JESS A COUPLE THINGS: ASHANTI PREGNANT, JEEZY SHOCKS JEANNIE MAI, SHERYL LEE RALPH + MORE!

[@laurencameron3150]

It will never cease to amaze me how so many black women will claim marriage is a risk and commitment but don’t mind risking and committing the rest of their lives to birthing a child. You can divorce a man but a child ties you to a person until death! How is that not a bigger commitment?

[@rowena6249]

Thank you and AMEN!

[@shericewoodford2108]

I can deal with being an ex wife over a baby mama any day!

[@kennawimberly4948]

💯💯💯🎯💯

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

Exactly!

[@lisacarnegie1427]

A child is very different from a spouse.

[@teresahenderson954]

My dad told me as a child, if a man thinks you're good enough to sleep with, make sure he's good enough to be your husband first. Married after three yrs, lived together 2 weeks before wedding. We were excited for marriage our parents were excited for wedding. He's God fearing and head of our household. PS: 27 fun years, 3 college grads and no one wants to move back home. Put someone first other than yourself and the rest will happen. No woman ever has to settle for just being a baby mama. Dad's need to teach daughters self love, so they don't do anything to be so call loved.✌️&🙏. PSS: He never asked me to pay half of anything. All he asked was to raise our kids with morals, self esteem and a hard work ethic.

[@aura5944]

C’mon and preach! Congratulations to you both!! 🎉

[@soulsistah5738]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@GreenGorgeousness]

God better give me a submissive man or I'm not marrying. *shrug*

[@bernadettesimmons1439]

We live in a world where not everyone thinks the same I guess marriage will come in time. We may not go to get pregnant but in the spur of moment get caught up and things do happen.

[@DarkandlovelyLovely]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@HersheyBrown86]

Women do this all the time Jessie. They will watch a man drag his child’s mother or ex and think it’s funny because they think it can’t never happen to me but they fail to realize that type of behavior is a characteristic and it will be you one day just give it time

[@its_whatever_dani_d863]

Thank you for this comment!!!!!! Most women are ok as long as it ain’t them and will taunt the woman with the dad. It’s crazy… I lived it!

[@Monicaizpeace]

Louder for Pick'Quisha in the basement.

[@saphire2214]

Jeanie Mai decided to go on Jennifer’s show to break that news because she knew Jennifer would soft ball those questions to her. That show is a platform curated specifically for celebrity PR and self branding. Translation- It ain’t got nothing to do with what we the consumers want to know. It’s a bout what the celebrities want to tell us. Secondly, that Jeezy interview with Nia Long was his PR team working overtime to get ahead of cleaning up his image in the black community as he knew Jeannie is about to tear him a new one in the court. She’s not going down without swinging.

[@krissy-jw8kj]

Jeannie has 2 shows out now that’s why she went on a press run

[@saphire2214]

@@krissy-jw8kj Yes and she is being very deliberate about where she actually does press. Only on platforms where they will allow her to control her narrative and avoid hard hitting questions eg: The Jennifer Hudson show.

[@shaleenaabron2520]

Yup! Her Jennifer interview made me think about (love her or hate her) the void that Wendy has left in Talk TV. Because, baby, the way Wendy would have dug her heels in...chile! 😁

[@amandar8699]

Ngl I never wanted to get married because I saw so many failed marriages around me but when I met my husband it just felt right and made sense for us. I think having a baby with someone is more of a commitment than marriage but people don’t treat it that way.

[@uniquemosdef]

Ashanti deserved a proposal! She was owed a proposal! But I wish he a safe and joyful pregnancy.

[@92spice18]

I agree. For her birthday he bought her an iced out…watch ⏱️. He should’ve bought her a ring 💍. I was so upset for her, but it’s her life not mine.

[@Brandirell]

You need your own syndicated talk show “Jess A Couple Things!” I feel so satisfied after watching your breakdown of what’s going on in pop & urban culture! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@TheodoreBakes]

yesss, we are speaking it into exsistence for our sistaaaaa 🙌

[@seedofstyle]

Watching from Germany, love Relem sent it to my Turkish friends. Straight fire, your Jamaican sistaaaaaa is so proud of you my Haitian sistaaaaa!!!🎉 #caribbeangirlsrunit ask Riri😊❤

[@TheeJessieWoo]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Maryanne_Muthoni]

I love Relem too, she killed the visuals, the vocals, everything & she's eating up all the outfits in the video

[@95luannaable]

You can’t use Nicki’s line and then hashtag riri 😂 jk

[@MsHnBK]

​@@TheeJessieWooI too do not flush TP if I can help it. I honestly think it's more of a carribean thing.

[@IfunanyaCindy]

Who needs antidepressants when Jessie’s channel exists

[@MsPatricia2683]

Exactly❤❤. I love her unbiased and honest opinions.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

Right!!!!

[@TheeShortAndSweet]

Yes. Sis Lifted my mood

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😅😅

[@t.j.m7131]

Big facts 👏🏾 because my pms been affecting me 2 days and this is so helpful

[@dionysus9876]

I just had this revelation yesterday while reflecting on my last 2 serious relationships with men. I realized I was playing a mother role that I did not ask for or want to be in! Men are so willing to be immature and my 33 year old self is not going to put up with that anymore.

[@naimamorgan6209]

Good for you in realizing that at 33. Men are not expected to take care of themselves so they use women to fulfill those roles and women have been tricked into that role by society,but we are waking up😊

[@KayKay-jv9gv]

Yes girl ❤

[@wtayl010]

Omg this is a message !!!

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

Ooooo THIS IS THE ONE!! I come across too many ‘immature’ males that I feel like I’m mothering. And some are my age, younger, older..you name it. I just can’t deal w/ the ones who are not ready. Come to the table correct, not w/ the idea of me correcting you.

[@TaySaidSo]

Yeesss u betta say that!

[@catrinaandrade9814]

Just love hearing Jessie sing man❤

[@kayotheepotato]

Having a baby during the honeymoon stages can be dangerous (of course we know they have history but walk with me). As long as Nelly doesn’t pull away post-baby, they should be alright.

[@shelola2747]

I believe with my whole heart that Jeannie found out about her divorce with the rest of us! Jeezy comes off as a selfish, "diabolical " coward wouldn't tell his spouse that he wanted a divorce! I think Jeannie was stupid for marrying him in the first place, but I hope she takes him for every damn penny she can get!!😂

[@cvzdez]

Me too

[@smarti1144]

Me 3. He thinks that going to marriage counseling is the same as telling her he is filling for divorce. Basura.

[@funlawchic]

Me 4! Jeezy is a "Lyin' Libra"! ♎

[@limacake]

@smarti1144 exactly, he somehow forgot the part where you're supposed to sit your spouse down and say, "I'm filing for divorce"

[@TheodoreBakes]

Shiiddd me 5!! She's a capricorn like me, so I always had a soft spot for Jeanie. That being said, I know she fought for it because we do NOT like to give up anything, especially if it makes us look bad. like being a rappers baby mama after not wanting kids for years smfh I know shes kicking herself but she gone get her lick back, belive that!!

[@EiaWea]

When I get married i definitely want separate bathrooms and closets!

[@TheodoreBakes]

same!!! I low key want my own bedroom but that may be too much for the men these days lmao

[@EiaWea]

@@TheodoreBakes I’m hollering😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bernadettesimmons1439]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kaydeneaduncan4998]

Same I thought it was only me

[@chiadi9713]

Someone wise on Tik tok said something very true. She said, "a woman can set standards for a man she loves and state her requirements, but there will always be another woman out there that will be more than happy to give him the world for less." Unfortunately, that woman who settled for less was Ashanti. His ex-girlfriend of 7 years told him that she'd give him a baby AFTER he married her. Nelly didnt want marriage, so he went for a woman who was willing to give him that without marriage. Anyways, I wish her a healthy and safe pregnancy and childbirth.

[@loversonly]

And I oop-

[@Jiinx123]

Chile, Ashanti and Nelly having a kid was not on my 2023 Bingo card, but here we are. 😆 P.S.: Just found out JR and Tamar are back together and Johnnie from the previous season of Love Is Blind, she has a tell-all interview. Whew, my bingo card is on 🔥 now! 🤣

[@benitobrumant2116]

Please drop the updated. Calendar here please..

[@anissa2361]

I had a feeling it was going to happen at some point honestly

[@winniejean-pierre9605]

Johnnie did another interview? I saw the one from “Out of the Pods”!

[@viciousreasoning504]

Baby being 50 and never been serious is a red flag, referring to nelly btw

[@dingstrini]

So is 10 years with his ex not serious?

[@Blessed1985]

@@dingstriniIt doesn’t always mean much. Some men will stay with a woman long term and never want to marry her. That’s a red flag to me.

[@viciousreasoning504]

@@dingstrini single til marriage marriage is serious

[@gammafrost]

Ashanti is 43 actually and she still looks fine as hell. She aged like wine looks better than she did at 25.

[@kimberlyhayward7835]

It's all good !!! ❤ Ashanti and Nelly will be Good... God is Good Nelly had to grow up I think he's ready!!!

[@RoxiieSays]

“These niggas chasing me like waterfallssssssss” 😩🔥💅🏽

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Aaayyyeeeeee

[@linalouwillis]

The intro song is 🔥🔥🔥

[@stephanyc1902]

Can I stream this song anywhere!?

[@stephanyc1902]

@@TheeJessieWoocan we stream your intro song anywhere!? I am obsessed 😭😭😭😭😭 ps greetings from Palm Springs CA! Love your videos and music 😘

[@thewyrdest1]

JESSSIIEEEE, I had to ask my Haitian Dad to leave my home because he would not follow basic rules in my home and would blow up at me whenever I asked him to clean after himself. It got to the point where I could no longer live with him. My brother and my Dad find my house rules (no shoes, clean up after yourself, cook your own meals) unreasonable *dead emoji*.

[@cvzdez]

Oh well domage. I promise you there are clean haitian men because in my family everyone cleans up. MANY OF THE men in my fams are super clean and if they don't cooknthey buy their food. Mank de consideration. You work you have your own life they have to respect that

[@thewyrdest1]

@@cvzdez TBH my family is a different kind of Haitian. The men are coddled and expect to be mothered. I was born here and I'm not going to endure abuse just because you are my relatives. I want peace in my home and if you bring me chaos, you can leave

[@cvzdez]

@thewyrdest1 like i tell my daughters boundaries are important speak you mind say what you need fro. People what is required.if you don't speak no on can care about your u voiced concerns. Some people bank on you never saying anything. Some people love silence awareness so they can abuse you don't let people walk on your back because ou pa bouik 🫏. Too many women are daughters are surragte wifes to their fathers without sexual intimacy of course Or Step mothers/father to their out of wed lock or in wedlock kids. This is really why so many women are u married where can you have time to become a wife or a girlfriend. People need to be adult's And never ever ever let someone make you feel bad for living your like you worked hard for what you have and you deserve to enjoy it. Especially black women there are many blk men who dispise or resent you having when they did nothing but was born with a 🍆 . Many men see women as slaves and servants and feelmyour free labor is owed to them and you should be happy to serve as a slave. I mean in their heads we are black women we are casted low and should be picking cotton. Just watch out and enjoy your life We have 1turn on this planet. And if you ever want children and haven't found a partner social infertility. Go and have one at a sperm bank have full rights or rearing and if you want to move for a job. Just make sure you have a good community of friends and family. It is better then being stuck with a crazy like keke palmer or joung jeezy. Date all me and be loyal to your womb first May the best man win your hand if you want to get married and if not be single and happy and date

[@christinerichardson673]

It’s ur place ur rules we understand you want a clean home

[@CrisCoHoov3838]

Jess Marriage is a beautiful thing. I am a 58 yr old Black Woman who has been married 35 years . I am more in love now than I was at 23 when I got married. These days, no one wants to put in the work. Marriage is not easy, but it gets easier❤

[@chiadi9713]

Respectfully, you are blessed and privileged to be in a marriage where your life isn't at stake, your health isn't at stake, your finances aren't at stake or your mental health. For alot of people, the fight isn't worth it.

[@Felineintuition]

​@@chiadi9713 How is marrying the right person for you a priviledge? Let's not get it twisted now... women need to believe men when they're shown all the red flags. Fumi says it beautifully on her channel and all her latest comments on the Keke Palmer and Darius mess.

[@robinmajor6798]

Hyper independence is real

[@lisah8438]

​@@chiadi9713But having a baby with someone isn't.

[@gozio]

I'm really happy for Ashanti. Just hope she doesn't get played with again. 🙃

[@WistleWhileYouTwerk]

There’s no proposal so he def playing

[@yougotgamesonyourphone6947]

She’s pregnant by a rebound who didn’t even think of marrying her, but knocked her up. She’s already played.

[@gozio]

That all may still be coming. Time will tell.

[@missis4048]

“A scheme that Todd set up” be cracking me up every time I hear that 😂😂😂😂😂

[@hisfavvv]

Jeezy USED Jeannie!!!! I'm saying this as a black womens. He wanted to be opened up to a new demographic and be seen more as a business man/mogul. He wants to be Jay Z so bad.

[@BeautyNBrains86]

You're on to something. Soooo bad!

[@tangotea7192]

Do anything for clout. Migos.

[@tribalbible38_avrilm16]

Jessie those braids, those cardigans is giving everything it needs to give 😍😍. You never miss! . As for Jeanni-“Ms I like my dark meat on the side” Mai I feel zero empathy for her, if this was a black woman would these conversations even be occurring & the attention we re giving it ?? 👀I think not. She can go back to the Caucasian side for all I care…🙇🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@LAW-Nineteen]

She said that about black males and ended up marrying one. How is that a black woman's concern? Why can't yall let black males fight their own wars? They are FINE with what she said. So..

[@emmas9928]

Ouchhh! But co sign.

[@tribalbible38_avrilm16]

@@emmas9928 lol I was really not trying to be mean I swear lol

[@tribalbible38_avrilm16]

@@LAW-Nineteen not saying we should be fighting thier wars at all not the toxic ones at least however I’m saying that since she was so vocal about her apparent real disregard for black men, let her take her L on the head…really as black women we give zero f**ks 🙌🏽

[@emmas9928]

@tribalbible38_avrilm16 You're not being mean. We're on Jessie Woo's channel. We follow her OUTSPOKEN and UNAPOLOGETIC lead. You're fine sis. ❤️

[@natasharochelle3218]

Jessie I am so happy you catch that what Jezzy said. Going to counseling doesn’t mean we getting a divorce. Jezzy is full of crap. And as women we need to see beyond Jeanie not being black (and that comment she made), to believe her. As black women we need to stop being mad at Jeanie for making that comment, but rather be mad at the black man (Jezzy) that married her anyway.

[@sarahjoe2457]

I don't understand why bw would be upset at that comment. We already know Asian women prefer white men.

[@KoVi-jh6uy]

@@sarahjoe2457 please don’t make general assumptions. Yes, statistically, there is a high number of asian women marrying white men, but not all asian women like white men (or any men not asian). It’s become a generalization that perpetuates this mentality among asian women and low value men/passport bros. I’m an asian woman and I can’t believe how many white men (total strangers) have had the audacity to come up to me talking about their p3nis size to me because they think I’m easy. I’ve literally had a van stop in front of me (in the U.S.) because they thought I was a prostitute.

[@sarahjoe2457]

@KoVi-jh6uy Sorry you have go though that. However, AW date out the most, and when they do it's with white men. That still doesn't make it right to be disrespectful to you all.

[@zioncochran5399]

we’re mad at both. actually indifferent as jessie said the writing was on the wall for them both. both had incredible red flags and now they are reaping what they sowed. i’ll never look at either of them the same

[@themotherlander]

Y’all so mad at the comment but refuse to see she was right. Black men behave like they should be side hoes.

[@MidwestComet]

Jess your man visitor story was hilarious until you started talking about you don't accept toilet paper, cuz I gave you a side eye too 😂 whole time I was thinking PAPER paper! 🤣 Toilet paper is very much still a thing

[@patricewebster1682]

Right! Not putting toilet paper in the toilet is crazy 😂 like girl that’s Norma

[@dsd9899]

Jessie, that intro song is so 🔥 🔥 🔥

[@viyoolacouronne6419]

Always run to KZbin when Jessie post 😂and it be the perfect timing cause I’m bored at work

[@TheeJessieWoo]

😅😅😅😅

[@natoyabattiste]

I would prefer marriage for any woman, however all women don’t want to be someone’s wife. Some women are fine being a girlfriend for the rest of their lives.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@yeahimfromTexas]

True but she said in the article she wanted to settle down, get married n have kids....🤷🏾‍♀️

[@alluringbliss4165]

Because of my childhood , I’m afraid of marriage but I don’t want to be with a man long term without being married. I need to seal the deal.

[@RondelleMartin]

I agree

[@amaris7619]

Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell have out lasted everyone!!!! They are not married! Getting married is a personal thing, saying you would prefer marriage for all women is an interesting statement.

[@jlew1591]

Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it’s not for everyone. I really think having a man that’s marriage and family minded is crucial. I also think it’s crucial to have a village that supports the marriage and that includes friends and family.

[@jessicapatrickjessicataylo5285]

Marriage has not been the bees knees for black wkmen...even when we "choose right"...we end up alone and jaded...I am so happy for those of you that marriage works for. The rest of us can only self improve and see what happens.

[@Jiinx123]

True, we can and do self-improve. But if we open our options while ALSO dating with standards, expectations, and boundaries, we'd have better relationship outcomes overall. There's a reason we have more success statistically when we date out compared to our BM counterparts. 😊🤎

[@yeahimfromTexas]

I agree. If I ever get married again,I'd live separately.

[@shellyhunt4910]

But if u think about they are are already married spiritually

[@SandraSews0108]

and single mothers are winning? If I aint marrying you than i will not be birthing your child.

[@WistleWhileYouTwerk]

That’s because black women overwhelmingly marry black men instead of choosing the best mate regardless of race While black man date out at the highest percentages (well documented)

[@RondelleMartin]

I agree that I would've loved to hear a marriage announcement first, especially as a black woman. I am happy that she's allegedly pregnant. If she is I pray nothing but the best.

[@PS-hr9bv]

I know in some parts of the Carribean, folks put ALL toilet paper in the trash because the septic systems are easily clogged. The toilet paper is scented (for the most part) but it still grosses me out. I would rather take a chance and flush 😅😅

[@kayleemaylee7122]

Shite lol lol I do the same thing😂😂😂

[@sarabennett6295]

Just use a bidet

[@Unique2TheMaxx]

🤢

[@Unique2TheMaxx]

Something wit boo boo on it in the trash?😂😢😂

[@92spice18]

Ecuador is like this. You cannot flush toilet paper. Even in public restrooms.

[@TheFilmLocker]

😂 I’ve been with my husband for 8 years. Love him down. But every day there is more and more shit that is driving me insane…his breathing, chewing, swallowing, hairs on the floor, hairs in the sink, crumbs on the floor, crumbs on the countertop, I could continue!😂”😩

[@CCCC-fp5gw]

Realest comment 😂

[@mamimelusine]

It seems like they get sloppier and more careless as they get older and we have less patience for it as we get older and have more and more responsibilities on our plate, like I’m taking care of elders and kids and students and I’m supposed to get home after all that and pick up socks and boxers and uncleared plates and spills and crumbs or just deal with looking at it?

[@LadyLesco]

Not his breathing 😂😂

[@TheodoreBakes]

😂😂😂😂

[@marlynmorgan3658]

DWL!!! @ "I could continue" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@CoconutSugarK]

You have me rolling about the toilet situation 😂. We use toilet paper for wiping and it goes in the toilet 😊

[@nb123456ish]

Where does it go if not in the toilet?

[@atl355]

​@@nb123456ish That's what I want to know!! Lol 🤔

[@xtinaj7450]

​@@atl355covered garbage near the toilet, is my guess

[@mahoganymuffin2628]

​@@nb123456ishtrash bag

[@deidrahill7793]

Respectfully when you use the wipes or toilet paper if you don’t flush it down the toilet how do you avoid a smell in your bathroom?

[@alexandrialemon]

Why am I dying at the husband comments. Yea…don’t share a bathroom with them but I do suggest sharing a bedroom. You don’t want to end up with the roommate feeling once the new feeling has worn off. Keep the intimacy alive❤ when you get married just go in with the mindset that your house will not look perfect, especially when you favor in kids… just give it up for real then😅

[@GreenGorgeousness]

Absolutely not. I'm not putting up with uncleanliness every again. 2 houses/bedrooms or I'm getting my asexual life buddy for real. Naaaahhh to that unhygienic mess.

[@im18yay]

Wendy Williams can enjoy her retirement. We need YOU, Jessie! YOU! I'm so ready for your talk show. Give us the celebrity interviews that we need! I was so impressed by your Love Is Blind recaps and interviews.

[@ReginaDavid829]

If Nelly loves her he should MARRY her! Do things decent and in order!

[@paf2587]

Decent AND in order! 🗣️

[@NIO623]

Please shout it on the roof tops. !!! Marriage and then baby!

[@PrinceInawRakah]

The LORD didn’t say we need Americas permission to be considered married, sis.. America didn’t exist when that verse was written

[@ReginaDavid829]

@@PrinceInawRakah I just hope he committed to her in a way that is not easy to throw away not matter what they call it

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@ReginaDavid829 I hope so to. I don’t care for Nelly’s body of work but have always been enamored by Ashanti

[@LadyNique3]

The way I was WAITING for you to tap in on these topics ❤

[@baby_ghoul]

I don't understand how a woman could look at a man be neglectful toward his own flesh and blood, and legimately think that they're off the table when it comes to a man's reckless and selfish behavior. If he's not going to look out for his child, then what makes you think he's going to look out for you? Jeanie was delusional, and that's why I find it difficult to feel sorry for her. He's dead wrong, but you can't say there weren't warning signs. The nicest thing I can say about her is at least she was smart about that prenup. 🤭

[@TheOnylove]

She said in the article, she wants to settle down, get married, and start a family. I think marriage is a priority. So maybe they already are married. And if not, it is in the works. But honestly, she seems happy. And that she is being treated very well. That is the biggest thing for black women in relationships. On one of their Instagram lives, she asked him to get her shoes. And he did not complain and had those shoes the whole time they were in the house. Not even sure when he dropped them off. I know this is something simple, but the bar is in hell. So those basic human decency things at least hints at something positive! Which is a win at this point. So hoping more positive and well treatment is occurring in their relationship.

[@BlackNella]

Jessie! Toilet paper is designed to dissolve and be flushed 😩😂

[@carleysoul]

GIRLLLLLLLLL!! Right...where do you put shiddy paper????!!! 😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@joanna0988]

Yes but wipes shouldn't go in the toilet even if they say they're flushable.

[@BlackNella]

@@joanna0988 true

[@BlackNella]

@@carleysoul I lived with a family once who put them in the trash and insisted I do so so I got some doggy 💩 bags and a sealed trash can. It was a traumatic era of life because they would just put theirs in an open air trash. Needless to say I didn’t last there long. 😫😤🏃🏾‍♀️

[@shimikalc]

And did Jess also mention juice and oatmeal?! 🫠 she cracks me uuup!!

[@Anitraj24]

I believe it's okay not to marry. If you have your own space, bedroom, and bathroom; take it a step further and have your own house. Just be in a committed relationship and date when you want to see each other. I've been happily married for 23 years. I totally agree with having your own bathroom, and he has his mancave. But I enjoy having the same bedroom. At the end of the day, every couple can do what works best for their household.

[@GreenGorgeousness]

2 bedroom/ 2 house gang. I'm never putting up with uncleanliness ever again.

[@AllThingsShaunda]

🔨girl you hit the nail on the head with Jeannie. She’s in the same boat as Khloe K. They think these men are just that way with Black women not them.

[@BellesView]

Exactly. She doesn’t need our support.

[@16purplecity]

I one million percent agree with the own space idea! As a woman married & divorced twice! I realize my relationships went downhill after marriage & living together 😩😩😩

[@Okra_winfrey]

Jessie, I think I speak for a lot of us when I say we would LOVE a what’s in your makeup bag video or a makeup favorites or empties video. Your makeup is always so gorgeous.

[@Sydonnewarren]

A baby is a bigger commitment than marriage in my opinion. I wish her thr best!

[@hannahi9355]

Jeanie is an example of why you shouldn't be a mean girl and smartass. You end up looking dumb in the end. Always keep it cute.

[@rosalynhayes2369]

Hey Jessie on the 35 and over pregnancy thing. I was in my late 30’s when I had my daughter. I will agree it is harder on the body having a baby later in life. Also, depends on the persons body. I too want marriage for her as well. I’m happy for her! Nelly better do right by her. Love u Jessie ❤

[@MsMizz1]

I can’t wait for your response to all the toilet paper talk in your next upload 😂 Also love the cardigans and would like to know more about them!

[@TheeJessieWoo]

lmaooooo

[@JCsDaughter610]

I think part of the problem is that BW keep the “curse” alive. Let’s start speaking things we need and want into existence for the Lords glory. But when u say oh “marriage isn’t for BW” then it won’t be. Or “this world is etc and sooo hard for BW” then it will continue to be. Remember “As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he!” Use your imagination, your thoughts to produce what u need/ want for Jesus’s glory. He’s got u!

[@AllThingsMo]

Jeezy just didn’t want to be married to her anymore. He didn’t want to do the work. I’m starting to think he ain’t shit.

[@TiffanyRayneOfficial]

Rumors are swirling that Nelly did propose, and they're suppose to be planning a 2024 wedding. I don't know what to make if that, but that's Ashanti's decision, she went with it. So best of luck to her and I hope she has safe and healthy pregnancy.

[@refinedrubies1267]

That Jenny segment is real and funny…..now that last one, Gotta flush the tissue. No shitty paper no where around me. 😩

[@shestayready]

Toilet paper is made to flush!!! Not baby wipes. 👀

[@amandar8699]

I don’t blame them for being married and living separately. My husband has a nice man cave where he spends most of his time and he uses the guest bathroom 🤣

[@sergineemmanuel7152]

Jessica, I suggest getting a bidet! I agree the fear of clogging the toilet is real having lived with two brothers. I have toilet paper /wipes for guests. i noticed a lot of people are uncomfortable with bidet but boy does it clean you well and no need for toilet paper

[@aishascott_]

Don’t you need toilet paper to wipe yourself after the water though?

[@MarjorieStewartBaxter]

​@@aishascott_You could have some washcloths that are only for the bidet. I've seen these while traveling. Or you could use toilet paper. But you'd use way less than you would when wiping poop directly vs. a rinsed butt

[@sarabennett6295]

@@aishascott_ I've used a bidet for many years. No need to wipe yourself. No issue. We don't walk around with wet bums

[@aishascott_]

@@sarabennett6295 what? So if you don’t wipe after getting your butt wet how is it not wet and damp inside? Also if you don’t wipe how do you know it’s really clean if you don’t check. With everything in life when you wash your dish, clean your car and shower you have a cloth plus the water not just by spraying water on it.

[@sweetjalight]

I loooovvveeee the fact that irv is probably shedding a tear behind this baby news. 😂😂😂 that ninja probably gone txt her like that was suppose to be my baby ☠️

[@cristalleslie6311]

I think Jennifer was not trying to be invasive. Jennie probably set up boundaries. Wendy was heartless and I could do without that.

[@tahirahshabazz50]

Somewhere in the middle is fine.

[@Canm4]

I'm excited and happy that she gets to experience the welcoming of a child. I will try to be positively optimistic but she deserves better. A proper man who'd give her commitment through a show of marriage (and these days marriage means very little if your spouse is a cheater and financially unstable from the start). If she's cool with what they've got going on then so be it. I've seen this play out so many times with and without marriage and its never to the benefit of bw who get involved with these non commital blk males.

[@shakeraali2033]

I can't wait to see you as bride!

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Chile… WITH WHEEEEWWW????

[@Curaious]

@@TheeJessieWooI’m sorry but this reply took me right on out. Cause same. WITH WHOMST??? (Talking about myself) 😅

[@trewilliams809]

@@TheeJessieWoo you could run your own dating contest/show. Just let me know where to apply! 😉

[@mz_marmar89]

WOULD LOVE a Jessie Woo dating show! The way she critiques the existing shows I know Jessie would have a legit no nonsense show and would address bs where it stands.

[@sophiavanessa]

​@TheeJessieWoo queen I see u marrying a white European millionaire from Scandinavia don't settle with a dusty u deserve the best ❤

[@SickOfdaOrdinary]

30:22 1000% agree. I couldn’t marry or be with any man who won’t provide for his children he already has. I don’t care what he say about it. How something starts is how it’s going to end! That’s what my granny would say.

[@rosalynhayes2369]

This comment here! I know someone who had a baby by someone…come to find out he has 5 other kids he don’t have a relationship with. SMH

[@GreenGorgeousness]

Amen.

[@cynthiahoward2285]

You have the best intros!! And your voice is amazing sister!!! ❤

[@dontdomeboo81]

I just hope that their love is reciprocal because I see Ashanti doing a lot and him nothing

[@BMWF2023]

It looks like the first time around, and didn't he get an SA charge? Hmmm she said she wants marriage but I guess keep hope alive...

[@giftedwithmelanin6849]

Exactly what I said smh she doing way too much.

[@shortyp1000]

Exactly. Jennifer should have said, "You found out with the general public?" Jennifer dropped the ball! 😫

[@angelofmery21]

Well she's a boring host that doesn't know how to converse and ask questions. She's clueless

[@RECHARON]

I believe Jeezy allowed her to find out about the divorce exactly how she said he did. I think that was his way of saying, “oh bih you thought you were something special”.

[@joanna0988]

She thought she was special because he convinced her she was! She broke a major deal breaker of hers (having a baby) for the dude and he runs off when the baby isn't even 2 years old.

[@TemiDansoArt]

I would love to see you react to the new squid game challenge series. It’s so good and I’m sure even if you haven’t seen the original, you’d still enjoy it. Also I’d love to see you interview the black wimminz cast members!

[@Minding_my_business]

ITS THE INTRO SONG FA MEEEEEEE!!!!

[@pscih7149]

You're sooo right. Wendy Williams would've reported like crazy on Beat Diddy / Freak Diddy / P Diddy / Pee Diddy.

[@Dklady]

I'm here for the intro song, what a banger

[@mochaamlnn]

The braids are giving what they need to give!!!!!!

[@rebashley]

Relem is 🔥🔥🔥 on repeat non-stop.

[@shortyp1000]

Lawd, Jennifer Hudson definitely dropped the ball. She should've had a follow up question. Hopefully Jeannie does another interview with Tamron Hall.

[@stormieweather8049]

Ive been with my partner for almost 6 years and he is about to move in and I am stressed. Im so particular with things and Idk how this is gonna work out. Lol I feel bad for Mai on a human level for finding out that way BUT my gripe with some interracial relationships with Black men, sometimes those women position themselves as if they are better than us and thats why they got this “catch”. That f*uck around and find out knows no color baby

[@chelleluxcien950]

Sis we need some more storytimes plzzzz😂😂😂❤

[@siliziwex44]

Pretty please ma’am 🙏🏽🤣

[@cocoace7587]

I was about to post the same . # dating story times .

[@cocoace7587]

Oh , he was a jealous hater, he did all of that on purpose. Especially when he walked through YOUR home , with shoes . I bet $10 he doesn't have his own home . At his big age , he knows how to not clog a toilet. He purposely did a big #2 & put a lot of paper in toilet , then tried to flush . Ladies tell your man child to flush between # 2 & after , then put toilet paper in & flush again. It's not rocket science & if the explode in the commode , tell him to clean . It's evil to leave a nasty mess & expect someone else to clean it .

[@cocoace7587]

Oh , I said don't tell them about the life insurance. If he knows he will tell all 5 of his other kids . Then , you will never have any peace . Although he would never put a dime on insurance, he will talk big & claim it . Just passing on somethings , incase my experiences can help others . 😂# stay safe ladles

[@JSAqueen]

I definitely flush toilet paper and wipes down the toilet. Never had an issue. I don't want poop just sitting in my trash can.

[@Rybread07]

The last 5 minutes truly made me laugh out loud while at work! Keep being you Jessie 😅

[@jasminewarren7884]

Chileeee!!???? WHERE IS THAT SONG AT THE BEGINNING!?!?!? THATS A BANGER. OH MY GOD!!!!!

[@tfrancis82]

Jessie…. I keep telling saying you need your own talk show.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

AND DO!!!!

[@BeautyNBrains86]

​@@TheeJessieWooYou really do!!!! The Nigerian womenz will support you our 1st cousin & Caribbean sista!!!! 😘

[@bgurley1998]

Omg I really resonate with you regarding not living with a man. I was just reflecting with myself about this yesterday. As an introvert, having my own space and seeing my partner every few days is ideal for me. I tried living with my ex for a while and it got old FAST lol. He would leave stuff everywhere and my dad is the same way🤦🏽‍♀️ I think it’s good to have a lil space in a relationship. That makes it even more exciting when you get together🥰

[@Robinyou_14]

I definitely have a separate bathroom from my husband. He is very clean and I love that but I just enjoy us having those spaces separated.

[@DrFlorencia_]

Sisss how can you mention your Ghanaian ex-husband and not provide the seesters any context?! 😂😂 we are invested

[@caramelskindee]

I most definitely feel the same way. My mom laughed at me because I said it would be nice if my husband and I would have separate homes and could just visit each other lol 😂😂😂😂 I love my space! 😩

[@soulsistah5738]

I always said if I get married I want a 2 bedroom so if I’m annoyed he can go in his own room

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@soulsistah5738 that means after 2 yrs of marriage when ur done pretending to love ur husband like most sisters.. you’ll be moving in the guest BR

[@soulsistah5738]

@@PrinceInawRakah thank god

[@GreenGorgeousness]

​@@PrinceInawRakaheverybody doesn't work the same way lol. I'm a 2 house woman. Just celebrated my 11 year anniversary chump.

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@GreenGorgeousness touché.. I’m a sleep in separate rooms type of man myself.. been married for 5 so..

[@RoxiieSays]

Clogged up the toilet and then caught an attitude with YOU?? 🤔 You know they say women lose years of life from not getting enough sleep because of their husbands snoring? 😩 It’s a whole thing.

[@graciouslymissy3982]

You ATE that commentary UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU, yes YOUUUU should do a talk show. Love you Jessie, you made my day!❤️🙏🏾❤️😍

[@bryanna_95]

Black Cake was soooo Good Watched it to be ready for your review

[@barbaramapp5484]

MADAM jesse woo just love hear u singing makes me happy all time

[@keyreid8029]

JESSSS! You can be our new Wendy Williams chileee bc you be bringing it! 😂

[@mamimelusine]

Screaming about the toilet part at the end. 😂Yes man poop is a thing. And I’m constantly getting on my husband about leaving socks and drawers and all his clothes everywhere. Sometimes on the floor right next to the hamper. I’ve trained my 8 year old with Down Syndrome to put his dirty clothes in the hamper and he does it. So I can’t accept excuses from a grown man who acts like learning how to do this is impossible. It’s maddening.

[@Dom-if7rx]

Can’t wait to discuss black cake

[@tatyanah5098]

I’ve been living with my man for 7 years. I’m slightly OCD so I understand everything you said! I’m ready for my own space! lol we just had a baby last year and it’s even more mess to clean. I feel like I’m going crazy. 😂😂

[@adetoroceballos211]

omg SAME exact boat. Sending solidarity ❣

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

I feel the exact same way! The fact of being a girlfriend for 8 years after a baby and IVF treatments due to diagnosed MALE factor fertility plus his messiness I’m ready to get the fckkkkkkk!

[@adetoroceballos211]

⁠@@beautiful_wonderfullymade lmao I'm crying at 'get the fckkkk'. It's starting to feel more and more like men and women aren't meant to live together tbh.

[@tatyanah5098]

@@beautiful_wonderfullymade awwh. I’m so sorry to hear that! I pray for your healing! It’s okay to start over and separate yourself from him!

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

@@adetoroceballos211 I agree. My sanity is on the line. I’ve tried to compromise, but at this point I’m self sabotaging myself. We bought a brand new home in 2021 and his lack of cleanness has the place giving bando vibes sometimes. It’s so cringe.

[@mztara7939]

Jesse I am sooo happy for Ashanti also and that is crazy I see her as a boy mom too 🥰🥰

[@PeaceLovePaperbacks]

I love every second of the intro. I'm truly overjoyed for Ashanti. She's always wanted kids. Her and Nelly are so happy and committed. Black Cake is something you will enjoy and love. I'm making my way through episodes. I don't care what they say i grew to love Jeanie. Between the real and her youtube page. Her relationship and love story on her side was real and raw. I miss aunt Wendy too.

[@melanin_mami2008]

Hold on, where is the toilet tissue supposed to go if not in the toilet??😂😂😂

[@BeautyNBrains86]

I need answers too lol

[@mzmeshelle]

If you put a shitty used toilet paper in my trash I would be pissed. I assume they are putting it in a sealed bag or something. I need answers too😅

[@gigiarmany4332]

Ewww..I always flush the paper, where else IS IT supposed to go??Jeez..not sure I want to know🫣😵

[@Unique2TheMaxx]

Not mad he flushed toilet paper in the toilet...chile if I was him I'd of been mad too. Talkin a big shit..then what am I supposed to do? Yuk

[@GlamGoddes101]

@@mzmeshelle Yeaaa I was taught growing up to never put tissue paper w poo in the trash, that is always flushed

[@nicoleybby]

it’s always the “wait wait wait waiiiit wait” for me lmaooo

[@PnoMonies]

We NEED our Wendy back for sure Girl!!!

[@saynay333]

If this is what Ashanti wants, who are people to be upset about it. She's good and grown.

[@iaminevitable_]

Yup! I just don’t want to read or hear about it when it all comes tumbling down🤷🏽‍♀️

[@krissk2824]

@@iaminevitable_ Nobody wants her hurt again.

[@dingstrini]

I don’t understand how no one peeped that. The release of the divorce came across like he sprung it on her. The release was not joint and when she was being attacked he did not protect her. He did it that way for a reason. She did NOT KNOW.

[@krissy-jw8kj]

Point blank period.

[@JHanson856]

Where's Wendy?!??! Jennifer dropped the ball by not asking that follow up question 😂😂😂

[@DrKenyaShanell]

100 % agree about having your own space when living with a man, but what do you do with the wipes and paper Sis??

[@kayleemaylee7122]

I'm so happy for her, if she is pregnant foreal❤❤❤