Man Wasn’t Holding the Door for You! | Part 3

[@darkwinter8]

Defendant: "I'm a grown man; I can take care of myself." Also, defendant: **can't let go of a petty confrontation, like a child**

[@Natas_Nico08518]

So getting punched in the mouth and having medical bills then requiring the person who hit you to pay is “acting like a child?”

[@abee5907]

He kept saying "he's 6.3". Sounds like he has a lot of insecurities aka small man energy

[@NunyaBness]

😂 exactly 👏

[@NunyaBness]

@@Natas_Nico08518 huh? I think you misread

[@giancarloc1985]

Defendants privilege was on full show. Sure, I wouldn't cut pass someone holding open a door for someone else, but assault is assault.

[@DMO-om8md]

His speech at the end showed his true colors and she saw it in the court room.

[@jjh7611]

Was just gunna say. 2 years, 3 part JJ case and you get your answer in the last 4 seconds in the outro lmao

[@krystal2157]

@@jjh7611 Every time, they can't WAIT to let out what they COULDN'T say in the courtroom, haha

[@vk1685]

He came back with a jacket a beanie and a toothpick (😂😂😂😭😭). The defendant wanted to fight. It's clear

[@kelliesharpe5333]

The toothpick gave him more height! LOL!

[@mel...s]

Toothpick gave him bravado 🤦

[@jtudor4524]

@@kelliesharpe5333 bwhahahaaa

[@davecarr4070]

Yeah and I would too 😁 he was the one who started it by saying he was rude.

[@deegee2416]

. It's rude is a objective feelings. A feeling in law and an existence of man and time and space. Rude simply doesn't have meaning in the word Rude. Mr. I am Rude expert must let person know he is rude times based on a lie based on the perception of false feelings that are considered overly angry and expert an psychology. JUDGES ARE NOT FEELINGS POLICE ITS SUBJECTIVE> STOOP WITH THE CRAZYNESS OF MR RUDE EXPERTS!.

[@cgray00]

There’s no way that guy with his temper let that kid push him 15 ft

[@stephanieyee9784]

Yep, Short Man is the King of Exaggeration.

[@antoniodedr]

Exactly…. He thinks his build is intimidating and he can get away with things. He was looking for trouble.

[@BigGettaBag]

Mfks play bitxh trying too win a case 🤣🤣🤣

[@FalkSinss]

And he keeps mentioning that the kid "stands 6'3 tall" 😆 Yeah, *okay* , he might be taller than you, but the kid is a walking stick 🙄, and that all happened *2* years ago, when he was even younger and probably even lighter. Plus, the kid doesn't seem to be the type that goes around looking for trouble 🙈

[@queennebi]

This sounds so stupid people get KILLED over such nonsense! Grown man with his wife and 2 kids with him! What an idiot he was! I sure hope he's changed his temperament!

[@chanelle2819]

The defendant came back wearing jacket, a beanie and toothpick in his mouth to fight a kid with braces! lmfao I cannot! The image in my head 😅🤣

[@liandre9035]

Little baby cosplaying as an old beardy bald guy XD

[@vince8520]

I wonder if he threw the toothpick to his face to provoke him, Razor Ramon style

[@chanelle2819]

@@liandre9035 😭😂😂😂

[@PhD4me]

😂😂😂

[@fizzishen5389]

You paint a vivid word picture my friend. Now I'm ded too😂😂😂

[@evitasdad]

A grown man with an ego problem . To not be able to just ignore and pass over a rude young man shows a very fragile ego indeed.

[@t_aintbut1me416]

Obviously, too old for this behavior. He may be 5’9 but he’s a solid 5’9 compared to the 6’0 beanstalk. His ego is going to get him 6ft under. No reason for him to go back and confront the plaintiff his wife wasn’t injured. No, he showed his children how to be a bully.

[@freethoughts2898]

Grown men are usually the ones with the ego problem

[@sunbeam9222]

He repeated so many times he's 6'3. Jealous much? 😅

[@sabrinashelton1997]

Were they not both grown men?

[@lavinder11]

​@sabrinashelton1997 Apparenyly not. Also, according to many here the plaintiff doesn't have an ego problem either. I don't agree with the husband hitting him, but this comment section is ridiculous with coddling the plaintiff.

[@akmw706]

Oh boy, it’s that short man energy. “He’s 6’3, I’m 5’9” So he just had to prove himself and throw a punch 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@exeuropean]

napoleon complex

[@bermin11]

Kid may be 6 feet tall but he clearly weighs half the weight of the guy

[@Duraragh]

@bermin11 that part! clearly the defendant felt he could take him on, despite the height disparity he keeps bringing up.

[@bornrich9264]

Defendant just wanted to prove he is an alpha, leave him alone

[@meggun4643]

Small man syndrome

[@giancarloc1985]

The defendant has anger management issues and committed assault. If someone is rude, then say it was rude and leave it at that.

[@davecarr4070]

Not me when they rude to the wife too, if their parents never taught them to be a decent human, I darn well sure will.

[@isaacmcdowell688]

@@davecarr4070 So you would physically assault someone for going through a door you were holding for your wife???

[@davecarr4070]

@@isaacmcdowell688 No, but for getting in my face and telling me I'm rude, YES. That's throwing the first punch. Plus the 6'3" cry baby had it thrown out in court twice before. Give it up, obviously he needs some manners beat into him

[@giancarloc1985]

@@davecarr4070 are you the defendant? Big fighting words overcompensating much? People are going to be rude. That's a daily fact of life. If you're going to go around attacking and punching random people, you're the one with problems.

[@giancarloc1985]

@Dave Carr not your place. And this is a society of laws. If you raise your hand to someone you perceive as rude, you either should be met with a proportionate amount of force and subdued or sent right to jail. You do not have a right to put your hands on anyone. Period.

[@dashoverton1963]

You can tell the defendant has an anger issue.

[@Lizzy514]

They both do

[@jjh7611]

Nah

[@psoteriou3884]

It's written all over his face. I can read him like a book.

[@erickanew]

That plaintiff seems pushy and arrogant

[@stacyfranceschi585]

Plaintiff old age man needed to be stupid and confrontational. Glad you had to pay the defendant. Your to old for that and not a good example in front of your kids, duh. Napoleon complex!!!!

[@oldschool1993]

Defendant probably road raged on the way home.

[@gdurandeau1143]

And it's evident the wife is still jumpy. Who knows where he got that scar on his face. He must be a difficult testosterone husband to live with.

[@roygbiv9038]

He seems like the “nobody beats my wife but me!” Type of guy.

[@brooklynforkellz]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@earthraindove2870]

Ahhhh his poor wife

[@Bubba__Sawyer]

I bet he chewed her out on the way home; _"Why did you tell her the car was only 5ft from the door, huh? What's wrong with you woman?"_

[@travet1000]

The ending just proved that it was his pride and his ego. He should have just let it go. People get killed over stupid shit.

[@djfhfh]

I know a poor fella was killed by his friends friend because he beat him at a video game

[@ItsMe-yv9jd]

?? Never been to a restaurant that did not have a front entrance with standard, double door access... that pretentious asian brat clearly thinks the world revolves around him, as he could easily have opened and entered through the other door next to the door that the father had held opened for his family. (Maybe getting bitch slapped into next week for being too lazy to open his own door, will finally teach him that he is not better than everyone else and maybe next time he will think first, before insulting anyone. We all know miserable, entitled people like this obnoxious asian guy, and we all know he has been getting away with treating everyone like trash for ages, until he finally met a guy that was not going to play that game! Cheers to the father that tried to knock everyone of the smug asian guys grilled teeth down his throat!)

[@patperez8223]

You are the only person so far that commented the right way. He went back because he hated that someone took advantage of him (when he enter while he was holding the door). It is a pride issue.

[@Langley_Ackerman19]

@@djfhfh That's messed up.

[@tia-marianwagbolu4434]

@@djfhfh wow that’s really sad

[@TehEeveeGeneral]

Dude was on a moral crusade and clearly wanted to escalate when he went back to the restaurant. And it's ironic that JJ teased the plaintiff in part 1 about his feelings when the defendant was the most offended over being called rude.

[@rheverend]

Right! If that was my husband, I’d be so embarrassed of his lack of control

[@michelleprieur1]

She didn't tease the plaintiff. He was rude. She got to the defendant after she fussed at him. Just because the defendant was worse doesn't mean that the plaintiff was right.

[@TehEeveeGeneral]

@@michelleprieur1 she said something along the lines of "people in California are so concerned with *tone* and their *feelings* " and mocked him for taking issue with being called rude. So yes she teased him for getting his feelings hurt.

[@123451248ify]

@@TehEeveeGeneral She just made an observation. You You is responsible for his own feelings over what she said. Judge Judy can't control his feelings. She doesn't need to walk on eggshells with the litigants.

[@Momo-po5tn]

She also complains about people having feelings then insist on who was the real rude one. Talk about ironic

[@alexhu01]

the defendant: I didn't punch him, also the defendant: “I think the young man learned a very valuable lesson that day”. liar, liar, pants on fire.

[@Dizzyfingers2]

Defendant: "I did not punch him. I struck him with a forearm" 😂

[@erickanew]

😆 lol, I know right

[@shelberz1]

Riiite😂

[@kiauni6818]

Ok amber heard 😅

[@StephieC]

Just like amber heard, there must be a secret club or something 🤔

[@IdaWretman]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dharmallars]

Oh wow the way the defendant’s face fell when Judy mentioned there was a witness who talked to police.

[@courtneybryant2406]

Yup cause that shows he lied the whole time lol

[@deegee2416]

Well, after all he is a Mr. I know what's Rude expert. And it's so important for him to let him know he is RUDE SO THEREFORE the NEXT TIMe he CoMes to a Mr perfect husband that opens the doors for people. He will think About Twice from EnTering that door. BY THE WAY CAN YOU PROVE THAT Rude! NO RUDE DOESNT EXIST BECAUSE IT CAN"T BE PROVEN IN THE COURT OF LAW FOLKS HAHAHAH I"M SO ANGRY RIGHT NOW. This is rude, I ask a question I challenge the system I am RUDE. I argue I am RUDE. PEOPLE ARE FRICKEN CRAZY AND I HEAR NOISES ALL THE TIME. Because of this I am RUDE!

[@kaymusic5584]

You have to stoop really low to fight a kid with braces 😟😩

[@Chidinma.U]

Like realllly loooww 😩😩

[@bornrich9264]

Right with yo kids there too lol

[@tigerx22]

Lol forealz

[@LINDA-oi4mt]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kimgaudet4054]

No, he had to reach up.

[@LilShmerp]

I can't get over how brilliant she is. She already knew she would award the plaintiff but that's less entertaining than letting the defendant put his own foot in his mouth😂

[@alexhu01]

if this guy hold a door in New York, he'll see 10 people scooting by within a second. LOL

[@jeffhe1701]

damn right. If you choose to hold door in nyc, you either do it for a bunch of people or you just open the door enter yourself and slightly hold the door open for the next person. D wanted to act like gandalf in a public space.

[@quantumeyes8546]

and he will "put his forearm" on 10 people's faces.

[@lucyschubert2126]

That's a good one!

[@narenmenon6906]

Not just NYC, but just about anywhere. Happens to me all the time... I hold doors open for perfect strangers as a courtesy for women or the elderly. I just smile!

[@vadimkoverdinsky5158]

I feel bad for defendant's wife. He has "explode at will" written all over him.

[@CraiiZeD]

The wife was choosing her words too carefully... she knew exactly what was going on and didn't do anything to stop it, maybe she even encouraged it.

[@Jonathan2342]

I’ll place money that she put him up to it. Was probably bitching all the way to the car about how rude that kid was.

[@kingy002]

She probably got a back hander in the car on the way home for her comments.

[@cwegner516]

I am sure the defendant had not nice gestures to his wife after this court settlement because she told the truth.

[@katedomenico9692]

Or maybe he is a man who doesn't allow peoppe to disrespect his wife and children. He opens doors for his wife, even the car door, sounds as though this man actually has a lot of respect and love for his family.

[@erng8955]

I get the plaintiff may have been a little butthead and probably did walk past the defendant's wife, however, for you to go BACK into the restaurant he was most definitely looking for a fight and probably short tempered. JJ didn't like either of them tho haha

[@djjones7226]

The short guy's intentions were made clear when he tried to make himself look like a tough guy by gearing up in the jacket and beanie before purposefully going back in.

[@liandre9035]

which is especcially ridicilous. If you want to intimidate someone you dont go and change your appearence first XD

[@wesleyorange8133]

I think he put the jacket on because he was ready to go outside and fight in the cold weather.

[@quantumeyes8546]

with a toothpick. He wanted to be John Wick.

[@justinmartin1666]

Classic New York tough guy outfit

[@bxf99999]

I don't know if this would apply here, but there IS such a thing as taking too long to go through the door, or get out of the way at the top of the escalator, etc, etc. And yes, being thoughtless in such situations IS rude to the people who are depending on you getting out of the freaking way within reasonable time.

[@lukerinderknecht2982]

Very true

[@rheverend]

That’s true but in those situations I just politely ask if the person minds if I scoot by quickly

[@k0chana6]

Thank you! I was wondering if I was the only thinking to myself " well that's fine and dandy if he's holding the door for his family, but if they're taking too long , gtfo of my way 🤷‍♀️" I would obviously apologize and simultaneously thank the person, but when you gotta pee, you gotta pee!

[@acousticshadow4032]

@@rheverend ~ and in this case the answer would've been "NO! Not until my wife has gone through!", because he wasn't just holding the door for his wife, he was grandstanding his macho man self.

[@MikeB-Android-Teacher]

*Reminds me of people who are in the left lane going 60 mph and not getting the hell to the right when the speed limit is 70 mph! It's even more annoying when there's only 2 lanes instead of 3 or more because then you have no choice, especially when they won't pass the car on the right!!*

[@elvickRULES]

Small man syndrome is wild.

[@again5162]

But that guy isn't small he's above average. I see loads of taller man syndrome where skinny kids like this kid have an ego

[@Matt-dr5et]

Same as ugly Karen syndrome

[@andreastanton2590]

Short man (Napoleon) Syndrome because he’s not small by ANY means!!!! In fact he had Napoleon beat by 3 inches!😂

[@k.robertrichardson6779]

I guess that's why he dragged this through court multiple times until he finally found a judge who would take his side. But just because he is of Asian descent doesn't necessarily mean he has a small one.

[@joetheseventeenth]

⁠@@k.robertrichardson6779 trying to be funny but you just end up looking racist. stay mad lil man

[@Sara.Rose.]

Never have I ever been so desperate for a Part 3

[@ninawebber-towels4019]

Same 😳

[@truegrizzlesfan2292]

Guess we gotten our fix for the day.

[@acousticshadow4032]

😂🤣😂 ~ Please allow me to hold the KZbin door for you, Sara.

[@LIVEINPEACE2023]

@@acousticshadow4032 😂

[@ItsMe-yv9jd]

?? Never been to a restaurant that did not have a front entrance with standard, double door access... that pretentious asian brat clearly thinks the world revolves around him, as he could easily have opened and entered through the other door next to the door that the father had held opened for his family. (Maybe getting bitch slapped into next week for being too lazy to open his own door, will finally teach him that he is not better than everyone else and maybe next time he will think first, before insulting anyone. We all know miserable, entitled people like this obnoxious asian guy, and we all know he has been getting away with treating everyone like trash for ages, until he finally met a guy that was not going to play that game! Cheers to the father that tried to knock everyone of the smug asian guys grilled teeth down his throat!)

[@AnasCreativeCorner]

Hes a grown man, with the height and emotional intelligence of a 10 year old. Yeah, I said it.

[@sterlingforbes3872]

Haha... truth.

[@giancarloc1985]

I wonder if his vehicle has a punisher sticker on it. He seems the type.

[@sunnyapple9719]

You’re not wrong

[@peachsangria8704]

And you are right!

[@Boo-Stein]

@@giancarloc1985 or one of those MTFU stickers 🙄

[@hamnchee]

"He stands 6'3!" Yeah, he's a real beast of a man.

[@SoulDelSol]

6'3" and 120 lbs

[@m8trxd]

6’3 and 150lbs vs 5’9 and 250lbs…. Also the kid was 18 when this happened. Teenagers are dumb. Don’t beat them up.

[@djfhfh]

grown Men don't go around punching kids in the face for something as stupid as that, I'd say out of the 2 the defendant was the one who learned the biggest lesson 🤣

[@jjh7611]

The last 4 seconds shows you the moron didn’t learn anything after having to pay up 2k

[@k.robertrichardson6779]

The plaintiff is not a child.

[@liandre9035]

he learned nothing i bet ya XD

[@2009richmeister]

The cameraman deserve a freaking raise cuz the look and the plaintiff face is priceless when Judge Judy if he put his hands on you you deserve anything he got 😂

[@achen5689]

Well, Maybe Mr. Xue's (plaintiff's) face looked like that, because he already knew that he didn't put his hands on Mr. Pogue (defendant).

[@nkemazikiwe3426]

Legit I was on the plaintiffs side 100%. And I’m a woman with a toddler I know I can take my time usher my kid somewhere. The world does not have to stop for me and my kid. I don’t think plaintiff was rude. In fact the defendant was discourteous thinking the whole patronage of the restaurant had to be on him and his families timeline. I have half a mind to quote Luda

[@wesleyorange8133]

And he was standing outside in the cold waiting probably.

[@monkeyking-self-proclaimed7050]

Some might take it as rude but if you gotta pee, you gotta pee. Ever been in that situation and someone is holding and blocking your way? I have but I would always tell the person that I have to use the restroom really bad. I don't know if he said it here or not. I have been there so many times. Often it's trying to get the restroom key. You don't want to interrupt the people in line or the person being helped but you have to go so badly.

[@lavinder11]

You're probably not used to men taking care of you.

[@nkemazikiwe3426]

@@lavinder11 my husband has been taking care of me for 10 years now. In fact he let me sleep in this beautiful Saturday morning and took care of our toddler. Also, his ego is also not so fragile nor is he so rage filled to incite a physical altercation because a man went through a door he was holding

[@julian670]

I agree...I don't understand why JJ and the defendant think it's super rude to go through a door someone is holding...Doesn't make sense to me at all...People do that all the time, don't they...?...i never felt super rude when i do that, and i'm quite introspective...Are people actually taught that this is a thing, and is super rude...?...i just thought it was part of what people do and that it's an unspoken thought that if someone's holding a door, that it should be ok to go through, as long as you're not pushing someone out of the way...Of course an indication to the person holding the door, if it's ok to go through ,while they are holding it, is beneficial and preferred, but to make a huge deal about it, as if it's a serious crime, is ridiculous...i guess now i'll be more aware that certain people think like that....

[@Debthouse]

4:03 "I'm a grown man..." so you escalate a mildly unpleasant encounter by punching a youth in braces in the face? This behaviour is neither grown, nor manly. Furthermore, what is the point of having a spouse or partner if they are not going to guide you back to a rational state of mind when you have lost all impulse control?

[@Classicrob95]

“I think the young man learned a very valuable lesson that day” 😂

[@sunnyapple9719]

😂😂 that fool just keeps making an ass of himself

[@Kaboomboo]

Defendant would've learned a valuable lesson that day if the plaintiff was the type to carry a gun. That's how people get killed.

[@Bakutalk]

If it was me the defendant would’ve learned a harder lesson in a wheelchair

[@deegee2416]

HIS LESSON is, he was rude for going into the bathroom, because how dare the extremely blob, blob, blob perfect husband that loves to open doors for people that is over sensitive, can't handle someone going into the door! You know some people can't get relationships. But this is THIS IS RUDE EXPERT IN LIFE! PROVE THAT IT IS RUDE. No because rude is a subjective!

[@yuzon0224]

@@Kaboombootrue

[@alexg5513]

😂😂😂, the defendant still thought he was in the right all the way to the end... such a fool of a man.. I do enjoy watching these people crash and burn once JJ gives a verdict that it was their fault. They're always so shocked

[@Anyakolokol]

Byrd always grabs those papers as if he's asking himself what he's doing there😂

[@Southeast_Asian_Devil]

And sometimes after watching too much BLM propaganda in the streets, he wonders if one day he can switch places with JJ. It doesn't matter if he qualifies or not his status as D.E.I should see to that.

[@StevenAndTraceyJiles]

It's always easier to just "walk away".

[@rosej5029]

Especially in USA when males are shooting each other dead over scenarios or similar scenarios. I still can't get over an incident years ago where a male peeing in the parking lot of a restaurant escalated to him and the other male who had a problem with it are now dead.

[@small_joys2022]

I think the brat ticked off the man very badly.

[@davecarr4070]

Taking the easy way out is usually not the best

[@Kaboomboo]

@@davecarr4070 Well 2 years of this guy's life having to deal with the mess he created isn't my idea of the best.

[@Bubba__Sawyer]

People feel that itch. That's pride f**king with them. F**k pride. Pride only hurts.

[@Bunny-wh3rs]

LOL sounds like the big bully got his wittle feelings hurt. He probably took it out on the wife 😂

[@mattyd3079]

Correct decision. Rushing through an open restaurant door to go to the toilet doesn’t deserve a punch to the mouth. Defendant is a hot head who was out of control.

[@T5-635]

I want to go and get some chocolate but will not move while Judge Judy is on. I put her shows on television. She is my favourite person. With love and respect from Scotland. 🥀🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿🇱🇷💞

[@hellotanj]

It's KZbin, you can just pause it and get chocolate🙂

[@T5-635]

Hellotanj - - l cant...😊🙄💞

[@acousticshadow4032]

Bydand, how long ya had this Chocolate Dependency?

[@T5-635]

Acoustic Shadow - too long..😊. Since l was a baby. I hope you have some tonight as well. 👌😊🥀

[@bgtv9024]

I'm tripping over how he changed clothes, and...he had a toothpick in his mouth. 😄😄😄

[@rubyzerda2893]

Finally a 20 year old so confident, answered questions without hesitations. He can be a lawyer.

[@jjh7611]

Truth comes out easy. Lies come out stumbling. Kinda like when JJ asked the wife if she saw the incident.

[@small_joys2022]

More likely head of a mafia than a lawyer.

[@anasbaban]

@@small_joys2022 Yes. The defendant has an anger issue. But that plaintiff is also rude and arrogant

[@123451248ify]

Let's not get ahead of ourselves. Let's see if he can remember his manners first! You have to learn to walk before you can run!🤣🤣

[@bobbythorman7421]

He certainly lies well enough to become a lawyer,but what more could you expect from him.

[@lsls2116]

The defendant should’ve said go ahead when the wife was taking her sweet time exiting the restaurant, some people think they own the place.

[@patperez8223]

Sir, the plaintiff went right in, hedidnt even stop to get a word from the defendant, thats why JJ agreed iy was rude and thats why she was so upset at the plaintiff s behavior. Things changed when the defendant confessed that after he left he went back in.

[@jeffhe1701]

D is apparently gandalf in public. Deciding who gets to pass and who doesn't lmao

[@Jeff77398]

Just based on the ending; the defendant definitely wanted to escalate instead of letting it go. The ones who get heated easily over nothing have the most fear. Little man complex thru and thru.

[@nnedwards3260]

Asian was rude!!!!!! I've met people like him. Sickening really

[@anonymousanonymous2577]

@@nnedwards3260 Fiesta Asian guy was rude but that still didn't give the defendant a right to go back in there looking for a fight

[@Imabeastodi]

Asian guy came back out to confront him as well i can 100% guarantee that he didnt just step out for no reason

[@carmenblk440]

@@Imabeastodi his family was outside. R u slow?

[@nnedwards3260]

@@Imabeastodi exactly! He's no innocent. 2 years of litigation..🤢

[@uthtown]

Sweet wife. I guarantee he treats her like a servant at home. What an embarrassment

[@jjh7611]

Something along the lines of - follow my lead and be my witness when I go back in to assault the kid? Yeah. JJ called the wife out on it too when she asked it’s a yes or no question. Wife probably has no choice but to listen to D due to his anger issues and she being timid

[@htmc2022]

I feel sorry for defendant’s wife & children - I grew up with a stepfather like him - beat me the most - on the head so bruises would not show at school - about once or twice per week - beat my brother next most - cracked his head on corner of the wall and refused to take him for medical care - my mother took him to Dr’s on bus - my mother would usually try to intervene to save him - he beat my mother a few of times, too - didn’t beat his own two children, ever, until the youngest was 23 - ruptured her ear drum. His son, 25 then, stood up to him & threatened to call the police if he ever was physically violent again and it stopped - he was old by then. Bullies don’t know when to stop. I guarantee you this poor woman and her 2 boys are being hit - repeatedly.

[@markkostka6897]

It's possible but the way she deflected everything looks like she approved. I hope she was worried to say the truth. Otherwise those kids are dealing with two immature fools.

[@xoxjanjounxox]

Oops... i've scoot once or twice in my life when someone was opening the door because I was in a hurry and they were either taking their time because they were talking or they were waiting for someone.... but I am from Canada, here it is assumed that everyone open the doors for everyone lool

[@jesusisc0mings00n3]

I have too, but if the defendant is telling the truth, the plaintiff made contact with his wife. That makes it much more rude.

[@OldBadger1]

If you do it with a smile or a sorry you're good to go.

[@rheverend]

@@jesusisc0mings00n3 I like your name 👍🏻

[@alexhu01]

@@jesusisc0mings00n3 I will not put too much faith on the defendant's words. He just lied to JJ that he didn't punch the kid.

[@jesusisc0mings00n3]

@@alexhu01 He never said he didn't punch the kid, but he said that the kid put his hands on him first. However, since there was an eyewitness account in the police report and JJ immediately sided with the kid, it is safe to say that the eyewitness story correlated more with that of the kid. So the defendant was probably lying about that.

[@lindaryan5997]

i didn't punch him...i used my elbow....LOL

[@sageashley]

Wow did not expect plaintiff to win!! Nice!!

[@sageashley]

@@sirlancelote8290 true!!! I guess the way judge Judy was laughing at the young guy and telling him he's so stupid etc made me think she might not side with him, but I should've known she always prevails 💪

[@iykeharrison9161]

Why not? He may have acted rude in the beginning but that did not give the defendant the right to go back to the restaurant to assault him. That was just stupid.

[@deegee2416]

@@iykeharrison9161 Why not? Because Judges aren't suppose to be feelings police. Rude is just a word created man that should probably not even exist because it can't be proven. If a person goes nuts and believes in these things that telling someone with imaginery feelings of the word rudness. See over time he developed this perceived notion that HOLDINGS DOORS for family members is necessary! And telling that his emotions should be translated into other people feelings emotions. Is there any truth finder in emotions?

[@Bubba__Sawyer]

@@deegee2416 Issues. You've got them.

[@CraiiZeD]

I didnt think so until I heard about the witness + oral bills and I'm like oh dear

[@kellyhou9594]

That had happened to me too, holding door for an elderly man and his entire family walked right through. Nobody thanked me.... It did feel bad and I will never do this again...

[@3l3llala13]

You should have felt good that you did something good/decent. You can't control other people behaviors, but you can choose to continue doing decent acts like opening the door for an old man.

[@elliebellie7816]

Shame on you. As punishment, the next time you see a very pregnant woman by the side of the road with a broken down car, I dare you to stop and help her!

[@jjh7611]

Nah. Not my problem. And not Kelly’s either

[@mermaidstears4897]

You don’t hold the door for people so they’ll appreciate it, but because you’ve decided to be a decent, caring individual. Your good behavior is on you. They’re responsible for their own actions.

[@ZZ-kn1py]

No good deed goes unpunished. Some families are rife with uncultured narcissists

[@EngTrek]

Thhe fact that this kid went through years of criminal court dates .Says a lot about this kid as a person.He has great perseverance

[@interwebspirate]

In Asia they will sue you for any little thing they can to get every dime they can. If you save someone’s life they will sue you. In China people don’t ever help each other because they will get sued for it.

[@EmZ2601]

He seems like a big pain in the arse lol

[@michaelrivas3011]

Yeah and he also thinks it's ok to not have manners and bump into a lady and 2 kids the respectful thing to do is wait or a simple excuse me or thank you would have ended it no one has the obligation to hold the door for you it's a respectful gesture manners go a long way and he learned that the hard way he's not going to pay that little kid clown

[@addkeifspsdcvl]

@@michaelrivas3011 A punch to the face that caused bleeding in the mouth is no way to "learn" not to bump into somebody to get inside a place. Shut up.

[@sammyfrancisco9966]

Lot of respect for this young kid. Spoke eloquently. Could have said I am 6ft plus and could have knocked him but I didn’t. Instead kept his poise. Must have great upbringing.

[@RuvimboMK]

I’m glad the young man stood up for himself through out. Everyone should accomodate each other going through doors or public spaces & not feel superior to others because of age or who you’re walking with or assume everyone knows what’s happening Keep your head up and stay confident young man 👏🏽

[@justinenicole3926]

If that's the case he should have let the woman and children go through first. He was rude regardless.

[@amethystthedarkrai648]

@@justinenicole3926 Even then, dude should've let it go instead of punching someone. That's petty asf tbh.

[@RuvimboMK]

@@justinenicole3926 the man could also have acknowledged the young man by nodding and let him scoot past the door quickly before his wife, kids, and himself made their way out. (He could’ve needed the toilet for urgent reasons) It was a busy restaurant from the description. We should cut each other some slack the world would be a more loving place

[@divxxx]

I'm unfamiliar with this strict door etiquette. If I were holding the door for someone and somebody else sneaked in rapidly, it wouldn't even care.

[@michelleprieur1]

He was rude and childish. I completely agree that the defendant had no right to hit him. But the plaintiff started it and escalated it.

[@sageashley]

Omg defendant is full of 💩💩💩... really wish judge Judy would've caught on, that guy has major anger issues

[@Nevaeh1]

she caught onto it which is why she ruled against him

[@marinam.2293]

And he seems like such a nice guy, too! Guess that's the image he wanted to present to Judge Judy - reasonable, calm, softly spoken, loving family man... but he did go back inside the restaurant, after attempting to disguise himself. Should've just left it alone and gone home.

[@groowanderer]

Whatever he's an honorable dude, his wife even said as much "great husband".. he went in to give the kid a piece of his mind, after making sure his family wasn't going to be involved. That's a real man. And any one of you ladies would swoon over a man doing that for you. You all play pretends online, fake af

[@sageashley]

@@groowanderer an honorable dude doesn't assault someone because they walked through the door he was holding open lolol... Also, I'd be upset if my husband punched a guy over such a small thing, shows immaturity and insecurity, nothing else.

[@EerieVonIII8574]

@@groowanderer A real "man" pics a fight with a 20yr old? lol ok there tough guy

[@Lochias333]

...you know, if some dude was holding the door open for a family that's taking their sweet time getting out the door, and my bladder was about to pop, I'd probably scoot inside real quick too. I think Mr. Oompa-Loompa expects the world to revolve around him; glad he's 2k in the hole for it.

[@vannamom1990]

There’s been times when my man opened the door for me and another person walked in instead. Was he annoyed? Sure, he was. But it’s called self control. Most definitely the other guy was rude, but that doesn’t give you the right to punch him (over there acting like Will Smith). Getting butt hurt then turn to physical violence. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@AkhtarM28]

Nothing to be annoyed. My husband in fact holds the door open for other people instead of me😢. Cause he tries to be polite to them, now that he’s done being polite to me 😂

[@bovinityleak2066]

Key words …. Self control

[@lisakaye3935]

A beanie and a toothpick. Bully. Sounds like intimidation.

[@k.robertrichardson6779]

Do you usually find beanies and toothpicks intimidating?

[@starflowermarie86]

The way JJ laughs at the 00:59 mark 😂😂😂

[@hamnchee]

I don't know if JJ planned it out, but dressing down the kid to make the other guy think she was on his side was genius. Softened him up a bit to tell the truth, just enough to sink him.

[@ciromusic.london1458]

I stand by JJ's verdict.

[@Nameless_mixes]

The defendant feeling the need to express his height in comparison to the plaintiff’s at the end says all that it need to know. Even if the plaintiff shouldn’t have cut off the wife while going through the doorway, the defendant has some sort of a pride/ego thing to workout. I’m happy that the plaintiff finally had a resolution after two years of trying.

[@liandre9035]

makes me wonder what took the justice system so long. Was it because the plaintiff was asian or because the defendant was white? Cant decide which one.

[@mikey2toes966]

Lol that old man needs to get a life!

[@quantumeyes8546]

"I didn't punch him. My forearm just fell violently on his face, Your Honor".

[@Eros4tw]

Guy who is ordered to pay $2000 says "Well the Plaintiff learned a valuable lesson that day...". Apparently sir, you did not. According to the Defendant, being 5'9 is the equivalent of just being a 10yo little child as people that short are apparently incapable of causing any harm to anyone who might be taller than them. Defendant is a joke - and is a very stereotypical man who tries to compensate for his lifelong short comings, in other ways...like getting physically violent with people who he feels slighted by.

[@small_joys2022]

It wont come out of his pocket.

[@margaretwade]

I feel sorry for his wife.

[@Eros4tw]

@@small_joys2022 True - but if this had gone to a normal court and the judge ruled the same as JJ, then I have little doubt that the Defendant would do everything he could to delay any payments to the Plaintiff. So while he might not have to pay the $2k out of his own pocket - he still went on national television and was told he was wrong, and even went on to make himself look even more foolish with his lies and exaggerations. The Defendant is clearly not the brightest bulb in the pack.

[@small_joys2022]

@@Eros4tw He may not be the brightest bulb, but the brat was no saint either. The brat pretty much provoked the defendant and was just as much to blame for the whole ruckus. Just because jj said the defendant was wrong does not make him wrong. And the money is not coming out of his own pocket.

[@yikesyikes5974]

@@small_joys2022 you must be the defendant or one of his family members. Defendant was aggressive over a door. He is overcompensating becasue he is short.

[@lmc2664]

They both misbehaved all along. The young guy was rude in the first place.However, the defendant couldn't let go of his anger. So he decided to return to the restaurant and instigate a fight. Stupid is as stupid does. I hope they both learned a lesson.

[@deegee2416]

Rude doesn't exist it's just a word. Rude can't be proven that a person was rude. Because it has no factual basis. And the judge should not be a feelings police..

[@blazen690gn]

Confident young man. Good for him 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@trinity72gp]

He should never have returned to the restaurant. Testosterone took over unfortunately for him.....

[@AugustanEldritch]

Dude had to use the bathroom, door was held open in a crowded restaurant, and he walked through it. I get it. When you have to go you don’t have time for an entire family to walk through first. He entered the lady’s space, it’s not like he knocked her over. The defendant is an idiot.

[@jjh7611]

Yup. And I’ve been saying since part 1 that the restaurants front door security cam could’ve cleared a lot of things up. At first it’s a question of distance judgement. How far Ds family was. But at the end of the day. If you gotta pee, then you gotta pee. Just scoot by fast, say you can’t hold that sht in and be on your way

[@diakim753]

Why are they treating the Plaintiff like he is a child, calling him "kid". That's a grown ass man.

[@coffeecake8835]

It says his age of “20”. The incident happened in 2015. It dragged through the criminal courts for 2 years. Basic math tells you the plaintiff was probably ~17 yrs old when this happened.

[@small_joys2022]

Because of his rude and arrogant attitude people are assuming he is younger.

[@CanadianMonarchist]

@@small_joys2022He seems nice enough in the video.

[@MsGinahidesout]

The plaintiff just REALLY had to use the restroom! He was in a hurry. Rude, maybe, we've all been there. 😂

[@billtaylor9679]

I think is nothing short of amazing that a woman/judge whose television career is based on her daily rudeness to litigants is comfortable judging anyones elses rudeness!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@susanwebber9247]

Bill Taylor. Well said. My own thoughts entirely.

[@CanadianMonarchist]

If people are polite to Judge Judy she is usually polite to them. Sometimes she is very compassionate.

[@DRthistle]

This in one of those family guys that wants the whole world to wait and defer to his family. And when they don't he picks a fight. Judgement should have taken 5 seconds.

[@donaldt7272]

I believe the Plaintiff when he says the Defendant's wife and family took a while to exit the restaurant. If no one is immediately coming through that doorway, it should be fair game to enter the establishment. On the other hand, it's plausible that the Plaintiff was assertive and snippy when he said "you're rude, too" and likely got up nose to nose with the Defendant, and possibly forced the Defendant to back up out the door. I doubt the Plaintiff laid a hand on the Defendant. The Defendant was entirely wrong to leave his wife/kids in the car and re-enter the restaurant to look for a fight. You don't resort to physical violence due to a mild inconvenience like this. Let it go and enjoy the rest of your day, it's not worth fighting over.

[@gojiberry7201]

"I think the young man learned a valuable lesson that day." I don't think either of them learned anything

[@rheverend]

That line made me laugh. He was trying to cope so hard after losing the case and being called stupid by JJ

[@sandlotkrew8778]

Not the little guy... But the Asian kid learned something... He learned you have no idea what someone is capable of... And I'm sure of it !!... He may have won here, but I guarantee he approaches situations differently cause this time it was just a punch... Next time could be a lot worse.

[@Kaboomboo]

I'm sure he learned to carry a gun in case someone tried something stupid with him again.

[@ItsMe-yv9jd]

?? Never been to a restaurant that did not have a front entrance with standard, double door access... that pretentious asian brat clearly thinks the world revolves around him, as he could easily have opened and entered through the other door next to the door that the father had held opened for his family. (Maybe getting bitch slapped into next week for being too lazy to open his own door, will finally teach him that he is not better than everyone else and maybe next time he will think first, before insulting anyone. We all know miserable, entitled people like this obnoxious asian guy, and we all know he has been getting away with treating everyone like trash for ages, until he finally met a guy that was not going to play that game! Cheers to the father that tried to knock everyone of the smug asian guys grilled teeth down his throat!)

[@gojiberry7201]

@@sandlotkrew8778 Yes, that's true

[@pinkdoobie]

Why would someone who is being sued for assault not bother reading the police report?

[@marjoriedemafiles6037]

The fact he went back to confront, he was indeed looking for trouble.

[@scv1981]

JJ said he put on a beanie...I knew he was toast

[@nataliesaldana8624]

HE DID NOT OPEN THE DOOR FOR YOU, SO CLEARLY YOU GOT WHAT YOU DESERVE BY BEING RUDE FIRST, MR. BATHROOM GUY.

[@lynnettelove11]

Why is the defendant constantly trying to explain what he did in different ways? He said I didn't confront him I just wanted to reiterate that he was rude. Sooo you confronted him? He said I didn't punch him I just put my forearm up and did this. Soooo you hit him? This whole thing escalated because he decided that something as stupid as this man squeezing past his wife through a door was worth possibly catching a charge.

[@jbird2575]

Good judgment. But I HATE when people don't say thank you for holding the door open.

[@orionb5217]

The defendant messed up when he put his family in the car and went back into the restaurant. He clearly wanted to fight

[@frankofficial5175]

It’s really fun what people fight over! Imagine all the energy wasted in 2 years over this nonsense.

[@CanadianMonarchist]

I think he was more upset about the $2000 in medical bills than the principle.

[@nb-user25]

Does anyone really think they can school strangers? That if you tell them what they did wrong they’ll say “ohhh, I’m soo sorry, you are absolutely right and I apologize, I’m so glad you told me”! Hahahaha! The defendant thinks he taught the plaintiff a lesson?

[@jjh7611]

While paying 2k himself lmao. Oh the irony When that idiot didn’t learn anything himself. And I can guarantee you he lived his entire life with small dk syndrome

[@evitasdad]

You are absolutely correct! Well put .

[@shelberz1]

This. Thank you

[@Kaboomboo]

2 years of his life having to deal with this mess. Hope it was worth it.

[@deegee2416]

He is a rude feelings police. An expert what is rude because he is an outstanding man that holds doors for people! He will calling the guy up on the phone to let him he was rude for going into doors when he is expert he is only willing to help family members. The expert on door holder will become an emotional over sensitive over time in society. He opened those doors DOORS DOORS! RUDE DOESNT EXIST AND CAN"T BE PROVEN. It's a subjective word created by humanity!

[@cszabo8899]

"Man Wasn’t Holding the Door for *You!* " Clever. 👍

[@papalegbasson2447]

Short men tend to like to overly compensate! 😆

[@CanadianMonarchist]

5’9” isn’t short.

[@savannahthomas9841]

Plaintiff learned his lesson after the punch and will never act like he is entitled again

[@IdaWretman]

The defendant clearly had a very very bad day and was looking for somebody to take out anger on xD

[@Peacenlove0706]

Judge Judy is hilarious in this case! She's actually pretty funny!

[@savannahibarra3204]

He was looking for a fight and thought he could get away with it

[@sandlotkrew8778]

He did get away with it... They went through court and they said there wasn't enough evidence... Asian kid took it to Judge Judy... Won compensation for getting hit, which the show pays for... Other than being exposed on national tv nothing else happened to little man who hit him.

[@Kaboomboo]

@@sandlotkrew8778 Burden of proof is different in a criminal system.

[@brokencigarette3017]

Judge Judy gets it right again!

[@podsmpsg1]

Karl was looking for trouble. He should have known better. His ego was bruised, that's all it is.

[@lynndominic1967]

In my opinion this lacks judgment on both parts, I totally agree with JJ on this one.

[@huanweili7699]

You can hold the door for your wife or kids to walk through but if they ain't moving fast enough in a normal time manner, others don't deserve to stand around and wait for a couple of slow pea.... lol 😆 😆 😆

[@jjh7611]

Exactly. D is no gatekeeper. And P had to pee. Definitely wasn’t hard to put the picture together

[@123451248ify]

This case was more entertaining than the O.J. Simpson trial! I was emotionally involved in it! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@megalopolis2015]

This was quite possibly the most avoidable confrontation in history. If I fought everyone who has ever been rude to me, that's what I'd be doing with a third of my Life. Both of these guys need to learn self-control and to let things go, especially the defendant.

[@megalopolis2015]

@@heidibonjour You can care without escalating the situation.

[@pokkemuur6539]

@@heidibonjourno fr because it was never that deep

[@pokkemuur6539]

Fr

[@TaylorMMontgomery]

I bet he had been waiting for an interaction like this for a long time. "Ahh finally i can teach somebody a lesson"

[@TinyDancerO]

Clearly, the defendant learned absolutely NOTHING. I do not believe for one second that the defendant is a good husband. He's got a bad temper.

[@monkeyking-self-proclaimed7050]

He will beat her once they get home for saying she didn't want him to go back in.

[@jacksafereffort516]

The police report always has valuable information.

[@sothathappened]

the defendant is definitely the instigator and the aggressor. he for sure started it.

[@jeffhe1701]

defendant wanted to play gandalf in a public space. the outro shows his character perfectly

[@WWRNC]

Both of these kinds of people live for the moments that they both had here. That’s about the best way I can sum it all up.

[@jimh4167]

There are cameras everywhere Where is the video

[@sandlotkrew8778]

There are cameras everywhere now... These episodes are old ranging from early to mid 2000s judging by the camera quality. Back then a lot of things weren't caught on camera.

[@YouTubeFinesse]

Take a shot everytime Judge Judy says “Rude” 😂

[@bee9045-z5d]

It's so true he was already in his car it would have ended if he would have just let it go and left but he had to go back and cause more trouble the best thing to do is just walk away cuz in the end you just end up losing

[@mojisoladeji]

Now here is a lesson on not giving up for your right to justice. Good on the plaintiff.