We don’t have a cat … but it’s good to know all the no no s about cat … I do love cats … probably more so than dogs … and I always initiate to interact with stranger cats .. mostly raised by the retail shops out there .. usually let him or her smell my hand gently .. then start to pat them gently on the head .. and down onto his spine or back .. 90% of the time .. they’re really friendly … sometimes they would tilt their heads towards your hand .. they’re the best