Jordan Peterson Educates Student on Sex

[@timothylamer5537]

The student wasn't woke. And listening politely isn't "speechless." But you did get "Jordan Peterson" right. Kudos.

[@player866]

I was thinking the same thing after watching this lol

[@EugeneMazur]

maybe student was woke, but nothing in this video suggested it outside of them proclaiming being progressive. Overall totally agree with you.

[@yayayoma]

@@EugeneMazur She described herself as a "redeemed" progressive. As in, the opposite of woke. Good for her. Perhaps from being a Peterson fan? Who knows?

[@jtatepdx]

Yes. Whoever runs this channel likely doesn’t give a s**t about the content, they just serve the Almighty Algorithm.

[@harit7421]

Anything for those clicks

[@solamente]

The part where he says that you should be comfortable talking about it with the person and if you aren’t, you shouldn’t be doing it, was powerful for me.

[@AstralApple]

Yes that was a good point Jordan made. I'll mention that the book "Taoist Yoga" by Eric Yudelove discusses the incredible power of sexual energy. It's part of the Taoist "Inner Alchemy" program.

[@sextempiric7137]

@brantpowell5483 Mate, if you're not an American, I understand your position, but if you are, than you shoud know what kind of people you're living among. Being brainwashed by bible for centuries and being tought by prists every single aspect of their life, what can you expect from such mob? To find it obvious?

[@OrkanKurter]

@brantpowell5483 The fact that you are in doubt tells me you might be raised, but not awake. And the answer is no. almost no one is being raised, and everyone is being taught to have sex with random people.

[@kamarwashington]

@brantpowell5483Nope. Everyone is thoughtlessly influenced by the cultural norms of the day. Little to no critical thinking goes into peoples decision making these days

[@seamonkey2641]

Then explain to me what the difference is between "talking about it" and asking for consent (which he criticizes).

[@pathacker4963]

The sex act is the most intimate act we will ever take part in. We shouldn’t make light of it.

[@marthastrayton]

Well said!❤

[@munfm]

So also is abortion as a form of deadly birth control.

[@jpsphoto-vision8803]

​@@munfmno, abortion is just murder... Actually it's child sacrifice to the god's of greed, pride, and of course lust

[@cspace1234nz]

.....it's not the most intimate act we will ever take part in, it's the most sexual act we will ever take part in

[@cspace1234nz]

@ImplicateOrder .....is this the bit where you get all smug and self-righteous, not only thinking that you know better but also think youi're better than everyone else when in fact you're just full of shit ?

[@marktheprussian]

People in our age literally have sex before they talk to each other about their values 💀 How that happens is completely beyond me

[@hugooliveira4440]

That's just the animal. When a human dont seek or at least recognise the Transcendent the only thing that remains is the animal nature

[@MsMesem]

Really? People have been having sex without saying a word to each other since time began.

[@Jackpo25]

Its because its only about the sex. Its only about living in the moment and having that experience. I was a far right Christian conservative for the majority of my life and I had a fling with this very liberal woman. Its easy to just hangout and not talk about certain topics. I do agree that its not healthy for the mind or body but it is so much fun.

[@tuckerbugeater]

people don't have values these days

[@Jackpo25]

@@tuckerbugeater who raised them?

[@scottt5400]

The "rule" still is "Don't have sex till after you're married." The problem is that folks don't want to do that, so they don't. The consequences follow, which they blame on everyone except themselves.

[@moazsharfuddin2697]

Bingo!

[@minniemoe4797]

Sex under birth control is never 100% full. Men don't like C tool on them because it doesn't give full senses. Pills and patches make women numb in their desires. Internal tools for women may cause irritation. Also, most women have the stongest drive during the ovulation when there's the highest chance to conceive. Nature turns out to be smarter than humans.

[@amberjohnson]

Exactly!

[@wardygrub]

And it’s ALWAYS the female who suffers most.

[@graham5990]

Well in modern times your ridiculed for being a virgin when it used to be praised................our culture turned It's back on God and these are just the consequences where people call sweet bitter and bitter sweet. Our modern times are just showing what humans in their true natures truly are as in the bible it states when a nation turns It's collective back on God he turns them over to the desires of their hearts.

[@dennisdoye7016]

REDEEMED PROGRESSIVE not a woke girl. That said, love how Jordan has worked the perfect 8 minutes on this subject. Listening to him talk through it is a thing of beauty.

[@STho205]

Agreed. This was a supportive question, and may have even been a planted questioner to allow Dr Peterson to do a very well polished 8 minute lecture. He has floated this very monolog on several chat shows the past couple years, so it is in his bad of tricks at the ready (not meaning that phrase in a bad way)

[@ast4127]

No one can control words like Jordan. Its a symphony.

[@ast4127]

@@STho205 Well if no one in Sweden (or England, or USA or Canada..) dares to have this debate - (since you would immediately be accused of protecting rapists) I couldnt care less if it was planned or not. No one I have ever heard has had a better answer then Jordan.

[@Nome_utente_generico]

Exactly. Click bait

[@pabtorre]

Snoozed girl? As in woke but back to sleep... 😂

[@leighflorkevich9916]

I 'came of age' in the mid 70's when the sexual revolution was at it's peak. Unfortunately, like most of my peers I took advantage of the easily available birth control and slept around a lot and just as Dr. Petersen explained, most of my sexual liaisons were fueled by alcohol. To this day I regret it and it's the one thing in my past I would change if I could. I eventually met and married the love of my life and we were together for 38 years until he suddenly died in 2021. I advise any young person to abstain from sex until they have established a committed relationship with a partner. I have been both promiscuous and in a committed marriage and believe me when I say my marriage was a much happier life than the promiscuity.

[@bleechrcreechrr]

My condolences about your husband

[@oglou34]

Lmaooo

[@sirdudeness1386]

❤❤❤

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree112]

leighflorkevich9916 ... you had your fun first, and when you got bored of it, and got older, and lost the apetite for it, you decided to get together with someone who would give you what you needed in that next phase of your life. Your "written contribution" was damaging, but now that I corrected it, it may offer some value to others. People do what they want and what they can get away with.

[@conniefoxx9813]

Same here. In fact, I was so young when I started having sex that I had no clue what exactly to expect for my own pleasure, so I fell into a pattern of just trying to please everyone else. Now that I'm older, I wish I'd waited and learned more about being an individual before giving myself to someone else.

[@bartman59laj55]

Every single time I hear this man speak, I am amazed at his ability to be so sensible in this age we live in.....wow

[@RocknRolla_texthatgirl_com]

he's an absolute imbecille! lfmao

[@arniekando6846]

@@Peterbrendanalbert It is not look at the world, today it seems to be...

[@shaunsteele6926]

most people over a certain age can still reason and think sensibly about things. We still remember the world before it became completely unhinged.

[@Krztph1331]

The alcohol on campus point was spot on. Universities use to be respected as places of higher learning, not to sow your oats.

[@hiddenname9809]

Having sex is not just sharing bodies and bodily fluids. It means sharing a part of yourself that you don't even know exists. It affects our psyche. We are never the same.

[@bitTorrenter]

Well I've been to prostitutes, not often, but occasionally in the past. It doesn't feel great having to feel the need to get your needs fulfilled like that but you're grateful you did. It avoids a lot of potential problems with making attempts at having relationships.

[@vir00]

​@@bitTorrenterThere is a loss of wonder and innocence the more you do something. When you before were overjoyed to hold a hand and kiss a neck later it is excruciatingly boring and like a addict a higher dose of stimulation or taboo breaking is wanted (like paying for some to perform depriving acts). Sleeping around dulls your capacity to enjoy smaller joy's and to stick together when things get tough.

[@AbigaleKirsten]

@@bitTorrenteryou use bodies of individuals with low respect for their own bodies, to fill a void, and feel grateful about it as it helps a problem do you attempting at relationships. All i read was, a problem, after a problem, after a problem, to fix a problem that is still a problem. I personally wouldn’t feel grateful about such an act but you’re entitled to your opinion and feelings. I do believe the act has become passionless, performative and more transactional to you.

[@pleasebemonday]

To hear this makes me so glad that I didn’t do the whole hookup thing when I was younger. I always equated sexual attraction to emotional attraction. One did not exist without the other.

[@marthastrayton]

You are right, let them say what they want, sexual intimacy is connected to the emotions! Specially for women!!

[@maryb3620]

Yes,except that far too many women today feel the pressure that sexual flirting is not romantic flirting necessarily& they would better serve themselves to wait& find out what kind of man he really is bc you might be turned off by what you discover about his character. There is the other problem of too many women today suffer in this promiscuous activity& so is goal pressure from men just bc a whole lot of men like it easy to have sex with no commitment but they eventually tire of that but women have to defend themselves in not indulging his lust& sexual appeal & come ins to you as if it meant love or a love connection or possible love connection bc it vast majority of cases love isn’t in the picture& never will be. Lust isn’t love,sex isn’t love. Love is love & committed to only one person,not multiple persons simultaneously. Women have the power in this situation. Women lose their power when they get intoxicated some or a lot drunk and/or do drugs too. All of that erodes,even erases a women’s power in controlling that situation. If you are sober,you will be smarter about never putting yourself in any scenario where you might get raped by a guy you just met or saw at the bars or parties a few times& talked,even flirted some with the guy. Sober will still keep a woman in control of herself& thus,staying away fm nightmare scenarios like accepting a ride home or a ride to the next bar or party with a guy you don’t really know or dated long enough to know. Drive yourself,be the designated driver& that way you will always keep your path away fm the bar or the party under your own control. That does not mean that you give some drunk guy who has the hots for you a ride alone or with his male friend& your female friend who is very drunk bc she is not in control with the other guy who is likely drunk too& the guy after you is not in control either. This is a very dangerous situation for your lives bc an accident could easily happen as a result of fighting off some drunk guy. It’s never worth it. You can give him your number only as long as he gives you his number. Then talk on the phone,text,email,meet for lunch or coffee. Do a fun group activity like putt putt golf, roller skate, bowling,kite flying, a board game like scrabble yo see if he is intelligent enough for you, bridge,canasta, poker but not strip poker ever,, book club discussions,philosophy or Catholic or Christian or Jewish clubs to talk about current applications of faith in todays world, or political club,etc.

[@TheBruceKeller]

It's fine for a few times to experiment, but the people that chronically do it for years are definitely dealing with some issues.

[@tomfoolery333]

I believe that makes you demisexual. (sorry, I could not resist).

[@ppo2424]

Got to say i hooked up a lot and loved it, but it's limited and eventually you want more.

[@6alcantara]

I scratch my head everytime I hear someone call this guy "evil".

[@randomyoutuber308]

Its like when you quote negative statistics about children growing up in single mother households...single moms get offended. When this guy talks about the negatives of people sleeping around and not having actual relationships he's offensive to those people. In both cases, they just don't want to hear the truth.

[@SeppoNakkinen]

You can see this same behaviour in all religions throughout the history and today. Globalism, sameness, equality whatever is largely a religion, where they have their dogma and opposing views are evil, "you are going to hell", infidel...Funny part about this religion is that it's almost exclusively Europeans, "white" that can be bad.

[@ziggyschumann5284]

Anyone who speaks the truth has always had enemies from the dark side.

[@j.clements2093]

They would have to admit that he’s right and how they have been living their lives is wrong. Hating him is soooo much easier.

[@ultimania-pro]

It is always easier to blame somebody else than it is to be self aware.

[@geoffn54]

As usual Peterson putting common sense into words.

[@mikecastelluccio7072]

I agree…especially when he speaks of the effects of alcohol

[@arepadetrigo]

Yes, and as he talks common sense, it becomes ever clearer how God's biblical instructions have been correct all along. People say His laws are oppressive when it turns out His laws are for our good. But people continue not to see that.

[@textech4056]

He is damn sure an expert on human behavior.

[@LoudAngryJerk]

that isn't usual for him, and he isn't doing it here either. She's speechless because what he said makes no sense.

[@keenfire8151]

@@arepadetrigo The Bible was written by humans. Could it be that humans have repeatable patterns? Why go straight to God?

[@davidblack7528]

I slept through wokeness. In my day there were just two genders; even a bit of respect for the women. Jordan Peterson is dead on when he speaks of the problems of sex and alcohol.

[@mrnt1257]

I watch a lot of true crime. Most young ladies who are murdered in these stories have drank too much. Like he says, people don’t talk about it. We have so many opportunities to warn college students how dangerous it is, and yet it isn’t happening.

[@KA-jm2cz]

​@@mrnt1257I think that talking to college students more really solve these problems. If you search fir serious crimes by statistics - they have collapsed in modern days.

[@ronaldviens7862]

You're not alone! Myself, I was ambushed by all this dissatisfaction in very young, young adults- with how they were put together under the process currently used in the Almighty's universe. That there are now more than two genders was even more of an ambush, but if I think rationally- if the Almighty could put all this together alone without our consent, well if it is decided to create 32,290 new genders, who am I to second guess the Almighty? What does anyone say to the Almighty-- Bad Call?

[@TheQueenrevolution]

As a person who adopted the term "woke" when it was created, I HATE that it's being used by the radical left. How could a term first being used by a small group of Black "conscious" grassroots group of ppl be now the term for all of this clownery... saddens me that I can no longer use it.

[@pinkshirt3549]

​@@TheQueenrevolutionI've never seen it being used by the "radical left" rather the opposite. And right now the word is just thrown around as generic insult, no longer means anything specific and the title of this video is yet another proof of this.

[@desertdan]

I always felt uncomfortable about sex without commitment even as a young man. I felt it far too personal thing to do without really having an emotional bond. I got married at 23 and I’m still happily married today , I’m 58 .I think that taking time to truly know your self then you can see what what you are looking for in your future.

[@e.zachlee-wright9160]

I could write your exact letter except that I am six years older. It amazes me how many people are surprised when they learn my wife and I have been married for 40 years.

[@juliarichmond5904]

@desertdan and @e.Zachlewright9160 , question for you both, did either of you experience any kind of ridicule from your peers for your convictions against casual sex? Just curious.

[@desertdan]

No, when I was younger I kept my personal life to myself in regards to my feelings on things like that.

[@patrickcowan8830]

and the canadian phsyc dept wants him to be reeducated...they need reeducation

[@McChrister]

Right!?🤔 This Doctor makes more sense day by day….People wake up and listen to Jordan Peterson and do NOT try to silence this intellectual, Canada. Thank you…..🙏🏼🍀👋🏼🇨🇦

[@r7733hl]

You can fix stupid. And if you think I’m talking about Jordan, you’re in that first sentence.

[@TheHigherVoltage]

No...Peterson needs an education. He's just selling misinformation to people who don't know any better.

[@TheMightyOdin]

@@TheHigherVoltageAn example of this “misinformation “ please.

[@panagiotisandoniou2899]

​@@TheHigherVoltageI guess you don't understand any English it makes sense what you're saying Damm some people

[@TheCanalZone]

Peterson is so good at staying on point. He rarely digresses.

[@tamerajardine-baker171]

I love listening to Mr. Peterson, he explains it with logic! He said it brilliantly.

[@riddickj16]

I love it

[@bradthompson5383]

JP is a fraud. He's an addict that whoreships a genital mutilating demon.

[@bradthompson5383]

JP whoreships a being that commanded genital mutilation. JP is thus a lying coward.

[@vjs4539]

I feel so bad for kids who are living in this extremely wicked generation

[@sarah-jaynemcdonald2594]

All we can do is steer them straight when we can. We are the silent majority. Don't forget.

[@Mr.Ekshin]

Just look at the ratio on this (right now it's about 11,000 up to 400 down). So there's only about 400 kids... definitely under age 25 group... who hear this and see it as a direct assault on their "lifestyle". Someday they will probably look back and think, "Damn, that guy was right". Especially if they end up with kids of their own. Nobody wants to see their daughter stay single, and get used by a long list of guys... until the day comes when she's all used up. This gen-Z crowd is in for a shock in about 20 or 30 years, when a significant portion of their women end up as part of the "crazy old cat lady" demographic.

[@KA-jm2cz]

It is still better than earlier. New things have also good sides - it is about right balance.

[@lizardog]

I feel sorry for anyone who listens to a man like Peterseon and agrees with him.

[@sarah-jaynemcdonald2594]

@@lizardog You do? Why? You don't think he comes from a place of logic?

[@jasonmoquin]

I have to admit, this was surgical-precision-level dialogue and is spot-on. I like to consider myself a 'progressive type', but in this area there is no question that the laissez-faire' way in which young people treat sexuality these days does not seem to, by and large, lead to great results. When you have people using the term "body count" and it's in the twenties of partners and even MORE, that can't be good, can it?! It devalues the whole thing, in my eyes.

[@bananaanna1373]

Senior citizens have an equally promiscuous culture. STDs in the older folks is high and rising.

[@robertwilson3866]

It's all to do with the parents.

[@MyRofaith]

Well said, Jason. I agree wholeheartedly.

[@djolemacola]

@@robertwilson3866 I mean it's theoretically possible to have a truly potent, loving relationship with dozens of people... but that's sooo rare and requires such a specific type of a person the odds are you are not in that position and the attempt will not result in what you would expect but rather something much worse. In any case it's very taxing for the whole body and mind.

[@bradthompson5383]

And yet, you respect a man that whoreships a genital mutilation fiend.

[@ardyjeen6144]

“The cheapening of both parties…” So true. So true. Pray up.

[@AbigaleKirsten]

I loved when he said that

[@janetscully3337]

He hits the mark. I'm 75 year old woman who has lived through all these eras. The damage is real on every level. Using abortion as a means of birth control remains a problem for mental health in the long run. Nobody is talking about the emotional cost of sexual freedom.

[@kansmill]

It’s not freedom. It is anarchy. Sexual anarchy brings us all to a worse place, even those who hold the line of sexual self control in their personal lives.

[@IMaximusDMI]

@@kansmill You trade your potential financial burden for emotional baggage.

[@lawrencequave7361]

I'm extremely impressed with the way Jordan Peterson can talk about ANYTHING 'off the cuff' and give massive relevant information and insight that most people can understand without all the stuttering and pausing that most of the rest of us have to do to gather our thoughts on the fly. The man is truly gifted to be able to do that.

[@nedrini1055]

I thought I was the only one that noticed that. You never hear him say um or anything like that

[@andrewhaywood3853]

He waffles, and sometimes he just stops dead. That is his thinking time, and he stops himself from saying what he really thinks regularly, which is worrying. What is he thinking that is so unacceptable?

[@bruceang82]

@@andrewhaywood3853 I don't see how you got that from what he is saying at all. I admire his ability to stop....& actually think it through a bit more before continuing, I don't think he's afraid to go on about something "unacceptable" that's what he regularly does.

[@bradthompson5383]

JP is a drug addict that whoreships a genital mutilating psychopath.

[@bradthompson5383]

@@andrewhaywood3853 How much he wants to rape children, like the God he whoreships.

[@ADay1nTheL1f3]

Gotta love that JP. He is such a genius at reducing a problem down to its actual causes, whereas most will blame the symptoms.

[@gailcarey3597]

Bottom line, our society rejects moral standards because they may invite the consequences on themselves.

[@jeannineterran2621]

I feel youngsters have lost so much. Sex was once an exciting next step in a relationship. It was something special.

[@tuckerbugeater]

It was special when women didn't lie about having 50 partners

[@juliarichmond5904]

@tuckerbugeater, which supports the wisdom of sex only within marriage.

[@salty-006_7]

As one gets older and more mature we see how quick time flies by. Sex with a long-term partner becomes quality over quantity. And finally understanding each other's emotional needs and growing in sexual maturity is the reward to a beautiful relationship.

[@andrewnash7696]

Logic and common sense oozes from Mr Peterson.

[@safffff1000]

That is kryptonite to the left

[@emanuel81111]

thats how human are suppose to use intelect. 1. reading alot. 2. thinking about the problem 3. talking to others to get some feedback 4. get solid data 5. coming with a solution

[@Mcfreddo]

Haha false. For one, he tries to justify for the sky daddy. He's a word salad dude.

[@mustang607]

And that's why he's hated by the far left and their plans to destabilize society so they can take over during the chaos they cause.

[@safffff1000]

@@Mcfreddo Jordan's salad is too complex for you to understand is what you mean? It's mathematically impossible for all the components of life to come together at the same time to work as a system of a cell or human life. It was created by something,

[@lisaarata174]

I learned about important things the hard way. I saw myself and my friends getting used, using each other, and frankly, using ourselves by trying to pretend we could do whatever we wanted, being dishonest about what we wanted.

[@Rizik1986]

And your value drops each time. This is how attractive woman end up alone. No one wants a ran through women. Not for keeps.

[@ericperkins3078]

@@Rizik1986 COUGAR!!

[@Rizik1986]

@@ericperkins3078 Cougars need love too! 😂

[@markpaisley6430]

MEN : Remember, YOU TOO have the right to consent. So when women THROW themselves at you even if they’re drunk LET IT BE KNOWN.

[@Misfit710]

I turned down my own fiancé because she was drunk and I wasn’t. That aspect of our relationship is plenty healthy so there was no question a sober her would want it also; I just couldn’t do it. It seemed wrong and it absolutely would have been. Spousal rape is a thing and that is something I feel needs to be discussed more.

[@AbigaleKirsten]

Men definitely have all the rights to consent. I’ve spoke to at least 3 guys in 1 year who were r@ped. 1 of them were roofied at camp. CAMP….. the issue is there really is two idiots at play. The idiot guys that roam around saying ‘we always want sex and won’t turn down any opportunity’ and proceed to make fun of anyone that turns down the opportunity. Then you have the other idiots who take this popularised notion and think they don’t need male consent because no matter what, they want it right?. Both are horrible notions and stereotypes so widely believed. But guys gotta speak up about this, speak up that they need consent and NO they don’t want to sleep with just anybody if an opportunity arises.

[@Misfit710]

@@AbigaleKirsten well said. I get made fun of for not being willing to drop my pants for any woman who bats her eyes at me. If I don’t have both an emotional connection and fail to notice an intelligence capable of of deep conversations I have zero sexual desire and attraction is nonexistent. It shuts people down pretty quickly when I bring up the fact I have standards though. Truth hurts.

[@jacklangley861]

Peterson is simply a master of logic and articulation. I'm so glad he's around in th these trying times. 🙏

[@reginaelizabethbrown1963]

Good day to you, Jacklangley861 🙋🏽 Your description of Jordan Peterson ...💯accurate. I absolutely concur! And your second sentence, well... I've often said the same to myself ...I'm also happy that this man, my brother, is around and being used by TMH's Ruach🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@XnonTheGod]

He's a master of fallacies

[@tomperkins5657]

I am absolutely stunned. Where did this guy come from??!! I'm a counselor and I am a product of Woodstock and the 60's and I have seen and heard it all. No, I really have. I grind my teeth with Hollywood and Britbox that make jumping in and out of bed, WEEKLY, with a different partner is the norm - and fun. Really? I get to pick up the pieces and, as the good doctor says, it's not pretty, especially emotionally.

[@philipmulville8218]

I couldn't agree more.

[@marthastrayton]

I agree too!

[@mht5875]

That kind of lifestyle leaves heavy scars. Where I come from, you want to have sex, you get married, assume responsibility for your spouse, and put your spouse ahead of your self. And the marriage is exclusive, meaning, you must be faithful, and not allow anyone to divert your marriage. Period.

[@MaryDunford]

I've never seen the appeal.

[@tomperkins5657]

@@mht5875 Well said, very well said!

[@danielread4490]

Listening to him speak is like watching Da Vinci work on his newest project.

[@ChildofYAH_]

?

[@igalvis1168]

I'm sorry but thats insulting to Da Vinci.

[@dr.badass702]

A bit much. Maybe dial it down a notch

[@shaunsteele6926]

"don't have sex until you get married" is still the best advice

[@tarnos4153]

Jordan is a God sent. Thank you for speaking logically and sensibly.

[@perfectstorm37]

I got a girl pregnant…..it ruined my life and I’ve never really recovered. I’m now 87 and I’ve had nothing but heartache. Jordan is so right.

[@pauls.2308]

Brother, you are a Child of GOD, and at your age you would seemingly be closer than many of us to reuniting with HIM. If the mistakes of your past have hurt you all this time, start looking at your Future, and begin now building a New Life centered around JOY LIVING for GOD ALMIGHTY 🙏🏿 In The Name of Jesus & The Holy Spirit, I pray for your Peaceful recovery 🙏🏾 GOD Bless, paul

[@Lampwick-dz1zq]

Poster for using condoms .

[@Lampwick-dz1zq]

@@pauls.2308- that was awesome Paul 🙏🏼

[@perfectstorm37]

If you mess around and don’t live by the laws, then you will inevitably need to prepare for the consequences……that’s what I’ve had to contend with. Sleeping around is probably the worst thing you could possibly do….it really is ‘fuxing’ stupid!

[@Lampwick-dz1zq]

@@perfectstorm37 - you have to Use a condom . The ones that do get tail 🤣🤣

[@Chuby_ubesie]

Basically what he's saying is you can't eat your cake and have it.

[@KnuxDeluxe]

So glad this man is healthy again and continuing what he does 🙏

[@TheAcad3mic]

This is years old.

[@slopoke22]

Didn't know he's been not in good health? What happened to him?

[@dr.badass702]

​@@slopoke22he was hooked on benzos for a while

[@JohnDoe-bx6ri]

​@@slopoke22addiction, depression. He apparently fixed that with a purely meat diet

[@jmuraidajr]

That guy HIT THE NAIL RIGHT ON THE HEAD he was very clear and right to the point!!!

[@JoseyWales44s]

Wait....didn't she say she was a "redeemed progressive"? That would indicate she is no longer a progressive; wouldn't it? Peterson, as usual, is brilliant.

[@searchrankoptimize]

I interpret that as " i redeemed from "___________" which I was, to now becoming a progressive. Thoughts?

[@paulmanners1364]

Words well weighed and well assembled . Bulletproof logic

[@brendarobertson9101]

Sex is not a form of entertainment. There is responsibility and accountability to this act. That’s why you should be married, cause the consequences. If you’re not can be devastating but that’s not our world anymore. God wants us to wait till marriage. He wants us to respect and cherish the act of the lovemaking, not use it as a form of entertainment.

[@dragonmartijn]

You are correct involving God in this. Sexual misconduct, like sex before marriage, which is in the eyes of God sexual misconduct, is on of the most important reasons why people go to hell.

[@foysollee750]

Lol hahahahahahah

[@nomadsland7195]

U mean, god loves to watch only 'married couple' and 'wedding night' category. Okk... I see.

[@TheHigherVoltage]

" God wants ..." That's where you lose all credibility with intelligent, thinking people.

[@TheHigherVoltage]

Yeah, really. Intelligent, thinking people realize that there are numerous religions and numerous Gods believed by people who all hold up the same types of "evidence" that their myths and God(s) are true and everyone else's religions and God(s) are false...and of course, they all point to those myths as "unquestionable source of truth" -> just have faith! If someone's justification for any position is "the God(s) says"...they have no other justification for their position other than the logical fallacy "argument from authority". No different than "cause I says so!" and playing their God in the 3rd person. You might as well be an Odinian holding up Norse Holy Texts and saying "God says...." Absolutely no different. No credibility with intelligent thinking people.

[@gingercox6468]

My son spent a year in jail because the woman had morning after regrets. Then she lied to her parents, the cops, and the court. So he went to jail with a huge bail that was unaffordable. It wasn’t until after he was released that we learned the truth. Finally the court decided she lied. He took a plea deal to get out of jail, he got 3 years probation and ordered to have no contact. The woman went about her life probably doing the same to other men. She had claimed rape when she begged him to come to bed with him. Personally I want to prosecute that woman. But since they are all consenting adults it’s not up to me.

[@RextheRebel]

All who lie about such a crime should be given the same time behind bars that the accused would have gotten.

[@Rizik1986]

Maybe he will think before does something stupid again.

[@neilsun2521]

That's why it's the most commonly lied about crime, according official crime stats. 30-40% of all womens claims are later admitted fabrications. (Top reasons they do it is 1. revenge; 2. to provide a false alibi. And I guess because there's no accountability...)

[@dallasburgess5329]

A plea deal is typically for guilty people who are guilty, but get a lesser punishment for telling the truth...so it seems a plea deal after serving part of sentence is also irregular. He should look further into this IMO.

[@ericperkins3078]

If he took a "plea deal", he admitted guilt--you can't have one without the other unless he had an unethical lawyer.

[@mdh1775]

It's crazy that we need to have conversations like this when so many of us hear these things and think "isn't this just common sense?".

[@christineholloway8321]

A lot of people don't even have that these days ❤x

[@mdh1775]

@@christineholloway8321 Very true and very sad isn't it?

[@christineholloway8321]

@@mdh1775 unfortunately yes ❤️x

[@starshine9836]

The world is so broken down that many children wasnt shared about morality, value, respect. Instead, many are grown to be entitled and irresponsible to do things without thinking of consequences or even bearing consequences cuz they wasn't shown that they need to be responsible. The time they learn, they learn it in the hard way, get punished by the law.

[@sirblackshield8000]

Exactly 😂

[@mauriceharting5877]

That was a very mature explanation by Prof Jordan Peterson on relationships and sexual maturity in an age of promiscuity and the me too movement

[@JoeKovacic]

Do not assume the risk with anyone that you could see yourself with on a permanent basis. We all put on our best and look our best when we are dating BUT that is NOT everyday life. If you feel bad the next day understand that YOU MADE that choice and learn from it. Don’t sell yourself so cheaply for pleasure, deal with control now or it WILL plague you through out your life. Sex is NOT free, not free of emotion, not free of consequence, not free of morality and not free of future issues.

[@nerdly44]

Not a wasted syllable. He is a pleasure to listen to.

[@crivo5742]

The cheapening of both parties...BINGO!

[@prasanayoga]

Why is it so radical to hear someone like JP just say what we all know is right and true?

[@Rizik1986]

Because that means we have to be responsible. No one wants that these days. Everyone blames someone else.

[@elbeduinoandino]

Because we live in an era where speaking the truth IS the most radical thing to do.

[@niguel4438]

Words of wisdom as always.

[@sprawlii346]

I think its clear that a clear and sober state of mind constitutes consent. Sobriety is consent. Usually either one person is drunk in cases of rape on college campuses or even both involved are drunk. A sober mind is your best protection against making choices you may regret in 12 hours.

[@neilsun2521]

Well in that case every girl I ever slept with has raped me! 'cos I was always drunk throughout my 20s flings.

[@ashleybryant305]

"AIDS wasn't a plus" 😂

[@solsrescueable]

Sex should only be between a husband and wife. There are too many consequences otherwise.

[@WalkingmanPattaya]

Grow up and read something other than a Bible study 😂😮

[@MrBBaron]

Is there sex after marriage? lol

[@solsrescueable]

@@MrBBaron I sure hope so!!

[@dragonmartijn]

@@MrBBaronHusband and wife should be obliged to have sex with each other after marriage. Without contraception. The western world will starve out otherwise. Of course the government mustn’t control this, but everyone must know it is a moral obligation.

[@davidschmidt7761]

Yes I only sleep with married women

[@Ante1133]

I remember the times when you had to actually be proven guilty to be punished for the crime.

[@allanmichel1041]

That's a "wow"! You couldn't explain this any better.

[@frankkolmann4801]

Every generation relearns the mistakes of the previous generation. The young never learn from their parents. Then they try to make up rules, that never work. It is a never ending story.

[@thrilla72]

Most people do that. I tell you, it is a story of complete and utter stupidity

[@madelainepetrin1430]

Funny because I hadn't realized that alcohol was a big factor in hooking up. I don't drink much, so it's probably why I don't have a high body count. I like to know the person, flirt with, and anticipate the moment. But now I see why some people can have sex with so many people. If drunk...do they even remember them the next day, or is it a bit of a blur?

[@chrispolen2712]

This is one of JP's greatest "performances". Bravo.

[@Lastbus2]

Genius at work. Simply superb orator.

[@basiemusic]

Wow! This was really powerful. I respect this man so much. He's incredibly wise, down to earth and human at the same time.

[@DanFedMusic]

He's right, and he basically just said the same thing the Bible said only now we have the stats to prove it.

[@jasonstevens3071]

FACTS.

[@tymz-r-achangin]

Exactly! The 1960's came and music, like today, is a huge factor ans was allowed to grossly influence our youth into rebelling against good morals, values, and principles. We then had an epidemic of men and women w- hore-s instead of being honorable to put in the time, effort, and work of building a genuine relationship. Their utter carelessness that was encouraged by the music industry then lead to the epidemic of aids and other diseases which has now killed millions of people. Instead of fixing the problem at the root of the cause by encouraging the sanctity of s-x within a marriage, their idea was to merely find a way to keep having s-x with whoever you want and for whatever reason you want while preventing the spread of the diseases and then even encourage s-x through being taught in our schools. Even back in the 90's when I was in school, there was not one time we were taught s-x within marriage but we were taught that s-x was our choice to have it (regardless of what our parents taught) and we need to use protection.

[@dbdb703]

A brilliant man who can convey his message so well and clear. More people need to listed to Jordan.

[@derekboyt3383]

The party is still raging!

[@Nate-bn5kk]

He's so close to getting it right, the answer to all of this is God. We didn't have this problem when this nation was a nation of godly people...

[@johndavila5096]

Its amazing that this man speaks the same truths we all understand , if we are able to take accountability. The idea that there's a toxic masculinity and the feminine actions have a virtuous stamp on it regardless, is absurd. There's just as many toxic individuals on both sides , but the males nature is more physically violent. Any honest adult can understand that , and the fact accountability has been absolved for certain individuals is fucking crazy.

[@Cdr_Mansfield_Cumming]

A good audience that was willing to listen to Peterson’s answer. As a 50+ year old, who went to University and had the experiences, married for 34 years with grandkids today, he is right! Sex is free and easy when you are young. It’s only when you are older, that you understand it’s anything but free.

[@perfectstorm37]

What a debater and a splendid bloke eh. He hits it!

[@deemcc7784]

So, you were a useless partner and dad? You sound like a whiney biotch! 87 and your pathetic was ruined by an innocent child? You knocked her up yesterday? You sh be glad you got laid once! Get lost loser!

[@mmmmmmmmmmm10]

He hits it about as hard as your 107yr old father hit you as a child. He is definitely a master debater, a masdebater.

[@motumoyu4566]

When you forget Gods word. Mans rules will fail everytime.

[@lisakourkafas6410]

In other words don't have sex until you are married. Wish I had taken that advice.

[@MM-yi9zn]

We so need Jordan’s sensible & historic perspective to provide vital realism in our confused society!

[@LeoJBatt]

EXCELLENT!!! Thank you!!!

[@ast4127]

This man is so intelligent its just pure awe.

[@turkwendell6904]

If he was smart he could say it in 35 seconds. Plus he just says these things that are so unimportant okay sex has never been free who cares even if he's right just who cares how about something important

[@TheHigherVoltage]

He speaks intelligently, but says a lot of verifiable lies and half-truths that only sell to ignorant people. Take his first claim in this video...that effective birth control wasn't around until the 1960s. That's a ridiculous lie. Do some basic research. Google "Birth control in the 1800s". Or "Benjamin Franklin The Instructor abortion recipe". Or birth control throughout human history. Peterson is either ignorant or knowingly lying.

[@DontSlamCoke]

​@@turkwendell6904you have the attention span of a goldfish

[@sarah-jaynemcdonald2594]

He is wrong about this being the only time in history women could choose to be pregnant or not. I'm not an expert in the slightest, but I'm sure there's somewhere in the old testament where women would drink something to stop them from becoming pregnant.

[@eskuriad]

So reading between the lines he said if you go on birth control, dress provocatively, have a few drinks and get assaulted it’s your fault. Sounds par for the course for JP and GOP.

[@praveenliverpool]

Golden words Keep it coming Gordon👍

[@vaughnslavin9784]

Always an educator!

[@dowth3]

Why the divisive and misleading title to this video? Oh, that's right: CLICK BAIT! Please stop fanning the flames; this was a civilized Q + A on an important topic.

[@robella758]

Aside from the sense he's talking, look how well he keeps eye contact with the person he's talking to. Amazing guy.

[@JDwJC11]

WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE! If someone isn't willing to marry you, they are not committed to a long term relationship. Sex has consequences physically, psychologically, and spiritually. Sex is meant to unite a couple and a fruit of that unity is new life.

[@madwhitehare3635]

If I ever had the courage or the brains to ask him a question I would have to flee the room immediately after. His fierce eye contact as he answers his questioners would very possibly make me pee myself 😬

[@YossGold]

Actually, in this case, it seemed like she asked a genuine question, she genuinely wanted him to answer and was very engaged in what he had to say about the matter. Every time they panned to the students, if you could see her, she was engaged and nodding.

[@lisasaunders4835]

What he is really saying here is that sex belongs only inside of Marriage and then all of these questions will magically disappear. Then the only question/discussion would center around "Do we want the possibility of our intimacy producing a baby or do we want to wait." But he knew that he could not say this without being mobbed as he put it.

[@brownehawk7744]

No hes not saying that, you're saying that. Its ok to have sex outside of marriage, just make sure its a with a partner you love and appreciate, and not some random person.

[@BehavingBradly]

He's not quite making that full assertion, more like a warning that the reasons for keeping sex within marriage were more than just avoiding unwanted pregnancy, and society assuming that and having this unbridled "sexual revolution" has failed to see the consequences.

[@CMCDragonkai]

Technology changes us. We cannot rollback the clock. What we can do is learn to adapt. There will always be teething issues when new tech enables things. Our civilisation will adapt.

[@baddbeliever]

i remember in around 1995 women would open doors for me, ask me out, and sometimes even pick up the tab and or go dutch on the bill and we could be involved sexually. but we took our time to get to know each other and trust each other and then we knew when to open the blackbook and do "booty calls". it sounds trashy but it was the way of the 90s. women were finally children of hippies and yuppies and had a strong sense of confidence about their roles with men. and i do believe they were still more cautious and less promiscuous than their moms who experimented with drugs and like docpete said, liberated entirely without caution. i think the problem we face today is that women keep a count of lovers stricter then men and that count rules their sense of pride and shame. when they count is still somewhat in their control, they wake up and regret it, and they think they can "erase" the unwanted last digit. that's when they call rape. that's the very evil of our human ego and nature. sex is often regretful especially if its to fall to our whims for purely pleasure and especially under the influence of alcohol or drugs. good clean sex during daylight hours is how i remember the 90s and that was a christian society in texas that was in their most liberal city. then, culture shifted after 9/11. that has still to recover to find middle ground.

[@DeusExMachina10001]

The only way to protect yourself as a man in the metoo era is to avoid women in your personal life, and to never be alone with one at work. There's literally nothing else to be done within the current legal and social paradigm. Women can and do simply change the rules regarding boundaries to suit their preferences whenever they want to. The consequences of an accusation are not worth whatever positivity might have come of an interaction with a woman.

[@GenXMafia]

There's good ones out there man you're just looking in the wrong places. Work was always...and I do mean ALWAYS the worst place imaginable besides maybe a bar to find a woman...long before "me too". Number one rule my whole life when dating was never crap where you eat. Work is off limits. Something goes south in the relationship and you'll still have to deal with her from now on until you quit your job or retire. Get off social media and learn to socialize like we did before the internet and computers. Humanity is doomed if we don't get back to face to face socializing.

[@DeusExMachina10001]

@@GenXMafia It's not a matter of there being "good ones" out there. It a matter of society being so absurdly gynocentric that there is simply no woman who is good enough to make that bet worthwhile. The amount of risk you have to take is quite literally impossible for even the best woman to overcome. And really, what do they offer when you really think about it? Sex is not only easier than ever to procure, but it can be had from pros or dolls if you really want it (or just your hand if you don't care enough to bother). Comradery and companionship can come from male friends, relatives, and animals, and you'll get far purer love from a Golden Retriever than you'd ever get from a woman. The only thing a wife/girlfriend can provide that you can't get more cheaply, more reliably, and with better quality elsewhere is children. But even then, single father households statistically raise children just as well as dual parent households, and anonymous surrogacy is a far safer option if you absolutely must have kids. That way, you don't have a wife who can take them from you at the drop of a hat. Sorry man but until the nature of society fundamentally shifts away from gynocentrism, men are far better off keeping to themselves. And we aren't going to get a shift like that before everything collapses.

[@LowlierThanThow]

He advocates a position most societies have held over millenia: no sex before marriage.

[@MiraOm]

Very true - he nailed it.

[@aBoyHasNoName87]

Stupid title. Nobody is "left speechless" here, also nobody is "confronted" as the description wants to tell us. It's just one person asking a question, another one giving a long answer. Also no reason why the self-identified "redeemed progressive" had to be referred to as "woke".

[@tomgreene1843]

Agreed.

[@fex144]

Not stupid. Clever click-bait. Got you to watch it.

[@letfreedomreignhonk324]

Weird that that is what you got out of the video.

[@factchecker6674]

@@fex144true, it’s a completely logical title

[@SKF358]

The historical valuation of sex as recent as 1945 was correct. Sex is permissible in marriage only and with openness to procreation. 10,000 years of human history vs. 60 years wins again.

[@yamyite]

“Aids wasn’t a plus” 😂

[@carloss9318]

I hate this "TITLES" that had nothing to do with the video, it's time to do something about it KZbin. Its a trend to get clics.

[@nicknick725]

Hes such a legend

[@missmelissa3573]

Interestingly I had a number of partners in University and late high school but have zero regrets. Each encounter was interesting and at times upsetting as well but I learned and grew from those experiences. I wouldn’t change it for the world. I feel sorry for people that live a life that’s so safe that they miss out on the roller coaster these experiences can deliver. I’ve been with my husband for 23 years now and have no need to explore another relationship like so many other couples do.

[@man-observing-world]

How does he feel about it? What do your kids think about it if you have them? What do your parents think about it?

[@silentios7336]

403

[@jacquelynn2051]

I know that’s right and good for you as autonomy is a thing. I’m amazed DAILY how in many ways we are an advanced society, but in other ways we are stuck in the stone ages. I’m not demented as far as I know, but as a 40 something Gen X’er I was surrounded by a plethora of good solid wives/mothers including my own….and they were accompanied by cheating men. These were Baby Boomers AND the Silent Generation. Now women (many Gen X women of my generation) have flipped a light on that began online about 10-15 years ago…and younger women Millennials and down carry that torch. Idk how any man didn’t think that his depraved behavior would lead to some sort of righteous household. Women are not this Teflon Heart that can never break…then rebuild to say, “Eff you and Eff this b.s. it is not even worth it to have to contort myself to suit your selfish, depraved needs.” It’s a new day and Papa Peterson needs to focus on getting men to be better…since men want to lead so much start by leading their own phalluses. Idk why women even ask men these questions from a scientist, to a philosopher to a pastor they are pretty much all the same: Fake Puritan, a defective product.

[@1SpicyMeataball]

I don't regret not making my privates look like pulled pork (as yours probably do) as early as high school. Does your husband know you've seen more weiners than a Nathan's hotdogs stand? Or does he not mind slinging his cocktail weenie down a hallway.

[@MyriamRichardsdotter]

@@jacquelynn2051 Yes, there is some delusion in how people demonize women who divorce, then they hypocritically act as if these same women should ignore flagrant infidelity, porn addiction, etc.. Many very good women divorce because their partners turned into abusive cheaters. They don't do it lightly.

[@gobboilino6285]

The voice of reasoning from a genius.

[@yamyite]

About hmmmm 5ish years ago, i thought of a touch phones consent app. Looked it up, and someone had already tried to make something similar or applied for the patent and bring it into existence, it was banned as…. consent can be withdrawn at any time

[@kathay123]

De beste man die er ooit bestaan 🎉

[@judithvorster2515]

Aggenee wat, soveel heldeverering vir die man is darem erg oordrewe!

[@patrickcowan8830]

truth hurts

[@RamblinRick_]

Not a "woke" girl. Do you even know what "woke" means? Well, do you? I think not. Regardless Peterson makes valid points about the conversations we need to have concerning this subject.

[@debbylou5729]

That’s your opinion

[@RamblinRick_]

@@debbylou5729 Yes, yes it is. Very observant of you.

[@justinsane1119]

Why don’t you tell us what makes her woke professor

[@namasi7070]

"If it feels good, do it" Self indulgance instead of self control has impacted the family, mental health and communities.

[@DeuceGenius]

Everyone just smiling and agreeing. Speaks volumes. Wise words

[@deemcc7784]

What the F is a redeemed progressive? Lol 😭💦

[@daveslyker4431]

Former liberal douche