Lilia *finally* chops off ALL HER HAIR! (almost 13 yrs old) 🥺 SHOCKING EXTREME HAIRCUT

[@swallison1]

Lilia looks so happy with her new hair! But my favorite detail, was when Addy said she thought she wouldn't like it, and Jess reminded her that it is about what Lilia likes and wants. It wasn't a lecture, but just a calm, casual reminder for a little kid that will hopefully carry over into situations when Jess isn't there to remind any of the younger kids that their opinions don't count for more than the person actually making the choice.

[@melissamack333]

Yes I loved that! Just a quick reminder that hey, you might not like it, but it's not your hair, and we should let people do what THEY want with their bodies regardless of if we like it or not. And like you said, she mentioned it so casually, not in a mean/lecture sort of way. A+ parenting right there imo

[@autumnsteinert2303]

lol 😊

[@xAdellaBearx]

@@melissamack333 yes

[@Sageplays_MSE]

Yes and omg my name is Lilia

[@kerripastor4039]

Her confidence and self expression is truly incredible. As an adolescent mental health therapist I see kids struggle so much w their identity and resistance from their parents. Your acceptance and support of Lilias identity/expression is everything. Love you guys!!! ♥️

[@clairesheehan8246]

She is so cute with the haircut. She has a lot of confidence, love her

[@TDSiren]

Big props to your friend who is a hairstylist! Awesome of her to explain the process to Lilia. She seems very knowledgeable, friendly, and someone I would totally trust with my hair!!

[@san3949]

I absolute love how much confidence this has given Lilia. Seeing her change and how amazing all the family is about it all is heart warming.

[@MarieA38]

Love when Addie said she doesn’t think she’ll like it and Jess reminded her that it’s what Lilia wants/thinks that matters. That’s what I’ve been telling people on Jess’ TikTok that say they don’t like it. Jess is such a good mom, allowing her kids to express themselves and teaching them to respect other people’s opinions and choices even though they defer from their own etc. wish more parents were like this ❤❤

[@brynnalys]

I love not only the fact that you let her choose how she wants to style herself but the fact that you constantly support and remind her how beautiful she is! Lilia is so lucky to have you as a mama!

[@LittleFishy000]

I love how supportive you are of your kids. L is truly shining with her hair and the love your giving her is so refreshing to see.

[@ashtonpatterson1893]

Lilias image really came to life with this haircut her vibe and personality all came together seeing a side of her really come out especially her style that we have briefly or barely seen on camera yet I’m so happy for her I can’t believe she’s gonna be a full on teenager next month really seeing a mature side of her come out it’s like her hair was hiding her for so long. Lilia you look incredible ❤

[@Sabrina-Wellness]

I am so in love with how Jess is as a mom. I have 2 little kids and I hope to be just as exciting and loving and supportive as Jess. ❤️

[@ABlendedLife]

as a hairstylist & a mama of 4 I’m so happy your so supportive I know how hard this is for us moms I’ve had amazing teen makeovers Like this and moms will stand there crying but still very supportive Loving everything Lilia is doing how she expressed herself So many young teens will Be looking up to her she’s so fearless 🙌🏼😭

[@LucianSabau]

GABi

[@avamariearmbright4304]

Jessica, the way you let all of your children feel confident in their own body and you have and will always support them makes me so so so happy! This is my future goals for when I’m a mama!! You’re amazing! ❤

[@bellab2889]

Lilia’s hair looks great and the best thing is that she looks so happy!

[@Carlyboooooooiooooooooommmmm]

​@Hope,s world do t think j should ask people that quetion only bc it can make people feel very uncomfortable just saying I'm not trying to be or nothing. 😊❤ have an awesome dayy! ❤🎉😊😊

[@Carlyboooooooiooooooooommmmm]

I love ur name! ❤

[@KCandhoney]

@Hope,s world I don't think you need to ask that question ❓ you should try to say something more positive

[@jordangraybill1374]

@Hope,s world that is not something you ask she is Lilia she looks like herself and also why does it matter if she looks like a girl or a boy or whatever

[@pamelacunningham7668]

What does "look like a girl or boy" mean? She looks like a human and has explained where she stands.

[@LillyNature]

Lilia looks incredible♥️ Jess, I think you are such an amazing mom. I think it's absolutely heart warming that Lilia can be herself and you are supporting her in any way. It really touches my heart and heals a little bit of my inner child. Thank you for takeing us along!

[@ForeverMrsKidrauhl]

I love how you allow her to be who she wants to be. You're such a great mama Jess!!

[@meghanh2511]

I've always been jealous of how fast Lilia's hair grows. To go from short to butt length in a year is crazy fast growth!

[@abbie51304vlogs]

I love this new Lilia. And I love that everyone supports her. My mom talked me out of multiple haircuts when I was younger, claiming my curly hair wouldn't look good in short styles, so I love to see parents that fully support their kids choices. And Lilia has so much more confidence the new haircut!!! And who doesn't love shopping for some new clothes!!!

[@renegadestorm6903]

Not my mom but a friend , had a really a short hair cut , and I said I wanted mine kinda like hers but messy taking into a-count my hair was curly . She said it wouldn’t work . Spoiler it did .

[@abbie51304vlogs]

​@renegadestorm6903 the freedom I got when finally chopping my hair of was so crazy. It was the end of my senior year, and I did it like a couple weeks after prom. I had gone all over short in October, but let it grow out for prom (bc I wanted an updo, and it looked amazing) and then Jojo Swia chopped all her hair off and I decided I would too. I've had it half shaved ever since.

[@michelleandrews9423]

I love it and she looks so grown up with it!! I love that you let your babies be themselves!! Such an amazing mom and daughter team!

[@branchk]

i love how supportive her mom is and her whole family!!!

[@tinkerbellflys6]

I’m so glad you let Lilia embrace her own style and self not every parent does that so I love to see you supporting her through it all 💗 also I’m so glad she has accepting friends who love her for who she is, that is so important!!

[@natashaswain7478]

Lilia's haircut looks nice on her. I like how happy she is and how she is not afraid to be herself and I love how her mom backed her up and supports her.

[@katetomlinson1638]

the moment i thought oh yeah she’s working it is when everyone looked and chris is wowing at it, her jaw structure and beautiful smile pull it all together who would’ve known she could pull this off!

[@jessicamorrison5029]

You are literally the best mom ever. So sweet. The true meaning of being a parent ❤️

[@noelbivens8074]

I love how she’s feeling herself. Honestly her energy is so similar to Jess is adorable

[@Zimhart22]

But can we get a clothing haul?? Lilias style has changed so much over even just the past few months. That's awesome! Especially in middle school I was so scared to try new things cause I didn't want other kids to notice. And now in my adult life I still hold myself back because of those same thoughts. Definitely something I regret of my early teen years is caring so much about peoples thoughts that I don't even talk to.

[@madikam]

Lilias confidence is incredible! I’m so happy for her!

[@pamelacunningham7668]

LOVE the hair cut. Thank you Jess for listening to your children and making them comfortable and safe.

[@melwasf0und]

as someone who cut their hair a lot shorter to be more comfortable in myself, the reaction from friends was so amazing just to be asked what i wanted to be referred to as in regards to pronouns and stuff made me so happy

[@bevwhittle461]

Loving Lilia's new hair cut and so happy that your class were asking about your pronouns and everything, it is fantastic to see such progressiveness and inclusion. In my day such a drastic change in appearance would have meant dealing with being bullied for weeks afterwards!

[@emilyelisabeth7131]

Her smile says it all, she needed the hair cut to show her true self, the confidence now is so much more than before ❤️beautiful

[@KatyWatson173]

I absolutely love Lilia’s new haircut she exudes confidence. 🙂💖🐈🐈‍⬛

[@annaokropiridze2539]

I am always a quiete viewer, but I couldn't NOT comment on Lilia's hair ❤️❤️❤️❤️ It looks so beautiful on her and she rocks it and is truly shining🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@caitlin12315]

As someone who has wanted to chop their hair off and be themself but can't because of family this makes me so happy. I love how supportive you all are, Lilia you look incredible, such a slay.

[@rebeccaottavio2338]

Love how everyone is always so supportive of lilia ❤

[@angelblazevicius2001]

Lilia looks amazing. Love her hair So nice of her to donate to cancer patients. Great job

[@CeceliaMillhouse]

This makes the baby me soooo happy. I came out at 28 years old and 3 years later I finally love myself enough to be happy..I grew up in a not so accepting home so I love your support of your daughter! I cut my hair off a year ago and it made me sooo free! Keep up the positivity lillia! You’re awesome!

[@l.12345]

You can definitely see that this transformation has given Lilia some major boost in confidence! ❤ And, I don't know who said: "You look like Kaden!", but man, they're right! That was one of the first thoughts I had when I saw it on Instagram! You go, Lilia, be who you truly are! ❤

[@EGracie86]

Loved how Lilia's stylist explained everything. The cut is really nice and suits her so much, I know how light my hair feels after a cut so can only imagine that, literal, weight off her shoulders.

[@abbyray5947]

Lillias hair is so cute!!!!🤍 you guy’s are great parents.I love how you support all of your kid’s decisions.much love to you all!🥰

[@LaurenDolan_]

Your a great mom! Your support radiates keep doing you Jess I love watching your family grow ❤️ your all amazing

[@Mad_DOG-nz7gn]

I love how she talk to you about everything and shows her confidence❤

[@JaydenStorey69]

I’m so proud of you lilia you look good with your new hair cut I love how jesss lets her child have what she wants to make her kids happy ❤❤

[@flaviekhn6895]

I never leave comments, BUT Lilia looks so beautiful with her new hair ! I can see she's 100% herself and enjoying it and I love it ! Love U 🫶

[@Azlantheforestgremlin]

Lilia thriving gives my old, cold, queer heart so much hope and joy. You're doing amazing Jess!

[@christinemoorewood1844]

I think it looks adorable. Her hair is awesome. I'm glad that she expresses herself in the way she wants and you let her awesome parenting. Love you you guys. You guys are awesome!🎉

[@sarathompson8004]

Lilia looks like a different person 😮 Wow!! Love the new style though. Go Lilia!!!! Jess, I love that you let your kids be who they want to be.

[@sduolcepoh7502]

lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians: Romans 1:24-32 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

[@maddyc4765]

I’m so proud of Lilia and I look up to you so much Jess. You are the most amazing, supportive, hype women of a mom and your kids are so lucky to be so loved.

[@Lisa_Uncensored]

Just because things are different doesn’t mean it’s better. The fact people don’t care there is an issue is mind boggling.

[@kennedygraceee]

fr why r people normalizing this

[@Rey-fj5bk]

what is the “issue”? her cutting her hair? it’s literal hair.

[@donnajoblok697]

I really really love her hair! But also her style. You can see how much she grows and learns to be herself. That is amazing!

[@Tia.H]

Your haircut looks absolutely fabulous, Lilia! Good on you for doing what you want to do! You look so happy. It's great that your family support you in expressing yourself the way you want, too. I was at the hairdressers a few years back and wanted a shorter haircut, but my mum's cousin was nervous because my mum had other ideas. I basically told him that it was my hair to do with as I wanted and she'd need to suck it up. I got my shorter haircut (above the shoulders) and everyone was happy.

[@shelbylynn06]

how is it she can pull of any and all hairstyles???? she looks absolutely beautiful

[@emilyjay7844]

Kyson had the exact right question "do YOU like it Lilia" "yeah" "then I like it"

[@TheZiggy411]

I LOVE that she loves to switch it up and doesn’t care what anyone else would think ❤ she’s an amazing girl .

[@logangoodson1665]

I just really wanna say thank you🎉🎉 as a girl who's mother wouldn't even let me style my own hair till I was 15 and put so much importance on long hair for girls I love and appreciate that you listen to your child and did what she asked even if it wasn't something you liked so yea thank you

[@charlenepatton4052]

I really love her hair. It's so cute. Gives her her own style and her personality shines through. You rock you.

[@madtingz2288]

It really suits her and her personality! I’m glad she’s being herself :) good job Lilia

[@ahargers93]

You can just tell that she feels more like herself with the shorter hair. She just looks like she feels more confident and comfortable in her body. Love that for her.

[@omirasantillanes5150]

Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Sunday evening and night with the kids and hope Lilia loves her haircut and can't wait to see the before and after pictures of her with her new haircut.

[@saragomez4991]

Love Lilia’s new hairstyle!!!! Lilia you are such an amazing inspiration for all the young kids of today. ❤️😍😘🥰

[@fatmaalshamsi1091]

She tried so hard to have an LGQBT+ baby. She tried to dress Landon in Princess outfits and have him in make up and he eventually didn't wanna play along anymore so she moved on to Lillia .... all to stay relevant to the woke mob. Poor children.

[@Rey-fj5bk]

she wanted to cut her hair tho? idk abt her other kid honestly but lillia seems really really happy with her haircut so just let her be.

[@jessicaruiter8508]

I am OBSESSED with Lilias new hair!! It suits her extremely well!! I cried happy tears when I saw her reaction!! So stinkiin cuteeee!! ❤️

[@jehdheuuwiejsh4522]

Why does her hair look nothing like what she wanted 💀

[@juliangarduno4629]

She changed her mind

[@kearkids]

She just needs to style it

[@Charlie_THE_Misandrist]

she just needs to style it lol

[@callmehjadabada7316]

that’s what i said lmfao ☠️☠️💀

[@jehdheuuwiejsh4522]

@@kearkids she looks the same in the other videos tho so she didn’t style it

[@blondie5240]

Lilia looks SOOO bright and happy. It makes my heart smile. She’s glowing ✨

[@MaraChandler]

LILLIA'S new hair style looks great!...Im just so confused to why her classmates would ask about pronouns and name change just because she got a short haircut??....are the schools overwhelming the kids with all the transgender talk so much so that a child cant even get a haircut without questioning her gender?....That was a bit startling.

[@megan1868]

they were just being nice and it would be better for someone who did want to change pronouns ect if they seemed open to it so it would make them feel more safe and supported rather than being ignored

[@lexinorton6917]

Lilia was so happy that they asked. It just shows how accepting her friends at school are, they want her to feel comfortable.

[@Sophiebear.]

yeah at our school every kid who has a haircut like that is trans, gay, genderfluid, uses different pronouns, all that type of stuff

[@chassycastellano2718]

She is an example of Perfection! Lilia is such an incredible role model for young people today! She is not afraid to be her authentic self and that is the way we all should be! Way to go Lilia live your best life and the only way to do that is to be You All the Time, Every Minute of Everyday! Don't ever change for anyone just CONTINUE TO LOVE YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARE TRULY A BEAUTIFUL SOUL! GREAT JOB JESS, I LOVE THAT YOU ALLOW HER TO EXPRESS WHO SHE IS IN HER OWN WAY! YOU ARE GIVING HER THE ABSOLUTE BEST CHANCE AT A HAPPY LIFE THAT YOU COULD POSSIBLY GIVE HER. ITS AMAZING TO WATCH YOU SUPPORT HER COMPLETELY! SENDING YOU HUGS FROM SANTA FE, NEW MEXICO 💕🤗

[@liszt77777]

Incredible. Short hair suits her indeed ❤

[@poptart_pastryqween]

i love that your kiddos know they can be who they wanna be with you, thats the mom im striving to be.

[@June-rb1nx]

I think Jess will be repeating this process with a couple more of her kids soon.

[@Madelynntapken]

This video made me sooooo happy!! Thank you so much for being you and showing us your real, true growths!!! It’s so exciting to see you become older, stronger and more brave individuals!! You all rock!!

[@DigiRangerScott]

She looks incredible! Such an adult style!

[@deborahcarrera4189]

Egna hair cut, it’s so on point 🤣 kaden is hilarious; he is such a brother

[@sduolcepoh7502]

Proverbs 22:6 6 Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Jess you will have to face the wrath of God for not teaching Lilia the truth!

[@madtingz2288]

Because she cut her hair ? What ?

[@sduolcepoh7502]

@@madtingz2288 She says she goes by any, and she is going Straight to hell in a hand basket.

[@madtingz2288]

@@sduolcepoh7502 I’m sure you’re perfect.. 😂

[@sduolcepoh7502]

@@madtingz2288 Going to hell is not a laughing matter.

[@madtingz2288]

@@sduolcepoh7502 can’t tell if ur trolling or not

[@toniahammond4567]

I love it!!!!😍😍 Lilia is the sweetest girl, i hope she stays this way forever! 🎉🎉

[@margaretjoy_stucky]

Ahh, I love it. If you are watching the comments, Lila, you are a fantastic person. I love seeing you glow in the sunshine, btw. I am also in the LGBTQIA community, and your pride and your growth make me happy to see you grow and be proud of yourself, and your smile bring out everyone's happiness, and btw I am asexual, and seeing you be happy is all you need

[@sduolcepoh7502]

lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians: Romans 1:24-32 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

[@sduolcepoh7502]

SIN ON PARADE, GOD IS GOING TO PUT A STOP TO IT

[@madi-olivia07]

I just have to say this haircut really really suits her. I’m in love with it. So happy for you darling you look fabulous 🫶🏻

[@daniellemarshall8024]

Love Lilia's haircut it absolutely suits her so much better than the long hair !!!!!🥰🥰🥰

[@courtneybaker4694]

I love this! You go girl! So proud of you for being yourself and loving it! You look great the hair fits you well!

[@jessicaharris2688]

omg I'm a girl and I'm age 12 but i was debating cutting my hair shorter then yours but i didn't know what people would say but thanks to you I put in the appointment for tomorrow . you are such an inspiration Lilia i would love to meet you all

[@amy2771]

Hey kiddo! As a 25 year old let me tell you, do WHATEVER makes you happy and confident! What people think of you seems like a big deal but in 6 years when you hit 18 and graduate high school and such you’ll get to look back fondly at how you got to be yourself at age 12 You’ve got this! Keep shining!

[@jessicaharris2688]

@@amy2771 thanks that meant a lot I'm going to do it no matter what

[@rendellgroke142]

I really think that she looks so much better & prettier with her new really haircut & I really think this haircut fits this 13 year old teen age girl & I also think it makes her look a lot smarter than she was before & she is also going to be turning some heads & I think she is a lot happier with her new look

[@gladrags9124]

her hair grows so fast! it'll probably grow back to the same length in a year or two

[@Ozarkbear80]

I love Lilia's hair, it's so good looking on them! Kinda bummed we didn't get a clothing haul of all the clothes you guys got, but that's okay. You are such a great mom Jess!

[@melissamack333]

Hearing Lilia talk about her classmates asking her about & respecting her pronouns made me so happy! The kids are alright 🥹🤞🏻also she looks gorgeous & I LOVE the confidence! She's clearly been raised in an environment that encourages her individuality & that's HUGE especially for young members of the LGBT+ community. Good for her & good on you, mom & dad (all 4 of you)!!! ❤️❤️

[@melissamack333]

@S D cry about it

[@sdmomxs3]

Omg the montage of hair cuts at the beginning! I’ve been here for every single one! So happy she’s happy! With her new hairstyle and glasses she looks like Yoko Ono!

[@brooklynthomas1252]

I’m so happy kids were kind enough to ask Lilia what her pronouns.

[@anneahlefeld1989]

Lilia's hair looks amazing. She's exuding confidence, looks more comfortable in her skin , if that's even possible.

[@Hondasmama2005]

I love the new look! Also how her classmates are excited as she is about her new look and accepting of her being her! I can t 11:

[@Gigi4u]

Can I just say WOW JuST WOW!!!!! You look incredible Lilia! So much weight gone, genuinely happy, lovely style,.... This is you ❤

[@Marieq]

I think her hair is super cute! What I don't like is when she said the first thing the kids said to her is oh so what are your pronouns? Like, she can't just get a short haircut??

[@madtingz2288]

Well Lilia has expressed she’s part of the lgbt community for a while so it’s probably to do with that, not just the hair cut

[@Marieq]

@madtingz2288 But who knows if her classroom knew, we don't know that. I would think if I were in her class, I would just complement her hair. Not just straight up ask what her pronouns are? I just find it odd that before she got her haircut, they didn't ask. But after she cut her hair short, all of a sudden, the reaction was oh she's part of the lgbtq I'm going to ask what her pronouns are. I completely understand the kids were being respectful to her, but I just wonder how she would feel if she wasn't a part of the lgtbq community and people asked, im sure she would feel really uncomfortable.

[@Riylin]

No, they live in CA LMAO 🤦‍♀️

[@Ross1984.]

It looks great Lilia! I’m so glad your friends at school are being so accepting

[@cruzinbosco]

I love everything about this!! We love you Lilia!! 🥰

[@KaylaS-zs1lx]

I love this flashback of Lilia, Jessica. I love your videos and channel

[@Rachhlaur]

Caden and her look like twins now 😂 She should dye a fun color too like her inspo!

[@kaylamulske8926]

OH EM GEE I LOVE LILIAS HAIR CUT!!!!!! Wow she is so confident and beautiful Jess you are doing an amazing job being her mama ❤️

[@angelk1tten]

We need a clothing haul!!! P.S: the hair looks fabulous!!

[@sngray11]

Lilia looks so much more mature with her new haircut! 💗 I too grow my hair long, get sick of it and up chopping it all off and donating it. And Jess, you are such an incredible Mama! 💗 I love the way that you support all of your children to embrace their passions, interests, personal style, etc.

[@BlueMolly2024]

So excited for Lilia. She looks fantastic.

[@treyjoyner1932]

I love Lilia's haircut from last spring. I don't go to the malls, but I like the food courts' fast food restaurants called "Hotdog on a Stick". I could separately pump mustard and ketchup into my small cups. I could put the condiments on my corn dogs and fries.

[@ak_alisonswift]

i love this new era of Lilia!! She looks so happy and is coming out of her shell. I absolutely ADORE her new style, it honestly looks so good on her

[@jennaoberg3302]

Why did she grow up!!! Ahh it’s so fun to watch her personality and style come out as she grows!!!!! Way to go lilia for being you!!!

[@theerinkathryn]

Omg typical younger sibling reaction 😂 my younger bros always made fun of everything I did 😂 I’d try a funky makeup look and they’d be like “your face looks weird” 😂 but it ended up actually helping me to have confidence in my own style because I could be like I don’t care what you think, I like it!!!! Lilia absolutely rocks that new cut!!!!

[@sheria1011]

Absolutely love the haircut and seeing how much she's shining coming into her teenage years

[@haileymedoff7992]

I remember wanting to cut my hair so much before I truly found my identity and I definitely felt more confident once I did. It’s amazingly obvious to see how much more confident Lilia feels with this hair cut. It suits them so well! It’s also great to hear how great her classmates were about it. Great to know they are in an accepting environment both at home as well at school.