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Just wondering but why are the voice narrators changing over and over
@agentmaryland1239Ай бұрын
They mixed up 'For Sale' with 'Open House viewing'. You can't just barge into a house that has a for sale sign in the yard. You have to call the realtor or the owner to schedule a tour of the house to see if you want it. An open house viewing means that the home is open to the public for a window of time so that everyone can wander around and see if the house is right for them.
@magic8ball1982Ай бұрын
It's supposed to be equal pay for equal work, not equal pay for equal familial status.
@princessmarlena1359Ай бұрын
Right?
@Drgn8DDragonsDungeonАй бұрын
the pay one is actually legitimately discrimination based on family status. Usually you'll hear it the other way round, that someone gets fewer hours or opportunities because they're pregnant or have kids, but saying someone should get less money because they *don't* have kids is fundamentally the same thing - discrimination based on family status.
@bethmoran6190Ай бұрын
Equal pay for equal work.
@annemariebell6970Ай бұрын
Story 1. Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dumb should REALLY learn the difference between "For Sale" and "Open House ".
@ZanthilАй бұрын
The niece should be charged the vet bill for basically poisoning the cat....
@pugnbaconАй бұрын
I can relate to the 3rd story. I used to work at a skate center before they laid me off (I was replaced with a machine). I worked there for almost 2 years. There was this new worker that came in and he was younger than me (he was 15 and I was 16) and he worked the same position as me but he got paid 11-12 dollars an hour and I only got paid 9 an hour. Plus the hours too I only was able to work on Saturdays and when I ask my boss if I could have more hours he brushed it off and said “we will see” and never does. My coworker he went up to my boss and asked the same question couple weeks later and my boss said “sure” and he started working more hours. So later on I saw I was never on the schedule anymore and everytime I emailed my boss he would never email me back. I then found out by my dad (bc my brother goes there to skate) and my dad told me that they didn’t need me anymore and the places I most was. They put machines there.
@pugnbaconАй бұрын
I’ve noticed when I go up there with my brother this summer that there is less girls working there day by day and more guys keep getting hired
@KuroRaidenАй бұрын
10:22 Harry hitting the pedestrian while on a bike had me buggin
@hamrad645Ай бұрын
No one deserves to be paid more than another unless one has a lot more experience and education than you. Salary is based on ability and work ethic, not just because one has children. Absolutely she was justified in quitting.
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
Whilst I share in your ideology, in reality getting paid based on merit is sadly a rarity.
@QuickManEXEАй бұрын
Story 1: Okay, it really sounds to me like those old people are scouting for thieves, not because they want to potentially buy the house. If you seriously want to see the house, then call the realtor, don't try to break into the place or stalk the people living there. Even a realtor sign that says "Open House" doesnt give you the right to just casually look around. If they show up again, i would 100% call the police. Some older people like this just go into homes for sale to snoop around for valuables, and then letting other people know so that they can rob it. A lot of realtors are getting smarter to this and will end showings if people do stuff like that. Story 2: OP is not a jerk at all here, and May is 100% clueless if she thinks for a second that any of the OP's family is her business and that shell somehow be able to help the OP make amends with any of them. Its pretty clear the siblings want nothing to do with the OP, and vice versa, so why try and force interaction with them. People really need to stop "trying to help" with something that clearly does not need any kind of help with. Story 3: I'm a bit torn on this one. I'm willing to bet that there's some stuff not being told here. Was she being paid more solely because she has kids, or was there more that we arent privy to? Maybe experience at other jobs, or its what this lady asked for? Who knows. The OP likely should've been paid at least on par with this worker, especially since they were at this job longer and actually helped train her. Seniority doesn't always mean you'll be paid better. I think the boss couldve given the OP a raise with everything. Also, it really wasn't the OP's business on what this lady was being paid. Story 4: No way is the OP a jerk here... and i think, overall, the dad is the one that i say is the biggest jerk here. Eve and Zoe are bad enough for all their badmouthing on the OP's mom here... and i commend the OP for standing up for her mom here, well done. However, the dad is the biggest jerk here for feeding Eve and Zoe false information on the alimony payments and just keeping the money for himself. If anything, everyone should be mad at the dad here, not the OP. Story 5: Asking the niece to watch your autistic son on an emergency basis? No, not the jerk. Asking the niece to do it for free? That can be seen as a jerk move, at first. As for the niece, she's the jerk for demanding as much as she did, along with inadvertently getting the cat sick with her perfume... and she's definitely the jerk for getting others involved and trying to make it look like the OP was manipulating and gaslighting her. OP did no such thing. OP definitely doesn't owe her a hotel room. Screw the niece and the brother. Story 6: Your best friend is a huge jerk here for both cheating on his wife and asking the OP to keep this secret. I would not keep this secret for a second. This "friend" of yours is a complete dullard and hopefully the wife finds out about this soon. Cheating is NEVER okay.
@CynicalNativeАй бұрын
I have never seen comments on each story section. I love it!
@QuickManEXEАй бұрын
@@CynicalNative Thanks.
@frankliu6190Ай бұрын
A bit late--but I do think that in Story 2, "May" isn't entirely at fault here. She has no idea of the situation and it is likely that this is her genuine belief. Remember, she is his girlfriend's mother, and thus (hopefully I suppose) will eventually be his mother in law. She isn't entitled to the story, but has a right to ask.
@hamrad645Ай бұрын
May isn't entitled to anything. Your family background is none of her business. You don't need to be reminded of the failures of your parents. There's nothing in your familial background that has any relevance to May!
@angelamurray2725Ай бұрын
Family are who love and support you. I’m lucky I have a very loving Mum, family not all of them. OP NTA. May just needs to back away or else you will uninvite her. May is AH. Good luck in your new life with Sierra🙏🏻🩷
@claremunnoch1255Ай бұрын
In the U.K we have a pay scale based on age. I personally think its ridiculous as all bills are the same regardless of age. And shiuld never be more based on family situation.
@GoldenHourStories8Ай бұрын
The nerve of those people! It's shocking to think that they believed they had the right to enter your home without permission. Kudos to you and your grandparents for dealing with them firmly. Respecting people's privacy is so important!
@CynicalNativeАй бұрын
I honestly think they play the elderly/don't know any better game to get inside and steal meds or things of value.
@jasoncarpp7742Ай бұрын
*Story 1:* Whatever gives this *"karen"* the delusion that just because there's a *"For Sale"* sign on the property that it's okay for her to just waltz onto the property and look around without regard to whether someone is there?
@QuickManEXEАй бұрын
Something tells me that those old people are scouting for thieves.
@jasoncarpp7742Ай бұрын
@@QuickManEXE *"Scouting for thieves"?* I don't get it.
@QuickManEXEАй бұрын
@@jasoncarpp7742 Okay, let me try and explain better: People like that look inside and outside the house, not because they are actually interested in buying the house, but they do things like look to see if there are security cameras or systems, unlocked windows and doors and easy entry points. Once inside a house, they'll look at rooms that have valuables inside and will actively look in cupboards, closets and drawers to see whats in them. They'll try act interested, but its pretty blatant that they are just looking for things. They will also try and see when the owners are and aren't home, so it will give them an idea when they can come back... which is what those people in this story did; they came back multiple times and tried to use an excuse that they were interested. There have been cases where people have had their for sale homes broken into, robbed and even vandalized just days after a viewing and generally its the people that were just there, either going back themselves or letting other people know what they saw.
@JamesDavy2009Ай бұрын
@@jasoncarpp7742 Let's break it down. Thieves will offer money or favours to gullible people to do their dirty work. The thieves feed a narrative and when the police get involved, the thieves can play ignorant and throw their hires under the bus.
@loriemoorhead9017Ай бұрын
On this last story, instead of you telling right away, give your friend an ultimatum....either tell your wife of your indiscretion or you will tell her. Give him a week to come clean. I wouldn't want to put myself ahead of him because that can cause more problems. If your friend is as good as you say, then he will do the right thing. If not, you are better off because it appears he has fallen away from your common values. I would not give it more than a week because it will put you in a bad position. Either way, his wife deserves to know the truth. If there is a true connection between them, they can work through this together. If you have a priest or a pastor, or even a therapist, tell them your dilemma and they can help you walk through this.
@sicilianprincess-tm5nzАй бұрын
Story 2, no because of age had nothing to do with how they should be paid. You have a family don't mean you're in title to more money. I would have given my two weeks notice as well.
@Franchie145Ай бұрын
For the pay story I think the OP should be paid more since they have more experience and worked there longer. Also they need the money for a car, college, etc.
@phantomghost997Ай бұрын
Story 3: Mamabear can relate, because she was a social worker for 15 years and some people who only just started were getting similar to higher pay then her. Not to mention getting first dips on holiday time and other things plus getting sick days because "Little Johnny or Little Susie were too sick to go to school and they couldn't get a sitter." That part is ok but not paying people accordingly is messed up, and nobody deserves that
@travislee8139Ай бұрын
3:15 1st story ( bare with me I had a tbi 2 years ago writting isn’t my best) so this happened around the beginning of this year. My aunt passed a little after my injury and my dad was in-charge of selling it for his parents ( my grand parents) well at the beginning of this year my grandfather passed away ( my dad’s dad) . So we go to his ceremony ( he was cremated) when we left my parents, my little brother and his wife , my dads mother , and I went to go eat at a local bbq place. While there and waiting for our food dad checks his phone and sees people inside his sister’s house walking around like it’s nothing . So we eat and leave to go check on the property they were gone . My dad and I cleared the house ( we are both with our local sheriffs office where we live, but no one is there . A deputy shows up dad and him talk to file the report ( nothing was missing). And the deputy starts asking neighbors if they know the people. A day later dad gets a call from the deputy saying they have the people in custody and were claiming to be looking to buy the house. Well they bought the house but after they spent the night in jail and got a trespassing charge lol. Literally signs was all over the property and doors saying to call my dad for a viewing of the house . O well .
@CynicalNativeАй бұрын
And another story where it benefits yourself to make up kids and a family. Parents are not a classification that is protected by federal law. I am so frustrated by self-entitled parents who act like the Red Sea should be parted for them just because they accomplished something that lab mice do.
@Mixx-ITАй бұрын
The woman with children... She was probably older, and because of that, her wage should be higher!
@TheDarkLink7Ай бұрын
Okay so the whole being paid cause they have kids. Personally i would've given OP a raise as well cause of their experience. Yes theyre young and in high-school but still. Some experience especially helping the new people is still more expensive and less work the managers have to do.
@michaelking761Ай бұрын
For the third issue, I wonder what culture the OP is in. I know some cultures they do give higher wages due to how big a family is despite the output. Not saying it is right, but it is something to consider.
@Godly_Gaming-eb9voАй бұрын
Mate is the internets therapist
@ChittysushiАй бұрын
10:32 So having kids is a life choice, not a disability that entitles you to more. If anyone supplements that income it’s usually local government, not the employer. God forbid you get paid based on merit, knowledge and overall experience in your field over someone who made the choice (irresponsibility or not) to take care of a child.
@dcg590Ай бұрын
It’s NOT the government, it’s tax payers who shouldn’t have to. Welfare is completely unfair to the people who don’t screw their life up but get to pay for the l0$ers who do. It’s rewarding them for their poor decisions while the rest of us get to foot the bill.
@harmonyjohnson2527Ай бұрын
Your voice is so calming goodnight
@Raikarn249Ай бұрын
the first story is super common when you are selling a house, there is a reason why you HAVE to go through the realtor, the realtor will weed out ppl like these, what they want to do is just look around for things that are stealable, then rob you when you are away when you are selling a house, you NEVER show other ppl around on your own, you always send them to your realtor and let them show the house, if they arent actually interested in buying the house, then the realtor will shut that down pretty fast
@764notmynameАй бұрын
Story 1: Those people need to know what they can and can't do. If someone is living there, you can't just try and break in the look around. Story 2: The MIL needs to mind her own business. She is not going to mend things with your "family" like you said, they don't like you. The MIL has no idea what she's talking about, so she needs to stay out of it and shut up. Story 3: Just because she has children doesn't mean she should get payed more. Yes, she probably needs the help, but that is not how it works. OP is a much more valuable member there, they speak two languages, bringing in more people, and they've been working they longer. OP should be payed much more than he does right now. It doesn't matter how old you are or if you just got out of high school. You have been working there longer. Story 4: No, they don't know what they are talking about. Your dad was hiding things from them and didn't stop them from talking sh-t about your mom. They didn't know what they were talking about. It's your dads problem now. Story 5: Dude your niece is staying there for free, she could have just baby sit for you for that. Story 6: First of all, he cheated, you need to tell his wife. How is that not your first thought? He cheated and now he has to deal with the consequences. If the wife is fine with this then ok. It's her chose, but she needs to know!
@bobm5951Ай бұрын
Story 3 -Sue that employer. Nobody gives a rat's fuzzy backside about her having kids. It is not a reason for her to be paid more.
@samus20018Ай бұрын
Last story kinda has a loop hole but can be considered a jerk move. Friend asked him not to tell his his (friend's) wife but never asked OP not to tell his (OP's) wife. So OP could kinda tell his wife and his wife could tell friend's wife.
@ThatOneHopelessWeeb28 күн бұрын
Yeah, no, she shouldn't have been earning more than OP. Bilinguals are high-value employees, especially those with plenty of experience. "She needs the money," that's what government benefits like food stamps and child welfare checks are for. And believe me, she was definitely receiving those back then, since she's raising two kids. Especially if she's a single mother. Sounds to me like the boss had eyes for her, the bloody creep.
@PaulaCollins-pz5rdАй бұрын
That 1st story is nuts
@BezddRedАй бұрын
I'm sorry but I literally don't understand people who claim to be " child free " but they only mean it to not babysit. Just say you don't wanna babysit and don't be rude.
@CynicalNativeАй бұрын
I used to tell my friends eyeing me to babysit, "If a kitten and your kid were both drowning I think you know which I'd save first." They quickly moved along.
@LivelyTimesАй бұрын
Hello I love ur videos.❤
@zar1w34Ай бұрын
Tbh they should have just asked for a tour of the house
@user-eb5wu8rc2lАй бұрын
your so underrated for being verified.
@leighreganarblaster9852Ай бұрын
No your not jerk because the boss should be pay same. She a kid this guy pays someone kids more.op bought my business in because spoke two different languages. Anyone claiming women have kids even men have kids this wrong, everyone should get the same
@sakurakittycatemmysmithАй бұрын
That's not fair that she gets paid more
@Tetril_HomefiestaАй бұрын
story 3 no the OP was treated bad , he should have gotten a promotion but if the mother was a poor woman with no salary , then ye she needs the money but the OP does more work then her so he deserves some sort of extra bonus or a promotion at the least but no , the OP is not the jerk in my opinion (I respect all opinions though)
@dbalexanАй бұрын
Why does this new guy end EVERY story with “Here’s what happened” or “And I seriously (🙄) don’t know what to do”? I miss the old reader. 😑
@trustjahАй бұрын
Acting like children talking about " grown folks business "
@jimbo55512Ай бұрын
SIGMAS in florida who had no lockdown | | V
@BerrybrriАй бұрын
15:17 Oh no… it’s an entitled K-pop stan 😭
@Jdbb35Ай бұрын
Hi there I’m sorry I missed your call
@Noobie752Ай бұрын
💀
@SharkoStyleGamingАй бұрын
U first
@JowlGonalwАй бұрын
21:05 the last story is the first time I do not agree with the guy hosting am I the jerk
@hanamoonshadow5220Ай бұрын
So are you trying to say the cheater shouldn’t get caught..? His wife needs to to know he cheated, it’s not right to keep that from her. Also why hide it as pizza place … yea no, that husband is the jerk for having an affair
@godofhopexАй бұрын
@@hanamoonshadow5220yay he’s a jerk but he’s your best friend and your day 1 y’all we’re friends when u were four so I would tell
@MindofachildАй бұрын
I’m here
@RoboooVRАй бұрын
Cool
@Edit_god5Ай бұрын
😅
@Edit_god5Ай бұрын
😎
@taco8810Ай бұрын
hi
@Tubb2581Ай бұрын
Last story. "bros before garden tools" tell him u won't tell get but u won't lie if she ask. But 100% ... before garden tools
@hassanyasser7747Ай бұрын
Ok i don't mean this in a bad way but 1.50 like 😅😅
@PajamaCatWithRamenАй бұрын
Sup
@SharkoStyleGamingАй бұрын
Youre second
@eiraidkwhatelsetoputАй бұрын
@@SharkoStyleGamingno one gives a fuck abt "first" and "second"
@kusanaginenebutaferretАй бұрын
First view
@MaisonMarsАй бұрын
AM FIRST
@PajamaCatWithRamenАй бұрын
You’re not
@MaisonMarsАй бұрын
To watch the video
@eiraidkwhatelsetoputАй бұрын
No one gives a flying fuck
@PajamaCatWithRamenАй бұрын
@@MaisonMars you’re not first
@MaisonMarsАй бұрын
@@PajamaCatWithRamen I said just to watch it just because a comment was above me don't mean he's first