Q & A w/ Lilia on her 14TH BIRTHDAY 🥺 *teenager vs. toddler* (12 years ago)

My first born, oldest daughter Lilia is turning 14 YEARS OLD today. I'm not okay 🥲 We're not doing a party this year so for her big day I took her and her bestie to the mall, build-a-bear, to watch Inside Out 2, sang her "happy birthday" of a can of Dr. Pepper, a trip to Disneyland with her aunties on her dad's side and then ended it with a Q&A of asking her the same questions that I asked her 12 years ago when sh was 2 years old to see how much she's changed. BEST DAY!
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My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married at age 19, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, & he’s not around much. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons: Caden and Tommy, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. We’re one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on KZbin, you can start from the beginning here: • 8 Weeks Pregnant!
FAQ: Yes, we’re done having kids.
FAQ: Names and ages of the kids: Caden (step son, born in 2009), Lilia (daughter, born in 2010), Tommy (step son, born in 2010), Kyson (son, born in 2012), Kaden (son, born in 2012), Landen (son, born in 2014), Addelyn (daughter, born in 2016)
FAQ: Who are the dads? Gabe (Lilia’s dad), Drake (Kyson, Kaden, and Landen bio dad), Chris (Caden, Tommy, Addelyn’s dad)

[@Rosewolf29]

I’m trying to wrap my brain around how Lilia is 14 now, I started watching this channel when I think the twins were like 2 weeks old? Can’t believe it’s been so long😂 Happy birthday Lilia!!

[@cassidybrewer]

Right?? I started watching when she was pregnant with the twins ❤❤

[@Quyllur1]

Same!! I can’t believe how big they all are!! 😮 Lilia is so sweet and fun.

[@Phoenix13585]

MY JAW DROPPED WHEN LILIA SAID HEARTSTOPPER BECAUSE THATS MY FAV SHOW AND BOOK AND UH YEAH BTW HAPPY BIRTHDAY GIRLLY ❤❤❤❤

[@Londyn_something]

Same!!!! I love that show and book so much

[@kaitlinsellers9233]

I started watching your channel when Lilia was around 8 months old. I truly can’t believe how you guys and your family has morphed and how much happens in 14 years. Still love you all! 🩷 Happy Birthday Lilia!

[@bethrice1826]

My 14yr old started HEARTSTOPPER the book series at 12. She loves them has all 5 books and hands them to ppl who she feels needs to understand

[@ravendeberry6645]

Her friend in the mall with y’all was so adorable. Kids these days are so creative and I’m so happy they are able to do so. When I was growing up it seems if we didn’t have uniforms then regular clothes could only be a certain way an made it hard to be expressive I love this for the new generation. Rock on little ones ❤

[@danielleshanti]

Can't believe I've been following Jess's journey since she was 17, and now Lilia, whom she was making pregnancy videos about, is 14! That's the age Jessica started dating Gabe. Lilia seems like a great kid. It's been so fun to see her grow into who she is!

[@charlottegunning1548]

She really is her own person,w her own style n her own opinions. Shes a Great dancer and a Great Smart Student. Shes All the things i wish i had a daughter to be. HaPpY BiRtHdAy Lilia❤

[@kaijahharrell7792]

The fact that Lilia can go on Sims and find multiple versions of her family in the gallery is so crazy to me lol

[@ClipsByLaura]

It's wild that the cute little girl is now this creative teenager. I absolutely love this age, firmly in between childhood and adulthood. The Q&A was a great throwback. It's nice to hear about some of the interests and how they do and do not compare to our teen years.

[@PrincessMax360]

I can’t believe how much Lilia has grown up. Started watching when she was just a toddler. Happy birthday!!

[@ella_the_frogg]

the dr pepper candle and shirt is so real help edit: we need lilia’s makeup routine and also happy late bday lilia ❤

[@EmilyGallo-sx9rw]

It’s so crazy that Lilia went from super bright and colorful to her all black emo goth phase lol.

[@ambermilsap5644]

Ohh I know!!! But this is great!

[@anthonycarrico4872]

Hope she changes but up to her

[@Ellabee15]

@@anthonycarrico4872i hope she stays herself and doesn’t change to please random commenters tf 💀

[@prettyyoungthing1008]

@@anthonycarrico4872What will that do for you if she changes?

[@Bella.furop.]

@@Ellabee15real like 🌚🌚🌚

[@alexia.cons98]

I remember the little Lilia interview so clearly. Can’t believe how much time flies. I was her age when I started watching your channel! I’m 26 now🤍 love you guys and thank you for healing my inner child and being such an amazing mom Jessica!

[@NickiRae-f9g]

This is so crazy watching… I’ve been following you since you made pregnancy vlogs with Lilia!! So long ago… she’s grown up so much!! You are such an amazing mom Jess!

[@Zimhart22]

Lilia is so pretty! She seems like such a good soul. I love her vibe. She's amazing

[@TheTrb1987]

As someone that has been here since you were pregnant with Lilia it's crazy how fast time has gone. I love watching your family grow. ❤

[@allysonmcguire7506]

Lilia’s 1st birthday video is how I found you! Lilia is so beautiful and I love the relationship you have with one another💜 I can’t believe she is 14😭

[@hiitsizumi]

Wow Lily is so cool😂 like I’m being so serious!! I felt so embarrassed to talk about being into cosplay, will wood, theatre, lgbt media, the list goes on, when I was her age and I’m just so happy to see how supportive you are of her and her interests!! Can’t wait to see more of the young woman she’s becoming and tell her she’d LOVE Madds Buckley, Set It Off, Black Gryph0n, and Cavetown if she hasn’t already found them lol!💕 you guys are such an inspiration to me keep up the amazing work💕💕 it’s rare to find family vlog channels that feel like they really do care about their kids more than just being an asset in their videos and I feel that so deeply when I watch your channel. I feel like I’m following your life Jess and your kids just happen to be a part of that life and they get to be as big of a part of the videos or a small as a part as they wish which makes me feel good as a viewer💕 The last thing I want is to feel like the person on screen hates being on screen lol I can tell all your kids really like what you do and are proud of you and that’s just so rare and we love to see it💕

[@Hannah-Grace-zw8jb]

I love the bond that Jess has with each kid!!

[@judithtitterington9862]

That was lovely getting an update with lillia. She's so confident with camera. Well done, and happy birthday.

[@harperrxg]

Let’s just appreciate how good of a mom Jessica is we all love her ❤

[@NatalieBlanton-ql6kr]

Yesss I love how she always goes all out for her kids

[@Spyninjaxpristine]

Lilia is lucky to have u! As a mother u did amazing with her

[@mindofmarissa9399]

This means I’ve been watching for about 14 years as well! 😱🥹🥲 what a journey, what a ride! Happy Birthday Lilia!

[@princessstephxo]

Holy crap I’ve been watching you for over 14 years!!!! The pregnancy videos 🥹🥲🩷🩷🩷🩷

[@LAYDEETASH]

I love how you love her!! You guys are beautiful and the love is radiating!!! ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉go fellow momma!!

[@ashleywesterback4165]

Happy birthday Lilia! I'm loving your style ❤️ I wanna see Lilia give Jessica a makeover 😂

[@holliewickens1318]

The Hot Topic is all my kiddos favorite store. The Closest store to us is about two and a bit hours away😢😢😢. Plus my husband and I use too shop there as well. (My hubby passed away in September). We haven't been able to go since October. We NEED to do something about that!

[@ashleylanelane8583]

Can’t believe all the kids are getting so big especially Lilia . I have been watching forever. Happy birthday day🎉

[@AlyssaKathryn28]

IM 13 AND HEARTSTOPPER IS SO REAL THO I WOULD DIE FOR NICK

[@itsjustjay_08]

Not me Eating Takis and Drinking Dr Pepper... Lol Keep Up the work Jesss

[@jessieb5505]

My gosh, I couldn’t help but cry at parts of this… I’ve been following since you were pregnant with Lilia. So hard to believe she’s already 14!

[@tanitacassiecharnley8346]

wow just wow it only feels like it was yesterday that baby lilia was born and look how grown up she is well hope u have a lovely day and cant wait to see what u do in the future happy 14th birthday lilia

[@Alexis-cy4gw]

OMGGG I was literally just binge watching yawls channel so I go to pick another video and realize y’all just post happy birthday LILIA❤

[@angelblazevicius2001]

Happy birthday Lilia, I hope u enjoyed inside out 2

[@sapphirerocky]

Can’t believe I’ve been watching this channel so long! You were still pregnant with Lilia when I started watching. I stopped growing at 12! Forever stuck at 5’0’

[@Jewels_mwah]

She’s so real for saying Heartstopper, but it’s so depressing sometimes 🥲

[@chloe_plays122]

I am so happy for you and your family Jess you have raised amazing kind talented kids and Happy Birthday to Lilia she has grown so much and is an awesome person! Love you ❤

[@MaryettaGraves]

Liliaaaaaa I so feel that flipping off teacher thinggggg I hated my PE teacher and she would yell at me to run when knowing I had a torn ligament 😅😂

[@makayla6963]

We literally had the same experience. Wild I ran the mile on crutches with a torn ACL bc I didn’t have a doctors note with me for that day 🙄

[@ambermilsap5644]

I can't believe that Lilia is 14 years old! I came across your page when you were pregnant with the twins!!! I just can't believe it! Much love

[@kaitlinshinkle1402]

Happy birthday beautiful! I can’t believe you’re 14. Love you guys.

[@princess_tamia_25]

I have the same birthday as Lilia. I turned 19 this year. It’s so crazy to watch how much she’s grown. I hope her birthday was absolutely amazing. 💜

[@jessfidler2356]

Happy 19th for yesterday

[@viviangoodwin9963]

My mom has the same birthday as well.

[@SamORiordan]

Lol

[@IdontKnow-hh2sb]

🎉Happy Birthday Lillia!🎉 P.S Don't feel bad,Im17 years old and 5'2. I stopped growing in like 6 or 7th grade😂

[@Solar-9221]

AND HEART STOPER 10/10 LILLIA

[@animelover_forlife6876]

As a cosplayer, the wigs and heads all over Lilia's room is honestly super funny and relatable

[@moiragleason5767]

I’m 5’ and 39 years old but I stopped growing around 8th grade. HAPPY 14th BIRTHDAY 🎉🎊🎈🎂🎁

[@49gigi94]

She’s grown up a lot! I love ur channel btw!!

[@ryansimms31]

Happy 14th Birthday Lillia, Your the queen of dancing/ acting (performing). Hope you had an Epic day!

[@iNellie420]

Crazy to think I have been watching your channel since Lilia was a baby, wow how fast 14 years have gone by.

[@omirasantillanes5150]

I just finished the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Thursday night with the kids and happy belated birthday to Lilia and can't believe she is 14 years old and time flies by so fast and hope she has fun in Disneyland with her dad's side of the family. By the way I love the Q and A and Lilia was so cute and adorable as a two year old and now she is 14.

[@Cosmic13Love]

Been watching since before she was born so it's absolutely crazy she's 14 now! How has it been so long since the vlogs in your parents with baby Lilia! Happy Birthday Lilia!

[@MarisolMelo-tv7ws]

Happy 14th birthday 🥳 Lilia can’t believe your going to high school in Few week.🎉

[@zoeycookie2038]

AHHHHHHHH IM SO HAPPY SOMEONE KNOWS WHAT HEART STOPPER IS ITS SO GOOOD I LOVE IT BUT NO ONE EVER KNOW ABOUT IT ESPECIALLY THE BOOKS also HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@trinasvideos]

14!!! I've been here since day 1. Mostly a silent watcher. Happy birthday to her!

[@idolrenaecody]

I can’t believe she’s 14!! I remember when you were pregnant with her!!

[@brendapelletier5781]

Happy 14th birthday Lilia hope you have a wonderful day with your family love watching you guys vlogs everytime 🥳🎉🎊🎂🍰🎁❤️💕

[@Momma_Rosie]

I’m mess my daughter turning 13 in October and feels like yesterday I was watching you and her. 😭 like how did this go fast. Happy birthday

[@xomellmell]

I remember watching this video 😢😢😢 so sweet.

[@Tocaocean-p5q]

Happy birthday lila I think you are beautiful and I admire you bc of how pretty you are love you ❤❤

[@chynechrystal]

One of my favorite cosplayers is Allison Tabitha. If Lillia hasn't heard of her, I definitely recommend she look her up! :) She is able to look exactly like every person she cosplays.

[@KaylaNatalie]

This makes me so sad!! I stopped following along with vlogs in 2022 but I started following when Lilia was 6 🥹 right before I had my first baby 😭

[@JadedFossil91]

Omg I remember talking to y’all on your live baby shower before she was even born. My daughter is almost 14 next month. It’s crazy how time flew by.

[@debbiemorgan6701]

Happy Birthday Lilia!

[@kristymorda8519]

I stopped growing at the start of 10th grade, so like 15.5… so she could still have growing left! I reached 5’8”. My dad’s a tall guy and my mom’s a short women. My sister and I, naturally, took after my dad’s height!🙂

[@hellohmylover]

She is the only teenager on the PLANET that makes me excited for my kids to be teens 😅

[@alexandraleighsilvia6553]

Love this! this was so awesome!

[@lifejourney48]

Happy birthday Lilia I hope everyone has a beautiful summer sending prayers for everyone

[@nicolesadventures8811]

I have been watching since Lilia first birthday she has grown so much love her ❤

[@RobertHouben]

So cute! Happy Birthday, Lilia!

[@MissShards]

Ive been watching for 13 years! Happy 14th Birthday Lilia (I know its a month later)

[@bshutloveqb14]

I just can’t get over how Lilia’s middle and last name rhyme.

[@gigi.gal.277]

i wanna be a girl mom 🥹 mother daughter relationships are so beautiful

[@reneepaton2344]

Happy Birthday Lilia 🥳 Wow just wow 14 ! 😮

[@ashleetomlinson7049]

Insane how fast time flies. Happy birthday Lilia. 16:13 I’m 5’2 stopped growing at 11 years old

[@allysim3097]

Wow they grow so fast!! I remember when you were pregnant with her, dang has time flown!!!

[@S0phia540]

6:17 yesss the owl houseeeee

[@wendysanchez3739]

How did I never realize Lilias birthday was 6/18?? My baby girls birthday is 6/18/23! Lilia is such a sweetheart, I hope my babygirl turns out similarly❤

[@LeaRodriguez-me8wn]

Omg I can’t believe she’s 14 she’s getting so big!!!

[@gyat_master76]

STOP I LOVE HEARTSTOPPER

[@virisai4486]

Lilia definitely has based music taste, the main character song is so good

[@jacindarose4561]

I love that she plays sims🫶🏻😂

[@jobethdavis9720]

Did you get the bear for her age? I’ve always heard that on the child’s actual birthday, it costs their age. Happy birthday!

[@UrlocalMitskiFan]

Lillian is my favorite one in your family, she's so pretty

[@Baldie-g4r]

AMITY AND LUZ! They are my fave Wlw couple!

[@Faith-p4p]

When you guys played the game teenage tag and she my name is Lilia I started to cry also I love Lilia's makeup look and clothing choice 💗🤗

[@JeeahLee]

Jessica, you should totally & please please film a video of Chris’s reaction of the sims that Lilia made on sims while she was playing.

[@abbiesapp2922]

At 6:35, I saw all the disney ears in the background, but I couldn't tell what they were at first, so I thought they were dolls, and then i realized it was just mickey ears 😅 (very impressive collection) Also, a bad math teacher can absolutely ruin everything! I had an awful teacher my 9th grade year, and I barely passed math that year. I think I stopped growing at like 15 or so, but I'm blessed with tall genes, so im 5'7"

[@jessica3bs251]

How old is big Kaden? It's probably getting close to buying him a car! 😊

[@SunkissedMama]

I AM ACTUALLY BAWLING!!!

[@EGracie86]

Happy 14th Birthday Lilia (well belated). Lilia and Jess look so much alike when you grin (same smile and eyes). 😊

[@amay4203]

In 4 years you will have your first grown up child 🥹

[@Msdeanna.angela]

They’re like gay lovers 😋 haha Love her she’s so fun. Happy belated Lilia! I’m sooo sentimental the older I get too Jess! I’m crying rn watching this video haha

[@LisaFerguson-lw8il]

Jess, you have done a wonderful job in raising your children. You became a mom at such an early age, but took it on. Lilia is such a lovely girl.

[@shereviewsstuff]

So you’re telling me I’ve been following you for 14 years?! That’s wild!!!

[@seachelles8327]

my all toem favourite video of Lilia is when u brought the twins home. and she came up to them and was rubbing their head.

[@McKenzieSullivan-l7g]

Lillia fun fact sims on computer you can look up mods not alpha but just mods for characters so you can make it more realistic or funnier!!

[@skillet_warrior4749]

I’m a huge coffee fan and my mom hates it 😂

[@binabenz1]

I watched your channel since lily was a toddler.. man where does the time gone😢

[@TessesKingdom]

Hey, Lilia I was in a my little pony club in my high school when I was your age and I still love it!! 11:20 at my job I work as a camp counselor and a lot of teens still love MLP (my little pony). My favorite MLP character is Fluttershy!!! Who is your favorite MLP character?

[@jodydyson8648]

I love that she wanted to do kid stuff, I've always want to do build a bear, hopefully I can for my child lol, I thought she would say bluey 😊, loving her look, go lillia happy birthday, I swear we just did 13 and that year went fast and I remember you being little, time flys, live life to the fullest, disneyland as well so jealous

[@DebbieDeGroot-x7v]

happy birthday!!!

[@nancycooper4228]

Happy Birthday!❤🎉🎉🎉 I love that she's her own person...she looks like you she's Beautiful ❤️