They thought you were unfazed and unbothered. Now they know better.

[@CarrieChapman-n2x]

I had the COURAGE to speak up. I am Neuro divergent, and dealing with bullies, accusations, defamation of character.

[@MsLolaTaylor]

💯💯💯

[@tyieshamiller1714]

🤎🤎💪🏽💪🏽👊🏽💪🏽❤️❤️

[@shawnastanley3404]

The person she’s speaking of in this is my baby daddy who dumped us when I decided not to get an abortion. He tried running back to a familiar ex situation. I’ve come to realize recently that he is also Nero divergent and it made so much make sense. His inability to cope, have 0 capacity for conflict resolution and his heighten senses. For instance he can’t handle being around the baby when he’s crying. This is soooo heartbreaking and challenging to navigate from lens of compassion and also boundaries. I’ve always been here from him so he can speak up and express what he’s experiencing but up until now he’s shot it down. What has helped you to open up?

[@AmandaAtchison]

💯

[@eileenh8999]

My heart goes out to u

[@mlr51227]

I strongly believed that he was suffering from BPD and afflicted with several addictions. He f@$*d up and fell to temptations of the flesh, like we all do, but when I tried to communicate, he couldn't come clean with me. I know him. He went around to his people as a victim and told them that I was the problem. I have been deeply affected and it's been difficult to get through this on my own but I am stronger and wiser now. This seems like it's a direct message for me. Thank you and God bless you, lady.

[@katschwarz7609]

This is 1000% my story too with my ex fiancée. If she would be honest and take accountability we could have worked through it but she continues to play the victim and play me for a fool because I know exactly what she did, why she did it and who she did it with. I’m very smart AND very intuitive and my spirit team keeps me WELL informed of the rest. I’m tried of her not even respecting me and our connection enough to be honest and try to work it out for our kids sake. But she has remained silent and selfish. This message gives me hope there’s hope for growth and healing in our relationship, even if that means platonically.

[@Doveishirenic]

This situation has been very painful. The things said about me publicly were hard to hear but what was said in the background was unspeakable. It was all instigated by a very nefarious character. I was not blameless and am dealing with my mistakes. He sort of apologised online which i have accepted in my heart as i know how hard that would have been for him. Everything has been public/online and i would have liked the opportunity to speak with him but it never came. This has traumatized me (i think a person would have to be made of stone for it not to). I am dealing with other challenging situations besides this and am exhausted, soul tired......i forgive him because ultimately i know he's a good soul but this has been so painful. I will get to the light again but this lesson has been rough. Thank you, Jess. I feel safe here❤

[@authergeorge849]

Jess you are a gem. You are a rockstar. You are a gifted tarot reader and you have given me so much clarity. I was feeling what was going on in this connection. I don't know whom to ask. It's all eating me up. But thank you so much. Gratitude 🙏🥰

[@Moonbaby262]

I am crying right now. This is exactly what I have been going through for the past several months with someone. How do you channel in such detail? I can’t even explain this to myself or anyone else. You just made it all make sense.

[@Laura_Devine_333]

Hugs

[@terilynn162]

Not kinda anything. He was inhumane and definitely definitely emotionally stunted. And NO, there was NOTHING excusable for this. He is STRATEGIC, and ABUSIVE! PERIOD!! He never thought I was unfazed. He knew how much he kept hurting me.

[@tiffanypowell14]

“Darling, time’s changed Time leaves, time fades Please see through my eyes Save your tears for the next who dies” -PJ Harvey

[@katherynemero4118]

He IS the narcissist. What’s that movie? “The call is coming from inside the house. Get out of the house.” That’s this situation.

[@katherynemero4118]

As you posted this video, I was talking to him because he sent me a message. He basically told me that nothing was his fault and I just misunderstood everything. I didn’t misunderstand anything. He just lied. And he’s still lying. But he has hope that we’ll meet again someday. And I said I hope I never see him again in this lifetime. He also said he’s sorry he hurt me but it isn’t his fault. He isn’t understanding a damn thing about me. He never ever will. This video is for someone else because he has no feelings at all about anything. He plays the victim like no one I’ve ever known. Good luck everyone. Because now I just feel bad all over again.

[@yakyssim]

This is exactly what I've been going through. I know that he is a great, loving, caring person.. But he has not dealt with childhood abuse & the abuse he's endured from every women that has been in his life until me. He would get triggered by the smallest thing. He might be bi polar. But he would get so nasty so quick. I finally had to detach from the relationship because I couldn't have my heart broken again. Then he finally came to me & confessed that he can't control what he says and needs help. He said I'm the only person he cares about & my opinion is the only one that matters to him. But I'm still scared to open my heart & trust him again. Yet. He painted me the villian to his brother & sister in law. Now he wants me to go to his brother's for holidays and I refused. He couldn't understand why. He always justified his words & actions by blaming me. I told him I can't & won't move forward until he apologizes for what he said & did to me.

[@jadecovehealing]

Good for you for holding your boundaries and taking care of your heart and self-respect. I know you say he is a great, loving, caring person, but if you are the person he cares about the most and he treats you like this anyway, I'm not sure that qualifies as loving and caring.

[@yakyssim]

@jadecovehealing well I have to say I agree with you. But I also have severe childhood abuse and trauma that I have never properly dealt with. I recently realized how much my past was affecting my present & reached out for professional help. I unfortunately know all too well how you can truly love someone, be a good person and still be triggered to the point of (blackout anger) disassociate & say things that you truly don't mean but at that moment you are thrusted into a past trauma when you are actually saying those things to the person currently in front of you but mean it to the one that abused you from your past. That is why we now have a way of letting each other know that is what is going on. So if & when one of us gets to that point, the other will simply say, "That isn't fair. I don't deserve that kind of reaction. I am not the person you need to be saying that, too." Then ask for an apology & ask if they would like to talk about what happened. It's not the fix all, but it does allow us to learn to be more respectful of each other & stop making the other pay for things, abuse, people, etc, that hurt us in the past.

[@jadecovehealing]

@@yakyssim Wow that's actually a really insightful tool so to speak. I may try to use that with my mother who disassociates and rages at me every 2-3 months. Most of the time she's fine, but the rage is abusive and comes out of nowhere from her. I know it's complex-PTSD but that doesn't make it any easier. Thank you and I'm glad you've reached out for help.

[@forjusticeandtruth]

Woooow this is SPOT ON.. all of the channeling you have done in the past like two weeks I PRAYED for these messages and asked specifically that youd be the one to bring the answers to me and here you are yet again ...thank you SO much for answering my prayers ❤❤ he was talking to heuxs online and he wouldnt stop, and he keeps sweeping it under the rug, but he's starting to listen..... thank you ❤❤❤

[@rozrena3959]

I actually felt my heart ripped out my chest but I have forgiven them. Trying to move on, one step at a time.

[@Doveishirenic]

❤

[@Foxyymama]

I Pray it's someone I actually accept back into my energy who deserves me.

[@starlight382]

Yes I had to go to protect myself and heal, of course I cared and was worried definitely not unfazed. But for my healing.

[@starlight382]

It was the ego mind over thinking it instead of "thru the heart" therefore he could only see it thru the lenses of his ego mind

[@kristinacleveland1805]

Never, not even if he was the last man on Earth, would I get back with him. The depths of betrayal have had long lasting consequences in my life.

[@sophiemichaels1386]

Same . He had no integrity. Was a covert narc with cruel mind games

[@Laura_Devine_333]

Thanks!

[@ashhcatchemall]

omg. for the longest time I could not understand why they acted so terribly to me. I had blamed myself like I was inadequate for them, but you explained it perfectly it's like you really personally know this person bc I knew they had some sort of mental issue going on when we met, from their backstory they gave me, they were depressed about their previous relationships, they were always remorseful, I wanted to snap them out of it bc I knew I would never hurt them but he ended up hurting me first. I didn't get it back then but now I do cause you explained it so well. this person does act like a victim, they do act indecisive & impulsively, it was all ego shit. I'm happy that they are finally taking steps to heal from all this and see the truth. it's just bittersweet bc the way I waited for so many years for it. I thought it would never happen & that maybe I was just crazy to think I had a chance with them when clearly they made their decision to be with someone else. no ur right. I see the time I spent alone away from kind of as a blessing now bc I know my standards in relationships & I honor them by not begging for ppl to treat me right or take me back. I hope they do contact me when they have healed tho, bc I want to hear it from the horses mouth lol. it'd mean so much to me. I have forgiven this person many many times if only they knew.

[@jadecovehealing]

While I don't know the person you are talking about, you have described exactly a covert narcissist. They appear very vulnerable, especially in the beginning of the relationship, telling you how hurt they've been in the past. So you put your guard down and give them extra care and love because of it. But they are always the ones to turn around and hurt you first, as you described. If this person lines up with a lot of the signs of covert narcissism I would be careful if they do come back to talk to you. All that being said, time will tell if they have healed, but please move cautiously if they contact you again. And my apologies if you already know about the covert narc! I learned the hard way.

[@ashhcatchemall]

@@jadecovehealing thank you for looking out for me. I've had my fair share of narcissist, cover and overt. I know what you mean. Yes this person went down a wrong path, very ego & status driven, and at the expense of me. I've gone non contact for years bc of it. I'm already guarded. They will not have it easy if and when they contact me because lord knows I've been thru enough already. I'm not even sure if they came correct I'd want anything to do with them long term. They've broken the trust already. But the explanation would be nice that's all.

[@jadecovehealing]

@@ashhcatchemall True, the explanation would be nice from these people who hurt us, even if we never plan to get back with them. 💜

[@Laura_Devine_333]

Leviathan, for sure! My connection to my ancestors, spirit team, star fam and Spirit saved my life. Not to sound dramatic. But I remember the exact day when I called spiritual 911, you know what I mean?? I was trying to help him see what was going on in his life. I just couldn't fight it all anymore to save my friend. As soon as I called out to God, I was rushed away and protected. Just been in hiding and focused on healing. I had hoped from that one pure place left, in my heart, that he would go to God for help. I feel relieved and no longer scared. Thank you, beautiful soul. You helped more than you know ❤❤❤

[@WoW-S9105]

I sure do see him clearly!!!!

[@skitters100]

Thank you for this msg & validation 🙏 He’s been in 110% denial that he’s bipolar & he sabotages/abuses everything he deserves & loves in his life. He CAN get help. But he must choose.

[@angelinadivina24]

This is my story. Thanks Jess ❤❤❤

[@crptnite]

Refusing therapy/psychiatric treatment is precisely why I will never be interested in revisiting this situation. The first step is actually being willing to admit you have a problem and seeking help for that problem. If you can't do that, nothing you attempt will work.

[@WoW-S9105]

Ego, Pride!!!!

[@crptnite]

Also, I shouldn't be the goal. Them healing from their dark and demonic energy should be the end goal. I have every Right to refuse to allow someone back into my life based on how they've treated me, regardless how much they grow or change. Sometimes you're just not the partner for the person you wish to partner with. There is nothing you can do about that. We must all learn how to handle rejection.

[@jacqueliner9141]

After over a year and a half of tarot, I finally figured out (using facts) that I was date raped by man I was in love with and cared about and let live in my head rent free all this time. This is 100 percent freeing to realize this. I can't take back the loss it has caused me, but definitely a lesson I will never forget

[@alleyflows2779]

I went through 1668 seizures with this person. We have been together 10 years. I was aware that at some point, they would snap. They need real medical attention. The day they started packing, I knew something was mentally wrong. They had not been on drugs in those 10 years. I could offer much more to this story but they require protection. They walked away from their protection. I did not stop them. I never blamed myself. I am also spiritually connected and watched the development. They really need professional help.

[@WoW-S9105]

This would be a miracle❤️

[@AnthonyMccullough-f3i]

🙂🙃😁🤗🤣🤣😶‍🌫️

[@WoW-S9105]

He probably did paint me the villain…

[@marywilliams5011]

Thanks so much. I trust your channeled message. It is so spot on.

[@JacobDunlap-p5k]

They are a victim of their own actions

[@mzzstone]

he stole my inheritances...that part

[@laurS-x6x]

OMG 🤮 this is so my TF. I was getting abused and he thought that I was schizophrenic. Now, I do have autism , but instead of like confronting me and asking me questions he assumed a bunch of stuff. Ultimately, I thought he was gaslighting me. It's been like 6 months no contact (except for some rare occasions that were work related). Also because he didn't believe me a lot of shit escalated/went down. 🫠 I'm in therapy. Also he is an alcoholic and I THINK he has BPD. So he tried to play it cool and I took his word for it. And then said I was pushing him away. I'm embarrassed to say but I've been word vomiting on Facebook. Cus spirit told me, mostly. And maybe that's why.

[@ammamaw]

Thanks so much Jess.🙏🏼You are so tuned in. I don’t know how you do it, but it helps a lot.

[@DaPlumba]

If that’s true then the healing process can begin

[@katherinewilson1853]

Good to know, thanks Jess! I hope they are optimistic and take on some direct things and are happier by result. He is a good person. He was very depressed last time I talked to him, but I believe in him. You are completely right. I detached to love myself. I needed to heal.

[@ceruleanwonder]

Detach with love to clearly see the truth ❤

[@sophiemichaels1386]

Regardless of the truth, some abusive behaviour is never acceptable

[@ursulahaygood7883]

Man! You were so rt. I thought wth is wrong with me to attract someone obviously so deeply wounded, wounding and defensive. I've done so much healing within myself, so why did he come into my life. Understand that he's a soulmate, but SO WHAT! Give me one that is healed enough and can upgrade me, not the same ole lil boy in a man's body ish, that I've encountered. Def had to give myself a forgiveness affirmation. I deserve honorable love. I remember telling him that he thinks SO blk and white and that the world is so many shades of gray. Whew! I pray he heals, for himself and whomever will be in his life. Very toxic. Thx Jess.

[@sophiemichaels1386]

He himself is the narcissist! He's a sadistic narc who played cruel mind games - am so glad I left him in the dust where he belongs and found peace and self love and healing and manifested someone so much better who's actually worthy of me.

[@AnthonyMccullough-f3i]

Thats right get to my frequency and my vibration.

[@leschatsmusicale]

Thank you Jess ❤

[@jesspucketttarot]

You’re so welcome!! 🩷💜

[@Mahayogini]

I LOOOOVVVEEE that you quoted Padhmasambhava 🙏🏻

[@ellecee]

Thank you. I needed to hear this today. ❤

[@mermaidtales4009]

"Dissatisfied" Jess☺️ Love yr readings❤

[@pxg7246]

Thank you! I needed to hear this

[@winmdyer]

Long term for sure. It was the money she had. After she dumped him now he wants to get it from my work. Never will be ok. Bad person surrounded by other bad people. It was heinous and involved many many people and those in my work and neighbours where I live. I cannot feel safe here anymore. They are such a toxic group and involves my own relatives.

[@DiorellaDailey]

🎯🎯🎯thank you. 🕊️We're in no contact Ty for this❤

[@vcjones]

This SO resonates - thank you! 🥰🙏

[@amandakayhuckabay]

Thank you.

[@Maria-w9w5g]

Thank you Jess for this message❤

[@rozdevin2468]

Come on! The ex-narc knew darn well he was destroying me, my daughter, and our lives!

[@Viviannavalha]

Thank you. On spot

[@alltheflowers62]

Definitely resonates, thanks Jess ❤

[@mariqua5507]

It's been almost four months of no contact. I still think about him but it hurts less and less

[@slaphappybullet]

It took me til just now to realize you pick the background colors so that it looks like a rainbow when you scroll through your videos

[@WoW-S9105]

Definitely made no sense!!!

[@gracemorai]

Amazing reading. Thank you.

[@Pandora88]

Gosh yeah when I was thick into this all the self blame was so strong I don’t know if it was me feeling his energy or something I can’t quite put my finger on about me. Anyway it’s gone from that much of a heavy degree. I try find balance in all situations now and just try see the equal faults of situations. It’s interesting though I wonder if the blame was something of me or just of him cos I swear it wasn’t a thing before him. I tend to take on other peoples emotions and blockages and have to work through them as though they are my own. It’s strange

[@jenny2976]

He didn't tell me his third party is another man, shame on them.

[@julieengerman]

Compassion, Kindness and Peace… We are All Connected… One Divine Love - Unity Consciousness. 💕🙌💜

[@shandawilliams4069]

I am unfazed and unbothered...lol he thought right. 😂i dont care how he's feeling, to be honest...

[@motherofsamson]

Thank you!!! So helpful! ❤

[@MorganPalmer-yq2of]

Spot on for me, thank you 🙏🌸

[@rajatkuksal]

Thank you for this wonderful reading. God bless you 🙏 😊 ❤

[@chantalgarden7546]

Yes spot on!!!! 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾 I think the same!

[@tayalashae8772]

spot on! ☺️

[@WoW-S9105]

Indecisive because he couldn’t get past my age…so I just didn’t count - anyone but me!

[@Divinesacredwisdom]

Very accurate!

[@morgancottingham9887]

Hi jess!!! I love you!!!!!

[@JacobDunlap-p5k]

Because they are a cheater and liar

[@MaureenToews]

Yep 😞

[@WoW-S9105]

I never gave off a feeling that it was ok! I could tell he just justified because he had an “anyone but, me” attitude because I’m older - therefore taboo, or his family & friends, religion having something to say based on what he told them about me that was a big fat lie- they judged inappropriately. I’m sure I was the scapegoat to blame so he could deflect blame from himself!

[@debrachambers1554]

He keeps jumping into one thing and and gets back into another at someone else's hurt and pain. I do care for him. He has to learn to take accountability. He does have a good heart. I can't keep getting hurt. I went away with my sister to just get away for a few days.I need to clear my mind. He can't keep blaming everyone.

[@thegardinerfamilycreative1156]

Gosh, I wonder if it was the wonderful reading that you gave a while back from the Devine Feminines perspective too the D Masculine that I sent too him!🌙

[@JacobDunlap-p5k]

They need to apologize to our kids and they need to repent and they need a exorcist

[@Cosmo29777]

Hi Jess, i love your readings. This one truly resonates. I was wondering if you could do a mirror reading on this one. More focused on us (the other party who ended up heart broken becauseof their stoke in the wheel) and what we experienced and our lesson in it all? Its great to know why they did it and has given the closure i needed but now im ready to give all that love and attention back into me after abandoning myself for so long ✨️🤍

[@getoffmypage1111]

September 25.2024 he hurt me more than he knows

[@ammamaw]

I’m sure he has a mental health issue. He never admitted it. I wish he had. I also have mental issues. The only way to deal with them is head on. as long as he keeps important parts of him hidden he will never have successful relationships, with me, or with anyone.

[@bluelotuspictures]

wow!

[@Askrelive]

This seem so true With my new match, the best match ever. But I think he is sick, like psychotic. But I do not know. He blockes me all the time. Will he come back? My boundaries.. can not stop thinking about him. Thank you Jess! ♥️🙏🏻

[@jenny2976]

Oh, his victim role is intact.

[@JacobDunlap-p5k]

For starters if they want to start healing things. They need to bring me my kids and great niece jazmea, that they took from me with the help of the Court officials

[@Debra-u9b]

On point

[@Coracrane0618]

My life ❤

[@angelatillman4323]

Wow! This is my partner. It's so crazy! Yet I know he loves me. Such a weird feeling. He is really trying now though. He just couldn't see how his words affected me

[@JacobDunlap-p5k]

They need to bring me my kids and tell the e

[@RSPY-ko8ki]

I can’t tell if this is about me or them.

[@denired3255]

This was mu twin flame as well.

[@michelehyland4177]

Good God! Have you been following me around since summer? Had to detach when you channel him.

[@denired3255]

I tried to kill myself via overdose, and when i woke up I saw the real him after 22 years of marriage. I seperated from him twice only to try it one last time after being seperated for 7 years. It was my biggest mistake cause I have never experienced such pain. I have healed and moved on divorcing him, and I don't talk to him.

[@AshleyAlese]

❤

[@DianeFernandez-i9m]

I just sent a screenshot of the Janesville WI police department and Codes and the fire department and the judicial system is Unaliving me . proof to state public defender and the rock Co clerk of courts and Kathy Hoffman Genisse of Pewaukee WI

[@Makloubalover]

Um don’t insult seventh graders.

[@EvelynnLenoreAngel]

Villain? Pdf file. 🚦🚦🚦 me and others... actually took bids and got money to sell me to darkweb weirdos for a snuff movie..... hell yes hes a villain. Texas' version of josef fritzl.

[@Lemoncupcake699]

I'm proud of him🤍

[@AnthonyMccullough-f3i]

🙂

[@ammamaw]

Thanks so much Jess.🙏🏼You are so tuned in. I don’t know how you do it, but it helps a lot.