JD Vance issues campaign DESTROYING comment

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Brian Tyler Cohen

Brian Tyler Cohen

Күн бұрын

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@SnarkasticSunny
@SnarkasticSunny Ай бұрын
I was 1 of those kids & that divorce improved our lives SO MUCH! It saved our lives!
@SparkyWaxAll
@SparkyWaxAll Ай бұрын
My sons thanked me for divorcing their mom and years after the divorce everyone is happy and we all are close
@cindyschneider4728
@cindyschneider4728 Ай бұрын
Oh yeah, women can be the abuser in a household too. My grandfather stayed with her out of a sense of duty, and she destroyed the entire family.
@angelafahlenkamp9311
@angelafahlenkamp9311 Ай бұрын
It allowed us to run and hide in a different state for our security, he found us after we were put in protective custody and then they moved us out of state because he waa so violent and part of a cult....another reason the state helped us 🤷‍♀️
@oltedders
@oltedders 29 күн бұрын
I wish my parents had divorced when I was 10 instead of dad walking out when I was 18. By then, I was already incapable of normal social behavior.
@jrelldun
@jrelldun 28 күн бұрын
Same, if my mom would have stayed with my stepfather, she likely wouldn’t be alive today.
@jasperhewerdine
@jasperhewerdine Ай бұрын
As the child of an abusive relationship, this rhetoric is absolutely horrifying, it cannot be understated how much better off and safer I am now my parents marriage is over, growing up in an abusive household is one of the most damaging things on children.
@deborahbarnes6741
@deborahbarnes6741 Ай бұрын
Grew up in the same situation. My Mom stayed too long & one of my siblings had to be hurt while defending her before she did anything to end the marriage.
@bizygirl1
@bizygirl1 Ай бұрын
I grew up with a violent alcoholic father that my mother refused to leave. I lived through whipping by belts, telephone cords, leather dogs leashes. Being whipped so much I’d lose control of my bladder. Then at about 8 yrs old the punching began. Punches to the mouth by a grown man, a construction worker. I can’t count how many times I had to carefully pull my lip tissue out from my braces. But I was told, “Just don’t make him mad”. I didn’t have to do anything, he’d go through different personalities with each additional drink he had on any given night. You never knew what you were walking in to. I would beg my mother to leave him. I offered to quit school and go to work full time to help with the bills. She had a job. But she’d tell me, “ You just don’t know how hard it is to live on your own”. I was a pretty decent kid. I made good grades, I had friends, I was liked by my teachers and friends parents. No one had any idea what was happening at home except my closest friends because I was sworn to secrecy by my family. So I started staying away from home. I started getting high. At 16 I was abducted by a man 16 yrs older than I and raped. I beat the crap out of him. I tried to return home but couldn’t stay. My mom couldn’t understand why and tried to send me to a psychiatrist. I told her psych everything that was happening in that house and refused to go back again. I was the shit disturber in the family for telling the truth. Divorce IS the answer for many family’s. Divorce can bring healing between couple who otherwise bring nothing but misery to their children. Project 2025 is evil.
@reginafris6822
@reginafris6822 Ай бұрын
@@bizygirl1 100% concur. Am sorry you had to suffer through so much trauma. Hugs.
@TheValwood
@TheValwood Ай бұрын
Yep! Sounds like my childhood. My life was so much better after my dad left. He was physically and mentally abusive and an alcholic.
@user-do4rm4xh6e
@user-do4rm4xh6e Ай бұрын
@@bizygirl1 You are amazing! I hope that you have found peace.
@peforster6725
@peforster6725 Ай бұрын
Children who live in a home where they experience domestic violence are extremely traumatized.
@KJ-wh8fu
@KJ-wh8fu Ай бұрын
And many, sadly, go on to traumatize their children or others...😢
@jeanvignes
@jeanvignes Ай бұрын
Yes! I have been diagnosed with PTSD by three different doctors in different states over a period of decades. Did I experience war? Famine? No, I experienced the kind of home that JD Vance wants millions more children to experience. Violent. Abusive. Trapped in a cycle of rage and despair. NO THANK YOU. Breaking my family happened long before the divorce, by our abusive, violent, rage-a-holic father.
@kenbrown7488
@kenbrown7488 Ай бұрын
And not forget about child incest,and rape by a relative​@@jeanvignes
@kenbrown7488
@kenbrown7488 Ай бұрын
​@@KJ-wh8fu the Republicans have such a legalistic black n white concept of marriage and sex...what about the grey areas of relationships which most people in relationships fall into ..the relationship dynamics aren't a one size ( underwear) fits all SMH
@KJ-wh8fu
@KJ-wh8fu Ай бұрын
@@kenbrown7488 Indeed!
@susancregg472
@susancregg472 Ай бұрын
Ironic, considering he is running on the ticket of a man who has a habit of leaving the mothers of his children for other women.
@patriziapiccardo2428
@patriziapiccardo2428 17 күн бұрын
Men can leave because they are bored. Women can't leave even if they are getting beaten.
@PattyKopelman
@PattyKopelman 10 күн бұрын
Yep, he put it so well, “ they change wives as often as they change underwear”!🤮
@Katnea3
@Katnea3 9 күн бұрын
@Susan, You took the words right out of my mouth. 🤗
@christinemcloon290
@christinemcloon290 7 күн бұрын
It's not good for children to see their father beat their mother. I think everyone is unhappy when someone is beating them, man or woman
@user-bw4jm1bv1i
@user-bw4jm1bv1i Ай бұрын
I was a child that experienced violence from my father, until my mother left my father and took myself and my siblings with her. This was a good thing.
@Polo22546
@Polo22546 18 күн бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@veerledebaetselier
@veerledebaetselier 16 күн бұрын
Your mother is a courageous women.
@wandadavis8025
@wandadavis8025 2 күн бұрын
Same for me and my siblings. I’m sure my mom would have ended up dead so I’m grateful she got us all out. But I’m especially glad my dad couldn’t molest me anymore after we left.
@TheSilentCheetah
@TheSilentCheetah Ай бұрын
Growing up in an abusive household is more damaging than a divorce can ever be. Sincerely, me.
@patriciahooks4090
@patriciahooks4090 Ай бұрын
This is absolutely unthinkable for any child. Vance is an incredibly sick and depraved man
@WalkerHoundGal
@WalkerHoundGal Ай бұрын
I agree 100%!
@rebeccadugger1780
@rebeccadugger1780 Ай бұрын
My family wasn’t at all abusive but they weren’t happy together. I now understand that and I’m so glad they divorced and were co-parents. They each found the loves of their lives and I got to be raised by four, happy, healthy parents. Both of my stepparents added so much to my life, I can’t even imagine who I would be without them. Divorce can be the best thing for the child/children. I am proof (and so is my sister).
@deebarlow
@deebarlow 28 күн бұрын
Believe me, I know from personal experience! My sister and I begged our father to leave!
@SnarkasticSunny
@SnarkasticSunny 28 күн бұрын
@@rebeccadugger1780 Wow! That's a truly great outcome ~ so glad to hear it!!🥹
@pollyfisher-johnson3091
@pollyfisher-johnson3091 Ай бұрын
This man is dangerous. Vote blue!
@jayyoder5146
@jayyoder5146 Ай бұрын
​@@sharonreed6068Are you just another woman that likes to be controlled?
@zulubeatz1
@zulubeatz1 Ай бұрын
The people behind him are very dangerous too.
@zulubeatz1
@zulubeatz1 Ай бұрын
@@sharonreed6068 Mankind has violence in its history. Some of us are trying to improve that. Not claim immunity from it. Your use of emoji betrays your origin & purpose.
@sharonreed6068
@sharonreed6068 Ай бұрын
@@zulubeatz1 while your party supports Hamas The only issue you Dems care about is abortion, abortion for goodness sakes Pathetic
@wuzittooya
@wuzittooya Ай бұрын
​@@sharonreed6068 Typical Republican excuse to not take accountability
@lisacrandall409
@lisacrandall409 Ай бұрын
I wish every woman who is planning to vote Republican would watch this 😮
@jacksonjoe9724
@jacksonjoe9724 26 күн бұрын
It would make no difference if Republican women watch this most of them do what their husband tells them to do
@DeLayneJoseph1104
@DeLayneJoseph1104 21 күн бұрын
It would be nice to think that it would make a difference to the "Stepford" wives, but they're too busy on their knees.
@heathermorris6368
@heathermorris6368 21 күн бұрын
They would disagree with you and say well I did my vows in front of God and I must listen to and put up with whatever my husband does and those women are stupid if they stay in an abusive relationship
@slactweak
@slactweak 18 күн бұрын
@lisacrandall409 Those who are planning to vote Republican can't be saved. The ones who CAN be saved are the Independents and those who are "on the fence", (even though I truly can't fathom what there is to be on the fence about).
@WendyA0101
@WendyA0101 12 күн бұрын
It wouldn't matter to them. They think it's fine that their 12 year old daughters should give birth to their step/grand child, when their husband raped their daughter.
@beverlybauer3820
@beverlybauer3820 Ай бұрын
Being a child from a violent marriage, it’s the worst thing for kids if the parents stay in that relationship. Generational trauma!
@Daniele-hh6gt
@Daniele-hh6gt Ай бұрын
Women are not chattel.
@jameslarimer9211
@jameslarimer9211 Ай бұрын
It doesn't even have to be violent. My parents were in a toxic relationship, and after awhile they got divorced. I know what both are like. Divorce is hard on the kids, but it's the lesser evil.
@victoriao1828
@victoriao1828 Ай бұрын
Same here and I agree 💯
@rubincarter3904
@rubincarter3904 Ай бұрын
Yes, indeed!
@bonnieflynn4798
@bonnieflynn4798 Ай бұрын
Vote vote vote
@charlawebb4595
@charlawebb4595 Ай бұрын
If a man says a woman shouldn't leave an abusive relationship... He's probably an abuser. Just my opinion.
@nc1807
@nc1807 Ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. I’m voting for Biden We women need to be heard by voting blue like a tsunami. 💙💙💙💙 I wrote this before Kamala was running. Of course I will vote for Harris/Walz. I’m not going back. But I want to thank President Biden.
@msswart9119
@msswart9119 Ай бұрын
💯
@sassysaint3096
@sassysaint3096 Ай бұрын
​@@edeledeledel5490 Your whole comment is really sad. I see women everyday give up their identity for the love of a man. It's frankly, disgusting.
@donnawestbrook8992
@donnawestbrook8992 Ай бұрын
If not an abuser, he is complicit, and that is shameful. This is so scary. How is a child better off in a home where there is violence, or even when the parents are unhappily married? That isn't changing spouses like underwear, it is not being forced to stay in dangerous situations. How is there anyone who thinks that getting out shouldn't be a choice?
@Lily-cx1vo
@Lily-cx1vo Ай бұрын
That or he had a normal, happy, loving family and has ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA what it is like being a child in a household where the parents are at each others throats. All he has to do is acquire a basic understanding of child psychology to understand that a child witnessing parents in an obviously unhappy marriage is FAR worse than a child having divorced parents.
@Seagull1950
@Seagull1950 Ай бұрын
Unbelievable! Yes, let’s stay together so our children can see how an abusive relationship works. Sick.
@Rickettsia505
@Rickettsia505 Ай бұрын
And perpetuate the cycle.
@attitudeproblem6462
@attitudeproblem6462 Ай бұрын
Sounds like he’s mad at his own dad for not sticking around…
@jsdaglio1103
@jsdaglio1103 Ай бұрын
Thank God my young mother escaped from my alcoholic father with her 3 daughters in 1962 after being threatened with a loaded gun in Albuquerque, several nights after he drank alcohol late at night!
@vic.a1440
@vic.a1440 Ай бұрын
The more I listen to him, the more I realize that he's actually scarier than MTG, Gaetz and Ted Cruz combined.
@auntymarushkafah
@auntymarushkafah Ай бұрын
That's why Dawnie picked him.
@deborahgillett8459
@deborahgillett8459 Ай бұрын
And that is pretty bad!
@dougpeterson1236
@dougpeterson1236 Ай бұрын
​@auntymarushkafah maybe to some degree, but the biggest factor was that he kissed Trump's ass the most. That's the most important thing to Donnie.
@cpickles2996
@cpickles2996 Ай бұрын
​@auntymarushkafah Picked by Don Jr. - who got divorced in 2018. 😂
@mirandasapphire8203
@mirandasapphire8203 Ай бұрын
I don't want to listen to anymore, then.🤢😭
@84traveler
@84traveler Ай бұрын
It truly is a hellhole what the Republicans are advocating and offering for the future of America. Vote Blue!! 💙💙
@Matira269
@Matira269 Ай бұрын
Well said, they want a prison, run by them. They would vest themselves with all of the power that any sadistic warden could dream of.
@sandrabarrie84
@sandrabarrie84 29 күн бұрын
JD, there’s a quote you should heed: it’s better to keep your mouth shut and appear stupid than open it and remove all doubt.
@phampton16
@phampton16 23 күн бұрын
Totally 💯🇺🇸💙💙💙💙
@beebuzz959
@beebuzz959 9 күн бұрын
My father was abusive to my mother, not necessarily us, not physically at least, and I wish she had left him sooner. It would've taught me to stand up for myself more and not take things as I did for far too long.
@Doc30jj
@Doc30jj Ай бұрын
Violent households teaches kids either to be abusers or victims of abuse.
@user-bo1os8ig5c
@user-bo1os8ig5c Ай бұрын
Not always.
@ATChick
@ATChick Ай бұрын
💯 it messes up children's ability to discern what is normal and what is abuse.
@ATChick
@ATChick Ай бұрын
​@@user-bo1os8ig5c you must not have grown up in an abusive household or you're denying that you need therapy.
@leeeastwood6368
@leeeastwood6368 Ай бұрын
@@ATChick, option 2!
@zulubeatz1
@zulubeatz1 Ай бұрын
It can manifest in varying ways. What is certain is that you learn the language of violence at the time you should be learning about love and it can be hard to separate them when you grow older. I often wondered why relationships made me aggressive and destructive. As I am not a bully I self harmed and picked fights with bigger guys etc. It actually took a court order for anger management to start the process of healing. I have also asked for gods grace and guidance. I hope anyone who reads this finds a way to start loving themselves and others again.
@thablackguy84
@thablackguy84 Ай бұрын
He talks about getting a divorce like it's some flippant thing... like he talks about women getting abortions...
@Ck87JF
@Ck87JF 27 күн бұрын
Don't you know that most Democrat women only stay married for like a week before getting divorced, and they have like 27 marriages in their past? Plus, probably at least 100 abortions... /S
@slightlymadmom6532
@slightlymadmom6532 Ай бұрын
So, kids seeing one parent hitting the other is healthy? That's sick!
@dennismoon6693
@dennismoon6693 Ай бұрын
Even worse, what if some of the abuse is directed at the kid?
@carlyar5281
@carlyar5281 Ай бұрын
@@dennismoon6693often it is or eventually is.
@NoleDays
@NoleDays Ай бұрын
Not just hitting. Even infants are affected by DV. The infants are awakened by the raised voices. The sudden jolt of being awakened is emotionality abusive.
@cherylkelly6042
@cherylkelly6042 Ай бұрын
​@NoleDays So true, being in a home with DV affects children's nervous system causing PTSD, anxiety and other mental health problems.
@breestackss
@breestackss Ай бұрын
I remember seeing my parents fight when I was about 7 or 8, it scared the living shit out of me. That was a few decades ago and I still see it clear as a sunny day. They stayed together and it never happened again. It was just that one time and I don't like to even think about children living damn near daily with that going on. This JD Vance character got some effed up shit going on with his thinking about things.
@user-vm1wc9wx7o
@user-vm1wc9wx7o Ай бұрын
My childhood was violent. If my mother had a way to escape it, we would have been better off. Suffering, fear, and anxiety, leads to dystopia.
@suannestarot
@suannestarot Ай бұрын
What!? I got a divorce to save my life, not because I was unhappy. He has lost his mind...🙏🦋
@Jumajaju811
@Jumajaju811 24 күн бұрын
I think he is speaking about his own marriage. I would not be surprised to find out that nafarious things happen behind his closed doors.
@C-Here
@C-Here 21 күн бұрын
Did he have one to begin with? 😂
@0m3gaph03nix
@0m3gaph03nix 29 күн бұрын
I swear, if this dude is just there to topple Trump's campaign, he is going above and beyond. Bravo...
@StepInTheNightsky
@StepInTheNightsky Ай бұрын
My mother didn't get treated with her autoimmune disease for years because my father wouldn't let her and kept telling her it was all in her head while her health suffered, and he revealed he knew and did it as punishment for her trying to leave the church he worked at. She's happier and healthier divorced.
@hippiebippie8870
@hippiebippie8870 Ай бұрын
That is so messed up, I am so sorry. I really hope your mom's health flourishes for many many years
@stephaniemerlin1
@stephaniemerlin1 Ай бұрын
As someone with an autoimmune illness (rheumatoid arthritis) I feel deeply for your Mum. The pain and damage she must have suffered whilst enduring that will have been dreadful, and that's before the fear and pain she was experiencing from anything else going on in the marriage. I'm glad she is free of that now and hope very much that treatment for her illness has made her life easier. All the best. ❤🇬🇧
@angiel3693
@angiel3693 Ай бұрын
Kinda ironic that he worked at a church.
@StepInTheNightsky
@StepInTheNightsky Ай бұрын
@@angiel3693 Doesn't anymore, he's a fire safety inspector now.
@starfishsystems
@starfishsystems Ай бұрын
And so are you.
@janetstonerook4552
@janetstonerook4552 Ай бұрын
My underwear doesn't curse me, strike me, cheat on me or financially wreck me and then abandon me! J.D. has a lot of unresolved issues from his violent childhood.
@rhondacamp3346
@rhondacamp3346 Ай бұрын
Yes I agree, read the book.
@zenzen1916
@zenzen1916 Ай бұрын
Yes, and most change them daily! Vance must smell!
@maryhadda8420
@maryhadda8420 Ай бұрын
Either that or he's a moron and a religious nut.
@sann5146
@sann5146 Ай бұрын
That's the problem: Vance and Trump are products of highly dysfunctional families. But they didn't take a step back to address their root issues, which is also due to the problem of society normalizing sociopathic/psychopathic behaviors over many centuries. But, as a result, you then get seemingly high-functioning individuals getting into corridors of power, and there they merely unleash upon the populace (or their organizations, communities, etc.) their deeply wounded inner child psyches, aching for revenge and/or yearning for acceptance such that they'll do anything to get that 😒. I don't know how Usha ended up with him, coming from such a different, more principled upbringing. Unless there is something in her past too, or if Vance just somehow knows how to put on the charm when it counts.
@agent7176
@agent7176 Ай бұрын
​@@rhondacamp3346Saaaame
@user-ye1ik6hi5v
@user-ye1ik6hi5v Ай бұрын
Apparently, someone can be worse than Trump!
@cherillbaber6136
@cherillbaber6136 Ай бұрын
😂 Huh? A typical beast man....no 🧠 Need to look into his past. Another 🤡 we all need . DORK
@3TNT3
@3TNT3 Ай бұрын
Oh, and do you don't think Dump would strongly agree with him? Pleeeease, don't be silly and absurd.
@amberwinterwillow3703
@amberwinterwillow3703 Ай бұрын
​@@3TNT3i was coming here to say exactly that. he has no qualms supporting this BS
@therock8288
@therock8288 Ай бұрын
The guy who actually wrote what Vance repeated from Project 2025 is Roger Severino. Google him. Another trump kook
@mariannalban4819
@mariannalban4819 Ай бұрын
Trump agrees. He'll just lie about Project 2025 until after the election!
@pennyhanks5303
@pennyhanks5303 Ай бұрын
My parents divorced when I was 12. I can tell you it absolutely worked out for me. Was it harder for my Mom as a single mother, yes. But growing up in a house with less fights was so much better for me and my siblings.
@TheBurnsClan
@TheBurnsClan Ай бұрын
Someone might wanna do a wellness check on JD Vances wife, and his couch while they're at it.
@Chaddingway
@Chaddingway Ай бұрын
He probably treats his couch better than his wife.
@TheBurnsClan
@TheBurnsClan Ай бұрын
@Chaddingway doubtful the couch is likely never deep cleaned, and he probably shares it with all his campaign mates.... wouldn't be surprised if it gets paid hush money.
@gordonwalker9689
@gordonwalker9689 27 күн бұрын
This just out: The couch signed an NDA in 2019.
@TheBurnsClan
@TheBurnsClan 27 күн бұрын
@gordonwalker9689 just the first couch tho. The others are on life support
@christibrown5956
@christibrown5956 26 күн бұрын
​@@gordonwalker9689And possibly there is $150k cash hidden in it under the cushions!
@mexicas6637
@mexicas6637 Ай бұрын
How could anyone have that stance?! This is insane!
@AlyB2023
@AlyB2023 Ай бұрын
I'm sure it's easy when those who have it are coming from the place of power. No one is going after what white men want.
@beckycorbin5973
@beckycorbin5973 Ай бұрын
Well, MAGA Supporters WHINE about government interference, so Donald Trump and JD Vance are going to have to figure out how they’re going to remove the government and install the Trump government, who will be trolling their bedrooms
@Volf1916
@Volf1916 Ай бұрын
What is more insane, the masses of Americans that will change who they are to follow and be subservient to the likes of the MAGA dictators.
@bobkoroua
@bobkoroua Ай бұрын
Yes 🤪
@francinemiranda8409
@francinemiranda8409 Ай бұрын
How could his wife agree to this???
@reneejohnson4882
@reneejohnson4882 Ай бұрын
He is NOT what America needs nor is Trump.
@Reajjy
@Reajjy Ай бұрын
Fun fact: JD Vance was also not what Trump needed if he wanted to win
@jayyoder5146
@jayyoder5146 Ай бұрын
Trump always picked losers.That's what losers do
@user-yy4jo9pk2b
@user-yy4jo9pk2b Ай бұрын
Rich “know- it- all” Republicans are sooo irritating like JDV.🙄
@jayyoder5146
@jayyoder5146 Ай бұрын
@@user-yy4jo9pk2b JD VANCE aka "SOFA BOY"
@JeanEDeaux
@JeanEDeaux Ай бұрын
That combo is basically a murder-punch for America.
@sweetpotato7702
@sweetpotato7702 Ай бұрын
There are no words. It just blows my mind what he says.
@user-do4rm4xh6e
@user-do4rm4xh6e Ай бұрын
I was an attorney for 25 years. My area of expertise was helping families to get out of and recover from abusive relationships. My biggest reason for working in this area was to stop the cycle. The kids are the ones that are truly at risk. If we didn't get them help, kids would either end up in an abusive relationship or become abusers themselves!!
@VIsidore
@VIsidore Ай бұрын
💯
@DigiVixen
@DigiVixen Ай бұрын
As a person who grew up in an abusive and toxic household growing up, I struggle with my own toxic/abusive tendencies. I don't want to be like that. I'm working very hard not to be like that. But if my parents got divorce earlier, maybe I wouldn't have had such issues.
@user-do4rm4xh6e
@user-do4rm4xh6e Ай бұрын
@DigiVixen please let me know if you need to talk. I am retired so I can't give legal advice but always willing to listen.
@jaynefinley
@jaynefinley Ай бұрын
​@@user-do4rm4xh6e- Well said. Thank you.
@Gizmodo-4920
@Gizmodo-4920 Ай бұрын
I grew up in a family where verbal abuse was the norm. Then, not surprisingly, married someone who occasionally was abusive! I had a young son & vowed that he was not going to hear his Mom get trashed the way I heard this happen to my Mom! I divorced my (ex) husband & never looked back. My son's self esteem is better because of it!! ❤️ There is huge help in 12-step programs & therapy!! ❤️
@zebertbrown1517
@zebertbrown1517 Ай бұрын
What JD Vance is advocating - that a woman shouldn't be allowed to divorce her husband even if he's an abusive spouse - is property ownership. "I married you, I take care of you, you're mine. I OWN YOU."
@kittikins1
@kittikins1 Ай бұрын
Making women chattel. Again.
@anncata7368
@anncata7368 Ай бұрын
Not in my world.
@heaf200
@heaf200 Ай бұрын
All Trump and Vance think are is women are property VOTE BLUE.
@slfish86
@slfish86 Ай бұрын
Exactly the reason why I don't believe in marriage..
@John_Wick_29
@John_Wick_29 Ай бұрын
@@anncata7368You do realize if men collectively decided to take all your rights away there is absolutely nothing you could do about it!
@musiczambrano
@musiczambrano Ай бұрын
so lets protect kids from divorce... but not bullets
@slfish86
@slfish86 Ай бұрын
Bingo!
@cristinacastilleja-ratchfo5926
@cristinacastilleja-ratchfo5926 Ай бұрын
What a fool. He should go out and talk to some of these children who were in an abusive household. 🧢🧢🧢🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🧢🧢🧢 VOTE BLUE
@slfish86
@slfish86 Ай бұрын
@@cristinacastilleja-ratchfo5926 My brother's dad was HORRIBLY abusive to my mom physically and emotionally. She's got HORRIBLE PTSD from it and so do I! They split up when my mom was still pregnant with my brother. He's gonna be 30 in Sept, she's with a wonderful man now, but she didn't start dating again until my brother was 18. Abuse messes with people's head, it's an uncaged monster inside your brain that never leaves.
@ruthtaylor1450
@ruthtaylor1450 Ай бұрын
Don't forget that the radicalized right doesn't feel children should be protected from abuse, sexual and otherwise
@KarlJoftscheff
@KarlJoftscheff Ай бұрын
I agree 💯
@susancregg472
@susancregg472 Ай бұрын
I'm a kid of one of those marriages that bought into the idea that parents should stay together for the kids. The marriage wasn't abusive, but it certainly wasn't loving or kind. I grew up thinking that major fights each day and parents who resented each other the majority of the the time was "normal". Guess what- didnt work out so well for the kids either. My the time I was 5 and my sister was 2 we had already worked out between us where each of us would go if our parents divorced (this was arounf 1981 or 1982 when, at least for kids in upper-middle class all white suburbia, divorce was still pretty rare). We worked this out while we were hiding together behind my bed listening as my parents had (yet another) screaming match downstairs. By the time I was 7 or 8 I wanted my parents to split so badly I was asking for it regularly. By the time I was 9 I started to experience stomach ulcers from the stress of home life. My sister held her stress in much better. She was almost 12 before it started to show- in the form of hair loss. We both learned that we had to be as perfect at everything as possible in order to avoid doing something that might result in another fight at home. Never mind if we were happy, we just had to act as if we were to try to ease the tension at home. No pressure there. Until one day in 6th grade my fear of not bringing home (at least) an A in every class led me to have a full on breakdown at school. When I tried to explain to the school counselor how I didnt want my parents to be upset about my getting an A-, they asked my parents (in front of me) if they would be upset. Which of course they both denied. This resulted in me being sent to counseling for anxiety issues, and, when we arrived home, a HUGE fight lasting several days about which one of them was at fault for making me think like this. Yeah, that felt great. Needless to say, both my sister and I grew up to develop major mental health issues and TONS of issues about relationships (since we had no idea what a healthy, loving relationship looked like.) I wound up going the route of bouncing from guy to guy because I was scared to be in a relationship and have to deal with emotions. I had several great male friends who wanted to date me, but I refused to because I didn't want to wind up hating them (which, from what I had observed was what being in a relationship meant). My sister got in a series of long term abusive relationships, because she had become so terrified of fighting that she preferred to let them abuse her than try to stand up for herself of leave. By some miracle, with a ton of counseling, in our 30s both my sister and I managed to find and marry 2 very good men and have healthy and happy relationships with them and our kids. Neither of us has spoken to our parents (who did eventually divorce) in over 20 years. So, when Vance talks about divorce being bad for kids, maybe I can agree when divorce is done without any effort to resolve conflict, but when the marriage is a bad one? From a kid who lived out, I promise you, having parents stay together is FAR worse.
@kmduarte2005
@kmduarte2005 Ай бұрын
It’s better to come from a broken home than it is to live in one.
@Richard_the_V
@Richard_the_V Ай бұрын
Try saying that to kids waiting to be adopted. Any home is better than no home. And the tables turn as one gets older. Leading by example and doing better for next gen should be a goal.
@kmduarte2005
@kmduarte2005 Ай бұрын
@@Richard_the_V Not true at all. You happen to be speaking to a person who was adopted, and I was emancipated because my adoptive parents were such abusive, toxic people.
@Richard_the_V
@Richard_the_V Ай бұрын
@@kmduarte2005 are you saying staying at the adoption house would have been better? A broken home at least has a chance to be a family. I doubt anyone can say they have a perfect family home..
@kmduarte2005
@kmduarte2005 Ай бұрын
@@Richard_the_V Adoption house? I don’t think that’s a thing. Being raised in a broken home can lead to results like Harmony Montgomery’s - just to name one of way too many examples I could give.
@Richard_the_V
@Richard_the_V Ай бұрын
@@kmduarte2005 there are plenty of examples of people that have succeeded, it seems you are saying, why try..? Or because of the failures, there should not be any other attempts.
@Moon_Thief_420
@Moon_Thief_420 Ай бұрын
I wish my parents would've divorced! The whole "staying together for the kids" thing is bullshit.
@ileneragland369
@ileneragland369 Ай бұрын
Been on both of those trips. Don't recommend it.
@carolgrove2285
@carolgrove2285 Ай бұрын
Came here to say just that!
@amandabennett8346
@amandabennett8346 Ай бұрын
💯 My life got so much better when my mom finally walked. She got better, too!
@opalizard
@opalizard Ай бұрын
Same, my parents were much happier away from each other
@steveduncan9256
@steveduncan9256 Ай бұрын
I hated how my mother constantly got on my dad's case everyday, she would pick on him at every chance ,years later when in my 30s my sister(whom I wasn't close with at the time) agreed that they should've split citing my mother's constant berating.i so wished my dad would've left, he didn't then and he's still there and apparently(I live abroad now) it's still the same. He's 84 now and mums 80 so they both could have had 30 years of happiness instead of staying together
@troperhghar9898
@troperhghar9898 Ай бұрын
Its like all these guys came together and said "look our wives wouldn't stay with us if they had a say in it, so lets make sure they dont have a say at all"
@dianevanweelie5233
@dianevanweelie5233 Ай бұрын
@@troperhghar9898 They won't stop there. Some MAGAts want to roll back voting rights. Did you see video of Republican saying on the floor, that we need to go back to the 1960's? Think of the implications for women and minorities.
@JebusHypocristosX
@JebusHypocristosX Ай бұрын
You nailed it, free choice for women makes abusive men cry, like JD Clown is doing.
@debpowell4556
@debpowell4556 Ай бұрын
Exactly!
@Daniele-hh6gt
@Daniele-hh6gt Ай бұрын
He is so obsessed with sexual things and his hate for women.
@pimplequeen2
@pimplequeen2 10 күн бұрын
That is almost a good point but for the assumption that all relationships end because of "man bad"... That's simply not true. Generalization: It used to be that a relationship was more a "collaboration" against the joint adversities of life rather than "every man/woman for themselves". We lifted each other out of solitude. Now we have a problem, the workers are no longer valued for provisioning the spenders because the spenders forgot where the provisions come from. We are seeing men surrender and opt for the solitude of abstinence over the solitude of being second class in value... Women are now free to carry their own water and all that entails.
@rebelnfisher
@rebelnfisher Ай бұрын
My wife and I agreed to a divorce after 7 years of marriage. Our daughter was 2-1/2 and if you ask her today about her split family she would tell you that she had a great childhood. She had two sets of loving parents. If we had stayed together I believe that it wouldn’t have been beneficial to my daughter.
@theresasanti1066
@theresasanti1066 Ай бұрын
How very SAD for a child to be raised in a house hold & never know what happiness is in a good marriage.
@lisaalexander3434
@lisaalexander3434 Ай бұрын
@theresasanti1066 and this is why I've been divorced twice, and still don't know how to love
@pimplequeen2
@pimplequeen2 10 күн бұрын
@@lisaalexander3434 Out of interest, what is your quintessential definition of love?
@annabellagardner3190
@annabellagardner3190 9 күн бұрын
It is miserable. I grew up in constant physical pain, terror and emotionally miserable until I was old enough to flee - 17 My mother was totally trapped by my violent sadistic father. A very senior politician. Onlly my father was happy. He loved watching us in fear and screams from beatings delighted him. He got real enjoyment from the injuries - limping, broken bones etc watching us struggle to perform tasks entertained him. I have serious concerns about Vance, the things he says - the genuine enjoyment he gets from his cruelty. I'm concerned for his wife and children.
@marcusdub07
@marcusdub07 Ай бұрын
I was abused by a stepfather as a child. I had emotional issues that took years to work through. Thank the Lord, I am well-adjusted today.
@patriciaobrien6600
@patriciaobrien6600 29 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to endure that and so happy to hear you worked through it. That takes real strength ❤
@jacobmcbride17
@jacobmcbride17 28 күн бұрын
Congrats, bro! Takes strength to face down your demons. Keep it up
@NO1AEROFAN
@NO1AEROFAN 24 күн бұрын
And that is exactly why I NEVER brought any guys home around my daughter.
@NO1AEROFAN
@NO1AEROFAN 24 күн бұрын
Hugs to you
@matthewrowell8518
@matthewrowell8518 19 күн бұрын
As a stepdad myself it makes me so fucking angry hearing these stories. I have raised my stepdaughter since she was 3. Her father is never there for her and now she is 19 and effectively mine. To think people look at this situation as an opportunity to sexually abuse someone is disgraceful. It’s our job to raise them and get them to be the best version of themselves they can be. So sorry for what happened to you it’s completely unacceptable and should be life in prison at best in my opinion.
@gosmarte669
@gosmarte669 Ай бұрын
How many marriages did the GOP presidential nominee have ...🤔
@DeenaFix-zr4ew
@DeenaFix-zr4ew Ай бұрын
@@gosmarte669 😂
@MsWarriordiva
@MsWarriordiva Ай бұрын
Exactly my thought.
@juliekenny1344
@juliekenny1344 Ай бұрын
I know, right?
@Skeptic-eo8fz
@Skeptic-eo8fz Ай бұрын
Good point.
@jinxiewire
@jinxiewire Ай бұрын
That would explain the children of Trump having Daddy Issues
@yvonnehughes3242
@yvonnehughes3242 25 күн бұрын
What a load of bull!! The children in those types of marriages suffer a helluva lot more, than their violent parent... who should NEVER be near children EVER AGAIN!!! 🤬🤬🤬 What a looney-tune! Where did they GET this guy??? 🙄 Bring on Madame President! 💙💙💙
@ALFarrell-kv6ok
@ALFarrell-kv6ok Ай бұрын
Ladies, please save us all in November.
@elizabethhoran8114
@elizabethhoran8114 Ай бұрын
DITTO !!
@ChelseaBrown-fz1mj
@ChelseaBrown-fz1mj Ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that. Please women voters call you local representatives and let them know that you stand with President Biden and he must stay in the race because if you voted for him in the primary corporate media and billionaires cannot and should not pressure Democratic Politicians to force President Biden to step aside. We must make our voices heard and speak up and step up for President Biden. Corporate media outlets have created this narrative about President Biden's debate and age. They did the same thing in 2016 to Hilary Clinton emails for weeks. Let's not be fooled and allow corporate media and billionaires dictate to voters what President Biden should do. Women and voters who stand with President Biden make your voice heard.
@CMStrawbridge
@CMStrawbridge Ай бұрын
Hey buddy, talk to others like you. We're tied of carrying your dumb asses from your own messes
@claude.acampbell1393
@claude.acampbell1393 Ай бұрын
Vote Blue 💙!
@heidistonebraker7380
@heidistonebraker7380 Ай бұрын
Well, I may be no “lady”, but as a Woman, I’m voting 💙💙💙💙💙💙 Women unite against the right!!!
@suzanlund999
@suzanlund999 Ай бұрын
Mainstream corporate media never shows this craziness.
@ellenwilson5598
@ellenwilson5598 Ай бұрын
Thank you Brian, Vance is not to be trusted with his flip flopping.
@Volf1916
@Volf1916 Ай бұрын
The left will not. The indoctrinated MAGA and republican base will do as told and follow their indoctrination of servitude.
@randomentity6553
@randomentity6553 Ай бұрын
Flip flopping expert. changed his name THREE times in his life. seriously.
@DigiVixen
@DigiVixen Ай бұрын
More flip flopping than BUSH?!
@ellenwilson5598
@ellenwilson5598 Ай бұрын
@@DigiVixen The Bush man was always a Repub
@John_Wick_29
@John_Wick_29 Ай бұрын
@@ellenwilson5598 You guys should probably spend more time worrying about your VP!
@katharinenielsen6579
@katharinenielsen6579 28 күн бұрын
Oh my God! I’m out of a covert narcissistic emotional abuse marriage and I understand these men perfectly. They trigger me constantly and terribly and I can’t handle another four years of this fear! Justice pleeeeeease!!!!
@pimplequeen2
@pimplequeen2 10 күн бұрын
I think you may be making assumptions about what is being said. Marriage (committed relationships) has lost its value in public perception which is fine for those who don't see any value in it... We have a choice, yes? Good men seem to be abandoning any hope of a long lasting collaborative escape from the adversities of life. Opting not to bother attempting is becoming the logical choice for men. Why is that? What effect will it have? Why are so many women angry when men choose to avoid the risk of relationships? There are obviously some people who want long lasting committed relationships but we are losing all access to such a thing. How did we get so lost?
@seansmith7252
@seansmith7252 Ай бұрын
JD Vance forgets that he is on a ticket with Donald Trump, a man that has been twice divorced.
@heatherwendt7911
@heatherwendt7911 Ай бұрын
And his divorce from Ivana brought up the question of whether or not a wife can be raped by her husband. I think she eventually recanted, but it was a huge cultural moment.
@shariys1
@shariys1 28 күн бұрын
And who has screwed around on every one of his wives.
@SnarkasticSunny
@SnarkasticSunny 28 күн бұрын
@@shariys1 Even while she was pregnant
@rticle15
@rticle15 28 күн бұрын
And let's not forget that the architect of modern conservatism, Newt Gingrich, left his dying wife for another woman. Family values
@Necrotic99
@Necrotic99 27 күн бұрын
Nah, he doesn't have a problem with divorce...he has an issue with women trying to divorce. If the man divorces the wife, then its only right in his view.
@hydrocityshark
@hydrocityshark Ай бұрын
In what world should a land that promotes autonomy outlaw divorce?
@dianevanweelie5233
@dianevanweelie5233 Ай бұрын
Promotes autonomy? Not for women. P25 will eliminate no fault divorce.
@VIsidore
@VIsidore Ай бұрын
The same country that is forcing women to have a baby as a result of rape or incest regardless of age. I hate the GOP.
@bethwright8595
@bethwright8595 Ай бұрын
​@@dianevanweelie5233I think you misread the comment to which you replied. It wasn't referring to Project 25, not at all! It talked about "a land that promotes autonomy," speaking presumably of our nation at present. I don't know why you mentally inserted Project 25 and its vision of the future into the comment because it wasn't there!
@cindyschneider4728
@cindyschneider4728 Ай бұрын
@@bethwright8595 Because Trump and Vance are running on Project 2025. Trumps people wrote it, Heritage Foundation funded the Republican convention. Of course they lied about it. They only need our permission to overthrow our Constitution.
@DayTukErrJawbs
@DayTukErrJawbs Ай бұрын
JD wants to force people to stay in an abusive relationship. He's about to get a taste of what that's like.
@judyhall2291
@judyhall2291 Ай бұрын
Now doesn't he make you proud to be a Democrat!!!😮 🤦🏼‍♀️ Vote 💙
@anncata7368
@anncata7368 Ай бұрын
100%
@suek.1507
@suek.1507 Ай бұрын
I'm always proud to be a Democrat. 😎💙
@reneesimerale
@reneesimerale Ай бұрын
What the fuck???
@heathergaston436
@heathergaston436 28 күн бұрын
Independent, but yeah. Proud not to be whatever the hell THAT is.
@suek.1507
@suek.1507 28 күн бұрын
@heathergaston436 There aren't any decent words to describe Vance that won't get me banned. 💙💙
@Chet_Brinkley
@Chet_Brinkley Ай бұрын
He just gets stranger and weirder ! VOTE 🎵 BLUE 💙💙 EVERYTIME !!
@melodymusik261
@melodymusik261 Ай бұрын
Victims, STAND UP against abusers like this one being interviewed.
@playfulpanthress
@playfulpanthress Ай бұрын
Not "victims". Survivors.
@andreadonner8479
@andreadonner8479 28 күн бұрын
I feel sorry for the prisoner he calls wife.... 😢
@mrshawaiianheart
@mrshawaiianheart 17 күн бұрын
As someone who worked with assault victims. Standing up to the abuser almost always makes the violence worse. If it's to the point the woman is afraid, it's time to divorce.
@Macrochenia
@Macrochenia Ай бұрын
I've seen kids whose parents were in dysfunctional and sometimes even abusive relationships. It is *not* remotely healthy for the kids.
@kyliepechler
@kyliepechler Ай бұрын
Yes, and most intelligent and sane adults know that. The fact that Vance is ok with violence in a marriage, speaks volumes about him.
@scooooter37
@scooooter37 Ай бұрын
And now his boss is someone with a history of jumping from one marriage to another, not to escape violence, but for his own selfish pleasure…
@elaexplorer
@elaexplorer 29 күн бұрын
Oh sure but that's a man, it's woman that shouldn't be allowed to leave an unhappy marriage. If a man wants to, that's different. (according to him)
@ngriffin1924
@ngriffin1924 26 күн бұрын
Wives are a handy booty call, while free to sample the variety and newness out there.
@rickbunte3147
@rickbunte3147 Ай бұрын
Abandon the Republican Party. It has become rotten to its core. Reagan started it, and it is culminating now into the cynical evil of JD Vance
@debbydeberardinis8221
@debbydeberardinis8221 Ай бұрын
Vance wants to continue to show children that violence in relationships is acceptable, passed down from generation to generation. Sick
@penny1518
@penny1518 Ай бұрын
Very sick. Thank you for understanding.
@donnakuba6473
@donnakuba6473 Ай бұрын
It is all about a macho need for control - since they know there is no other way to keep a woman from leaving them.
@FoolOfATuque
@FoolOfATuque Ай бұрын
No fault divorce lets people leave abusive relationships without having to point fingers. If no fault divorce is removed it will lead to more accusations and convictions, because now in order to get out you have to provide justification. Be careful what you wish for abusive spouses…
@awfuldynne
@awfuldynne Ай бұрын
And where divorce isn't allowed at all, shitbag husbands are prone to mysteriously dying of unknown causes. "Be careful what you wish for," indeed.
@juliepender7157
@juliepender7157 Ай бұрын
OMG!!! This is beyond horrifying!!! So not only should people stay in a violent marriage, but it's better for the kids?!?!? Sickening - absolutely sickening.
@rosemarycrane5137
@rosemarycrane5137 Ай бұрын
I know. He's just foul and damaged. Trump out did himself with Vance...I didn't think anyone could be worse than Trump and here comes horrid Vance.
@rebeccadugger1780
@rebeccadugger1780 Ай бұрын
Not worse but equally vile pos.
@pimplequeen2
@pimplequeen2 10 күн бұрын
......? What? You seem to have unpacked what is being said and injected a horrible interpretation. Where is that coming from? There is value in long lasting committed relationships if you can find one... Yes? The point is, we have lost sight of that value, conscientious men are opting out of interacting with women because they see no value in doing so... The risks are too high. Women seem reluctant to take accountability and bridge that gap with "conscientious" men who obviously have requirement's of their own. Failing that, women only have access to men who are a little more careless. A perfect circle of stupid. We all made a mess of things, what now?
@rosemarycrane5137
@rosemarycrane5137 9 күн бұрын
@@pimplequeen2 A good man is hard to find, that is a fact. He may be good on his own, but they drop the ball in a marriage. Millions of women suffer and now that divorce is easier and quick, we are free to leave. No, women did not make a mess of things, alpha men did. Own it.
@pimplequeen2
@pimplequeen2 9 күн бұрын
@@rosemarycrane5137 That's not quite what I said. A long lasting relationship takes two and the "good" men have a requirement list too, its a pretty short list that can be applied pretty quickly and at a distance. Low quality or young (sub 25 ish) or weak men are typically easily lured by superficial beauty into contorting against authenticity to gain access to women who also lack authenticity in their use of that superficial exterior as a lure to gain access to men. Results: Two strangers trapped in a bucket together. Who was in error? We are "all" nothing but fingers and thumbs until we grow up a bit and engage in a little introspection. Ill "own it" if you insist but it wont help you understand what happened or help you know a Rembrandt from a snotty hanky.
@johnlabus7359
@johnlabus7359 Ай бұрын
When young people refuse to get married, then what? Are they going to force them get married if they have children? Are they going to force them to have children if they don't?
@shawheenblount2685
@shawheenblount2685 18 күн бұрын
I feel like this is where we're headed if the gop take control of the white house.
@susanlawson7411
@susanlawson7411 Ай бұрын
Does he believe kids are happier if their parents stay in a violent relationship? VOTE BLUE.
@Volf1916
@Volf1916 Ай бұрын
Yes, he does. Oh was that rhetorical?
@christinebuckingham8369
@christinebuckingham8369 Ай бұрын
@@Volf1916His Yale Education was a Complete Waste of Time and Money if he believes Children will be happier living in a home with Domestic Violence occurring! That helps Produce Future Generations of Domestic Batterers Only, or children that grow up to become Victims of DV as adults! He is Dangerous and also a Liar!
@ileneragland369
@ileneragland369 Ай бұрын
Yes he does! My kids were really small when I left. They actually don't believe I was ever beaten.
@DeenaFix-zr4ew
@DeenaFix-zr4ew Ай бұрын
I stayed to long.... I believe I hurt my kids.... Made life harder for them.
@DeenaFix-zr4ew
@DeenaFix-zr4ew Ай бұрын
​@@ileneragland369mine were too old... 11 and 9.. I waited to long .. You saved your kids ... I'm sorry ...
@crystalwhite8088
@crystalwhite8088 Ай бұрын
Lets see, as a child I watched my father beat my Mother to point of broken bones. I remember her being drug by her hair across the room, holes punched thru all our walls. Her cherished things destroyed as punishment. This was a time when the cops would tell her as she stood there broken, bleeding & in fear that it was a private family matter and there was nothing they could do. Thank God the laws have changed. 40 yrs later I can still remember the fear I felt & the saddness. I have lasting effects & have struggled thru out my own adult life to maintain healthy relationships despite the fact of my step dad, who is an amazing man coming into my life and saving us in away. Rarely ever seeing my bio dad. My brother went on to hit his gf as a teen being taught these bad coping skills. (He only did this 1x as my mother put her own son in jail to break him of his bad habit, she also hired him an attorney) My mental health issues stem from the unstable, unsafe environment for which I grew. We were helpless to this man who terroized us & made it impossible for her to leave until she found safety in my amazing Step father who is still with her today 30 yrs later. So NO it is NOT better for the kids to watch & grow in a violent home. I wonder if he would still agree with this statement if it was his own daughter turning up with broken bones in her face, broken ribs, covered in bruises. He would have us go bk to the time when cops looked the other way. Shame on him, & shame on the GOP! 😢
@afriendcalled5
@afriendcalled5 Ай бұрын
The only option is the thumb up "like". The is no care emoji on KZbin 🫂
@KJ-wh8fu
@KJ-wh8fu Ай бұрын
Virtual hug, friend. ❤
@leslie5435
@leslie5435 Ай бұрын
He would still agree, and then call YOU “creepy” for talking about his daughter. That’s what he did to Jennifer Aniston.
@LHarrolle
@LHarrolle Ай бұрын
I'm so sorry. I agree with you 100% I also grew up in a home like this. You never ever get over it.
@thoughtfortheday7811
@thoughtfortheday7811 Ай бұрын
Vance really appears to be a full on misogynist!
@lozensfire
@lozensfire Ай бұрын
Just like his running Mate
@bast713
@bast713 Ай бұрын
Yep
@arellatikvah
@arellatikvah Ай бұрын
Not appears, he IS!!
@user-yo3vt7ft1p
@user-yo3vt7ft1p Ай бұрын
Exactly.
@pamelamitchell8789
@pamelamitchell8789 29 күн бұрын
I'm one of those kids, l felt relief when my mother left!
@kimholland4822
@kimholland4822 Ай бұрын
So a woman should stay in an abusive marriage because it's better for the children? Rubbish the children of abusive marriages are not better off.
@SR-mv2mf
@SR-mv2mf Ай бұрын
This guy is a threat to sanity and families
@rollothecat2010
@rollothecat2010 21 күн бұрын
You know, JD Vance really is weird and creepy.
@terrylmonk5571
@terrylmonk5571 Ай бұрын
Another reason to vote blue 💙
@felixcat9318
@felixcat9318 20 күн бұрын
Thank you for bringing this to a wider audience, its earned my subscription.
@bobcat4100
@bobcat4100 Ай бұрын
Our mother picked us up from school one day, and said we were going to our grandparents That meant we werent going to have to hear our mother crying every night, after our father had hurt her He never came to our grandparents house. We didnt know why and we didnt care. We were like animals let free from a zoo. Our grandparents were the original hippies, although they said the word for hippie in their day, was bohemian We climbed giant peach tree's and spent hours making huts and forts. We made kites and toffee apples and had pea-shelling contests. We went camping at the local beach, and my older brother fell in love with fishing. I collected shells for my mother. She looked sad at times and l wanted to give her a gift. After what seemed like months, our mother told us we were leaving in the morning. The thought of going back terrified us all. We went back and the violence that first night back, on our mother, was so scary we thought he was killing her. A year later after he had knocked 4 of her teeth out, we were bundled into the car and spent most of that night driving. I woke up in the bunk bed at our grandparents. We never went back to our old house. The day our mother told us we were never going back, was the best day of my life as a child. FV, he looks like a self-indulgent sap who wouldnt even know what a real marriage was. Being that he's so in love with himself. Vote Biden/Harris and Blue 2024 FOR FOUR MORE YEARS !!! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🧢🧢
@ShimmerBodyCream
@ShimmerBodyCream Ай бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.
@sonja4164
@sonja4164 Ай бұрын
I know what that feels like, and I'm sorry you guys went through that. ❤
@robertlee8805
@robertlee8805 Ай бұрын
Yeh. Glad you're all out of that menacing human monster. Hope you and your family heal to a better life. Yes VOTING BLUE ALL THE WAY. 8 more Years please Harris & ?
@lisacrandall409
@lisacrandall409 Ай бұрын
I’m so sorry you went through that, and I hope your Mom found peace and happiness once she had escaped with you.
@joymoody2372
@joymoody2372 Ай бұрын
Having been a child therapist, & seeing the emotional issues unhappy marriages impose on children, I know Vance perspective is off, very off.
@zebertbrown1517
@zebertbrown1517 Ай бұрын
@joymoody2372 It is. I could understand if it were just a relationship where both parents fell out of love and argued all the time, but the marriage never got physical. Such a marriage could be reconciled if the disagreements could be settled and love and mutual respect could be restored. But when the marriage gets physical, that's a completely different situation. Hazardous. Dangerous. If kids are incolved, more than just the spouse's life (usually, the wife) is in danger. Get out as fast as you can, and take your kids with you.
@pdoylemi
@pdoylemi Ай бұрын
Sadly, many can't comprehend that not all situations are the same, or even what data indicates. I have one guy arguing from the accurate data that children raised in two parent homes generally fare better. But he refuses to look at the other variables, such as the fact that if you grew up in a two parent home, it usually means that your parents had a good relationship, or AT LEAST good enough to provide a stable, secure environment, or the fact that we cannot ever have data on how the children of divorce would have done if the parents stayed together.
@NLTops
@NLTops Ай бұрын
Having been a child, I remember me and my brothers rooting for our parents to break up so the chaos would stop. Spoiler alert...They broke up but the chaos didn't stop.
@jm279079
@jm279079 Ай бұрын
Right wing garbage is so unpatriotic.
@ABAT58
@ABAT58 Ай бұрын
First of all, the very private life of citizens is none of this guy’s business and second he has zero education and experience in this field to give even a suggestion.
@ssc4153
@ssc4153 Ай бұрын
People need to wake up.....this IS NOT A DRILL!
@davebarton6824
@davebarton6824 Ай бұрын
JD is just saying the things that are whispered at IDIOT RIGHtie get togethers out loud to everyone. The guy believes that only men make decisions in a marriage and women are there for the AMUSEMENT of men and to bear children, period.
@mariateresakarcher5591
@mariateresakarcher5591 9 күн бұрын
Thank you Brian for posting this!!🙏🏼🙏🏼
@lisaalexander3434
@lisaalexander3434 Ай бұрын
My father repeatedly tried to kill my mother...to this day I have psychological problems from all of it.
@pamelachoate735
@pamelachoate735 Ай бұрын
Wow, he is as horrible as trump
@Macrochenia
@Macrochenia Ай бұрын
Why do you think Trump picked him?
@dianevanweelie5233
@dianevanweelie5233 Ай бұрын
@@Macrochenia The Heritage Foundation picked him.
@rebeccaopperman7933
@rebeccaopperman7933 Ай бұрын
He's worse.
@user-io4ze3iq3i
@user-io4ze3iq3i Ай бұрын
Worse!!!
@kpepperl319
@kpepperl319 Ай бұрын
At least trump lets them go... Geez... Someone is worse than trump 🤢🤬
@bldabc
@bldabc Ай бұрын
My kids told me I should have divorced sooner, rather than keep us all in a terrible marriage. This is all about men controlling women.
@bizygirl1
@bizygirl1 Ай бұрын
My older siblings never forgave my mother for staying married to my father. I struggled to forgive her. She lived with me for 12 years but I struggled to resolve the resentments.
@samstewart9249
@samstewart9249 Ай бұрын
Ah, you have hit the nail over the head. "Since the law doesn't allow us black slaves anymore, guess it will be the women then!"
@Kailandra29
@Kailandra29 Ай бұрын
​@@samstewart9249 Seriously. I have seen a huge uptick in comments suggesting women shouldn't even have the right to vote (one was in a thread on this video, others have been on other videos). The deplorables are crawling out of the woodwork and telling us *exactly* what they want.
@mobilityproject3485
@mobilityproject3485 Ай бұрын
@@Kailandra29 I don't understand why these people would watch this video... they are the FRINGE of social conservatism but mainstream social conservatism will tolerate them and its dangerous. This movement must be DEFUSED and turned into something PRODUCTIVE before its too late...
@tmcglamery
@tmcglamery Ай бұрын
It is all about controlling women. We are not going back to that!!
@sharondurden8867
@sharondurden8867 5 күн бұрын
I’m a 71 y/o woman, and I grew up in an abusive household. To this day, I still think about the hell that my mother went through. I’ll never forget when my father beat her when she was 8 months pregnant with his child. Thankfully my sister and mother survived the beating. I feared more for my mother, than I feared for myself and my siblings. For Vance to make that statement about a woman should stay in an abusive marriage for the sake of the children, I feel he abuses his wife. I say that because, she maybe smiling in the family photo, but she doesn’t look happy to me, I know all too well the signs. My mother would be smiling in our family photos but inside, she was crying out for HELP!!!
@sberesford2523
@sberesford2523 Ай бұрын
Yeah kid flourish in a abusive household. Sigh
@DragonSword35d
@DragonSword35d Ай бұрын
Mind you, these are the same morons that don’t get why forcing an unprepared mother to give birth is a terrible idea.
@jimmyjames261
@jimmyjames261 Ай бұрын
Myself and my three siblings were raised in an abusive household . Fortunately my mom divorced him, but we all still carry the scars with us today
@AngelaGiordano-wq7jq
@AngelaGiordano-wq7jq Ай бұрын
As an adult child from an abusive home.... save your money for all the therapy you're going to need. 🥺
@John_Wick_29
@John_Wick_29 Ай бұрын
@@AngelaGiordano-wq7jqTherapy is for the weak. You’re an adult now. Get over it!
@satiashaw1857
@satiashaw1857 Ай бұрын
As an old woman who thought we had progressed better than what I grew up with, I thank you for your words on this matter. For bringing these things to light.
@lena-mariaglouis-charles7036
@lena-mariaglouis-charles7036 Ай бұрын
Vance purporting that an abusive marriage will turn frightened children into well adjusted adults is beyond grotesque.
@bobbiejack1467
@bobbiejack1467 20 сағат бұрын
This THING REAP WITH STINCH. JD VANCE. I FELL SO SORRY FOR YOU. VOTE BLUE 🗳 ☑️
@jackfeathers4385
@jackfeathers4385 Ай бұрын
Know your enemies. We know you know vance!!
@kellycasperhanson4426
@kellycasperhanson4426 Ай бұрын
🥹 I'm 63 years old, and I still freeze at the sound of a man yelling loudly because it triggers memories of my dad's drunken abusive rages at my mom. Kids are DEFINITELY better off being away from homes with domestic violence.
@keetykeetymeowmeow
@keetykeetymeowmeow 26 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry this happened to you... It happened in my family as well. 🫂🇺🇲💙
@kellycasperhanson4426
@kellycasperhanson4426 26 күн бұрын
@keetykeetymeowmeow 😶 We TRULY understand the harm of domestic violence because we each had a front row seat. A child can be DEEPLY harmed without one finger being laid on their body. Domestic violence destroys the soul💀.
@williamfowles2940
@williamfowles2940 25 күн бұрын
I'm 53 and I'm still getting incredibly anxious every time I hear a door slam. It was also the sign my angry, scary, abusive, bad tempered, dad was back in the house. So I totally get what you're saying
@pattie2day
@pattie2day Ай бұрын
As a child, I used to WISH my parents would divorce so I could feel safe without my dad around. And why is a couple's marriage any of JD Vance's business, anyway?
@msswart9119
@msswart9119 Ай бұрын
@@pattie2day ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@micheleconner5083
@micheleconner5083 Ай бұрын
It's part of project 2025 manifesto,to do away with divorce. All I can say is,there's liable to be more final solutions than just divorce! Self defense justification!!
@bizygirl1
@bizygirl1 Ай бұрын
Same here
@samsmom1491
@samsmom1491 Ай бұрын
They are inordinately concerned with what goes on in other people's bedrooms. This obsession is not healthy. As long as it is two consenting adults, it is nobody's business.
@susancregg472
@susancregg472 Ай бұрын
When Republicans decided it was their business who slept with whom and what a woman did with her reproductive healthcare.
@2headedcow5252
@2headedcow5252 Ай бұрын
They are terrified of women
@dianneantonio9293
@dianneantonio9293 Ай бұрын
They just want complete control...women, strong professional women, are competition for that control. They have to make EVERY one, who challenges them, dependent and subservient.
@bfbsj7122
@bfbsj7122 Ай бұрын
Why should they? Even after Roe v Wade was overturned in June 2022, tens of millions of women voted for Republicans in November 2022, which is why the Republicans regained the House. So it seems tens of millions of women are still embracing the politics of Trump and Vance.
@thoughtfortheday7811
@thoughtfortheday7811 Ай бұрын
​@@bfbsj7122 why do some people, including women, vote against their best interests?
@shadowfox009x
@shadowfox009x Ай бұрын
@@thoughtfortheday7811 Because they believe that these policies will never impact and instead they will get praised for being "good girls".
@Toywins
@Toywins Ай бұрын
​@@bfbsj7122 tens of millions of women voted Republican BEFORE Roe V Wade was overturned. People do things against their own best interests ALL THE TIME.
@martaholmes4287
@martaholmes4287 Ай бұрын
Women! VOTE, VOTE, VOTE! There have been whispers of us NOT being allowed to vote since 2016. Talk to your daughters, Granddaughters, nieces. WE are half of the US population.
@loriparks8657
@loriparks8657 Ай бұрын
VOTE for your LIFE !!!
@thisbushnell2012
@thisbushnell2012 Ай бұрын
We are actually the MAJORITY.
@susanortiz6102
@susanortiz6102 Ай бұрын
Women, we can make a difference! Vote blue for our freedom.
@francinemiranda8409
@francinemiranda8409 Ай бұрын
💙👍🏻💙
@tenofivelips
@tenofivelips Ай бұрын
💪🏻
@mirandasapphire8203
@mirandasapphire8203 Ай бұрын
💙💙💙🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
@kyliepechler
@kyliepechler Ай бұрын
And so that mothers of future children are free to leave an abusive marriage, to prevent the children having to grow up in a violent household.
@susanortiz6102
@susanortiz6102 Ай бұрын
@@kyliepechleryou are 100% so right.
@emmabryant9996
@emmabryant9996 13 күн бұрын
Every time he opens his mouth he puts his foot in it 😅😅😅😅
@TurtleTimeVoiceOvers
@TurtleTimeVoiceOvers Ай бұрын
I have a feeling JD Vance doesn’t often change his underwear.
@William.Driscoll
@William.Driscoll Ай бұрын
Hahaha
@kittikins1
@kittikins1 Ай бұрын
He changes his mind, not his underwear.
@MsCavsfanatic
@MsCavsfanatic Ай бұрын
Was he even alive during the sexual revolution, the REAL one? NO. He has no freaking idea what he's talking about.
@fogcat5
@fogcat5 Ай бұрын
no. he's 38. I'm in my 50s and the sexual revolution happened years before I was in high school. he's a liar
@anthonys439
@anthonys439 Ай бұрын
He probably thinks the sexual revolution was holding hands with his girlfriend on Sunday.
@coreyplunkett
@coreyplunkett Ай бұрын
And on tik tok are all these women showing off that they are on team trump.. it's more of a cult each day
@sherylhoetzel3491
@sherylhoetzel3491 Ай бұрын
Do you know the difference between Jim Jones and Donald Trump? Jim Jones didn’t charge his cult followers for the Kool-Aid. Donald Trump would.!!!
@user-io4ze3iq3i
@user-io4ze3iq3i Ай бұрын
Sounds more like their brains have stop thinking 🤔
@mariannalban4819
@mariannalban4819 Ай бұрын
They wouldn't be if they actually believed P25 and how badly trump wants to be hitler.
@bizygirl1
@bizygirl1 Ай бұрын
They proved it at the convention with their stupid ear bandages
@dougpeterson1236
@dougpeterson1236 Ай бұрын
@coreyplunkett I have 2 women in the cult on my social media feed complaining about the "DEI members" (referring to the women) of the secret service team in the last weak. Talk about brainwashed against your own self interests. Of course, that's the least of the concerns of their brainwashing.
@yurisei6732
@yurisei6732 Ай бұрын
Now now, let's not be unreasonable. He also thinks men should be locked in abusive marriages too! So egalitarian!
@judithclayton1994
@judithclayton1994 Ай бұрын
How dare he make such sweeping statements! He's obviously never seen domestic abuse, and if he has, he doesn't care about the the horror it inflicts on children as well as women. He doesn't live in the real world.
@rubincarter3904
@rubincarter3904 Ай бұрын
Perhaps he is the abuser.
@drhexagonapus
@drhexagonapus Ай бұрын
​@@rubincarter3904 he's even worse. He's an apologist for abuse and domestic violence as a matter of policy. Probably an abusive asshole himself too
@xejelah
@xejelah Ай бұрын
I actually think a lot of this rhetoric comes from an abusive household. When boys grow up watching daddy beat mommy they are far more likely to beat their own gf's in the future and the girls are more likely to choose men that beat them. It's also where some of these guys get in their heads that they're better than women and JD views women as a subspecies.
@malkaz9167
@malkaz9167 Ай бұрын
I’m from Ohio. Everyone hates Vance in Ohio. The fact that he is a politician says that he was involved in a lot of shady dealings in order to get where he is today.
@crossccologne1855
@crossccologne1855 Ай бұрын
If my memory is just, divorces have always existed and humankind is still on the planet! If men were to become pregnant, we'd be extinct for a long time. Marriages have changed over the centuries. While no less than 50 years ago it was more of an economic alliance nowadays, since medicine is so much advanced and people live way longer than before. And honestly, until death us departs is really unrealistic. And women can "shift" spouse as they are able to escape violent and unhappy marriages. Btw. Single mom of three very happy children. Children in an unhappy marriage won't be happier just because their mom's are forced to stay!
@57highland
@57highland Ай бұрын
Divorce existed and was allowed in Roman society. Even the emperor, Augustus Caesar, had been divorced. In the Middle Ages, divorce was fairly common among Europe's royalty. When the church denied Henry VIII a divorce, that was the exception, not the rule. And Greek doctors were doing first trimester abortions shortly before the Christian age.
@katesmith3034
@katesmith3034 21 күн бұрын
Great analysis 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@kcvfr400
@kcvfr400 Ай бұрын
kids being forced to see bad situations. What a sick man
@bayhappy3992
@bayhappy3992 Ай бұрын
This needs to be a democratic campaign ad. Please send it to them.
@FDelgado-ex8vh
@FDelgado-ex8vh Ай бұрын
In every interview Usha Vance gives she should be asked “do you believe women should stay in abusive marriages” and “do you believe children are better off being raised in a violent environment” and “are you safe” her answers would be telling.
@aliceputt3133
@aliceputt3133 26 күн бұрын
They probably would provoke a attack if she answers honestly.
@loantran-thanh7795
@loantran-thanh7795 26 күн бұрын
Have you noticed her face when at rallies? Or even crossing Trump's path at one of the rallies? She does not display great joy... i watched her yesterday, that's when i noticed
@FarginhoodMcBastage
@FarginhoodMcBastage 16 күн бұрын
I didn't think I could despise the republican party any more than I...did, then came JD.
@endthehate
@endthehate Ай бұрын
like changing underwear? like shifting from marriage to marriage and cheating all along the way like HIS BOSS AND RUNNING MATE???????
@rubincarter3904
@rubincarter3904 Ай бұрын
How about that part! The hypocrisy. 😮
@austriasalzburg
@austriasalzburg Ай бұрын
Exactly!
@Karenonflute
@Karenonflute Ай бұрын
What in the hell makes Vance think that violent marriages are good for kids?
@libbylandscape3560
@libbylandscape3560 Ай бұрын
He’s not thinking of the kids as human, to him they’re possessions, things.
@chrissyb7916
@chrissyb7916 Ай бұрын
Especially since he grew up in violence.
@ProgressWillNeverBeStopped
@ProgressWillNeverBeStopped Ай бұрын
Anyone who thinks staying in a relationship that is unhealthy, toxic or violent is better for the kids in the long run is deluding themselves.
@renep2220
@renep2220 16 күн бұрын
It is better to come from a broken home than to live in one. 😮😢
@Jennylyn186
@Jennylyn186 Ай бұрын
Is he like on drugs I’m really worried he is because he has NO CLUE HOW HARD IT IS TO GET A DIVORCE HES repugnant
@fleck36
@fleck36 Ай бұрын
Trump is sharing his with jd
@ij9096
@ij9096 Ай бұрын
One would hope he was on drugs when he said this. But I'm pretty sure it came from a sober mind of the cathegory: crazy a.f.😞
@dalimadison7553
@dalimadison7553 Ай бұрын
I don't know any woman who can change spouses like their underwear. But wealthy men....🩲
@lozensfire
@lozensfire Ай бұрын
For women!
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