JUICY Q&A! ANSWERING ALL YOUR QUESTIONS SINCE MY SEPARATION

[@BlessedMomof2EnjoyingLife]

I recently separated in SC from my spouse. We have two kids together as well. This video allowed me to feel like it isn’t just me. Thank You, Becca

[@sincerelybecka3]

You’re so welcome Victoria! ♥️ You’re definitely not alone.

[@christak3363]

Kudos to you girl It takes a lot to go on social media and answer all the questions!! Glad you're doing okay!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Christa ♥️ I still keep a lot to the chest and only share what I’m comfortable with but I’m mostly an open book. I have nothing to hide and I think if I’m transparent maybe I can help someone with my honesty going through a similar situation ♥️

[@christak3363]

@@sincerelybecka3 Don't blame you totally make sense! You got this girl you're killing it!!

[@tammyhendrickson-kt2bo]

You handled those questions well with thoughtful answers and very graceful responses 👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Tammy, just being me ♥️

[@NiNitosix]

I was curious if you were moving but man, people ask some of the most personal questions!😂

[@NiNitosix]

You’ve already answered it but was just commenting on it.

[@sincerelybecka3]

😂 people don’t skip a beat! They want it all!

[@NiNitosix]

@@sincerelybecka3 😂 I’ll say!

[@vickybush9889]

Ty for sharing. That’s really hard to pour your heart out. The absolute important thing is the kids and how great is it that you two can work together like that. Being a military wife myself actually retired military wife is a very hard and tough journey and sometimes these things happen. I am thankful my hubby and I are going on 41 years and it wasn’t easy . I saw a lot of separation over the years in the military families. I do hope that maybe that miracle would happen to you guys but I do whole the best for your family. God Bless your family and I pray for the best future for your family ♥️

[@AM-oe4wc]

Also living in SC starting the process of Separation from a 2 decade marriage as a military wife

[@sincerelybecka3]

Sorry you’re going through that too ♥️

[@dianawalter1446]

I wish you both peace, I admire your grace with the children. Take care and stay safe ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Diana! They are always my top concern 🥰

[@dianawalter1446]

🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@alexia_marie]

Hi new here 🎉 I’m commenting before I even finish watching… you made me feel not alone when you mentioned you not speaking to your mother. I don’t openly talk about it and I’m in the same boat but I have no one. I’m here in Georgia. It’s hard, ❤ just subscribed. So glad I found your channel.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Hey Alexia, I totally get it because this is actually the first time I’ve publicly said we are no contact. It is hard because people with healthy parent relationships view us as the problem, and can’t understand how we could do that to our parents. It’s just another burden of guilt put on us, the children. So I don’t talk about it openly much. But you are definitely not alone ♥️

[@debralawler-nt9si]

Your a strong person and this will work out have faith God will assist you. I went thru a divorce after 30 years I just let things be and it turned out great sending prayers to your family

[@sincerelybecka3]

I’m so sorry you went through that but I’m happy for hear it all worked out for you ♥️

[@maricellagyr3753]

Thanks for being open with yourself. 😊 shows how strong 💪 you are to put information out there for your viewers to understand the change in your life. I'm a viewer who chooses to support you.😊 THANKS FOR SHARING.👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thanks for the support friend! It means more than you know. Being open and honest just feels right, and it may help someone so why not ♥️

[@karatheyaroxan6852]

I grew up in Massachusetts and I lived in CT for about 10 years (Milford and East Haven)

[@sincerelybecka3]

Very nice! That’s the other side of the state from where I’m from.

[@maryross4488]

I take my hat off to you for being a single mom and having everything so in order. You're doing well and you keep attitude. Hope your headaches go away as I suffer from anxiety which gives me migraines regularly.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Ugh I’m so sorry! Migraines are awful! Thank you ♥️ Taking day by day and appreciating the positive things I do have going on.

[@vickybush9889]

My daughter s situation is so much more difficult. There’s kids between two fathers. And no healthy co parenting at all and it is sad. Especially for the children. I would love to see her hear your view of this Becca. There was a lot of emotional abuse and bad stuff. I’m glad that you guys are working a plan out 💕💕💕

[@nancyayala2217]

Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions. You’re an amazing strong woman. Yes I’m from around your area. I grew up in colchester.

[@sincerelybecka3]

No way!!! I have family who live in Colchester and I hung out there all the time in high school because one of my childhood friends moved there when her mom got remarried.

[@nancyayala2217]

@@sincerelybecka3 yes so I’m sure you know Harry’s and how incredibly yummy they are.

[@sharronb2476]

Great video, Becka! I stayed til the end 👍It was nice getting to know you better, and you're a sweetheart for answering all of those questions. You are such a strong young lady and a great mom. This really takes me back to the days when I was a young, single mom of 2. It was hard, but we got through it! ❤ You and your sweet boys are going to be just fine. You're doing a great job! 😊💕

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Sharron! I’m sorry you had to go through that too ♥️

[@sharronb2476]

@@sincerelybecka3 Thank you! 💕

[@JessicaMyrose]

Hey Becka! Catching up I imagine is a roller coaster 🎉❤

[@JessicaMyrose]

You are doing the best you can but you look really good 😊 ❤sending hugs 🤗

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Jessica! Healing and working on me 🥰

[@bridgetpotter8472]

Stayed until the end. Keep the faith you will get through this. Glad you and your husband are cordial that is so important to your kids.

[@bernardetteprimrose1343]

Wishing you all the best ❤️👏

[@saf281-o8x]

👍👍 Hi Becka, You are an amazing woman and a great mom. I wish you all the best. ❤

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Susan 🥰

[@alejandrafernandez710]

I have ideopathic intracranial hypertension and live with daily headaches as well. I’m having a lumbar puncture next week for more answers. Praying for you! Being in constant health struggles is sooo hard ❤️

[@sincerelybecka3]

It is I feel for you ♥️ You’ll have to let me know how that procedure goes. I may have to do it as well but I’m really nervous.

[@LovingMamaLife13]

I have IIH as well and went through 9 lumber punctures in less than 2 years. The headaches were getting so bad and the best thing I did was get a shunt put in to constantly help relief some pressure. It's been three years since I have had the shunt and haven't had any issues. The headaches are still bad at times but much more managable. Prayers to you❤

[@alejandrafernandez710]

@@sincerelybecka3 hey Becka I wanted to come back and update you, I had the lumbar puncture Friday and overall it went well! I only had a bad headache day 2, and I’m just taking it easy currently. My only symptoms right now is I feel lightheaded when I’m up so I’m spending most of the time laying flat. If you have to do it don’t worry too much, it’s over pretty quick and the procedure itself wasn’t so bad! Hugs ❤️

[@alejandrafernandez710]

@@LovingMamaLife13 thank you so much for sharing this with me, IIH is such a difficult thing to live with. I’m so happy the shunt is working for you, I’m super afraid of having it done but I have heard it truly helps! How high was your pressure for your lumbar puncture if I may ask? Mine was at 25 Hugs ❤️

[@LovingMamaLife13]

@@alejandrafernandez710 I know the shunt surgery is scary but I'm telling you it changed my life. My last lumbet puncture pressure was 49. It was so high the doctors recommeded I schedule the shunt surgery that week. Since the pressue was pushing on my optic nerve, I was losing vision at a rapid speed and I was only 28 years old. The shunt surgery went well, the recover was a bit tough but it was so worth it. I was given a second chance at life and even though I can no longer work in my profession due to the severe headaches I do get once in a while, I am now a stay at home reseller Mama to help supplement my husband's income while focusing on taking care of my kiddo and my health. If you have any questions, I am here for you❤️

[@mrippeon5596]

I have been divorced 5 years and I can relate to you. It isn’t easy but I put my kids first and try to be cordial with their Dad. It is still a roller Coaster. My family is all 12 hours away from me and I miss them but with the kids I have to stay where their dad is currently. Enjoyed getting to know you

[@sincerelybecka3]

Totally get that, same situation for me. It’s not easy, I feel for you ♥️

[@175Boomer]

Love from CT!!! We want you back!! Just subscribed to the blog channel and new to your cleaning channel! Thank you for your openness and motivation videos! If it helps, CT taxes suck, a lot moving out! I am in Avon and knew a couple kids from Mont…CCSU but probably 10 years older!

[@kimlanteri9223]

I’m from ct, I moved to nc almost 5 years ago. Thank you for your cleaning videos, they really motivate me!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you for watching Kim! ♥️ Small world!

[@rachellewidmann3621]

👍🏻 thanks so much for sharing, Becka! You’re strong, brave and relatable. It’s really something to be vulnerable with the community you’ve/you’re cultivating here. Loving your content and looking forward to supporting your channels by subscribing, watching and liking . I hope everything grows for you because it is so much work, as you mention and it helps you maintain independence - which clearly you have that and confidence, already! I admire that and find you inspiring! 💛

[@sheilabundren2037]

Thanks Becka. 👍. I love the northeast. Actually drove over to New Milford from driving down NY state from Burlington VT with a friend. Company I work for has a plant in New Mitford CT. Kimberly Clark. Take your kids back to see where you grew up. Thanks again. Your life is yours only.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Sheila! ♥️ Small world, love Vermont too!! I took them back 2 years ago and plan on doing it more. Was hard for a little bit with the pandemic. My oldest goes back all the time though, it’s his second home.

[@christinedelchiaro5985]

Omg, I'm from Connecticut too. I was born in Bristol an lived in Southington, and my husband is from Hamden. We now live in Texas.That's so awesome !!❤

[@sincerelybecka3]

Oh my goodness small world! I use to drive up to Bristol every weekend to see a friend when I was a teen. We actually lived in Texas for 4 years, that’s where my two youngest were born 😊

[@debbiejansen555]

I'm so proud of you! You are handling this so well! God bless you and the kids! I pray that your future brings You so much joy and happiness! You bring me so much joy when I watch your videos and I wish you the same! Love you and will always be here! 💖💖

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Debbie! You don’t know how much that means to me, you are so sweet! ♥️ I have some really good days where I’m feeling really hopeful for the future and every so often bad ones. But I think this is the right path for me.

[@debbiejansen555]

💖👍💖💖

[@artsygirlmarilyn6296]

❤❤love CT!! Big hugs!! 🦚🐿️🐶🧚🏻‍♂️

[@ShopAtSpicywedding]

👍 just finished. Thanks for the catch-up

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thanks for being here ♥️

[@sarahtracy4395]

I'm from CT too (still here). I love those casinos! I know exactly where you're from! So cool!!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Small world! I want to move back, maybe one day.

[@SheWolfMom]

Hey girl! I totally get you on growing and becoming a different person in a relationship. I met my husband when I was 14….. I’m not the same girl 😅 it’s a challenge sometimes. I just downsized and I do love it. My plan is to exactly what you mentioned, put my money into my smaller space. It’s been a process. Great video!

[@SheWolfMom]

👍🏼

[@sincerelybecka3]

Yes! Such a good thing to do I think! Yes when you get together that young it’s really hard to stick it out through all those changes into adulthood. My oldest father and I you would never think we’d be a thing, we are so different now. But thankfully we get along great! Oh and his mom is still like a second mom to me! Love that woman!

[@athomewithjulia200]

I am a new subscriber it was wonderful to get to know you ❤❤ I absolutely love your channel and been watching all of the videos.. you are very reliable. You have handsome boys. Would you consider doing your favorite products and items you use?

[@sincerelybecka3]

Hey, thank you so much Julia! So glad you are enjoying my channel. I would definitely consider that. But as far as favorites what do you mean? Cleaning, makeup, household, all of it?

[@athomewithjulia200]

@Sincerely Becka Hi Becka, Happy Sunday! I was thinking far as a favorite Amazon product you use on a daily basis like makeup, household items, and decor. Have a great day!!

[@genniejefferson6588]

Hi Becka, truly love this video today. I’m sorry this had to happen because you are so sweet and honest.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you friend! I appreciate you being here and watching ♥️

[@ashleymatney6078]

👍🏽 I stayed til the end! Thank you for sharing this q & a and for answering my question. I’m so proud of how strong you are and continue to be! ❤

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much sweet friend 🥰

[@josephinepeel1568]

I'm from mid west NY so I know the area you are from, been that way a few times. So glad you and Chris are keeping it civil, I have a son (18) with my ex and people could never understand how we were so nice to each other and how I always let him have our son. I always felt he's his child too and and our son comes first with his happiness why shouldn't we be nice. I've also had to cut family out of my life because of it and their "opinions ". Keep on smiling and enjoy your boys. Love your videos and how you keep it real and true. 👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Josephine ♥️ it’s always nice to connect with others who get it. If you truly put the kids first I don’t think how we all do it would be hard, but a lot of people don’t get it. That’s ok though, they don’t have to. I think the reason divorce and separation are so difficult for kids is a big part because of how the parents treat each other and that tension.

[@christinatimney3979]

👍 I know you said you would only answer the questions you felt comfortable with but jeees Becka some of those financial ones, I felt like what the hell 😂

[@sincerelybecka3]

😂 people want all the info I guess! I felt comfortable sharing what I did but no one’s ever getting solid numbers 🤣

[@alyonadavies7480]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I remember going through a divorce I was such a mess. You are doing such a great job. You are so strong. I am a single working full mom 😊 sometimes it's so hard...

[@sincerelybecka3]

I can defiantly relate to that, the struggle is real as a single parent. You’re not alone ♥️ I have days that really mess me up and days where I feel like this so the best thing for me. It’s pretty much a rollercoaster at this point.

[@MistyWolf76]

Hi Becka! I've been watching your channel for awhile now and can relate in a lot of ways. My husband was military for 11 yrs while my kids were young and got out to be a govt contractor(not much better). I'm also a true crime fan. The only way I get my house cleaned is with a podcast on. I'm in the triangle area in NC. 😊👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Hey, you’re not too far from me! Yes a podcast is a must to get me moving too! 🥰 Glad your husband is out, but you’re right being a contractor isn’t much easier.

[@LindseyErin]

My husband is from the NY/CT area. We have been to the Mohegan Sun.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Small world! It’s not a bad place 😊

[@patciocco898]

Yeah Staten Island New York, that is where I am from

[@sincerelybecka3]

Small world! I grew up going there all the time since I still have family there. So many wonderful memories. My great grandparents rest at a church there ♥️

[@ChristinasHome]

Enjoyed learning more about you!👍

[@monicafinlaw583]

Happiness looks good on you.. you seem happier n your an inspiration…. Beautiful too…. Take care of you…. Ill know you will get through this….

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Monica 🥰 I’m finding me again and what brings me joy.

[@kevincosgrove5564]

👍I’m from vt so no about Mohegan sun been there a couple times! Also no about fox woods as well

[@sincerelybecka3]

Yes, love Vermont!

[@juliemosher6404]

Glad to hear that you're doing well adjusting. You're a strong woman, keep yourself taken care of. 👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Julie ♥️

[@Jettsmom98]

So happy things are going well for you. 👍

[@coffeecrazy70]

We love Foxwoods 😊 I miss it! I grew up in MA and then lived in NY for 23 years before moving South in 2019.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Oh so you totally get it than! Yes Foxwoods was always fun to go to. They have a Tanger Outlets now over by the old MGM part. So crazy how big it is!

[@coffeecrazy70]

@@sincerelybecka3 yes 😊 Foxwoods is amazing. Also like Mohegan Sun but, Foxwoods is just a massive casino lol

[@MarieLoveAsbury]

Laying in bed all day watching TV, relaxing, undisturbed sounds amazing! Haha! I know what you mean about never getting free time. I never do. I did when I got my nails done every other week. It was nice.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Yes it’s hard being a mom. There is no me time or alone time. It’s so rough!

[@reneereed7300]

Hi BECKA 👏 I really enjoyed your questions and answers video today 😊.I really got to know a lot about you and your family, I am so glad you and your husband are still friends through this and our co-parenting with your kids.That is good for you to go through therapy some time talking things out helps a lot . we Love you.💞.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Renee! ♥️ I’m a huge advocate for therapy. Idk where I would be if I hadn’t gone on and off for all these years.

[@rachelbolick]

Hey, I loved learning more about you. Thank you for being strong and answering all of these questions. ❤️ You are a wonderful mom and a strong woman. 🥰 I was born in New York but I was raised in South Carolina. 😂 now I live in North Carolina. I lived in South Carolina since 2007-2022 though. I stayed till the end. ❤️😊

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thanks for watching Rachel! 🥰 Thanks for your sweet words ♥️ Small world. I love it here but I did miss it back home.

[@amandaclayburg8107]

👍 This was awesome. I enjoyed getting to know you better. Thanks for taking the time to hang out and do this video.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thanks for being here Amanda! ♥️

[@ruthprovost1781]

Very good Becka you ok and strong, you deserve peace and be happy, God’s bless you

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Ruth, finding me new happiness 🥰

[@carynmeyer118]

The used car market where we live in BANANAS! Might as well hold on to the car you have! I'm glad you and boys are doing alright. Love the vids!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Caryn! I know here too! That’s why we ended up buying new when we bought this car. Wasn’t worth pay a few thousand less for something used with highish mileage.

[@jena7306]

👍 thank you for answering my question! I recently found your channels and I’ve been binge watching when I have time.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thanks for watching Jena! So glad you found my channel! ♥️

[@alicedejesus1307]

Wow you are so brave to come on social media and answer these questions. You really didn't have to. Maybe you will live near your sister. That would be nice. Thanks for sharing your inspirational story.❤️ Good luck to you and your husband..

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Alice ♥️ I know I don’t and there is still plenty I leave for myself and keep personal but I also have no issue being pretty open. I know it will help others in my shoes too.

[@dianastucke1984]

Great video! It’s like chatting (listening 🤔) with a friend! (A friend you haven’t met yet since I’m fairly new here!) But hi, I’m Diana! 😊 👍🏻 watched to the end 👍🏻

[@sincerelybecka3]

Hey Diana! So glad you’re here 🥰 and glad you enjoyed the video.

[@CrestwoodRocks]

Prayers your health gets better for you. And yes I always thought you are nice company.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you, that’s so sweet of you to say 🥰♥️

[@CrestwoodRocks]

@@sincerelybecka3 blesses. Sure thing

[@tarat26]

Much respect. My mum raised the 3 of us. She did an incredible job and I jus know you'll be the same. Xx

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Tara, that is so sweet of you to say. My kids are truly the most important and I just want them to have happy life’s no matter what 🥰

[@mama_of_four]

👍👍 I have been following your other channel for a little while and this video was suggested. I’m so glad I watched it because I learned a lot about you and your family. You are doing an amazing job navigating this new journey and you should be very proud of yourself! I hope it continues to go the way you want it to and look forward to your next video. I’ll probably go back and watch some other ones while I’m folding laundry and cleaning today.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Melissa! 🥰♥️ So glad you enjoyed this.

[@pamelapackard4665]

You are amazing! I don’t know many people who you put themselves out there like you❤️👍🏻

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you ♥️ I’ve always been this way, it helps people when you’re honest about hardships. Life isn’t easy, and I want others to know their not alone.

[@leekorten1791]

Fantastic video, just with you sitting and talking was lovely. You did such a amazing job answering all those questions. I'm glad you're taking time for yourself and relaxing when Grayson and Tristan are with Chris. Have a wonderful week, hugs 💞

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you friend! 🥰♥️

[@ashleyrobinson157]

👍 awesome video! I’ve always wanted to go to Connecticut, I hear it’s beautiful. You are very brave for sharing what you did, thanks for letting your viewers get to know you a bit more. You seem like such a great mom. Seriously the two questions I was going to submit we’re already asked in the comments and you answered them both 😂 take care😊

[@sincerelybecka3]

Hey Ashley! Thank you, that is the best compliment I could ever get. I just want to make sure my kids are safe, secure, and happy no matter what. Connecticut or New England in general is beautiful, especially during the fall time 🥰

[@christinekleingardner7102]

I had frozen shoulder in both , it started in my right one and moved into the left side and OMG it hurt it effected only neck as well and it lasted for a couple years and now I get flares and I just keep it moving and usually it will ease up , I was told that if it came back it would be ALOT worse I hope that never happens !!! I am glad you are doing better and finding your own happiness and that the boys are doing ok with everything , I wish you all the best and will continue to watch your videos as long as you do them !!!!!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you so much Christine, that means the world to me ♥️ I am so sorry you had to go through that! How awful! I was told I may get it in my other shoulder now that I’ve had it, but I’m really hoping that doesn’t happen.

[@franceskey79]

Thanks for answering all the questions!!! I'm very sensitive to smells too, I can't do any flower, cinnamon or strong chemical smells. I hope you have a great week.👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Yes flower smells really get me too! Cinnamon I can do though. People who don’t have the sensitivity I feel like don’t get it.

[@leevassey5765]

Thank you for sharing all of this with us. Nice to know about where you originally came from! I'm glad you are doing ok! Much love friend💕

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Lee! So glad you enjoyed it! 🥰♥️

[@sonyafussell2754]

👍 You are amazing sweet girl! Thank you for your great content and your beautiful heart.

[@cherylmiller7208]

Really enjoyed watching this video! Learned so much about you! May I say that you look so beautiful today! Chris will be sorry he let you go! 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍❤️

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Cheryl! You’re so sweet 🥰♥️

[@nicoledgaspard]

👍🏾thanks for answering my question

[@hannahbaker6617]

I'm sorry to hear it

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Hannah! ♥️

[@hannahbaker6617]

@@sincerelybecka3 You've got another friend in SC

[@abigailgurd6981]

👍 Just to say your doing great, I separated rated from my ex in December, not under such good way as you, but just wanted you to know your doing great xxx

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Abigail! I’m sorry you’re going through this too ♥️

[@kimberlypeterson9162]

👍🏻 Great video! You’re doing a great job with putting out more content!

[@ashleyp9970]

So proud of you love! You have so many gere to love and support you always ❤

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you, means the world to me 🥰♥️

[@lorid1348]

New sub! I like your vibe. 👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thanks Lori! ♥️

[@liliamvidal7026]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 great video Becka 😘😘😘

[@ann-mariebreakspear7637]

👍great video it was really nice to hear about you and where you came all the way to now glad your doing ok xx

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Ann-Marie ♥️

[@aprilknerr4443]

👍 Stayed till end

[@nancyflaherty7038]

Bless you!

[@sophiawrightjenkins]

Thanks for sharing! 👍🏿 I'm like you with the hobbies question. It takes me a minute to figure out what that is 😊 #momlife Have a great day!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you friend! ♥️ Exactly! This season of life doesn’t always allow hobbies 😂

[@brendalong5360]

Glad to hear ur doing good 👍

[@shortypShortyp]

Hi Becka! It’s good to hear that you are doing well for the most part. Thank you for sharing and hope you are having a great week! 👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you friend, hope you are as well ♥️

[@vongrogan3368]

👍 stayed til the end But that was an awesome Q&A👍👍

[@carleenmitchell8079]

Thank you for being so real, Becca. 👍

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you for being here Carleen ♥️

[@diannevans407]

👍I wish you guys peace as you make your way through this next year.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Diann ♥️

[@Lindsey_Altman]

👍🏼👍🏼 Glad things are going well for you!

[@marwarashed4951]

I did stay till the end. I enjoyed this one❤❤❤❤

[@deborah3055]

Great job Becka 👍

[@andreaclarkson7329]

Glad your doing OK ❤ xx

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Andrea ♥️

[@vickinees3556]

👍🏻 Awesome video! Thank you for sharing your life with us! I wish you well moving forward! 🌷💗🌷

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Vicki ♥️

[@amberjenkins2600]

I’m sending you so many hugs and so much love ❤ I’m here for you if you ever want someone to talk to.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Amber, I really appreciate that! ♥️

[@abigailvomelmo1167]

Hi..Hi..Hi Becka 🦋🦋! I'm watching & enjoying your video. As always, it's nice to see you 🥰🥰! I'm sad to hear that you're not in conversation/company w/your Mom 😔😔. I will keep you in my 🙌🙌🙌. Also, you, Chris & Children remain in my 🙌🙌🙌. Never say never...I know Couples that have Separated & got back together. I know one Couple that Separated, Divorced, got back together & Remarried 🥰🥰🥰🥰! Back to your video.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Yes definitely never say never, anything is possible 😊 Going no contact with my mom was not an easy decision that I made lightly, but she’s a very toxic person and it’s honestly just better for my mental health this way.

[@abigailvomelmo1167]

@@sincerelybecka3 That is FINE! No Worries. The BEST interest in Life is YOU & your Children (your husband is remembered 😊). Your Mom WILL realize, for whatever reason; y'all departed as a family; that YOU should & WILL be the LuvLuvLuv of her Life.....All good things come in TIME 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰. P.S. How many Brothers/Sisters do you have??

[@abigailvomelmo1167]

I'n due time, y'all WILL bond together, I Remain to hold you in my 🙌🙌🙌🙌. I've been told that my. prayers are POWERFUL 🙌🙌.

[@roses609]

Fantastic Q&A

[@cherylslyter9820]

👍Thank you for sharing. Wishing you a good rest of the week!

[@wandajolley2570]

👍 I was born and raised in New Hampshire. I miss New England so much! I don’t like where I live now(Oklahoma) but I can’t leave my grandchildren!! Lol!

[@sincerelybecka3]

I totally get that, we lived in Wichita Falls for 4 years. Right on the border of OK and TX. I didn’t love it 😆

[@robkeller495]

So glad to know you better have a great day (( hug))

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you friend! 😊

[@amylouise9495]

Haha 😆 I never got the tramp stamp either....wanted but got talked out of it. I want sleeves done also but all my money goes to my boys. I joke saying I'll be in my 50s finally getting my tats done. Loved the video and glad you and ur family r doing well!!!

[@sincerelybecka3]

You and me both girl! Never too old though! It’s something I will do one day!

[@pattyadams6151]

You are so strong thanks for sharing 💕

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Patty ♥️

[@LolaAlmaguer8797]

👍Of course I'm gonna stay till the end, you're spilling the tea. LOL Just kidding!! It was good to get to know you a little better. Your videos really motivate me.

[@sincerelybecka3]

😂😂 here for the tea! I’m an open book so I’m always spoiling the tea. Thanks for watching friend ♥️

[@beccaponcho8670]

👍 it was cool getting to know you.

[@sincerelybecka3]

Glad you enjoyed it Becca ♥️

[@amymay3655]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 have a great week!!!

[@sincerelybecka3]

Thank you Amy, you too! 🥰

[@mandywiles3655]

I live in a small CT town. ! Grew up here too ❤

[@sincerelybecka3]

Small world! ♥️🥰

[@marylou1017]

Stay strong❤