Why Women Get Confused When They Can’t Manipulate You

[@JostenJ]

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[@danishnajfi]

Dude youre the guy to take advice about interacting and fucking women.

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

They cant stand when they cant play you

[@JostenJ]

It’s funny honestly

[@kennyran1]

​@@JostenJI personally like to leave them playing the game by themselves...ie move on and let them think there's still something there

[@taylorc2542]

They get seriously mad if the can't manupuliate you with sex. It means you don't even want to bang them which is the ultimate insult for people who survive on sex.

[@SonicSpeedfan23]

Yeah, or go along with it but then do the opposite

[@bman6198]

I went out with this girl, and we hit it off pretty good. She tried pulling off some stuff like in this video and I stopped her right there, I was like "Oh Hun, you think you're running game on me? You may want to step back and think about who's feelings are going to be hurt here."

[@bobbyrebholz2183]

The higher up you put a woman on a pedestal, the farther down she has to look to see you.

[@Roots_culture727]

That's true.

[@smocloud]

I hate seeing women act in a way that seems to justify the perception men have that “treating women like dirt is how you get them to chase you” is true without seeing that they’re the ones actually perpetuating their own perception that this is the case (when it REALLY isn’t) with their consistently bad choices, actions, and behavior that they then shift blame for onto the men that they choose to sleep with and then somehow think they should advertise to the world with the expectation of being celebrated for it. It’s actually sick, because all it means is that they’ve just turned into the sexists that they already think men are, and they label their behavior as feminism and corrupt its original purpose when they demean themselves like this.

[@Dru2maBoii]

Women are only attracted to strength. They may not always appreciate it, but they will always be attracted to it. It's biological. Never waiver and never switch up. Stay consistent. They'll fold every time.

[@JostenJ]

See you understand brother !

[@cinaedmacseamas2978]

I’m at the point where I don’t care if they fold or not. I’m not working for them, I’m not working out to improve my physique for them. It wouldn’t matter anyway, so why go through the struggle. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze.

[@Dru2maBoii]

@@cinaedmacseamas2978 it's not that you do anything for them. It's just for you to understand why they do what they do so that interacting with them(if you choose to) is more tolerable. A lot of guys get frustrated, and there's no reason to. Women are simple if you pay attention. You can know what they are gonna do before they do it.

[@cinaedmacseamas2978]

@@Dru2maBoii sorry, not wasting my time

[@Dru2maBoii]

@cinaedmacseamas2978 all good. It's not a waste of time. It's just not worth your time right now. The knowledge is meant to be used whenever it's necessary.

[@extrabaron]

Be like an immovable rock. The crashes of her emotions or her trying to manipulate you should never move you off square.

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@iconicshade]

Preach brother

[@kiralight2929]

Indeed. If they can make you mad or sad, they have beaten you.

[@Moonbeam74]

Silence is GOLDEN

[@JostenJ]

Exactly

[@dianatanasov7267]

The best thing is silence not punishing anyone but is not wise to use energy on anything else but yourself.

[@rdssts31]

And meditation is bitcoin

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

I refuse to play games. Im a man not a little boy.

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG

[@random-content6969]

But bro women behave like child. It's ur duty as an adult to punish them for their bs

[@samuelsackey3976]

the best way to impress a woman is by not trying to impress her

[@elijahdratte1118]

Like you said JJ, My new favorite thing to say now is: “Okay Nevermind” and keep it moving. They don’t like that.

[@JostenJ]

It’s funny how in real timing when you say that chicks start trying to be on their best behavior

[@justmusic3441]

The less you pay attention and invest in women the more free and king like you become. This lesson of life i only learned after decades of chasing useless these useless entities

[@SL-lb6lz]

Remember they are them and you are HIM! Masculine, Intelligent, Handsome! OFF RIP! LET'S COOK BOYS!!! LET'S COOK!

[@JostenJ]

THEY ARE THEM!!!!

[@jimvenanzio6561]

We have To Cook The CURE

[@jamowicc]

boys its very important to never take this stuff personal, keep working to better yourself so at the end of the day you always win💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

Facts 💪🏾

[@PublicNuisance2K24]

If she knows u have options then she cannot manipulate u

[@paxsevenfour]

That’s good advice for real. And it also applies to basically everything else in life too! Take work, for example: always be practicing your interview skills & keep your résumé updated so you can bounce back quickly if your current job doesn’t work out for whatever reason.

[@akeemayeni156]

Always always decline the friend invitation. You're making yourself an option not thee option ya dig. If you do however she might still choose you but you wouldn't be her number one choice; and she will seek compensation for that meaning give her everything she's want and more. The "relationship" would be of pressure and completely one sided. Don't put yourself thru that.

[@JostenJ]

Facts

[@jaredsaucedo7562]

“Women only act how you allow them to act”

[@jokhard8137]

Exactly. It's in the nature of a woman to test her boundaries. It makes sense from their perspective. You just have to understand their experience is not ours and women tend to not hold themselves to the same standards as men because they're not built for that. Don't take it personally if they don't behave like men. They're women, of course they won't behave like men.

[@No_one448]

Like a child

[@smocloud]

Ironically, so do men. That’s what makes it both funny and a little sad when they blame men for their behavior, like men aren’t acting toward you the way you’ve been letting them, like your own behavior isn’t what’s attracting only the dirtbags.

[@jahbless3220]

"You are HIM and they are them!" Always hits hard 🔥🔥🔥

[@Escobacruz]

Any girl that uses the word 'like' in every sentence is a such a turn off.. Like shutup

[@JostenJ]

Facts!

[@elijahgodsservant2906]

That’s mostly all of them in college.

[@suavoman90]

Amen🙏 when women do that... it's sounds like a panic attack!

[@lobsterbisque7567]

I find it extremely bothersome. It's become a default filler word when they have no idea which word to say next. It makes them sound stupid

[@summerman2]

Like for real!!! HahahHhaaaa!

[@CM-rg9zg]

Had some babe cry and hold my hand because of her divorce on first date. Days later, she was pretty distant and nonresponsive by text. Then she says she was sick and also was at neighbors. Now i give silent treatment. She calls next day. Still she gonna get the stone cold silent treatment. Forever.

[@frostcloud18]

I had a chick at my gym start playing games and now she talks and flirts with dudes in front of me and looks exactly at me after doing it to see my reaction. I just blocked her after asking her out for the 2nd time and she gave me a bullshit excuse and went to the club. now she looks for my attention every time I'm there

[@stillsuperfly1]

A woman that works with me does the same sh*t, flirts and makes plans with other guys in front of me after i asked her out, so i blocked and deleted her number, now she's either always staring at me or trying to put herself in places she knows I'm going to be, sh*t is weird

[@alemonkiki]

Had the same exact problem. Gym girls are the most insecure women out there. Best thing you can do is perma ignore her and start chatting up other girls. Lo and behold... as soon as you get another woman chase after you she will fear missing out and approach directly. You politely refuse and thats it.

[@frostcloud18]

@@stillsuperfly1 the gym girl does that too and then act like she's reracking weights only to stare at me

[@stillsuperfly1]

​@@frostcloud18She was probably expecting you to keep chasing her, and since you blocked her now she's just confused because if we're being honest most guys probably chase her

[@frostcloud18]

@@stillsuperfly1 yah I bet that's why I blocked her she was playing games and now she is trying to get me to chase again.

[@takumifujiwara4503]

"Women will always try to make you feel guilty for respecting yourself" 100% truth, I have realised this when I was still a teenager. Women just know (consciously or subconsciously) that if they can't manipulate some man, then they will have to put a REAL effort if they want to date him. And that's too hard for most of them.

[@xlentb9733]

They don't get confused they get bitter, angry and frustrated when they can't manipulate you

[@acquil5197]

Josten’s timing is 🔥 You must keep hearing it until it soaks in because female manipulation is a very real thing. You NEED these tools to fight the fight. “King’s treatment only..if I’m confused-walk away..hot and cold-walk away..goofy games/pullback-no contact.” Stay savage brothers!💪🏾

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG 💪🏾

[@Heisman-em8gp]

I recently shut down this girl at work. She kept flirting until I asked for her #. The 1st few days she would text back then go ghost. 4 days later, I sent a message about not pursuing any more. She responded instantly, so I automatically lost interest more. Now she acts rude around me.😅

[@Level_No_Curve]

Lol had a very similar situation st my work. Soon as i showed i didnt care and started talking to another girl she isnall rude and agressive towards me even though i havent changed up a bit

[@ab-iq6xn]

next time don't show her your cards ! aka don't tell her how you feel just do it. Women ruin your life when they know you are actively avoiding her

[@kennethyoung4892]

Stand on masculinity and business

[@remingtontucker9364]

About time men are taking the power back in relationships

[@breakthecycle1646]

New sub. Everything you said was spot on. 4 years ago i was a sucker because i didnt know the game. Now fast forward its so easy to cut them off. I use the kayne west analogy: “Theres a thousand you’s but only one of me. So how in the hell can you front on me?” Once i adopted that. The chicks who played or are trying to play me would do everything to get my attention.

[@JostenJ]

I’m glad you understand brother

[@zahwavyTV]

Always had a strong intuition but with content like yours my gut feeling is confirmed! Thank you 🙏🏾

[@JostenJ]

That’s what I’m here for brother

[@pietyaa]

Im on "no contact" about 1,5 year. Last saturday i heard that our common friend said that she still thinkin about me. I decided to introduce sllilence after that she never start whatsapp conversation first. Every first dialog, every first voice message was mine. And i met wonderful girl. We always makin all the things together. Communication? 50/50. Now i know what "we want together".

[@juanchocorleone]

I did this. I applied the "no contact" protocol and one day she wrote "hey, what up, why are you so silent... I'm gonna give you 5 mins to answer". After some hours I said "Hi. What happened?" and her reply was "I'm sorry but my ego was hurt by your lack of communication so... I wanted to know what happened to you?". We are not a couple, not even lovers. Nothing. But she thinks I owe her attention because I wanted to go out with her but she rejected me. Key word "wanted", because I understood she didn't want me sexually, and that's ok. But why does she feel entitled to my time if we are not going anywhere? Nah...

[@Jeffsilvaecom]

Something I notice on every video, comments section on Josten videos are by far the best I seen, fr! You guys comments and personal histories make the content even better!

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG !!!!

[@TheDavehirt1]

When someone comes back, dont you dare forget why they left. She can make ammends to you and herself by recognizing how to respect the next man she meets. Lesson learned better world. Thanks Josten.

[@sh4nks301]

Bro i have to thank you alot man. There is a women in my workplace who plays games with me. As you said when she realized that iam not playing anymore she blocks me and tries to get me jelaous with other colleuges. Worst thing is that she was my trainee. I invested alot of time in her and what is very frustrating is that she never really appreciate this. I told her that i like her because she send me obvious signs. Since then she plays Games. sometimes she creates drama where there is nothing. I am an impulsive guy but i realize that is exactly what she wants. Bro its very difficult to be stoic in these situations. I watch alot of your videos bro and iam appreciating your work.

[@mattf2297]

This dude is doing us all a favor and is spot on

[@callidus5586]

Yoooo, Josten, my dude , again with the GREAT TIMING. Someone tried playing with me today. Fellas, if she ever acts, says, or imply "ill keep you guessing," she's playing games 100%. - Shut that ish down immediately or cut her off if the interest is low.

[@JostenJ]

Good for you brother keep respecting yourself and never let them play with you 💪🏾

[@Taikutsuna1]

When a woman asks you if you think they’re pretty, you can acknowledge that they’re “Cute”. If they act like cute is an insult because they want to be “Gorgeous”… ask them what they want you to do about it.

[@Coveiled]

You are genuinely one of the most motivational, informative and helpful speakers on these topics, with a healthy perspective. You really do frame it like you're just a mate giving real, good advice. Legend

[@Joseph150ful]

Man these videos are Gold. I listen to these videos while driving to and from work and I can relate to everything. Protect this man at all costs

[@kwiyetwon9479]

Bruhhhh You describe like 20 chicks I know plus my ex-wife 🤣🤣🤣 Crazy man, these chicks got more games than a arcade spot 🤣🤣🤣

[@LydellAaron]

Dads: engage in "play" with your daughter at a toddler age, and play simulations, reflect behavior, and indirectly simulate the nuances within interpersonal relationships, like sharing, empathy, kindness and love.

[@MOCHI-ek6rc]

The best weapon against her is a younger and more beautiful woman. You will always win. Get money first. 😂😂😂

[@Vellust]

💯💯💯

[@summerman2]

Women are chasing a feeling.

[@aasastephenson1538]

This was a good one bro! Straight facts!

[@kevin25201]

This is powerful (love yourself and like yourself) 💯

[@jacqueshowell1400]

This guy is right on spot.

[@PlayGamerzful]

I have a women at work always orbiting around me, because i don't give her the attention that everyone gives her. One time she told me that she finds someone attractive at work. I asked her, if i should get her his phone number. She was really confused by that.

[@dougpalmer721]

Be so rooted in your being That no ones absence - presents Can disturb your inner - peace

[@tommurray2280]

Thanks for the knowledge. Could have used this years ago. Fortunate to have this now. I am seeing all their games now bc of your vids and some other men in the know. I am learning and applying.

[@kNowFixx]

real talk.

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@mikeyboii1971]

Your on point bro, excellent video, I have women staring at me on the train and it makes me uncomfortable so I just start checking out another woman, it annoys the crap out of them, works every time. Drizzle drizzle fellas.

[@beyondcalisthenics]

I'm happily married but i like your content & the way articulate your message ❤❤❤

[@theculturebrewingchannel5619]

Spent months on a woman, she was chasing me, I was letting her ask me to hang out etc. We had an argument, she was in the wrong. I was respectful and not aggressive during the argument. She ghosted me afterwards and it's been 3 months since. Not sure what to make of it, but I will never reach out to her again.

[@dhairston10]

Yup she hoping you to reach out remain stoic

[@OGTrollTroll8]

Don't break the No Contact. I'm 6 weeks in.

[@JasonSmith-h8k]

The dog barks at liars lol

[@Tayte25]

Let’s Cook Boys 🔥

[@BIG.C141]

🔥💥🔥💥🔥

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG 💪🏾

[@troysmith3218]

These are facts

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@fabianperez2252]

One of the realest videos I’ve seen in a long time. Your way with words and analogies is on point bro 🔥🔥🔥 Men we have to support each other cuz we are Kings in this dating game not Pawns.

[@YesIagreeBut]

Longtime member of the _"HIM GANG"_ here... Yo, Josten👍🏽 We should've had a _theme song_ for this vid here: Planet Patrol - _"Play At Your Own Risk"..._

[@mikelarry4912]

Wow well f n said bro 👍💪

[@davegallo8790]

Spot on, Mr. JostenJ!!!

[@luker1hutcher315]

Dudes looking ripped! Great video as always

[@jaxandrews4840]

Thank you Josten 🎉

[@JostenJ]

I got your back brother

[@oasiselliott]

Not lying at all. Good looking guys be going through that exact shit I had to block 4 in one week

[@newlyevans3093]

Learning a hole new mindset . Thanks for all the help brother cheers from canada

[@thebeardbeastx]

Big reason to keep busy and give every chick limited attention. They come through the less u talk to them. Texting is for making things happen. Weed through the women with low interest. Your always cooking

[@Demonicbread]

Thats It Bro. You're Officially My Coach 😂💪🏽

[@Specktacle1]

Well done sir. Great content. Thank you

[@vladydaddy9116]

You raise a lot of great points. I especially like the point that woman want to get derailed on the story like they need a masculine man to anchor them to get to the point or outline the progress made by having a plan. Usually the no contact method from men is like a counter manipulation, but you are talking about initiating that from an area of self respect, which is where I learned first hand it's effectiveness. If you are masculine, attractive, and maintain your dignity, you will see the dating world has devolved into mind racking games you are simply too good for. Women are going to manage their admirers because those guys operate on the same shared 3 brain cells and have them outplayed and view you and your impressively imposed self worth as poison to their posse. I don't even take it personally when women warrant the no contact method. She twisted her followers into suggesting that to her like she knows it's wrong to discipline a personality that has strength to him.

[@infuglenn]

This happened to me recently at work and if i think about it, it happened quite alot in my life but i never realised it, i had a hunch but your video confirms it. Thank you! A couple of coworkers came on strong to me, strong holding eye contact, showing of their bodies, bending infront of me and showing off their ass and in my opinion behaving weirdly. (Like walking past me then telling me: "Ooh i always walk this fast" when they past me, i never said anything. Or asking me out to drink, i say yes and then they ask me to send them a message to ask them out for drinks. Shit like this.) I didn't budge, then one day they asked me out. I saw a competition to get my validation, they tried making me jealous by talking about their flings and past flings, i started talking to other people. Next thing i knew they were around me, even stronger eye contact. When i talked to one the other was jealous and vice versa, to a point it actually frustrated me and i wanted to go home. I could had one of them right then but i didn't, i actually friendzoned them so the competition is still on although one of them gave up. I never did play one game, i just had selfrespect and followed my rule: No flings with coworkers. Now the other one is displaying behaviors i never seen before in a woman, i understand now! Glad i found your channel mate!

[@adriandennis3125]

Love this video

[@robbyjamez-v1x]

If she like that it’s the wrong type.

[@JostenJ]

💯

[@Trill_Tre]

Uncle J Noti GANG 🤣💪🏽

[@JostenJ]

HIM GANG 💪🏾

[@233kosta]

Just be like "What do you want? 😒" But probably best to ignore completely

[@johnnydeals]

Love ur comments man

[@rickyvaldez5205]

This is some good info. Thanks for sharing bro.

[@benjaminnielsen4288]

I've been asking this women out (on whatsapp) and she keeps giving me excuses and rejections, like she always does. So I said ok and I havent reached out to her at all this past month... I checked whatsapp today and she has me blocked now. I just dont get it. The games. She rejects me, I walk away, and then she blocks me. So confusing. Fuck this.... Its time to move on. If she's seeing another dude, He can have her. I'm out. I CAN DO BETTER.

[@benjaminnielsen4288]

@RexJacobus-bb1vw Well Rex, I get all of that. Those principles. But there's a lot to this story that you don't know. Too much for story time here. But I will tell you that I don't call her. I don't text her. I don't direct message her. She reaches out to me (to make sure I'm still around) and when she calls me or texts me, I will ask her out, and she will usually give me an excuse. I say ok and I walk away every time. People usually block you when you keep pestering them or harassing them or stalking them. I don't do that. Ever. Personally, I think she's with another guy and she doesn't want him to see our messages, or she doesn't want me to message her while they are together, or she doesn't want me to see her activity online. She's done this before. She'll block me, unblock me, block me again, and then she'll contact me later like everything is fine. She breadcrumbs the shit out of me and does her best to keep me in friendzone. But I don't reach out to her.... I just keep the door open, but on my terms. And by the way, this is not someone that I just met a week ago or some new interest. We've known eachother for many years and we were intimate for a long time. Then some tragic events happened in her life and everything changed. So yeah there's a lot to this story that you don't know.

[@dclarke2179]

​@@benjaminnielsen4288 😂

[@JohnQPublic345]

Women run on jealousy. Let her see you with another girl. Watch her text you

[@benjaminnielsen4288]

@@JohnQPublic345 yes! I plan to do that, especially after her latest bout of bullshit. She had the gall to call me while she was with the other guy, just to tell me that. I was so pissed off, it hurt. Then she told me later that he made her do it. Yeah. Fuck off whatever. I need to beat her at her own game.

[@charliebrown4799]

I need a homeboy like u in my life. There's nothing more embarrassing than being surrounded by thirsty ass simps who unintentionally derail my game.

[@thirdclyde1]

Facts!

[@julesfalcone]

I met an attractive woman yesterday who doesn't speak English. Her friend said "She says you have nice eyes." I said "Tell her she has excellent taste."

[@mutalemwansa5423]

Cuisine type and not for simps 👏🏾🇿🇲

[@Nolimit19734]

Bro you should be in Fresh and Fit You and Myron 🔥💯

[@DonavanBarraza]

thanks josten

[@Keysersoze30]

God bless you Mate !!!

[@Julio21M]

Bro thank you 🙏 chick I have been talking to I guess lol 😂 plays games so I stopped talking to her 1 day I was at Vegas she responded “thanks for the invite” wtf 😅 I responded later in the afternoon and no response

[@shinymew2887]

Never respond

[@JostenJ]

They always watch you to see if you will level up or have great experiences they can be apart of it’s hilarious. Keep living your life and winning brother 💪🏾

[@kiralight2929]

Speak brother!

[@privateupdate3747]

A woman will punnish you if you are not looking out for yourself. It's hardwired into them. THEY need you to put yourself and your grind first because when you are enough for yourself she will always benefit from you. Women hate dudes that act like liabilities to them emotionally.

[@cnc6421]

I can be friend with any woman. I won't delete her, I won't block her, and I can handle rejection very well and am not scared. If I like a girl I usually ask them out and I am very blatant with them stating "you can say no bc you ain't gonna hurt my feelings." I genuinely DO NOT CARE and am very non-chalant.

[@summerman2]

When you stop the attention, a woman will pretend to be confused to get you to think you made a mistake and will then resume the one-way relaionship and regaine the free attention. If she wants you, she will come after you. The truth is there are few good women left who don't think they call all the shots and want what she sees at a top 5% man.

[@carlostommybaggs5763]

Any woman can friendzone you. Try telling her to give you a call anytime then move on and talk to other people. Do not let her keep you from other opportunities. Once she knows that she has to put more effort into stringing you along than you expend being strung along, the manipulation breaks down and ends very quickly.

[@TheDavehirt1]

AND i saw TWO spirit orbs in your car during your video. One came from top down to the passenger seat, later, another came from upper part of middle of car, then started across toward your chest from your right, then vanished completely. Orbs tend to twinkle as they flow, or have a zigzag shape inside sometimes when you look close.

[@danijelkolaric1337]

man speaking facts

[@ih8lies339]

Facts

[@bigfonzostokes]

Thanks!

[@geraldgrogan]

Good video

[@nikherder9565]

the only time she would talk to me is when she wanted something, money, weed what ever. as soon as i stopped giving her anything for nothing i got unfriended...

[@jacktherip7750]

so True

[@txsaucyy]

Sometimes I pull a psychological reverse Uno. I will approach a girl talk to her like a normal person, but as soon as I see something off, I start doing a little too much. so in her mind, she already friends zon me, but that’s what I wanted her to think so the next time she see me I’m acting like a person. She never even thought I could be. Now I’m talking to girls that look way better than her, but she want me to prioritize her, nah you get treated like friend a bro lol eventually she started chasing me, wondering why I’m not spending time with her like that. Or why I didn’t approach her like that.😂 now she’s a lil jealous I put myself in a friend to show a girl I can have you if I want to. I simply chose to be that person.

[@steelresilience]

I haven't been on the dating market for adecade but if I get friend zoned, I'm gonna ask her to set me up with one of her friends. Why not? Oh, you don't want me? Okay, what about one of your friends?

[@jeromykuschel]

Thank you

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

What is the point in hanging around when she clearly and unambiguously told you that she sees you as a friend? “Fake” confusion is so real. It’s a manipulation tactic.

[@RedeemedRestored]

Low self esteem, narcissism and witchcraft are a bad combination

[@adreamytealfox8562]

Best video I’ve watched all night. I tried to warn her I wasn’t a sucka 😂 PEACE