Joe - If You Lose Her (feat. Kseniya Simonova)

Music video by Joe performing If You Lose Her (feat. Kseniya Simonova). (C) 2014 Plaid Takeover LLC under exclusive license to BMG Rights Management (US) LLC

[@jay.1993]

This song right here if you lose her makes me remember the wife i lost when I was a 24 year old fool and I lost the blessing that God gave me now that I'm 53 my mind still think of her young people never throw away a blessing that God gave you hold on to it with all you got please trust me you will never get over it😭😭

[@kennyglover3851]

Dame bro sorry to hear that

[@KseniyaSimonovaTV]

Dear friends, I was so happy to create the sand part of the video for Joe! I’m happy you liked it. Welcome to my channel if you’d like to see more of my sand art!

[@debrawright8765]

You are phenomenal lady!

[@marilynwilliams4223]

It was beautiful and talented

[@johnakotoboateng6484]

Great work and you are good

[@nubiannupe66]

Thank you, Kseniya!!! I saw your performance on Ukraine's Got Talent and was blown away!! I hope you get to collab with more recording artists in the future!!!

[@xk4911]

Joe mama

[@pamelariddick-dickens2213]

Can't go wrong with Joe. This dude is so underrated...so good.

[@ayashacalloway6]

Pamela Riddick . . I agree

Agreed. Now I'm off to listen to another underrated star - Howard Hewett.

[@netrathigpen1530]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@amosdede9710]

I swear to God, you couldn't have said it any better

[@andersoninyanje3583]

I very much agree..we of that age should do something to rate him.

[@periquejaimmillagilsberth4028]

Joe is so gentle, smooth, sensational and inspirational

[@Loveheartcorian]

Letting go is the hardest thing ever but we must know our worth and walk away...Wonderful Song💕 Love it

[@khayalethumakosi6678]

ITS PAINFUL, TRUST ME I KNOW VERY WELL

[@mijournisworldgang3183]

@@khayalethumakosi6678 very painful going through it right now that's why I'm listening to this song to make myself feel better cause I'm mad at him. But I love him soooooooooo much it's crazy. Can't stop thinking about him but he has humiliated me numerous times seem can't find out why I just can't walk away 10 years in this

[@ruthaddoansah3562]

U are right ♥️♥️👍

[@lisah5202]

Very Painful..been there.

[@Nytea1982]

You know u said a mouthful then, sis!! ☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾😂

[@BLACKGEMINIFILMZ]

This is another underrated classic hit

[@IreneChavez-un8xk]

Does anyone know anymore classic hits ???

[@08sexyjazz]

God bless this man. The industry NEEDS more artist like this young man. I miss when music had a purpose and a meaning.

[@blueicewilliams6206]

Very true n the old R.B music ok

[@andretoliver6108]

RIGHTTTT???!?!?!

[@Don-ns7dl]

So true

[@makien2848]

One of the best old school... definitely young at heart🙈

[@sandrogonzalez7567]

That's the problem with today's music. It lost all romance.

[@soulfulman1971]

This is one sad song. Great song, but sad. It had me thinking about my own lady and how I wasn't treating her the way she should be treated. I never cheated on her, but I took her for granted. I am a fully grown man and this song had me in tears because it is true. Now she and I have a love that's stronger than ever.

[@rlpx4]

love how you acknowledge the problem and then made things right :) Kudos to you and the Mrs.

[@sherrybittle4537]

+greeneyedsoul71 I love, love the fact that the song made you reassess your relationship with your lady and now you treat her like a lady. I applaud you my dear.

[@soulfulman1971]

Sherry Bittle​ and rlpx4​ Thank you for the compliment. I'm far too old to be starting over. I'm just gonna continue to do right by my lady because it's cold when you're lonely.

[@habonmohamed3088]

Happy for u

[@sherryholmes232]

Awww Awesome!!

[@shirlesef592]

That part.... "There'll be no grave deep enough to bury the pain..." WHEW! Very deep.

[@kimberlyrobertson7903]

YEESSSS!! So true because when I 1st listened 2 this song & I heard that part I was like damn joe u did that

[@Queenfattfatt]

Shfl43 brought chills. and tears all over me.

[@neecieowens705]

Shfl43 Yaaaaaaaaas

[@bowlegg41smith71]

Facts

[@mkhuselixabendlini5610]

Shfl43 😥

[@Bigboy-tp2vm]

Awww man, this brotha hit the mark w/ this jam right here. Was takin my baby for granted, I could feel her slipping away, heard this song playing one day, and suddenly a light bulb went off, and long story short, I got my act together, and now we're as strong as ever. Thanks brother JOE.

[@MzPrissyDeeDee]

She slowly starts to slip away....so true!!! Never take your lady for granted if you love her....

[@michaelawade8568]

.

[@connie2697]

my bf works and comes home and leaves me alone in the living room and he is in the bedroom alone playing his ps4game. he tell me i am not going to lose him but i don't feel love or respect anymore

[@lizetteward4795]

love this Joe song love them all

[@ebonyqueen6932]

Keyword... Boy.... Friend. You decide how to be treated. Aim high. Be blessed.

[@larrythompson2492]

2o21 March 5 special music song sounds great u in 2o21 amen

[@jennilee7166]

Every man and woman should take the words of this song to heart.

[@user-sc1ih5kf1j]

Jennifer Lee agreed

[@jennilee7166]

Crista League thanks!

[@nekan38]

Jennifer Lee absolutely the truth when u know u are not appreciated it's time to leave him or her alone.

[@teanekan1817]

Jennifer Lee I totally agree

[@virginiarudolph9643]

True

[@angelene990]

I can listen to joe all day

[@kekebaldwin6089]

A R me too

[@totoxfly]

Keke Baldwin Me Three

[@tistenmullins6670]

Keke Baldwin. This is my music to this tristen

[@SharonMRoss-by1lc]

Girl yeah!

[@davidsumrall1423]

👍👌🔥💿 me too.

[@TheRealPerceeP1]

When she's gone you'll know how much she's worth.

[@dannyburiel6573]

True, true! But when he’s gone she’ll know how much he’s worth as well!🤨

[@giselefagundes5676]

😘😘😘😘

[@sunearthgoddess]

I don't think my ex will ever realize what he had in me...

[@godsgirl724]

Maybe...maybe not.

[@belindajiles684]

🙌👍👌

[@lashaun1712]

Love shouldn't be so challenging. I use to really be in love with someone, but he took me for granted and I gradually became numb to even the thought of loving him. I ended up leaving him and by the time that he tried to get me back I could not feel for him what I used to feel. I couldn't bring myself to trust him with my heart. This song is so true.

[@larenkaren5190]

This man hasn't aged in 20 years and his voice is brilliant as always. Never disappoints. I'd love to sing background vocals for him.

[@Kalamira]

Joe never disappoints. So happy he picked this song as a single. Please support his "Bridges" album!!!

[@gloriaperry1637]

Mira yes this song is sad but so true at the same time me and my fiance had some bumpie roads but we pulled it through and now our love is even stronger than ever thank you Dear Lord I'm blessed

[@marcusbell6020]

I lost the love of my life at a young age chasing money an this song reminds me an i lived the words in this song.

[@504girl_]

Don't take your women for granted especially your wife. Men get too content sometimes.

[@pedropunjabi7339]

True. I was living proof.

[@twin2090]

Yeah but sometimes the container is better than the content.

[@ericbaxter1871]

Pride kills smh

[@lisah5202]

Amen

[@bradfordmontgomery9886]

Yes, you will lose her. Handle your business at home

[@capo3444]

"Like a gamblers game, You're risking everything.. And even though the stakes are high, You're playing with her heart"

[@advientojuanpaulo6178]

Whos remain listening here 2021 still relating what lyrics telling us about regrets like me

[@friedastewart591]

Some people are selfish and don't care about your worth because they are too engrossed in their own self worth.

[@larrythompson2492]

2o21 March 1o u got that rite some people get things wrong amen

[@angelalindsey213]

So true!

[@devorawhite35]

FACTS 💯

[@rwatchin]

"Bridges" is Joe's best work to date. That's what I feel and this song is a testament to his growth.

[@Alr1ghtyThen]

Signature is my favorite of his more recent projects

[@cavalearsoul]

Roscoe Coltrain I wouldn't go that far LOL...but it's good. Nothing will ever top 'All That I Am' album in my opinion.

[@rwatchin]

Chadwick Gray Respek.

[@mywords07]

Yes sir!

[@petergriffinowl]

Thank you! I am a huge fan of his and always have been but to say that everything he puts out is great is just not right. I think his best albums were actually back in the 90s and "All That I Am" is clearly at the top, no discussion. Wish he would go back to these kind of songs. But every now and then, just olike If you lose her, there's a glimpse of the Joe I came to love :)

[@mariazavala735]

I love this song to all the guys when you find a good woman don't take her for granted..cherish her..because she might be the only woman that truly loves you deeply...so don't be a fool

[@alvin4963]

Can we also ask some ladies to learn to not scare a good man away too? I am thinking it goes both ways. However we stick to the song context and it speaks to men init? So I personally have heard. Praying I find one. Lol. I love Joe a whole lot.

[@trey3847]

Luv this song! Real music. He said " she will be gone like footprints in the sand " straight up deep"

[@piratemeow]

🎶 "If I were you I just wouldn't take that chance, 'cause when the tides of change roll in, she'll be gone like footprints in the sand." That is the most beautiful line ever.

[@lajuanguyton6362]

these men don't realize until we're gone!!

[@Angellite1977]

there will be no grave...deep enough to bury the pain. POWERFUL..

[@maryhadalittlelamb25]

IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE WHEN YOU HAVE IT....THEN YOU DESERVE TO LOSE IT!!!... SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE... SOMEONE WILL KNOW THE VALUE OF WHAT THEY HAVE AND LOVE AND APPRECIATE HER FOR ENTERING HIS LIFE...I BELIEVE!!!... :D

[@saladforrow6427]

CHARITY HECH

[@charrobinson146]

CHARITY HECH dd

[@yessicafernandez862]

CHARITY HECH. preach!!!!

[@lynetteharvey2716]

CHARITY HECH ""already

[@blackbash9279]

@@lynetteharvey2716 kzbin.info/www/bejne/horYlWitnNpsfM0

[@melissacassell]

I can't this song out of my head. Joe deserves to get more recognition.

[@neliamagumula2911]

Joe is the man. The GOAT. The greatest song writer ... and what a voice. This fella sings for us the ladies

[@ladymp2848]

Joe....you should think seriously think about coming back....You are missed !!!!!!!! Your music is TRULY TRULY AMAZING !!!!!! MAY OUR LORD BLESS YOU NOW AND ALWAYS !!!!!!!! ALL YOUR SONGS ARE AMAZING BUT "IF YOU LOSE HER.." ...THERE ARE NO WORDS TO EXPRESS HOW .UNBELIEVABLE THE WORDS AND THE MUSIC TO THIS SONG ARE ...""IT IS TRULY TRULY A MASTERPIECE...!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR AMAZING GIFTS OF MUSIC AND VOICE !!!!!!!!!!!!!! A FAN 4LIFE !!!!!!

[@teishiah.7926]

He never left he puts out a n album faithfully every year since 2007

[@KingLouisDaSaint]

Thank you.. Clearly, that person isn't a fan.

[@teishiah.7926]

Eric Pratt good music never does now a days...all about popularity not quality

[@user-sc1ih5kf1j]

People know what they have when they have it, some just choose to not appreciate someone until they are gone. Someone who truly loves you wouldn't put themselves in the position to loose you.

[@ladychef63]

Temperature

[@jameliaowens3056]

Crista League Very well put!!!

[@bettyhale5890]

Crista League girl you literally said everything I was thinking while I was listening to this song. Thank you girl!😢

[@misterg4620]

true

[@lindak.3833]

rocky balboa...when it comes to a relationship, not everyone! It takes two to make a relationship work and if one is not willing to go the mile and stay the course then it's done. Not everyone messes up; it only takes one!

[@kevinsears9182]

Mad props to Joe for always stayin the course and never needed any cheap gimmicks. Just pure R&B greatness that hasn't been done better by anyone else IMHO

[@que4069atl]

Thank you Joe! I was about to make a big mistake and lose someone who just wants to show me what true love and trust is....Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!!

[@donnarodgers285]

Is it just me? The beat in this song reminds me of the "Bee Gees." I truly love how Joe's lyrics has meaning.

[@chaffroncorder646]

it's a sample of Baby Come Back by Ambrosia. same decade ;-)

[@chaffroncorder646]

+Chaffron McCarty I meant Player, not Ambrosia

[@donnarodgers285]

Chaffron McCarty thanks

[@kendyluv10]

this guy takes you to your inner self when hes singing

[@leonalevenson5833]

wendy kabamba

Also, go hit some Teddy Pendergrass - Turn out the lights. You're welcome. ;-)

[@deshunforrest6823]

Never tired of you joe!!! 2018

[@janetdavis2580]

Hav

[@davidkarenju7403]

Sure

[@GregLassiterAUG]

Joe, is one underrated singer. This song touches my soul and the very "there'll be no grave deep enough to bury the pain........ WOW.. KUDOS TO YOU BROTHER....

[@hilariashigwedha2454]

joe at his best. respect for u man. simply the best.

[@Ryu_hayabusa561]

I thought this kind of music was dead but I guess I have been listening in all the wrong places.

[@nyarmusa1361]

"I've been listening in all the wrong places". I like that😊

[@vincentwhite2008]

Yea u have but u ain't wrong

[@robertchambers369]

my favorite RnB singer of all

[@totoxfly]

Robert Chambers ...To be Exact... Da Fav. Soul, R&B Artist is Joe (Prince of R&B)

[@robertchambers369]

@@totoxfly YES YES YES 😊👍🏿

[@theylovekyraa]

i love this my mom play this once nd i cried in tears ,this is true appreciate the people God have in your life because they can be taken away fast once a woman gone she gone. treat her right whether it's a relationship , friendship or whatever be right!

[@Greatlightkingdom]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/mqrNi4urat18Z5o Joe thomas Remix

[@lisahill4993]

This touched me.It made me cry .I had to walk away from my fiance cause he was taking me for granted.I know he loved me and I loved him dearly but when u stop showing interest in the things that got u together in the first for me there nothing left.I love Joe a true artist!

[@caandra0808]

"If you lose her, there be no grave deep enough to bury the pain." Deep Joe! I love Me some Joe! and his smooth music!

[@taniahjordan3110]

If u lose her (if u lose her) there be a hole n ur soul, there be no grave (no grave) deep enuff to bury the pain (dont be a fooooooooooo). .... THIS IS MY DAM JAM!!! SING IT JOE!!!!!!!!!! HE DOESN'T GET THE RECOGNITION HE WELL DESERVES!!!!

[@Farashaash]

In 2014 He Is Still Making It The Real RnB... Long Live The King Of RnB Joe Thomas amen

[@todaysob]

now this is what we call smooth music touches your inner core great work joe

[@denniskimondio843]

Listen hère ladies.joe bravo

[@melonielle5603]

"...but when she's gone you'll know how much (s)he's worth!" This is such an awesome reminder that we should never become complacent in our relationships. The value of a great relationship is priceless, but it's only worth as much as what we've invested into it. Take care of your priceless jewel and it will last forever!

[@John-gt5ku]

well said

[@karengermany3766]

Some and just don't realize when they have a good woman but when she walks up that door it'll be too late for her to turn back so if you love her cherish her stay safe

[@karlag8671]

Facts

[@PerfectPatLovey]

Joe is intouch with his feminine side ...understands women so well 👏 🙌 😭

[@jazzigonzales9487]

You don't know what you got till it's gone

[@24pekanpie]

So underrated! one of few from back in the day that still produce true respectful music!

[@ginaqueendiva7860]

God damm, Joe is handsome he definitely telling these men today how to treat their women with good love and affection in his song before it to late u end up losing her cause, u never paided her any attention. Fellas take notes still listening to this in 2019

[@bransonbelcher4931]

Joe is truly underrated vocalist and is the KING OF R&B MUSIC 🎶

[@bodyonfireb.o.f4859]

Joe really knows how penetatre to people's soul. He gets your immediate attention, slows you down, stops you, get your immediate attention, gets you in your feelings, makes you feel super good, heals you, consoles you, provides you with best vibes and still makes everyone around you bring their best love version. He is justice special and we are so grateful for him! I'll make sure I'll share his treasures with my grandkids one day! Much love Joe! Thank you!!

[@lashaun1712]

Beautifully written song and very true. Some people don't know what they have until they lose out.

[@lynetteharley5291]

I’m about to leave a relationship but I needed this song to help me with decision

[@TheTeeshaw]

I hope you didn’t 😢

[@annettewright7408]

Joe this is a very true this should. be the national anthem for mens for taking their woman or wife for granted

[@akelarucker9008]

This would completely go over some guy's head. They're so prideful. When it's over and done the regret sets in then its definitely too late.

[@gsikwana2]

Joe never disappoints....soothing...even though the stakes are high, you playing with her heart.

[@Lucysoulfulwell]

💜💚💙 happy new year to all! sending you all Light and Love in your love life. May we see each other light this year.

[@asiarobinson5330]

Some men would never get it, the loyal women always get played to the left .. but this song describe that perfect

[@rubencolbert1542]

When joe said if u lose her there will be a hole in your soul I felt that

[@endgamey]

Damn... this has my situation written all over it.. im the one broken in the end wishing I never took her for granted.

[@classicmoore2352]

Joe I love you ❤️😘💕 your music makes you feel like you need to listen to your music and follow your heart ❤️

[@yellowfeverize]

It'll take most men too long to realize how much that one girl mean to them but before then, they'll just fuck around too much and hurt you so until you can't take it anymore but to walk away. men caused women so much pain 😿😿 this song just touched my heart that I feel my heart is so heavy and at the same time happy that Joe Thomas is one man that seems to really feel women's pain

[@jokeress1252]

I could listen to this guy forever and never get bored. 💖

[@liberatorhifenua5490]

Jokeress125 agree with u ther

[@Tieshia11]

* I LOVE THIS MAN...ITS SO UNFAIR HIS TALENT IS SOO UNDERRATED!!!

[@alanawilson6104]

This is such a beautiful song Joe was so underated but so talented

[@sajaichin187]

trust fellas, if she means so much, dont lose her, its a long and lonely road back!!

[@ulyssesgrant2782]

It sounds like one of those 1970s songs... nicely done

[@R8RFan007]

Lisa Baby, I wish I had paid attention to this song a long time a go & I would still be happy & with you...I miss you...I love you...

[@shady8935]

AHHH

[@ebonyeyez2682]

sweet

[@AlwayzOneHunnit]

THIS MAN IS MY MUTHAFUKIN HEART!! Damn I LOOOOOOVE me some him. You betta SANG it tho. 🙌🏾🎶🥰

[@pedropunjabi7339]

Damnnnn.... Im living this song.... Really hurts.Shoulda listened.

[@yordanoism]

Lost the love of my life yesterday because I couldn’t think before I spoke , she gave a lot of chances and I fucked up. Hurts and i knew what i had just a moment of anger made me loose her. I wish their was a time machine. I used to be happy seeing people in love while I was with her now I feel broken when I see that

[@jeanettejohnson1015]

You to try a get her even if beg for forgiveness my friend

[@jocelynwright9927]

So true. If you love someone then they have to come first.

[@misterg4620]

Jocelyn Wright absolutely

[@tistenmullins6670]

Jocelyn Wright i like This song To

[@diablosaint3329]

Sometimes we as men forget that a woman is suppose to be a partner. Sometimes we treat our women like subordinates or even superiors. However, when you have a good woman and you doing wrong and you lose her, you really will feel her absence. Not just men but women do this as well. Always on your list, starving for affection. We need to listen.

[@user-sc1ih5kf1j]

Diablo Saint Very true! Never give your all to someone who gives you nothing. Never settle. Know your worth and realize when you're not being appreciated. Know that you deserve better. Move forward and focus on you.

[@chaunteycarter8499]

I so love this song!! Grown folks music. Just listen to the words...so true. I miss music like this.

[@mrlaws1969]

That's why i will see him and Vivian Green this Saturday Nov 6. It's going down.

[@pfowler8310]

+Robert Laws yes!!! My hubby and I also! His shows are worth it!! This is real music!!

[@IbrahimKiongozi]

+Chauntey Carter Definitely grown up music

[@chaunteycarter8499]

+Ibrahim Kiongozi ; )

[@mrlaws1969]

Chauntey Carter it's about the words that becomes timeless.

[@jonathanbalagumyetime3018]

The truth is that we the good music lovers don't need the sick media to rate joe for as to love and appreciate his music!has been the greatest and best when it comes to rnb

[@lindafreasha5514]

Joe is my favorite male singer of all time, I walked down the aisle to His song "No one else comes close" to the man of my dreams "My Hubby"

[@andremorrison1411]

Today's generation needs to learn how to write heartfelt lyrics like joe!! In my opinion, we are losing those gifted artist. Songs today do not carry generational longevity.

[@tundetunde6194]

Joe has never let me down since the early 90s

[@mariamulalu3410]

Soulful feeling. 2023 feels like it's just been released. We dance to the song when we not going through a situation but the lyrics makes so much sense when it hits you hard. Thanx Joe for this. He's the most underrated RnB singer. I always run to him when am going through stuff. He consoles me

[@RonBruce]

thank God the views are heading to a million...people still appreciate good music

[@TheDenisenike]

Six million views now

[@jjOnes10mine]

Nostalgic and Amazing..."If you loose her." I Love this love this...

[@MrJbuck15]

Man living this right now missing my true love

[@KingLouisDaSaint]

Jay Hornbuckle did u get her back, bro?

[@DrJuliaMatetoa]

I'm loving this...,🌹❣️

[@kamrymadlock4117]

Joe music is beautiful 🎶🎶👌

[@vphinn]

There will be no grave deep enough to bury the pain... jesus!!

[@Dabklyn27]

His show was great when he opened up for New Edition last year. I said that if he's ever in NY I would go see him. Well he'll be performing at BB King club in Manhattan on Aug 7. Can't wait!!!

[@scampbell2685]

Dabklyn27 i would love to see him,how much for the tickets? do u know?

[@AlwayzOneHunnit]

Dear Jesus, I fricken Looooove this man!!! Thank you for making him. 🙌🏾🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️😩

[@PeytonFan1816]

Love me some Joe! He never disappoints

[@divinenaturals53]

I love me some Joe.... He know he can sang him a love/slow jam.

[@twilawillis7877]

Tell them all joe

[@jayclark4919]

DesiRay Smith truth around..

[@jayclark4919]

Stop being so shameful..and shallow... Allow goodness to rain...

[@jayhughes1129]

😍😍😍😍

[@suthrngurl9251]

Joe gets better & better. Like fine wine

[@patrickbryant4351]

nice. Joe always bring the cool and grown feel to his music

[@jjOnes10mine]

I don't know why this song isn't played more...It tells every lady what they should tell their men... Listen.

[@mstselane27]

This is one of my favorite songs by Joe besides " I Wanna Know"...

[@prettymariaageda7480]

Joe your one of a kind, A legend that lives on and on. Knows how to please a lady. I Love him ❤. This Song 🤗🗣🗣

[@lady9127]

Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe!!!! This song runs very deep and it hits the core... I am in tears boo... your voice is SO powerful it tears me APART, it really does. #Beautiful #GentlyDabTears

[@hantejackson]

Joe, you are still the best to me, appreciate the song. April 2020, who else?

[@leteashealmoore9404]

It's sad when she's been pushed to her limits.

[@raemelleballard5323]

Miss your music and that sweet savory voice!