A lot of mtf trans also use those words many were incels (or still are) go figure. mtf = misogynist to "female". lol

[@knucklejoe26]

So you let 4chan influence how you view trans people? 4chan is the gutter of the internet.

[@palebluedot5773]

knucklejoe Why would an intelligent person worry about where documentation is posted? Forums that allow the most free thought often have the most objectionable material. An intelligent person would evaluate the information based on whether it is accurate or not. 4chan, kiwi farms & other forums are demonized by TRAs so they don't have to honestly address what trans identified individuals actually say and actually do. You're so TRANSparent.

[@ojyochan]

I really used to like Jammy Dodger so I'm glad you're covering them. Ugh, it's so lazy calling people bigots with no other support for this claim besides they disagree with you.

[@leica0000]

Yeah same. I did think Jam's videos were okay when they were just frankly answering questions about the process of transitioning. Then Jam went full ideologue drone...

[@mrpotatospudthe1sy160]

So if I think your inferior because of your sex? You can't call me a bigot. Because im just someone who disagrees with your basic human rights. Cool I'm off to oppress some peeps

[@hotrightnow8932]

Like or dislike jamies content. (I personally agree that it's lazy) but he's still a he. Come on be respectful.

[@amuljanov]

@@mrpotatospudthe1sy160 No one is saying trans people are "inferior." The argument is that it's physically impossible to transition to the opposite sex, and pretending that a person is the opposite sex (using preferred pronouns, saying trans women= women) is nonsensical. There's nothing wrong with being gender-non-conforming or experimenting with your gender-expression, but "feeling like a woman" doesn't turn a biological male into a woman.

[@mrpotatospudthe1sy160]

@@amuljanov the argument isn't that they can change their sex. The argument is about having there gender identity recognised. When we use the term man/woman we are referring to more than their sex. Why you purposefully misrepresent the argument, idont know?

[@GalactixFX]

My peak trans is with my friend, she is an extremely smart person I know. I was trans back then and she had shared to me her thoughts on her confusion of the whole gender identity and transgender stuff. She told me some stuff like how ridiculous dysphoria is or "transphobic" things. That made me think twice. And I'm no longer trans I now live happily with my sex.

[@whatcanisay3862]

You have a great friend.

[@clairerobinson7487]

As a Mum of an adolescent girl, I have been educating myself on the trans topic over the past three years. I have watched several Jammi videos and they all have the same theme. I stop myself from commenting as I feel a scathing response would be futile and lead to being blocked. In short, blatant misinformation pushed into impressionable young people without any real evidence, just a juvenile response about people who have a differing opinion. Is it any wonder the world is brimming with trans ideology, some with very questionable parents backing the delusion. Thanks for your clear, informative video.

[@lettdias]

For me it was when my group of girlfriends cancelled me for not undertanding and agreeing with nom binary. I am a pharmacist, I have studied biology, but they just called me a medicalist. It's been 2 years now and they still don't talk to me and call me transphobic. 🤷‍♀️

[@tkps]

Then they are not and never were your friends. You will make new better ones. Sad when we lose friends but when we need to agree with every thing a person says, that's not a friend. In fact the sign of a good one is when you can have a whopping great disagreement on something. End with 'let's agree to disagree'. Then have a cuppa or a drink. Good luck with it. Stand by your principles.

[@bekss6307]

You were not cancelled by any definition except for your own. You had a falling out with a group of friends because of a disagreement. Btw, were any of these people even trans? How could this possibly be the thing that convinced you against all transpeople?

[@lettdias]

@@bekss6307 iam not against all trans people, I am against the trans ideology. And Yes they cancelled me, they don't talk to me and said bad things about me for all our friends in common.

[@bekss6307]

@Letícia cancelling just doesn’t work like that. It doesn’t have a set definition, but it’s largely understood to mean widespread backlash to public figures for whatever reason or a variant of that. You were not cancelled. You had some shitty friends who did some shitty things and apparently this was the moment that made you start disagreeing with trans ideology. I guess if my friends ever friend-dump and start calling me homophobic because I don’t understand bisexual people will be the moment I start to disagree with the gay ideology.

[@lettdias]

@@bekss6307 the definition for me is what happened to me.

[@cakeface8414]

One of my peak trans moments was watching one of Jamie’s videos and I first heard the phrase “assigned at birth” 😜

[@kika12peggy17]

haha same but with "nonbinary"

[@monicaaboites5053]

Jamie is something between annoying and funny..

[@cakeface8414]

I didn’t mind that too much. I just thought whatever, sounds kind of dumb and kinda attention seeking but ultimately harmless. As long as it doesn’t effect me they can call themselves what they like!

[@cakeface8414]

Just annoying to me!

[@hotrightnow8932]

Just wanted to say, most trans people don't really talk that way anyways. Just the pc police mainly.

[@user-ts8ec7mm7u]

Oh my peak moment was trying to get pelvic floor services for myself, and all the physical therapists in women's health had certifications in transgender health, but would tell me they couldn't help me because they don't have experience with women in their 20s.

[@geezlouise7005]

My peak trans moment was liking and sharing a short post on tumblr which perfectly described my own experience growing up as a girl. I went into the comments of that post wanting to hear the experiences of other women and chat over this particular topic, but instead I found a wave of hateful and derogatory comments, rape and death threats and people calling the original poster a "terf". Now, I had seen the term thrown around (being on tumblr and all), but I didn't know what it meant, just that it was an insult directed at women and it was a very bad thing to be. I already didn't like the term because it sounds almost identical to one of the dirtiest words for "whore" in my native language, but I kinda tacitly accepted it as yet another internet slang and I hadn't thought that much of it until I saw it used in such an aggressive way. Anyway, I clicked on the original poster's blog to see what the hell she'd done so wrong so as to deserve so much hate, and I just didn't understand cause most of her posts were simply short anecdotes of women's experience growing up and living in society, as well as positivity for girls posts. This shattered my view of "everything that comes from the left is good" which I had come to believe and starting from the winter of 2018 I started reading actual feminist literature, focusing on the words and accounts of women, watching radical feminist content and educating myself. It was a very good thing too, since not long before that I had started to consider myself nonbinary and I was even starting to wonder if I was a transman myself (a pretty common experience for many gender nonconforming lesbians). To put it bluntly, radical feminism helped my gender dysphoria and many of my issues with self esteem and self image. Hitting that peak trans was honestly one of the healthiest things to have ever happened to me.

[@meelatdavis]

When a pal of mine came out as a trans male, I wanted to be a supportive friend. Jamie was one of the first youtubers that I watched to help me make sense of it. Still waiting for her to make sense.

[@meelatdavis]

@@the.meandering yes - lots of intelligent things on that channel.

[@meelatdavis]

Come to think of it, I turned to Jamie again after the JK Rowling furore so that I could understand the hurt experienced by the trans community. I was again disappointed.

[@meelatdavis]

It's a bit schadenfreudening to watch the dunking on Jamie. On the one hand Jamie is very simple and clearly doesn't do any analysis. On the other, Jamie puts in zero effort, is a massive meanie and it's just fun to hear someone refute the claptrap.

[@rudesthazard5769]

Being an effeminate guy, I never much liked gender rhetoric or queer theory. The idea that fashion = gender. Or, according them, there should be something wrong me based solely on the things I enjoy? Nonsense. I'm not sure when my peak trans moment was, but seeing the word "Queer" getting reclaimed seemed like the beginning. "Queer Nights" opened the door for them and their terrible sexist ideas and then they never left. The sheer cluster b personality type narcissism of the "validation" seeking. I think what really pushed me over the edge, like most people I know, is just watching in sheer horror the things say or try to push onto lesbians. I've always been adverse to gender rhetoric, in general though, as very sexist stuff.

[@doeeyed7498]

Wow, thank you for your insight. Stay strong ♡♡♡

[@sharee3135]

My peak moment was when I discovered they are medicating children

[@meyou-qu3rz]

That medication is saving my life

[@meyou-qu3rz]

And btw in most areas in the world the minimum age for HRT or surgery is 16, which is late teens not children

[@sharee3135]

@@meyou-qu3rz puberty blockers are medication and 16 year olds are most definitely children

[@meyou-qu3rz]

@@sharee3135 i dont mean puberty blockers in my case, but my point still stands for puberty blockers. Those medications save lives, denying them is a sick thing to do. Also 16yros are teens not children, and we are old enough to understand the consequences of our decisions

[@sharee3135]

@@meyou-qu3rz I wish you well. I certainly agree 16 year old adolescence are more mature than children, but without a fully developed prefrontal cortex it is impossible to have developed foresight. If you are a person who feels the same at 26, 36 and 46 as you did at 16 then you are not growing. I am 53 with adult children and do see 16 year olds as too young to make life changing decisions. Sorry we will have to agree to disagree that puberty blockers and cross sex hormones are a good thing to give any young person

[@SaraSalvatore95]

you should really do a video about the similarities between MRA's and TRA's, would love to hear your take on it

[@ASMRyouVEGANyet]

Yes that would be great!

[@spacecase7566]

I’d love this. Include lots of clips of Vaush 😂

[@mchlle94]

yes please!

[@georgejuravlel1352]

Gender critical feminist are the same as Mens rights activists 🙄. Fact's don't care about your feelings 🤣

[@karinelaxa959]

@@georgejuravlel1352 maybe you could present those facts, (not «fact’s» in genitive)? GCF = MRA?

[@xanderytube]

My peak trans started out with a very weird salon article with a link to the GC reddit in the comments. I spent hours & hours reading women's peaking stories, and why they had had enough. Final thing for me was the cotton ceiling rhetoric, and the concepts of transbians and girl(penis).

[@scarycakes]

When I was told I couldn't ask why or suggest anything that would work better for young girls than having male bodied and female attracted trans or nb people in my daughters middle school changing room, I was shocked. I still feel freaked out about everyone's response even now. My daughter was just supposed to be ok with it. I think that was the turning point with me. The realization that women aren't going to get choices and how we feel doesn't matter. All of these years teaching kids boundaries, for them to be broken so fast. Also finding out we have tims in our jails with self id, no surgery, and some with sex offenses. I felt like those were important to talk about. Instead it was shut down. I've never seen shutting women up to that extent in my life. The only solace I had for a while was Magdalen Berns. That lead me everywhere else.

[@scatterbrained1457]

I suggest girls and women refuse to change in locker rooms with boys and men and to refuse to participate in any sports where males are competing. I know some sports bodies have banned men in female sports, but anything could happen on the local level. I suggest girls refuse to change with boys or refuse to participate unless they have a private changing room. It is just sick to have boys in a middle school girls’ locker room - sick, sick, sick.

[@rtoma1974]

Peak trans for me was when the 100% denial of reality started. I was totally supportive of trans, until I realized how far trans activists will deny reality. I was all "transwomen are women, just a different kind of women." But that is transph*bic because transwomen are women, full stop. Or I'd be like "transwomen are women but also male." That was transph*bic as well. The trans movement will eventually collapse in on itself eventually because of this.

[@meyou-qu3rz]

With any movement you are going to have ideas that are more out there. I am trans myself, however I dont deny that I was born female. I am a female man, because my sex is female but my gender identity is man. I think you will find that if you talk to real life trans people, and not online, that we dont deny the fact that we were born with the sex we were born with.

[@ccgerrity]

I am friends with plenty of trans people in real life, as I was non-binary through college and a bit beyond. It is not just an online phenomenon, though I’m sure it’s propelled there. Most trans people I know now are very uncomfortable saying their sex.

[@meyou-qu3rz]

@@ccgerrity they may be uncomfortable but they dont deny it. We dont like being reminded of it but we know we weren't born as the gender we identify as

[@vanillamarshmallow]

My peak trans moment was when I learned what ayy gee p was. I went to high school with a TIM and he was a gay, very feminine man who transed at the beginning of senior year. Until last year or so, I thought that all trans people were like him - just super feminine men or masculine women who were maybe confused about their s e xuality. IMO, most TIMs are just straight men claiming womanhood as a f e t i s h and most TIFs are using trans as a way to escape the realities of being a woman. I think the whole ideology is harmful to women and children (I say that as a woman and a former little girl) Also I've learned about the medical side and I don't understand how any doctor could perform these surgeries (especially the bottom surgeries, those are horrific) or give hormones/puberty blockers in good consciousness.

[@suitcase6698]

My peak trans moment was when biological male Lia Thomas was allowed to swim on the women’s team

[@mchlle94]

A few years ago, I saw this ad by sephora or morphe or something pop up on my socials, in which they presented this massive PR campaign which boiled down to "helping trans women become women" by offering free make up courses at their stores. I thought the ad campaign was incredibly insensitive towards both women and trans women, and just using wokeness for profit. But to my surprise, critical comments under the vid (that I agreed with) got an insane amount of hate, and those citical women were immediately labeled "terfs". I had no clue what terf meant so I looked it up. It stuck with me and then the whole Rowling thing happened, and here we are lol. I think the saddest thing is that trans people themselves are also victims in all of this.

[@AmyWrightTheNerd]

My peak trans moment was when I met a guy dressed in women's clothing and giving himself a woman's name at university dorms. I felt so uncomfortable around him and constantly walking on eggshells (for I was so scared of offending him and getting into trouble) to the point where I started thinking 'I shouldn't be feeling like this'. I then read JKR's tweets and couldn't see anything problematic. I then, funny enough, came across Jammidodger's video on why JKR is transphobic but Jamie himself convinced me that HE is the hateful person, not JKR! You reveal so much more by your demeanour and attitude, so it was ironically him that brought me here 😂

[@effy7932]

my peak trans moment was jk rowling and the attack of twitter mob. she did help many people like me to understand behind the scenes of this hyper individual movement. the funny thing is I used to fight with my dad a lot because of transwomen. I didn’t know what was going on with TRAs since I live in turkey. sometimes women forget how much men can hate them... never again

[@noah1502]

i was deeply entrenched in trans groups, jammie’s claim that peak trans comes from being tired of hearing and seeing trans people is ridiculous, i was and still am happy to see them. the peak trans happened when i realized how backwards their thinking was and how much it under minded the language women have to express their oppression

[@Robert-yk2lk]

My peak trans moment was when my family cut me off for laughing at Dave Chappelles trans standup special. We watched it to see what exactly was said and had a huge argument afterwards. My brother is now on estrogen and my other brother dresses like a girl.

[@iggydesisted220]

I peaked while I identified as trans FtM and had a terrible surgery that nearly killed me. Then I saw so many friend’s children transitioning and they were very feminine girls and transitioning as teenagers and clearly LARPing as boys. They were completely different to me as I was very tomboyish and still am as an adult. They were getting praise for transitioning. It made me realise it’s a trend. Then I came across gender critical thought and learned that there are criticisms of the underlying theory of biodeterminism and bioessentialism. I used to be in the trans group and I thought TERFs were evil. Now I realise that they were correct. The men transitioning are causing more harm to women because of the male entitlement they retain and the men who transition are still potentially attracted to ALL women and now think ALL women are available to them. They think they can and should attract lesbians and heterosexual women. There are trans men who think the same thing (I didn’t when I was transitioning FtM), but they’re usually transitioning because of sexual trauma so they don’t want to attract ALL men. I wanted to reduce my potential partners but there’s still millions of potential partners.

[@jbird4478]

I highly doubt the sincerity of Jamie. I think she understands a lot more than she shows. She has a PhD in psychology, yet in all her videos she's acting like a 13 year old. I can only speculate on her reasons for doing so, but it is worth noting she has a very young group of followers who all seem to adore her, so I guess that serves as a form of validation for a fragile ego. Something to keep in mind is that most trans people, and Jamie certainly, are aware of two things: They will never actually become the sex they desire to be. And they can never go back. These two combined creates a deep need for validation, and makes any criticism almost an existential threat.

[@thepuredrop79]

I peaked because Maya Forstater lost her tribunal and I watched nearly all of Magdalen's (and a few of Posie's) videos over a weekend.

[@klauslispector]

My peak trans was a boy in my class (18y/o) tried to make a move on me because he is a "lesbian" like me.

[@nereti1303]

Gender identity is not a protected characteristic, it's 'gender reassignment'. Which means the act of changing your gender should not lead to you being discriminated against, e.g. in terms of employment etc.. It doesn't mean you get to automatically use spaces and services for the other sex, because sex IS a protected characteristic.

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

eh no. transgender women are women and should have access to women's spaces.

[@nereti1303]

@@dontspikemydrink9382 Well, that's not how the law works, but you carry on

[@dontspikemydrink9382]

@@nereti1303 And that is the issue, the laws should change with better understanding. I will be using women's spaces more often as is my right as a woman

[@cookiimonst3r]

@@dontspikemydrink9382 lol of course you're an autogynephile thinking he belongs in women's spaces. Hopefully someone fs you up

[@joygibbons5482]

@@dontspikemydrink9382 and we will be avoiding you as soon as we clock you

[@chloepokupatelya4244]

It was the “pregnant person” that got me. I made a comment on one of Jammidodgers videos on the topic, correcting to people first language “persons who are pregnant” sort of a snarky pc police comment. I believe that comment was removed. I thought it was funny. In all seriousness the comment section under those videos is such an unwelcoming and cultish environment, an echo chamber in where nothing other than those views are tolerated. It’s almost as if invalidating people with different experiences is the flavor of the day. Quite frankly the only two labels I really care about are “asshole” and “not asshole” I’m not going to tell anyone about their own experiences and feelings but I am gonna get pissy when my default status as a biological woman who happens to like biological men is belittled and downplayed. My ovaries aren’t a hate crime goddamnit. They’re ovaries. I’m not an academic not all that smart either but I know extremism when I see it.

[@annabizaro-doo-dah]

Eternally coy, Jamie Raines claims to have a doctorate in psychology. Either they hand out phD's as prizes for being PC or the clueless act hides Raines' inability to debate GC arguments

[@palebluedot5773]

I still don't understand the term "Tru scum" and I've had it explained to me several times. I don't recall any social justice movement that has ever referred to its members as "scum". I don't understand a movement that uses dehumanizing language on women, who could have been allies. I don't understand the impudent, immature hyper defensive behavior of "trans men". The only thing that makes sense to me is that T is an addictive drug that makes trans men behave something like other drug addicts. I don't understand anything about these followers of the clique of girl dique.

[@lqa77]

Truscum is a reclaimed slur. It's people who try to gatekeep who is actually trans.

[@bekss6307]

@LQ A please please please do not call things that specifically reference ideologies, beliefs, and world-views slurs. You’re going to minimize actual slurs of which relate to immutable characteristics of people that they have literally no control over.

[@bekss6307]

Truscum(transmedicalism) is the concept that people are trans because of the medical aspect of it(Hormones, surgeries, etc.)

[@jamsanger]

I've been a radical feminist as long as I can remember - before I even knew the term or theory, so I've always recognised gender as a weapon of women's subordination. When it started to be embraced though, with men performing sexist stereotypes and claiming it meant they're women I was just, NO. No you are not. We're not a costume, a fetish or an identity crisis, we are an entire sex class of humanity and the mothers of every human ever to have lived on this earth. The word woman is taken.

[@evesapple]

'You understand that theory isn't communicated through memes, right?' Genuine lol

[@TheLWSShow]

My peak trans movement was when I read an article about the tran gender ideology and the sexism that has been carried out in the name of the ideology. But I became suspicious of the movement, when they kept agitating for the de-platforming of famous Feminist. I mean if you are a woman why will you want the downfall of Women's Rights Activists? Except of course you are not.

[@lateralhistory]

"We do not question whether cisgender kids know their gender identity" They really can't wrap their heads around the idea that other people don't subscribe to their religion. No-one has a gender identity. That's the point gender critical feminists are making. The clue is in the name.

[@Mel-wn9gb]

I've been a feminist since I was a child. I was never peaked. It's always been self evident to me that this ideology is sexist, misogynistic and homophobic. I never considered it as anything more.

[@cheese0827]

How so?

[@Mel-wn9gb]

@@cheese0827 It's sexist because it defines girls, women, boys and men in terms of sex stereotypes. It's misogynistic because it's dehumanizes girls and women to benefit boys and men. It's homophobic because defining women and men in terms of the subjective 'gender' as opposed to the objective sex erases the very concept of sexual orientation, and because medical transition is a form of gay conversion therapy.

[@cheese0827]

@@Mel-wn9gb as opposed to boiling down women to their uterus and "healthy breast tissue" like many people who are "gender critical" (transphpbic) do. Not to mention, trans people hate stereotypes and gender roles, they simply want people to be happy. By the way,, secondary sex characteristics are not gender roles, thick facial hair is not a stereotype, wide hips arent stereotypes either. Gender is very objective, its literally programmed into your grey matter in the womb, and for most people, it matches your biological sex, so its not homophobic in the slightest. People will talk about biological sex like its some big trump card, but its not even binary, or even one thing. There are three major factors of biological sex, chromosomes, which no one can see, primary sex characteristics (reproductive organs), which unless a crime is being committed, no one can see in public, and secondary sex characteristics, which are changes that occur in puberty like body hair and whatnot. I've hit peak transphobia a while ago, stop hating people for things that don't matter. Cis women are harassed out of bathrooms for having slightly masculine features by gender critical people, because they boil gender down to stereotypes and are misogynistic. They put trans men who may or may not be very far along their transition in women only spaces thanks to anti trans laws, because they dehumanize women. They use the same rhetoric used to keep gay people out of bathrooms (fear of rape) to keep trans people out of bathrooms, because they are homophobic too. You wanna know someone who was gender critical? Adolf Hitler Sorry not sorry for the rant, trans rights are human rights.

[@ruthless2096]

I was barely in my 20s when I had a serious sexual assault that left me homeless. He'd been stalking me, and I was already in a bad state - unlike the well supported Jammi, I was was completely dumped by parents before I should even have left school. So, homeless again, in a hostel & in came a bloke with a push up bra calling himself Carol. Lots of creepy, aggressive stuff & it emerged he was a sex offender. I still didn't kick off, it was only many yrs later it came up and I was spoken to like a frothing maniac for saying he wasn't a woman. People didn't believe me - I've since got to know another woman who had an almost identical experience. I first talked about it after 'Ella Davies ' was done for child torture & sex abuse images. When I said that he was taking the piss, I was, I thought, standing up for the nice transwomen I know. But I got a load of abuse from some NB 'friend' who thought they had a hard life, despite still living at home in their mid 20s & going to uni, fully supported by parents. I couldn't get over the elitism, and when I spoke on Facebook about it I had another wave of abuse and ostracism. I blog on this now, cos it's so enraging. Very few of the TWAW crew who advocate for TW in refuges have the faintest idea of how refuges work. They think having experienced sexual assault means they understand, but being assaulted *and* having literally no one to help you, being made to live alongside a fetishist who wants to be involved with everything and isn't ashamed of being on the sex offenders register, is another thing entirely

[@doeeyed7498]

People are obnoxious. I wish you will find community and worthy friends. I send my support ♡♡♡

[@annikabjornson998]

Miss Jammi can laugh all she wants. The trouble is, once the pendulum swings the other way, and it always does, the result will not be funny at all. I hope it doesn’t go as badly as I think it will.

[@hotrightnow8932]

Tbh I think Jamie is just a trendy youtuber. He repeats talking points and never says anything that could even slightly be considered an original opinion.

[@blacktigerpaw1]

Add on Samantha Lux and Noah Finnce. Noah despises Arielle Scarcella.

[@hotrightnow8932]

@@blacktigerpaw1 Oh yeah sure of course. Don't need to tell me haha

[@hotrightnow8932]

The way I see it...Arielle is just not really educated on a few things and looks at biased websites for her evidence instead of actual studies. That's objetively true and like or dislike vaush he does know how to look up evidence and basically completely debunked plenty of common points. Now I disagree with him on what gender is but he is right on the puberty blockers argument and Arielle just isn't.

[@hotrightnow8932]

@@blacktigerpaw1 By the way, I think Blaire White in general does a lot of clickbaity (and tbh shitty) stuff too but at least she is attempting to have a political discussion.

[@Jayteaseepiirturi]

The dude's got a PhD in psychology... you'd never think. He's an absolute troll.

[@pythonjava6228]

My peak trans was realising that gebder identity entirely relied on circular meanings and couldn't define a woman including in legal and institutional settings. Many thanks to rebecca reilley cooper.

[@Dcfrtygu]

My peak trans moment was like 2 days ago. I knew/was interested in Blanchard’s ideas and the concept of autogynephilia for a little while, but it fully “clicked” when I came across a video by the creator Sailor Uranus the other day. I completely related to everything she said. I felt that I had always had this awareness of the disgust of a man cross dressing, especially in an overtly sexual way, but once I connected that with the misogyny and entitlement that comes with it, it all made sense. Currently I’m trying to work through the realization that I am a “terf” and how to navigate my social life now/how to deal with this “secret” ideology I have now as a progressive woman who is friends with other progressives and members of the gay community. I guess that’s why I’m watching this video now lol. This kind of content is helping me, so thank you

[@SuperBirdsong]

At around 31:40 mins Jammidodger says that gender identity is a protected characteristic. This is not the case. SEX is a protected characteristic. GENDER REASSIGNMENT is also a protected characteristic. There are a number of procedures one has to go through in order to obtain a GR certificate, one of which is to have been diagnosed with gender dysphoria or gender identity disorder. This allows the person be treated as the sex they have been reassigned and was understood to be a legal fiction (not an actual biological change to their sex) but gave the person the legal right to be treated in law as though they were the opposite sex, but even here there are exemptions. GENDER IDENTITY, (or even just GENDER), has never been a protected characteristic. This is what all of the fuss was about when the government introduced a consultation on what they were calling gender self ID, to decide whether to make GENDER IDENTITY a protected characteristic but self ID was rejected in the UK and recently it has also been rejected in Spain and Germany. There is a thing called Stonewall law in the UK which is where Stonewall has been giving misleading legal guidance, telling people that the things Stonewall wanted to be law were in actual fact law when they were not. Stonewall is now in serious trouble for doing this. Recently the EHRC and ACAS have confirmed that they will no longer be part of the Stonewall Champions scheme and no doubt other organisations will follow. If you see any document which states gender or gender identity as a protected characteristic (they often do this and omit sex) then you should make a complaint because this misrepresents the law.