Dating A Trans Person When You're Cis (ft. NoahFinnce, notcorry & Shaaba.)

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Jammidodger

Jammidodger

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@fabulousbaticorn9991
@fabulousbaticorn9991 4 жыл бұрын
when i was 9 all the boys always said i was 'like a boy, but in a girl's body' foreshadowing
@rodentia1474
@rodentia1474 4 жыл бұрын
Fabulous Baticorn *they knew :o*
@oceanstaiga5928
@oceanstaiga5928 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I always sand wrestled with the boys so when they told me this round is boys only and I cant join i was upset but more of like wtf that dont count for me Foreshadowing
@kai-wn6bz
@kai-wn6bz 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@wendywhoisit1819
@wendywhoisit1819 3 жыл бұрын
They say that about every girl that plays with boys a lot though.
@rafatsurve1921
@rafatsurve1921 3 жыл бұрын
Same here 😑😑
@meyu1468
@meyu1468 4 жыл бұрын
Interracial gay AND straight trans couples?? More representation in this one video than there has ever been in the whole history of the media 💕💕
@oliviamurphy9482
@oliviamurphy9482 4 жыл бұрын
* interracial :)
@Yeahbuddy-yf2cv
@Yeahbuddy-yf2cv 4 жыл бұрын
There’s no such thing as straight trans couple is there?
@johnkarkat5138
@johnkarkat5138 4 жыл бұрын
Tony S yes there is? What do you mean by this?
@Yeahbuddy-yf2cv
@Yeahbuddy-yf2cv 4 жыл бұрын
King Egg just asking I didn’t honestly know
@johnkarkat5138
@johnkarkat5138 4 жыл бұрын
Tony S ahhhh ok
@sheccabaw
@sheccabaw 4 жыл бұрын
"Was sex an awkward subject?" "YOU GO FIRST" "NO YOU GO FIRST" So... that's a yes?
@Robin07014
@Robin07014 3 жыл бұрын
That's a more cleae yes then a yes.
@StaceyStaser
@StaceyStaser 5 жыл бұрын
it's like two different generations of being trans
@tickingtimebomb4139
@tickingtimebomb4139 5 жыл бұрын
Mellop
@elsiewilson1689
@elsiewilson1689 5 жыл бұрын
There’s like 5 years between them 😂
@user-rn6zb2jc3e
@user-rn6zb2jc3e 5 жыл бұрын
@@elsiewilson1689 i think its a bigger difference between ages that they met too though,, so its a combo of age difference between them and age difference that they met that makes it so interesting to hear their answers
@epushzp
@epushzp 4 жыл бұрын
It is
@jazwhoaskedforthis
@jazwhoaskedforthis 2 жыл бұрын
Cries in aging millennial
@adrenalinejunkie2740
@adrenalinejunkie2740 4 жыл бұрын
“You’re not my type!” “We’re married!”
@thatonemessyartist1760
@thatonemessyartist1760 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to like this comment, but it has 666 likes. 😂
@spinnysponk778
@spinnysponk778 4 жыл бұрын
That one messy artist 👹
@imjarrifried5819
@imjarrifried5819 4 жыл бұрын
@@thatonemessyartist1760 it's got over 2k you can like it now lololol
@IslasYT
@IslasYT 3 жыл бұрын
@@imjarrifried5819 now 3k 😏
@larastyles8127
@larastyles8127 3 жыл бұрын
time stamp?
@doodle.drawz.dreamz
@doodle.drawz.dreamz 4 жыл бұрын
"hes getting ahead of himself bc he has b a l l s" is probably the best quote of the video tbh
@pastelhurricane848
@pastelhurricane848 4 жыл бұрын
Ayy I'm the 666th like
@TheWeirdCowMumu
@TheWeirdCowMumu 4 жыл бұрын
Y e s XD
@satanschild1609
@satanschild1609 4 жыл бұрын
Oh yes
@satanschild1609
@satanschild1609 4 жыл бұрын
•_ S a d i s t i c _• But?
@mackenzie8703
@mackenzie8703 4 жыл бұрын
Isabelle and Tom nook are kinda hot it was probably at 69 or 420 likes
@18Themega
@18Themega 5 жыл бұрын
Corry is wearing such an ugly button-up and as a lesbian could not be more proud
@wriggleby
@wriggleby 4 жыл бұрын
MOOD OMG
@epushzp
@epushzp 4 жыл бұрын
Isn’t it called a button DOWN? Wait like I’m actually questioning everything I’ve ever known is it up or down
@klaraottosson1461
@klaraottosson1461 4 жыл бұрын
Emily Broski I’ve always said down so I hope it’s down
@thecodthatcosplay7182
@thecodthatcosplay7182 4 жыл бұрын
Its both names and I think he’s hot and the top is great
@drippy3013
@drippy3013 4 жыл бұрын
@@epushzp I've always said button-up but whatever you do you honey boo
@Teddykid54321
@Teddykid54321 5 жыл бұрын
Noah saying "I've grown about an inch since we've been together.... in height" is the best thing I've ever seen!!! How cheeky!
@fitchhateclub
@fitchhateclub 4 жыл бұрын
•_S a d i s t i c.魂_• britain is 4 countries...
@justyourcasualweeb7270
@justyourcasualweeb7270 4 жыл бұрын
@@fitchhateclub my brain just died inside My skull
@fitchhateclub
@fitchhateclub 4 жыл бұрын
Megan Rose that’s what i meant lol
@prideofmanny2981
@prideofmanny2981 3 жыл бұрын
This is so British
@aubreybrown1480
@aubreybrown1480 3 жыл бұрын
*I N H E I G H T*
@Xemuth1337
@Xemuth1337 4 жыл бұрын
"Noah is very, stereotypically a guy" "Thankyou"
@somerandomtransguy168
@somerandomtransguy168 3 жыл бұрын
Best part of the video.
@amarantalopez5782
@amarantalopez5782 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@janetgraham-russell4476
@janetgraham-russell4476 5 жыл бұрын
Noah looks like he should be in a boy band.
@tiliagrace8111
@tiliagrace8111 5 жыл бұрын
Janet Graham-Russell So true
@vampir3lvr
@vampir3lvr 5 жыл бұрын
I think he was in a band before
@alexisstrum_12
@alexisstrum_12 5 жыл бұрын
5sos would be good for him
@tealkerberus748
@tealkerberus748 5 жыл бұрын
Dipper Pines they're all very tall, though. How tall is Noah now?
@CoRLex-jh5vx
@CoRLex-jh5vx 5 жыл бұрын
@@tealkerberus748 4 ft
@random6033
@random6033 3 жыл бұрын
bi - attracted to more than one gender pan - attracted to people REGARDLESS of their gender
@thedoctor6583
@thedoctor6583 3 жыл бұрын
No, bi and pan are synonyms, some people use them in different ways but they all just boil down to: attracted to people regardless of their gender. I am bi, I am attracted to people regardless of gender and every bi person I know feels that way too. This myth needs to go away.
@random6033
@random6033 3 жыл бұрын
@@thedoctor6583 definitions from dictionary: bisexual - sexually attracted not exclusively to people of one particular gender; attracted to both men and women. pansexual - not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity. these are not synonyms
@kc-eq4tk
@kc-eq4tk 3 жыл бұрын
@@thedoctor6583 I think you might mean omnisexual which is similar to pan. It basically just means to be attracted to all gender identities (like pan) but you may have a preference (like bi)
@thedoctor6583
@thedoctor6583 3 жыл бұрын
@@kc-eq4tk No, omnisexual and pansexual are both micro-labels under the bi-umbrella. For some bi+ people they're important, that's why they use them, for some people they're not, that's why they go with bi but at the end of the day, they can all mean pretty much the same thing, we fall in love with whomever we fall in love, gender really isn't a deciding factor. That's the entire point of the bi+-umbrella.
@kc-eq4tk
@kc-eq4tk 3 жыл бұрын
@@thedoctor6583 oh ok thanks for the clarification🙃
@splorely
@splorely 3 жыл бұрын
When shaaba and Corry were talking about how they didn’t feel like their partners were ever female, I totally understood. I have a friend that I’ve known since 2nd grade, and he transitioned (ftm) in 7th. He never felt, acted, or even looked female. And now he’s much happier being his true gender.
@dawnbelleini8036
@dawnbelleini8036 3 жыл бұрын
I've have a friend that came out a few weeks ago and I honestly thought I'd just missed something and he had already came out. He hadn't yet, but he was just always just male...
@aepixel2
@aepixel2 2 жыл бұрын
My best friend is trans masc, and despite presenting as a female before coming out, I kinda just read him as male. It's hard to explain, he just "felt" like that. And when he came out it made so much sense.
@levnuica8863
@levnuica8863 2 жыл бұрын
Two of my friends just forget I'm trans sometimes and it makes me really happy. I'll casually mention afab things and they'll be confused for a couple of seconds and you can see it on their faces. It made me realize they actually see me as an actual boy and not just a "girl pretending to be a boy".
@SwayTree
@SwayTree Жыл бұрын
This is true. I met some people in my youth that "never felt like a girl/boy". They weren't even out then... So when they transitioned it wasn't a surprise or anything it was more like: "Yeah, seems right "
@ZayleeBasker
@ZayleeBasker 7 ай бұрын
I've been dating my partner for two years and he has said that he will only ever see me as a girl because I was "a girl when we first met." I'm a trans guy
@shaaba
@shaaba 5 жыл бұрын
Bloody love these three lads 💛 (also love my hair in Noah’s flipped video ngl)
@NOAHFINNCE
@NOAHFINNCE 5 жыл бұрын
Shaaba. 🥰🥰🥰
@introspectivesteps5433
@introspectivesteps5433 5 жыл бұрын
I didn’t look at your username and was like ‘what about shaaba’ and then I realised xD
@hirasyed9185
@hirasyed9185 5 жыл бұрын
I didn't read who wrote it n took it as the three fellows n thought why not Shaba☺️💕
@ashtoneverett9250
@ashtoneverett9250 5 жыл бұрын
Hi Shaaba
@Hellooo134
@Hellooo134 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao I didn't realize this was from you and thought it was just some random person and I was like shaabas cool too but whatever
@ashermorris4779
@ashermorris4779 5 жыл бұрын
3:30 my phone rang as I was watching your video... it was the Transgender clinic in the city calling to tell me I have an Appointment to talk about HRT and top surgery!!!! Yay!!!! So happy that I'm finally getting what I need to help me become the man I've always been!
@emilyownsarat
@emilyownsarat 5 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! :D
@MrDevil-jb1fl
@MrDevil-jb1fl 5 жыл бұрын
Asher Morris Good for you!
@Royal.Angel.
@Royal.Angel. 5 жыл бұрын
CONGRATS!!!!
@robynnhoud
@robynnhoud 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats my friend! I’m so happy for you and anyone finally being able to be in the body they feel comfortable with! Good luck (I’m pretty late but I hope you’re happy)
@ivymoody4238
@ivymoody4238 4 жыл бұрын
Omg congratulations!
@massy6453
@massy6453 4 жыл бұрын
Dating a trans guy doesn‘t *make* anyone pan. Identifying as pan is something that has to do with your own sexuality. A cis gay man dating a trans guy is still gay. A straight cis girl dating a trans guy is still straight. A cis pan girl dating a trans man is pan.
@j_fenrir
@j_fenrir 3 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! One of my close friends is pan and she is dating my non-binary bro and like, she was pan before they started dating??? Because that's her sexuality??? Just how my non-binary fren identifies as bisexual because for them bisexual = attraction to all genders - so that's their sexuality??? Like labels are open to interpretation and we should respect how different people interpret different things. Their identity is *only theirs* and no amount of opinions will change that.
@nicole-rb4iw
@nicole-rb4iw 3 жыл бұрын
@@j_fenrir THANK U FOR THIS COMMENT OMG while labels do have definitions they are not set in stone and in the end it all comes down to what ppl feel comfortable identifying as !!
@j_fenrir
@j_fenrir 3 жыл бұрын
@@nicole-rb4iw YES!!
@siggithegsd9713
@siggithegsd9713 2 жыл бұрын
@@AAhmad3449 Why you hate man.
@nevergonnagiveyouup1180
@nevergonnagiveyouup1180 2 жыл бұрын
@@AAhmad3449 …that’s not how it works…
@max-jaynefish7061
@max-jaynefish7061 5 жыл бұрын
Omg, I love this, this helped so much, I have an MtF girlfriend and this allowed me to understand I'm not the only one who thought I can't help solve their dysphoria xxx
@shaaba
@shaaba 5 жыл бұрын
Max-Jayne Fish you’re not alone, so glad this could be of some help! x
@max-jaynefish7061
@max-jaynefish7061 5 жыл бұрын
@@shaaba Thank-you, this actually made my day! Both the reply and the video xxx
@eden9036
@eden9036 5 жыл бұрын
@@max-jaynefish7061 @shaaba hi! Another partner here, i relate so much too! It's really nice to hear of some other people's experiences!
@sarahmosley1136
@sarahmosley1136 5 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend is a trans girl and it's really nice as a cis person seeing videos like this and all yall are just really cool chill people and it's lovely x
@nanner3200
@nanner3200 5 жыл бұрын
Same as a Mom to a FtM child. OK not the same as a partner but still very helpful. Also the "do not touch" comments. My child never wants to be touched. Never a hug or OMG just bumping them passing by. So thank you to you all for helping not only partners of but also parents.
@romancrowley1467
@romancrowley1467 5 жыл бұрын
Jamie, please subtitle your videos. Accessibility in the LGBTQIA+ community is a huge issue and my deaf and HoH friends would benefit from your videos as much as anyone else :)
@sheenasapunkrocker
@sheenasapunkrocker 5 жыл бұрын
Roman Crowley English is not my first language and I couldn’t understand what Shaaba said at 21:28 so subs would have helped
@KillerKyuubi
@KillerKyuubi 5 жыл бұрын
To be fair, accessibility is a huge issue everywhere not just in this community
@romancrowley1467
@romancrowley1467 5 жыл бұрын
@@KillerKyuubi oh, massively!
@lauraholzinger5875
@lauraholzinger5875 5 жыл бұрын
sheenasapunkrocker it isn’t my first language either but it sounds like „your love is not halal“ what would kind of make sense in that context
@xenoclea1041
@xenoclea1041 5 жыл бұрын
yes please, I'm HOH and it's hard for me to just read lips lol
@highoninfinity
@highoninfinity 5 жыл бұрын
"kids are quite small, thats the whole thing about them" I CACKLED
@tashax747
@tashax747 5 жыл бұрын
Shaaba: I'm gonna mum you so hard Jamie: *turns beet red* BTW, Corry, Jamie & Noah are such cutie patooties! 😍😍 & Shaaba is gorgeous!
@troyesivanfan1199
@troyesivanfan1199 5 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Lauren-fi2rd
@Lauren-fi2rd 5 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhhhh! I swear his name was curry! These accents are killing me
@spitedrowning
@spitedrowning 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lauren-fi2rd lmao Corry is a bit of a strange name anyway, one of my brothers friends has a brother called Corey which i guess is similar but ok
@Valentin-oc5nh
@Valentin-oc5nh 4 жыл бұрын
Natasha Walden what minute?
@TheEli2Pi
@TheEli2Pi 4 жыл бұрын
@@Valentin-oc5nh it starts at 4:16 but she actually says it at 4:30
@AestheticWannabe
@AestheticWannabe 3 жыл бұрын
“If someone tells you what your identity is,They need to shut up, cause you know it better” Me,Who is in the middle of an identity crisis: *Oh,ok*
@intercat4907
@intercat4907 3 жыл бұрын
They do it to people of color too. Accept your status as an expert and go talk to more advanced people. Best of luck and happiness.
@kyanite8451
@kyanite8451 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes its okay for your identity to be "I need assistence" and then once you personally know more, with or without that assientence, you can fill in whatever box you feel fits best. If not, find a nice field to grow all your beautiful idgaf flowers 💛
@bennyton2560
@bennyton2560 2 жыл бұрын
@@intercat4907 they do it to neurodivergent folks too
@intercat4907
@intercat4907 2 жыл бұрын
@@bennyton2560 Yeah. For a silly moment, it almost seems fair - jerks who go around making EVERYONE mad. But no. And what better line for their rudeness to you than, "Please ... I know my own mind!" Stay well, Bennyton; you're valuable and valued.
@cukka99
@cukka99 Жыл бұрын
I mean, it's still true though, isn't it?
@Kai-hi2ii
@Kai-hi2ii 4 жыл бұрын
No one: Not a single entity on Earth: Q&A: DOst thOu miNd abOuT tHe gEnitALs?
@weirdanimationsworkshop573
@weirdanimationsworkshop573 4 жыл бұрын
Thy, does not. Or dous thy?
@j_fenrir
@j_fenrir 3 жыл бұрын
As Shakespeare once said "Thy dicc is the most important appendage"
@supechube_k
@supechube_k 3 жыл бұрын
@@j_fenrir i-
@kunaihanaki
@kunaihanaki 3 жыл бұрын
Kitty Kat I was laughing at this for a fat minute. Thanks for that 😂
@iateyourdog617
@iateyourdog617 3 жыл бұрын
LMFAO THIS REPLY SECTION THO-💀
@whatevenwhat
@whatevenwhat 5 жыл бұрын
this is the content i signed up for
@bishwhatthehell4280
@bishwhatthehell4280 5 жыл бұрын
WhatEvenWhat the pic with this comment makes it 10 times better
@whatevenwhat
@whatevenwhat 5 жыл бұрын
Bish What The Hell 😂😂
@CryptP
@CryptP 5 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is cis and we mostly get attention from other trans people who think it's so wild I'm in an actual healthy and respectful relationship with a cis man he's a lovely guy tho so
@CryptP
@CryptP 5 жыл бұрын
@@max-bl6fi I think it's just because we can't trust cis people properly a lot of the time I've had relationships with people who've definitely seen me just as my assigned gender so There's at least some basis for it
@CryptP
@CryptP 5 жыл бұрын
@@max-bl6fi yeah, I feel that. I know a lot of trans people who suck, and a lot of great cis people. I think it's just that prejudice against trans people and transphobia are still super prevalent, so it's kinda harder as a trans person to find a cis person who properly understands and respects your identity ig Not necessarily by fault of their own, but bc they don't know any better A trans person obviously knows how it is to be trans, so it becomes a bit less of an issue when you date another trans person If that makes sense??
@アイドルトラッシュ
@アイドルトラッシュ 5 жыл бұрын
Its probably similar social taboo to when inter-racial and inter-faith relationships started becoming more common.
@toomanyopinions8353
@toomanyopinions8353 4 жыл бұрын
Personally people thinking it’s wild just makes me happy
@elenamunozdedios2916
@elenamunozdedios2916 4 жыл бұрын
CrypticP hey, cis girl girl here!! I just wanted to ask you, if you don’t mind, how was it for your boyfriend to tell his parents (if he has already)?? My family is very traditional and if I one day date a trans man I’m worried they might not be very welcoming of him.
@sawyerhadley1317
@sawyerhadley1317 5 жыл бұрын
Noah is literally looks like the younger brother of Jamie😂
@kennethgray4679
@kennethgray4679 4 жыл бұрын
The birth name thing strikes a sore memory for me My ex (a trans man) never mentioned his birth name, and I didn't really care to ask. But one time we went to dinner with him at his dad's place, and his semi-drunken dad decided to go on a fatherly rant about the history of his "two daughters" and used my bf's birth name in past tense context. Seeing my bf's expression when that happened struck a special little spark of rage in me. It's one thing to mess up when you're still getting used to the change, it's a whole other thing to think it's okay to deadname someone just because you're referring to them in a past context.
@bobarasmith
@bobarasmith 5 жыл бұрын
So great to see young and adult cis/trans couple collab like this. Would you ever consider doing a video with an older cis/trans couple? Also, loooove Shaabas jacket
@holyhellion69
@holyhellion69 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who grew up Muslim, the phrase "your love is not halal" broke my heart. Damn. I'm pansexual, my dad still doesnt really know.
@margaritam.9118
@margaritam.9118 4 жыл бұрын
Me: [walks down the street] Someone: [through the loudspeaker] DO YOU MIND ABOUT GENITALS This honestly sounds like a Monty Python sketch 😂
@spitedrowning
@spitedrowning 4 жыл бұрын
yesssss Monty Python
@theophilusomhurchu4438
@theophilusomhurchu4438 4 жыл бұрын
Ahhhhh I LOVE MONTY PYTHON. I miss graham chapman
@j_fenrir
@j_fenrir 3 жыл бұрын
Biggus Dickus has entered the chat
@intercat4907
@intercat4907 3 жыл бұрын
When we can start to laugh at them, we're winning. A year later, this is still a good post Thanks.
@Bobobo-bo-bo-bobobo
@Bobobo-bo-bo-bobobo 2 жыл бұрын
No one expects the Spanish Inquisition!
@AlfieSharman
@AlfieSharman 4 жыл бұрын
I love how everyone is wearing ‘normal’ clothes and then there’s Corry ...legend
@kieranshae
@kieranshae 4 жыл бұрын
I love seeing gay cis/trans couples because one time a cis gay man told me "No self-respecting gay man would ever date you" and I'm glad there are people like this to prove him wrong
@jaxsonezria
@jaxsonezria 5 жыл бұрын
This collabs was perfect 😍
@logangray8910
@logangray8910 5 жыл бұрын
I love the dynamic of these four in this video! As a transman with a cis fiance, it was nice to see two happy couples who are just as comfortable being together as I am! I hope the best for you all!
@Sarah-yb7yv
@Sarah-yb7yv 5 жыл бұрын
"But I am also like a mom...in Person. So if I dont know whats wrong I dont know how to mom you" I think I never related more to a statement
@mariahrivera6151
@mariahrivera6151 4 жыл бұрын
I seriously thought she said "I didn't realize I was by myself" and not "I didn't realize I was Bi, myself" 🤣🤣
@oggthekiller
@oggthekiller 5 жыл бұрын
help im stuck in an endless loop watching yours and noahs video due to the recommendations at the end
@Jammidodger
@Jammidodger 5 жыл бұрын
Oisin Clarke-Willis Good luck
@jenohehir7312
@jenohehir7312 3 жыл бұрын
💕Thank you all so much. As a parent of an F2M transitioning teen, your videos are so deeply helpful for me to understand and support him. You are all adorable genuine humans and give me hope 💕
@meeprific
@meeprific 4 жыл бұрын
Noah like, “I don’t want to talk about it because it won’t solve anything,” is the most guy thing ever.
@hidingfromsomeone
@hidingfromsomeone 5 жыл бұрын
Just want to leave Shaaba some love for being so honest about her experiences. I'm the same age as you guys (probably a few years older actually, oops) but being trans just wasn't spoken about when I was younger. I had a vague idea about "transexuals" from Rocky Horror but that was it -- I had to educate myself on a lot of things. I really relate to your comment about "don't give people grief for asking honest questions from a place of good faith" -- I think it's so easy to shoot people down for their ignorance, when they're not necessarily to blame for it -- especially people in their 30's or older. So yeah. Much love to Shaaba. I think you're awesomesauce.
@shaaba
@shaaba 5 жыл бұрын
hidingfromsomeone oh my goat this is so cute thank you for taking the time to share this and your experiences 💛 We shouldn’t punish people for ignorance, but if they’ve been given an opportunity to learn and still act like an idiot then that’s a different matter 😋 All the best! xx
@hidingfromsomeone
@hidingfromsomeone 5 жыл бұрын
@@shaaba oh yeah, if you give someone a chance and they're still an idiot then punch them in the nose (I'm joking, I'm joking!!)
@TD1045TD
@TD1045TD 4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how honest this is. It's so important for others to see this.
@yesterdaydream
@yesterdaydream 5 жыл бұрын
I'm a cis female and my partner is nonbinary (AMAB). I struggle with labels because I've always identified as straight, but I don't want to discount my partner's gender fluidity/queerness by calling myself straight, yet I also hesitate to claim queerness for myself because I haven't grown up with that struggle. All this to say, love is love whatever you're gonna call it or however you identify.
@bennyton2560
@bennyton2560 2 жыл бұрын
I mean, a lot of queer folks don't discover the fact until much later in life, so "not growing up with the struggle" doesn't apply to them either
@yesterdaydream
@yesterdaydream 2 жыл бұрын
@@bennyton2560 Thank you for this insight!! You're absolutely right and that's something I needed to hear, even two years later with a different partner!! Interesting to revisit this
@MrJolena20
@MrJolena20 5 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Sensitive topic with commentary!! Spot on!! Thanks for sharing!!
@danielasev1443
@danielasev1443 2 жыл бұрын
plsss 7:08 is so adorablee. Shaba being so aggresive and Jamie trying to calm her down
@isobelblackburn5615
@isobelblackburn5615 5 жыл бұрын
Okay so my boyfriend (hes ftm) and I met jamie and shaaba at pride and wow they're the sweetest in person man
@joycrossing
@joycrossing 3 жыл бұрын
lucky!!!! i wanna meet them so baddd
@Jazzskeptic
@Jazzskeptic 5 жыл бұрын
Noah out here with the wife beater on 😩😩😩
@Blazequine
@Blazequine 5 жыл бұрын
.....a tank top?
@Jazzskeptic
@Jazzskeptic 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah it was just a joke bc my parents always call them that
@boglarkaborszuk8802
@boglarkaborszuk8802 5 жыл бұрын
@ The toothpaste Man Are you Hungarian? I'm from Hungary, and one of my friends call them wife beater too.
@Jazzskeptic
@Jazzskeptic 5 жыл бұрын
Bogi B nah 😔
@ezrenficker4502
@ezrenficker4502 5 жыл бұрын
The toothpaste Man my parents call them wife beaters too
@Lisielle83
@Lisielle83 4 жыл бұрын
When hearing you guys talking about how basically it's not even a question that Jamie and Noah are males, it just sort of made me so happy in a way. I'm not a trans person but I basically live with males in my head [thanks Dissociative Identity Disorder], and that's something that actually makes them feel valid. Our fiance is the only one who ever told my male alters that it wasn't even a question if they were male or not. That made us so happy lol I've just started to watch your videos Jamie and honestly..... that's just amazing! I sadly don't know much about the LGBTQA+ community in general. And I'm glad that I get to learn things but also to see that you're both (with Noah) with such wonderful people! PS. I truly hope that what I said made sense, English isn't my first language ^^; I'm sorry if it didn't - Stars To talk for myself, a male alter, I get dysphoria often and that's quite a pain. I think that what helps the most is having a partner who sees you as who you are, like in every relationship actually. Just be you and love each other man lol Didn't really watch the video myself but you guys seem to be all very nice people! - Laio
@555pghbob
@555pghbob 5 жыл бұрын
I have learned a lot about my own sexuality through learning about transsexual issues and people. I was anti-trans (and I'm a gay male myself, go figure) when I first learned of the guy in Oregon who got pregnant because I thought it took something away from being male. Now, I see trans men as men, period. I would gladly have a relationship with a trans man if it ever came up in my life. Thanks to all people like these four who take the time to talk about their feelings and attitudes...it really does help.
@ladyredl3210
@ladyredl3210 6 ай бұрын
Cory’s accent is lovely! Y’all are so adorable.
@finn1079
@finn1079 5 жыл бұрын
i was like "wait did they change places?" but then i remembered noah mirrors his videos
@tamsingrove8408
@tamsingrove8408 5 жыл бұрын
why does he do that?
@mars5333
@mars5333 5 жыл бұрын
Tamsin Grove he probably flipped it because he prefers it flipped
@malloryknox1637
@malloryknox1637 2 жыл бұрын
Great video im cis gender and bi and my husband was trans (im widowed now unfortunately he was the love of my life! ) but i truly enjoy your videos and I think my husband would have enjoyed them as well keep up the great work w education you can truly Change the world!
@gangsterhamster2682
@gangsterhamster2682 5 жыл бұрын
I love the energy that all of you have when filming together, would love to see you collab again
@steverdms
@steverdms 4 жыл бұрын
How much unconditional love can you squeeze into one video? I love this.
@nirdybirdy6180
@nirdybirdy6180 Жыл бұрын
I understand people in the trans community not wanting compliments like “you’re super masc” but I personally love it when people compliment me like I’m a cute dog! When I’m upset and dysphoric my bf with just say I’m “such a handsome boy” and it just makes it better
@shroomd7657
@shroomd7657 4 жыл бұрын
the aggressive "CORRY DO YOU MIND ABOUT THE GENITALS" was so funny i sdjlasjdaslkjdkljsldjlkaj
@GeevesPie
@GeevesPie 5 жыл бұрын
That was honestly one of the most adorable videos I've seen that did not include a puppy or kitten. Y'all are cute couples.
@lucalibanio3967
@lucalibanio3967 5 жыл бұрын
22:36 Shaaba smacking Jamie's tigh so he can wrap the video tho was a fav.
@turtle7039
@turtle7039 2 жыл бұрын
I really like having all of the together in a video because you get so many more views and opinions and scenarios etc. and it's just really nice to have such a wide range of that about one topic because so many more ideas and experiences get covered
@TheKmorgan90
@TheKmorgan90 5 жыл бұрын
He looks like David Tennant.
@LoveInTinglish
@LoveInTinglish 4 жыл бұрын
I was scrolling through the comments searching for someone else who thought this 😅
@nunyeh
@nunyeh 3 жыл бұрын
He sometimes looks like David Tennant and sometimes sounds like David Mitchell....
@valeale8851
@valeale8851 3 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD YOU'RE RIGHT
@missestee1450
@missestee1450 4 жыл бұрын
The sexual identity thing makes so much sense to me because like yeah I see some Trans men and I'm like oh they're attractive, but that doesn't make me bi or pan. I'm straight and saying that I'm lgbtq+ because I think a now man is cute doesn't change that they are not a man. Sorry if that made no sense I just had an oh yeah moment
@LeonBell
@LeonBell 5 жыл бұрын
Highlight of this was all of Noah's facial expressions
@rabbitteeth2596
@rabbitteeth2596 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a trans boi and my dream relationship is something like Cory and Noah’s relationship.. they’re an adorable couple a a a. A a a a a
@mowsey321
@mowsey321 3 жыл бұрын
It stuns me the obvious things people need to be told, like of course saying “you LOOK really masculine”, as it obviously invalidates their identity. I mean I get some people are trying and that’s good, but it seems so obvious to me. This is such a great conversation
@stinasvensk5951
@stinasvensk5951 4 жыл бұрын
18:14 mark: Shaaba and Jamie dying laughing, Noah SO DAMN SMUG AND PROUD OF HIS JOKE and meanwhile, Corry still trying to be serious and stay on topic. LOL!!! Epic!!!
@TheAngieRash
@TheAngieRash Жыл бұрын
I can't say enough on how much I love these informational videos and just how important they are 💗 I very recently came out as "not necessarily straight" but have had a difficult time landing on anything specific because, until now, I just honestly didn't think about how invalidating it was of me to think of myself as pansexual due to my having hooked up with a trans man. The discussion for the question at 6:52 was a great eye opener! I've been an ally since middle school and I'm still learning and growing with the community and just appreciate this openness a whole lot 🥰
@alexareid7049
@alexareid7049 3 жыл бұрын
I’m pansexual but married to a cis man and I’m still pan because I love everyone regardless of gender well not everyone but I mean yeah.
@taylorsart4646
@taylorsart4646 5 жыл бұрын
I’m bi and my boyfriend is trans and everyone just assumes I’m pan
@yourlocalcrackh3ad
@yourlocalcrackh3ad 5 жыл бұрын
Same bruh shit got me tight af when I gotta keep explaining why I'm bi and not pan
@chrinamint
@chrinamint 5 жыл бұрын
@@itsMe_TheHerpes Why are you here, douche?
@cano-.2725
@cano-.2725 5 жыл бұрын
@@itsMe_TheHerpes get the f out, let people be themselves, if you wanna hate, hate yourself not others
@mishapenmoonmoth
@mishapenmoonmoth 4 жыл бұрын
i get the reverse of this a lot because i’m pan but nobody really understands the definition of “pansexual” and it’s cause i’m attracted to people regardless of gender not just the trans babies
@wooyeah1738
@wooyeah1738 4 жыл бұрын
That’s kinda uneducated of them. I’ve experienced it in reverse (I’m pan) and I know it absolutely sucks.
@Aves1243
@Aves1243 2 жыл бұрын
endgame is the most ambitious crossover event in history jammidoger: hold my beer
@agentbobcat1866
@agentbobcat1866 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! I agree with everything in this video! just wanted to remind you that Pansexuals in general aren’t transphobic! (I mean there are transphobic pansexuals but that’s not because they’re pan sexual)
@Ch1cken_m4n
@Ch1cken_m4n 2 жыл бұрын
Corry: Noah is very stereotypical a guy Noah in the most monotone staring off into space kind of voice ever: thank you
@AlexisTwoLastNames
@AlexisTwoLastNames 3 жыл бұрын
lmao, man. the world is so much better when people can be who they want. look at the “color” of this. just the color of the group in the sense that it is diverse in all ways, rather than the blandness of cookie cutter existence. great stuff.
@KawaiiCat2
@KawaiiCat2 2 жыл бұрын
This is so reassuring. I went on a date with a gay cis guy (I’m a gay trans man who’s been on hormones for a while already) and he had no idea I was trans and we had a wonderful time but I told him after our date that I was trans and he was shocked but very kind about everything. Then he said he couldn’t date me anymore but said he’ll continue to be my good friend and support me throughout my journey. I was really relieved he was nice about it but heartbroken that not being cis was a dealbreaker. I wondered afterwards if he even enjoyed our date or really liked me. It sucks
@noahmolinos6717
@noahmolinos6717 5 жыл бұрын
Was shaaba your first girlfriend because you have never talked about that I don't think
@shawnresor498
@shawnresor498 5 жыл бұрын
Pretty sure she is his first. He dated a boy for like 5 min and had an awkward kiss and that was enough of that. He tells the story in a past video.
@_TheSams4_
@_TheSams4_ 4 жыл бұрын
I see a my chemical romance poster in the background
@mr.mortmain4903
@mr.mortmain4903 3 жыл бұрын
I just noticed that! Like.. literally three seconds ago.
@chaotic.dragon
@chaotic.dragon 3 жыл бұрын
10:20 I experience disphoria and I don’t even know how to cope with that. How could a cis-person who’s never experienced that feeling in their life help a person who feels disphoric (?) if this person doesn’t even know themselves what to do?! Huuuge respect for the cis who try to do their best with helping.
@nathanglazier7460
@nathanglazier7460 4 жыл бұрын
Jamie, since I started watching some of your videos on here not too long ago, I had a feeling I recognised the face. The moment I got to this video and saw Shaaba's face it actually clicked, your appearance on a channel 4 program...really opened up conversation in my family, and helped me, retrospectively, to have a decent glimpse of what to expect when I eventually come out to my family. And you're helping again now, with all these videos giving me more perspective, and helping me grow into a better understanding of my finally acknowledged authentic self.. Thank you!
@xizzie3
@xizzie3 4 жыл бұрын
Omgsh I watch Evans videos and this one came up on my home feed 1. Had no idea that Noah is trans and 2. That Corry and Noah are a couple! Much Love!
@gloomy9100
@gloomy9100 5 жыл бұрын
That mcr poster in the back...💕
@Blazequine
@Blazequine 5 жыл бұрын
I love it. My pastel emo self is adoring that stuff.
@madisonwilson9341
@madisonwilson9341 5 жыл бұрын
VINYL
@rx_swe
@rx_swe 3 жыл бұрын
Are we going to talk about the fact that all of them are so freaking beautiful?????? Ugh I love them all so much !! They’re all amazing
@SweeteaDove
@SweeteaDove 4 жыл бұрын
I love how childish Noah is XD it's adorable :3
@ankitasarkar4300
@ankitasarkar4300 3 жыл бұрын
It’s on Noah’s channel!!
@blueerie_
@blueerie_ 3 жыл бұрын
Noah: Seven years ago! Shabba: Eight nearly Noah: Bwah
@lanaklein130
@lanaklein130 4 жыл бұрын
I can not stress enough how many times I've watched both these videos
@myutube5882
@myutube5882 5 жыл бұрын
I totally agree about not asking about the birth name. It's totally irrelevant.
@LeathurRokk
@LeathurRokk 3 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh I SOOO agree!!! I am cis but changed my name years ago just because I always disliked it and when folks beg me to divulge my "dead name":, it bugs me NO end....nosy disrespectful curious people should not put the people they are curious about under pressure!!!!!
@klainiffbastian
@klainiffbastian 4 жыл бұрын
This video made me so happy to realise that trans people's dysphoria changes day to day and your reaction to comforting changes. I'm only just trying to come to terms with my gender identity and whether I'm non binary or a trans man and how to socially transition. But just that fact made me feel like I'm not crazy, dysphoria shows up in different ways and yeah. Thanks.
@londongirl2768
@londongirl2768 4 жыл бұрын
Wishing you luck for figuring yourself out! X
@flowerryoongi
@flowerryoongi 5 жыл бұрын
13:42 NOAH'S FACE SENDS ME
@richardroy2430
@richardroy2430 7 ай бұрын
If you are a person in love with a person, labels are irrelevant. I love you guys the way you are!
@wanted__fundaddy5348
@wanted__fundaddy5348 5 жыл бұрын
Love how they all just forgot who’s trans and who’s cis for a second throughout the video
@allkill8747
@allkill8747 3 жыл бұрын
5:39 It’s so funny when everyone just goes “Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah”
@Bph-sv9mb
@Bph-sv9mb 2 жыл бұрын
POV you listen to jammis videos in the background while battling transphobs in his comments
@madisongear3256
@madisongear3256 3 жыл бұрын
I just want to say you all are fucking amazing hair.
@helleswahn
@helleswahn 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear you get so much hate.. :( You're both amazing people and your relationship is so valid!
@mrquacks2486
@mrquacks2486 4 жыл бұрын
I think that y’all are adorable toghether. And i love how the guys (Noah and Corry *im sorry idk how to spell your name 😓*) are always joking about and are so energetic 😊
@_.Mimzie._
@_.Mimzie._ 4 жыл бұрын
I want Corry's shirt 😂
@poliwagpi4554
@poliwagpi4554 2 жыл бұрын
noahs eyelashes are so dense i love them
@yeeterpetere2532
@yeeterpetere2532 4 жыл бұрын
I thought he was gonna say I was already wearing Hawaiian shirts 17:53
@LeathurRokk
@LeathurRokk 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the sweet vibe of all of you!!!!! Love and hugs and respect from a mostly conservative cis F B in the the USA!!!!!
@CornwellHayley
@CornwellHayley 5 жыл бұрын
This was a great video 💗💗
@bring.back.the.owl.house4
@bring.back.the.owl.house4 Жыл бұрын
2:31 FINGER TAPPING
@ashofmeal9453
@ashofmeal9453 Жыл бұрын
This video is so hectic I love it ❤
@dinagoodway20
@dinagoodway20 4 жыл бұрын
Probably one of the most comfortable video i've ever watched
@ineedahug6149
@ineedahug6149 4 жыл бұрын
Noah this whole video was just: 👁 👁 *stareee*
@SenzalaDecak
@SenzalaDecak 5 жыл бұрын
Whosever room this is, your music taste is amazing 🙌🙌🙌
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