Nice Guys & Beta Males Always Make These Mistakes With Women

[@JostenJ]

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[@doctoralla2067]

I don’t have a relationship yet as I am quite young(22), but I have a question about marriage. What would you do if you had a wife who disrespects you from time to time. I feel like it is much harder to walk away the same way you’d walk away from a woman who you aren’t in a relationship with. Love your videos a lot. Keep cookin 🍔 🌭

[@Dru2maBoii]

If you gotta stop being you, to be with someone else, you know you've messed up.

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@paulmoore11]

My ex brother in law was a nice guy. He was married for 5 years, gave her everything that she asked for and gave nothing to himself, she ends up leaving him for her boss smh

[@JostenJ]

This is what happens when you work for a woman instead of having her work for you. I hope he learned his lesson.

[@420yoloswagy]

If you love a flower, don’t pick it up. Because if you pick it up it dies and it ceases to be what you love. So if you love a flower, let it be. Love is not about possession. Love is about appreciation. -osho

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for sharing this

[@OrmazdYahu]

*Be cool with the ladies, but be stern and adamant in your actions.* 💎

[@adekunlejosiah2939]

Couldn't have said it better.

[@JostenJ]

Exactly! YOU ARE THE OPPORTUNITY 💯

[@201cag]

A womens greatest super power is you not knowing yours

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in

[@tokyo9766]

As a tall guy who's 6'5 and introverted but funny. i always wondered why I got interest and it died down over time. I realize I was trying too hard when we started talking and I set a high standard thanks to you.

[@miguelfranklin6427]

What do you personally do instead then?

[@JostenJ]

I’m glad you understood the the video brother. YOU ARE THE OPPORTUNITY! never set the bar high because women aren’t special at all. By women’s standards you’re pretty special right? So why lower yourself for the same ones that say “height matters” and blah blah blah💡🧠

[@rastafit23]

💯

[@Simo-d3t]

Don't be a nice guy, be a good man.

[@JostenJ]

Exactly! Lead yourself as a proper man and everything falls into place.

[@Kedo002]

I needed the harsh reality I never had a gf and I’m 23. Been working on myself. The nice guy stuff definitely some I need to work on since I was taught to that. More unlearning to do as always

[@TheBrice379]

Josten, you 100% a prof. Then, I must admit that women are so good at playing games, and the only way no to fall is to do you. Care less about her, and she will chase you. I did it multiple times, and it always worked.

[@razvanescu]

As a tall guy (7ft2) i was very shy 3 4 years ago and i was a king of simping like watching who liked her photos watching every story and shi. When i realized damn, i put too much effor on this girl and she never show bare minimum on interest. Right now i see myself as a prize, as a man who never comes twice in her life and I'm on my grind like i was never before. We are the prize gentleman's.

[@JostenJ]

I’m glad you learned your lesson. Keep putting yourself first brother!

[@toddwashington8163]

​@@JostenJbro you are pure evilllll lol... in a good way... I love ittt

[@ibrahimadandirir9891]

I Just stop try to chase women like 3 years ago. I need just focus on my health and my goals

[@JostenJ]

YOU ARE IMPORTANT! Love yourself first

[@ibrahimadandirir9891]

@@JostenJ yes sir

[@finn9000]

This is so eye opening, I was 100% going about my life in the way you taught me, but once I met my current GF (only 3 monthd ago !) I completely changed for her, I'm constantly bending to her will. I'm putting her always before my needs and its crazy since it feels natural to me now. I'm basically always trying to earn her attention/ validation and its pathetic. Really need to switch it up. Thanks brother

[@uneekbeets]

I'm married and I still find the advice on your channel very useful, because as time goes on we are both different people still learning each other.Awesome energy as usual, thanks brother J!💯💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for

[@Gematria142]

I've learned to put myself first. Just being myself and not trying to enough for someone. Be you never lower yourself ☺️

[@JostenJ]

Facts never lower yourself to fit in

[@naniyumi]

As a woman, you definitely spoke facts, keep spreading the message King 👑🙏🏽

[@JostenJ]

Thank You

[@100JK]

Watching your videos feels like a puzzle in my head getting solved 🔥

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother

[@mediumchungus9662]

A coworker of mine got dumped 2 years ago and he's told me time and time again about how he struggles to get over her, yet he goes and does favors and helps her at the drop of a hat. Positively reprehensible and I hope he snaps out of it lmao

[@FinancewithEJ]

Why doesn't your channel have more subscribers and views? Because, you drop a lot of good gems!

[@JostenJ]

I don’t do this for the views and subscribers that’s just a bonus. I’m here to elevate minds and drop gems for my brothers 🙏🏾

[@H8itorluvit]

Brother always on point with your vids/msgs. Man I was with this chick for about 4 years and my intuition was always telling me that shit ain’t right with this chick but I learned the hard way cause when all was said and done everything my intuition was telling me was all right. I guess i put myself thru all that cause I didn’t know any better at the time and was being a simp and the nice guy but fk all that. I have learned from ya that women gotta earn your respect & time. When u give it up too ez then they’ll just see u as standard and replaceable. Much luv my gz, god bless !

[@JostenJ]

I’m glad you learned your lesson 💯

[@Escobacruz]

I been cooking since I found your channel .. Keep it up 💪🏿

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for bro. Keep winning in life 💪🏾

[@ldc4567]

GAME IS GAME 💪 damn it’s crazy how accurate this video is 🔥 I guess I’m doing some right ! Keep up The good work brother 💯

[@JostenJ]

Keep making women work for your time and attention. Focus on your goals and love yourself first always 🙏🏾

[@malikware1938]

This video was right on time. Thank you Josten

[@JostenJ]

I got your back bro

[@johntynan8161]

excellent nuggets of wisdom there...wish i had known this 20yrs ago.... just out of 19 yr relationship

[@wersus167]

Your videos really opened my eyes. I had an unsuccessful relationship where I tried to "please" her every time, basically I was agreeable to the max with her, sacrifising my own "wants" and "needs" to please her. No wonder we broke up and it was not her fault but MINE. Currently I began seeing different girl, and I've begun applying everything that I'm learning from you. We'll see where it goes. If it wont work then so be it, I am a MAN not a door mat.

[@MMKnight_1]

I started off masculine with a girl I liked and she seemed to like me too. Over time I lost myself and got way too feminine. Started using tons of emojis and was too nice to her for simple things.

[@BrianChristian-up7tk]

Happens to the best of us. This girl at work got put as my driver helper, so I basically had to give her orders. The first day we spoke all day and after work as well ..she was feeling me a lot cuz basically I was being masculine and very firm when telling her when and how to do things. She left me hit after only 3 days of working together. We started hooking up and like the dummy I am, I fell for the p🐈ssy. After about a month or more of straight hooking up I became really nice and I made everything about her, gave her boyfriend energy, I would even text her after work all rest of the day , (even though we spent the entire day together at work) using emojis etc... saying goodnight texts ... Yes super feminine energy.. she literally asked to get moved to another department 😂😂😂 I learned my lesson and watching this video proved everything, that women do not like dudes with feminine energy or boyfriend energy.. This girl went from being so attracted to me and smash within a few days of working with me...

[@Gunsmoke4L]

Amazing content, Now after 6 months of watching videos and learning I’m starting to become the stoic and masculine self and lose the nice guy frame Also you can read no more mr.nice guy book, helps a lot

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in

[@dosemulero3963]

LET’S COOK BOYS,LETS COOK!!! YOU ARE HIM!!!!

[@JostenJ]

AND THEY ARE THEM! Remember that 💪🏾

[@georgemuhoro]

I had this epiphany the other day realizing that most of this shit comes down to leadership and all the points you're talking about literally stem from that one fundamental concept.

[@JostenJ]

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[@extrabaron]

Good vid bro💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

Thanks bro bro I appreciate it 💪🏾

[@TukoSamuel]

Keep it up josten j , you are the best and you really changed my mindset , Thank you

[@Roby48068]

Great Video J! Thanks a lot brother!

[@jakedill19]

Be a hunter. Not a sucker

[@JostenJ]

Exactly! They work for you it’s not the other way around.

[@John_POP]

great video. nice balanced perspective.

[@JostenJ]

Thanks brother

[@Noir0rioN]

Women only want two things: 1) More. 2) Something else.

[@AnabolicAsylum89]

Hahaha good one

[@rashidosumanu5164]

Great video bro💯‼️

[@jaydencampbell3321]

Bro doesn’t miss!!!

[@JostenJ]

Let’s cook!

[@SeanSolo605]

Rick and morty!! I knew i liked thus dude

[@OhSoLucius]

Another HIT 🔥

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for watching

[@dunoclenor]

This was a banger

[@JostenJ]

I had to keep it real!

[@jacobd9836]

This video came like 2 months too late 😆 I made all of these mistakes in the two months we dated, and she lost attraction. Of course.

[@JostenJ]

You learn from your mistakes

[@M4X1]

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[@bYz4rEel]

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[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG!!!

[@willread8376]

As a neta male, we dont take them seriously. We are satisfying our imagination. We know the woman we desire is rare. Whoever gotta play these type of games is not worth it. Agreeable meets Agreeable Period everything is mutual. Everything

[@helicleniolopesdozoloklein7427]

What he’s saying is right

[@sicklesbrandon]

Let's go

[@JostenJ]

My bro 👊🏾

[@joelpowell7787]

Great video man. Useful information.

[@El28z]

Even if a chick came on this video to comment, dudes will still simp. It's embarrassing, lack of discipline and self respect.

[@nastoothurl_]

Shit I need to talk u bro 1on1 on why I get ghosted a lot by women

[@JostenJ]

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[@JostenJ]

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[@JostenJ]

Look online they have all different ones

[@handsome_Xpress]

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[@JostenJ]

Thanks for watching

[@rastafit23]

💪🏾💯 COOK

[@JostenJ]

Let’s Cook!!!!

[@adolforangel1236]

HIM

[@JostenJ]

Let’s cook!

[@josuerivera6981]

I love you bro♥️

[@JostenJ]

Thanks for tuning in brother

[@shifty8948]

Big bro Josten is Always speaking facts, prioritise yourself and the women will follow. Let’s go boyssss🫡🫡

[@JostenJ]

You have the right mindset brother!