Ignoring her pain and only recognizing his pain is one of the things that’s wrong with society. Elders don’t see the damage that they caused and they don’t have any right to dictate someone’s experience with them. If someone says you hurt them then you did!
@holyexperience1976 Жыл бұрын
Many elders think they can do what they want and can do no wrong because of elder entitlement and thrive on being bigger than others. I am almost 47 and I hope to never abuse being elder than those 20+ younger than me. I can not want to be so comfortable as to overstep my boundries and be too harsh and use being elder to my advantage. I know what it is like to be on receiving end.
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! And these comments are honestly sad.
@kiravideos.5353 Жыл бұрын
A lot of elders take honesty as disrespect.
@honeyblunt4201 Жыл бұрын
@@Yespls888 Ur sad, That girl a B.
@PricelessDes5 ай бұрын
Y’all hit the nail on the head right here🎯💯. They feel like they know it ALLLLLLL because they are elders and they have been on this Earth longer so what they say goes and what you say about how you feel has no validity at all. They don’t apologize either. Your point of view is absolutely disrespectful.
@haze1554 Жыл бұрын
For everyone attacking her, you expect her to have a good attitude after being sexually assaulted, losing her grandmother, and being abandoned by her birth mother and father? Make it make sense. 🤦🏾♀️Where is your compassion? I wish I could be as perfect as you expect her to be.
@traceypierce542 Жыл бұрын
Yes I totally agree with you! Folks kill me judging folks by just a few minutes of screen time!! That young lady has a lot to unpack and get past. She has a right to feel angry. She has a right to feel abandoned. She is aggressive because its her defense to stop the pain that she is feeling. I guess all these people with the negative comments have perfect lives.. well kudos to you all!!
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
U acting like he the one who sexually assaulted her or sutn...
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! And if one more person says "he didn't have to do this or that" ugh That's not the point and that's NOT something you throw in someone's face (not saying he did). They're acting like her attitude is just coming out of nowhere. She's HURTING and needs support and counseling. Some are telling him to cut her off etc. So sad.
@starcharlie1880 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!! I’m with y’all frfr. My dad abandoned me years ago, I’ve forgiven it. But, anytime he gets even close to disrespecting me, I show him a different side of me.
@aaliyahali5537 Жыл бұрын
This is the problem with these generation you think sexual abuse from early age turn one’s love upside down it doesn’t people move on it’s only these with little faith sit down and cry about it.
@sashaswtheart79 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t find her rude. I see a wounded child. She looks really young and she is hurting. She needs some counseling and they need to go as a father and daughter. Praying they can repair their relationship ❤
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
I see a wounded child too. She was rude at times but he also wouldn't let her express herself which shows that he probably does that in private as well. She definitely needs counseling
@thesun-N-moon8885 Жыл бұрын
Wounded child? She’s a grown woman who seems to feel like she no longer needs him now. This man was not obligated to continue caring for her yet he did through all her messy antics as a teenager! Those tears dried up so fast. 🙄
@kingnate9534 Жыл бұрын
@The Sun & Moon exactly, I can understand her going through what she went through and being sexually assault, but it comes a time where you gotta grow up and help yourself for real and not let that trauma spill over on the people that cared for you.
@Silk24410 ай бұрын
@@thesun-N-moon8885she's a brat
@adonisnziza333810 ай бұрын
@@kingnate9534See, the thing is, y’all are minimizing her pain. Not everyone’s capable of moving on fast from getting sexually assaulted. I still haven’t moved on. You gotta understand that everyone grows at their own pace and you can’t expect everyone to grow up super fast, because you’re just completely ignoring and not taking into account how she was hurt. He’s her father, you can’t say he didn’t need to care, because of how independent she needed to be, because he would’ve failed right there. It would’ve been a big mistake. Her being independent and trying to live her own life is maybe a way of coping with her pain. It’s not necessarily because she doesn’t care about her elders. Just next time think about that 😅 May God bless you and have a nice day! 💗💗
@TiffTheGift1 Жыл бұрын
He was gaslighting and kept cutting her off to be “right”. Sometimes it’s not about being right or wrong it’s about being heard. I hope they can really listen to each other and heal because it’s obvious that they love each other.
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
N Wat she was doin?
@TiffTheGift1 Жыл бұрын
@@trenellcarter1663 it’s obvious that we have two different opinions about what we watched and that’s ok with me 🤷🏾♀️
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
@@trenellcarter1663 At first she was speaking and EXPRESSING herself and her pain. And each time he cut her, she got more and more upset. She's obviously in pain and needs someone that will really listen to her.
@BoringDad1272 Жыл бұрын
He doesn't owe her nothing!
@tachic4152 Жыл бұрын
@@BoringDad1272 And she doesn't owe his funky a** nothing
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
She's not "bad", she's HURT! Big difference
@rnbsteenstar Жыл бұрын
Usually, behind every bad child is a broken child.
@nikkiajackson6651 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏 being mad hurt and bitter are all different levels of emotions
@bougiepeaches5497 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely feel how she feels. Feeling abandoned can cause people to lack trust and act out of fear of abandonment like rage, cry, or put up the wall to protect themselves from being hurt.
@kardon4996 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!!!!!!!
@mequeen2307 Жыл бұрын
You are very right, I am one of them till date I trust no one I don't mixed up with people.
@LilTux Жыл бұрын
She is drop dead gorgeous.
@MsZoki Жыл бұрын
Fr
@startinajackson606 Жыл бұрын
My heart broke when she let her walk down and he hugged her. God protect all the little girls in this world
@Monkeysrulaa Жыл бұрын
She’s a woman. Not a little girl.
@sicilysscenarios365 Жыл бұрын
@@Monkeysrulaa but she was…..
@rubyjaez Жыл бұрын
The first issue she has is abandonment. It's a reason she resided with her grandparents and not her parents. Another issue is her snooping and finding out he was seeing people behind her grandmother’s back. Then her grandmother passed away, she was SA’d, and him not knowing how to comfort her. She took that as him not caring. Then him remarrying and the new wife feels threatened by her, while she is afraid that he would abandon her and he turns around and kicks her out. This is a mess all the way around. They need therapy and not a talk show.
@joypierce230 Жыл бұрын
So True !
@kattiethomas4687 Жыл бұрын
Amen,Therapy...
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
So u feel she don't play a role in no way shape or form of how their relationship is? She clearly seem like she disrespectful, if somebody take me in to prevent me from being in da system yea I mightve been immature and disrespectful wen young but da older mature me would have the utmost respect 💯she kno dat man love her fr ...
@rubyjaez Жыл бұрын
@@trenellcarter1663 never said she didn’t play a role. What I said was she’s a young girl who experienced multiple forms of major trauma during her childhood. What I said is she needs therapy to learn how to cope with her issues. I do feel like if you’re going to throw what you’ve done for someone on their face then you don’t need to do it. However I think this man cares for her, but he wants to live his life too. Her issues are preventing him from being happy that’s why he has no qualms about his new wife putting her out.
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
@@rubyjaez I hear u ur comment and how u worded it was as if he hold all the responsibility in regards to how dere relationship is as it stands.... From my eyes he seem like a caring parent raising girls in dis generation who are alittle slick out the mouth, it seem like he put up wit it for too long.. only thing I give u is the sexual assault part and the wife/girlfriend thing, u can tell he prolly put his wife b4 dem at times but other than that he seems like he loved her yo if I'm being honest.... And den he said dey ask for money in big amounts and he do it and dey don't say thank u none of dat... If u don't fuck wit him why u asking for bread ? Dey using him in a sense cuz dey know he a look out why he looking out tho , cuz he love em fr fr ... But yea I be tryna look at shit from all angles not jus one perspective fr💯
@jedinharris-averhart8510 Жыл бұрын
10:46 broke me. Men hug your daughters please. That fatherly affection goes such a long way.
@nyahoskins4141 Жыл бұрын
A lot of y'all in these comments who are saying this girl is so disrespectful are completely missing & disregarding what's going on. Being hurt is not an excuse to be mean to the entire world but of course she has a bad attitude towards him. He's the one that caused some of the hurt she's feeling and he's not even acknowledging it. He keeps throwing what he's done for her back at her when all she needed was someone who would listen to her, someone to hold her and sympathize with her. She's not ungrateful, She needed a dad and he focused so much on "doing" for her rather than actually "being there" for her. Had she received what she needed to from him, her attitude would be way different. Again no its not an excuse to be nasty, but Karamo said exactly what he needed to. i grew up with parents like this so maybe that's why I can understand her pov.
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
I definitely agree. And I worked with at risk youth for over 10 years and am a survivor of SA too. She's not "bad" she's in PAIN. The disrespect and all that will be addressed when her pain is acknowledged and processed. I think if she wasn't being cut off as much, she wouldn't have lashed out so much either. Not that it was right all the time, I'm big on respect. But this was SO much deeper than that. I think the set up of the segment probably painted him as a hero and her as the ungrateful villain anyway. So her being less than perfect just made the comments pile on her without really seeing a hurt little girl...and yes I see a hurt little girl.
@PastorNickcanody Жыл бұрын
He did not cause her any pain. He raised this girl. Whatever what going on between him and the grandmother was between them. As far as the sexual assault, he said he found out through someone else and after the fact. You don’t know what type of stuff this girl was doing. He already caught her at 3am with a boy in his house. There’s more to the story. But he’s not the cause of the problem. Her parents are for abandoning her.
@latonyafunches99915 ай бұрын
@@PastorNickcanody this is pathetic seriously the fact u can say her being with a boy consensually to her being SA you people are the problem and what causes people like this bc they are hurt and literally went through one of the most traumatic experiences in the world and u are treating as if it’s nothing.
@angelacleveland754 ай бұрын
She's VERY disrespectful. The world will teach her exactly what she needs to know.
@peacelily7751 Жыл бұрын
He is hurt. He loves her but doesn’t show it clearly. Hope Karamo was able to fix this relationship. Hope she can forgive him.
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
How u figure he doesn't show it?
@petitenpetty4389 Жыл бұрын
@@trenellcarter1663 him saying how he FINANCIALLY cared for them and her saying he wasn’t there emotionally
@kiravideos.5353 Жыл бұрын
@@trenellcarter1663did you watch the video ? At all 🤣
@egujuga9 ай бұрын
love isn't enough she is hurt beyond that
@Vidgamechx Жыл бұрын
He is NOT respectful to her at all. Every time she talks,he interrupted her. I feel like he is in denial from something major instead of paying attention to his daughter. He continued to deflect and point fingers at everyone else instead of looking at how HE contributed to her pain. I'm sad for both of them🥺😔❤️
@BoringDad1272 Жыл бұрын
I would interrupt my child if she acts and dress like that.
@tennillewilkinson1518 Жыл бұрын
What's wrong with how she's dressed?
@honeyblunt4201 Жыл бұрын
Because he is sick of her, people aren't always sad. What I've seen is that she takes her frustrations out on him, then turns around and asks for money when she's feeling better.
@shutupitspaige3 ай бұрын
@@BoringDad1272 dont have kids
@tonitwitty9529Ай бұрын
U are weird. She has on a dress that's not revealing smh@@BoringDad1272
@brittbritt6857 Жыл бұрын
Daddy went through something traumatic, too! They need to TALK 👏🏾TALK 👏🏾
@silvergun510 Жыл бұрын
This man lived through material things. She wanted LOVE and especially through her trauma. Dang
@BoringDad1272 Жыл бұрын
You can bash a man who tried to raise a stranger but the biological parents get a pass!
@tdcleveland09 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately that’s all most old men know how to do.. protect and provide. Society says and emotional man is a weak one so what else would you expect?
@dreavee2918 Жыл бұрын
She was putting up her wall so high butnas soon as karamo asked to let it down she didnt hesitate she wants her dad but shes scared of being hurt again ❤️🩹
@mylahblease9944 Жыл бұрын
Every episode I’m in tears I love this showww
@Olcool Жыл бұрын
Karamo killed it when he asked Mark what she need him to do so that she can call him daddy? and she fell for that yet she had said that i will never call you daddy again. Karamo did well to reunite them.
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris Жыл бұрын
My parents were divorced when I was still in the single digit years. Unfortunately he divorced me as well. My Mother never spoke negatively about him but I grew angry. No, I didn't act out but for years to come I wanted to know why. I reached out at 16, later...my high school graduation, then a few months later my leaving for college...no response so I was like F**K IT!! He died while I was a Sophomore. No, I didn't attend his funeral. He didn't show up for me. I'm 56 now but I had questions for decades...gotta let go. These 2 need to figure out what family is first before they can start to heal.
@aut4993 Жыл бұрын
i hate whenever a child tries to confront their parent the parent’s first thing is “i did everything for you” and? that’s your job as a parent, why are you throwing it back in my face ? i never asked to be brought into this world
@trevabrown7926 Жыл бұрын
He didn’t bring her into this world so she should be grateful for what he have done since her biological parents couldn’t
@trinathompson8587 Жыл бұрын
She should be grateful that even though she wasn't biologically his he raised her like she was,and kept her and her siblings out of foster care!That's a big job for grandparents, they give up a lot to raise kids at a time when they should be relaxing and enjoying their freedom from child rearing!
@aut4993 Жыл бұрын
@@trevabrown7926 yes that’s true i forgot that was her grandparent 😭 but i was just kinda saying in general
@babygirl92683 Жыл бұрын
No he didn't have to take care of them
@euniceduhaney1764 Жыл бұрын
He is not blood relative, where are her parents, he could be otherwise occupied but he did his best, and was disrespected,and. Was not appreciated. She took him for granted. There are lots of young people who would give anything for what she had. She had no one but this man, and she threw his kindness in his face.
@dailendwillingham5130 Жыл бұрын
I beleiv that her trauma should be acknowledged but not used as an excuse for blatant disrespect. That man does not own her anything! And for her to try and bring something up about him cheating is so weird on her part.
@kikijojo4197 Жыл бұрын
Him cheating was something also affecting her and her childhoodn
@petitenpetty4389 Жыл бұрын
How? He chose to marry their grandmother making it HIS JOB to care for them? Clearly it looks like he didn’t give her any emotional love which is what’s needed….
@Monkeysrulaa Жыл бұрын
He does owe her. That’s her father. You’re saying it’s okay for him to act like that towards her and ruin her self worth then you’re upset she won’t take it?
@patriceblack22648 ай бұрын
@@Monkeysrulaa step grandfather *
@LoThePhenom Жыл бұрын
When somebody has spent a long time being angry ,they aren't gonna have a good attitude. She's lives in toxicity for a long time ,the grandma confiding in her said enough. U don't bring children into adult business. She's heavily guarded and it's not for no reason. Y'all are so quick to judge without viewing the full picture This man is toxic ,I see red flags from him from the very beginning of the video. He thinks money is love. When she interrupted she was dead disrespectful but he was allowed to interrupt her in the beginning.
@melshelton7270 Жыл бұрын
She wanted to talk about what he did in the past, but she never wanted him to at anything about what she was doing
@fountainmedia4683 Жыл бұрын
Karamo, you are absolutely AMAZING, when it comes to repairing broken relationships.
@lungienxumalo3244 Жыл бұрын
He's great, i don't care what people say!
@miaquain5368 Жыл бұрын
Why wasn’t this girl held accountable for her disrespect? She was clearly trying to disregard her own bad actions towards this man . he apologized but why couldn’t she either . I know she went through some things & I feel awfully sorry for her truly I do . But one thing that needed to happen is that they both needed to be held accountable. Not just one party.
@testedtried1233 Жыл бұрын
Because she is telling the truth. He cuts her off
@crazygoose9858 Жыл бұрын
What she did she did in high school, meaning she was a child. I’m sure she was already disciplined for that back then, there’s no need to bring that up now and disciplined again for that. She has nothing to be held accountable for, besides being a child. He’s the adult, he should’ve taught her better, he should’ve ensured she felt safe, loved and valued, maybe she wouldn’t have needed to have little boys around if her father did his due diligence to make her feel those things. She wouldn’t have gone looking for it.
@miaquain5368 Жыл бұрын
@@crazygoose9858 it wasn’t even about the things she did in the past , she was showing disrespect on stage whether it wasn’t that bad or not she wasn’t holding herself accountable for shit she’s done . Whether it’s in the past or not she knew it wasn’t right . I get she was a child & she reacted as a child would so I understand but she could’ve been respectful enough to apologize for her behavior at least . It would’ve been the maturest thing to do .
@crazygoose9858 Жыл бұрын
@@miaquain5368 she didn’t disrespect him on stage though, she told her truth. What because she brought up he was cheating on her grandmother? If that’s the truth then it’s the truth. It is what it is.
@miaquain5368 Жыл бұрын
@@crazygoose9858 I’m not bashing her for that she spoke her truth I respect her for that truly , she was polite when she wanted her words said but her tone in some parts & as well as not owning up to her faulting is indeed disrespectful !!! Why was he only held accountable for her actions ? When she had done some things that were off impulse & spite ? She wasn’t entirely innocent once so ever
@nomadicmusic3558 Жыл бұрын
KARAMO I’M SICK OF YOU!!! EVERY CLIP BE HAVING ME CRYING 🤦🏾♂️
@2drifn27 Жыл бұрын
Every girl deserves to know or meet her father!!! 👏😭❤️
@whaa3222 Жыл бұрын
She’s hurting.. I’m glade they minded.❤❤
@sabriyahsmith346 Жыл бұрын
They are both in so much pain! Where is her biological daddy??? Mark did his best to keep all of the girls together. My gosh. He is not perfect but he has a huge heart. Markeya needs counseling. Praying for the both of them. ❤
@trevinedrummond8665 Жыл бұрын
Personally I think he should leave her alone and stop giving her money. She claims she no longer wants a relationship with him - let’s see how long that lasts the next time she wants money. He is not involving money, she is if she keeps asking him for it. I acknowledge her trauma but she is completely dismissive of the fact this man took in and raised children that weren’t biologically his in any way.
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
She was upset and hurt. She said she was very grateful for all he's done and I believe her. But she was also hurt and angry (sure some of it may be misdirected and some of its probably not) She didn't come off like she saw him like an ATM. She seems hurt and says she just wanted emotional support. I believe her. But it's so easy for us to throw our girls away while putting men on a pedestal smh. I hope he doesn't "leave her alone". Maybe give her space if needed and help her get professional help for her trauma.
@brittanyhunter3331 Жыл бұрын
However, he was an adult who voluntarily assumed the role of caregiver--he signed up for it. This is the same argument that biological parents make when they say, "After all we've done for you!" yet, they are the ones who CHOSE to have the children and assume all responsibility for them, not the other way around.
@Sdlewis89 Жыл бұрын
Ew she had such a bad and audacious attitude ! Karamo had nothing to say until the assault thing . He defended her so fast . Karamo pick and chooses because she has done things and she was RUDE AND nasty asf . He CHOSE to take on that responsibility, he didn’t have to ! This generation is entitled and he WAS there ! He’s just as hurt ! He lost his wife ! He’s grieving too! The nerve ! That’s irritating. I dont wish for any man or woman to be SA! But to disregard what that man lost as well was not fair
@theincognitochannel5542 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@lolgomez8640 Жыл бұрын
Right
@ericaskinner4000 Жыл бұрын
You are so right I literally just said the same thing!!! Karamo really irritates me sometimes!!
@iknowthetruthcommonsense3643 Жыл бұрын
Yea , because karamo , is on otherside , that stole the rainbow from nature , stole something that god created as a sign of harvest , these satanic beings are the end of the world
@NashvilleBraids Жыл бұрын
@@amediasres More like extremely ungrateful.
@nallyw1 Жыл бұрын
She is rude and entitled. This man don’t owe you anything appreciate him and what he does. She is ridiculous
@Sdlewis89 Жыл бұрын
Very rude . He did NOT have to take on the responsibility of a child that’s not blood ! Idk why she was so entitled
@CarliJRucker Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY!!
@musasalami6179 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Not even his blood... Huge!!!
@Monkeysrulaa Жыл бұрын
@@Sdlewis89Nobody told him to do that and he DOES OWE her. She wasn’t being rude AT ALL
@Monkeysrulaa Жыл бұрын
How is she rude? That’s the only father she’s known. This man DOES OWE HER EVERYTHING. She did nothing but exist and they threw her away for NOTHING
@desiprioleau3 ай бұрын
Parents who only show love with dollars and then act shocked when the kid asks them for money later 🙄
@moresolush33 ай бұрын
💯💯
@lindylou11 Жыл бұрын
Water works over here…She came out hard but respectful. When Karamo asked if she could let her walls down a little she spoke up fast and said yup! She loves him and really wants a relationship with him. I hope he keeps his promise to her. I wasn’t trying to cry today but they got me….
@desireebryant9523 Жыл бұрын
When you do too much for these kids young adults they treat you like crap . I definitely learn my lesson. It’s not you, sir it’s them.
@miriamkanagi1084 Жыл бұрын
I love the ending. Hope they are doing better now
@moniquefrey-jackson3977 Жыл бұрын
He needs to Respect her and until he does..she won't respect him..She is suppose to feel safe
@bethunelabeach8349 Жыл бұрын
Thank grandpa and my heart goes out to you young lady Keep up the good work Karamo Gods blessings on you Happy New Year Bro
@lucyviola3367 Жыл бұрын
All I would like to know is why wasn't the girl held accountable for her disrespect. I understand the abandonment but how she talked to him wasn't right.
@aliciachappelle5457 Жыл бұрын
What disrespect kramo was her question he keep interrupting her when the question was towards her.
@KC-xf9wc Жыл бұрын
The man is more concerned about his image than this girl's needs. He is shifting his eyes into the audience and has a difficulty talking to a person. He talks about himself amd defending himself because the reality is that he is worried how he looks like to the rest of the world.
@dianne7184 Жыл бұрын
I hope they get counseling together at the same time. God Bless them both.
@getrudechapuisat6630 Жыл бұрын
Karamo you are doing GREAT BRO .....Thank you for bringing families together ❤👍
@7Tiffany Жыл бұрын
These kids be spoiled, ungrateful brats these days. This man has no blood relation to you, be appreciative.
@testedtried1233 Жыл бұрын
Not this lady.
@pinda0020 Жыл бұрын
@@testedtried1233 Then she should have gone into the system, you think she would turn out good?
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
Can y'all stop saying that dumb mess. There's a difference between a trauma response, especially after being sexually assaulted, losing her grandma, feeling like she was kicked out by the one person that was there for her ...and just being "spoiled or bratty". Hate to break it to you but most black kids aren't even spoiled...some are of course. But she needs COUNSELING, not more people telling her she's wrong. And he helped to raise her so the whole "he didn't have to" is probably what gets thrown in her face when stuff goes wrong.
@oholm09 Жыл бұрын
@@Yespls888 all generational curse
@hammyrehfuss8938 Жыл бұрын
Bullcrap
@CjNoWay901 Жыл бұрын
That daughter is selfish, rude and entitled. She most likely one of them teens who had bad attitude and lied to make sure people felt bad for any action she did, SHES THE PROBLEM. THIS MAN RAISED YOU AND HE’S NOT EVEN YOUR FATHER. THIS IS A RANDOM MAN WHO TOOK OVER THE RESPONSIBILITY OF 3 GIRLS WHO ARE NOT HIM. THATS YEARS AND TIMES HE WILL NOY GET BACK.
@testedtried1233 Жыл бұрын
Not at all. That man is full if himself ge didn't protect her.
@pinda0020 Жыл бұрын
@@testedtried1233 he took her in she wasn't even his. You take care of someone and you get shitted on. Come on now
@sandreajiggetts1516 Жыл бұрын
@@pinda0020 a bank is NOT a father! She needed love and affection. She had no mom, dad, grandmother and he let a “GIRLFRIEND” come and put her out. Thats distasteful.
@pinda0020 Жыл бұрын
@@sandreajiggetts1516 So wait it's okay for her to shit all over him, maybe she should pay him back than. And maybe his girlfriend did something that he couldn't do to her, maybe he was having a hard time setting some rules. So what you are saying is that after everything he had done for her she was right to treat him like that, it's not his fault that she didn't have all these people in her life anymore. So we are gonna blame everyone who helps us out for things we are missing, no wonder this generation is the lost one.
@sandreajiggetts1516 Жыл бұрын
@@pinda0020 we can maybe all day. Look at the facts. We at we she said and he said. A bank isn’t a father. He didn’t believe her assault. That says enough. Any FATHER will believe, comfort and protect his children through a situation like that. She isn’t perfect, but neither is he.
@moebetta6194 Жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for this man. I can hear it in his voice♥️🙏
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
And that girl is hurting too.
@petitenpetty4389 Жыл бұрын
Yeah because he’s so self centered he can’t see the bigger picture 😂
@girllikeme4300 Жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Our parents did not know any better, to this day that generation is still unlearning their mistakes. I also would have lost all of my father's trust if he found me with a man in my room in his house.
@darvinletren8947 Жыл бұрын
@@girllikeme4300 he was the parent. Let's not change the roles and responsibilities
@egujuga9 ай бұрын
@@girllikeme4300 like he wasn't in some girls bed when he was younger gtfo 9 times out of 10 your father has done worse
@sen3407 Жыл бұрын
She got trauma she’ll never heal, He has trauma that’ll never heal “hurt people, hurt people “
@dayYdream2k Жыл бұрын
Let's pray that with time they can both gradually have some sort of healing.
@morayahbrown5814 Жыл бұрын
sometimes i cant understand karamo, he looked past her attitude i feel like he should tell some of his guest to work on their attitude? why does he never notice whats really wrong????????????
@sabrina21clark Жыл бұрын
Because he's always looking at things from the child's ot the victim's hurt and pain. And I get that...but he should be better at holding both parties to a certain standard. I know hurt ppl hurt ppl, but that needs addressed also.
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
Because that's not what's "REALLY" wrong...that's a surface issue. The real issue is she's in pain and lashing out. They need help, especially her. This wasn't about that and Karamo understood that.
@Bdphonorat Жыл бұрын
She should be happy she got someone to help her
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
At least you said it because that's the ACTUAL energy that most of these comments have. And it's sad. That was a wounded girl on that stage and all y'all can say is "she should be happy" and "he didn't have to raise her" smh
@thinkaboutit155 Жыл бұрын
I give him so much credit for wanting to make things better with her when he is not biologically connected. I do feel she is hurt because he has a new relationship. I think she needs therapy and time on her own to reflect, and maybe then things could will come together for all of them.
@tyreekdorseymajor6 ай бұрын
When she said her grandma said he stink that messed up from the grandma to say to her granddaughter about him. IMO 🤷🏾♂️💯
@rachelbethel9772 Жыл бұрын
Everything I heard in the beginning was monetary… some dads don’t understand that giving kids material things doesn’t build an emotional bond.
@vidalsmith9160 Жыл бұрын
She is using that man..after he took on a responsibility he didnt have to Karamo enables dis-respect and bad behavior!!
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
She's using him for what??? She was literally crying out (despite her "disrespect") and saying she just wants emotional support
@vidalsmith9160 Жыл бұрын
@@Yespls888 💰 Money!! Emotional support can't continuously be used as an excuse for dis-respect and bad behavior...at some point a person has to take accountability for their actions...which she isnt doing and Karamo is enabling that behavior by not confronting her about it which im starting to see is becoming typical of him!!
@ghanat102 Жыл бұрын
@@Yespls888 tHATS NOT EVEN HER REAL DAD THO
@moniquefrey-jackson3977 Жыл бұрын
This is crazy! She definitely feels abandoned
@kingdoc3262 Жыл бұрын
I'm more than a bit disappointed how you did not hold her accountable for her disrespectful behavior and put it on him...as many in the comments. It's a common problem stepfathers are having
@brittanyhunter3331 Жыл бұрын
This is a dynamic that is all too familiar to me. Parents of his generation frequently aren't able to recognize their children's cry for help, and pathologize the children's behavior as a fundamental, inherent "flaw", instead of what it really is, which is a reasonable response to trauma.
@DivvoneNE Жыл бұрын
That’s not her dad thou? I bet she don’t have this same energy for her parent that left her to rot!
@meeeeeeee82 Жыл бұрын
That was beautiful ❤ We need more love in this world 🌎
@penelopeparks5022 Жыл бұрын
Mark, don't be there for this chick, Ever AGAIN! Let her figure it out, not your problem. Karaoke, you didn't correct her or have her apologize. Mark live your life
@CarliJRucker Жыл бұрын
this episode was ridiculous. she is rude and entitled karamo is literally acting like this man OWES her something , he didn’t have to step up ! he helped the best it could be lost his wife too . about to stop watching this is starting to get annoying
@startinajackson606 Жыл бұрын
God help all the sexually abused little girls and boys
@jessiegbrown1520 Жыл бұрын
It’s unfortunate she went through that but he is no kin no blood and he took that responsibility on out of love for her and her grandmother that passed since she was six so give tha man a brake he has feelings a well he lost apart of himself when she died and kept his promise to his late wife who he has now she obviously doesn’t like but he shouldn’t have to stop living cause his heart still pumping❤
@oluwanifemiodumosu3056 Жыл бұрын
He should have at least addressed her disrespectful actions
@LS-ws7rm Жыл бұрын
this show is so biased... he never holds anyone accountable
@testedtried1233 Жыл бұрын
When was she disrespectful
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@aprillipscomb991 Жыл бұрын
How was she being disrespectful by asking him to let her complete her story w/o interruptions. Just because he was the senior...doesn't mean he gets to talk over her...
@trenellcarter1663 Жыл бұрын
@@aprillipscomb991 u know she was being disrespectful if we goin be real let's be real about it, he cut her off pry twice she did the same thing early on.. she was slickmouthin him da whole show fr y'all females jus biased dats all
@BananaaThoughts Жыл бұрын
For those complaining about Karamo not correcting the young lady for her behavior- please relax. In my opinion, Karamo understood that at this moment, dad needed to be taught a lesson because he’s farther along in life and more set in his ways. Scolding her in front of him may have given dad more ammunition for future arguments. For example “Even Karamo said you xyz…” leading the daughter to keep shutting down and feeling like she knew she shouldn’t trust what he said on the show. Dad needed a harder push at this moment. Karamo also recognized that ALL of his daughters aren’t talking to him anymore… dad is the common denominator. Y’all know how people who are stuck in their ways are. I think Karamo did a great job on this one. Daughter needs counseling to work on her abandonment issues. Hopefully her sisters will follow suit. They seem like a nice family if they can get past these issues.
@MzPrettyDimplez Жыл бұрын
She needed to be taught a lesson as well, how is anything being resolved when the other party's negative behavior isn't addressed? They were both hurt, but Karamo never even mentioned her Tone in this situation! It's not what you say but how you say it.
@joypierce230 Жыл бұрын
I agree that her attitude wasn't the best! I also know that most people watching were probably thinking 🤔"the nerve of her" because he's not actually her real dad and in reality he's not obligated to continue a relationship with her. However, she is a young woman that was sexually assaulted! Often times, when dealing with young or older women who have been abused or misused in some sort of way, understanding from relatives and close friends is a must, and professional therapy is a necessity! Is that the Step-Father's fault? No, but he seems to genuinely love ❤️ her, and when we as adults decide to love a child or children that are not ours biologically, we have to be willing to take the good & the bad and I think that's why Karamo did not address the young woman concerning her behavior. I think he's (step-father) awesome for wanting to address the issue at all!
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I can't believe how cold some people are being...no wonder so many kids and young adults (and older adults) are messed up
@serenitypowers Жыл бұрын
Karamo is on the daughter's side... He's always one-sided in many cases. Karamo do your best to put your feet on both parties shoes and not just one. She's rude and disrespectful, Karamo has nothing to talk about it only forcing him to acknowledge his faults.
@janiyashonae Жыл бұрын
But he didn't believe that she was assaulted u have to think about that
@noreenm5018 Жыл бұрын
She is rude and disrespectful. This man didn't have to take care of her, but he did. Over and above that, brought her to the show to try and redeem their relationship. She is extremely rude, She needs to do some serious introspection, this man love her as her own. She needs to seek counseling for her trauma
@clockxmha7390 Жыл бұрын
No she isn't in the wrong what's wrong with you??
@patmooreV Жыл бұрын
I feel conflicted.. she's hurt but she contributed alot to it.. She obviously has been rude, disrespectful and ungrateful.. but at the same time the man seemed overbearing but loving.. Thank God for forgiveness
@LS-ws7rm Жыл бұрын
Karamo!! you annoy me with the way you handle these situations!! You never hold the wrong people accountable!
@kefasmiselo8464 Жыл бұрын
True that
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
The grandfather needed to actually listen to her, despite her just speaking out of hurt. Karamo caught that and acted accordingly...this wasn't about "correcting" her behavior but getting to the deeper issue.
@MzPrettyDimplez Жыл бұрын
Karamo can be see one sided, he never addressed her blatant disrespect of a man who didn't have to raise her.
@simplyjoyce6763 Жыл бұрын
Exactly my anger towards karamo Great show but always one sided and never telling those who do wrong to their face
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
Stop saying he didn't have to!! That doesn't matter. He did. Just like MANY women do day in and day out...with kids that are not biologically theirs. Y'all only say this phrase over and over again when it's a man. Y'all want to give men a cookie about everything. Maybe he was a great provider but the segment wasn't about that. Obviously something was missing emotionally, which is often the case with parents...especially old school. And men. Their relationship was fractured, he was hurt and she was VERY hurt...hence her lashing out when he cut her off, several times. Karamo knew her attitude, in THIS context, was not the point. She needs support, counseling...a damn hug not another lecture or reminded about how "bad" she is.
@MzPrettyDimplez Жыл бұрын
@@simplyjoyce6763 Do you need a hug? You seem triggered by a strangers opinion! The gender is irrelevant, shes not biologically his so he had ZERO legal obligation to do anything for her. He chose to care for her because of his morals so he's due respect, Period!! I say this phrase all the time because ppl with no biological connection can walk away Scott free, but some ppl choose to stay so they are due a level of respect.
@simplyjoyce6763 Жыл бұрын
@@MzPrettyDimplez No my dear I'm good I was only expressing my concern about this girls disrespect towards this Man. And my response is based on most of the episodes I've watched on this show.
@penelopeparks5022 Жыл бұрын
Mark, don't be there for this chick, Ever AGAIN! Let her figure it out, not your problem. Karamoe, you didn't correct her or have her apologize. You brought the past up, also!!¡ Mark live your life
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
I really hope you don't have kids smh
@georgenelson8309 Жыл бұрын
About to have me crying over here 😩🥴😊💪🏾❤️🙏🏾
@moniquedavis1254Ай бұрын
Ppl talking about what she been through he still deserve respect he did the best he could they wasn’t even his blood
@NaomiSeesTheWorld Жыл бұрын
Why did Karamo just make the man the only bad guy here ?
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that's an immature way of looking at it. He just asked him to LISTEN to her and to realize that if she, or whoever, came to him about her SA then a better response was needed. Neither of them are bad...they're family. And if he loves her like he claims, then he CARES for her deeply and would want to get to the bottom of why she's hurting to facilitate healing...even if he doesn't know where to start. Y'all wanted him to "correct" her but she clearly feels like she gets treated like she's bad even though it's clear she's lashing out due to her hurt.
@lawranew51257 ай бұрын
Just because you are hurt by anything that may have bothered you, doesn't mean you should be rude
@georgia1191 Жыл бұрын
This was special thank you Karamo
@mranderson872510 ай бұрын
It’s not fair to have kids and want someone else to raise them
@deborahrollins7071 Жыл бұрын
U got a beautiful daughter who’s been hurt love her that’s all she wants
@euniceduhaney1764 Жыл бұрын
Where are her parents? He is only stepgrand dad, not even her grandfather, he was only honoring his wife's wishes.
@euniceduhaney1764 Жыл бұрын
Beauty comes from within,facial beauty always fade away. The beauty from within need to come out, but then ,there is non
@kukuakukua Жыл бұрын
Karamo, really? At what point do we start holding disrespectful and entitled kids accountable irrespective of their abandonment history ? Maybe Foster Home would have been better? Come on noww!! There are kids in africa right now who have been through the worse unimaginable, but they still respect authority
@lindawilliams429 Жыл бұрын
C'mon Karamo!! You don't know anything about this girl, but you're taking her word for everything?? She's messy as hell. Her Dad should leave her alone. She's grown.
@tenny1ful Жыл бұрын
Sir let her go so that you live longer. She's destroying you piece by piece. And it's coming from a 21 year old me. She's very disrespectful
@euniceduhaney1764 Жыл бұрын
She is doing this to him,thinking that she is spiting her biological parents who deserted her.
@berniceedwards1375 Жыл бұрын
This brought tears to my eyes, when U are child U think as one, but being Grown up is different, I really believe in my Heart, after she was Sexuly assaulted he should have been more attentive to why she was acting up
@DoubleDutchMedia9 ай бұрын
This one brought tears to my eyes
@ObeyJae Жыл бұрын
The fact that this man raised 3 little girls that isn’t biologically his to adults after his wife died when he didn’t have to is remarkable, he coulda just sent them to to foster care.. and the fact that he just got verbally attacked and disrespected by the youngest and never got his flowers nor got the credit while on the show and he beat the stereotype of “Absent Fathers”.. is disappointing and it pisses me off. This is an example that Good Men are always treated like 2nd class citizens. This makes me sick to my stomach.
@MzPrettyDimplez Жыл бұрын
Thank you!! I'm honestly tripping that ppl are condoning her behavior
@ObeyJae Жыл бұрын
@@MzPrettyDimplez me neither, regardless if she was sexually assaulted.. he still gave his life too these 3girl after his wife died.. that’s not even his blood grandkids. But they don’t wanna talk about that tho? It’s weird af too me.
@kiravideos.5353 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ObeyJae Жыл бұрын
@@kiravideos.5353 what is so funny
@delvalynbradley6871 Жыл бұрын
Not to mention, these girls are not even related to him!! These girls are his late wife grandkids!! He could have easily, walked away after his wife passed away, but he didn’t!! Then she’s having boys in his house at 3 in the morning!!
@michealburnam3 ай бұрын
He doesn't even listen to her, he argues every tiny fact instead of hearing her. This is how you push the kids away and they will never come back.
@deepaulie870110 ай бұрын
Aw that was beautiful. I hope they make it
@azariahhatten Жыл бұрын
She a disrespectful little girl and needs to grow up and respect him why he is here 💯because when he’s gone she’s gonna regret everything she’s saying to him I bet💯
@Mygirls3-l7x7 ай бұрын
Karamo out here doing the Lord's work❤❤❤
@cb82986 ай бұрын
I would love to see an update!
@birdbuc9542 Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t want no relationship with her ungrateful disrespect self ..she go need him more than he need her
@Yespls888 Жыл бұрын
Yeah until he's elderly and running out of wives 🤷🏾♀️
@jemimajoelКүн бұрын
This ending was so cute. All we rly wanna hear is sorry 😊
@valerielacy990 Жыл бұрын
I believe he loves her but he expressed a lot of it with gifts and money and what she needs is to feel the love he has for her. Money can't buy you love or happiness, it just fills in the gaps.
@goodpeopleprosper635 Жыл бұрын
Well if he's all that bad. He's not your blood move he hell on. She a mess.
@dejapeterson4390 Жыл бұрын
It was the girl who wasn’t telling the full truth.
@Brwnskinn518 Жыл бұрын
How tf u know????
@meenak5792 Жыл бұрын
Omg there needs to be more of this 😭❤️
@Novapj53 Жыл бұрын
Karamo is not being fair to the guy, she was very disrespectful to this elder man especially for someone who tried to give her the world..we have to correct these young ppl when they do wrong whether they're hurting or not
@evonza4858 Жыл бұрын
The grandfather is trying 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and the young lady needs counseling after all she has been through 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@cassandrastanton7955 Жыл бұрын
He ain’t trying nothin, he’s just trying to toot his own horn. I don’t feel the love.
@kandylandtarot142 Жыл бұрын
She's still grieving grandmother and he's moved on. Plus the new gf should hold back on certain words to her. This is a non traditional family. This will take time to blend.
@claritybaetarot Жыл бұрын
Life is too precious for people to act like this!! SMH, they are both at fault!
@andreajones8862 ай бұрын
ooooohhhhhhh,child,the TEA is PIPING HOTT!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@Lyric-sd5tb Жыл бұрын
This was beautiful.
@Dexters.LaBOREatory Жыл бұрын
For this reason... I don't raise other ppls kids. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. So.... I wont.