Postpartum Mental Health - [my experience]

I have a 4 year old daughter and an almost 4 month old son, this video shares my experiences with baby blues & postpartum depression after each baby's birth. I am SO thankful for you guys & hope this video encourages you in your own postpartum journey!
You're doing SO good!
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[@ryanelisabethharvey1242]

I’m not a mom but I struggle with depression. I was having a bad week this week and your video just encouraged me to get back to writing it all down and leave my house. I feel a weight off my shoulder watching you

[@jess_hover]

Ryan Elisabeth Harvey thank you so much. Im sorry you have been struggling this week but it makes me happy this video helps! I hope the rest of the week improves for you. 🙏🏼

[@ronancoffey1809]

@@jess_hover omg thanks for this video have u Snapchat or Instagram

[@roekinn]

I've had tremendous improvement with my depression and anxiety supplementing with Methylated Vitamin B complex and Magnesium Glycinate (this makes your body relax and feel at ease). They help regulate GABA and seratonin, among other things, and we're ALL deficient in magnesium. You can search online for "magnesium treatment depression". Researchers are saying that it needs to be mainstream and the first line of defense in treatment of all mental health challenges as it it proving to be superior against even many medications. 🧡

[@shannonsmith7005]

This is such a real talk about what postpartum depression ACTUALLY looks like. People have such a hard time saying the things like: “I couldn’t connect” or “I feel like they’d be better off without me” or even “I feel like I don’t want my child, I made a mistake.” Those are NORMAL thoughts, and just because you’re thinking them doesn’t make you a bad parent, it just means you need help. Thank you for being so open. I have a 2 month old and it has been SO intense, these tips have all been helpful to me. ❤️

[@melerwin1]

I felt this, it was hard to admit but I said that to myself and my partner... "I made a mistake, I don't want this baby." I had awful thoughts when his crying fits went on so long that I couldn't stand it. It started around week 3 and really peaked around week 4. I was exhausted and he was very colicky and would scream if he was even put down. In addition, he wouldn't sleep without being touched or held. My partner really pushed me to tell my dr which I did and was prescribed an anti depressant. I started to feel much better fairly quickly and am so relieved to say that I'm now back in love with my baby and he is my world. I wish someone would have told me specifically these words, so that I wouldn't have felt the shame and guilt and gotten help more quickly. I assumed PPD meant I'd be sad and I wasn't sad, I was frustrated, annoyed and had lost the connection with my baby.

[@katiejohnson7807]

I can’t believe someone said out loud what I’m feeling and thinking all the time.

[@SunflowerBudgeting]

I’ve suffered from depression my whole pregnancy, mainly because the father is not involved. In the beginning he was cruel, tried manipulating me into an abortion (twice he was almost successful as I tearfully made an appointment only to cancel it after). I remember just crying every night thinking “I lost so much in my life, why does he want to take away my baby?” I knew then and there I wanted my son because he gave me a new view of life especially when my grandfather passed away before I started telling anyone I was pregnant. Nearing the end I have found myself more sad again knowing my sons father won’t be there for his birth or his life but I’m gonna do my darn hardest to be a good mom to him. One day I’ll have the courage to seek a therapist but right now I don’t feel ready to talk about my feelings. I’m so glad you made this video, it really normalizes depression in pregnancy.

[@priscillasaravia]

Megan&Ricky I’m so sorry. It will get better. You won’t always be in this dark period

[@theingridaria]

You just courageously spoke abt your feelings.❤️

[@sjayahsan375]

Megan&Ricky I can’t imagine what you must be going through, I had my entire family through my labour and postpartum but I still am depressed I can’t imagine you going through it alone. I hope it works out for you I wish you all the love and luck.

[@sitcomchristian6886]

You are freaking amazing!!! Sending a massive virtual hug 💕 What an incredible mom you are. Psalm 68 all wrongs will be made right hon.

[@ebonyjuanita2045]

You are a really comforting person. I want to be a mother in the future and your chats are really helpful ways of preparing for that. I appreciate your openness, honesty and realness

[@theresahover4339]

Wilson is a doll, I can't wait to meet my sweet nephew. One thing I wasn't told that I wish I had been told about postpartum depression, is that it doesn't always look like sadness. For me, from about 3 months postpartum until my daughter was almost 11 months when I finally got treatment, I struggled with severe anxiety and anger (like unreasonable rage at the tiniest things). It wasn't recognized as postpartum depression initially because I was also being treated for thyroid issues, but after my thyroid had been controlled for months and I was still struggling with anxiety, panic attacks, and fits of rage (no really, you can ask Ryan, it was awful), my doctors finally said "Hey, this is probably postpartum depression" My daughter was 10 months old! So for any moms out there feeling not like yourself, reach out, get help! Hormones can do crazy things and postpartum depression doesn't always look same in each person, sometimes it looks like anger or unreasonable anxiety.

[@nallely__rodriguez]

Fish oil helped me overcome PPD when I had my baby. it really helps

[@destineykrell9460]

I love your mental health talks! I thought I was alone with postpartum depression and it made me feel like I was crazy for having these scary thoughts. Turns out its completely normal and finally got the confidence to get help.

[@ekaterinabulanova1530]

She is such a beautiful soul.

[@katelynfife5158]

You are such a sweet soul! Thank you for this video. I have a 6 month old and I can relate to so much of what you said, especially the leaving the house part. It’s a mental struggle sometimes to get yourself and the baby ready to leave, but so good once you do it. Thank you for being so honest and candid! I’m sure so many mothers can relate to these feelings❤️ you’re a great momma!

[@meganpersson6051]

I love how candid and honest you are. I too have a four month old son but he is my first. I found your channel shortly after he was born and I just adore you. Thank you for your advice, support and love for this community of mamas!!

[@joyl7559]

Thank you for this video. I’m currently going through ppd and it’s so good to see that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

[@ourlittletribe2871]

Wow!! Thank you so much for sharing your experience and advice. I can relate to SOO much of what you have shared! I feel so much less crazy now - thank you!! Sending so much love and prayers. Thanking God for you and this space you have been blessed to share in! Xxx 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

[@therealstiltzgang214]

I just love you! I'm a mom of two as well! My second was just born 7 weeks ago. I've recently found your channel and you have helped me do much these last few weeks. Your realness inspires me. Keep doing what you're doing Mama! And THANK YOU 😊♥️

[@mrsg8153]

Love these videos. Thank you for your help and PP support! Due in 2 weeks and these have really helped

[@brittanymiller123]

As always, thank you so much for another great video! This speaks to me. My kiddo is 2 1/2 yrs old now, but when she was first born I really struggled. Had an emergency C-section, didn't want to leave the hospital, and when I finally got home, I didn't feel like I could lay my troubles on anyone else. I was depressed and in denial. I was so wrong! People/family wanted to help and be there for me! Connection truly is important. To all momma's out there, please know that YOU ARE soo very IMPORTANT and LOVED more than you know! As a daughter, I am so grateful for my parents and all they did/do for me. I will keep this video saved to watch after I have my second kiddo. 😉🙂

[@haleyscloud]

as a postpartum nurse, thank you so much for this! you are doing amazing work...I hope that other new moms can connect with your experience

[@lauragillis4027]

I'm really grateful for this video! I am having my first baby in March and since I already struggle with depression, and I know my mom had a super hard experience with PPD, I am super paranoid that this is going to be a big challenge for me, but you have given me some peace and some hope and I'm going to go into this thing intentional, aware, and supported. Love you Jessica!

[@kaylienguyen8812]

You are such a sweet and comforting person Jess 💕

[@noor-5187]

I love watching family channels as a way of preparing to be a mom, but your channel and these kind of talks feel so deep, important and unique. I can watch a thousand birthvlogs, what to buy etc, they are also useful, but hearing about mental health after giving birth is so important as well! U do it in such a natural honnest way, it's like u were made to do this. And from what I read in the comments, many people appreciate you a lot. I also really love your hair and how it matches the wood of your bed🙊❤

[@chelseamowery3673]

Jessica, you are RIDICULOUSLY relatable. It’s unbelievable how similarly I feel to most of the things you talk about on your channel about being a mom and dealing with mental health. And the fact that you’re faith-based is just the icing on the cake. Thank you SO much for being vulnerable enough to share your life and experiences.

[@amypoulin1827]

I really love your videos. My son is 6 weeks old and we’re doing really well but I just find you so comforting and honest. I’ve had some significant loss before having my son so I appreciate the real conversation about not always doing well. Praise God for your testimony. You are truly a light and the Spirit is palpable:)

[@aboutblossoming1884]

Your videos are so real. As someone who never wanted to be a mom until recently, you give a really balanced view of motherhood that makes me feel confident that it's okay to not feel like it is my ultimate calling in life to be a mom in order to be a good mom. You're such an inspiration. And as someone who has always had issues with mental health and suicidal ideation, I used to think that pregnancy with all the changes in hormones would kill me. It's so important to have moms like you be so real about these things. Thank you.

[@mrs.timbit5814]

Beautiful video! My son is 4 weeks old today and today has been a hard day to be a mother. Thank you for your content and sharing yourself with all of us. I know I'm not alone when I say that listening to you has given me confidence that I'm not a bad mother, just struggling with the same things most other mothers are.

[@AB-948]

You’re amazing!! Thank you for sharing such a personal piece of your life with all of us!! Truly inspiring to all of us who can relate to you!! You’re one amazing mama!!

[@kpeacecheap15]

Wow the way you described leaving the house fits me so perfectly! I have a 3 year old daughter, 11 month old boy and I'm 20 weeks pregnant. Finally just now after 2 kids and three years I am on a medication that has helped me with my severe depression! So happy I found you!

[@katiefox6680]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am now pregnant with our child and with our first baby who is 15 months old I experienced almost exactly what you went through. Thankfully I was blessed by the chance to have and get help right a couple weeks after baby was born. More mommies need to know that postpartum depression is a very serious thing and there are outlets, people and various tools/meds to help them get better. Keep being a fantastic your babies are so lucky to have you as their mama. xoxo

[@heatherstrandquist6789]

You are a truly amazing and inspiring person. Thank you so much for sharing and being open and honest.

[@makarram6837]

This was so helpful! I’m 3mo pregnant and me and my doctor decided to wig me off of the medicine for the health of the baby. I’ve been concerned about my current depression and post partum. but this was oh so encouraging and reassuring. I thought I was going to go into a deep hole after I had my baby but after watching your videos I see that there is Hope just as long as you have support. Thank You! ❤️

[@nollie9311]

I just came to tell you (Jessica hover) that I also have a really hard time if I haven’t left the house in a few days. I just wanted to tell you I relate! Also THIS video is what made me watch 2 of your previous mental health videos and I really appreciate your vulnerability. You are awesome!! Thank you for your videos. My daughter is 3 months old and I found you 2 weeks into her life. I’ve been watching you since. Thank you ! I also have 2 kids. My oldest is 18 months old.

[@jessicas.4533]

How you described your anxiety, fear of nighttime, and inability to connect was exactly like me in the beginning. I was exhausted but at the same time was too anxious to sleep. It was extremely overwhelming and difficult to adjust to being a mom. Now we are almost 5 weeks in and I feel so much better already. The first two weeks were the hardest. No one talks about that so thank you for doing so. 🙏♥️

[@toffrozzle]

My booboo is 4 weeks old and I’m needing and loving your motherhood videos. Thank you so much for this. 🙏

[@KingTesticus]

I'm a member of the XY club, and yes, I'm watching baby videos. Thank you. I am absorbing as much info as possible so I can increase my uselessness for my wife. She delivers in January 2020. Again, thank you.

[@charitymwanje1720]

I'm due jan 2020 too. Best wishes

[@TheVibrantColor]

This video is such a comfort to me to know that it does get better. My baby is 10 weeks today and just about two weeks ago I began to feel like I wasn’t doing a good job being a mother. Thank you for putting yourself out there for especially for young first time moms. 💗

[@sabrina22471]

Thank you Jess! Our babies are the same age. My oldest will be 4 in December. Looking back I definetly had PPD with my first. It didn't help that it was winter, cold, dark all the time, I wanted to leave the house but felt too overwhelmed with a new little baby. Luckily it was better with my second. Like you said the second time with a newborn is so different. You're life has already been turned upside down and you know what to expect. You feel more confident in what you're doing for sure.

[@valek7700]

Thank you for being so honest!

[@lia7]

Wonderful honest and helpful talk - thank you, Jess!

[@missmemissy]

As a new first time mom, I think people don’t talk often enough about the fact that not everyone loves the hell out of their baby right from the start. I didn’t know how common it was to feel the difficulty of bonding with your baby. I just assumed it came easy, so the following weeks after having my baby, I felt like an AWFUL person because I just didn’t feel that super strong connection that people talk about. Everyone talks about their babies like they’re the perfect angels and they love them SO much. Of course I love my baby, but I wasn’t head of heels in love with her. That made me feel terrible, and no one talks about it.

[@naomiheylen3548]

Thanks you for being so open. I have that thing about leaving the house too. Nice to know I'm not alone 😊 bless you and your family. What an adorable little guy!

[@eleonoraserei4847]

Thanks for having shared your experience!

[@TheAmanda16xoxo]

Thank you so much for this Video! I am 33 weeks pregnant now and been fighting depressions for years now, was in rehab and still go to Therapy. So I was really worried about Postpartum Depressions and I know that it might happen to be considering my background Story. Watching your videos really made me feel better about the whole Situation so thank you really much for this!

[@krazykid3349]

Thank you so much for another wonderful honest and real video! I can't even begin to tell you how much you've helped me in the chapter of my life. I was struggling so much and your videos have been so helpful for me. Me and Alice are doing really good now, but it's still a day by day thing. She also refuses bottles and pasifiers so after so long of just me and her I need a break! You are awesome thank you so much for speaking up about the real feelings, it let me know I'm not alone I'm not the only one feeling this and it's ok to be honest with myself and the people around me about it 💗💗💗 thank you, and just wanted to let you know that you are an awesome momma

[@SprinklesForTheSoul]

You are such a wonderful mom, thank you so much for sharing this!!

[@capslovesit]

Watching this 5 months PP, just now starting to feel ok again with medication for PPD. You've made me feel so much more normal! I used to say to my husband, sometimes I wish I was in an accident so I could go to hospital and rest. Also could not sleep on my shifts until the meds. Living in a foreign country feeling isolated. I'm hopeful I don't go through this if I have a second but I'll definitely know to ask for help a lot earlier if I'm struggling again. You're so great.

[@megannash1521]

This is so important. Thank you so much.

[@wadettem]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It's really a great conversation to start. ❤️

[@asialinn2330]

Thank you for sharing your story. I've been struggling with depression through this pregnancy also believing I was too "resilient" to feel depressed. But I've been learning how to better depend on the Lord through my struggles. I'm still in an emotional pit, but praying this ends soon. 💕

[@haleymarlow9586]

Thank you for this! ❤️ love your videos

[@CJ-gp6vf]

Thank you for sharing this. I'm not a mother yet, and I've always felt that I could never be one because of my occasional depression. I don't know if I ever will have children, but you have reminded me that it is an unfortunate reality for some, but it can be worked through. Thank you ❤️

[@braedentalkington1893]

I'm a new parent (my son is 6 days old today) and I've been watching your videos for a while. I want you to know that your videos have helped me to feel less isolated in having a baby. I'm a queer birthing parent and nearly all of my friends don't want children themselves, so I have had a hard time not feeling alone. On top of that I was really ill for most of the pregnancy, so I couldn't be out and see people. But your videos are so honest and real, and I can watch them wherever. You should know that you really are helping people like me with every video. So THANK YOU 💚

[@LexieJaguar69]

I can relate to missing the dr. When i went back to her first week appointment we ended up in the same room I had her in and i wanted to lay down and just stay there with her where it felt safe. I still wake up thinking about our room. Im so thankful i found your videos Jessica youre like an older sister who gives great advice and a lot of it has helped me get thru very tough nights. Wether im nursing watching your videos or actually using the tips. The best one was that i could give my baby a bottle before 3 months. Ive been doing it and im doing so much better mentally and physically. Baby is feeding amazing and im having time to clean up and get ready & chill out without her attached to my boob

[@WandaBrown54]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience 💗

[@angelao6047]

Absolutely real! I think in waiting to have our babies as a part of fulfilling our life (after college and being married) vs. pregnancy just happening as it was custom in the past, we've established a false immage of pregnancy and motherhood. It was never easy, but my grandmother says she never expected it to be all fun. It was just what you did back then...

[@oweble]

This is so helpful, I already feel a bit less lonely in my soon to be motherhood. Thank you so much for sharing

[@laurenwalker117]

Thank you so much for talking about this xx

[@darcynyc]

Just SO GREAT!!! So many Moms think what they’re going through is “just them”, you’re an Inspiration to so many women!! Praying for you always my precious girl!!💖🙏🙏💖

[@jess_hover]

Darcy Plimpton-Sims thank you mama Darcy. Love you like crazy and always so grateful to have you as my cheerleader 💛💛💛

[@roro1980]

Thanks so much for sharing your story . Very inspiring .

[@mariahchristine5029]

Not a momma (yet) but thank you for being so open and joyful! I adore you & your channel

[@naomihannestad8689]

This was such a sweet video to watch as a new mama.💕 thank you

[@TheLunita333]

I'm all emotional, thank you for your words... I needed to hear this

[@leiafortygin1155]

Wilson is just the sweetest 💗 thank you for making this. I am about to have my second child, and I had PPD with my first. So I’m trying to prepare myself for this time. It was very relieving to hear that your experiences were different with each of your children.

[@jess_hover]

Melancholy Princess thank you! Congratulations on your pregnancy and i really hope this time around is easier that the first. 💛

[@jennifer_moss]

I was diagnosed with PPA after I had my daughter. With medication and therapy I'm slowly getting better but I'm just taking it day to day.

[@kawaiiheather5696]

You're such a breath of fresh air. I always enjoy your videos. I'm 2 months into being a mom and it's not easy at all. Without friends in the same life spot as me, I can often feel alone. You should start an online moms group / bible study. I think youd be an amazing leader and I would want to join 😊❤

[@juliekeller1877]

I was clinically depressed 2013-2014, and was concerned about PPD after having our daughter 3 months ago. And although I know I'm not out of the clear - I do know that my mum and husband are watching for those signs. Going into pregnancy my husband and I talked about me needing to get out of the house on a regular basis. We've fallen into a bit of a routine now, and the three of us leave the house to run errands or whatever on Saturdays. But I am right there with you - Adalynn and I need to leave the house regularly ourselves, and it gets extremely scary to do so when we haven't left the house in a few days. Two Fridays ago I forced myself to leave with her, and once we were out it was wonderful (as it always has been). Going into winter (live in Canada) it will be a bit more difficult, but I know this needs to be a priority for us. Thanks for making real videos about motherhood 💖

[@sarahmcelwee7749]

My daughter was born in January in Chicago, right before a polar vortex. You can do it mama! I wore her and then put my maternity coat on over!

[@juliekeller1877]

@@sarahmcelwee7749 I've now bought two carriers, a wrap and a sling, but I get horribly frustrated each time I try to use them. Somehow I cannot figure them out like I see so many others do. I know I need to persevere, but each time I try it ends in my getting too hot and swearing and my daughter crying. But, I did buy an insulated carseat cover - hopefully that will get some use. I'll keep trying! Thank you for your support 💖

[@sarahmcelwee7749]

Julie Keller I never really got the hang of the stretchy wrap, although I desperately wanted to! The soft structured carriers worked best for us! I used KZbin videos for the specific brand. Most of the larger brands have them to watch. I’d slow the speed down and watch and try it along. Until we got the hang of it, I’d try it out only when she’d first wake up and was in the best mood. And if you don’t get it, take a break and try again later! Hope you find something that works for you!!

[@juliekeller1877]

@@sarahmcelwee7749 why didn't I think of that!? I always try the wraps in the afternoon - but Adalynn is also happiest in the morning when she first wakes up. That's brilliant! And I've never thought of slowing down the speed on the videos! Thank you!!!

[@helloamberjane]

Thank you for this video! This is me right now 7 weeks today since I gave birth. I had a very traumatic birth and I think it has really affected me bonding with my daughter which I feel awful about and really beat myself up about it. This has helped me thinking about going to the doctors for help

[@annalovegrove9299]

you are amazing and so brave!!!

[@ASMinor]

I am an avid #MentalHealthAwareness advocate and spoken word performer, and I love this so much. I travel the country trying to bring that awareness on stages, in classrooms, hospitals, and on my KZbin channel, so I get excited when I see other advocates. 💙❤

[@marianaartemieva]

Sometimes I feel the same..I am thankful for ur encouragement🙏 I love my baby but being a mom is a bit difficult. We will get through it🙏

[@juleshowell990]

Have you checked your add settings? No ads on this vid surprisingly ! You deserve to be monetised for the content you provide. x

[@LovedHappy]

Oh girl, I love you so much. This was one of my favorite videos of yours, you seem so yourself and I just love how open and honest this conversation is. I am a mom of two as well, ages, two and four. It's definitely been a journey for me too, especially when sickness came into the picture when my second daughter was born and my husband had to stop working and we moved in with his family. Life is difficult sometimes! I'm so grateful for Jesus, He is so faithful and is walking us through it all. Thank you for continuing to put out your beautiful heart and such important content :) You're INCREDIBLE! DON'T FORGET IT! :) xo Kaylyn

[@jess_hover]

LovedHappy 😍 wow thank you so so much. Im sorry you guys went through that hard time. I know we are going through our share of challenges these days too (☺️ stuff i haven’t put it videos) and you’re so right. God is faithful & he carries us all through. I seriously appreciate your kindness & wish you and your family the best best best.

[@LovedHappy]

I’m praying for you! You are the sweetest! And You’re not alone. You and your family are such treasures in his kingdom. His promises and purpose and power is written all over you and your life. I know these struggles, especially inward battles, are only more a confirmation of it. You are a warrior! I truly believe you will reach great breakthrough and won’t always struggle in the ways you have. Have hope!❤️ love you!

[@dita9254]

I too think that baby blues wouldn't hit me. I do a lot of outdoor acitivities, challenging ones, stuff that others might find stressful. But then I cried and I cried for the smallest things, I felt lonely, helpless and I feel I didn't do anything right. I also felt judged by everyone who tries to offer suggestions. Every comment that were meant to help feels like a criticism. It didn't get better until I know every friend that I ask cried a lot in the first few weeks, even the strongest friend I knew! So yeah, none us mothers are alone in this. It is tough, crazy, emotional, and it's okay to acknowledge these feelings. It doesn't make us less of a mom, but more of a human.

[@elliesilva1907]

I know God led me to your videos. Thank you for doing these videos he help us so much ❤️

[@meganslonesings]

Thank you for sharing this super super part of pre and post partum.

[@SteveWilson406]

Awesome. Thank you.

[@taylorshutt3817]

I’m currently pregnant with baby number 2, and I’m very nervous about going through another postpartum experience. I’m hoping that this time will be easier than last time, but I’m still anxious about it!

[@itscool770]

I felt the exact same way, I thought I was invincible. It never occurred to me to look into postpartum depression because I didn’t get depressed and things like that didn’t affect someone like me. Well I was wrong. I gave birth 14 weeks ago and the first 2 weeks of my babies life were spent in a NICU. That greatly affected me and when we came home it all hit me. I’m still struggling with it but it fluctuates. I try to talk to everyone about it. Keep it from getting worse by making it known to family and friends and anyone who will listen. You aren’t alone.

[@mackenzielyseng4917]

Thank you for this video

[@analuvsya1]

You are right about B vitamins helping mood. I wasn't really aware of B3 but a deficiency in it causes depression and anxiety. Worth it to get the level checked if you're struggling.

[@ryanelisabethharvey1242]

First! Love you most

[@frashrah]

I really appreciate your videos as I am pregnant with my first baby currently 21 weeks and need all the advice and knowledge I can get... I’m 37 too so the doctor considers me high risk so I appreciate any prayers 🙌🏻🥰🤰🏼🙏🏼👌🏻

[@AleahRudd]

My sister JUST had a baby he is 4 days old. I started watching your videos before she had him. I don’t know why but I feel sad and that was before I even found out that she’s feeling that way too. I’m not showing it or telling anyone. I don’t know how to explain how I feel but there are a lot of different feelings. Thank you for making these videos they are helping me a lot and I’m not even the one that had a baby.

[@annarocha3254]

A new baby can be stressful for everyone involved! You have a new little person impacting your life! It's okay to feel the way you do.

[@jannelysaviles4714]

In my first 2 wks of postpartum everyone told me the milk production would start to kick in. Maybe my anemia during C-section that lasted month was the culprit of my inability to breastfeed fully and when pumping for an hour just a few drops would come out. I had just graduated from med school so I thought I knew most things I needed to find it in me to be able to breastfeed. I was so into trying to force the breastfeed and be the best I could be, while also experiencing bursts of crying and feeling overwhelmed that after trying everything I could I ended up just feeding formula. Once I went full formula I started sleeping better,being able to go out to eat together and just be more myself. I never saw my baby be satisfied while breastfeeding so when I saw what being satisfied looked like for her after a full tummy... I couldn't go back to force her or myself to wait for the milk to magically appear as everyone said it would. Thank God for my husband who was the only one to remind me I was still the best mom no matter how I fed her just making sure she was happy, fed and healthy was enough! Now 4mos in we are all doing so good. But I def learned from my experience and mental health is way more important than forcing something that "should" happen. No matter what it is that makes mom think of herself as not enough, it's important to address it head on.

[@ashleghscott7801]

🎀🍼👶🏼 your baby is so beautiful congratulations👶🏼🍼🎀

[@BellaLouisaatje]

I am a nurse working in a mental hospital. But I also have had depressions in my life. It's mainly why I work where I work because I know what it's like. I am now 7 months pregnant and in the first trimester I experienced bad emotions again and I thought I might get depressed again. Luckily I know what I have to do now if I'm in that place and I sought help. After birth, in my country it's normal that a nurse comes over for a week to take care of baby and mommy. They also look for symptoms of post partum depression. I hope I won't get it, but if I do I will just seek help right away and tell the nurse. I know I have a tendency for depression.

[@sitcomchristian6886]

My daughter is 1 now. I didn't feel the emotional feeling of love toward her until she was about 4 months old. At 2 weeks old she had colic. She also hated her car seat, which I drove her in an hour a day because I had to take her to work with me. Oh right, she comes to work with me! Which is awesome. But overwhelming. Then at almost 6 months old she had a 5 day hospital stay for Kawasaki's disease, which she's not even the right demographics for. So bringing her home was almost like starting all over. Her sleep schedule was whacked, and she was nursing about 10 times a day. When she was 9 months old (?) I was diagnosed with PPD. My mom was the one who suggested I make the appointment with my OB-GYN (listen to the people who know you, ladies!) I wound up trying sam-E. It's all natural, and on Amazon. It's also pricey, but it worked for me. It also helps my husband with his anxiety. We just work it into the budget!

[@agathecordier8600]

You are so so so beautiful I love you so much I am your number 1 fan!!!

[@death2theworld]

Thank you for being so honest. This is such a taboo subject, everyone is keeping it secret and in the end everyone ends up feeling alone in their experience. Really appreciate your video! The fact that a large portion of women do not like being mothers despite loving their children needs to come out of the closet!

[@privatechannel434]

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[@staringanime]

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[@karson3822]

Girl. Magnesium supplements at night. GAME CHANGER

[@sitcomchristian6886]

Huh, cool!

[@ashleghscott7801]

I ❤️ your baby💋💋💋

[@voolforyou]

May I know how old you are?

[@renzillian2436]

pregnancy and childbirth and marriage just seems like its not worth it for women...