I Found it. The Most Sexist TikTok...

[@frogonwall]

As a sapphic, I'm so glad we're finally talking about the butlers we have to hire to open doors for us and pull our chairs out

[@swagittarius5748]

What is a sapphic? (I am not a native speaker and have never heard that term before)

[@TheHalfblood.Studios]

​@@swagittarius5748A woman/feminine identifying person who loves other women. Similar to the word lesbian, or gay woman :)

[@swagittarius5748]

@@TheHalfblood.Studios Thank you for explaining it to me :3

[@StardewDanny]

​@@swagittarius5748 the term originates from Sappho, who was an ancient greek poet who's known today for writing sensually about women and it's prolific for being one of our surviving examples of female homoeroticism. the word "lesbian" actually has the same origin, as it derives from the name of the isle of Lesbos, which is where Sappho was from. I just think that's a neat fact and i wanted to share :3

[@lingodelfo5415]

Or you can bind with a man-man couple, cos they will need a source to upkeep their masculinity. Kinda like dialysis but chair moving, not blood cleanse

[@Lena-pw4zk]

he saw a horse once and is now stuck too deep in the Mojo Dojo Casa House

[@Sly-Moose]

🤣

[@Jay_one]

I love it when a guy on TikTok sets up 3 cameras aimed at his face to switch between angles of himself in an empty room pretending to be giving someone a lecture about how to be a man.

[@Acorn905]

Same it's so weird and useless but it makes me laugh xD

[@Elle...]

The way he is looking down makes it feel like he’s trying to teach a toddler how to be a “true man”

[@KARMAZYNA]

Imagine calling your boss and telling them you won't be coming to work today because there wasn't a man around to open your car for you. XD

[@StaubZuStaub]

Just gotta send them the video as proof 😂

[@mad_hatt]

Wydmmmmm we don’t work😂

[@door-chan]

well duh you're not supposed to do that, we're not allowed to work, we just chill and wait for the universe to give us a man to give us money

[@WhatExcellentBoiledPo-ta-toes]

How did you even get out the front door? Climb out the window? 😅

[@mad_hatt]

@@WhatExcellentBoiledPo-ta-toes what’s a window but a different kind of door?

[@Botsy]

I love that my standards for finding a man should be that he must pull out a chair for me and open a door for me. Those are my standards, anything else is too low. Nothing else matters.

[@WoahNelly]

As a single person in their 30’s you have absolutely no idea how tired my legs are from standing. It’s been tough, but the rules are the rules.

[@toxicstarcandy]

I'm scared for you. Because that means you either don't have a house with a door or you haven't been in a house at all. Wait are women aloud to close doors in womans bathrooms? Or are we suppose to pee with the door open?

[@kawaiiboushi]

Bro's using a lot of words to say "women should be financially dependent on men so it's harder for them to leave bad relationships"

[@galatea742]

As a lesbian, I feel like my life would come to a bit of a standstill if my girlfriend and I had to wait for an imaginary man to do things for us. Also neither of us being allowed money feels wholly unsustainable.

[@Acorn905]

Yeah just move to a nice cottage, no cars only nice walk and bikes and no need for money just farm plants for foods. 👌🏳️‍🌈

[@TamaseiTobari]

As a fellow lesbian, I bring you the answers. You have to find a male friend willing to provide for the two of you. It is his job as a man to do so and if he helps you two, he will get the money back tenfold for being so in touch with his masculine energy. Don't worry, all of you will benefit from the arrangement. Now if you are like me and somehow ended up in a friend group that's made out of women only, then things get a bit more complicated.

[@satgurs]

@@TamaseiTobari just use your feminine energy to spawn a man into your life

[@erikarussell1142]

My brother listens to this joker. I tell him all the time he needs to quit letting other people do his thinking. It’s disgusting. And I’m in my 40s. Sad. He’s just sad.

[@audreydoyle5268]

"But if dis man do me think, me have more time mean more efficient" would probably be his rebuttal

[@Vampress09]

No, no he's right. I'm a woman and everyone should pay me. /j

[@nostalgicumbry3279]

sad thing is there's a bunch of people out there that feels that way, however as mentioned they will eventually find that person...

[@felixbenitez6169]

No. We do not need to pay you at all. Un least I unvite you out, I don't need to pay for your stuff. I also don't need to pay you because you're not working for me, so un least you're working for me no a cent will be send. You woman want Equality and Indepedency? Then learn to relied on yourself, and stop demanding for special previlege.

[@Kys_jackcrawfish]

Idk if im like not paying attention or if it’s like a recent thing but congrats to Joinen on the engagement!

[@witchyix]

somehow that last piece of his advice was the most unhinged. like, if you've made your kid feel unloved and unsafe and uncared for, apparently you should totally confront them about it and force them to either admit or deny it up front with no warning and no backup? one-on-one to the person who made them feel unloved and unsafe? sure. that'll definitely work and won't backfire terribly at all. absolutely make your kid do all the emotional work in the relationship and carry the weight of your need for validation and teach the adult in charge of them how to be a parent to them better from within the position of relatively low power and authority and age experience, or else let them suffer under your comfortable delusions of adequacy. 10/10 advice.

[@NylaTheWolf]

When you put it like that it sounds like bad advice. I interpreted it more as just talk to your children about these things and how you make them feel 😅

[@NnannaOko]

No harm, I feel like you’re reading a bit too far into it. As a parent, how else are you meant to know what it is you’re doing that makes your child unsafe/unloved, than having a one-to-one conversation?

[@jessicaholscher4097]

please don't take away my ability to pull out my chair or open a door. that would actually suck so much. "excuse me, sir. i know i don't know you, but door. woman. you know. can you help?"

[@lizdowlingcodes6009]

BOY MATH AT ITS FINEST

[@Acorn905]

Correction *MAN math /j

[@elcatochato4539]

We are all like this idiot

[@aubreymclean7712]

I love how confident this guy was, lecturing other men on being masculine, while I'm pretty sure even he didn't understand half of the things he was saying. Made zero sense, to be honest. Also reminds me of the Lucifer episode with the sexist dude's "conference" thing.

[@aubreymclean7712]

Your video is hilarious, by the way. I'm in tears.

[@eldritchteletubby9319]

The way it sounds so based at the end and then you realize he's just telling you to talk to your kids... god, the standards are in the toilet.

[@renjiai]

I’m a woman that always pay for my loves meals. I also have to open the door for him, he won’t do it for him self. My love is my cat.

[@shachardl5360]

We should bring back the "each person pays for themselves" shtick (on dates, at least), instead of 50/50

[@Acorn905]

Thats makes sense but i don't get why it needs to be such a set in stone thing like honestly i'd just ask my date: Person no. 1) Hey do you want me to pay for tonight? Person no. 2) Thanks! i don't have enough to pay right now/Sure thanks nice of you to pay Person no. 1) Hey do you want me to pay tonight? Person no. 2) No thanks i'd rather pay since i can right now/No i'm happy to treat you

[@KiraLouu]

​​@@Acorn905 not set in stone, just depends on the situation. As a woman I wouldn't want someone to pay for my stuff on a first/second date or sth. When it feels like it's going somewhere, that's when the man can pay if he wants, and other times I'll pay too. To let someone pay for my dinner, when I know there's not gonna be a second date, it feels wrong. We both came here to see if there's chemistry, it's not like I'm doing a favor to a man by going on a date with him. Like I'm human, not a pretty thing to show around, I want to be taken seriously, so I'm not gonna go on a date I don't want to go to. And if I want to go, why would I not pay for my own food?

[@Imjustkendall]

As a non binary….I have zero energy….

[@lovedatbass9969]

The last bit, "just go and talk with your family", Sounds obvious and something you do everyday, but there are alot of parents who see their kids as part of home, a piece of decor almost .. Just there always

[@panakinskywalker6391]

Plot twist: this guy is tricking men into giving all their money to women in a strange new fight for feminism

[@lingodelfo5415]

Also he's clearly trans-positive, because you can simply start or stop paying to speed up your transition process!

[@-starrysunrise-2908]

0:48 MY standard for how to be treated is not to let anyone ""help"" me in invasive ways without asking!! I like to have agency, thank you. =)

[@KARMAZYNA]

You can't have agency, are you crazy? Their tiny little egos will shatter if you as much as tie your own shoes. XD

[@-starrysunrise-2908]

@@KARMAZYNA Oh right, I forgot!!! Back to my light pink padded room!!! 😁

[@AutisticTea]

It's not about the current political situation or society standards that impact how you live, no, it's about your EGO and MASCULINE ENERGY and money is MAGIC

[@manaash4316]

Comment sections have ruined me. For, like, five seconds I thought this comment was serious 😂

[@door-chan]

He should donate all his money to breast cancer research foundations and charities for women's rights and such, that should multiply the money the universe gives him by a lot

[@StardewDanny]

MEN...we're not poor because of the economic state or inflation or not being paid enough. we simply are not manifesting enough masculine energy. it was a skill issue all along

[@StardewDanny]

genuinely if this dude is not just bullshitting because it gets him hate views and there is really a woman out there who convinced him that not paying for her means he has ego issues, i hope shes living her best life rn

[@lauuu__ri431]

I live alone and haven't been able to leave my apartment or sit at my dining table since my dad left after helping me move 3 years ago 😔

[@bling-tut]

Dude heard the phrase "women be shopping" and made that his entire grift.

[@runroorun_]

2:53 is peak joinen out of context

[@LostApotheosis]

It feels like this guy is just trying to package his findom kink into a way where it looks like he's in control.

[@anothercub6958]

I swear these alpha male creators are trying to explain an anime's power system whenever they try to do these extended symbolic, motivational rants

[@kingofravens215]

What is that dude smoking man…

[@MoodlyDoodly]

Am I the only one that read the 'most sexist' in the title as the 'most sexiest'?

[@SirEdmundChummery]

LOL I did too and I was confused 💀

[@RainbowFlowerCrow]

Off brand Jordan Peterson is definitely not sexy🤭🤢

[@UrLocalHellspawn]

Question: I’m Agender, what do I do? NOTHING?! EVERYTHING?!

[@RedK5]

I’m an aro/ace introvert I guess I’ll be trapped forever

[@-starrysunrise-2908]

14:54 I'm actually subscribed to Microwave Society lol

[@bethanyrhodes2671]

sameeee i came to the comments just for this lol

[@cq.cumber_offishial]

14:55 this is truly, a have a day moment

[@starrrr444]

The guy I'm dating rn always opens doors for me and stuff and I think it's so cute BUT NOW YOU MADE IT WEIRD IT'S JUST A NICE THING TO DO FOR SOMEONE

[@Noo-My-Only-Weakness-Dying]

This was one of my favorite streams to be a part of ❤

[@Tnt.Explodes]

I still can’t believe ppl think like this XP it’s so sad

[@staaaar_4]

I've pulled out my own chair most of my life and I'm still single

[@felixbenitez6169]

A man who looks down at a woman is not a man at all. Both man and woman can show courtesy towards each other. Helping each other. A man does not need to do all the work. A woman can help too. The man can help with household chores while the woman can go to work. Both men and women can help each other in everything. There is no role in gender: a man is capable of kindness and courtesy, while a woman can be greedy and condescending. And no! Pretending to be manly doesn't make the Universe to give you more money. So a woman doesn't need a man or another woman all the time for everything. She is capable if she put the effort.

[@vee6372]

Missed you Joinen!😢

[@ellaswartz8786]

I just need the energy caffeine gives me. Don’t ask for much 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@bethlovesthings]

Well, as the backstreet boys once foretold "I dont care who you are, where you're from, what you did, as long as you (can pull out a chair) for me" Also, my partner & I open the door for each other depending on whoever is in front, it aint that deep, I will also hold the door open for strangers, its basic courtesy 🤣🤣🤣

[@sandwich3044]

I'm ready to hear why I shouldn't be the bread winner, let's go. Oh right masculine energy, my bad, well time to quit lol.

[@fimbles4211]

Pov you're a lesbian couple with a gay butler/femboy-maid couple to pull your chairs.

[@lingodelfo5415]

I figured out how it works. See, after you pay for not only you, but also your woman and all her female friends and family, you'll need a second and a third job, otherwise you'll starve. Ergo, you will have 2-3 times the money

[@patriannaanderson8683]

Man, I read the title as: I found it! The sexiest video on TikTok. 😂

[@Fruityflootloops]

It’s true. My gf and I simply never sit in chairs when alone. Door needs opening? Too bad. Stuck until a man appears.

[@WhatExcellentBoiledPo-ta-toes]

Climb out the window. He never said we couldn't open windows!😅

[@ScampScanner]

Great video Joinen!

[@MKMonsterr]

God I wish I were chilling! I need to get me a man who will write my papers!

[@uribove]

I do have to say i like the microwave vs slowcooker analogy. But that's about where it ends

[@J.T._Entertainment]

microwave society: veggie tales

[@zsuzsannamezey8361]

Guy looks a bit like Jordan Peterson and tries to talk like him too.

[@RainbowFlowerCrow]

I thought so too! So is that goof just spawning copies of himself throughout the manosphere?

[@zsuzsannamezey8361]

@@RainbowFlowerCrow I think he at least has some good points, this goof on the other hand...

[@samiam5703]

What does he want to do with men with disabilities who can't open every door or pull out chairs... and get paid less than able-bodied people.... But I like his energy with his kids.

[@chronischgeheilt]

I think he is just trying to market "the Secret" more targeted towards men instead of women.

[@angelamiddleton7563]

I was watching one of your old videos and saw something called "the walldoor" and if you don't mind me asking,what is the wall walldoor exactly?

[@laurenbrinsfield2614]

This whole video is boy math 😂

[@Icy___]

Joinennn

[@mags31]

Who is the video guy talking to? Is he just reading his speech off a computer? The dude breaking rule one of speech giving by reading the direct from the slides? 👀😆 No moi Joinen🙃

[@Sly-Moose]

When is he just gonna admit he just wants to be a sugar daddy and stop making up excuses? 😂 There's no shame in having a kxnk. XD

[@nothingmorethanageminiboar4929]

What side do transwomen/men fall on, in these circumstances…? Maybe they’d be able to “beat the glitch”, but only if they exclusively help each other…?

[@thymenext3298]

I am so confused by this thinking. I am convinced this is “woman pandering” by “chastising men” and then women will be like “oh yes this is accurate” so the women can then be controlled.

[@apityingofdoves1228]

no moi joinen ❤❤

[@daftoptimist]

Ahh, I see the dudebros have latched on to thIs law of attraction nonsense. As if “lucky girl syndrome” wasn’t already a plague on social media.

[@tabithabates244]

Okay so I should bring a man on all my girls nights out, just so he can pay for everything? Hmmmm not sure my dignity and pride would do so well with that. 🤦‍♀️

[@Lauralink100]

am gunna just say this manly man made me laugh beaucse it's all bullshit xD

[@SilverDragonJay]

Disagree, this is not the most sexist tiktok. Sure, its sexist, but mostly its just incoherent self-help, "motivational" nonsense with a healthy coating of sexism sprinkled on top for flavor. Also I'm not sure if he knows what the economy is just as a broad concept. He might actually think that the economy is literally magic. More likely though he's just a grifter.

[@adragonperson]

Hii joinen

[@bingrusginckle]

Woah woah

[@zombizone1581]

NO MOI NOTIFICATION BOISSSSS!!!!!!

[@ThatFloofyGoat]

Omg another video :D

[@anna-al-qabbani1210]

What do women do to get the universe to send them more money then? Spend on cats?

[@oliverolivers5080]

1:35 dharmannism

[@Sly-Moose]

Honestly? I would totally pull a chair out for a guy. 😂 It'd be low-key hot. As long as he's not being childish about it. I may be a switch but I like being the dom sometimes 🤭

[@Icy___]

No moiii

[@RainbowFlowerCrow]

What does "no moi" mean?

[@Icy___]

@@RainbowFlowerCrowit’s joiners intro , and it means hello in a language as far as I know😅

[@RainbowFlowerCrow]

​@@Icy___😅 As someone in Canada with french speaking friends, I get confused sometimes, and have to tell myself that he's not saying "no, me"!

[@tattitanssi]

That language is finnish.

[@Icy___]

@@tattitanssi 😄👍

[@bethanyrhodes2671]

MWS subscribers wya??

[@EpicHeroes713]

14:55 MWS gang anyone?

[@krissycross22]

Anyone else find it ironic that a man is telling women how they should be treated? And telling other men how to treat women? As if a woman doesn’t have it in themselves to know that, unless there’s a history of abuse, which is almost always perpetrated by males. I’m sorry, but most women know exactly what they want, but people like this person say they know better than women for women and men. What would be the reaction if a woman or genderqueer person gave this same advice?

[@jessicaholscher4097]

What is he looking at? is he talking to a child?

[@wateryourcermet]

🤮 this dude is SO bad that idk if I can finish the video. Sorry Joinen. I will try. But it’s a tough one 😅

[@sarahtelles1931]

Well would the sexists rather their women have to be forced to use their husbands money just for groceries and clothes for JR

[@smudge2950]

No moi :3

[@dinoee1188]

real

[@galacticgames1812]

Moi no

[@greenlizard4208]

meow

[@heinelmae4277]

Noii mo

[@XxRainbowDashhxX]

What is this guy's username? Lol

[@iskrassupercoolchannel]

hi

[@RainbowFlowerCrow]

What does "no moi" mean?

[@tattitanssi]

It means "Hello!"/"Good to see you!", an unformal greeting you use when you meet someone you know, like "Oh, hi!" in finnish.

[@Acorn905]

This vid is so weird, it's like the men must serve the woman even if its inconvenient to them and woman can't do anything for themselves and need to be independent to men. How about we focus on the person's strengths and assume less things off of gender and focus more on that person's health and financial situations? No we must follow the gender roles or else "the woke" is going to take over and society will "fall apart" TwT

[@jessicam6881]

Well based on some things I've seen women post maybe his point is if you are unhappy with your role in relationships try the more traditional role & see how you feel. I've seen post from "boss babes" saying they wish they could be a homemaker or they've realize climbing the corporate ladder isn't making them happy. I mean if you're a woman who enjoys the corporate work life or just working away from home that's fine, you do you. It's just the feminist put women down that want to be homemakers while shouting women should be able to do whatever they want. Society makes it sound like a woman that wants to stay at home, take care of the house, & rraise her kids should feel like she's not as accomplished as the the success business woman. It's also come to a point where it's hard to live on one income, not impossible but difficult. He seems to be coming from a perspective of traditional role aren't this horrible thing that they are made out to be. Yes there are things that need to change but overall it's not this thing that makes women miserable. My family is more traditional. These "corrections" he's talking about, like men are allowed to feel, are things that they seem to learn at some point. My dad has always been the tough guy that saw tears as weakness. But now he's grown to realize it's ok to cry sometimes.

[@audreydoyle5268]

Any women, or person for that matter, who talks down to homemakers is NOT a feminist. Anything that falls out of gender equity and equality in education and employment, closing the wage gap, suffrage, including every survivor of SA&DV in the discussion about MeToo, and advocating for both men's and women's rights, as well as for parental, not just maternity, leave, **anything** outside of that is not about feminism. Anyone who claims "it's all men,", "I don't want a son,", "trans women are not women,", "I don't need a man/partner,", or "who cares about men's rights and mental health, they're not victims,". They are femin*zis. We need to bring back the word femin*zi to describe TERFs, overly zealous misandrists, and the people who snub homemakers and mothers. The goal of feminism has always been about equity and then equality. I'm happy to hear about your father's growth, realising vulnerability not as a weakness, but as a strength, and a necessary part of being human.

[@brokenjuniper8387]

Waman don't pay