Women are now chasing this kind of guy and he's not even rich

[@JessicaOS]

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[@Ziggler-ky9kv]

There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

[@emmakudos]

Once you’re principled as a man, this won’t feel like a game or hard to do. You naturally exhibit these attributes without stress and these ladies will fall at your feet. I’m a witness!

[@jerrygumisiriza9417]

Yes sir! 😅

[@NoName-m5o]

The ladies will. The rest will still seek Tyrone and cry fowl when he dumps them!

[@maverickharrell9061]

@@NoName-m5o Tyrone here. I agree.

[@BreezeeGreenz]

True.

[@thadevilzadvocate]

​@@maverickharrell9061I'm not calling myself Tyrone that's not my name however when you stop caring and giving a shit it changes the whole dynamic. I wished I've done this shit years ago instead of coming off as a non dominant simp.

[@joneschilufya867]

Only works when she likes u. If she doesn’t care about u the moment u disappear from sight that’s it for u.

[@abrham.]

@@joneschilufya867 that's my problem.. Jessica please do on that topic 💔🤣

[@ckoriablack]

😂😂that's about right

[@moxine_]

There's plenty of women in the world, meaning there's pretty high chance you'll find at least one that likes you

[@SamuelSani-sc3rk]

It's better in that case. At least you know she doesn't like you. Saving your time and resources 😅

[@stan4288]

@SamuelSani-sc3rk exactly..how is that not a win win? Men really need to get out of that scarcity mindset...makes us look desperate and pathetic

[@khaeyenen3163]

Too many people in the world worried about the wrong things 🤦🏾‍♂️.

[@darnellmiller1215]

Too many people in this world doing...the wrong things.

[@YalaMan01]

She either likes you or she don't. Forget it.

[@chineduokoroafor1916]

Very correct

[@simeonkanu4392]

Yep 😅

[@YalaMan01]

@@simeonkanu4392 😂😂😂

[@samuelmawulikplim8126]

Heal bro 😂

[@Ogiftedgrm]

Right😂😂💯

[@speedoflight3395]

You can only be unavailable if deep inside you actually don’t care about them. But if deep inside you care about them, you can’t not be available.

[@YalaMan01]

Someone sensible finally said it. I don't have energy for games

[@speedoflight3395]

@@YalaMan01 I tried it bro and it didn’t work. I was hurt during the process. If guys that are unavailable are getting chased by women, it’s because deep inside, these guys are sincerely not available. If they cared a bit, there’s no way they can be unavailable. Emotions are strong.

[@abelzakpe1459]

Not true. You can actually do care for a person but make yourself unavailable to an extent. I was that guy who is always very available and it has backfired severally but when I began to be unavailable from time to time things began to work well.

[@speedoflight3395]

@@abelzakpe1459 Bro, for me, it came with some kind of hurt that I couldn't resist for too long. I quit the game. I'm not gonna be a simp but I'm gonna be original.

[@shedparker]

@@speedoflight3395I agree. All the time I put in trying, drained me mentally and emotionally. Now that I’ve put myself first, they come left and right but I’m uninterested.

[@vsatrader]

I don't chase women, the way I see it is that if you have to chase her, you are low value. If she has to chase you, then you are high value. Women like men who are different to the other men. 90% of women are chasing the 1% of men, so why not concentrate of building your own infrastructure and let the women come to you. You get to choose, but the one you want might slip through the cracks, and this has happened to me, but I just don't care enough and let them go.

[@derwoodhamburger]

When they say they want someone who is emotionally available, it's a huge trap. Don't even be available

[@asdfxcvbn746]

that means they chased emotionally unavailable bad boys in the past & they have a lot of emotional baggage, which they will unload onto you.

[@What-vo5bx]

@@asdfxcvbn746yup. A lot of traumatized people spreading their trauma around through their relationships. Most of us are traumatized in the west. Capitalism has made it much worse. Not that I have a solution, but putting a lot lore resources towards healing and preventing abuse/ trauma would go a long way towards solving many of our problems

[@Hardy-uu9ve]

@@asdfxcvbn746 Absolutely correct

[@kleinosim-asu7428]

@@derwoodhamburger ever since I became emotionally unavailable… it makes me sad to say but oh my God, the way women look at me hit different Like my female coworkers asked me to help them with a favor, I told them I will help them on Friday at 3:45pm before I go for basketball. It wouldn’t have taken me 5 minutes to help them today. But I can’t let them know I’m available when they ask. I’m free at my own convenience, not yours. Now not only do they need me, but they’re actively looking forward to me.

[@levisharpe9121]

This is dangerous for men as this may attract sadistic women. What happens when she finally wins that prize and that man opens to her, she may lose interest because she was not genuinely interested into you but just the idea that you were a challenge.

[@hellyeahedeonyia2296]

You have to make it a personality. When started, it was more of an acting. But about six months down into this regularly behavior, it started being a part of me. Being reserved and indifferent made me control my anxiety, jealous less, and not even scared to lose a woman. Now with this knowledge and reality, it became part of me.

[@TommyVXOLucia]

Never take advice from them. Only advice from the men she chases

[@adesinaoluwayemi9694]

My sentiment,what happens if you then get married to her and you are now always available,then she gets tired of be relationship and want to leave 😂😂

[@CashMasterStackzzS]

@@adesinaoluwayemi9694this guys don’t want to get married they just want options .

[@muhammadnawaz5039]

Familiarity always breeds contempt. Scarcity increases value!

[@wisdombliss-et9gg]

agreed

[@Joeybeautiful_]

The greatest thing that ever happened to this world is “women,” and the worst thing that happened to this world is “women.”

[@murckindor]

No! Big no! With biblical standpoint you have no proof

[@Whitehorsehub]

@@murckindor EVE

[@MrOJohn]

🎯 and I love them all too, but spot on lol.

[@darkliter7]

A conundrum

[@frankiegunnz8066]

That makes no sense. It's like saying you're tall yet you're short...... 🤣🤣🤣

[@nwankwocallistus4096]

This is true only if she finds you attractive. If she she doesn’t like you, being unavailable will make u forgotten!!

[@TonyRush21]

While what you are saying in in essence true, remember that overtime, people can grow to love someone who they never thought they would be attracted to.

[@percyvolnar8010]

@@TonyRush21 Yes, but time is time. And time is short. I typically dont want anything to do with a woman who can't immediately spot that i'm special. They seem to KNOW instantly when a man is cheating on them, but they NEVER seem to know when they are in the presence of a 'Special man' or when a man is unhappy. And believe me, my inbox is full of email messages from women ive met years ago who NOW realize my special power and are wondering where ive moved to.

[@cherubfilmz3218]

Yes! bcos..., now you're Unavailable.

[@truth5573]

Yes you are right but she may have not find you attractive because she never experienced the need for your quality, when she grows with experience she will never get you of her mind and you are kind she will find peace and love, you literally get this kind of woman if you are her first man , she won't value it until she experienced more life

[@soulemanbony9239]

@@nwankwocallistus4096 😀 but if she doesn’t like you why are you still there in the first place place

[@atanasshalamanov6437]

If a man believes that only money can create a healthy relationship, so he doesn’t know anything about long term relationship and the dullness of life as a couple.

[@yangkong8155]

Jessica OS is very professional. A very good coach. I wish I knew you before 2016 when I was chasing a lady who thought I was stupid later I become unavailable and she start to chasse le but I ended up by having someone else just to make her feel stupid too.😊

[@jeffersonsmith2991]

Men have work to do, boys have plenty of time to play. Men require time to meditate and strategize their next move in silence. This time and space must be respected. When this is understood and respected, the payoff is loyalty to that intuitive woman.

[@Skinny_Pimp]

I'm not taking advice from a trans. Jessica or James. Stop it bro. Stay in your lane.

[@aromero9243]

trust me people this is a bunch of BS. where ever you got these stats and info you obviously got it wrong. any man that thinks this is a useful video has no clue about what women really want

[@Media-oh8xc]

This has always been the case. Sometimes even if you’re not busy you should say you are, don’t be too available it’s not attractive.

[@housenybah8908]

This one is Powerful

[@Yawziggyentertainment]

Madam it doesn't work on this generation anymore. Just get Money woman go come😅😅

[@nanakwame4329]

Stop hunting for opportunist

[@jamescollier7360]

@@nanakwame4329 they are all opportunist.

[@Yawziggyentertainment]

@@nanakwame4329 be the enn😂

[@godsoracle1212]

@@Yawziggyentertainment 😂😂😂 cut through it 😂😂😂

[@atocampoari8575]

say it again oo bro...edey funny me sef.

[@abrahamdeuapiok3497]

How long should this game of unavailability has to continue? You can't remain unavailable forever otherwise there's no point in wanting that relationship in the first place. This is my opinion: if they are not okay with your availability then they prove not to be the right ones period.

[@ROBINKOSGEI99]

@@abrahamdeuapiok3497 Adapt to the game G.... 🤣

[@KantankaOsafo]

@@abrahamdeuapiok3497 How long can you be unavailable to someone? Is unavailability the start of a relationship or getting into a relationship?

[@greymaterresources]

Seems Jessy being listening to Davido music track titled :Unavailable! Gracias Sis

[@RJ-ox3gi]

I literally thought about that song lol

[@dasfx2895]

Them no dey see me...

[@operanews64]

@@greymaterresources but why is Davido always available for chioma...

[@LordMalemo]

You need to do your home work again Jessy, as this only applies to those who wants a short term engagement like in a hit and run set up but if you want a long term sustaining relationship, you need to choose your woman wisely and do more than that. Otherwise, as you are unavailable she will be busy exploring other guys peacefully without your interference until you meet again and before you know it, you will be in an open undefined relationship. Who wants that!? Coz you can't just appear and disappear in her life the way you want. She is not stupid.

[@pboi5339]

Did you understand her well my brother ,😂she just say don,t chase and whats literally yours will always be yours @Jessica Os

[@CashMasterStackzzS]

Wrong term to use unavailable. Should be ambitious, porpoise driven or goal oriented.

[@aljoumeyli]

I have always been that man thanks to Allah. I'm not rich and I don't even own a car. But I don't get impressed by so called modern women.

[@larrysouthern5098]

Very good attitude... Oh ..you don't need a car... New technology is getting people around without a car... Press on.. 🐺

[@michael20049]

Then go for the tradition one

[@Dboy-s8v]

Relationship without attention kills affection. Don’t be unavailable for a partner that love you

[@samuelasare1790]

Like my comment if you learned something new today 👍. Thanks Jessica

😂😂 Guy’s women don’t come with instruction manuals, so we have to make our own training manual while being unavailable! Gosh-that sounds like playing games!😂😂

[@What-vo5bx]

You’re playing the game whether you want to or not. “Not playing the game” is just strategy. Sorta like “ you’re always paying for it” or other true clichés you can think of. Lol 😂

[@jrcrit8843]

@@What-vo5bx no not at all. You can just choose not to play games with ppl. Not that hard to do.

[@What-vo5bx]

@@jrcrit8843and that’s a strategy…😅

[@What-vo5bx]

@@jrcrit8843 You do realize that that's strategy right? 😅. You're in the game man. face it...

[@jrcrit8843]

@@What-vo5bx that’s not a strategy. I’m already in a relationship without having to play games. Only kids play these little games and men who have never been with a woman before and women who are being malicious to begin with. If you feel you have to play some chess match just to get a woman then your purpose in life is greatly diminished. Believe or not, not everyone wants to live life on the internet and swallow all of this garbage that deluded both men and women. If you focus on your business and health, a lot of things can actually work itself out.

[@SoJesusChristMusic]

This was it Jessica 🥳 And I know this is right because when you give a woman your all…she uses it and then doesn’t want you when there’s nothing left…but if we do as the woman does “self love” and “self first” we are now attractive. Strange how that works…but it’s true.

[@K3MU3L]

Why am I even paying for a therapist when I can simply come to this channel... smh THIS is the video I needed at this point in my life.

[@AllRealNoLies]

You got to be authentically unavailable not just because it’s a persona or mask

[@Wellfruits]

You don't have to be available all the time for each other., let there be some breathing space. But do make sure the little time you two spend together are meaningful and worth it..👌🏽

[@natoslayer2907]

We live in an overconnected world. Men are around women too much. For most of human history men were either off hunting, warring, resourcing for survival and just generally trying to survive. I dont mean taking their ass to 9-5 every day. That's not survival. Survival as in if they didn't do it they would literally be dead in no time. Not just financially struggling. Financial struggle means you live in a society so soft and padded that you have the luxury of stressing about the numerical value of things. Even in agricultural communities the men were farming all day and spent very little time with his woman. This meant men would go days, weeks, months, or even years without giving a woman his attention or even being able to. Games come from boredom, and boredom comes from an easy life. Life is so easy in terms of survival now that people have to play games to cure boredom. Now the games have become hard because it is so easy to survive in 2024. It's so easy to not die in 2024 that it drives people to end themselves. We are just trying to simulate an existence that appeals to our instinctual hardwiring. There will never be a day when human instincts change. Except when we are no longer human. That is why wise people embrace being human and stop trying to be Gods.

[@H3XGroup]

This is just playing into a weak woman’s games. Learn how to be a grounded, honorable man. Have integrity and know how to behave as a man who is strong and independent. Work on yourself first and don’t play games!

[@asdfxcvbn746]

all women play games.

[@kerndanglade4579]

Why women allways telling men what guy to be for women to want when they don’t even know what they want no mam I will not be listening to you at all

[@MJCdesigns]

Unavailable will be forgotten.

[@EricKellyn]

There are only two types of men that women chase, the first one is a rich man and the second one is a very handsome man

[@fletchamuhalia9103]

😂😂😂 really

[@777lucifero]

the secret is to not have a damaged childhood and not end up in another narcisistic/abusive relationship (or being the abuser yourself)

[@abdoulnasser4342]

I like Jessica OS.she's confident.

[@so3710]

Noted! Be selectively unavoidable. Cheers for sharing 👍🏼

[@calixcalistus6711]

Incredible video ❤

[@JayjayKings-sq2qs]

Just two ways. Is either she love you or not period

[@AlfredKatema-fg1qe]

I don't agree with you , Friend! if a woman is truly into you she doesn't care weather you're frequently available or not The Chemistry between the two of you matters ,but I understand you ,Your aim is to attract numbers

[@jobistrange1668]

The key is detachment.

[@dfaro8453]

Exactly bro. Don’t be attached to no female. I see too many simps crying for their ex or deleting themselves. Jesus, we gotta get our balls back. 😅

[@king676uutttgt]

That's right. I spent my time away from my sickness when I was in school, but women in my class valued me. They didn't know where I lived nor my parents. I was quiet. Nowadays, I found women going crazy about me even those whom I don't know and those who never saw me not even once

[@muhammadabdillah568]

Ma'am what if I did all that but get cheated?

[@cheffdread]

Very helpful and useful information.

[@JessicaOS]

Glad you think so!

[@curexpride6743]

I even write a song unavailable for you So be unavailable for them..

[@aegonunlikely9400]

This is Hope, shes lying. Look at there actions, not what they say. Its Genetics and the Law. Men we lost

[@jamespendergraph9067]

Can you bring up a topic about the women scamming men out of money pretending they're in love but they don't never have no cell phone the phone is broke you can't never get in touch with them video chat only text most are scam artist

[@joshuaosemwengie2846]

it's usually a man behind that

[@asdfxcvbn746]

plenty of red pill youtube channels have covered this already. especially alexander grace & entrepreneurs in cars.

[@hipiri]

It's crazy, the amount of games and mind juggling you need just to get a girl or a girls attention. It's why most of us stay single.

[@jerocaldon429]

Really this is what you are saying. Look here I thought you actually had something of substance guess what after they reach who is elusive most still quit today opposed to 20 years prior.

[@blackman9008]

the other men know a deep secret, it's called SOCJAL SKILLS AND HAVING FRIENDS AND A LIFE.

[@TrueYarn]

Davido already told you. Lol.

[@chiefk587]

A book that contains instructions about understanding women psychology in full would contain an infinite number of pages.

[@igbana_ai]

Am I the only one that didn't fully agree with her point but just watched to the end because of the softness of the tone of her voice and the video quality?

[@thadevilzadvocate]

I make investments. I have no family. The sky is the limit for me. I dont need another person to compliment me. Im content living a life thats free of drama.

[@MelVeeBroadcastingNetwork]

Hmmm... this scarcity issue is dangerous grounds for meaningful relationships. It says nothing about the guy's personality and character, or economic measure or the value of a man! Women used to play hard to get and we know its a poor measure of relationship satisfaction.

[@trevorross1311]

Once u get the balance down, ur good to go. That's the key to it. 🔑

[@jonathanjacob5453]

Exactly and the balance is looks and money. Or you drop your standards. But her is the tricky bit because what you really want from a woman is genuine desire the most important thing is looks.

[@simrock100]

How would you change from coming from so available to unavailable when already shown that you have been available in the relationship.

[@AndrewSimfukwe-e8c]

Powerful

[@Jbeggar]

Focus on God he will provide her.

[@royalbloodlines1]

Nah forget all that Be this guy crap! Be your Damm self, stand on that & make these women respect it. & If they choose to get on yo program let em ride, if they choose not to... let em Go! Simple & Simply done💯

[@jiggajhood]

Just be a Chad or RayRay problem solved

[@TravisMorton-p7o]

I'm tired of relationships...it always start out good..them next thing you know...we both are looking for someone new.... just Love yourself and have sex from time to time with whoever you attract.....keep feelings away......ppl just will naturally hurt you intentionally and unintentionally.....I'm just over it....much respect to Jess....I'm just tired of it all....😢tears are falling as I type.....

[@raheru9582]

Or go monk mode

[@TowardsBooks]

In any case- females from nature tend to take the good guys for granted, but relating to your advices here -it means either you gonna attract an alpha female or you gonna end up single forever

[@nicrodrigo]

If she loves you right, otherwise don't try this game, man you will get old without a woman

[@allanbahati1942]

Excellent video! Thank you for sharing these sis. Love the advice.

[@godefroidniyonkuru4377]

Jessica is changing my life for real. I am new ti this channel but i have watched many of her videos . You are excellent Jessica.

[@theworldviewers3586]

No Facebook, No WhatsApp, No Instagram, no Twitter. My time is so precious, women trying all ways to get to me. 😂😂😂😂

[@georgejuma9221]

Hello Jessica . It's quiet along time I have been away from the show .Mmm, I can attest to this senior. Alady has been going after me for the last 3 years by telling me how she has feelings towards me and she is willing to meet me but I'm not interested in her despite the fact that I keeps her heart alive..she doesn't know my physically appearance but always begs me to meet her telling me how she loves me and thinking of marrying me not knowing that I'm afamily man and I respect my wife as I respect God 😅😅😅

[@asdfxcvbn746]

its a scam. probably a dude behind a computer screen lol smh

[@darnelljones7220]

I’m just gonna keep being the genuine thorough type of dude that’s not needy that doesn’t pressure women I’m not gonna play games & my woman well come

[@RockstarVuitton]

Don’t fall for this be a millionaire man stop focusing on women

[@pilucciluccinassi8504]

Women really miss out on men who are available. At least you know they are there when they are needed. Simple

[@GDA2222]

I'm rich, i dont really care if women like me or not. I'm not looking to top any womans list.

[@fletchamuhalia9103]

@@GDA2222 really

[@OlaDimeji-m9f]

So what happens to originality? Its only a woman that can suggest having men to fit a particular mold. The turn a bad boy to good boy syndrome. To guys learn to be unique & original.

[@JC-gv9hj]

She's only fun to be around during her ovulation week anyway, so spend the other 3 weeks of the month doing your own thing...

[@Velwano]

Somebody once said women are a school you'll never graduate from 😅 . That is why I prefer women that want me more than I want them. Thank you Jessica. You are appreciated.

[@RimMax.]

So maybe that way, my sister wife she told me he was filling in love with me cause she knew this is not possible

[@JOESUBA122]

Yes we can find womwn when we are not rich! just go overseas and leave the women here alone! its really now hard!

[@shadrachwiredu956]

THIS IS SO TRUEE. MY MED SCHOOL STUDIES, TAKING A GOOD PART OF MY TIME, PROVES THIS. EVERYTHING THAT IS HARD TO FIND INDEED IS RESPECTED, YEARNED FOR AND SORT AFTER. NO CAP!! GREAT CONTENT

[@Uk-star001]

U are so mature u really spoke with wisdom this is exactly how l roll when ladies thought that I am a play boy but am not

[@microb399]

Just work on you and understand what a good addition to you looks like! Too many ppl that lack the qualities necessary want way more than their value projects! Know your lane

[@emmanuelwes7013]

Hi Jessica 😊😊😊😊 watching you from kenya

[@Moohanjagoodaroos]

Just go with someone who truly wants you. Forget about these games man.

[@rahabmugambi7697]

The deep research you make bring out the content very well.thanks dear

[@deathtocolor8774]

If I have to do all of this, just to keep my relationship healthy. I’m just not having a relationship. I don’t think it’s for me.

[@kanjangamukwena53]

Aint got time for these mind game, charge it take out the Game

[@jomufilms]

Basically looks, self sufficiency an independent mindset

[@leejee88]

you dont have to be rich to get any woman just dont act like she better than you is all thats a term off.women care more about what other people think of them and who they are with being socially excepted is the ultimate currency when it comes to getting women thats something u dont have to have money to get

[@ANormalMale]

Women don't know the men they need...the man has to show her that she needs him

[@donpedro6177]

A great video ❤ Keep up the great work Also love your voice too

[@tres5533]

Men should NEVER take advise from women about attracting women. Their POV falls short :1) It is laced with their "opinion" 2) They do no think like or understand men, so the "advise" is anedotal at best. 3) Some "vital bit" of info is always missing which "makes all the difference in outcome." In this video: "Her attraction is needed upfront"

[@RecursiveENTP]

All you get is a bunch of women chasing you that you're not that interested in, where you can play with them like a toy and put them back on the shelf, not that interesting

[@emmaabumere2870]

Always make it known that while being unavailable is a super power it will only work if she's attracted, notice or interested in you and seeks your attention in the first place. Else you'll be wasting your time to someone or people who don't care.

[@christiananaks16]

I believe this is only going to work with a woman that is interested in you from the get-go. All women are NOT the same. These principles may get her to gain interest in meeting you but once she’s getting starved of your attention she would lose interest gradually.

[@obviouslyasockpuppet]

Hobbies are not created equal. Video games are considered a red flag unless she's also into video games. You need hobbies that they see value in. Sports improve your looks, reading sharpens your mind, art improves your imagination and dancing improves your rhythm. All these hobbies improve some aspect of you that women like alomg with any other hobby that looks likey to turn into a lucrative career or business.

[@leoncomlanhekpazo4386]

From a seasoned man's perspective I'd not see guys like myself who get chased by women as "lucky" people per se since this comes with a huge risk of distraction and a bunch occasions of falls at a pretty high frequency. If I have a piece of advice for my younger version, It would be like focus on your goals and once your choice is made, try and keep women away as much as you can.

[@menzelimtunzi8514]

If she likes you..she likes you! period!

[@michaeljewell53]

In other words,do what women do