Just The Tips - Ep. 4: "Eat It, Don't Be It"

[@kierucom]

I went to college in a new city, fresh and out and ready to meet someone. I experienced the reverse of slut-shaming; I was criticized and demeaned for demanding that my sexual encounters be tied to emotion. Casual sex wasn't and isn't for me and the LGBT community around me did a pretty shitty thing in making me feel like a prude. As long as a persons sexual encounters aren't harming him or others; who cares? Accept that your friend is comfortable at the level of sexual activity they are at. If you can't do that you're not a very good friend.

[@kierucom]

Yeah no. This is the shit I'm talking about. I like monogamy. I like sex with one person that I have a physical and emotional connection to. I feel GOOD having these things. If it's not for you that's fine - but don't tell me my choice is prudish or unnatural or that the alternative is just so much better like I'm simply ignorant of the truth.

[@DarrellGandy]

"Eat ass, don't be an ass" would make a great shirt.

[@juarezfernando3]

I really enjoyed this video! Glad you're addressing and adding awareness to a lot of topics people tend to shy away from.

[@themzdivasandy]

I just love Levi. Glad to see him on KZbin with you guys!

[@samridley2543]

Absolutely love the format of this show. Pleeease keep making them! :)

[@BuddyWilliams]

I enjoyed your topic today, Levi is very down to earth, he is boy friend material, his partner would have to be trusting and going in with eyes open, I don't let negativity of other people effect me, i tune them out and try to surround myself with good quality people.

[@ckboy023]

So between this Levi guy (who I am ashamed to say I had never seen or heard of) and the AC boy that was in the first episode, I seem to get that these incredibly attractive guys we tend to objectify and (some of us) beat off to, have been really awesome human beings and I don't know why, but it makes me very happy that they are... They also made excellent guests, keep them coming!!!

[@KnightsAndDarths]

Even if they don't "shame" you, doesn't change what they think. They think that since you're a sex worker, everybody knows your body inside out, which makes you not special. Now that's debatable as far as I'm concerned, but I get where they come from.

[@sofieschmeltzer3201]

I love your videos! I hope you make them forever. FOREVER

[@sailornaruto39]

Guys like Levi make me EXTREMELY uneasy, not because he's a bad guy, I'm just really jealous because he's so hot. I can't thank you enough for this. I can't stand prudes and the holier than thou gays that feel better than others because of how "normal" they are. I also hate when they pull the "you're making us look bad" as if our equality is up for ransom with how well we behave. I'm a very sexual, lewd, and sex+ person so I can't stand slut shaming.

[@zabaglione]

Awww, I want to give Levi a big hug! It's interesting. I've heard people say people who've had a lot of sex aren't relationship material, and generally avoid people who have had a lot of sex. I think we've had the sexual revolution and post-AIDS monogamy. The "let's fuck our way to freedom" thing is looked down on. Having lots of sex just means you're having lots of sex; it isn't revolutionary or liberating except personally, maybe. Mainstream culture does look down on sluts whether straight, gay or whatever label somebody wears. It really is only if someone's at risk of harm - having unsafe sex, etc - that you should speak out.

[@06Tresa]

Love just the tips videos ! Keep then coming

[@teammmx]

Levi seems like a wholesome guy. That's my first impression ... and I haven't seen any of his work.

[@anastasiamiller1925]

I love Levi Michaels. He's very articulate and interesting.

[@luzsantos87]

Sex is sex love it or hate it, is nobody business

[@FrancissOrtega]

YASSS LEVI! RJ you sould collab in Levi´s channel!

[@alexhernandez4670]

OMFG, it's fucking Levi Michaels, I'm dying

[@grovatbu]

One thing about the whole "adult film" issue is the idea that they throw people together who have nothing in common. However, I heard one actor say he would never do a scene with someone he wasn't attracted to.

[@happysappytrees]

Thank you for sharing this...I'm so tired of being called greedy!!!

[@wemma3]

what's the name of the song in the background, thx

[@anonymousperson44]

To be honest RJ...I feel the same sometimes. I am asexual, and I get people questioning my sexuality daily, whether it's at work, my friends, or even my family. No one seems to ever believe me and it just gets frustrating having to defend myself 24/7 ..... however, it's who I am, how I identify, and it makes me comfortable! So I get it completely! =^_^=

[@alainbourassa1998]

I'm surprised RJ didn't plug one of Levi's Cockyboy videos, especially since he claimed that the "industry" was super clean and healthy. I mean it is his job after all, the more views the better he gets paid right? Also I'd like to know if either RJ or Will has ever seen one of Levi's videos....

[@cinema.zipfile]

RJ you're my favorite person on the internet

[@markdalyre]

Literally just discovered this guy the evening before watching this.

[@ronaldolopez6383]

Am I the only one that stopped the video and googled levi after RJ mentioned he was a porn actor? :P xox

[@TheHappyFacedPanda]

Love you rj and loved this video :-D

[@ProtoAzure]

I think I'd like these segments to be a bit more organized like instead of "hinting at surprise guests" just to say in advanced and let ppl be able to ask a question. obviously ignore the dumb ones or at least do it more interview style with some pre-set questions. I think it would be really interesting to learn from the perspective of a porn stars life or tips about that world. but i felt this video didn't really go into too much and i think there was already a video about slut shaming previously on one of your channels or it was mentioned briefly. I was more curious about his perspective

I was already attracted to Levi Michaels before, but after that "I wanna be the very best" quote I think I'm in love.

[@notmtvorbet]

O I had a feeling you'd have him in one of your videos one day, and this is really the best way to collab with him :)

Didn't expect pokemon to pop out on that kind of sex conversation XD

[@sailornaruto39]

The logic behind slut shaming is because of the risk of spreading STD's and the damage it causes is exponential and even with condoms the risk is still there. As valid as that is, that's hardly a reason to shame anyone for anything so I don't agree with it. Sex is great and there are too many hot guys in the world for me not to be. I think everyone should be slutty(if you naturally are) just be safe and reasonable. This is something Davey(Wavey) get shit for a lot.

[@sooth15]

Levi is SO adorable.

[@piplup90210]

i love your TIPS videos :)) keep it goin :"> keep it goin

[@hyunilman]

Levi is adorable here. Thanks RJ.

[@chlemtom1]

Any video that has Levi Michaels in it is going to be hot.

[@MrAudienceMember2662015]

Slut shaming and the reverse (prude shaming?) are simply forms of bullying. No one needs to put up with any form of bullying. Speak out when it happens and put them on notice that you don't need any of that in your life. The gay community has fought too long and hard to get respect and equality from society. We don't need to be putting each other down for the various pleasures we enjoy.

[@hltigue]

Love the video!

[@brettwoodson]

i know this is off topic but... i have noticed Rj talks with his hands just as much as i do :) do people think it is strange that you talk with your hands.

[@CupcakeRollerblades]

Levi and Jake are my favorite adult film stars

[@meandmymouth]

I enjoy your serious (?) channel series on all things gay and would suggest suitable possible future interviews with experts (?) on the following subjects :- (1) "DIY (do it yourself) gay". I'm talking about the wide availability of on line pornography which can facilitate onerism or masterbation. I call it "sleeping with miss Kleenex". Advantages and disadvantages. Discuss. (2) "Future perfect". Maybe in the future gay men and women will be able to procreate without the need for intimacy with the opposite sex ? How will this affect society ? (3) "All that glitters may not be gay ?". To what extent did the excitement of indulging in this taboo behaviour fuel your attraction to being gay and with the increasing respectability of this lifestyle would you make the same choice today ?

[@bawonobudiwaskito]

Damn Levi is foooooyyynn

[@christopherbolanos3751]

OMG LEVI MICHAELS!!!

[@alannagonzalez8174]

I loved your guest he was super cute!

[@gabyb5261]

Rj, i know that you're hispanic and i want to know what was the difference between the hispanic and the american community when you came out of the closet

[@MrHillflower]

I have no qualm with someone who is just honestly promiscuous and doing what they like. Good for them. But the ones who are promiscuous and lie/pretend that they aren't are fair game in my book. Especially if they are in a relationship and are completely deceiving the other person and playing on the dl. Or worse lieing about their status and playing mr innocent while at yhe same time playing unsafe and putting the community at risk. I feel like there are appropriate moments to call someone out on their shit and stamp that big red letter S where it deservedly belongs!

[@WalkAlongMyPath]

For a quick sec I thought the title said "Eat It, Don't Beat it" I would agree with Levi, my friend who is in the industry would say the same thing.

[@leonich2o]

i got a question first time with a guy the good , the bad , the ugly , the nasty lol just want to know i havent tried it yet

[@VelvetLuca]

Being called a whore in my opinion is a compliment. I take it as being commended for doing something that gives me great pleasure. It all stems from jealousy.

[@RaylenX]

The whole culture around "slut shaming" is pretty much based in bullying and as such is equally bad. If you have concerns about safety and other good things, you'd have a proper conversation with the person about the issue, not call them names. I have to say, the title of the video is a most apt analogy that I did not think of before.

[@steeldrago73]

i disagree rj, it can be very difficult to not be judgy.that tendency can be very insidious and we may not personally catch when those moments come up. some of the obvious stuff is just that obvious but there are statements and moments where the negative judgement is more subtle and we can hold those particular beliefs for years without realizing that that is a dick thought.

[@ConnorMT082492]

Irony considering some of the guys I've met (including myself sometimes) only apply worth to people they want to have sex with.

[@iheartgaleharold]

Sex is great! It's also a natural part of life. As long as you're not hurting yourself or anyone else, you should do it in any way and however often you want to. Why would anyone have a problem with that?

[@macmcc]

Great video, he seemed nice too 😊

[@tudorandrei25]

Haha I had a photo of him in my gallery and only now realised who he is:))) lol

[@danielespinoza6483]

RJ's ARMS!! UNF

[@brendomarques8956]

Sean Cody is wayyyyyyyyy better than Cocky Boys. PS: Duke is my favorite model btw

[@116powel]

I thought you were going to talk specifically about eating ass and how that is important to warm someone up and get them to be relaxed lol. Maybe next time. :)

[@TheThunderDragoon]

Levi is so beautiful.

[@paranautical]

It bothers me how people don't really consider sex work or working in that industry an actual talent and you're just doing "all that you're good for". Like, I think that would be a great talent to have lol and I mean you don't say that shit to movie actors/actresses. You wouldn't walk up to Tom Cruise and tell him in a condescending manner that the only thing he's good for is acting

[@awesomenerdgirl95]

I read "Eat it, Don't Bite it"

[@vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540]

Very interesting.

[@Makrobar]

Oh my god hi Levi

[@meandmymouth]

Doesn't your title come from the line in "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" "Don't dream it, be it" ? I think so and a better line I would suggest for sex and all things sublimely human. However I'm still mortal and need my weekly pornography fix so I'm afraid Miss Kleenex will be sharing my bed again tonight.

[@TheFrancynana23]

Great job RJ! I love you! Kisses bye

[@raulsilvaayala4117]

HAHAHAHAHA today I watched a video of him

[@Trizzlemcnasty]

Am i the only one who thinks it do you need to be longer? These topics need more time for discussion.

[@collurr]

People are going to have sex. Its their sex life. Why is it any body elses buisness?

[@Javvorockrawr]

:)

[@loyreception7851]

:)