Karen thinks MY POOL is a PUBLIC POOL... then TRESPASSES on My Property - Reddit Podcast

[@lauram3115]

My husband and I had a similar situation at one of our vacation homes. The morning after we arrived, we heard yelling, laughing, etc in our back yard. For reference, the house is on 6 acres so we can’t see or hear our neighbors, so we knew it was coming from our yard. In addition, when we come to town, we usually stay for about two months, so our house sitter leaves about two weeks before we arrive to ensure the house is clean and all her belongings are gone. Anyway, we went out back and found a family of 5 swimming in the pool. They had brought food, drinks, pool toys, and the father was using the grill to make their lunch. We asked them what the hell they were doing here, and they said the owners allow them to use the pool whenever they want. We explained we were the owners and after some back and fourth, they admitted they had been coming over for the last two weeks without permission. Turns out they were friends with our house sitter and had been to the house on several occasions for dinner, so they knew the situation with the house sitter and the small window when the house would be vacant. They had also broken the lock to the pool house/guest house and were keeping food, some changes of clothes, and toiletries, in there. Needless to say, we were beyond pissed. We told them to immediately get out, and the father said we needed to “chill out, and they would be gone after lunch.” They refused to leave! I couldn’t believe it! We called the police and when they arrived the parents tried again to say they had permission from the owner, and were allowed to be there. The police obviously told them to leave, and asked us if we wanted them trespassed, which of course we did. Then the father tried to say they lived in the guest house. That is when the youngest kid said “we don’t live there, we live at X.” When the father tried to double down saying he had keys, the awesome kid chimed in with “we don’t have keys, you had to use the big scissors to break the door lock.” The big scissors were gardening shears from the shed. This earned dad a pair of shiny new silver bracelets. So dad was arrested and they were trespassed. Thanks, kid! The best part was about a month later we got a call from the mother (no idea how she got my number) and she had the audacity to ask if her kid could have his birthday party at our house. She promised her husband wouldn’t be there. I had to laugh at that one. Of course I said no. I still can’t believe she had the nerve to ask us that. Unbelievable.

[@violetcwest]

Just curious, with the house sitter, did you call them out on letting the people on the property without your permission to begin with? Get security cameras and replace the locks just in case?

[@lauram3115]

@@violetcwest We actually fired her. In the contract it states explicitly that guests are not permitted unless previously approved in writing. I know this sounds very harsh, but there are reasons, mainly to protect our property. Vacation homes are prime targets for theft and break-ins. Statistically, vacations homes that are only utilized intermittently are burglarized by someone who is affiliated with the owners.

[@violetcwest]

@@lauram3115 That’s not harsh, it’s absolutely appropriate. I’m gonna need to remember this fact, I hope to have a vacation home someday.

[@lauram3115]

@@violetcwest We have a property management company that maintains our other home. They are wonderful. They maintain the grounds, do daily checks on the home inside and out. When a hurricane blew a bunch of debris in our yard and some minor damage to the roof, we were only charged for the roof repairs. They cleared all the debris and addressed the landscaping. When we arrived a couple months later, we couldn’t tell there had been any damage. Wonderful company. If you get a vacation home, I definitely recommend using a property management company.

[@violetcwest]

@@lauram3115 Oh, thank you!

[@blitzjgr3180]

Story 1: If you want your kid to go to someone's pool you ask the owner and if they say no, well they're not getting in. You have to respect someone else's property and boundaries. No trasspasing and no exceptions.

[@Killingchildreneveryday]

Yea 👍

[@rudepixel8713]

i agree

[@Shendril]

Hippety Hoppety - GTF off my property!

[@IdkIdk204]

Bro how they get in tho

[@tylerhorn3712]

What you think you "own" your property? Then you might not have realized the US is becoming a socialist country. You never own land. You buy the buildings on it then rent the land through the government via taxes. Yeah, you can kick somebody off of your rented land.

[@freyasslain2203]

As a pool owner , I cannot stress enough , how extremely careful you must be , with regards to pool safety and security ! What people do not realize , is that pool owners are held financially liable if anything should happen to those who swim in your pool. A minimum of six feet high fencing , locked gates , security cameras , and pool alarms are a must !

[@plasmapeashooter8966]

Noted, thank u

[@magne7771]

Trespassing should negate that though. If you can call the cops just for being there, using the facilities should also be illegal unless you're given permission

[@freyasslain2203]

@@magne7771 It doesn't . It should , but it doesn't . The cold reality is that if you are a homeowner and you have a pool , you are legally liable for every occurrence that happens on your property . That is why , you call the police immediately , if people sneak onto your property. DOCUMENTATION!

[@magne7771]

@@freyasslain2203 got it. If I get a pool, I'll get some dogs too.

[@freyasslain2203]

@@magne7771 Look , I know I sound paranoid. But I live in the United States , in Ohio. Americans will sue you at the drop of a hat. I have both an indoor and outdoor pools , and you bet your sweet ass , I am cautious ! If people see you have deep pockets , they will come at you ,with lawyers!

[@k-popprincess416]

Story 1: to keep that from happening ever again, I would also suggest installing a gate around the pool to keep random strangers from swimming in the pool.

[@wilddesigns857]

That's actually the law in most states. Some one or their kids could wonder into your back yard and get hurt or killed playing around a pool.

[@Yewro2000]

I was wondering if they do have a fence or something

[@itsthesecond1434]

Make it electric

[@shortboi6850]

Make the water electric with a switch.

[@jeronymod5285]

@@itsthesecond1434 why??????

[@Mydogslove2laugh]

Story #2: this same thing happened to me when I got engaged. None of my family or friends said a kind word to me. They said, "good luck with that." When my husband told his friends and family they also said, "good luck with that." We thought it was crazy that both friend groups said the exact same thing. We have been married for 18 years. Enjoy your engagement and don't let anybody get you down

[@neilyb4590]

Sod the lot of em any couple who gets this reaction elope go on your honeymoon and listen to them bitch about not getting a invitation and a free meal when you get back

[@swordsandstitches3004]

So true. Everyone is different. My husband and I got engaged after 6 months of dating then married a year after that. We have a really good marriage now for 7 years. Sometimes time is a factor, sometimes it’s not. It’s the relationship that matters

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Just because it works for you doesn't mean it works for everyone else you never know maybe your husband's cheating behind your back horrible thing for me to say but you have to question everything to protect yourself

[@Mydogslove2laugh]

@@AnimeGamer501st you're an awful person

[@wolfsongrising]

@@AnimeGamer501st that was randomly out of left field and doesn't exactly seem applicable here?

[@Shendril]

Regarding the case of the engaged couple that everyone was talking down: Sometime people just are like that... We went through the same sh*t when we announced our wedding plans. At that time we were a couple for more than 12 years! Everyone just seemed to mock us about it: colleagues at work, my mom, so called friends... In the end we had our marriage in a very small circle, without our families, just the two of us, best woman/man and their partners. Later that year we had a big wedding, with church and all, where we invited our families and other friends etc. - each invitation had a kind of 'read me first'-manual attached. This basically told everyone invited, that this was OUR wedding, if they want to be happy for us and join the festivities we gladly invite them. However, if they take this as an opportunity to bring their entitled mindsets, unwanted opinions, family struggles and quarrels, and overblown egos to this event, they can stay the hell away! It worked: everyone complaining about this note and starting to debate was removed from the guestlist and we had a great 'official' marriage! Love & Peace

[@gothgirl2218]

I hope your wedding was amazing 😊

[@Chuni_MD2]

I’m truly happy for you

[@nemeo8391]

You did the right move I just can't understand people mocking you or trying to stop you in your project. I had a trully bad experience with engagement, yet I don't use it to belittle other's relationship

[@kamion53]

What??? a wedding without at least two distant related uncles ending up in hospital?????!!!!! How heretic!!!😁

[@TheMaddgodd81]

On the first story: Many years ago, I lived next to someone who had a nice pool. Some entitled Karen tried this same thing, except we were in Texas. Long story short, he asked her to leave, she refused, and two minutes later found herself staring down the barrel of a .44 Magnum. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes...

[@gametugboat3985]

God bless america

[@HarryFrost-qu8th]

I heard on the radio In the UK some entitled guy tried sneaking into someone’s backyard swimming pool but was met with a very angry German shepherd. Long story short the entitled guy had to go to hospital for a few months. hail britannia britannia rules the waves.

[@Elijah-uv1ci]

😂

[@Elijah-uv1ci]

LOL

[@the_insanity_cam]

all respect for texas is earned and shall be received god bless America 🇺🇸

[@Danielson1818]

In my city, you legally have to have a fence with locks around your property to keep people out of your pool. No fence= No pool. I used to think it was a ridiculous law, but now I'm a bit happier about it. Edit: I totally forgot to mention I do have a pool. That's why I said I used to dislike the law. I have to keep up with fence maintenance every year, but seems worth it.

[@whoasked9938]

Lmao if you have to come back and include a visual edit stating you have a pool, you definitely don't have a pool 🤡🤡🤡

[@alexandroskulira4565]

@@whoasked9938 or maybe he has a pool

[@whoasked9938]

@@alexandroskulira4565 or not

[@TennesseeKat]

@@whoasked9938 read your name, that's what everybody is saying to you in their minds

[@whoasked9938]

@@TennesseeKat 😆😆 the lack of originality is embarrassing, do better kiddo 😘

[@charlestyner8631]

I told my wife that we'd be married a few weeks after we got together. My family gave me crap after telling them that I proposed after a year and and even "tried" to make us go through compatibility/marriage testing before we got married. We've been married 18 years and I'm on my one and only marriage after most of my family has been married 2 or more times. Hell, my uncle who has been married twice (after even being attracted to my own mother) told us we would divorce each other. To HELL with what people say about your relationship because you two are the only ones who decide what you want in life. Congratulations on the engagement and I hope you both have a wonderful life together because it can and will happen as long as you both strive for it together.

[@bluedragonfox]

congrates! hope you guys make 50 years to really rub it in their faces

[@tablier8509]

Last story : Had to live through the same things without the sibling favoritism part, and like the narrator said OP clearly need to think of what he wants to do in the future, far from his family. He needs to put up with it for now until he can move to the next phase of the plan. It's hard before and after but it always pays off. And do not forget to do obscene signs when you're leaving

[@wolfsongrising]

nah, leave like someone with actual class considering the type of people you're leaving behind. Who wants to stoop down into the cesspool with them?

[@tablier8509]

@@wolfsongrising Well as much as I would have loved to break the legs of my so called father and spread my poop on the walls, I'm not going to jail for someone as pathetic as him, and now the house belong to someone else, they're not involved, and don't deserve it. I just confronted him, ignored his not so legal ultimatum and leaved when I was ready to move some weeks later.

[@alexandroskulira4565]

I had a friend in the same exact situation, he changed his last name so they wouldn’t know he was and got a job

[@tablier8509]

@@alexandroskulira4565 oh you can do that ! I'm happy for your friend if he got out of this terrible situation 🙂

[@BrodyGamingUK]

Maybe just put an out of order sign there

[@urm0m69]

Story 1: should've called the cops.

[@sir.confident]

KAREN: Do you want my kid to have hypothermia? ME: If your child gets in my pool again, I'll make sure his chances are high. *reaches for the temperature gauge*

[@legoblood11]

I like this❤

[@Insertnamehere684]

Lol

[@Hehehehehe414]

@@legoblood11same ❤❤❤

[@MSMFurcorn22]

“Yes,that’s one less hellspawn.

[@I_have-depression]

​@@legoblood11i love this❤

[@wesleybahn2185]

Story 2: don’t pay any attention to people telling you you’re living your life wrong and getting married too early. You are allowed to make your choices and live your own life the way that makes you happy. Something I’ve been learning over the years.. is so many folks will never hesitate to minimize your life by comparing your experiences to theirs. Because people have limited experiences but large egos THEY know what’s best for YOU because clearly they’ve made it and you have to follow the exact same life plan as them to succeed. It’s not worth even listening to. If they’re mad you’re happy, it’s their problem. Don’t let them make it your problem too.

[@ahha6304]

"Oh you are too young to marry" Women before 1900 be like :

[@enriqueperezarce5485]

@@ahha6304 Even after 1900s people married in their early 20s so it’s crazy to just argue that their too young

[@blackcreators]

My parents knew each other for two weeks before they got married. It wasn't a shotgun wedding or anything, they just fell for each other hard. They were married for 65 years before my dad passed. Sometimes it doesn't take a long time to find the right one.

[@flarie7853]

That’s a good story and moral.

[@HalfAnd_Half]

There are times when it literally takes a day. That is what we call "love at first sight" but many people still deny the existence when it does exist

[@flarie7853]

@@HalfAnd_Half yea but it always works out for them in the end

[@HalfAnd_Half]

@@flarie7853 That was the point of my statement :)

[@xenaguy01]

4:30 OP is lucky. Everywhere I've lived in my life, a homeowner is responsible for erecting a 6 foot fence around a backyard with a pool, to avoid such an occurrence. Had the kid (or parent) been injured (or, God forbid, drowned), OP could have been held responsible, as his pool is considered an _"attractive nuisance."_ OP needs a fence with a locked gate, ASAP.

[@SadEyes1412]

Damn. What a stupid law. Maybe we should hold people accountable instead.

[@pourquoi162]

Is there’s anyone that just loves this guy

[@barbmccabe4606]

Me,btw I bet your comment will get mighty famous as all amIthejerk fans respond yes

[@carlrood4457]

It's not refusing to share if it was never offered or asked for and granted permission. What she did was flat out taking. Also, when it comes to pools there can be huge liability issues, so having someone you don't know just barge in and use it, can end up costing you.

[@OynxWolf11]

"Well if I was raised Wrong, then apparently you weren't raised at all" Someone get the ointment, cause that Karen just got burnt. And that surprised expression she had just showed how right OP was.

[@tabletopstudios3550]

I just love the voice he puts on for the Karen’s

[@Billybobdob]

Story 1: SO TECHNICALLY- YOU ARE LEGALLY ALLOWED TO SHOOT A TRESPASSER

[@aidenvera5920]

🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲

[@Link-from-hyrule]

"Freebird intenifys"

[@Skibidifourbfb]

🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@melindanewton6303]

That's kind of too much and over the top

[@johnthomas2106]

No you're not.

[@saintjamesent.866]

Last poster needs to get a paternity&maternity test. His folks are full of bs and they actually treat him as a second class child

[@EddBanshee]

Story #4: I'd just straight up leave the country! Or at least try to leave the country, and move to Canada, or America, or something! Especially since just like a small town, I'm guessing a small country doesn't have that many job opportunities. And it really sounds like their family's just purposefully holding them back!

[@alexandroskulira4565]

I had a friend in the same exact situation, he literally changed his last name so no one can recognize him

[@LifesAPeach2Me]

He will spend eternity trying to get his parents to treat him the same as his brother! He needs to STOP! Don't seek it, don't acknowledge it...distance himself or he will remain miserable. He will NEVER get it! I have no answer why they are like that, but the best thing he can do is remove himself from their life and BE HAPPY! Start his own family and stay away from them.

[@m1ke.roblox]

The Karen in the first story: 🙄

[@EarthMamaMsNatural]

In the state of Georgia the law states that you must having fencing around any pool/lake and a secured entry/exit. This is to protect small children from entering. And Karens.

[@MajinMuu]

I don't even think that'll keep out wild dangerous Karen's

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

​@@MajinMuu What about a moat with piranhas? That'll stop Karens.

[@the_insanity_cam]

because the law realizes that karens are a national security threat

[@turquoiz_the_potato]

Story 3: My parents married in 2000. My mom, was in American for her job, while my dad was still in India. In 2003, my dad came to the United States. They managed a long distance relationship for 3 years, just as much as the OP. And, they both have very busy jobs. But still, their relationship lasted over 20 years. So OP, explain how and why you broke up?

[@rayir.1382]

It's cool that your parents relationship worked out and all but you gotta realize that everyones needs are different when it comes to relationships. She felt lonely in that relationship which means that her needs were not fulfilled. Let's assume they tried to make it work, but she still kept feeling lonely, then she has every reason to want to break up. The moment that she started to think about breaking up could mean she probably just didn't love him as much as she thought she did. It's okay if it didn't work out, it's okay to leave if you think the relationship is tiring, she did pretty good by straight up telling her ex she wanted to break up imo because nowadays people tend to look for the parts that are missing in someone else. Her reaction to the ex's reaction was not the best, but she had every reason to break up. I mean, if you truly love someone you would make it work no matter what without even thinking of breaking up.

[@patricekanagy5898]

I can’t believe there are people like that. I’d like to see a video. Also, i would have never even talked to her. I’d have just called the police.

[@tonib9277]

Story #2: I met my husband my freshman year in college and married my sophomore year. We had a professor that told us that she gives our marriage 2 years. Well, needless to say, we have been married for over 23 years and counting.

[@jaredbenson1430]

Lol something similar happened to me once, but I had a friend with me that day and she’s the type of friend. It doesn’t take crap from people easily. Plus she was a good lawyer too. But in of the day that entitled Karen lost everything I mean everything

[@yn-edits-and-stuff]

STORY 1: If it was me in the situation. I would say yes to the hyperthymia question

[@JohnnyRocknRoll]

I'm the middle sibling and was the one always left out or forgotten. As, a teen I worked after school and it made me work harder and was very fortunate to have bosses as my mentors learning not just experience but ethics and determination. It wasn't easy. However, at the end of every day I can always remind myself that all the hard work and determination was earned and not given. Life is much more rewarding when you've earned it.

[@TheDarkLink7]

The engagement story. Hell I wouldn't even say "thanks for your comment." Thats still being too nice. Me personally I would say "Sorry but if I want to hear a negative comment. I would ask for it."

[@christyjo5126]

Sometimes when your family is toxic you have to make the difficult decision to cut ties either enough to give yourself room to grow or completely and choose your own family. Family should help each other and lift each other up and if that's not happening even though you talked to them then maybe you should move away and build up your life to make yourself happy. Maybe later on you can reconcile and rebuild your relationship. Goodluck to you and your future!!!!

[@johnhill4937]

When the Karen tried using the "my kid could get hypothermia if you make him get out of the pool", by her own logic, he shouldn't have been in ANY pool, let alone OP's pool (even though, according to OP, the weather was warm lol).

[@michellecoleman5577]

7:15 It sounds like people aren't even asking how long they've been dating, not that it's really their business either way, but that lady at the nail place apparently just looked at the poster and assumed they were too young for some reason. Which is super annoying, I got approached in a parking lot at age 25 and basically accused of being under 18 and with my tattoos on display. People need to chill.

[@tanguman2]

Story 1: I would have told a white lie and told that karen right away that my security company is sending the police after I caught her on video crossing my fence that says PRIVATE PROPERTY/surveillance cameras in use

[@shanehumberstone5262]

Unless actually having signs up that plan would fall flat on it’s arse

[@umerdar4491]

Bro this guys impressions are on piont👏👏

[@Headphonescat]

I love how he is just reading stories that have people dealing with untitled people in Reddit while the background is some Lego superhero's with a sword slashing zombies.

[@the_insanity_cam]

facts

[@salmuttotabreabittlecochicarac]

That insult was SOOOOO SMOOTH!!!!!

[@markcharles6744]

Story 3: Sorry, you don't get to break-up with someone and then be upset that YOU didn't get closure. Typical

[@comradesam3382]

Women ☕

[@davidballew2756]

Your cringe

[@MeIsSmogee]

Women ☕

[@zombie_gamer2122]

Women ☕️

[@VivianaBlack2005]

Y’all saying women as if all women are like this. How’d you feel if women thought men were always the same? Men☕️

[@sarahwade6720]

Okay. I can't resist. Quoting Fuzzy Lumpkins from original Powerpuff Girls: "Get back here and get offa my property!"

[@XanderMetalHead]

Oh my god the first one has me extremely fuckin steamed. The Karen had no right to go into the property and honestly, if that would happen to me, I would threaten them with a gun. Trespass on my property, I'll threaten with a gun. That's defending my property. (I know my morals seem off, but if you think about it, you would probably be doing the same)

[@stygiandragon3865]

Question, if the kid DOES get hurt somehow in a trespassing property, won't the Karen be wasting her time suing?

[@johnny8214]

That was exactly my thought

[@QuickManEXE]

@@stygiandragon3865 you can still charge her and the kid with tresspassing, but if they get hurt, you can still get sued and be liable and whatnot..... even if you have signs that say "no tresspassing" or anything similar. I went to a private heavy machinery school a few years ago, with said signs, and the class before ours were working on a big excavation project on-site and had big signs warning about the excavation, and some stupid kids decided to go bmx dirtbiking and jumping in there and one of them crashed and broke his leg and the family sued the training course, and the family won, even though they had numerous signs warning about the excavation and no tresspassing etc,

[@rudepixel8713]

@@QuickManEXE but it was the kids fault and also shouldnt be there cameras in the private machinery school?

[@rudepixel8713]

If there was cameras, then the people must be very dumb there.

[@Doc1855]

Story #2. Well, If you’re 18 years old and getting married, then yea, it’s too young. If y’all really do love each other then wait until after you finish college, have a good job with steady income and your both working towards buying your first house. People change a LOT emotionally and psychologically between the ages of 25-28 years of age. Don’t ever get married bc you’re in love with being in love. If y’all really love each other, then you’ll love each other after college too.

[@jimh4167]

The reason they try to make you feel bad is because their lives are so miserable The only way they feel good (?) Is by trying to make others feel bad

[@DuDDDAE]

what a comeback for story 1's op

[@tsarbomba463]

Pov 2094 Karen: my son wants to use your jet Soldier:mam who let you in here Karen:i want to speak to your manager Soldier: no Karen: i saw normal people coming here so i can come here because this is public Space Soldier: they were the families of the marines that came back Karen: i dont care let my son try a jet or il give you 1 star review

[@blitzjgr3180]

Ong

[@tsarbomba463]

@@blitzjgr3180 what does it mean

[@rudepixel8713]

and then the soldier just puts the karen and the kid in jail. :)

[@tsarbomba463]

@@rudepixel8713 death penalty

[@Joe_The_King-_-]

​@@tsarbomba463 i think it means on god or he mispelled OMG

[@MrHeesbeen]

I don`t know the situation in America, but over here in the UK, it is called trespass and under the rule of Tort, you are entitled to ring the Police or use non-violent force to eject the trespasser.

[@alexandercave4754]

If I was that girl I would say “I’m to young to get married, your to old to be alive.”

[@ahha6304]

Yeah I once have a discuss with a chauffeur about the other taxi driver is looking at me with angry eyes (which I sued to carried a heavy bag of groceries, and taxi here also got camp, and it's quite like a mafia to say the least) that "last time I carried my bag near them they didn't mind find me a car, seriously their manner is as much as the day they have left on earth"

[@decazuliekajuen7579]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@alex_origins7666]

I don't know exactly but the fact this man can do so many voices constantly is very VERY impressive

[@r.j.9822]

I remember when someone hit their shopping cart to my car and laughed “whoops”, and went into her car next to me. Keep in mind I’m in the handicapped spot(blue placard if that’s important) I see she has a red one which is temporary, meaning she was probably mad because someone with a permanent disability got her spot. I’m so glad I have heavy rings cuz I pretended to fall and break her window🤣when I said whoops she just didn’t say anything and left. I hate people but man I love when they get karma

[@zerocontent6168]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@FormulaYoutubeOfficial]

For the pool, just don’t start the argument, just call the cops. They get charges for trespassing, and, using a private asset (the house, as the house doesn’t belong to the government according to the OP, he fully owns it, making it different to trespassing). Also, there may be charges for the fact that she cursed and that Karen said the OP wasn’t raised right and that she will raise her son better. Also, if Karen somehow scratched or broke of intervened with the sun-hair, that means that is destroying private property, which is illegal AND Karen must pay for it, or Karen’s insurance must. Same with pool damage.

[@boredstonervids]

Story 2: HAPPENED TO ME TOO!!!! I GOT engaged to my partner in our early 20s. Everyone said we where to young and I was to immature to get married. Granted before I met my partner I was a bit of a hoe. But everyone from work, family, and some friends said don't do it we won't last. To a point that there was a pool on how long the marriage will last with the longest being 8 months. Well over 10 years later we are still together and happy and planning another trip out of the country (think we are at 20 something trips now). Depending who said it I had different response. Family: "You can't get married your oldest siblings isn't even engaged yet." Response: "Not my fault they can't decide on who to stop cheating on." Friends: "Well me and my SO have been dating longer and we haven't even discussed marriage yet." Response: "Well when your dating someone 20 years younger than you maybe they just want to have fun and not be tied down to an old person later in life. (They got married he knocked up someone else and got divorced 3 years in)" Co-worker: "You're to young it'll last 6 months." Response: "Man, I should listen to someone on there 4th marriage." I have more than this.

[@SenseiRaisen]

That was savage, but honestly in your shoes, even if I'm 34, single yet happy ..... i would honestly do the same because I'm not of keep my mouth shut when I'm pissed off.

[@unikkorns]

It's like that saying, "people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones." Those people criticizing your relationship should have focused on their own relationships instead of yours.

[@reienna6410]

i had an instructor, when i was in school...that had been married for ages by that point. the first time he got with his wife...they sat down and didnt say a damned thing to each other for like an hour or so...then he said she was the one he wanted to spend his life with...and they got married a few weeks later...just off the first visit...so yeah...most people dont know what the shit they are talking about with the length people "should be" together before getting married

[@bastonero7572]

You still should have called the police. Matters like this should be part of official police record. This way she wont be able to try anything in the future and worse make you look like the one who broke the law.

[@supermarioblacktiger]

Story 2 is confusing. There's no reference of time or age. The narrator speaks like he knows something but we the audience have no information other than "people are telling me I'm getting married too soon/young".... In korea getting married at 30 can be seen as too young. In America some would make fun of you if you are 30 and single. We are missing context.

[@SenseiRaisen]

we can assume they are on their 20s and below the 30s.

[@daaaaaaaaaanay]

Not me watching this in MY POOL too. However my backyard where the pool is located has a fence and bushes hiding it so you can’t come without me seeing you.

[@FloridaManWithAnAxe]

Story One: If I was dealing with her and she was screaming at me I would have broken her jaw. I can lose it in seconds if someone explodes on me.

[@kholearneson70]

omg wings of fire best books

[@pikakz3063]

@@kholearneson70yeaa

[@rudepixel8713]

@@kholearneson70 wdym by that? where you trying to say that these books are the best for punching people or smth?

[@kholearneson70]

Uhhh no sorry I just love the wings of fire books...ur channal name is Wings of fire geek...I'm a geek of them roo

[@kholearneson70]

It's sad some ppl think there so entiteled

[@robinwojcik5196]

Story one: i would have screamed something like “the pool was just shocked and he could get really sick… quick get him out! You definitely need a fence around your pool for just these situations! Keep it locked!

[@Gordonmonke_vr]

When she asked if PERSON wants her kid to get hyperthermia I’d just say “YES KAREN I DO WANT HIM TO GET HYPERTHERMIA NOW GET OF MY PROPERTY”

[@TheBakingKid]

Hyperthermia is when you get sick from being too hot

[@TheBakingKid]

Carry a shotgun under the pool

[@ahha6304]

@@TheBakingKid which the Karen should receive that, maybe her kid too

[@EmilyS-gk3st]

Don't you mean hypothermia?

[@Ryu_zero393]

Dont blame the kid he just doing what most kids do

[@MrKFC-dy8pe]

"DO YOU WANT MY CHILD TO GET HYPERTHERMIA!!!" Me" if you don't get off my property yeah"

[@candyman4778]

Why Karen? Why are you tresspassing again?

[@hume6900]

If you don’t have a fence around the pool, get one installed and have a lock on the gate that only you can unlock. First of all, in most places it is the law to have a fence around the pool, secondly, it will help to prevent incidents like the above from happening. Without the fence your insurance is under no obligation to pay for any damages and you might even find yourself in criminal court for negligence causing injury or death.

[@dragoon3219]

Story 2: Considering the failure rate of marriages these days a lot of people don't expect much of them any more. God knows I don't. I've seen nearly as many divorces as I have marriages. Frankly "best of luck" is about the most positive thing I can think to say. Especially if I know the people involved are under 25 or only been together a year or two. You're flying on passion at that point as far as I'm concerned and that feeling fades.

[@jhetthiltz4496]

The roast was so good

[@dobesekbthit15]

what I don't understand about the first part how did the karen even get to the pool shouldn't atleast have a fence

[@nopcshere6097]

I think the Dad cut the lock.

[@Rando1481]

Maybe climbed over the fence

[@naomi8318]

One of my aunts got married right after she graduated college and has been married for over 20 years and are still having a successful marraige. It doesn't really matter how long you've been together or how young. As long as you feel ready for that big step and are willing to put I. The effort that's fine

[@arigamingandmore5477]

What is the game playing in the background

[@portcullisgames7763]

I might check

[@meaganbernard7592]

There's no such thing as closure, you either let it go, move on and heal or keep clinging to the past 🤷

[@deebedwell580]

Cameras won’t help with the fact that the homeowner has an attractive nuisance that is apparently readily accessible by children. I would say that if the homeowner doesn’t take other steps to prevent this from happening again, the next interaction may not go as well.

[@johnbroadbent9034]

the best thing you can do is set up a business the same as your parents, you have access to there contacts, just go for it and over time it will pay off

[@R4yj4ck]

For the second story, I wonder how old the OP is. They don’t mention it, and it is still no excuse to be an ass, but if they’re 18-20 that might explain why everyone reacts that way.

[@drako8343]

Like seriously. If they don’t tell us the age of themselves, their partner or the length of the relationship how are we to support the OP if that’s what they’re looking for?

[@lostboy9796]

"I'm" getting married to "my" fiance - no cause we all thought it would be someone else's fiance!

[@whatismylifeanymore]

Story 3: I can 100% get where she's coming from, wanting closure so it doesn't end on a bad note and stuff and I think the "playing moves" thing is kinda stupid-

[@heliosgaming735]

2:48 karen said "he's gonna get hypothermia do you want my kid to get hypothermia" even if he lets it go he still gonna cold🤣🤣

[@SenseiRaisen]

Story 2: Honestly you should at this point smell the jealousy and bitterness from the people who mock and laugh at it, because they literally had failed marriage, unsatisfactory life from their stupid demands or basically had failed relationships due their behaviour and entitlement too. They mock you out of their own insecurities... and that goes for family , relatives and other people in general too. You just had to look at their life for a second to see why they are trying to sabotage you as well.

[@seraglioborneo2803]

S2 I bet a lot of people told Dolly Parton the same negative things before/ when she got married in 1966! OP should have told the older woman down at the nail salon. "Why are you butting into a private discussion between two friends? You are proof that though some people have lived longer that doesn't mean they are necessarily wiser" There's a nice story about a fast food worker who still wears a plain steel engagement ring she and her husband bought more than a decade ago. She could have bought something fancier but she liked the plain shiny steel band. Her husband seeing her choice got one that fit him. So when an entitled "rich witch" mocked her choice, she looked at her with pity and ignored the loser.

[@kerisaltchannel3817]

2:47 if he could get hypothermia WHY PUT HIM IN A POOL

[@nezuko._...]

"the water could be absolutely freezing" me: i love freezing water so idc 😄

[@aaroneclipse-merriweather]

For all these people who have property intrusions by Karen’s like this, get a gun. Just get a gun, and call the cops.

[@Rtrstormghost327]

Yeah parents trying to stop the op from having a life but giving the brother everything that’s messed up

[@Pearlina_DV]

You can tell she’s annoying because she dumped his things on the floor. Even if it was a public pool don’t dump someone’s stuff on the ground.

[@wendiesweetwood5099]

When I was still living in the Gardena, there used to have a pool for the tenants at the apartment. One time after I had gotten back from a visit with my boyfriend, there was a homeless person swimming around in the freezing water. When the manager had approached the homeless person to throw them, the homeless person had explained that they needed to get cleaned up as they had told the manager that they had deserved to use the pool. After that, the manager had started locking up the pool

[@Mr.Monkey-x2r]

bro why is ur voice so relaxing

[@PhotoFlight]

Was told this story by someone who was there when it happened. Small business, like three people total. Young girl has just gotten engaged. Is constantly talking about it. Always going on about venues, themes, brides maids, music, food, etc. Day after day all the details. Business owner is an older curmudgeon kind of guy. Finally has had enough. Turns to her and says. "Calm down about this. It's only your first marriage." She immediately breaks down, leaves for the rest of the day. Don't think he ever apologized.

[@rebekah.2187]

Last story, I wonder how old the parents were when the older brother was born. I've seen situations where the parents became parents before they really wanted to be. So, first child, "ruined their fun" being free to do whatever as a couple, and they resent the child for that. By the time the second child shows up, they're ready to have a kid and end up favoring second child over first because of their unresolved resentment towards the first child.

[@keithscott1926]

Have the Karen arrested for trespassing.

[@ghostyvrfs]

Go ask the owner before you get in someone’s PRIVET pool or else that’s called trespassing and you will be detained by the police if the owner is mad he can press chargers

[@blocc0]

Normal people: hey is this a public pool? “no” Ok I’ll leave bye

[@lynnwallis8654]

the pool guy should put a fence up around his pool so that doesn't happen, and put a "no trespassing"

[@gaymohammed3137]

Shouldn't it be common sense, if a pool is right next to a house that it's a private property pool?

[@flameacegaming]

For the first story, I personally would have gone back inside and called the police immediately.

[@AlexEllison-i4m]

Bro used a Karen’s secret weapon against them man😂😂😂😂😂

[@KCmetwo]

1 other suggestion for story #1- Put up NO TRESPASSING signs in the front and back yard (especially around the pool)

[@luannebarlet7316]

Swimming in your pool? Build a fence, cameras aren't enough.

[@Phantom-ck9nk]

She gets up in your face you have perfectly good reason to defend yourself. Id still have called the cops and have her arrested for trespassing and destruction of property. Kid doesnt need a mother like that.

[@andlem]

From my basement I once heard the washing machine and wondered, as I didn't do any laundry. So I went downstairs and met a strange woman with a washing basket. I asked her what she was doing here. Answer: Oh, other students in the neighborhood told her that you could do laundry here. What?! So she wasn't the first? Strange people there are - going into other people's basements without inhibitions.

[@MrNitrox91]

I can relate a lot to nr3. I feel you bro. At least he is not gaslighting you like my mother does...

[@thattpsplayer]

For story 1 I was thinking that they should have cameras

[@wlcrhornby19]

i would just lock up the pool so the lady doesn't let her kid swim in it

[@YINZLOVEMUZAN]

Well,she should know that she should just go to a public pool instead of going into SOMEONE’S PRIVATE POOL.

[@daisydawnisobelleconsulta4100]

4:20 dude really did the anya smirk

[@rebeccacoleman3341]

1. You only have to ask an uninvited guest to leave once, then you call the cops. There are trespassing laws.

[@feleciakline8793]

Not only do people not have anything good to say about marriage when you tell them you’re getting married, but they’re not happy for you for anything else good that happens to you. My husband and I had a financial opportunity come up which we took advantage of and whenever we would tell people,(not the ones who really loved us, but acquaintances) nobody had anything positive to say. They tend to be jealous instead of happy for you. Personal success or business success are alike in one distinct way, they both rely on trust, hard work, commitment, and deep reliability. Last but not least, live a life for Christ. Choose the right thing over the easy thing and be ready to forgive and ask to be forgiven. That’s the best advice I know how to give.