JR and this fetish on The Ultimatum Season 3 Ep 2 | Review/Recap

[@terre00]

The show escalation is crazy: arrive, break-up, date, pick new partner in front of old partner, fake marry & cohabitate🥴😂 JR & Sandy can't wait to shed that old relationship skin.

[@kimmyb504]

🤣

[@destinyschild5768]

it’s crazy how JR and Sandy kissed before picking each other 😨

[@kwanzadixon4722]

I think they don't need to swap partners. I think they should bring a group of women and men for them to pick from: some singles that want to get married, and others that don't. The partner swapping is too messy and problematic.

[@theocnetwork1521]

Caleb is sooo cute he has very warm eyes

[@terre00]

Yes! He seems like a sweetheart

[@bosslevelcarter]

@@theocnetwork1521 I'm so attracted to Caleb he made me realize what type of man I want

[@KamandaHickey]

I agree ☺️

[@LNOTUE]

Oh yeaj....that guy is fiiine ngl😊😏🤭

[@theocnetwork1521]

@@bosslevelcarter THAT PART😍

[@dancestar722]

Kissing before they even picked each other was insane though

[@destinyschild5768]

Right!

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

That is definitely closer to cheating imo under the show and guise of couples. Definitely giving hallpass

[@dancestar722]

@ he touched body parts with her then said “I’m still torn on who to pick” 😭

[@Tking253]

Scotty scares me. Not liking or being comfortable with Aria’s emotions is not an excuse for his behavior. The way he treated her when she came to him with her feelings when he was holding hands with a new partner in front of her was wild. He raised his voice at her and accused her of coming at him. He is the one who gave the ultimatum and clearly he has no empathy for her feelings in this situation. Makes me doubt he ever tries to understand how she is feeling. Run Aria, run.

[@GiddyUpHeux]

@@Tking253 exactly if it was me, being the new partner and seeing him gaslight his ex like we didn't hold hands wouldve been grounds for me to say HELL NO

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

It's like Tre but without the Acrimony filter clouding our judgement of his dismissivness

[@BrownSkinGurl131]

I agree. They need to bring in a group of singles for them to choose from. It's not rocket science that they're not all going to find someone they click with within each other's partners.

[@Whit2legit]

If you’ve watched Put a Ring On it, I like that format better for that exact reason. Maybe they could just add better balance to the group with an even match of men and women issuing the ultimatum? Idk

[@BrownSkinGurl131]

@Whit2legit true although that show got on my nerves lol

[@24Kurenai]

This is the elevated version of Tenptation Island, bringing in singles makes it Tenptation Island without the beach. I think casting does try to cast couples who's partners have compatible personalities so that something could happen, it's just unlikely to bear fruit since they're not really separated from each other and each party is in a committed relationship.

[@BrownSkinGurl131]

@@24Kurenai that's still not a guarantee through the limited pool that you're going to find someone to match with. We have seen several times how people are into the same person and end up with somebody they're not really feeling. Yes there's always going to be potential for someone just to not really be into the process but in those scenarios where there are more options they usually can find someone that is suited for them to have a real opportunity whether they decided to give into the process or not.

[@Whit2legit]

@ 😂😂😂😂 it had its messy moments for sure because that last season was wild 😅

[@Briball19]

Crazy how JR is only interested in Sandy cuz she is white🫠🤨

[@lamino8-tg6ro]

It's called a fetish!!!

[@TheDime10Diva]

Don't get me started on this

[@GiddyUpHeux]

It's the "Im down to bone" energy she gave off that caught him up 🥴 he thought atleast he able to get some during this experiment

[@TheTravelingGem]

I said the same thing. This season, they’re a little ruthless with how they talk about how attracted they are to each other . They talk like they don’t even like their original partners lol

[@TammyTalks]

Okay...so it's not just me Lol

[@MammaMaisel215]

Scotty is crazy. Not having a bag should be Aria's smallest concern.

[@msshug9995]

I said to myself that he's crazy af

[@dancestar722]

Her name is pronounced like Zayna. Micah didn’t say he wanted to be with a white girl though! JR asked him if he had ever been with one and he said he’s had situationship but never actually dated. JR then went on his “I’m tryna see what that be like” energy 🫠🫠

[@Leslie27275]

JR wants to get laid

[@Miss24EE]

Yeah it was JR that was salivating over being with a white girl

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

J.R IS the epitome of dark Scorpio ♏ energy all they do is bring chaos in their wake ...run ...Zaina runnnnn. !!!😂😂😂😂

[@desireesamalla5670]

LOL…As a Scorpio, I endorse this message. I steer clear from male Scorpios.

[@beeamb4821]

My perspective is that Dave doesn’t want to be there anymore because he didn’t connect with anyone. He thought he had all the options and was in for a rude awakening. Nobody was attracted to him. Sorry.

[@MammaMaisel215]

I like Vanessa. Dave seems like he is throwing a temper tantrum because the thought he would be the Mac daddy and he is not. 🤷‍♀️ just my take.

[@destinyschild5768]

Dave seems really insecure to me. Why doesn’t he want Vanessa to do bodybuilding competitions????

[@mollyhendrix8435]

The way Sandy talks drives me crazy. Its like nails on a chalkboard.

[@cierrat6943]

😂

[@J3nnbk]

Zaina didn’t seem to give a damn or phased by jr 😂😂😂

[@folakeige5311]

@@J3nnbk I noticed that too lol

[@devochkadee]

I feel like Aria is ignoring or omitting Scotty'd red flags because she doesnt want to admit she's possibly in an abusive relationship. Speaking from experience, admitting that is very embarrassing and we can keep lying to ourselves just to avoid facing that truth.

[@Whit2legit]

Could it also be that she’s only dated other men like Scotty and he’s become the norm? Also, they are in a long distance relationship so I don’t feel like they are around each other long enough that it would escalate to a point of breaking up. It probably boils up, she goes back home, cools off and absence makes the heart grow fonder 😔

[@devochkadee]

@Whit2legit that's a very good point! Totally possible scenario. It's also hard for me to be 100% objective on this couple as he reeeaaallly reminds me of someone from my past :/

[@Whit2legit]

@@devochkadee I can’t stand Scotty, so I hope this experience helps her wake up and cut that off!

[@hatepholmes3273]

You dropped this at the perfect time omg I needed something to listen to while i eat lol, love your vids

[@KamandaHickey]

Either Zaina & JR are a fake couple or they took this “single” thing very seriously very quickly. They both feel very comfortable being physical with someone else in front of the other.

[@destinyschild5768]

I agree but some people move on quickly

[@Miss24EE]

I think they got together for the show. If you look at their IGs they have the most followers out of the whole cast. It’s giving they are influencers and wanted to get more followers

[@Absolutely1and2]

Zaina is desperate for marriage and JR is desperate for a good reason to get out of that relationship! Shame that Zaina looks the part and seems to be wife material!!!

[@tiffanyr6444]

JR posted some old pics to prove they were together. I think they may have been a thing in the past and were broken up when they went on the show. They went on the show for a come up!

[@dboyedoe]

My man Caleb is off a low-grade edible 24/7. He ain't tweaking or nothing, he just taking the edge off.

[@TammyTalks]

LMAOOOOO

[@ThinMint411]

😂😂😂 Yes, I see it now.

[@PurringKITTY-t8n]

I know that look. It was the first thing I thought, when I saw Caleb with his eyes half mask and the relaxed way he was speaking😹

[@LovelyKay09]

Sandy looks like Jessica from Love is Blind.

[@pheoliasmith4325]

Definitely love the idea of super single people being added to the mix so that they can get new people!

[@rashidawhite6617]

Nah, it was more JR with the white girl talk. Micah answered his question but he really wasn't acting the same as JR. Im not feeling JR...he is so ick.

[@Miss24EE]

Jr definitely gives me the ick .. he thinks he’s more than what he really is.. also giving colorist vibes

[@chloeg7353]

​@@Miss24EEand 🌈 vibes

[@wild3812]

Is Zaina and JR even a couple? They both ignored each other from the get go. No conversations, no jealousy, not even mentioning each others names. Are they both emotionally disconnected or something?

[@Enkaybe]

Yeahhh, it seems as though they just want to be on the show for the “fame”. I don’t think they’re in an actual relationship. Maybe FWB and just hit up each other to audition to get on the show 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@petrock7311]

I agree, Scotty wants somebody he can control. The way we’ve seen him talk to Aria, no sir! She’s so lovely, she needs someone that respects her, b/c Scotty certainly doesn’t. 👎

[@tonyajawwaad7933]

Same! having a bike was freedom we used to get on our bikes after we cleaned up on Saturday morning and be gone on our bikes. Just had to check in during the day and then check home again before the street lights come on and we had so much fun I think this generation of children have no idea how freeing that was.

[@jr5557]

I agree with you this season there were so many barbs and jabs thrown to the partners. They came on the show with. It was crazy

[@mm7365]

Sandy reminds me of Jessica on Love is Blind.

[@happygardener2921]

The Nutcracker is KILLING me! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TammyTalks]

LMAO, that's my little homie

[@shananagar1601]

I love when people say “I don’t believe in divorce” I like to perk up like a child who just saw Santa and say “oh! It’s real, my parents did it!!”

[@parabriana]

hair looks great, Tammy! ❤

[@thatssoapril405]

jr and sandy definitely just want to hunch ….. im pretty sure jr isn’t ever looking to marry anyone. I need zaina to leave w no one come the end of the show. i wish she matched w caleb he seems like the most genuine guy

[@rachelmoriahh]

27:09 😂😂😂😂 Tammyyy you are so funny i was getting it confused too

[@zakiyahjudah1688]

I fast forward pass sandy and Mr cornrows it just gives eat you up and spit out the bone vibes. The talk Jr had with micha ( think that’s right) was sooooo bad. Not being rude Sandy is not cute.

[@kimmyb504]

Sandy is regular degular!

[@msshug9995]

I swear she looks 45

[@hollywont9447]

@@msshug9995She does.

[@kelzway2405]

I fast forward Mr. Cornrows to and Sandy is not cute.

[@lamino8-tg6ro]

Same only couple I fast forwarded. Both seem superficial. Hate how she lied to Zaina about "no hookups"

[@e-one-off9870]

No Tammy you had it right the 1st time! “His hand is all but on her croutch”!!💀💀

[@GlamQueen728]

Love your reviews ❤❤❤

[@happygardener2921]

I feel like Dave didn’t want Vanessa to compete in body building competitions because he didn’t want other people looking at her body. He’s insecure and controlling - tries to minimize her while pumping himself up. “I may connect with someone. Mariah looks interesting.” Ninja Dave please 🙄

[@Talkthattawk]

I agree they need to bring singles in the mix.

[@shawnmckinney274]

As a person who also loves nutcrackers, keep bringing him in with his sword- I feel like he will be needed a lot! 😂😂😂

[@Dynamitemama]

I always find it weird when people say "divorce is not an option". It's the same as people saying "abortion is not an option"....like it's always an option. You may not want it but it's always an option. You'd be surprised what you would do when circumstances change

[@TammyTalks]

Right!!!!!!!!

[@Dom-if7rx]

It’s not an option for THEM

[@TammyTalks]

@Dom-if7rx yes it is

[@M_rubina]

Temptation island did this kind of show the right way lol

[@amylege5470]

Love your commentary! After I watch a show I look for it! But with this one, there’s so many different ppl and couples I was wondering if you could put up their pic each time you talk about them? .. or is that too much? I dunno what it is with this show but I’ve watched the first 3 episodes twice, maybe 🤔 more. I have epilepsy maybe this show is just too much for me. .. but I’ll be here for MAFS

[@LovelyKay09]

Scotty looks like the weeknd and musiq soulchild mixed lol

[@krystalsmith285]

I was waiting on your review 😂😂

[@Lilian-p8h]

I really like Nick, but the fact that he is with Sandy, makes me question his taste level. I like Vanessa for him, Dave doesn't deserve her, I don't care for him (he is not as hot as he thinks he is).

[@kc-db6fg]

@@Lilian-p8h i don't know i find it interesting both sandy's entire family and Mariah (who literally is in nicks exact position and is accused of being jealous herself) see some poor qualities that are extreme enough they don't view him as husband material; nick similarly to dave seemed pretty excited at the prospect of dating other women at first, where as sandy was more apprehensive about the concept; it wasn't till he realized sandy and jr really liked one another he completely emotionally dropped off with vanessa, which is funny everyone is forgetting nicks behavior with vanessa is pretty on par with the shadiness sandy has brought with jr; but nick dropping off on vanessa perfectly primed her to leave since her partner was in a similar boat with his trial marriage since neither of them had genuine interest in each other; dave also started with the exact same mindset nick had but unlike nick truly no one wanted him so he got to the place of being perfectly primed to leave with vanessa; point being i think people need to rewatch the parts where nick and vanessa still had romantic interest in one another a bit closer and the fact that sandys family was so quick to like jr considering everyone's backgrounds is very telling; along with mariah another funny thing is when asked who he'd like to get to know before they really had the opportunity to seriously delve in, he literally said mariah lol she is the youngest there and he's the oldest i found that very odd considering the issues he takes with sandy, point being i feel like we're getting a very curated sorrowful view of him and we unfortunately did not get to see much of who he is personally outside of how he feels for sandy when their relationship is completely under attack and he's on the defense, unlike everyone else because he didn't get to complete the experiment properly and something just seems like it's missing in that story; i need a concrete answer on what he did around mariah when he was venting that made her so uncomfortable she felt the need to tell sandy to leave, when most people in her position would use that opportunity to project their own wants, which is to stay with their partner and we know that's what she wants with caleb, she's also claimed herself to struggle with jealousy and insecurity, so if in her darkest time when she's all alone going through the exact same thing nick is thinks he's being so reactive no woman should be with him, it's genuinely because she thinks that she had nothing to gain by spinning a narrative to sandy, since she wants nothing to do with or from nick idk that holds a lot of weight to me...

[@Lilian-p8h]

@@kc-db6fg I did not watch ahead when I made this comment. Of course later we saw how emotionally unstable this guy is. At this point I would say he needs therapy and both Vanessa (she already did) and Sandy need to run. He is obviously a troubled soul.

[@RoxiieSays]

Oooh yaaas! They should bring in a batch of singles next season! That would be a mess! Not Nick Badu. I’m done 😂

[@Jewel296]

The idea you talked about in the beginning is kinda like a show called Temptation island!

[@sarajinki]

Lessgooo 🔥 liked before even going through it 😂

[@TamMcC]

What's your wingstop order Tammy?😂

[@happygardener2921]

Yes! Let’s hear it!

[@TammyTalks]

I get hot honey wings (all flats), fries, or sometimes the cajun corn. Lol

[@Dom-if7rx]

U mocking sandy is sending meeeee

[@jhussle1]

Caleb is 1/4 black his grandad is black

[@BrownSkinGurl131]

I've never been here so early 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TammyTalks]

😂😂

[@franchesscapalm6301]

Can you do the Later Daters? It is such a cute show!!

[@potcloverthegreat]

I felt like Dave is one of those guys who is possessive of his girl IMO He didn't like Vanessa body building because of the eyes on her body versus what it would do to her body composition.

[@PhilSoReal1]

My wife and I do meal prep but her’s is a lot more strict. We still eat dinner together. Just not the same thing, but it is a headache when grocery shopping

[@JayRec2017]

I know I might be the odd ball but I know what JR meant at 21:40 🤣

[@neldamayfield3037]

Agree!! Lots of shade!!!!

[@karencab9]

Liked before watching the video! Off topic but i hope you review The Later Daters. Would love to know your thoughts!

[@Leslie27275]

LOVED LATER DATERS!!!

[@cmcih227]

Yess!

[@TammyTalks]

I might be able to do that for you. Promise to watch? Lol

[@karencab9]

@@TammyTalks Of course!! We ready!

[@evegretta5600]

Love you Tammmmyyyyyyyyyy

[@TammyTalks]

🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@miarobinson968]

I don’t feel bad for Dave at all! Do you remember in episode 1 when he said he was excited to get to know Mariah?? He’s just mad because none of the women were checking for him

[@marcirobins5144]

They’ve combined MAFS with the Undateables. Interesting. 🤔

[@rachelmoriahh]

See after looking at they instas it kinda puts their actions in a different light for me. Like to me it seems like some of them influencers and got asked to be on here so they not really being serious. IDK maybe i just can’t believe people genuine on reality tv no more, it’s just for entertainment.

[@Miss24EE]

Exactly. I just said this about Zaina and JR….

[@Denisa-n5m]

Put a Ring On It basically does the same thing as this show. Has couples dating other people

[@DanielleHill24]

I think they can’t do it that way because of temptation island…

[@kimmyb504]

I swear they should change the name to FAFO b/c, this is stupid!

[@FeelTheRainOnYourSkin]

It's not just you this new season is really shady! Also I really like Nick. I may have my feelings change soon but he seems good. I keep skipping thru JR and Sandy. I CANNOOOOOOT!

[@nikkyface_]

now I wanna watch ATL🤣

[@tianipowell4254]

Nick badu🤣🤣🤣

[@Whit2legit]

Nick and Sandy seem to have a similar issue that Camille and Thomas from MAFS are having. I think it’s the age difference. Dating a person who is 10 plus years older than you can seem very weird or less “swaggy” as Camille would say 🙄

[@Miss24EE]

This is the main reason I don’t support age gap relationships unless the older spouse is laid back and truly ok with the younger one being free (not cheating) to live their life

[@Traceys14]

I love your reviews 🥰🫶🏾

[@TammyTalks]

Thank you

[@gracechurch1791]

Dave might not like Vanessa doing body building because it's really bad for a person's body but ESPECIALLY women. It kills your metabolism, ruins your gut, can get rid of your period, and makes you grumpy and sad. Although maybe it is that he just doesn't like her body. Just sayin

[@destinyschild5768]

I don’t think those are good reasons

[@Miss24EE]

True, but I think the reason was probably more of a self serving one.

[@Moonstruck967]

This is the same response when I see Christian gym women on insta who are against birth control....

[@katerinanikolopoulou3760]

this season makes no sense to me! it's like they're actors... I don't get it! just bring back the queer version!!! Caleb is a sweetheart though!! merry xmas btw!! wonderful tree!!! 🎄💝