Japanese woman from Canada

[@zawatcher7394]

Speaking Japanese always turn Ur personality by 180° unintentionally

[@t5ruxlee210]

Business executives often use English, rather than their own native language , to much sure "everyone is on the same page". This blunt type of outlining of who is to do what and why is used because saying the equivalent in their own language could be culturally inappropriate and impossibly rude.

[@ootts456]

Cap. I speak both japanese n english but my personality stays the same. You shouldn't use the term "always" if you're unsure about the things

[@kirliyapag1641]

​@@ootts456irrelevant to specificly Japanese speaking different languages changes your personality. Scientificly proven. You ofc will think you are the same. It is like hearing your own sound for the first time. You need to observe yourself from external perspective to understand it.

[@recuerdos2457]

I think it’s only because her English is a bit better than her Japanese🤷‍♀️

[@sweet.mer0o]

I would not say it truns your personality, it just changes your tone to a softer one. I think that is becuase the Japanese sounds themselves are soft. Anyway, you are still the same person. That will not change just because you sound softer because of Japanese language.

[@forrest_ation]

Crazy her mannerisms and body language change completely between both languages

[@WRILLI4M]

Sometime ago I heard that learning a new language makes your brain function differently. I believe this is also true when you speak a different language. In particular, Japanese spoken by women makes their voices sound much softer and more feminine.

[@n.b.3521]

Many people code-switch their personalities/behavior when speaking a different language (though it might depend on which languages they are). My mother is quite prim and proper in English, but gets markedly more animated and rough when speaking Acadian French. And I code-switch exactly the same way this woman does between English and Japanese. It just feels natural somehow.

[@scott-richards]

this conservatism is indoctrinated into Japanese kids from birth, they were taught to speak that way and scolded when didn't. Canadians have far less societial rules and shows in the expression of our language.

[@miyumiyu12]

Such is the power of language and the mentality it carries

[@Abbotttdesign]

I have no reservation against either side. I wish she was in my life!❤

[@giusepped3678]

This is why it's good to learn a foreign language. You're not actually learning a foreign language; you're discovering another version of yourself.

[@sweet_yellowstrawberry_moo9126]

XD

[@kardtable]

Nicely put.

[@Indo-japan]

Well said 😊

[@tu-uyennguyen5754]

So true, and so fun!!! 🎉❤

[@777jones]

So true. And you can connect with a new world of people and their wisdom.

[@sitinurshabania]

Language carries energies that indirectly affect our thinking and the way we carry ourselves

[@miyumiyu12]

Absolutely.

[@mianomo1216]

Didn’t know that until this channel.

[@emet17s]

Perfectly said.

[@kc_h7h]

I actually think different when I think in English. I did a expirement with myself. I did a detective quiz online. First i was thinking in my native language (dutch) and I couldn't seem to solve the mystery. But than I switched to English and all the clues became so clear to me and i started to solve the mystery I geuss I'm more deductive when I think in English but when I think in dutch I'm more social

[@AshleyGrahamcracker-oq3pf]

How?

[@John-ps9et]

She is absolutely gorgeous.

[@rayyurfav]

Simp detected 😊

[@good2goskee]

@@rayyurfav are you kidding...? She is HAWT

[@ilikeanimals5015]

​@@rayyurfavwhat's that even mean

[@rayyurfav]

@@ilikeanimals5015 simpathy simpy

[@the_cheff_zeff3997]

100% understand what she means after seeing her also towards the end speak and introduce herself in Japanese it was much softer but she still seems like a very brave person 😁💯

[@yo2trader539]

We wouldn't consider it "brave" in Japan. Something else, I'd rather not write.

[@seerfruitpunch775]

@@yo2trader539shouldn’t have written that piece either then

[@pahakuutti]

Brave is good for someone breaching the beaches of Normandy. For a woman otoh, not so great.

[@horizonkyun7203]

@@pahakuutti …huh?

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

@@yo2trader539I’m not Japanese, but i think i know what you might mean. In english her personality sounds like nails on chalkboard. 😖

[@dukeon]

Takashi you’re a legend on KZbin now 👍🏼

[@taralalram]

And you sir are the reason why simps exist 🙄

[@robinwatson4282]

Takashi, you're a legend in your own lunchtime.

[@HowardOlmstead-p6p]

She's absolutely adorable 🥰

[@FranFerioli]

Yes, and this is the all purpose of this channel !

[@AC-LING666]

Jesus Christ how sad and pathetic

[@HowardOlmstead-p6p]

@@AC-LING666 You can only wish you were 1/2 as adorable 🥰 as she is Ohh 😲 my! Your jealously is showing

[@KingstarMorningstar]

​@@HowardOlmstead-p6pstop being cringe lil bro

[@orangeyewglad]

absolutely a-bust-inside-able

[@joytani4489]

I really enjoy watching these interviews of yours because I’m half Japanese and Australian and can relate to a lot of these people and feel less alone.

[@tu-uyennguyen5754]

Yes, me too!! I’m not mixed race but I identify a lot with experiencing the world with two or more cultures. I’m grateful for the diversity we have around world.

[@MaryHLewis]

Wow crazy she sounds so sweet and nice in japanese, but she is right she sounds more confident speaking English.

[@miyumiyu12]

Yeah however notice both of versions are herself. Actually it depicts very well what Japanese women are on the outside at first and then after the closed doors and what’s inside their minds and how actually strong and cold they are. Just beware of Japanese women okay they are NOT as sweet as they seem😅 but it’s okay if you don’t believe me and marry one you’ll be weeping hard 😂🎉

[@MaryHLewis]

Tbh I have heard that from a few ppl that most of them they show to the world this sweat innocent persona, but behind close doors they are very cold,disconnected l, some very mean and kinds of don't give a fuck, but the worse is that they don't speak their minds or expect ppl to read their minds or figure how they feel without talking about it, which is crazy coz that's not how shit works, not in the real world u know.

[@esikazemese]

@@miyumiyu12 it's the Canadian in her, growing up in a society that doesn't expect women to cater to man and be ultra soft and feminine. You don't find that in other Japanese women unless they lived abroad and learnt to stand up for themselves.

[@HowardOlmstead-p6p]

@@MaryHLewis She's close to perfection 🤓

[@kstudios6767]

@@miyumiyu12 you can also say that some Japanese women are cool outside but sweet inside like me lol

[@ahmedayman6766]

She is gorgeous

[@chchgas]

For real but pretty sure if she doesn't wear a make up people would think she is a minor

[@the_boredbean4537]

​@@chchgas💀

[@funkymonk5344]

Ahmed stop commenting about cute Japanese girls on KZbin. You sound creepy.

[@satanmitdengeilenbarthaaren]

Beautiful, yep!

[@synkahlan]

Is there any Japanese girl you dont find gorgeous..she's pretty average

[@Tebogojm87]

I saw the shift as soon as she switched to from English to Japanese

[@agustinmarquezsegat4725]

Maybe just because she feels more confident speaking English, that’s all.

[@watchmelivenstuff]

English is more expressive in culture where japanese typically has its own social/cultural underatanding. Code switching. Its more acceptable to speak your mind in English in japanese its collective thoughts and formality

[@jOeLwAlBy]

I still get annoyed when people speak their mind so much in english. Living here and understanding Japanese makes me hate it even more. So many pointless arguements over stupid little things in western culture because people don't shut up and just keep the peace. It just makes people stressed out. I'm so relaxed here.

[@IrisJoens]

​@@jOeLwAlByExactly.

[@AshleyGrahamcracker-oq3pf]

@@jOeLwAlByyou’re so quirky

[@Leeghapee]

She’s absolutely beautiful and confident educated woman 👏♥️

[@classicrockonly]

I’ve noticed something similar with my wife when she speaks Swahili or English. Almost a different person

[@NoahLorano]

Growing up in North America (particularly the west coast or East coast), will change your personality from soft to -bossy- confident.

[@iranianrenaissance3421]

The reason is the rich cultural effect of Japanese culture in the way they think, speak and behave. The richness and eliteness of Japanese culture is not beatable for western culture. Japanese are the most genuine and gentle people in the whole world. ❤❤❤❤

[@abrarzarraf6566]

She's beautiful

[@honeycake9111]

She’s still very confident when she speaks Japanese

[@slee-01]

When she speaks Japanese, she sounds and looks more attractive.

[@chibimaruko5042]

I am indonesian Speak english , german and indo. When i speak indonesian, i feel more humble, sweet, funny and happy When i speak english, my character turns to flirty and confident When i speak german, i became fully straight forward and no fuck around 😂😂😂

[@travelwithjustin]

Can’t wait to see the next one. Planning to visit next year!

[@EpicGigaziiveidove]

Its true... When she speaks japanese... So soft and calm.

[@tokyourbanlife1761]

That trouser is so cute, I’m looking for the same one

[@amizunosky7]

Yups, feel so soft to hear sound of Japanese languange. So calm & good & nice & polite

[@alohatutti]

Loved her outfit

[@EVElllLYNE]

Saame it's simple nd cute

[@popneo2007]

Maybe It's her own brand.

[@donviajero2580]

I can believe this. I'm completely bilingual in English and Spanish, having learned both as a kid. I've long noticed that I'm much more expressive and animated when speaking Spanish compared to English.

[@ri._.]

れいこさんだ！！昔ICUの動画めっちゃ見てた！！

[@anubhabhat2128]

Eastern / Asian languages somehow make you softer..

[@favourablesylliang8447]

she’s too beautiful 😊

[@litaibai8686]

I think you are right

[@favourablesylliang8447]

@@litaibai8686she really is

[@rayyurfav]

Simp detected 😊

[@favourablesylliang8447]

I like her really

[@sdnlawrence5640]

We don't think of canadians as strict or confidents. They're almost as soft and polite as Japanes.

[@goodlife-l3g]

she is so charmful

[@thoithoibaheisnam921]

Japanese sounds very respectful and it's true

[@shm9105]

The Japanese language has a lot of cute sounds that make it sound like cartoon which is where the calm and nice tone come from

[@Alikhantanoli-yf6mo]

I'm from Pakistan i love Japanese

[@Smittenhamster]

I love her style, like sophisticated hippie😊

[@ClA-fh5pb]

With spaghetti straps?

[@Marcel_Audubon]

not seeing sophisticated

[@MonkeyHero]

Not seeing hippy either

[@SkpalTube]

Lol, neither of those. 😅

[@qiweiYan]

as a chinese teenager,i find the people who arond me alomst are fond of japanese gilr speech.they give us a gentle feeling becuse they speak in a breathy voice

[@8777RL]

I prefer the Japanese version cos she smiles, when she did English she was so serious.

[@miyumiyu12]

But she said herself she likes her open English version. That’s what her mind actually is. Japanese society imposes that “docile”(but fake, fake!!😂) veil on women

[@qszsqaw]

@@miyumiyu12 how about germanic countries imposed the male image on women?

[@pietwarkawani9616]

​@@miyumiyu12what? Veil on women? Japan is not a Muslim country 😂

[@pietwarkawani9616]

​@miyumiyu12 I think Japanese society is not fake but they are educated to be more polite

[@destineeryan6773]

​@@pietwarkawani9616 Not agreeing or disagreeing with the comment, but although he said veil, based on context clues he meant 'façade.' Nothing to do with clothing-he meant Japanese essentially wear a façade in public, at jobs, school, and that a façade of a higher level of demureness from women in public is somewhat expected, etc., although being demure isn't (necessarily) in their true nature. They remove the façade when they're alone. When they're alone and they can relax with no façades-THAT's who they truly are, with no forced politeness, fear of judgement, etc. Of course, some people are naturally born very polite, and so for them it may be no façade, but for most born an average amount of polite, the *degree* to which they are polite in public, is a façade. Some women will act more demure in public, but alone are a more bossy person, or are still demure, but a little less demure in private. I think everyone's façade has some of the real them in it-but it's only the 'publically acceptable parts' of the real them in the façade-the rest is a false self or filler they put towards the public (and sometimes even their friends and family). Not sure if you were trolling, or if English isn't your first language, so I approached the confusion of the word 'veil' with sincerity. If you were just trolling however, I hope you can still appreciate my sincerity to help someone and respond with politeness yourself, since you wish more places had the kind of politeness Japan had.

[@AchuWetsah-rb6hf]

She's beautiful😍❤

[@tennaj1367]

Who else is waiting for her at the very end after she spoke Japanese to speak English in a very aggressive over the top manner! 🤣

[@GameFuMaster]

wait till she learns German!

[@eurasia1963]

Got friendly with a Japanese businessman who was staying at the same hotel in Manila a couple of years ago,he was fluent in English and during several conversations he told me about a lot of the social attitudes of Japan, still very reserved, conservative,but that is part of the culture and what them so ,in my opinion,very pleasant people and this young woman is a stunner

[@easyalpha1]

She is stunningly beautiful....

[@johnwurf9016]

sizle down

[@dmr3e]

Bro just go to Japan, this is average

[@easyalpha1]

@@dmr3e Lol, that would be a dream come true…

[@dmr3e]

@@easyalpha1 make it come true. Save up money and go bro. It’s not so hard, you can do it!

[@yaduyadav---]

Now i notice language can change personality, पर हम हिंदी बोलते हैं तो सारे गुड दिख जाते हैं हमे भोजपुरी, हरयाणवी, खड़ी, ब्रज सब बहुत सुंदर भाषा हैं।😊😊

[@SoLei0912]

❤ She’s pretty!

[@eimearmcmanus372]

When I speak Spanish I feel much more enthusiastic and passionate than when I speak English. That's why I love Spanish.

[@thakursushantsingh6370]

Love you brother ❤ from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳 🗾

[@shaukah9173]

Humble , beautiful language and people ❤❤❤❤ Japan forever ♥️

[@marcioamaral7511]

I wish I could change personalities when speaking another language I just stay the same LMAO

[@goyam2981]

Me too. I don't change. 😆 I think it's more that she's aware of the Japanese culture and manners than something to do with the language itself.

[@WRILLI4M]

​@@goyam2981you have a good point.

[@davidclark3474]

She’s gorgeous

[@rayyurfav]

Simp detected 😊

[@SAHIL-no8nt]

While speaking in English :- Bold & Confident While speaking in Japanese :- Soft tone and kawaii ☺️

[@richardc5100]

It’s the translation later in her brain taking up more cpu power

[@CatshopFighter]

I'm not watching the show but Rubina's enthusiasm is something to watch. I also like deep dialogues, expressions...maybe I'll try it out.

[@caddieohm7059]

That's normal. You are as many people as many languages you speak

[@raygeng4596]

She is so pretty…

[@ErenTheWarcriminal]

Neuron activation

[@Wanimran3]

Wow wow wow wow..easy man.

[@deztiwanak3624]

She is both wonderful in her Japanese and English ❤

[@Daniel-n6n6f]

Canadian + Japanese = beauty

[@АнастасияВаракина-е9с]

She never said she is hafu though.

[@sunen7129]

are you saying pure japanese or pure canadian = not beauty?

[@DM-er2ms]

Her parents are japanese and her second dad is Canadian. So 100% japanese

[@Daniel-n6n6f]

@@sunen7129 This is a bad use of logic you need to learn to read

[@sunen7129]

@@Daniel-n6n6f Beauty is subjective. Just the idea of you generalizing a race as beautiful or not is inadvertently calling others not beautiful. It's like saying I want my kids to be boys because boy's are smart is saying girls are less smart. Do you understand the logic behind it?

[@sandhyachanu6509]

Her personality is like what she says true ❤❤❤

[@synth712]

True.. Me who master 3 language.. Have different personalities when speaking each language.. It is mainly because language is identic to its culture..

[@gordonbgraham]

Me master 3 languages? "I" is the subject of a sentence. "Me" is the object of a sentence. "I, who have mastered 3 languages, have different personalities when speaking each language." There...fixed it for you.

[@wilimliao1666]

Es algo cultural: al hablar en japonés lo hace a la manera japonesa, y al hablar en inglés lo hace a la manera occidental. Es porque conoce ambas culturas, adopta una mentalidad según la cultura.

[@jdog929]

She does sound aggressive in English

[@miyumiyu12]

And that’s what her mind in fact is

[@kevrut8599]

Even when I speak English I become more aggressive although I can't understand English.😂

[@johnny-w9g]

I like her Japanese version way more. ❤😊

[@lauradaniellasepulveda3201]

Ok, but the subtle hair flip when she said "I like the English side of me better"?😍😍😍😍

[@Asplera]

I’m a trilingual and my mannerism changes amongst them. Can relate to this. The softest version of me comes when I speak Chinese, which is quite weird in a sense.

[@B1rdTheW0rd]

That’s a crazy change. But same thing happens with me. It’s the wildest thing.

[@ArchesBro]

Those jeans look so clean and perfect. Im so used to seeing Japanese people with the really old thick poorly fitting jeans lol

[@ilyarique]

The Japanese personality melt hearts…

[@tysonball9804]

Is this Reiko from Tokyo Young Boss?

[@RichardSmith-pb8qk]

I can’t count how many times people have said personality changes based on language. Your personality does not change - your behavior does. You’re not an a-hole in English and then a saint in Japanese, you’re one or the other the whole time. If you don’t believe me, watch a Japanese person speaking naturally at home, and then answering the phone to talk to a customer/boss, etc. Their attitude will change, their pitch will go up and octave, and they may even stand up if they had been sitting. That’s not a character change.

[@TeddyB3ARGaming]

Let me guess Vancouver? That west coast accent 💀

[@jojogo1394]

Japanese accent is so cute😊

[@melissakennedy5897]

Very cool woman

[@Bill-s5x]

Thank you for proving why I love Asian women. Never change sweetie.

[@edwigeguerin894]

She's sweet🥰 like her bossy side better too😅😂😂

[@snowymuffin]

She’s so lovely! I love her personality ❤

[@chrisrhodes2]

Been almost 20 years since I been to Japan. I gotta go back

[@pradeepchinthaka3712]

To where?

[@mariogolombek3158]

Thanks!

[@KM-fb2gf]

It’s definitely because of her lack of vocabulary in Japanese, I’m sure. I’m also Japanese-English bilingual, and thanks to my parents’ effort, I read tons of Japanese “heavy” books and watched Japanese TV show. Thanks to that I’m very confident both in Japanese and in English…

[@samojede6776]

Maybe she just prefers to be more blunt?

[@BooksRebound]

No, it's a known thing that people's personalities adopt the cultural traits and attitudes of the culture when they switch to speaking another language. It's called code switching and it's really interesting. People act differently in different languages even when they're completely fluent.

[@goyam2981]

It's more that she's aware of Japanese culture and mannerisms rather. When you learn a language through absorption and seeing real people talk and interact you tend to absorb the body language and mannerisms when speaking that language as well. If someone just studies from books and robotic language teaching videos I highly doubt it would have the same effects.

[@goyam2981]

I myself tend to nod a lot when speaking Japanese because that's what I see Japanese people do when speaking. You automatically copy that.

[@KM-fb2gf]

Of course what you guys are saying is partly true, definitely when we switch languages our tone of voice and the way we move our body changed immediately. But I would say it doesn’t affect the core of your personality but just the way you express your idea. And actually I am learning Hindi as a third language in India now, I can relate to her that I’m feeling non-confident in Hindi cuz I can’t express my idea clearly and can’t have discussion of high context, which I can in Japanese and English.

[@KristenGuyDesign]

It all about her body language, English speaking she has her hands open and kind of holding herself firm, faster hand talking more action as she speaks. When she switches to Japanese speaking she folds her hands in front of her and has her hands together for most of the time she’s speaking. Body language says a lot, I don’t know if I’ve seen much hand talking with any Japanese speakers, but I’ll definitely be paying more attention now!

[@SaHlGood]

You better come back and pay those taxes

[@highkick7]

😂😂😂

[@DGM4372.]

Gorgeous and confident

[@fitzeralifestyle5293]

Why? Her Japanese side is so much cuter

[@miyumiyu12]

Nah it’s pleasant to the receiver of course but beware she’ll not be like that after closed doors

[@FROST12350]

She is absolutely stunning 😍 ❤

[@Domy9211]

Don't forget Palestine 🇵🇸✌️ Palestine is free 🇵🇸💕

[@TheGreatAndYOU]

Love how you people were nonexistent 10 years when the same exact thing was happening then. There's a reason why it's being reported now than before sheep.

[@TheGreatAndYOU]

Love how you people were nonexistent 10 years when the same exact thing was happening then. There's a reason why it's being reported now than before sheep.

[@nadie-qm8rq]

Her shirt is so cute

[@MrLucOz]

What she said is true. I was born in Brazil but lived in Japan for almost 20 years and in fact when I speak japanese my personality is more cordial and calm than when I speak in other languages.

[@moebiewu5662]

そう！私は中国人ですが、カナダに住んで7年になるし、二年前から日本語を勉強しています。 中国語と英語と日本語、話すときはまるで自分が別人になった気がする…

[@paulnursey3119]

You make Canada proud.

[@cristinatorto9599]

Thank you. I Love ali interviews but this is especial because it's real the diferente express when she speak english and japonese.

[@lucio.martinez]

They say that when you learn a new language, you've gained an additional life. I think it's true, a new personality and new ways of thinking.

[@ReiKakariki]

Spiritually,culturally she's Canadian ❤

[@xinyuanlee9818]

The beauty of Japanese and Chinese are both pretty。

[@ratatgp3926]

My former japanese boss was opposite, she sounds so strict when speaking in japanese but so calm and friendly when speaking english.

[@kihcokimaw]

What a shift in personality !! She's right ! 👍

[@moebiewu5662]

I'm a Chinese living in Canada and learning the Japanese language... I can definitely tell that I'm like a different person when speaking each of the three different languages lol

[@ilayakempeneers2563]

Also she's so gorgeous literally stunning girl I would say own it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@skincareandcurls]

She’s beautiful.

[@grays142]

its not only japanese, everyone when they can speak multi lagguage, not only the lagguage that change but also your tone and personality

[@selflesssamaritan6417]

She radiates an ultimate energetic onee-san energy.

[@cejay2619]

I love her red lipstick color. Wish we could get the brand name!