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[@JoshuaFluke1]

Edit - Someone just showed me her new boyfriend, aannnd karma is real, justice has been served let's say lmao. Again, remember this was a year ago. The point of the video isn't about getting back at anyone, I've moved passed it. This video is to show what it looks like to get gaslit, and how easy it can be to believe you're in the wrong when you're the one who's been wronged, especially when you don't have a group of people around to remind you you're not crazy. Just remember it's easy to comment what I 'should have immediately done when x happened' when you can watch from a distance. It's also easy when you've had time to process the situation. Hindsight is 2020. Chances are - I've already read all of your 'suggested books' 🙂

[@BalakinGG]

Josh, I just wanted to say, it was not your fault.

[@dragonarch0]

No matter how many thots you encounter, we will be behind you bro. Keep grinding and stay strong man.

[@zecollecter8747]

Hey Joshua, that's a really rough story. I went through a similar situation. My newly broken up with gf and my good friend who was also my roommate and business partner got together. They never told me they were together, always pretended they had other reasons to be hanging out... At the time I got pretty depressed - felt like a loser for being betrayed by the 2 people that I had chosen to be closest to me in the world. Later they ended up getting married - still never said anything to me about it. Anyway I hear some of that pain in your story. And I'm sorry you feel like you need to justify your side of things so much on the video and to tell people to not beat you with "advice" in the comments. All the internet talk of "you just gotta x." to ensure your relationship, or to stay in control is BS. It's avoiding genuine connection. With real connection you get pain too. You gotta process your pain. On the other side of it, you have new awareness and understandings of what you want and don't want and more importantly your real worth. You're doing great Joshua. You give a lot of value and entertainment - and now emotional connection to a lot of people. Your hard work, even mind, and ability to be vulnerable will take you far. Good people will come into your life too. Take good care

[@i0wnun00b77]

I suggest book, “Reasons to vote for Democrats,” by Michael Knowles? Such a long book I doubt you’ve read the whole thing. Nobody has.

[@ayo3able]

I am interested in more relationship videos. Like how you got back into dating and how is your trust level for women.

[@lylewalker5681]

Kids, here's a tip: When people start using sex as a bargaining chip, leave.

[@jamestyler9897]

Lyle Walker facts.

[@cripz1436]

Okay.. i will

[@uppymcdowny58]

Very solid advice. I never let women use sex as a bargaining chip on me. Mainly because women don't want to have sex with me.

[@lylewalker5681]

@@uppymcdowny58 It's abusive, because if you're not in love and looking at it from the outside you go 'Oh, well, that's fucking easy... I'll just walk away if that happens.' But if you're IN love, it's suddenly 90,000 times as fucking hard. And the person using the sex/affection as a weapon against you KNOWS this. It's just straight up fucking abuse, period. I don't care what anybody says. If someone is doing this to you, they're abusing you.

Lyle Walker what do you mean by bargaining chip?

[@RabidPrimeape]

She was never your girl, it was just your turn.

[@peerin227]

"Richard Cooper"

[@michaelharvey1701]

@Bill Ding the constructor Actually more of a red pill mantra.

[@Wanderlauch]

Well of course a woman is not "yours". You don't own anyone. His GF was not worth the trouble anyways.

[@samfortune589]

like a bullet from a gun it burns

[@Wanderlauch]

@@tandem863 What does it mean then? This makes it seem like the man is the victim, like you were not good enough for her, when in fact, he's the real winner.

[@yorkstbd]

"When your girlfriend cheats on you with your best friend, be happy. The world took 2 pieces of shit out of your life"

[@nellyphillips5688]

I like that one

[@appleormac]

killing 2 birds w 1 stone

[@victorsuarez3]

It hurts but is the truth.

[@sauloramos9881]

That´s actually pretty true. Being honest they could´ve shown their true colors in a much more compromising situation.

[@marienixon148]

This.

[@neuxell]

as boyfriend and girlfriend, her considering herself not "off the market" until she's married is an insanely massive red flag

[@user-sx1fg7lc3c]

Yessir

[@Wahinies]

Because even a ring would not mean shit to her

[@seriouscat2231]

I keep wondering what she looked like. I had a friendship with a timid, nerdy girl who worked as a teacher's assistant and she not only dragged along multiple guys, angered one of them, angered the family of another after spending many holidays with them, was dying to date the only one of them who was not interested and gaslit me by calling me her "best friend", while she had short relationships on the side to do everyone knows what. I think I actually was her best friend, because in the end she never got along with anyone and was flaky to everyone. She then joined a religious movement and is still having a honeymoon with them after four years, because they are relatively well educated and connected and present everything they do as very special.

[@midishh]

No it's not. If you like put a ring on it, otherwise you don't have exclusive rights.

[@seriouscat2231]

@@midishh, the way a person behaves before the ring is the way she will behave with the ring.

[@crayvd8229]

Real women can’t be stolen. If she gets stolen, she was a problem. Homeboy dodged a bullet

[@cgomez4801]

She is most likely going to do the same thing to the next guy.

[@michaelrodriguez6210]

He still got winged by that bullet though. I feel really bad for this guy.

[@anbuhyuga8299]

Dont't know about dodging.

[@RapIsDrug]

Not really dodged a bullet. He got hit by a fucking shotgun and here he is

[@antizarof7487]

Im glad i cant be stolen;D ima cry

[@jegr3398]

Man this guy has been through some shit. Never had a relationship with his father while growing up, got into a bad marriage and had to get divorced, family didn't even show up to his marriage, disowned by his family because he wouldn't pay their rent and drug habit anymore after they were freeloading off of him for 5 years, girlfriend cheated on him with his best friend. Dude, you've survived some crazy stuff, and you kept going, you're strong, and I hope you're doing well now.

[@ryanfinnerty6239]

This is why he is the chillest dude ever

[@thevrana]

Yeah,man. There are soap opera writers watching this channel and going "Oh,come on!"

[@PetrThaGr8]

@@thevrana people eat this shit up 🙏

[@daMillenialTrucker]

It's those of us who go through that crazy shit that inevitably end up winning the most in the end. I have a smilar story (except cheating gf, that would be a cherry on top 🤣) but none the less I was homeless, got my class a CDL, drove for somebody, and now I drive for myself, I have more money then I know what to do with so I just save and live a modest lifestyle, minimalistic if you would, hoping someday I find a woman that's worth starting a family with.

[@p0rq]

At a certain point though, when you keep finding yourself in so much shit, you have to wonder if there’s more than bad luck involved.

[@crobinson2624]

Girlfriends come and go, but best friends are supposed to have your back. No excuse there.

[@comiken205]

Straight up facts!

[@fearxscape]

YESSSS! TRUTH! Sad but true

[@patcola7335]

People have something called sin. It's affected the whole world we live in.

[@brianshores103]

Completely agree, a buddy of mine that I’ve been friends with for nine years decided that it was a good idea to start flirting and talking each other while we’re dated then 2 months later these 2 decided to date, meanwhile while my suspicions where high my buddy kept lieing until the Guilt pressured him into tell me the truth, so I understand bro and I feel for ya

[@sezumi8435]

My boyfriend is my best friend :c

[@chuckdriver8269]

I feel your pain, brother. My wife divorced me, the next year my mom died, the next my dad , the next my sister. I’ve been through a lot and your story resonates. 🇺🇸

[@saadjamal1000]

I hope you're thriving now

[@naysaynetwork5271]

Same happened to me but in reverse. Wife is now on the verge, we are separated and constantly fighting.

[@MrSandman_0981]

​@@naysaynetwork5271what do you mean in reverse? Like, she cheated on u after the marriage?

[@Defender78]

I'm wondering how long after the break From the Norwegian girl that he was married to, did this girl in the video come into his life, and I think after all her red flags that surfaced... after the grave period, he should have kicked her out once he saw her true colors, let alone get it to the point where she was bossing him around at home, or to where she and his ex-best friend was getting too close.

[@Irishbeermonk]

When the trash takes itself out.

[@00utofcpt]

haha dude, super underrated comment few words max eficiency =))), gave me chills =)

[@havilavi472]

@@00utofcpt I know broo🤣🤣

[@Smarion2]

BOOM!

[@cdixon5150]

Mayfli this comment is worth a thousand likes

[@emanonymous]

killing two turds with one phone

[@atmostech7127]

How to turn your pain into sweet KZbin algorithm dollars to finally upgrade your house.

[@magicogar]

I liked your comment and replied just to helped with the algorithm .. :D

[@qlouxseiffios9829]

You gave me the reason not to skip it.

[@bernardlartims9114]

😂😂 he has to make that tho

[@TheDarkJohns]

😂😂😂

[@stefanoecsedi1408]

i'll fucking watch the entire video then, thank you atmos

[@christian9506]

If partner asks for a break, just leave. They are already out the door.

[@xXcajunblazeXx]

You right my guy.

[@MichaelBroer]

Monkey branching. They already have someone in mind.

[@RD-ms9gn]

Wise words. It happened to me. I said no and parted ways.

[@The_Food_Police]

Couldn't agree more

[@fredericjuliard4261]

Yup.

[@BangMaster96]

She was never your girlfriend to begin with, he was never your best friend to begin with.

[@standground8284]

They were. This is what happens when you’re okay letting your gf be an emotional support buddy for another man. Her instincts to make it right will kick in, his instincts to take flesh kicked in as well. Either way, I think he should be thankful they showed him who they truly were.

[@joesloan2207]

She did you a favor. Can you imagine if you married her, had a house, kids. You'd be paying out for LIFE. In fact, they both did you a huge favor. You dodged a massive bullet bro.

[@BroImLeandre]

Joe sloan MAN! lol

[@nik___.8127]

I doubt she had the intentions of marrying him

[@barzinlotfabadi]

More like dodged a MOAB lol

[@Kalifornia-Screaming]

@@nik___.8127 If she got knocked up, marriage could have been a real possibility along with questionable paternity. I have witnessed my buddy go through this. JF dodged a major bullet....a fuck your life up for decades type of bullet.

[@michelleb7464]

Dont get married and you can avoid that possibility!

[@Kyle-xt8ip]

My ex fiance cheated with my best friend. It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I shed two backstabbing people and now several years later I am way better off in every way.

[@juliaturcato1]

Same!!

[@pornstarlivesmatter3319]

ME TOO!!! LOL

[@Spilkyy]

How does this shit happen tho. I hope this doesn't happen to me holy shit

[@Kyle-xt8ip]

@@Spilkyy I wish I knew. I guess it's just an ugly side to the human condition. My friend at the time was my child hood best friend of 15 years (10 years old to 25 years old). I trusted him completely and would have never dreamed that our friendship would have ended that way.

[@Corpsecreate]

My ex-gf (diagnosed narcissist) broke up with me at an airport on a trip we planned together. Days later, she was with someone in this community of friends that I had introduced her to. This community was something I had been a part of since about 10 years old. She whispered all kinds of rumors saying that I had abused her, broke into her house, threatened to stab here and God knows what else. It became very clear something was up when people started to look at me differently and treat me differently. I ended up being cyber bullied, received a sex tape from my ex and had 'meme's made about me circulating over social media and all kinds of stuff. Long story short, I left that group that had now become toxic and moved state to start a new life. I completed a Master's degree with a high distinction, got a well playing job, promoted twice in under 18 months to a manager type position, and became a self-made millionaire through some of my side hustles. My ex...who knows, who cares? :P

[@LalienX]

The fact that her parents came by to your house to thank you says everything.

[@JamesSmith-cm7sg]

😂

[@jazzman92478]

That tells me she has done this multiple times, and the parents know about it......

[@vorianatreides504]

They must have felt the sting of shame

[@gnollio]

Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. Usually when the parents treat you as the proxy sin/daughter it means they know their kid is horrible and they want to let you know they respect you as parents.

[@queerlibtardhippie9357]

She probably is like this to everybody...

[@misterstudentloan2615]

Joshua goes through shit then documents everything so that we don't have to suffer the same way. 100% like share subscribed man

[@berniestephens4506]

As good as this video is and as much as I appreciate him sharing this. It’s good to know someone has gone through something similar to you BUT it won’t stop it from happening to you. This shit happens. A lot. It’s just nice to create a space where people who have been through something like this can feel less alone.

[@bepositive4494]

I enjoy the sharing but would not like to make my way in the world "Hey I am victimized". People love filming themselves. I guess we love watching but I have had my fill of internet racers and quiet quitters. Just say your peace and move on. Having it broadcasted all over the world and getting currency for it keeps this in place.

[@devrusso]

Documents everything and spins like he's a victim so that he can get sweet KZbin money*

[@bobmalibaliyahmarley1551]

Your ''friend'' sounds like a sociopath.

[@davute9546]

More like a psychopath

[@ninoninov6044]

@Yin the girfiend sounds more lika a narcissist or a borderline or with traits from both

[@zisira2469]

“Friend” is a very much narc, gf is very possibly borderline, the two are perfect dysfunctional parallels to one another and find themselves inexplicably drawn together.

[@timsahkelebek5901]

Yeah that "friend" definetely is a manipulator. Holy hell the blame shifting, gaslighting and all that things. Holy hell.

[@ShayPatrickCormacTHEHUNTER]

Nah... He sounds like a very toxic person... Doesn't behave like psychopaths usually do...

[@camilomsn4807]

The moment you said your GF cheated with one of your closest friends through your life, that you used to play Halo together as little children, I knew the betrayal was unforgivable

[@kenseisato1989]

well he was friends with someone like that to begin with and also went along with his antics. Maybe one day Josh will grow up and learn to have good moral principles not only for himself but the other people that he lets into his life.

[@stevenwilson5556]

@@kenseisato1989 Point taken but sometimes you don't necessarily have such a clear head about people close to you who you grew up with and have known for a long time. We all make bad decisions sometimes when we trust friends or family when maybe a more objective person would not make the same mistake.

[@kenseisato1989]

@@stevenwilson5556 Yes I absolutely agree with you on that as well. It doesnt justify it but what's important is the lesson you learn.

[@nosajsamaniego4512]

#MenToo We're all gonna make [it], brahs; 💪🏽 Keep fighting the good fight;

[@bodake2557]

Generally, an actual friend will NEVER do that, to me the dude helped you out. Now you don’t have to deal with either of these bitches

[@Varun-uv4li]

My girlfriend is so loyal she cant cheat me because she is imaginary.

[@fraser808]

She'd still cheat tho .... imaginary or not ....yea it's that bad lol 😅

[@TheAnkitDalal]

🤣

[@c-4839]

Lemme guess, is it your left hand?

[@pratiklondhe5167]

Lol 😂😂

[@gnomeofhell]

When you single and still think you’re being cheated on lol!

[@eugkra33]

This video triggered the shit out of me. Gaslighting men to be "creeps" and "stalkers" because you're a horrible person yourself.

[@RuthCrocker]

With friends like that, who needs enemies.

[@GabiN64]

Stfu

[@ministerminator]

@@GabiN64 so how's the divorce coming along?

[@momo777777777777777]

@@GabiN64 no u

[@danboie9557]

ministerminator 😂😂😂💀

[@thewhizkid3937]

@@GabiN64 por que tu dice eso ?

[@Jason-bg7jc]

Your ex-friend sounds like a straight sociopath.

[@yahdumbafmate4845]

Dude deserve a punch on the face

[@ELdASenSei]

My mind was telling me exactly the same.

[@justshady]

She sounds like a woman, I’m in the “star fish “ phase of my relationship I’m already out

[@magicweaponr072]

I have literally just thought about it. That guy showed a lot of traits related to sociopathy: really manipulative, no empathy, lack of remorse or guilt, and also a really good liar. Besides that, Josh said that he jumps from girl to girl. Sociopaths are known not to be able to maintain long-lasting relationships, simply because of this lack of empathy. Besides that, Josh said that guy was like his brother and that they had been friends for a very long time, then just so casually throwing Josh out the window. Again, lack of empathy.

[@GaryHighFruit]

I cover a lot of the behavior of people, and I think as many as 1/2 of all people are sociopathic. I avoid people. I'm a successful loner, and I'll be showing that even more in 2020. Join the Raiders

[@KatherineBober]

"You riled her family up" What a gaslighting freak. He needs to invent reasons to behave like a creep in order to make you feel bad.

[@Altayus]

thats better when you get rid of two trash bag at once

[@katiix]

👏👏👏

[@katierae5445]

“Two birds, One stone” ✅

[@erickinzel2645]

Savage 💯

[@andren422]

@@katierae5445 exactly

[@backtoedencafe9406]

There is never a friend nor relationship. It was all beautiful I have been thinking of doing something like this too. This is the most honest real video I ever watched. I hope that you will NEVER be mean to anyone. I too don't trust anyone. Just take your time. I don't ever want a relationship nor am I looking for one. Just keep friends or acquaintance of people it works better. If you don't want to be with them anymore no strings attached just move on. Thank you for your pureness.

[@CardinalsXerces]

Advice my Dad gave me a long time ago: It's far better to be alone than wish you were.

[@jon5833]

smart guy, very true. I love being alone

[@julierood1228]

@@jon5833 The best company in the world, your own! ;-)

[@markminister2599]

Pure genius.

[@jon5833]

@@Jon-dh3ki ok? so are more than 50% of marriages...

[@jon5833]

@@Jon-dh3ki what do you mean? if someone is cheated on in the relationship, they should end it. That's how most divorces come about...

[@jeffblakeart5530]

Used to think shy, introverted, girls were "good girls" too, but that's just shallow. Integrity comes in many different archetypes.

[@mac1bc]

Undercover freaks?? 😅

[@dimetriwatt7334]

@@mac1bc lol

[@mac1bc]

@Ranx Orox exactly. Those are the best types

[@jeffblakeart5530]

Haha I was mostly referring to things like honesty, patience, and loyalty. But yeah girls of all types are horny. No secret there.

[@sthao1733]

@Ranx Orox yes. from my experience quite, shy, introverted girls are the exact opposite of what they project outwardly.

[@brendadean9291]

Your ex girlfriend is a narcissist. You have absolutely NO idea how lucky you were to get rid of her.

[@eastlake93]

Josh, bro. I was you but I married mine. It was the worst and most expensive decision of my life. After providing her a beautiful home and 2 boys, nice cars. As I type, Im back at my parents at 50. Despite her cheating, she got it all. She also withheld sex from me. She was such a narcissist - gaslighting, I ignored my attorney because of my instinct to care for my family, like fanthom limb. I lost it all, contemplated suicide. Im so bitter now. You dodged a bullet my friend. Trust me.

[@rosepipin2552]

eastlake93 Please don’t be upset brother, I know you’re going through hard times but try to meditate and find inner peace, there is still love, faith and joy within you, time will heal your wounds

[@rosepipin2552]

eastlake93 Leave past in the past, start a new life brother, I know it’s easy to say, but I also had a lot of negative things in my life but always become stronger and wise because of it

[@iWillWakeYouUp]

@Dojocho My goodness, I am so sorry for you guys. I hope you can get on your feet again. What a way to get betrayed. You have my deepest sympathy for what happened.

[@tristrisX]

Time for a sex change & use the strategy of cheating

[@airbornehammer676]

We need a complete collapse of the sexual and marriage marketplace, as well as more men willing to do what has to be done

[@alexlago2293]

Takes a lot of balls to say this stuff and put yourself out there like that. Respect. Love you bro.

[@pablodavidgaytanrodriguez4829]

Agree. stay strong, king

[@conorm2524]

@lukesfx There's a lot more than that to take away from his story. His childhood "friend" for a start totally gaslighting him and the obviously very manipulative girlfriend. I think it's a good warning to youngsters out there who are getting gaslit or going through similar shit. You can call him whatever names but I take my hat off to him. The betrayal from his buddy was probably harder to take than any of the girl's shit.

[@nathannguyen7449]

lukesfx But the main point of this video was about the gaslight from his ex-gf and ex-bestfriend... He's just telling us, the audience, to be aware of getting gaslighted since there are people who will believe that it was their fault even though it wasn't.

[@MrSupermanbe]

It's free therapy. Good to let it out.

[@alexiscalabera8314]

I love how stupidly honest he is about everything. It's like listening to a good friend.

[@ПавелШаламов-ж3д]

Why stupidly?

[@berrycrepes]

@@ПавелШаламов-ж3д i think they meant it in the same vain as "honest to a fault" Im also honest to a naive degree because I genuinely dont realize if im overdisclosing.

[@chinballitus7334]

@@ПавелШаламов-ж3д He doesn't mean stupidly in a negative way. He means that he is very honest.

[@rachelgooden9981]

Yeh he’s the real shit! He’s a real man!

[@dayoldeggplant]

@@berrycrepes stupidly is an adverb. It describes how honest he was. It's the same as, "he is stupidly good at chess."

[@dericmerkey788]

Thanks for the story. Like others have said makes me feel less alone. 11 yrs together. We moved to multiple cities and states for school. Both finished. Started a successful business. Bought a big house for kids. Looked like we were over the hump ready to live life then boom. She books a flight to North Carolina (lol) and wants divorce. The hardest part is letting go of the future you had imagined.

[@eliopearlman1309]

Thirty years from now she's still going to be thinking about you and you'll barely remember her.

[@bjdis33]

And that's exactly what she should get

[@ctcamara]

Or not...

[@dawnbreak3299]

@@ctcamara if this doesn't consume her with guilt everytime it crosses her mind shes even more evil and needs to be btch slapped even more then just for what she did but because of who she is!! She should feel like the pig she is and his friend got another girl to use it should make her realize her value but instead she wanted him back

[@kelliemartin21]

This.

[@absats]

Such a beach doesnt have place in u'r remembers)

[@Xen626]

"She fell victim to that" no dude, i'm really sorry but this is on her she was in a committed relationship, its her job to tell guys to leave her alone.

[@dansullivan1983]

Xen626 yeah, no shit. He needs to stop with the beta attitude.

[@drippeeboye607]

@@dansullivan1983 mr.cuckle am I rite? for real though, he needs to stop

[@PhoenixTTV.]

100%

[@liveitup2420]

Facts

[@morgandelpozzo7610]

It’s nice hearing a guy talk about this honestly.

[@levimcgowan4732]

As long as you're not one of those girls thats gonna take half of everything that wasnt yours to begin with and play custody battles, then all good 😁

[@morgandelpozzo7610]

No thanks on kids. And I make my own money. There’s guys who do that shit too :-)

[@j3d89]

@@morgandelpozzo7610 i make my own money... ummm i think youre the same too.. they all say the same thing

[@morgandelpozzo7610]

it's raining I didn’t say all guys, I just said they can mooch off money too. Anyone can be a mooch is my point haha. But hey, if the shoe fits.

[@litjellyfish]

Morgan Del Pozzo people will always interpret whatever one writes in a negative way. If they have decided they don’t trust girls. Suddenly all girls are bad. We are all just people.

[@Btc314btc]

This guy for sure keeps it real! He doesnt have to say these things, but he probably doesnt have many ppl close to talk to but his subscribers. He being open is actually a brave thing

[@MrBillSabre]

She said that contacting her friend whom you had met multiple times was creepy. Yet, she went how far? To meet your best friend whom she had never met. She's the creep.

[@pR0ManiacS]

double standards .. bitches complain, there's no future with a girl like that. there are women in the world who apreciate you for who you are and how you think. those women who fight for love and have the power to say sorry when they are mistaken. Find a girl who knows about empathy and respect otherwise u just losing your time with the looks.

[@Ryo8761]

LMAO something to that extend happen to me too. Told a girl that I had slight crush on...her flying all the way from PA to MA to hang out with a guy she has only met one summer was crazy. She had just graduated high school. She told me that I was immature I was a year younger than her. Fast forward ten years she's with some dude has multiple kids, don't know if those kids have the same Daddy or not nor do I care. :)

[@hungariannerd8445]

Imagine ruining a 20 year old friendship for some girl.

[@charalambakis67]

Snake of a guy 🐍

[@sloth9853]

Tbh - if you love her and it’s true love. You would too. Love is hard to come by. However, if you hit on your best friends girl and fuck her lol then it’s over. That guy was a snake.

[@Kevessi]

@Xad Kile luffy?

[@alternativethinker6434]

@@sloth9853 love is overrated

[@Justforthefifteen]

Maybe she has THE Girl…

[@sentient-5002]

This is the reason why I always tell myself that I am the only person responsible for my happiness and that the world does not owe me anything.

[@nobodyfromnowhere3597]

Good philosophy I follow it myself but I begin to wonder if following such philosophy sets you up for lonely life.

[@yashkaliapiano]

Wisest way to live buddy

[@LostSoulAscension]

@@nobodyfromnowhere3597 it doesm't mean being alone is the only way to be happy but it's where your happiness comes from. Like break ups still suck cause its a loss on invested time, but you know you can recover because you have other strengths and interests and invested time elsewhere that doesnt make you think they were everything to you.

[@TheLollercaster]

I will start living by this mentality, thanks :)

[@NicolaZoboli]

AMEN

[@BB72]

Once, a girl gaslit me into believing she was being raped, when she was actually cheating. I feel ya. She did the same thing later where she came back and admitted to messing up and all that crap, fishing for another go. The way you said, I had to start over, moved in with a family from another culture, and it helped a lot. It changed my whole life, and for the better. The experience was hard, but God is good.

[@snarlbug]

It's called "branch swinging" when women do that. That's why she didn't explicitly break up with you. You were plan B in case plan A failed and she had to swing back.

[@goonable2]

MGTOW Baby!

[@AmanBansil]

Saw that in that show "Love is Blind"....I was literally yelling at my TV bcuz this guy was so pathetic.

[@GeneralChangFromDanang]

I always like when you're the best guy they could ever get and you know the branch they're swinging to is quite a bit lower.

[@ayanned]

MGTOW is the way. Women prevention. Your best life insurance.

[@AnluPemak]

what's it called when men do that? As if that's a gender specific phenomenon xD

[@starwalk3r]

The "best friend" is a psychopath. He cannot feel your pain, and doesn't care about your feelings. He lives to satisfy himself, and ONLY himself. Your ex gf is like any other low quality girl (no offense to your choice of women). She lacks self-control, lacks character, and has a life philosophy of "the grass is greener on the other side."

[@iWillWakeYouUp]

Seems more like a narcissist.

[@warblah]

@@iWillWakeYouUp yep, all those gaslighting definitely pointing to the cluster B behavior

[@Pit_Lord]

That’s not a psychopath, that’s a sociopath. Psychopaths feel as much as the rest of us and they get off on inflicting the painful extremes of said feelings on others. Sociopaths are incapable of empathy or true emotional experience and are simply good at faking it. Sociopaths also tend to be narcissistic which definitely fits this asshole. Can’t know for sure without meeting him, but it’s a safe bet if this is accurate.

[@Tenrou2]

That description of a low quality girl kind of describes most girls today. Definitely most I've been with (including an ex with Borderline Personality Disorder). Values such as honor, loyalty, respect, and integrity aren't really ingrained in their upbringing thanks to social media.

[@ps9501]

@@Pit_Lord That's not true what you said. the key difference between sociopath and psychopath is that sociopaths are MADE, while psychopaths are BORN. But you are right ALL psychopaths are narcissist. But you are wrong that all psychopaths "enjoy inflicting pain" this is sadistic feature, psychopaths just dont care if you are in pain.

[@spencerr2323]

Ahh the classic “we were broken up I don’t owe you an explanation” the cheater’s favorite line.

[@thomasjensen5042]

@Christian Robertson Ahh, defending a liar and cheater. The classic douche bag move.

[@cp3ubz]

@Christian Robertson Anyone who is willing to cheat on someone should have the guts to tell the truth. Instead most cheaters run and hide under blame and shame. Act like its all okay that they can do this to someone, but too much of a coward to own up to their pathetic lifestyle and piss poor excuses.

[@avocado9924]

@@cp3ubz oof

[@tacticaladvantage4763]

Yup

[@MrKnockout66]

@Christian Robertson lmao youre the friend arent you

[@PanthORandPonAY]

I'm not sure why I happened to come upon this video that was made 4 years ago, but here we are. I thought this would be something juicy to listen to while I worked on some art, but I'm in tears and haven't done shit. I'm not sure of what your life is like 4 years later after this tragedy, but I just feel compelled to tell you some things. To begin, none of this was your fault. None of it. I really hope you know this. Even 4 years later, I know the pain caused by being emotionally abused is challenging to overcome. All too well. You are such a sweet, kind, adorable, handsome soul, and any woman would be lucky to be loved by you. I can only hope that you are now in a relationship where you are loved, uplifted, and cherished. We all deserve love like that. I never wanted children, and I never wanted to get married. Not wanting those things doesn't make you a bad person. Life can be so fruitful, and love can be just as fruitful, if not more, without the burden of children or a marriage that society pressures us to endure to be "normal." Normal is boring, and normal can be a nightmare. To be free with someone you love and to both be consciously choosing each other is way more precious than any ring in the world. May you be blessed with all the love and affection you desire/deserve. That girl wasn't woman enough to realize what she had and ultimately lost. Karma is real, and both cheating parties deserve to have eternal diarrhea. I truly hope the years since this video have been extra good to you. ❤

[@Mr_Donald_Pump]

Real loyalty, in good times and bad times, is one of the rarest things in the world.

[@ryanwatchel9809]

Woman cant be loyal

[@Mr_Donald_Pump]

@@ryanwatchel9809 In this story, however, his "best friend" is the same.

[@ryanwatchel9809]

@@Mr_Donald_Pump girls it is all about what you can do for them. if you can't do anything for them then they are not loyal

[@Mr_Donald_Pump]

@@ryanwatchel9809 But men, in general, are not better. Sure, a small number of close friends might be. But most men also only care about how they can benefit from you - your time, money, effort etc. Different game, same rules. Do you believe your boss cares about you? And why do you think so many guys lose friends after they have an accident and end up in a wheelchair? Trust me, men aren't any better. You're just biased because you're sexually attracted to women.

[@Guts_Brando]

@@Mr_Donald_Pump bro, dont waste your time and energy on these goons, all of them incels and worse, "mgtow" are braindead.

[@jasmeetsingh5]

If your girlfriend cheats on you with your best friend, it means that your girlfriend never loved you, and your best friend was actually your worst enemy. Don't look at this as a curse, look at this as a blessing. Once you see someone's true colors, accept the truth for what it is. That way you can find peace.

[@animehitz2679]

couldnt agree more .

[@trialnsuffering9731]

Wise words

[@PassionateFlower]

My ex married my sister. I did not attend the wedding. My parents support them. I am done. DONE.

[@ibrahimylmaz8378]

@@PassionateFlower people are sick in general. not up to that level, but i also found out that people i called family and partner wasnt really "that". maybe we are not that unlucky, a lot of people catch up with this stuff way too late.

[@MacChicken-up2rl]

True. Once I saw how fake my last manager was I knew not only her would change but the owners didn’t want to change to make their restraint better oh well bye time to move on

[@JaylenBieber]

YOU LOSE 💰 MONEY CHASING WOMEN, BUT YOU NEVER LOSE WOMEN CHASING 💰 MONEY! 💯

[@gb_the_accuser]

Nice!

[@julianneedsblood7091]

They come and go either way. They become more crazier when you have more money though. That has been my experience. Rap music is a red flag.

[@gb_the_accuser]

If I was a young guy I would date older women and if I was a older man I would date younger women. Older women will do anything for a younger guy older than me. And when you are older, younger women in some cases respect the fact that you're older and established. Im 40 and my girlfriend is 30 and conservative. When a man is focused on becoming a great provider and creating security for a family, the right woman will come along and recognize and respect that.

[@julianneedsblood7091]

@@gb_the_accuser It is about the right woman. With morals. A woman that compliments you. A woman that brings value. Also one that doesn't listen to rap n doesn't go to festivals where morality is low. Birds of a feather flock together. Any woman that is 25 n younger is a huge gamble in my days!

[@ansukeita853]

Redpill knowledge 🙏🙌

[@jumper9108]

This is so sad. He’s on the verge of tears. 🔥🔥🔥 for being real bro.

[@dawno1175]

Your ex-girlfriend stupidly threw away a diamond to pick up a stone.

[@faithboost7]

More like a turd

[@nataliezementbeisser1492]

damn bro. that's deep

[@jassilavkainen9027]

That's why we diamond hand.

[@Ragdillian]

She threw away a beta soy boy...good for her!

[@iloveeverything4380]

Bc the diamond isnt him in her eyes

[@joy-115]

Your ex girlfriend was mostly pissed that u basically blew her story with her family and friend

[@snotrohmitabc123]

Exactly, right? I found her tone genuinely hilarious bc her reaction to getting caught was literally "[gasp] How DARE you find out that I was cheating and how DARE you lead my family and friends to find out about my secret!!! God damnit, now it's not a secret anymore and everyone who knows me now knows that I did something shitty!!! And I have to EXPLAIN IT. How dare you expose that!!!" The level of denial and victim blaming seriously blows my mind (I get that it's ONE of the things guilty people must cling on to in order to survive and move on, but GOSH it's SO scummy and shitty, I hurt for Josh). I'm so glad the trash took themselves out. Good riddance.

[@jimba6486]

The friend sounds like a sociopath. In which this all makes sense.

[@peteypete9357]

Of course, but he gets girls constantly. Ergo, he is a product of what girls want and keep going to him even though he lies to them and screws them over.

[@TealJosh]

The Friend is in military. He should be reported and put to justice. Adultry(infidelity) can result in dishonorable discharge. F*ck yeah he deserves that. He's a disgrace to the uniform. He probably won't receive the worst punishment, but the punital system is harsh and he'll be scared like hell and probably become un-promotable for a long time.

[@trave7251]

the friend sounds like he's sexy as hell.

[@mariosmatzoros3553]

@@trave7251 You're either the friend or another sociopath.

[@frednil8304]

She may be a sociopath too. They see him as soft, a push over. Good thing that her teary-eyed 'take me back' routine failed (he mentions Rollo's book), props to him. This was a video about going from blue pill to purple/red pill. I laughed when she lied and said they had sex 3 times. With a new girlfriend it's more like sex 3 times a day.

[@sjoe_87]

Although it's been over 2 years since you posted this, I'm so glad that you did. I am going through a similar situation. Never have I ever been so humiliated and hurt by somebody I've known for over 15 years. I guess I should've seen it coming tho. I've learnt from this experience and I'm starting to grow as a person. When you keep yourself onto a certain standard and have respect for yourself, you will require the same things from other people. I hope this makes sense. Good luck man, hope you're doing well.

[@videoconcierge]

Hi, JOSH ! I'm a 60 year old guy who's gonna ask you to look at this situation just a 'little' differently. Next time you see your 'friend' or 'girlfriend', you go right up to them and THANK THEM PROFUSELY !! You tell them that you could never thank them enough for their help in helping you avoid what could've been the WORST DECISION of my life. Tell them "OMG ! Can you BELIEVE that I ALMOST made this woman part of my family ?? THANK YOU SO MUCH for keeping me from spending even ONE MORE DAY with this woman as my 'girlfriend' and THIS asshole as my 'long time friend'.

[@chacharmin21]

That's a truly savage way of saying, "fuck you" lol. That will stay with the people that did you wrong, for a looong time. Love it!

[@incogb6696]

can you also show him his wrongdoing here. love your perspective. this is how I perfect everything too! ✨

[@skaterockerstar]

Nah, my guy home boy would have to catch these hands. It's not even about him taking his girl, it all the bullshit he was saying in the text.

[@jesusblaster435]

@@skaterockerstar that's my way too, i don't care about the girl in that point but him talking that talk has an asswhooping written all over it.

[@katiie7]

💯 no one wants that in their family line!

[@RamB0T]

A sh*tty girl and a terrible "friend" Better off without them in your life 💪

[@kvykimo]

in a way these kind of events are liberating, especially if youre more emotional like josh. he should adapt the abundance and abandon mindset.

[@apancia]

@@kvykimo agree 100%

[@TheBadFred]

There are so many great people out there, that are hard to find - hope that you find yours

[@TheDsasadsad]

I would call it blessing in disguise It was very tough on him but now he is fine. It could be way worse.

[@Alex44343]

A true blessing in disguise which is tough at first but later feels better

[@ethangreyling553]

The offender always plays the victim when they get caught lol

[@contentedspirit9022]

That's when they do everything they can to make you feel guilty too. They're pathetic.

[@KW-gs2gp]

As painful as it was, you dodged a bullet dude. Let this be a lesson to others that it is essential to avoid marriage.

[@jaylee6769]

This dude has way too good of a heart for this generation

[@attractiveforce8609]

That's just how society in the end may go downhill. I got a son and shared custody but never married and never will. Here in Germany they removed a law that would give a certain person the guilt for a divorce. That means if I were married with a wealthier woman than me I could cheat, record it on video give it to her on Christmas and say:"hey, we are broken up now and I appreciate that u will owe me 500 bugs every month for the next years or until I marry again" Y'all know that usually the man got more wealth cause girls almost never marry down. When I then tell people that marriage has become a scam and totally lost the meaning cause any infidelity hasn't any consequences many got no clue and come with that love aspect. Marriage now is like adopting a female. It's a contract where you either got some tax benefits while it works or lose half of your belongings when it goes down. Even whe u just cohabitate for more than a year you owe that girl money after the breakup unless she doesn't earn more money than u. Hilarious 😂 In the generation of my grandmother divorces were a huge exception.

[@aleckermit]

Me too

[@Craigerboy55]

I can relate

[@wallatbaban416]

It’s like that for many. But we were all meant to be apart of the times we were born in.

[@lavish_1717]

Maybe men and women should stop dating eachother and go our separate ways.

[@Jasonrm92]

All the shit you've been through dude and you've still managed to build a business/successful KZbin channel that's growing every day. It's great to see. What a guy.

[@therealtombrokaw]

Good job. Now here's the hard part. Don't share it with a woman.

[@donutrangerr]

Truly an inspiration. A fair example of the going gets tough, the tough gets going.

[@BrayoFitnessTrainer]

Keep in mind. The “y” in “your girl” is silent. Don’t let anyone fool you!

[@steveowens913]

With a best friend like him, who the hell needs enemies!! You will be fine going forward. Unfortunately, you are going to have to trust much less.

[@Maria.9094]

He can share it with someone it just has to be the right person. The red flags were there from the beginning. He knows it and hindsight is 20/20. He'll be smarter next time and he won't ignore the red flags.

[@badgaldidi3352]

I’m boiling listening to his “friend” pretending to give him advice 😡

[@Minoritynomad]

I'm fucking LIVID for this guy.

[@dhernandez52991]

his "friend' needs advice on how to get his shit together and should get discharged for infidelity

[@RedrikRaynor]

@@dhernandez52991 These are the types of service members that somehow make it through the cracks and make a career in the military and acting like they're good leaders smh

[@qualityblackmansysbm3608]

Ask yourself this how many girls do this to other girls who have a high value man. Mind you they wait to bounce on a man they want when there is drama in a relationship.

[@jahnj2523]

Wah gwaan rude gyal

[@QuessHitt-d5c]

BELIEVE ME I KNOW IT HURTS BRO BUT YOU GOTTA BE STRONG AND YOU'LL GET THROUGH IT

[@DevelopXp]

Him saying you weren't a good friend was him justifying this. That's hella messed up.

[@luthor24127]

I mean, there's some naivety on Josh side, when you are friends with a guy who's fucking over every woman he's with for years... should you expect loyalty? Why, because the gender's different and he's not fucking you? Cmon dude. Cmooon.

[@effmerunning]

She lost respect for you. Woman don’t believe in love they believe in hypergamy plain and simple.

[@SCP-001DatabaseAdministrator]

It was the ice age baby memes he sent him that caused this tragedy

[@SouthSideChiTown]

Yeah man, it's called projection that's what people like that do.

[@98danielray]

@@SCP-001DatabaseAdministrator the video is not justification for incel black pills, my dude

[@Terszel]

She: - Lied - Tried to put pressure on you - Was in a different place than she told you she would be, then admitted she was with the guy who told you he wasn't with her The first two alone is enough to leave her. She doesn't even have to cheat

[@levone8958]

@Shaman Xeed That doesn't make him an incel. Lying about these things is enough to break anyone's trust. Once your trust is broken there is no reason to continue a relationship.

[@bernardlartims9114]

@@levone8958 she is a girl what do u except

[@iWillWakeYouUp]

@Shaman Xeed Lol galaxy brain comment

[@iampyron22]

This was deep - People wonder why people shut off to everyone emotionally

[@janglestick]

@fuckface magoo nah buddy youre energizing your shadow

[@ЯфКДВНСКБНСДГДЙФВБЦНВВН]

I'm a 22 year old woman with Asperger's Syndrome and was bullied a lot as a child. I empathize with him completely. I have never had any romantic relationships and am quite inexperienced socially, but I know what it is like to be betrayed. It happened to me in middle school when a couple of so-called "friends" of mine turned on me suddenly. Then the entire class followed as well. I chose to isolate myself almost totally and eventually this led to severe depression and a hospitalization at the age of 18. In high school I joined no clubs and chose to primarily keep to myself. I graduated one year later than I was supposed to. Much healing has been done, and I'm doing well, but even now I still find it be open to others, and I'm 22 now.

[@alldogsgoheaven]

Wow stay strong fam... I didn't join clubs in school either cuz I was lazy... But now I wish I did now that I understand some ppl don't get to

[@memysefandeveryone]

@@ЯфКДВНСКБНСДГДЙФВБЦНВВН I too experienced the same thing in university when I was 21 Then depression career breaking down scholarships in sweden cancelled when they foubd I had depression now 12 years later in my 30s I finally can talk with ppl it's such a hard work ppl are cruel I am glad I met some one with the same story Let's be friends if it's okay But I am cool if you are not comfy with i know how hard it is but you will make it big later

[@0749Rockystar]

I'm 3 years late, but I found your channel within the last month. I love your content. I see you're in a better place now, and I want you to know I'm proud of you. For whatever it's worth, you're killing it, and you deserve happiness. Keep up your great work.

[@jai1675]

I found him today! Going through EMDR myself and needed any/some support and saw his vid on being financially parentified/abused…. Shed a sliver of light when I feel so stuck in depression/darkness

[@blackjackjester]

I found him last week. Cycling through older content - what a ride. He's doing so well now, it's amazing what cutting out the dead weight does for you.

[@mgtowtardigrade1911]

She showed her true self in the end, in the beginning was her false self.

[@droptozro]

And her true self was only because of her internal loneliness. She admitted in the text and the conversation she was only really "back" because she was feeling lonely--not because she was actually sorry for her actions. Obviously there's always 2 sides to a story, but Josh's side is pretty clear showing her actions were unjustified.

[@gdlion154]

Saddest part is that all the time he spent on them isn't coming back. These type of people are like a literal fkin disease.

[@cookiecaramel6187]

It's called 'The Honeymoon Phase'.

[@safespacebear]

That "friend" is scary degrees of toxic. He's capable of real harm to anyone he encounters

[@edwing8895]

He doesn’t belong in the military.

[@ThatTallBrendan]

@@edwing8895 Tell me you haven't dated somebody the military without telling me haven't dated somebody in the military (I married one. This vid. To a T.)

[@edwing8895]

@@ThatTallBrendan Who gives a shit if I haven’t been in a relationship with someone in the armed forces? Objectively speaking Josh’s friend is a risk for any type of mission. He’s a sex addict.

[@AngelVocal]

@@edwing8895 sounds like the perfect candidate for the military wym

[@invaderjoshua6280]

After being in the military I can say from experience he will fit in fine. You will see some of the best and worst people of your life in military.

[@adriancasper5885]

Man when he said "i'm not crazy enough to go back to this girl" I started clapping and laughing. GOOD FOR YOU MAN. Hope you are doing well.

[@mcearl8073]

adrian casper So was I, it sounded like he was heading towards where he gave her another chance. I’m glad he gave her a shred of hope so he could tell her he was never letting her back in no matter what after she said everything.

[@alvinousdrink1273]

Lol yeah I was afraid he was going to take her back. Needless to say, we were all real proud when he said he stood his ground and sent her packing. He deserved that closure against both of them!

[@Torontogal1973]

@MAST3RCHIEF 98 Lust and love are two different things. Powerful attraction can be a building block for a relationship, but if you don't develop a deeper relationship. You're not in love, you just love the way they make you feel when they're around; and that's not love. The flame of Lusting after someone attractive eventually burns out. And if you hold a candle to that flame, no woman will be good enough; I wish you well and hope you don't end up alone for the rest of your life.

[@tiktok_ets2]

Even if she had lots of school work and all that. If she loved you she would have shown love all the time

[@DamienMalakay]

A really long time ago a girl did similiar thing to me and i too was blind to see it. It wasn't with a friend but i remember the pain and it completely destroyed me. Just like Josh here, she came back later but i wasn't having any of it and I had already met a new girl. I loved when the tables turned. I think that was the last time i cried for a woman, that ex made me into this cold man and learned to never fall too in love with anyone. Looking back at it, it was for the best cause we were too young anyway, now "married" with kids and a dog my life wouldn't be where its at now had that not happened. I hope you find someone new buddy but this story really resonates with me and well now i wouldnt put up with any of that shit of course.

[@daveh9803]

If she tells you that she needs space, give her the universe. I don’t want someone that wants to “take a break”. I want someone who’s going to stick around and work with me to solve our problems.

[@BUGPLAYS]

Meh sometimes space is absolutely necessary. But not like this and not for people like her.

[@zodar1400]

The "take a break" was timed perfectly so she would be able to cheat and play it off as "we were on a break" to absolve her of all guilt.

[@KingDayDayDay00]

@@zodar1400 💯

[@MsSznur]

Give her the universe. - It made me laugh really hard xD

[@SG-pu3rx]

Hi, walking toxicity.

[@sncoolguy93]

I’m watching ALL the ADs. This guy deserves the money for all this.

[@pablopoggio4899]

Man, r like 2 bucks youtube premium the whole month of whatever u see, trust me, it's worth it. But totally agree.

[@sncoolguy93]

Pablo Poggio i wouldnt pay for YT premium to avoid ads. I would just use an ad blocker. In this case I deactivated it.

[@pablopoggio4899]

@@sncoolguy93 i usually watch content in my tv with the chromecast, in a laptop yeah, would be enough with the ad blocker. But yeah, mi bad, depends on the case.

[@adwoamk8918]

@@pablopoggio4899 13 ad breaks no thanks.

[@QueenBeeBeautyXO]

I'm watching all the ads too. This young man deserves it! F$CK WEDDINGS!! All they are is a big party for your friends.I WOULD MUCH RATHER TAKE THAT MONEY AND GO ON A BAD A$$ HONEYMOON FOR BOTH PEOPLE,INSTEAD OF A PARTY FOR LEECHES!!☠😈🤬😱😡💩

[@davidcole2337]

Good news is she was Girlfriend and you didn't have any kids. That is when it really sucks.. You are young and can move on.. Better off.

[@lowdieee]

Lol welcome to my life

[@joenyc]

dontworry boutit how is it

[@lowdieee]

Joe very weird part

[@looeesj]

There are some bad stuff that happens to us that in the end we glad it did happen. Just by seeing this video and the constant gaslighting and blame shift, he dodge a bullet there.

[@roxyr6432]

Yes!! Should feel so lucky he doesn't have kids!!

[@JerseyJacob]

This was sad af bro. Watched the whole thing. We've all been there. I hope you have recovered after all this time.

[@jennalillywho]

I'm getting so "triggered" by these messages - gaslighting is insane. Glad you're out of that mess.

[@IndohNintendo]

No joke, that gaslighting was some of the meanest I've ever seen. Cruel doesn't begin to describe it. I felt so bad for him. Edit: Not important, but you can tell from his texts that his former friend is painfully dim.

[@bweany6728]

@@IndohNintendo facts

[@debravoll6043]

@@IndohNintendoor he is wayyyyy hopeless, angry and not showing growth in his self pity parties. Sure its everyones fault. But he needs to grow up or learn how to make better choices.

[@IndohNintendo]

@@debravoll6043 He seems to have learned from his mistakes when it comes to romantic relationships and he's definitely doing well for himself financially, I'd say.

[@bulletsfordinner8307]

Right? It triggers my anxiety big time too!

[@mickehog76]

It's better to be alone, than be with the wrong person.

[@shashirekhakamle4655]

How to kn if the person wrong r right?

[@ZongTaVEVO]

Hey Joshua, Thanks for the video. I hope it brings comfort to you that you’re not alone, I went through EXACTLY what you did. However I was much more heavily invested. 16 years/4 children. From the deception, the gaslighting, the confusion, the self-doubt. I’m in tears just writing this. I understand you, the way we still explain ourself from their accusations because we’re afraid some people might buy it. I’m glad you’re doing well. Many of us don’t make it. It’s time we move on, the person we thought they were died a long time ago.

[@butterflygirl2285]

This ex-male friend of yours sounds like a narcissist.

[@user-pv9pv4xf9c]

he sounds like a sociopath. It was insanely manipulative how he gaslit his own friend and he wouldn't man up and admit what was going on.

[@Uber_scorpion]

Was thinking the exact same thing. Everything was me me me me. God what an insufferable person.

[@Kabaselefh]

Even the girlfriend was a narcissist too

[@btsmith]

Yep, probably a malignant narcissist. And the girlfriend is probably one as well.

[@misinterpreted6395]

Dude any "friend" that complains you don't have enough time for them is not a "friend", they're your child.

[@SpencerLemay]

For real... it's not my fault you aren't happy.

[@misinterpreted6395]

@@SpencerLemay exactly bro. It's not to say we can't be there for our friends and vice versa, but so many have this needy mentality like you owe them something. We're all adults here, grow up.

[@edwinholcombe2741]

Exactly

[@AwakenedTarget]

They are both f_cking Narcissist.. I admire your courage and good heart. They doesn't deserve your kindness.

[@eleasahridley2524]

Well said :-)

[@sheauwn6974]

I've only ever had one girlfriend (currently 25 yo). She was a liar, manipulator, and a good enough projector to stream 4K video. I didn't know that until the very end, when she betrayed me and tried to turn my friends against me; I had objectively done only good for her. The dude she left me for (and is actually engaged to) is my favorite person in the entire world. Not only did he take away my biggest burden, but he took that burden for himself. Bless that man! All the best to them both.

[@Donotcare6]

Most of them are like that bro

[@Broken_Helix]

That is a great way to think about it. It just makes me wonder to what extent she knows of her manipulation. Like you would expect her to recognize it and take some accountability and apologize to you.

[@sheauwn6974]

​@@Broken_Helix She is fully aware and has built her entire life on those lies, doubling down at each opportunity. For her to ever take accountability would mean complete dis-ownership by her friends and fiance.

[@fazesw2343]

That’s why u should try not to have emotional attachmentments to women see every woman you date as temporary cause believe me she will cheat if she gets a opportunity to

[@bobsanders4802]

@@Broken_Helix people like that don’t take accountability. It’s like how signs are for people who don’t read signs

[@MickadaHead]

Damn man, betrayal by your partner and best friend must be the worst. Good on you for working through this and coming out stronger, that's really impressive.

[@normantran4049]

When girl starts suddenly defensive. That's a red flag.

[@r.i.petika829]

Norman Tran being defensive is a common thing on both sides, the issue is when they don’t want to back down or listen after awhile. That’s the red flag

[@RageForm]

When they say “we need a break” just rap it all up

[@alexlegrand4912]

That is facts

[@TheArmedNurse]

So true! Nobody will request a break unless they're unhappy with the relationship. He should've just accepted it as over right there and ended things.

[@cuauhtemocmorisco3493]

Yes

[@samuelsanguino8422]

*Ex beatboxes* We rapped it

[@samuelsanguino8422]

Btw it's Wrap

[@kaylah3547]

He is jealous of you, your good looks, your career, your everything. He wanted to take something of yours to feel like he could beat you at something..But it didn’t work out because he actually did you a favor by taking an ungrateful, selfish, liar off your hands! #10PointsForGryffindor

[@abegohr2576]

Kayla H only 10 points? We gotta pump those numbers up if we want to win the House Cup.

[@souvikmitra6161]

Also got rid of his "best" friend who was a terrible influence and not worth a second of one's time. I honestly can't imagine how he could be so pathetic!

[@souvikmitra6161]

@jj santi the friend ditched her already tho.

[@mariosmatzoros3553]

@Why Why Why Why Joe 'Groper' Biden Empires are nice.

[@nothumanff5900]

What about her she is for the streets

[@alansapilipinas]

You need to learn that all women operate with the same wiring. They all leave, they all cheat, they all get bored, w a few exceptions.

[@TheUltimateNatural]

How many failed relationships have you had that led you to that conclusion?

[@alansapilipinas]

@@TheUltimateNatural many of mine but it’s the countless testimonials and anecdotes that prove red pill theory

[@TheUltimateNatural]

@@alansapilipinas testimonials and anecdotes from people you know personally or online? Also how exactly did your relationships fail?

[@MelancholyArmy]

When you see your friend being a snake to people, don't be surprised when they snake you

[@clintbrooks7753]

In time, the snakes start to sing. ~ BMTH 🤟

[@ashleyjohnson5049]

Seriously, why would you surround yourself with someone who treats people like crap and say, "it's not my place to judge??"

[@MelancholyArmy]

@@ashleyjohnson5049 Exactly! You know your friend is toxic and you were complicit to their actions for years. I can't feel too sorry for him.

[@samsand1295]

hmm, think about your circle, do you think it works as easily like that?

[@MelancholyArmy]

@@samsand1295 the saying "you are who you surround yourself with is very valid". I am careful on who I consider a part of my inner circle. I can't stand being complicit to messed up actions such as stealing, lying, and cheating. I get if your friend makes a mistake, but he knew this man's whole character was fucked up from day 1. So much so he had to warn his SO about how bad he was. Imagine having to warn people that your best friend is trash.

[@artisticagi]

Morals of the story for me: don’t make friends with trash people. You see their trash behavior but because it doesn’t affect you it’s okay....until it does affect you.

[@Durka-Durka]

That's really smart. If you see somebody back stabbing, lying, and cheating people in their other relationships, why would you think they wouldn't do it to you someday?

[@julzalta6466]

I learnt that the hard way.

[@YAHAWAHWAYAHAWASHI]

facts

[@carlosfdz7807]

Exactly, Josh did not care until it happened to him.

[@keraalea]

This 👏🏾will👏🏾preach! So true!

[@rustifowler9384]

She was doing all of that damage control and lying about you because she was wrong and she knows it.

[@DowntownSound1]

EXACTLY.👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@sirshep4915]

I love that you gave us all the evidence. You just benefited by getting two incredibly disgusting and toxic humans out of your life! Congrats to you dude :) you must be a lot happier.

[@Larry-qz3es]

Remember the "One and done" rule, she cheats on you, it's over. No second chances.

[@__Paul__]

@John Jourdan If that is what you truly think, then you are right. However, the issue is that most men do not know what they are worth. If you at least try to take care of yourself, have self esteem and self respect, and don't live in small, isolated area, then you can have a choice when it comes to women. It doesn't mean that every woman will be yours, but many guys can have a much better selection of women than they think. All of guys make TONS of mistakes, including myself, but it doesn't have to always be this way. We must continually strive to make a better self. From all the experiences I have, I can tell with just how Joshua speaks, as well as the situation he described, he is not very good with women, and doesn't have much experience. One of the best sources online is Corey Wayne. He is not about BS pickup lines and all that immature crap. Life is about RELATIONSHIPS.

[@frankvonfrauner]

@John Jourdan it's harder for him, because he has clout, and women will try to monkey branch to someone like Josh, keeping their boyfriend at a distance.

[@minglee9288]

Yup its crucial to give no second chances these days especially when it comes to females

[@edwhatshisname3562]

Yup, "one and done". One relationsh*t, and done with them for good. When the horror stories drastically outnumber the happy endings why bother?

[@MrTiny007]

True.. Learned this the hard way. No second chances 👍

[@3vilSuperman]

Jesus, stories like this make me never want to be in a relationship again.

[@hiphopstrongman]

Save your money, save your time, save your mentality, save your peace.

[@Migman2020]

Not all women are like that though.. just have to take your time when finding the one.. but yeah alot of women are this messed up and try to blame guys lol

[@KC-si8jn]

@@Migman2020 another 4 years to find the one? Lol

[@KC-si8jn]

#RedPill

[@Jackywitha_y]

He moved on. Anyone can.

[@leesteal4458]

Your girlfriend and your best friend should not be talking behind your back.

[@riverdaletales8457]

Yeah that’s a setup right there.

[@laurenjames6630]

Happens more often than you think 😶

[@olive4naito]

True, but it sounds like he already didn't like his friend very much anyway. From what Josh describes, he told his girlfriend everything that was wrong with his friend. I wouldn't want to be friends with someone as he described.

[@Billabongbabalog]

Lol they shouldn't really be talking at all

[@leesteal4458]

@@Billabongbabalog So true.

[@arnulfovasquez7583]

The most drama I experienced was in college. After college, life went smooth sailing. Now, my main worry is making sure I have enough for retirement. It is disappointing we treat each other horribly. I hope this guy met his loved one.

[@inheinzsight8593]

So she She flew to a whole another state to get the D unprotected by someone she knew u were close to then had the audacity to confirm it and ask to move back in... I can’t

[@YusofIbnTashafin]

That's called entitlement. Enabled by all the thirsty simps out there.

[@ninepuchar1]

Wtf ,screwed up mind😶

[@inheinzsight8593]

Zenish Khumujam nah he knew what time it was lol

[@dutchessdioji9368]

Puts the B in bitch

[@SammySam7x]

@Abu Hassan There might be some truth to your statement but you can't say we chose or wanted this. No one ever asked for my vote. The ball got rolling long before most of us were even born.

[@mdiscreetfun4you]

He was not your best friend. A best friend would never do that to you. Her. Don’t trust her.

[@I_am_Raziel]

Maybe he was Joshes best friend, but obviously NOT the other way around. That guy just didn't care.

[@kimberlyb9608]

I was engaged and my friend was supposed to be in wedding. They slept together in my house while I was sleeping. My gut told me, he denied it, she denied it. She moved away and didn't tell me. When I was going through a divorce, he left a message saying they did sleep together and she was better. I have 2 sons, so I don't regret marrying him. ALWAYS trust your gut.

[@mdiscreetfun4you]

What scumbags - both of them

[@mdiscreetfun4you]

Very true. Total skank for doing that. Broke all the rules of the Bro Code

[@keysersoze4001]

Wanting to take a break is girl code for "I'm cheating, have been cheating or want to cheat " and let's break up .

[@cell9899]

claude charles well you can’t force anyone to stay. If they’re not happy, best you take up on that break and let her move on.

[@brettlaw920]

If they want to take a break, say "Yes", and don't get back together. If you say "No" and they want to take a break, they will probably cheat. If you say "yes", you will be disadvantaged in pursuing real relationships, and if you get back together, you will be treated as someone they can abandon and come back to as a safety net.

[@XHitsugaX]

@@cell9899 no. First you call her out on the shit. Then you quit. Accepting a break will mean she will use you emotionally once she is done fucking around with a bunch of guys.

[@firstlast-sm6hx]

@@brettlaw920 being unsure of a relationship and wanting to think things over isn't abandoning someone.

[@UltimteBoxerSteveFox]

This is true unfortunately.. when my girl told me this our relationship went downhill real fast. Sucks

[@MaximusMeridius-ke3vq]

You r a wonderful human being. U really are.

[@myristicanz]

You dodged a bullet, trust me you’re better off without her.

[@tchunnid2121]

myristicanz I think he took the bullet my guy, he got cheated on

[@leesteal4458]

With friends like that, you don't need enemies. What a horrible friend.

[@bernadettesandoval3990]

Your only mistake was engaging with them after discovering that she lied about her trip. After that discovery, you tell her parents, then never talk to either of them, block the numbers, etc, and dont look back, keep moving forward.

[@ergeorgiev]

That was him doing everything in his power to make it seem like she's actually the person who he wants her to be (faithful, etc.). He wanted to hear something that would actually make it okay and help them get back together, that it was a all a huge prank or wtv. It's really destructive towards himself, but it's a sign of how good of a human being he is. Even at the end he asked her several times if that's what they did and he didn't truly believe it until she said it and his heart sank, but it was also the moment he could finally move on.

[@solon2923]

Agree

[@ionut-cristianratoi7692]

I disagree, closing it up while having doubts, can work in their advantage. Think about it, he was alone, having few friends. Doubts of guilt will start to creep in, especially when you're lonely and sad. That could have been used against him from his ex, to get back together. So I think the way he did it, was the best approach.

[@edwinholcombe2741]

I agree. After he realized what the 2 were doing he should have put up a wall of silence. Don't allow them a chance to set up BS narrative on how, why and play him. His silence would have put them in a stupor of wondering and uncertainty. He then would have held all the cards.

[@estasmagick]

True but sometimes you have burning questions as to why and you also need closure

[@minerocat]

lol, I´ve heard "we´ve met in Tinder" and inmediately laughted my *ss off lol. Things happen for a reason

[@pauliemills]

Never heard of this guy and I watched the whole thing 😂😂

[@MrSarvad]

😂

[@keychaful]

Same lol

[@ericdurbin88]

Me too

[@spacecats3649]

lol

[@chriibbbjj5921]

Same man😂