Thanks! I appreciate you being so forthright and open about your life and feelings. I understand your feelings because I take care of my father with dementia and health problems and took care of my mother for 6 years until she died. I had to retire early at 55 yo to care for them. That was 11 years ago. I have not had a complete day without taking care of them since I started. It is very easy to get frustrated and depressed. I have no friends and cannot do any of the things I enjoy. But we must do the best for our families whatever the sacrifice. I will keep you and you family in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself though. Remember when your feeling down that you have many friends and followers that love you. ❤️ Cliff
@aya_tokyo11 ай бұрын
Dear Cliff! Thank you so much for Super Thanks! You took care of your parents for such a long term...I know you have wonderful friends, just I guess it's not easy to share this kind of matter with them. Especially in Japan, we, Japanese people, tend to hide the real for "virtue". But now I feel comfortable after I realize that I could share my feeling with you☺️Thank you so much!
Don’t be hard on yourself. My father had dementia too and I would sometimes get frustrated with him. But it’s because I loved him very much that these feelings surfaced and it is very sad to see loved ones in this situation. You are a wonderful caring girl, please don’t feel bad about yourself, these emotions show how much you love your parents. I wish you and your family happiness and good health in this new year. 🙏😘