Jim Bob & Michelle Duggar Send Bday Wishes to Jill Dillard For 1st Time in 3 Years Amid Family Drama

[@candaceion9622]

I think that Jill is working hard to maintain good boundaries from her mom, but is still stuck with "but she is my mom". I went through this with my mom. I distanced myself from her, but at the same time, couldn't completely turn on her. It seems like that is where Jill is.

[@Megly821]

I honestly think Michelle wants a relationship with Jill and her boys but JB is getting in the way of all of it.

[@samanthaprattlile218]

This is exactly what I think, too. This rift is not what she wants, but she has to submit. I’ve always felt kindof sad for Michelle. She’s so brainwashed.

[@ladyv5655]

I would feel sorry for Michelle, but she's the one who tells her daughters and other young wives to "joyfully submit" to their husbands, like she does. This, even though Michelle herself is clearly unhappy in her marriage and is afraid of Jim Bob. If Michelle outlives Jim Bob, look for her to make a complete 180 in her personality.

[@laurahahn2947]

No matter the intention, I think birthday wishes (or any wishes) on social media are meaningless. If you really want to wish someone well or share your love and appreciation, do it privately. I hate what social media has become. The whole world doesn’t need to see everyone’s business.

[@katieb8001]

I think Jill not liking the birthday post from her mom is really telling.

[@romycatblack4250]

I don't think Jill should respond. The church pushes for restoration which always ends up meaning the abused has to get in line. It's BS. Jill. don't worry. Set your boundaries and stick with them.

[@joycereilly7314]

Jim Bob is a control freak !!!’

[@amandasjoo5117]

I think i saw a comment saying "why dont you say that you love her?", about 30 minutes or soo they posted the picture saying that they love her on their story. I thought it was weird.

[@eriness5894]

They may have corrected it on their stories, but they didn't change the post. Someone pointed out to me on FB that they said they loved Lauren on her birthday post, so I went back a little bit... They also (within the last couple of weeks) said they loved Jason on his birthday and Abbie on her birthday. I posted on Josiah and Lauren's IG and tagged the other accounts. At this point, Josiah and Lauren have blocked me, but no one else has. I wish they'd just answer questions instead of ignoring them. Don't think that'll ever happen though.

[@susanjohnston8973]

Probably trying to guilt Jill into convincing Derrick not to do his book at the behest of JB. Michelle doesn’t do anything without his direction. I would like to think Michelle wanted to post about Jill all along and include her in family events but was not allowed to by the master. He is one evil, narcissistic manipulative piece of work. I can’t imagine my husband telling me to ignore/exclude one of our children. Would NEVER happen!

[@gayeyount7948]

You are so right. I've been married twice and both were what they thought macho men but neither ever tried to tell me how to do anything. And especially with the kids. Oh no would never have happened

[@Ellietalk81]

I'd ignore the husband if he told me to ignore a child. Sorry, JB & Michelle are awful and I really hope Derrick writes his book and shares the truth. I doubt the guy is looking for a gravy-train, but he probably didn't expect to be working for free, and he shouldn't. I am worried that the rest of the children are gaslighted and feel as if they "owe it to their parents" to keep on keeping on the show. I hope the children that are wise to the game, by their time and come up with a plan before they split. I'd love to know what they know and understand their feelings.

[@romycatblack4250]

They just can't help themselves from being so OBVIOUS.

[@cherylmoorman5012]

Damage Control 😂 Jill's not buying it. For some reason she doesnt want to publicly comment to her parents.

[@khdavis]

At 5:48, at least in the south, we would simply say “bless her heart...

[@maryalice578]

I think Jill is going through an emotional journey regarding her parents. Everyone I know went through that around her age and we definitely didn't have the kind of controlling upbringing she did. I think if I were her, I would feel like birthday shout outs on social media are a form of manipulation and if you really felt the things you say you do, you would acknowledge my birthday privately. If Michelle decided that a public declaration was her preference, Jill is under no obligation to publicly approve of it.

[@Seraphim4190]

It's so weird that the siblings all liked Michelle's post because they flat out ignore Jill's comments on their own posts.

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

I know

[@veronicajean3612]

Not really sides are always taken in family drama. I guess they side with flesh and blood. I am not sure any of us would enjoy an in-law speaking about out parents poorly. To the public. It is called loyalty. No matter if you agree or disagree with what is being said

[@Seraphim4190]

@@veronicajean3612 The Duggars seem to have their own version of "The Firm". The are Fundie royalty with a huge media presence after all. In my opinion the loyalty you mention, is loyalty to "The Firm". There is familial love involved (and maybe some of the sibs truly are upset over Derick's comments) but it is superseded by Jim Bob's authority and control. It's his opinions and priorities that truly matter. It's up to the kids to conform and implement them. And Jill hasn't been loyal to Jim Bob's agenda for a long time, longer than Derick's been publicly angry about it. Derick and Jill's determination to do their own thing lines up with the ignoring on social media. Ignoring her and her comments but then liking "The Firm's" own posts about her, seems more like insincere damage control. The family dynamic is just toxic and WEIRD.

[@Rubester-cl6op]

Seems kind of insulting to send Birthday wishes just to prove something to the public. Might be better not to. Hopefully that is not the case but just guessing it is!

[@cheriefarmborough8814]

This is the calm before the storm. The whole issues are about money. When there’s a fight over money I have never seen it end well for either side

[@carolpip5097]

there is always so much dark drama in the duggar family. Particularly in contrast to "the little couple"--which I watched recently and read comments about. Interestingly both families have strong religious convictions, they are both unusual families and they both are on TLC . The comments about "the little couple" are overwhelmingly positive and the comments about the Duggars are very critical. There is a sense of distrust and a dark side to the Duggars. There is lots of infighting, law enforcement involvement and sources who indicate that Jim Bob rules the family with an iron fist. When I watch "the little couple" I usually have a smile on my face because they smile and show so much love for each other. but when I watch the Duggars i usually feel suspicious and confused by all the contradictions in their life style. Just creeped out! Also the Duggar kids never seem overjoyed or genuinely attached to each other. even this birthday message to jill feels contrived. IMO.

[@Karenmkk28]

I used to LOVE The Little Couple but several seasons ago I had to stop because the kids acted like brats and weren't disciplined. Has it changed??

[@kryssysmith1486]

The 1980s called they want their hair back LOL. Like Katie said, "I just want to take a comb to it". Honestly, you would have to take a weed wacker to that. And she still has the same haircut to this day it's just shorter.

[@ladyv5655]

It's what Jim Bob wants. He micromanages their clothing choices, too.

[@kims.1717]

I don't understand why they can't just call or visit the birthday person (pre-quarantine). They always do it on social media. I called my mom today but I didn't broadcast it all over Facebook. 🙄

[@melissahaletky3651]

they are punishing Jill for the man she married. Stiop it.

[@Ellietalk81]

@@melissahaletky3651 the man they chose for her to marry.

[@cdsterry20]

My opinion is all families have arguments and don't agree with each other's lifestyles. After losing my sister in 2014 my mom in 2018 you can agree not to agree but love them communicate because you can't recover time lost. It will tare you apart reliving all arguments and time apart in anger. I hope everyone can agree not to agree because you only have 1 life with your family forgive and ask for forgiveness when their gone it's hell!!!

[@Mon-ps6jh]

I don't know, just because there are no public birthday/mothers day messages doesn't mean there are no messages sent and or love shared. Not all adult children or parents send public messages but they may send a lot of private love. I don't believe we can use their social media as a gauge of what anyone's relationship is.

[@jennk7987]

Great intro! The coffee steaming is perfect and the music still gets me chair dancing 💃😉

[@lydiagrace5606]

I'm with you Katie, I would love to take a comb, scissors and straightener to Michelle's hair. I've watched the show from the beginning and always wanted to do that.

[@karamac4847]

I love the new intro!!! ❤❤❤ Your husband did an amazing job

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Thank you!!

[@stephanieclark4336]

“I just want to take a comb and fix it” ha ha ha ha 😄

[@MystikelfTwigg]

😂 that made me LOL. That’s a frizzer.

[@ladyv5655]

She'll need some conditioner, too. Does the Bible forbid the use of conditioner? I can't find it, if it does, but these fundies sure treat it like it's the mark of the Beast.

[@cosmic_rl2003]

Wait, do you think that Michelle threw in a lil dig at Derrick when she says "you care deeply for others and people feel this"! Is "people" Derrick. Does she really mean becuz you know my Daughter's empathy u know she will never shun you like we want her to that's why you feel comfortable talking about us like you do. ?? I mean isnt she usually throwing digs anytime she posts to jill? Hard to believe she stopped. More like she's getting better at subliminal messaging maybe. I dunno. Have a good day all!

[@brownshuga8191]

Loving the new intro!

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Yay! Thank you!

[@luvthyself2041]

Same! Very good

[@curiousone2940]

Love your new blog entro! Nice graphics, good music, and shorter. Good job!

[@kgates2011]

That birthday wish was so forced. Michelle always says the same things about her kids. It’s as though she doesn’t know them.

[@margaretkinnaman8585]

She doesn't. She only squeezed them out. Then their older sisters became their mom.

[@torey4322]

Lol I made a post about my birthday in April. I wrote “happy birthday to me” 😂

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Love that

[@hillaryspillman1553]

Katie...I just love your pooches! They are so well behaved! Big ole coach potatoes.....love it! 😍😍❤️❤️❤️🦮🦮🦮🦮

[@RowinaSudpucker]

I love the new opening!!!!!! WOW TALENTED hubby. I am so glad Derrick is writing the book, but I bet Jim Bob will make any future spouses of the unmarried/younger children. The signatures will be like buying a house.

[@Megan-di5co]

Digging the aesthetic of the intro! Love how punctual you are with these updates!! 👍 I’ve been binging your videos that last few days. Love the content!

[@Kaibigan39]

Jill put some stories up just now from her birthday. Not one thing about Michelle.

[@astrinymris9953]

I like the new music. I especially like the fact it doesn't blast at a much greater volume than the talking. ;-D

[@mrssmith5618]

Happy Birthday Jill Dillard! Off topic......your make-up looks fabulous today Katie! What colour is your lipstick/gloss?

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Sephora Matte Liquid Lip #66

[@jacquelinemarchese3686]

Jim Bob & Michelle are hypocritical

[@pamelas.9801]

Jill hasn’t been posting as much as of late, I hope everything is okay! I did think it was odd when I saw they had posted a happy birthday to her when they don’t say much about her.

[@Heatherh-ok3qu]

I always thought it was ironic that they sold their souls to TLC, a network they wouldn’t even allow to be on TV in their home.

[@abbyjessamine1286]

Absolutely love the new intro! Very creative 😊👌xx

[@sadielynn4536]

After going back through the family's Instagram and Jill's I'm kinda getting the vibe is more between Derrick and Jill's parents and TLC. I think jill is caught in the middle. I dont doubt anything derick has said about TLC, but I think derick has said some things that has been for the purpose of publicly defaming the family. Where jill might feel some different way now, but still wants to contain some relationships within the family she's commented in the last year on certain posts, and vice versa. I think the parents see derick outspokenness as really affecting their image and brand. If you look back they celebrated Israel birthday at a park without derick being in any photographs within the last two years. So I kind of get the vibe that until recently like 2018 and 2019 when there was more speculation of a rift (instead of full on interviews and quotes from derick, like we have now) that she was able to maintain a minimal relationship with her family as long as derick was distant. Perhaps that was also his choice. I dont know. I get two different stories from all their social media, plus interviews. And there's probably a middle ground between both. I think derick intentionally created a rift (perhaps necessary) between jill and her family because he was angry about not being compensated properly for the show, or at least feeling like he wasnt getting money like he should have. I'm sure the strain that having two children in a hospital with surgery is not a cheap expense and added pressure to jill and derick for him to be more vocal about their earnings. I don't know. I get a sketchy vibe from both her parents and derick and I feel like jill is caught in between trying to find her self

[@heathers9815]

Not taking any sides here, but don’t you think they are kind of damned if they do, damned if they don’t here? I mean really? They would receive backlash for not posting anything to her and now that they did, we’re totally picking it apart! I get it to a degree....I never post anything because I can definitely understand the backlash against them but come on guys...we gotta give them a little credit...we’re all only human here...

[@bakedvegan6379]

When will you post the video with “leaving quiverfull”?

[@cheriefarmborough8814]

She needs to understand that she is not doing any good for the rest of the family by being so silent

[@jamieparks8503]

Shes dealing with her own issues because of what they have done to her. I'm sure she will come forward when shes ready. When shes mentally okay, I'm sure she will also be able to provide more support for her sibling

[@ladyv5655]

She doesn't owe them anything. Her responsibility is to her children, her husband and herself.

[@pointblankperiod8310]

Love the new intro Katie!💜

[@Monica0628]

Question: Is the Facebook page The Duggar Family Official their page? I wanted to see the birthday post wishing Jill a Happy Birthday and they had a post for 2019 and 2018 wishing her a Happy Birthday.

[@racheildrake8851]

I feel Jill is being careful and is still distancing herself from her family for her own protection. I applaud Jill for being astute enough to read between the lines and know this message was just for show for the fans

[@wigglewomyn1]

I think it it's all about damage control, especially since neither Jill nor Derick placed a "like" on the post. Plus, there hasn't been a post directed to Jill, Derick or the boys in almost 3 years and now all of a sudden, they are all getting Birthday posts. Plus, if it was sincere and the families were getting along, wouldn't Jill and Derick have liked it? Plus, to me, this photo just looks strange. It might be because Michelle took it but I think it looks like it was photoshopped. It seems that ever since certain topics were talked about on this channel that Michelle has been going out of her way to rectify what was talked about.

[@susanjohnston8973]

Wendy F I agree. Looks like a Jana photoshop job.

[@Kaibigan39]

Exactly

[@debishupe0530]

Your intro is awesome Katie !! Your husband rocks !!

[@ASLLover666]

I want Michelle to be free to. I've always felt she'd be a lot nicer if she wasn't forced to be subservient and responsible for everything the kids do. I've always felt that she gets corrected just as much as the kids. When jim bob got with her she had bulimia. From personal experience people with ed's are very vulnerable and impressional. As we all know he took her vulnerability and ran with it. Now she is stuck and believes this is true love.

[@tristazerbe8119]

I agree totally. But she’s so deep in it now she’ll never get out.

[@katherinevaladez5227]

Respectfully, don’t kid yourself about Michelle Duggar! She is just as conniving as JB, believe me! Look at how she looks at JB, he is her God! She adores him! Do you remember how the two of them acted when they double dated with Jessa and her fiancé, at the time? They were disgusting! Michelle let him have his hands all over her and even picked her up, in front of them and Michelle says to Jessa, “you can’t do this until you’re married!” Would you flaunt you and your husband’s sexuality in front of your twenty something daughter? They are supposed to be SO religious and then act that way. PLUS, having their minor children go on dates, as Jessa’s chaperone!?! If she didn’t like the way JB is and that religion, she would never have had all those children. JB and Michelle are losing control over their adult married children and THAT is exactly their problem. They are very afraid, that some of their very shady secrets, might leak out when the kids start having a “normal” life! I can only imagine how free, those adult kids feel, now that they have their own home, spouse and children! They are finally waking up to a whole new world! Michelle and JB need to go home and raise their younger children, now that their older “slaves”, are free!

[@Everloveme77]

I think it can be hard to separate from your parents. It could be more for her healing and less for others. Or a way to remain there for her siblings. I think she supports her husband but nervous. Which I get. I hope they find a good place to be. That would ne terrible to stuck in between.

[@marian9077]

I saw that and also notice Jill did not like the post or respond

[@baylestone9630]

I like Your new intro Katie! 😉❤️❤️💯💯

[@dawnj9121]

Love the intro. Great job.

[@deborahwhitehead9967]

Love that new intro!

[@veggiequeen2738]

Love the new intro!😊🌷🌸

[@jenniferknight1511]

Like that new jingle!!

[@noreen4529]

Could it be that not all years are the same? If I see my daughter on her birthday do I still have to post on social media? Is this a rule?

[@cadburrypondue9563]

I love the new intro!

[@shurrieweatherman468]

Jills hair isn’t as long as it was in the past. I would think the post is recent

[@colleenscaffa3422]

Love the new intro! The Duggar’s are always damage control- I cannot see anything genuine about what they have done to the Jill/Derrick issue. Personally I think Jill and Derrick where the best couple on Counting On! I stopped watching when they left-

[@taragallagher]

I thought the post was pretty cold and fake compared to the posts for Michelle and Jim Bob's daughter in laws!! They didn't say the loved Jill, or that she was precious or anything very loving. Whereas for Abbie and Lauren they state ''we love you dearly'' and ''love you so much''. Jill is their DAUGHTER wtf. Also, very disappointed no other siblings gave her a birthday post, just stories. Speaks volumes.

[@corine4730]

I see they’re trying to get on her good side.Derrick is still going to release the tell all 🤣

[@anonomus8709]

Jill didn’t like it... hmmm 🤔 I hope she’s seeing through this obvious bullshit.

[@jenniferknight1511]

I think it is okay that they wished her happy birthday. Families can have a rift and they can still love eachother. I personally don't think Derek should be doing this to his wife's family.

[@Smileyson58]

He’s seen them great Jill like crap so there is that

[@kymberlysteiger8125]

I think “Mrs. Joyfully Available” is trying to show people SHE wants a relationship with Jill and her grandkids. I also think Jill most likely called or texted her Mom on Mother’s Day and the same for responding about the Birthday post, she probably called or texted to thank her personally. Jill seems too nice a person to totally snub her Mother and she seems more the type to do things in person or over the phone text/call rather than posting on social media; especially where it will just get so much criticism and mar the whole reason for the post. I’m looking forward to the tell all! For the kids’ sake, the ones still at home, I hope something happens for the better and they are given the opportunity to actually “LIVE!”

[@Adnilas]

I think prairie dresses are the cutest thing ever. Especially on kids, oh my goodness. I really want some but I don’t know where to buy them. Also, I’m not sure if I’m ready to stand out that much from main stream society.

[@graceargentieri7646]

I don’t know... I kind of think that derick is in fact telling the whole truth, but then again- I could be totally or a bit wrong! I do think that Jill and Derick should have been paid for their time on both 19 & counting and Counting on. They gave their time and energy towards it so, I don’t know. I just think that they should have been paid and not used. I also think that JB made a drastically huge mistake of not sending Jill or the other girls to the best therapist(s) that money can buy. Shame on him and M for not reporting josh for a long, long time as well. A whole bunch of mistakes and dirt that JB & M did... good luck to Jill and Derick though. They have my full support!!

[@cheriefarmborough8814]

Wow, time does fly.

[@peggycampbell905]

Not a gravy train when your life was exploited on tv for someone else’s gain. Deserves the payment

[@maggiec4598]

Jill needs to take care of herself and her family. Maybe she just needs time 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@giventaken1984]

Freaking love this channel and the cute new intro!

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Thanks so much!!

[@rachaelkopp3792]

Damage control!

[@melissahaletky3651]

wow! this is how they act when you hate your son in law. Golly, Jim Bob was all too happy to let Jill and Derick wed. The duggars are patetic, trying to do this. Hiw dare you. No birthday wish in 3 years means nothing. forget Derick. Take you daughter out to dinner forbher Birthday. Wouldn't that be the nice thing to do. Don't punish Jill if your issues ar with her husbabd.

[@jackiewilder1865]

Love the intro!!!!!

[@melaniegline8779]

Jessa made an instagram story saying happy birthday to Lauren, but not to Jill. Hmmm 🤔

[@h.c.8028]

Do you think it’s weird that Joys Instagram name still has her husbands name even though he has his own? Does this seem like a control thing her husband could have with Joy?

[@rebella8898]

Problematic behavior aside, Michelle Duggar is a beautiful woman. Can you imagine her wearing trendy clothes like Jinger? I wonder how liberated she would feel and act if she could choose her own clothing?

[@mishabear703]

love the new intro :)

[@sonyafox2782]

I can't say, I blame Jill, after all Michelle, had a obligation to her children, even if it was your own son doing things to your daughters, rather than ignore and not say anything. I think a lot of people on here are missing the point. Look at all the girls that are continuing to separate thereselfs from there family. When you go on tv and your trying to calm your this perfect family there are of coarse hidden cracks within the family. Sure enough eventually some came forth down the road. I don't think Derrick is trying to calm he's perfect. But, you all have to understand he married Jill and, therefore he got to know more about what was going on. And, besides to be on a relatity show, I'm sure there are all kinds of ins and out, not to mention what it probably takes and how it cuts into ones personal time. Then, to not be compensated for it and find out there is more to the story, layers upon layers. You got to understand this now involves him and his family, I mean think about what all being a husband and what that job entails. Not to mention how it effects him and his family, can't say, I blame him and he's within his right to do so. So, say what you wish and pass your opinions and judgements, just remember there are 2 sides to every story, your just wanting to fault Derrick causes he's chosing to stand-up to Jim Bob rather than sitting and being silent rather than being idile and letting it go.

[@sonyafox2782]

I meant claim.

[@daydream1066]

Looks like you were having fun with the new intro, also I was hoping to see you comment on this lol

[@mitzhackett9145]

Nice intro!

[@cheriefarmborough8814]

How is Anna putting up with the laws they have

[@cadburrypondue9563]

She has a lot more to put up with than just her in-laws unfortunately

[@AngelsWips]

Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors. Nobody should assume what's going on Beyond closed doors. Yes they put themselves out there and have done some strange stuff that I don't approve of, so I just stopped watching. Not my circus not my monkeys.

[@lurkingallegedly8380]

Dang no notification

[@donnastratton8397]

Probably damage control. Is your husband quitting his job to be a KZbin hubby? 🙂

[@cheriefarmborough8814]

Hi Cool.

[@stonesatglasshouses3477]

I would love to help you create an intro that fits your channel and aesthetic. I’m messing around with editing in my free time. If you have an email, I can send over something.

[@kkaterina12]

New intro 😍

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

thanks!

[@a01024200773]

Nice intro

[@lillianp8900]

blech

[@curiousone2940]

JB is starting to act a lot like a cult leader wanna be. Just sayin'

[@Kimberly-dp5pp]

Arkansas is in phase 1 of reopening a lot if restaurants and businesses have reopened the pools are going to be opening up too soon

[@pattybronner6212]

*&×&*(. I missed notifications again!!

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Oh no!

[@giventaken1984]

Same here.... Ive been missing them for days now.

[@WithoutACrystalBall]

Yeah, KZbin is messy with notifications. Some of my subs say they are notified hours later.

[@veronicajean3612]

Parents do not report their children to the police. They try to handle these things. This stuff happens. Shame is involved as is they want the kid to get better and not go to jail. Seriously What is your angle? And you think they do not love their child? Many adult children have problems with their family. Derick can also have control issues of his own. He needs to just live his life accept what happened and move on. Many fathers are very controlling. I had one. He still loved me and I loved him.

[@Smileyson58]

They definitely don’t report anything in cults

[@katherinevaladez5227]

Nadia 168 Absolutely, Nadia! And the Duggar kids were brought up “drinking the kool-aid!”

[@Muffynbear-bs7fh]

Incorrect. A normal parent would get licensed therapy for their perp child and report it to law enforcement IN ADDITION to licensed therapy for the victims. None of that happened with the Duggars. Josh's form of therapy was getting his head shaved in front of his church and then getting to do manual labor. The victims got nothing. No therapy, no professional help and we're basically told to forgive him or else.

[@lonibilyeu6340]

The important piece to me is that Jim Bob and Michelle the predator promoters were suppose to be off the TLC Duggar show and now they show up on every single show. Psychopath Michelle forces herself into the birth of her daughter in laws births. WHY TLC are you letting those people who covered up the abuse and then forced their daughters to accepts the abuse and forgive him before they even got to process it. Not to mention you made them go on tv and speak about it. No wonder Jill doesn’t want you around. Jim bob and Michelle need to back off tv and let their family heal.