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[@yvettesullivan6201]

Regina King said recently in her 1st interview since her son’s passing, that grief is love that has nowhere to go…..and she’s right. In addition to the multitude of other things we miss about being in the physical presence of those we miss. It is a life long process and we just get better at learning to manage it. Congrats to you for taking care of yourself & putting your needs above the opinions & sometimes suppression of others. You’re a beautiful young woman inside & out. These difficult times will only help shape you into the powerhouse you will become……❤❤❤❤

[@KailaKake]

Thank you so so much! I defintiely had to put myself first and do what was best regardless

[@yemisi480]

I think everyone needs therapy! The PR for therapy needs to change like I think like how we know we need to drink water or eat fruits and veggies. So happy for you! I used it when I was going through a tough time. Xo

[@jazzyjazz1823]

All for therapy and with the black and brown community. We definitely need it. The ones that are older than us suffer and have issues due to them being prideful about admitting they need help. I tried therapy two years ago and she helped me and gave me assignments that helped as well.

[@AndreaMelissa]

hey Kaila… im 20 years old and seeing you do these things at such a young age is the biggest inspiration, keep going!! wishing you the absolute best and I pray God gives you that 🩵

[@deenevawilliamson1588]

Therapists are there to provide you with the necessary tools to navigate hardships or just life in general. If everyone understood this perception, I feel as though it would erase the negative stigma attached to therapy. I have been going to therapy consistently for 10 months and there’s so many things that I have learned about myself that I did not know. So proud of you Kaila for taking the initiative to start your own therapy journey regardless of what others may say. As women, we need to show up for one another and celebrate when we take this step because it’s huge! Please keep us updated on your journey, and just remember healing takes time. Just enjoy the process and know that your therapist is on your side 🤍

[@astrajahira]

Whew, the comment you received from family about therapy is something I definitely experience. I’m so proud that we are of a generation that is wise enough to seek healing. Just remember your journey is yours and is sacred. That vulnerable piece of you doesn’t have to be shared with anyone else bc they will offer their unwanted opinions, especially in our community❤

[@KailaKake]

SO true!! I think nowadays the willingness of others to show their vulnerable side when it comes to certain things in life has definitely helped me so I wanted to also do the same! I have definitely been enjoying it so far!

[@astrajahira]

Oh yes of course! I so appreciate you taking us along your journey bc it just lets us know we’re not alone in this. Please continue sharing! I was referring to the pressure of letting family in on your journey bc we know how discouraging it can be 😭. Definitely feel you on that

[@bianca1983-]

I can so relate to that type of upbringing - my family always thought ppl in therapy was crazy - like why you telling strangers your business smh - I went to therapy and it helped me in a million and one ways .. so please do what’s best for you and your mental health ❤

[@christinarodriguez9920]

I’m so happy to see your in a good place , God bless you. Love your content.

[@ceynasmith]

Love the vlogs and your discernment to continue to give therapy a try after not only a bad experience but also a negative connotation from a family member 💚 I’ve let that get in my way a few years ago and currently using this year to heal and restart my journey as well.

[@KailaKake]

So proud of you for finally getting back on your journey!

[@wandaellington4481]

K that was so sweet of you to do that for the ladies👏🏾👍🏾💞

[@taytay_07]

YAAAAYYYYY NEW VLOG!!! I have been loving the 1 hour vlogs you should keep doing them ❤ frank got me saying I don’t do press baby omgg 😂😂😂 he’s too hilarious

[@KailaKake]

Trying my best to keep them long!

[@chantellp1138]

Yesssss girls night in/hosting 🥰❤️ y’all had a good time, whewww that was a lot of wine left 😭, I love that new style you tried 😍🩵 & yessss upcoming trip 🥰😎

[@before-berry]

Congratulations on your first therapy session! As I grow older, one thing I’ve learned is a lot of elders are simply lost & ignorant. They hold strong (mostly negative) judgements and lack in many areas that said therapy could possibly aid. Anyway - I love this for you girly 💟🫶🏾

[@j.angelic]

Therapy was the best thing I did for my mental health! I was putting it off for yearsssss and my anxiety was so bad I finally did it literally improved so much since then ❤️ I know it will def help you! 🙏🏾

[@_caram_]

I'm happy for you Kaila. Continue to stay strong for Papi & for those who look up to you. To everyone out there. Healing is a process that has no time frame. You take all the time you need, do what's best for you, & take one day at a time. 🙏🏼

[@KiarahSymoneS]

Yess Kake! You know how I feel about a hr long vlog! Pours the peach wine and ginger ale 😂 As far as the whole being nervous for therapy I think o have a completely different perspective on it as far as my first time.. I’ve been going for almost 4 years and I still remember my first session. Mentally I just kept saying to myself, “ this is for your betterment” & “she’s not here to judge you” therapy is probably some of the best money I ever spent lmao my favorite thing is once it’s said out loud you can move on from it. Let it stay in that session and tackle the next thing Best of luck on your continued healing and overall journey 🤞🏽💗

[@KailaKake]

Thank you and praying your journey gets better and better!

[@thewhat2424]

The Olipop Tropical Punch is my favorite ❤

[@LoveBrittney]

About the therapy session..or just life in general…people either possess an abundance or poverty mindset..share news when the goal has taken place otherwise others will impose their thoughts on why it won’t work. They’ll see you at the level where they are currently. Not to say anyone is lower or higher. You know what is for you so scattering your forces before it takes place could hinder the outlook…best of luck on your therapy journey ❤

[@KailaKake]

This was a WORD! Thank you love!!

[@LIVEwTAI]

Let the healing begin and the blessings overflow ✨

[@KailaKake]

Amen to that! ❤️

[@santania8433]

I started therapy back in October/November of last year and it has been the best thing ever!! I’m so glad your first session went well🤎

[@Alltheworldsillz]

Nobody wants someone else to tell you who they really are. All those people gotta go. 19:43 Proud of you for taking control and doing what you feel is right. You got this.

[@Janellwest721]

Another one keep the content coming we love it ❤️ . On another note it’s sad in our community therapy is looked down upon. I remember telling my parents I was in therapy a year after I started and they look puzzled and confused like why you need therapy. But I say that to say do what feeds your soul and what you feel you need. I went to therapy at an extremely low point in my life and my first session I was so nervous I cried the entire session I probably said like 3 sentences. But I decided that day I needed to change my life after going to therapy for about a year plus my life did a complete 180 I was healing from my past traumas and found my now husband. I learned different tools on how to cope with life and everything it throws at us. I will always advocate for therapy it truly help as long as your open to the journey cause it’s a journey but the best one

[@delyoung1282]

Hello Kaila, Kaila you're doing amazing. Your vlogs have been long and really good. Your hair be looking to cute. Having your friends over was nice and sharing you products was really nice. I'm loving the green dress it's so cute. If you feel the need for Therapy, then get it, take advantage and take care of yourself... I enjoyed this vlog thank you. See u next vlog.

[@kathyg7698]

A vlog much needed I worked all week it was a tough week Love your vlogs Kaila ❤ thanks 😊

[@KailaKake]

Ofc! Thank you for tuning in!!

[@kasonde21]

❤❤❤ another premium vlog I missed you so much sis❤

[@jaydeldn]

Thank you for being so open about therapy xxxxx

[@MorgannFlowers]

That green belted dress is gorgggggg

[@MelloneeKecia]

Loving these vlogs ❤🥰👍🏾👏🏾🤗

[@vandaklap]

Love the long vlogs ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ stay blessed girl always x

[@ShalynnDay]

I need to try that got to be on my edges because they ain’t been listening lately 😂

[@luxelex7881]

I took the charm off my permanent bracelet as well I was experiencing the same thing. It literally tugged on all my clothes and my bedspread as well!

[@ajakeanna]

I love your hair slicked back. So classy. Loved the video ❤

[@TayMarkom]

I live for these long vlogs! Sending love and light✨🤍

[@daysiashute8669]

Okay a hour long blog I live for it and now gonna watch it before bed

[@LeahJames616]

Yes Kaila. Ms. Lee is the best! She’s in the cut but she’s the best tailor in the DMV. Glad you found her. She’s super funny too😂

[@KailaKake]

She's def hilarious lol

[@cikafogarty]

Love that green dress! It looks so beautiful on you 💚

[@KailaKake]

Thank you!!!

[@lilli_brolli]

1h Vlog omg ILY❤

[@AndreeaLakiya1]

Hey Kaila I just wanted to say thank you for speaking about therapy. Lately I have been told by my boyfriend and family that I should take therapy and I’ve been really hesitant about it so thank you for sharing your thoughts on it I needed to hear it I guess from someone else’s point of view.

[@KailaKake]

Yes I really hoped that talking about it would help! It honestly something I dont think anyone is exactly ready for, its something I think we should just try and learn along the way!

[@KarimaDiallo]

Your skin looks so good!!!

[@KailaKake]

Thank you!! I think I finally found a routine that works for me!

[@rubiellavanhekelen7799]

I love your vlogs and im watching from Suriname ❤️

[@KailaKake]

❤️❤️❤️

[@maryhialayla]

loved the intro

[@KailaKake]

Yay! I think I may stick with it!

[@t.elise8]

thanks for the video kaila! 🩷

[@johnakimara]

They just opened a For Five near my office! The Lavendar matcha with macadamia milk is >>> my end of day treat after work DRAGS me lol!

[@KailaKake]

see now I gotta go get that lmao look what you did

[@YanaSLee]

Omg thank you for sharing your tailor 😭 I spent $180 on 3 pair last month and I was so sick about it.

[@LSINEEE]

Im so glad I came across your vlog a while back since I moved to a the DMV a few years ago and love seeing youtubers in my demographic that actually live in my area. As for therapy Id love to know how your sister found you a good one because My last one out here in DC was TERRIBLE! Then the one I tried in Alexandria told me that I was doing very well in life, achieved a lot of goals in my life, home ownership, good career etc at a young age then asked what I could possibly be sad about with so much positive things happening. Like that’s why I am here to talk to you to figure it out ????? so that was the first and last time I saw her.

[@KailaKake]

Omg that’s insane, she just googled it though! You’re not going to find your therapist the first go round, you may go through a few before you find your match

[@AmandazzWorldd]

The amount of pr you have is crazy . I’d be so overwhelmed !!

[@KailaKake]

Im soooo overwhelmed I had to start saying no to certain brands

[@ntombihadebe4822]

Love the vlog and the quality 👌 the content ❤❤❤❤

[@amandajackson3924]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤!!! Loving all your content !!!

[@SincerelyNana_]

Thank you for the long vlog 💕

[@KailaKake]

ofc! ❤️

[@leyaahh]

Yessss !! Another vlog ❣️

[@muffymariah2889]

Those Alani drinks have me in a choke hold🤦🏽‍♀️ I just treated myself to the new iPhone 14 pro, i had the xs max since 2018😒

[@biancasegotlong]

Not you mentioning my name🤭😂. Loved the vlog❤

[@KailaKake]

Lmaooo im tryna get like youuuuu!

[@TraceNicole]

Your hair is so cute are you going to keep it this length or grow it out either way GORGEOUS!!

[@jeanellreynolds7291]

Love your vlogs. ❤

[@KailaKake]

Thank you!!! ❤️

[@MissNickij]

I’m happy you decided to start going to therapy, it was the best decision I made for myself after my mom passed. You’ll learn how to grieve properly and the weight will get lighter. It still hurts of course but it’s good to have the proper tools to get through the hard days. I feel like in the black community we have lack of knowledge when it comes to therapy. A therapist and a psychiatrist are two different things lol Also look into some grief groups in the dmv area. There are some good ones in the Bethesda/Silver Spring area

[@hillaryrosemarie]

Your skin is looking good 😍😍 12:04

[@christinainreallife3475]

I’m black & I am in therapy for the 2nd time. It helps and I am a huge therapy advocate for therapy. We have to normalize it in the black community. Truth be told almost everyone of us can benefit from it.

[@faithlove2278]

Girl I love the vlog it had abit of everything! Can I ask though, can u pls link the green khaki dress from Zara. I seen this in store TODAY before I send your vid and thought it looked okay but then u wore it and I said yes I need it xxxx

[@faithlove2278]

Babes can you add the link for the lovely green dress 👗 please

[@RoseSimeus]

The Fenty melt off is soo good but won’t be repurchasing until they fix that bottle. It was such a hassle to use

[@KailaKake]

Im sure they wont fix it. the Elemis balm is soooo good too! No weird bottle lol

[@RoseSimeus]

@@KailaKake😂😂😂! I’ll try that one instead

[@kiwiloveme5523]

Hey KK❤ The TPH link hair spray is listed twice. Can you list the link for the robe🥹🙏🏽 🙃I checked your LTK and your amazon store front. #ineeeedlol

[@Chastidee]

I can't believe that lady took your pants in like that. She know that ain't how it go lol.

[@KailaKake]

But honestly….it worked and if I ever gained weight, all I have to do is take them back and get it loosened! I don’t have to get rid of them. So she really ate if you think about it 😂

[@Chastidee]

@@KailaKake 🤣

[@amiem6480]

@KailaKake thank you for being a great creator and sharing things other creators hold back. Do you have a brand&marketing team or a manager only or both? Trying to understand how it works in becoming a creator. And how does one find them if one is not in the position to be found, esp. starting. Hope to hear from you on this and thanks in advance you’re always so inspiring!

[@KailaKake]

If you’re just starting, management isn’t needed. Focus on having fun and being consistent, once it’s your career, then look into management IF you feel you need it

[@Kensthetic]

"a little manufactured' im screaminggggg. why are u like this?

[@KailaKake]

😂😂 very man made lmaooo

[@ashleythetherapist7831]

Happy to see more gorls going to therapy. From a Licensed Professional Counselor with a counselor you are going to nervous and it is a very vulnerable experience. Just please don’t go through better help and treat the therapeutic relationship like you would any other relationship. If you re not getting what you need from this therapist find someone else. Psychology today and searching your area is a good resource as well as therapy for black girls.

[@kaylavisser9517]

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[@hodges194]

Everyone grieves differently so yeah in the black community we look at it therapy as like why can’t you just talk to us and some people don’t get the fact that talking to a person that you can just have a conversation with does help more than talking to family and friends to cope with it

[@zamariafitzgerald5290]

When I seen “reverse “ haul I thought that was the name of a brand 😅

[@AlexaEC]

Not what grief do you have… ummm. Are you for real? Even WE know! 😭😭 Glad you’re doing what you need to do to better yourself! Your mental is ALWAYS the priority!

[@KailaKake]

Lmaooo I held back what I truly wanted to say and just bowed out gracefully

[@yemisi480]

Not manufactured 😂 xo

[@jLachelle3]

Ive only told one cousin Im doing therapy. Im not broadcasting it to anyone else, because I don’t expect positive reactions.

[@AshleighElizabeeth]

Girl say it!!! It’s true therapy is not accepted from a broader prospective in the black culture . It’s so sad cus it’s needed !!!

[@yemisi480]

Please whats the name of the tailor again?? Xo

[@theperiodplanner]

18:37 - Yikes! Glad you're not letting that comment discourage you from getting the help you need through your grieving process.

[@jewelschannel6066]

im so happy that your getting the help that you need & want, don’t let no one make you feel bad about it! loved the girls night, i think you really needed that even though you were hosting it🫶🏾🤍

[@KailaKake]

I was saying that! I def needed a night with all my favorite people! It filled my cup for sure 🤍🤍

[@basicallyberry3094]

Glomelanin soap... Chef's kiss... Thank me later

[@AliciaEnikanoselu-qg3jw]

Therapy is self awareness and the love of self. You have to always remember the African American community has never been allowed to believe that their feelings were valid. So don't be offended by that family member that is reflecting what has been passed down to him or her... I myself have been in therapy for 2 years 9 months I love it because I love myself... As a proud African American woman I will tell you If no one else will I'm proud of you loving yourself enough to get yourself therapy.💪🏾🫶🏾🫂 Yes the first time is frightening and uneasy but Do it anyway.

[@KailaKake]

Ive def been enjoying it so far and holding onto my optimism for sure!

[@yvelinechatelier1390]

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[@caskluckey]

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