7 huge mistakes men make that chase women away

[@JessicaOS]

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[@vnation4443]

Thank you very much for this my AFRICAN Queen J Os

[@nainaiwhip4253]

Your voice 😍

[@sulleyawudu8100]

Glad to always hear from you

[@svitababy6906]

Jess i want 16 bars for my new rap song..i will credit and reference you for the lyrics..have u thought of being a ghostwriter?

[@johnross4243]

Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person

[@sifisosithole9631]

If a lady really likes you nothing will chase them away from you,You will never have to work hard to keep a woman who likes you

[@letusspeaklingala2023]

Well said. What irks me is that they feign being offended when I ask for sex or make advances suggestive of the same. What did they think I wanted in the first place? That is a turn-off for me personally.

[@acc3650]

TRUE!

[@Chiungalla79]

This is about early dating. They usually don't like you this much on first sight. They might be interested, and give you some credit. But you surely can scare girls away.

[@liverpoolanfield50]

Very true

[@liverpoolanfield50]

@@Chiungalla79 yupp you also have a point with this

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*One of the best points made here is about being overly eager to please. It’s so important to focus on self-respect and not lose one's identity trying to win someone over.*

[@tylerfranger537]

I think talking about ex’s is important but you have to feel out the connection between you and this new person first. It’s always good to talk about what didn’t work in past relationships and what you’ve learned.

[@D_A_Marv]

I’m a woman, and now new subscriber from Toronto. I have no clue how I ended up here, but I’ve been binge watching your channel for a day now😄 and you are hitting the nail on the head! Great advice to some of these men and us women as well. Much appreciated!🙌🏾

[@ohanubegoodluck6775]

Anywhere in the world, number 1 turns women off. All your opinions are very much on point my sister

[@yuotcikom]

The first one knocked my sock. I met this Indian girl and I was deadly impatient to tell her my feeling. She was so friendly and polite. But after telling her my feeling, she changed n we hardly greet each other after then. Lesson learned !!!!!

[@fossnevergiveup2061]

Thanks Jessica 😍. Much love from Italy to everyone watching 🙏❤️🇮🇹🇬🇭

[@brianbrino4310]

Dear Jessica although we are all slightly different you have just hit on everything you’ve said in a proper manner and with a deep meaning of behaviours that we should follow normally with our loving women. I simply love your readings they’re so good and instructive and all I can tell you is I’m gonna follow them as long as you keep on giving them to us. Best regards to Accra Ghana lots of good luck and good wishes to you and your family always. Thank you thank you thank you. 🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@johnross4243]

Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person

[@johnross4243]

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[@joelkebopetswe9837]

I love you so much and I'm learning alot from you evn though sometimes you expose me but it's really helpful. keep molding us to be better men🔥♥️

[@jossell911]

As soon as she highlights the first reason, I know she was right on track because it happens to a lot of us men!!

[@emilebroadfield7197]

Actually no one sees his or her back Jessica. You just highlighted me to have a clue of myself on the mirror. I believe I will make my woman to stay. Love you sister. God bless you

[@trivagravia4837]

Great advice...just dat the presence of social media has changed the dynamics. Social media is catalysing things. At the same time you dont want to waste your time n resources on a lady whose mind is already on another guy only to realise you were her number 3.

[@Chiungalla79]

When it comes to the premature "I love you": It's pretty crucial to understand the girls perspective here. It puts a ton of pressure on her. You make her responsible for your wellbeing and raised the stakes. A lot. And the easiest way for her to escape the pressure is saying no.

[@nwachukwuohameje8570]

Appreciate the friendly reminders Jessica. You hit the nail on the head.

[@augustusomon3049]

As always, Jessica's content is a master piece. Keep it up!

[@johnross4243]

Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person.

[@johnross4243]

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[@ibrahimovicjallohkargbo8200]

Nice

[@sonofbosse]

Jessica I'm a big fan! My name is Jonas and I'm from Sweden. Soon I'll be coming to Ghana for my sixth time. Your videos are very informative and helpful

[@chrispinuswanyonyi9300]

Thank you so much Jessica. Your research is very real.Perfect and to the point.God bless you and the work of your teachings via this media.

[@verasworld3028]

Perfectly said!! Thanks for Sharing. God bless you richly

[@geraldgrecilien4835]

Steeve Harvey has written a book entitled "think like a man and act like a lady" I think you have to write a book entitled "understand ladies". Thanks a lot Jess!

[@ebentee]

It will definitely 🙏 happened

[@groovepromoteam5770]

@Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!

[@groovepromoteam5770]

@Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!

[@lordsonashigbey9205]

😂😂😂😂Sounds interesting…

[@joeblack1490]

If you think like a man you will act like one. That book is just cringeworthy to me.

[@taneshalashai]

Jessica thank you for putting this page out here, because a lot of men don’t realize the dumb things they do to chase women away.

[@cynthianumafo8242]

😂😂😂😂

[@grey_empire]

Most men don't even know it's dumb

[@andyattapoku929]

Always watching you to get new vocabularies and new expressions as well.. Keep the good work Jess👍👍

[@emmanuelmwendwa5486]

if there is something i love about is ur voice....Madam ur blessed . keep doing u and keep it real!!!!!

[@Blessed_Nherudzo]

....that last bit hurt about "in the mean time your girls gone" , I want her back 😉. Thank you 😊 🙏

[@moo1654]

Great advice I needed this! I'm having difficulties with myself as I pursue this older woman. My only true hurdle is being timid. I'm trying to focus on being laid back but direct but don't want to say too much to push her away. I'm gonna have to watch this again

[@isaacbuziba7085]

So how is that going?

[@moo1654]

@@isaacbuziba7085 our timing is off and at this point I moved on no need of continuing pursuing someone who's not for you

[@ranjit7409]

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[@fridaypaulenemi6814]

Great advice ma!

[@successdtv]

Always get my head in the perfect setting whenever I get tuned. Love from me to BIG Jessica! ❤

[@dinsewo4real]

Many are guilty of number 1. I have been too fast to Profess love one way or the other at some point. God help me. Thank you Jessica for this video

[@Bakrawinti]

If she dont want fast enough take other woman

[@michaelcesco2970]

A big turn off , DON'T BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR PHONE ! lt happened to a friend of mine. He went on a lunch date and the woman she answered every call that came. She should have ( unless she was expecting an emergency call), turned it off. It annoyed him so much he said he was going to the men's room and walked out the side door and left her there.

[@patrickmwathi4112]

Please people make Jessica Os 1 million subscribers. She's always phenomenal in boychild moral, social and psychological support 👏 ❤️ 🙌

[@deedsinstitute7414]

Well if its not the brilliant Jessica herself again!, Another masterpiece. Words fail me! Keep up the good work Jess! Such a blesser to men!.... 2 sec after first meeting in my vicinity... "BABY GIRL I AM SOOO CRAZYYY ABOUT YOUUUU...YOU ARE THE AIR THAT I BREATHE..." watching your content with much love from MALAWI Davie here! Peace!

[@twebazegraciousofficial3433]

I just can't get tired of watching your podcasts Jessica. May the Almighty God bless the work of your hands

[@Gojo_FX..4]

I don't know what I'd do without your advice Jess thanks alot for that

[@bonganimhayise3103]

Hi Jessica im from South Africa (Nelspruit). Thank you so much for sharing everything with us for free.. you really changed my love life into a perfect one, I also love your academic english. God Bless you!

[@vnation4443]

Thank U soo much for this my AFRICAN Queen J Os

[@christianprats8225]

I really appreciate your quality advise and strength of character . Your standards and values comes across from the quality of advice you provide. Much appreciated, keep up the great work.

[@kitogrova435]

So Jessica, you live in Ghana!? Interesting. I don't know much of the African Continent except for very short visits to Morocco, Mozambique and Angola. I was born in Portugal but I actually live in USA. It's great to hear the point of view of a girl about these matters. Love your videos.

[@umarubapay3237]

This is the most common and simplest thing we do in Sierra Leone I'm glad to be part of your advice.

[@DerickOduro]

“There are soo many ways to ……… “ my reaction when i completed that statement 😂😂😂 🤣

[@newtonjulian5900]

Complete the statement bruh😏

[@legrandLecarlclein]

Very well researched piece.. Jess you're a real master piece.

[@lelandcline6809]

Love this singing introduction. You make my morning. Planning on taking a trip this new year for a week or more. Maybe Spain and Italy and Ghana. Keep stuff coming but please have a life for you too. Hoping all the best comes your way.😁

[@peewee3030]

That's right!!! Give, ladies!!!!

[@trevormabwe425]

Hie sister Jessica .I am one of your followers from Zimbabwe. You are telling us true facts and extrinsically motivating us as well. Keep it up, we are waiting for more videos from you. Stay safe and blessed sister ,wishing you the best in life.

[@crusade3035]

Strongly agreed with you Jessica! I'm Bendu from USA.

[@crusade3035]

I hate it when guys just meet me and say" I love you " I'm like you just met me! . Love is built.

[@ronaldmandibaya7043]

Taura hako vakupedza ma sports

[@richardbrown9428]

Your delivery is silky smooth ! Great job

[@nilanjandey5366]

The first point reminded me of my own pathetic situation when I expressed my deep love to the girls I found attractive and it surely communicated my weakness and neediness to them ; they reacted to my words by saying " It's your infatuation , not true love " . I couldn't and can't understand even today the difference between the two . You being a woman must know this intuitively . Thank you and I'm looking forward to watching more and more videos .

[@mikelantern148]

Law of attraction.

[@nilanjandey5366]

@@mikelantern148 Thank you ... You may love someone or something without attraction (platonic love). When you fall for someone or they fall for you , that is attraction . When there is no attraction at all between the two , the feelings of love slowly but surely fade out of the relationship . I'm not saying just physical attraction , there's numerous other things they may be attracted to when they are in a living commited relationship . I believe attraction and infatuation are twin brothers 😂.

[@FancyFeast3]

True love comes from a place of power. Sometimes you meet someone who you can see who they want to be, what they're aiming for, and even if you are not powerful yet, you love them and their mission in life. Infatuation comes from being overwhelmed with the senses and the idea of a person. You see someone that looks like a princess? You begin to imagine that they have princess qualities, beautiful all the time, graceful, kind, intelligent, etc etc. You see someone that looks like a badass punk? You assume that they will be a certain way, you want to get in on it, but it's not true. Love can be quick, it can be slow, but infatuation is typically based on superficial things, like the way they look.

[@Bakrawinti]

She was Just a bad person

[@CJChege]

Awesome content & that singing gets me every time 😉 thanks for another great video, full of solid advice in direct female speak

[@snuffymanson]

Jessica , you are the dangerous pretty Lady , lol ! You pick up straight facts , and slap people with them . It is fun to watch !

[@ApataHitz]

Absolutely Correct 👍

[@goodmanngwenya5571]

There's something very special about you my lady Jess Os.

[@babatundebm]

Jess my Gee. Thanks for all the relationship hacks. I appreciate it all.

[@gahmeihthecappbarer3830]

i like her. Her british goofiness activates her Africanism; and she is clear and direct. Great Advice. Definitely be watching more often

[@princeadams8082]

I met a lady and to be honest it was love at first sight but i didn't tell her. We have been friends for 5 years now and we both have fallen in love automatically😍

[@damyanexssessgeorgiev6]

Great tips, I like how you put the words down, it's easy to find stuff you did back in your past and see it yourself like "you know, I'm guilty, I've actually done some of that before, maby that's why bla bla bla" Love your content, keep up girl! Ohh, also love your voice, the expressions and all, you are confident, powerful women, but still be ladylike, not overwhelming or too aggressive/passive! I like people who can actually talk about stuff, specialy "general life stuff" that happen everyday, but being smart of it, knowing what they talking! Much love, great channel, the best singing evolved ever also haha 🤓🙈💚

[@nebertsakala2747]

Thank you so much Jessica.❤️

[@miahconnell23]

🤣 I was just about to type: “Jessica, I love youuuuuu !” And then: item #1 in that authoritative voice I so adore: “… …” 🤣😂

[@NerdyNerdUHeard]

I'd for starters just like if he doesn't "joke" around hurtful and then accuse me of being too sensitive. Just for starters. Nah but for real, great video! I really like your videos a lot (woman here). They are very accurate and your voice is very soothing.

[@sleems6639]

Jessica you are so on point it happened to me last month.

[@Cartier_specialist]

There's more than one kind of intimacy and if you meet a woman that never lets her guard down to be intimate with you on the simplest level of intimacy it's time to go find another woman because something is wrong but it isn't the man in front of hers fault. My grammar may be off but I'm sure you get the idea.

[@MichaelDike-ci8du]

I get your point and it's true. Some ladies out there won't just let their guard down due to whatever experience they might have, but you keep thinking you are not man enough!

[@danieleffiom4420]

This is awesome. You nailed it with humour. That's amazing

[@javierortegon7536]

GIVING A WOMAN TOO MUCH SPACE IS A HUGE MISTAKE ! SHE WILL STRAY ! SHE WILL CHEAT !

[@bmchaarney]

Hi I just stumbled onto this this morning, good stuff and well presented. I like your style and will be looking for more from you.🇧🇧

[@Vien007]

Of all your vlogs, this is the most accurate 👌 and probably the only one I agree with so far. 😊✌

[@richardkavaza8444]

I enjoyed this episode and surprisingly it's the other way round for me as time without number this happens

[@marcgordon3239]

We Don't Care About The One's That Leave ??? We Care About The One's That Stay !!!

[@arnoldyao1987]

this is just wonderful . thanks for your advice Jessica

[@flamingfirenetwork]

Jessica always burst my brain with her vibes

[@evans2786]

Dammmmn, you nailed it right at the top!! I've to download this!! Thank you Jessica

[@joeprincejoeprince6100]

Just make MONEY 💰 my brother, women will be the one chasing u 😅

[@peterkimarimwangi4148]

@@joeprincejoeprince6100 to cut the long story short🤣🤣

[@soyevans8144]

Woman are not the goal. I repeat woman should not be your goal. Work on your yourself, start that business, grown that business, make more money, travel, engage socially. You are the king, so be the king

[@crabmotility4207]

1:26 I didn't see that coming 😃. Girl you got the beautiful angelic voice 🔥

[@cryptobloodline2185]

Thanks This your relevance will never fade away I assure you Your a sign and a wonder

[@versatilesse3670]

#1 desperation, loneliness, lack of confidence, immaturity, horniness... amongst others declare love at first sight. The concept of live at first sight is infatuation in 99% of all cases. #6 being too dependable and predictable bores the woman who is constantly seeking drama. She will get bored and seek outside entertainment. Bad boys have this part right.

[@Alekosssvr]

Great advice by Jessica. I would add a more general point - avoid acting in ways that can lead to a woman to disrespect you. Most of your points fall under this category.

[@ebentee]

You never disappoint us 😌☺️ Thanks 😊👍

[@fxradar369]

Thank you Jessica!

[@bobyfun79]

Jessica you give the best advice, thank you 🙏

[@tuyishimeclement8421]

I love you indeed ( ndagukunda in kinyarwanda)

[@wamaesteve4470]

Thanks

[@kelubboy]

I made the mistake of wanting a relationship immediately and damn I regretted it immediately.

[@josefelfinito6925]

Lol. I remember when I was making that deadly mistake. Telling a girl I like her, so soon. I want us to start a relationship, bla bla bla 😆. Is either she stop answering my calls or start avoiding me. They don't want to be caged so soon. Especially young women in their 20s. Yes, somehow those moves make sense but it's the things that doesn't even make sense that works better with women. You just gotta ACT don't ask.

[@Bakrawinti]

@@josefelfinito6925 because we choose Just the wrong woman if they dont want to marry relationship she Just is for the streets

[@josefelfinito6925]

@@Bakrawinti It's not because they're the wrong women. As a man you need to improve on how to handle women. Simping or telling her you like or love her so soon will ruin your chances. It's not really their fault. It's women's nature. You can start a relationship with her without telling her and she'll be the one wanting a serious relationship. That is what I didn't know

[@Bakrawinti]

@@josefelfinito6925 if they dont go fast enough in and not showing that they really want me than i dont want them anymore i give up soon because i am not 16 i dont want to be her dog or something

[@ohikerestephen6107]

If she doesn't want to start a relationship with me so soon,she shouldn't come back to me for a relationship after being run over by other guys..... A girl that is interested will wish you tell her you love or like her really quick

[@unwanaukim3863]

u are great adviser.very realistic and on point

[@santapatosky]

Thank you Jessica.

[@Samalwasamson8]

Thank you Jessica I got it right ...I won't mess again

[@alexkakooza3116]

Am addicted to the show and tellings of wisdom from you Jessica

[@thevibe1027]

Sometimes I don’t know if its what you’re saying I like or if it’s the perfect command of English and your voice that keeps me watching but either way; great video.

[@JessicaOS]

🥰🥰🥰

[@jarednyandega3847]

Always learning something new. Great Jess

[@lelandcline6809]

The honesty on number five is so respectful of us guys thank you.

[@calebobeng3564]

I really love the intro. Very classic

[@ekamofa4real]

Oh my God… I like this woman! She’s gifted and talented.👌

[@hcarandang34]

Thank you jessica...everything u say hit spot....and real.....👍👍

[@_b.n.b]

you speak facts ma'am, love from Kenya.

[@qajix]

254 representing

[@_b.n.b]

@@qajix yeah

[@kwasiasamani6483]

She has a message. Listen to her.

[@rajabreiz8349]

That number 3 for sure I used to but I ended it after realising that mistake and as per now everything is okay

[@oyoopaul8775]

Viewing all the way from Kenya, good stuff.

[@mralexbmassaquoi3068]

Thank you very much

[@gloria8328]

I really appreciate everything u say. It inspires me and I'm super grateful. My role model. 😍

[@josephchileshe6037]

Thanks Jessica

[@effiya_ephya]

Spot On 👌

[@philipodallo7950]

Thank you!!

[@chumeh9886]

Got glowed to this amazing Jessi OS channel ever since I subscribed. The content is so reached, well articulated and balanced. Thank you My Sister

[@johncoviello8570]

This video has really good advice for men. I’m impressed!

[@osutakizito2688]

Wrong! When a man who completely dresses in adamantium and walks as though vibranium is his daily diet, suddenly makes it a point to start conversing with the hottest girl who stands with her best friend in the room with words like "hey cutie, you know I could carry you out to the most distant offshores of Busua beach and we completely get lost in choice tunes for days because i can't imagine anything other than my imagination that I love you" says this with a good enough tone that anyone around can audibly hear and he spreads out his fingers to greet the lady's closest friend and shows the whole room that he actually doesn't give a damn about walking away from this girl anytime and in any style that he chooses. Wait and see if this girl will not die to be this "cool" guy's girlfriend...!! How fast was this??? 3 mins... If you get so unlucky that I accidentally meet you, I will try this on you and you will find yourself dying to find a way to break with your boyfriend inorder to strike a deal with me..!!! You will walk back here to You tube with heads low to edit this video... I Wana tell you miss KZbinr, alpha males dictate their odds with women. Certainly ghana dudes don't know how to do it so fast. I mean your first point

[@tensaeshiferawlemma4529]

Nicely put. I loved it.

[@chinechemaniemeka8659]

i love how spontaneous those vocals were 😭😂