Ppl don’t understand how hard it is to leave a toxic relationship until they’re in that same predicament. It’s easier said than done .
@abdullaaljoborri117910 ай бұрын
You want a cookie 🍪?
@Jaebae6010 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! And its no laughn matter😮
@ChavezChavez-tv8sy10 ай бұрын
She couldn’t wait at least a year .. she moved in with Jr two months after her break up of 5 years .. come on broh what where you expecting she still misses the x
@Jaypipsqueeak10 ай бұрын
@@abdullaaljoborri1179 They let children reply on KZbin 🤨
@AAA-vk9vp8 ай бұрын
She was DMing dudes ... I guess that's hard not to do to
@irisandrade485610 ай бұрын
It’s difficult to leave an abusive relationship because you love that person more than yourself. The day you flip that, and love yourself more, that will be the day your life will change ❤
@genesisb.368210 ай бұрын
This is literally what I’m going through right now and the thing is there’s a baby also and it’s heartbroken that she hears all that
@alexandriagalvan828410 ай бұрын
Unfortunately this is so true
@Gisella-et8ik10 ай бұрын
That's true bcuz I'm going thru the same thing and it hurts bcuz now I feel stupid and dumb for choosing him over our own family and now I feel all alone with my 3 girls and feel more like a different person and lonely I'm hoping I'll have or I'll find a way back to my family I feel embarrassed bcuz they warned me how he was going to be but yet still I chose him I've been with him for like 6 years those whole 6 years went thru a very toxic relationship
@Gisella-et8ik10 ай бұрын
And it hurts me going thru all that and my girls seeing that stuff happening i never wanted my girls to grow up seeing their parents argue bcuz i went thru that when i was little and i always told myself that i wouldnt let my kids see it happening
@veeramos692810 ай бұрын
Facts
@marieg501110 ай бұрын
I love that she took accountability when she said she was toxic in the beginning
@carlosgonzalez407210 ай бұрын
@marieg5011 Where’s the accountability? If anything she’s just playing victim
@marieg501110 ай бұрын
At 57 minutes, she admitted she was toxic in the beginning of the relationship
@kaileiheath9910 ай бұрын
Ok but still no man should put hands on his girlfriend
@brianbraseas56710 ай бұрын
@@kaileiheath99he didn’t 😂😂😂😂 all it takes is for a women to say something in order for the world to believe it there’s no proof of that
@kaileiheath9910 ай бұрын
@@brianbraseas567 she posted pics of when he beat the living hell out of her and she's lying the hell
@guadalupeparra607510 ай бұрын
note this, Karla stayed quiet, Junior kept running his mouth and dragging her name, let that sink in
@Bagtendo10 ай бұрын
He only spoke out bc she dragged his name first
@Bagtendo10 ай бұрын
But honestly none of us should blindly believe either of them, there 2 sides and 1 truth
@andreamartinez437810 ай бұрын
Literally I was thinking the same,she Hella was just going through it but never went crazy on social media,so it genuinely feels like she went through some shit we couldn't imagine
@guadalupeparra607510 ай бұрын
@@andreamartinez4378 literally, I went through the same with for over 2 years, it took balls and it takes a lot to leave a relationship like that
@stephaniemiranda934610 ай бұрын
I think Karla was dragging him on IG not TikTok
@emeryluv10 ай бұрын
Yes just wanna thank you for opening up about what you went through. Because it is hard to leave an abusive relationship. Your younger then me and I can't believe how stronger you are and had the guts to speak up about it. Sending nothing but love to you Karla. Thank you Alan for having her. ❤😢super awesome inspiration.
@gottaloveme123100010 ай бұрын
Karla is having her Karol G moment and living her best life and thriving! Despite everything that has happened, she is a resilient Queen
@eresmala590510 ай бұрын
Except on Karol G is prettier
@mastercheif80410 ай бұрын
Do you know where I can find where he's speaking about her? People are saying he dragged her name first but I can't find videos of his side. I'm just curious.
@lerx_mex760110 ай бұрын
@@mastercheif804TikTok he responded to this podcast
@almarodriguez39138 ай бұрын
Good for her 🥰
@Hardawayfits7 ай бұрын
@@mastercheif804it's on youtube. I don't got social media so idk of any other sources😅
@liz-wm3yy10 ай бұрын
You can see her glow leaving that relationship. He was stressing her and that mom too! Wishing her the best! She’s deserves better!!🙏🏾 I’m be tu happy she was given the platform to speak the truth.
@papijohzay71604 ай бұрын
Yea thats every thot who leaves a relationship these days
@ivettmorales347610 ай бұрын
When she spoke about it before this alot of people said she was lying. So quick to judge her bc he started to cry and say she did him wrong. You can hear it in her voice. Im glad they broke up , she deserves better . No one male or female should stay in an abusive relationship no matter how long they been together or how many kids they have!!! Verbal & physical abuse is NOT OKAY
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
It wasn't abusive tho she cheated and junior has literal proof
@JoeElviraHernandez10 ай бұрын
Why is everyone hating on Karla it’s literally so obvious that junior did not treat her right, junior just did never deserved her and that how junior treated her family
@Blossomlills10 ай бұрын
I knew since the beginning she wasn’t meant for him. He gives me bitch vibes. Forsure canceled!!!
@jessicazuniga305710 ай бұрын
No fr ikno they made skits but he was a little bit more comfortable in those skits the way he would talk to her like it was cringe how he’d belittled her
@brianbraseas56710 ай бұрын
Both of them were toxic af in those skits 😂😂😂
@RHEC177610 ай бұрын
Because she's lying..if you believe this you're insane
@MISSUNIVERSE183010 ай бұрын
When she ask him to buy her the Brats doll...and he didn't 😢 that was just 1 of the many flags to me that he didn't loved her
@leslyeserrano894610 ай бұрын
Who's here after Panchos video? 😮 Karla, hunny, take care of yourself. Work on your mental health, take a break from the social media scene (drinking and partying), and set boundaries with your friend. Sincerely, someone's mama. #healyourself #nosadmusic
@yvettenena9610 ай бұрын
yup there is always 2 sides pero el de pndejo not letting her heal from a past relationship b4 going with her...he knew and took the risk
@Odaliz.G310 ай бұрын
Facts!
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
@@yvettenena96he told her she needed to heal first but it was her design to go in first
@alexjulio933010 ай бұрын
Yall are fast to say as to why she didn't speak up or something, but if you all haven't been in that situation you guys can't speak it happens more common then you think just cuz they are in social media doesn't mean its that easy
@felishathemom739310 ай бұрын
i never called the cops on my ex. instead he would call the cops and beat my ass while they were coming. looking back i should’ve snitched !!!
@lesliaguilar177510 ай бұрын
Its hard to leave and no one will understand till they live it took me 4 years and no one knew I would hide the bruises didn’t speak up till I knew I was done because I didn’t want people to know and then be like why you still there when I knew I wasn’t ready to leave
@felishathemom739310 ай бұрын
@@lesliaguilar1775 it’s very hard to leave. i’m glad you did ❤️
@Beendidthat010 ай бұрын
That b story all mixed up pay attention to how she’s talking
@OntarioMual10 ай бұрын
@@felishathemom7393fake
@Astoldbymarissa10 ай бұрын
As someone who has been abused it’s hard to leave… I appreciate her for having the strength to speak up
@carlosdeleon647210 ай бұрын
1:01:30 it’s very true you don’t know someone till you move in with someone alone you really get to see their true colors. I can relate to it moving in with my boyfriend after a year of being together everting turned and alcohol brought the devil in him it took me 6 months to finally call my parents and pick me up and lil clothes and never looked back .
@Flawlessbutterfly9510 ай бұрын
Awe I can hear in Karla’s voice that she’s really hurt and still sad. 😔 I’m so glad she left Junior cause she did not deserve that abusive relationship, I’m so happy she’s doing her tho she’s glowing 🩷 I love you Karla
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
Womp womp she deserves it playing a victim card
@yajhairam2210 ай бұрын
If I had a dollar for every time she says “Like” I’d be rich already 😂😂
@emuhlees210 ай бұрын
No fr after every other word lmfao
@erickenriquez615610 ай бұрын
She’s still not as good at speaking English which is not a bad thing since it’s her second language so she’s doing great props to you 🎉
@MannySports24710 ай бұрын
“You know”
@aceamire312010 ай бұрын
Kids today don't know how to speak. Basic communication skills are very lacking
@stephanielopez124410 ай бұрын
As soon I noticed I couldn’t stop hearing it 😂
@kimsworld991210 ай бұрын
I can tell she’s not fully saying everything. I feel like she still can’t believe this happened to her. She’s still sinking into it. The reality of it all. I’m sorry she had to go through this. I know she’s not lying. She’s holding back tears and more truth.
@RHEC177610 ай бұрын
No she's making stuff up as she goes
@RealJayNice10 ай бұрын
Looks like she cheated on Junior.
@kimsworld991210 ай бұрын
@@RealJayNice you need a mental evaluation
@RealJayNice10 ай бұрын
@@kimsworld9912 Hypergamy is undefeated she possibly thought she can do better since she got social media clout and found an excuse to be with other dudes with more money etc.
@kimsworld991210 ай бұрын
@@RealJayNice but anyone can always do better and she def can do better than someone who is hitting her.
@caseyydurann852110 ай бұрын
I feel like he’s gay but is afraid to come out . Honestly
@jordanacahen897210 ай бұрын
Yeppp… I feel this way about a lot of men who hurt their girlfriends/wives. Felt the same about my ex who beat me
@Sashaxoxo9110 ай бұрын
Yes!!!!!!! I always thought that about him
@SD-ph6cr10 ай бұрын
I actually thought he was also gay the first time I saw a video of them. Lol
@Karina-R44210 ай бұрын
Omg I don’t even know them but seen a few videos of them recently on KZbin And I thought he was a bit too feminine lol
@jordanacahen897210 ай бұрын
@@Sashaxoxo91 yupppp! And not to generalize, but my ex is also Latino and in his family there were definitely so many stigmas still about sexuality… like his family on both sides is super conservative/traditionally minded, like believes men should be straight and all that machismo stuff, so I think knowing he could never outwardly be himself authentically could have also fueled his hatred towards women.. same thing with Junior. Also it’s evident his mom has internalized misogyny and it just gets passed down
@yamihernandez301710 ай бұрын
Listening to her relive this and get shaky in her voice when she was talking about him hitting her and cussing her out and she was just scared…made me tear up. I remember being in that place and feeling helpless. 💔 I hope she heals from this and never goes back.
@MacP299010 ай бұрын
Same being in abusive relationships are very hard and staying silent is even harder😢so glad she got out ❤we love you girl
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
Ok in sorry for you but karlita abused junior and abused him the abuse from woman is unseen but if a woman accused a man of something it's the end of the world
@Chri55tian2110 ай бұрын
The fact that you’ll still want his side of the story when he’s been dragging her name for weeks acting like the victim. It’s ridiculous
@dlo369510 ай бұрын
Why not? Everyone deserves to tell their side of the story
@jonathanrocha12810 ай бұрын
2 sides to every story
@Chri55tian2110 ай бұрын
He has been talking about it since way before she even got on this pod cast.
@reneereyes762410 ай бұрын
It’s the act of a narcissist.Drag somebody down before anybody finds out the other side so when they speak the truth the other person will forever be the liar and the Narcissist gets away with it all
@jadevu90410 ай бұрын
She just a bigger person and aim glad she ended quickly and dont have to worry about him
@candelariaflores00010 ай бұрын
I just wish I could give her the biggest hug !🥺 She’s such a strong person, I’m so happy that she was able to get out of that situation because not a lot of people are able to💯
@adilenetarango675710 ай бұрын
I do believe her!!!! you can tell in her face she is telling the truth so many woman go through stuff like these & they stay quiet because so many reasons so don’t judge her or other woman because you don’t know what they are going through! I love this episode thanks Karla for sharing your story God bless you better times are coming!!❤🙏🏻✨ & thanks Alan for having this platform love you🫶🏼.
@ellielook827310 ай бұрын
I’m so glad she opened up about this. It’s hard to opens up to stuff like this. I’m so proud of her
@bettyramirez677110 ай бұрын
I love how considerate and caring he talks to her. He can definitely be a great therapist lol
@franciscozuniga795510 ай бұрын
Tbh this open my eyes even more. I wasn’t a good person to my ex either and tbh I do regret it, but it’s on me. Karla thank you for making me realize even more what I have to do as a man but as a person to never make these mistakes ever again. Me watching this today open my heart knowing I could’ve or done better as a person. Till this day, regardless what happen between me and my ex, I’ll always want her to be safe and always care for her no matter what🙏🏻
@berthabarragan780910 ай бұрын
Get her back and treat her better this time if it’s not too late 🤨
@angelarios293110 ай бұрын
@@berthabarragan7809yes 🙌
@CatherineLopez-px8gw10 ай бұрын
Aww you can hear her voice trembling 🥺 It makes me tear up 😢
@eduardosantacruz130610 ай бұрын
Oh my God, victim mentality for females when they cheat on their man, "I'm a victim! My boyfriend abused me! Help me save me!", why does Junior gotta be the one having his name dragged in the mud, when it's all Karlas fault dressing like a hoe going to bad bunny shows and getting other guy's attention.
@georgevalerio125510 ай бұрын
She’s lying , she’s so dramatic and she ain’t break down not once . I don’t believe none of that. But then again we all are just assuming from what we see. So yeah…
@aliceeegallaga63910 ай бұрын
That’s not trembling she’s nervous awkward
@unafamiliadediez741210 ай бұрын
Yo conozco a karla
@RHEC177610 ай бұрын
Thats because she's lying and trying to remember her lies
@sof1a_the_equestrian10 ай бұрын
I believe HER 100%. I lived through her same experience, so many of us do. We stay and pray they change, but they don't. When us SURVIVORS finally leave, we are labeled as the "bad guys" lol. Nothing better than being single and FREE from abuse!
@userofsharingan10 ай бұрын
Karlita: when we lived with his parents we would get into heated arguments and the parents would hear. And like im the back of my head i knew this was wrong and toxic but i would justify his behavior and blame myself like maybe its cause of something i said. But i knew this isn’t normal he probably thought he could keep getting away with it. So then i told him we needed to move out on our own 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Low IQ people: wow i belive you 100% thats story makes perfect sense 😂😂😂😂
@EvelynLizetGallardo10 ай бұрын
I KNEW she had gone thru Domestic violence with JR when i saw his live at the bar drinking with his Manager and he threw up in the cup infront of his camera while LIVE getting aggressive with someone else at the restaurant he was at . (This happened like 3 weeks ago) I know a aggressive drunk abusive mf’er when i hear/see them prayers for you Karla ❤️
@alejandradiaz650610 ай бұрын
Yupp!! That confirmed he has a drinking problem. You can see it in his face he knows he fucked up thats why hes always crying on lives.
@esme_yaya10 ай бұрын
I seen that aswell. He was too much!
@ChavezChavez-tv8sy10 ай бұрын
😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮😮 damnmmm
@keyongrays934210 ай бұрын
Alcohol definitely plays a role in it but I think based off what him and his mom allegedly said that it’s normal for the man to mistreat the woman in the relationship they know it’s wrong but they still think it’s normal so sad glad she was able to get out of that cuz it only gets worse as you go on with the relationship.
@lerx_mex760110 ай бұрын
He never got aggressive with someone wtf
@lorenagarcia438010 ай бұрын
She is brave for speaking up. How is her ex not cancelled yet. Screw him, he doesn’t deserve a platform. So glad she got out.
@kashh.michael227110 ай бұрын
She cheatef
@kendral873810 ай бұрын
This was never proven true. Even if it was, that’s never an excuse to be abusive to a partner or anyone in general.
@zinzhao823110 ай бұрын
Because canceling doesn’t exist
@karentorres129310 ай бұрын
@@kashh.michael2271it’s not true tho
@brianbraseas56710 ай бұрын
This is the problem with yall arguments You say he cheated then yall say there’s no proof then she says he’s abusive but there’s no proof either only both of them know the story
@evelynperez180910 ай бұрын
Totally agree you never know who the other person is until you live with them 💯😕
@Lil_dee9710 ай бұрын
Didn’t she lived with jr at his mom’s place before they moved to their own apartment. ?
@familyfriend717810 ай бұрын
@@Lil_dee97yes but you didn’t hear her say the part where they went to Chicago he got drunk n hit Karla that’s when it all started
@irinajoshnick353710 ай бұрын
I agree cause when I lived with my ex best friend her true colors came out
@roseperez445010 ай бұрын
@@Lil_dee97they lived together for years with his mom
@DianaGarcia-bw8io10 ай бұрын
Yup agree with you!!
@jaeloka8 ай бұрын
As someone who’s been through this exact situation, I know she’s telling the truth. The voice shaking, her looking around paranoid almost as if he’s going to storm in and do it again made me cry. Big hugs and prayers to all the women who have gone and are going through this. May God give us the strength to recover from the trauma and move on 🙏🏽🩵
@GeorgiaMascarenas10 ай бұрын
Any type of abuse is so sad I feel bad for her and any girl who goes through any kind of abuse
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
But she was the one abusing behind the seens
@MichelleCampos-u8d4 ай бұрын
@@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests Stop blaming her it’s not her stop it
@M.K.Love2910 ай бұрын
She did the interview in a very mature way. Because she does not want to make him see bad she was talking with a lot of respect.
@emelypena175010 ай бұрын
Look at her eyes and you can hear it in her voice I believe her
@kiara.ariass10 ай бұрын
Nah
@OMG-fjr10 ай бұрын
ofc u do 😒 🤣
@lisaalv0710 ай бұрын
Exactly 😢
@RHEC177610 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 chick is lying bad
@ALLINLV70210 ай бұрын
It’s called equality that’s women ask for
@michellesida327410 ай бұрын
Abusive people will say "im not gonna hurt you" or "im never gonna hurt you" i know this from experience. And hearing this from her i believe her.
@jackyb.359010 ай бұрын
No fr I agree with you!!
@ALLINLV70210 ай бұрын
First off never bring your past in a new relationship I’ve been with mines for 9 yrs I haven’t once ever asked her about her past because to me I’m her first
@Hortencia.Alvarado10 ай бұрын
Hearing about her crossing the border made me tear up, I had no idea Karlita had her struggles learning English. I'm happy that Karlita got to share this side of her. I've always seen the fun-outgoing Karlita so getting an understanding of her upbringing made me realize that Karla definitely persevered. Going into the portion of when she spoke about her ex, was hard to hear. I can only imagine how difficult it was for Karla to be in between her bf and her family. Only she knows what she went through and why she stayed. I commend her for both trying to stay and also getting up and leaving. I pray that Karla is doing well and that she continues to go to therapy and eventually she finds love.
@felishathemom739310 ай бұрын
RIGHT!!!! i have so much respect for her now.
@Hortencia.Alvarado10 ай бұрын
@@felishathemom7393 I would have never expected all of that was going on behind the scenes.
@felishathemom739310 ай бұрын
@@Hortencia.Alvarado fr it’s a slap in the face forsure
@unafamiliadediez741210 ай бұрын
La mama de ella es muy trabajadora y su papa igual ya a ellos los conozco
@Dark_Angel_Baby_10 ай бұрын
this literally makes me cry as i watch this i defiantly feel for her... she is such a beautiful and strong human being and she deservers the world I'm so sorry this happened to you... i hope the rest of your life is full of joy and happiness because you didn't deserve none of this... i pray god heals you from this trauma cause i can defiantly hear your voice trembling...🥺❤🙏🏼
@stephanieeylicio817710 ай бұрын
Im so glad she left and she's living her best life now so proud of you karlita ❤❤
@frances84010 ай бұрын
Karla..I'm so sorry and sad that you went thru this. Thank you so much for being brave and speaking up. I believe you..100%. I pray you and your family heal from this trauma. ❤❤❤
@jonathantorres87610 ай бұрын
If I were given a dollar every time she said “Like” I’d have a lot of money😂
@elsamaldonado217410 ай бұрын
Omg! I was thinking the same thing!!
@gabbiesandoval833410 ай бұрын
I didn’t notice how many times she says “like” till I saw the comment 😭😂
@stephthernandez460510 ай бұрын
I noticed right away.. it hurt my head honestly maybe it was the nerves..
@jacielreyna831910 ай бұрын
That’s what happens when dumb people make stupid uneducated people famous
@paulvasquez789710 ай бұрын
A word that puts up a false story to be ran with … that’s like me using “and” without a common on a “Run on” Sentence
@Dtx_Ortiz9810 ай бұрын
Take a shot every time she say " you know like "😂😂😂
@blancagarcia875910 ай бұрын
😂☠️
@aceamire312010 ай бұрын
You'll blackout and beat your girlfriend! 😂😂
@freddymg458610 ай бұрын
@@aceamire3120stop projecting 😂😂
@watevag926610 ай бұрын
Haters
@HOTWHEELS8910 ай бұрын
Karla is such a sweetie 💕 i love her laugh. it's catchy . GOD BLESS U KARLA 🙏 GOD LOVE'S U SWEETIE. No matter any struggles u ho through, God fights your battles .
@fabioladelcid212210 ай бұрын
I hear ppl saying its hard to learn English for kids outside of the US. But I was born in the US and my parents just spoke Spanish. So growing up I had trouble learning English.
@123Jeong10 ай бұрын
samee
@AliKat83110 ай бұрын
This is why my Spanish and English is trash LOL
@cynthiahernandez961110 ай бұрын
Same and I was placed in ESL classes 😂
@Adriana_25410 ай бұрын
Same I cant speak either language correctly 😂
@lyanamariee10 ай бұрын
alan i love how you listen and youre very empathetic towards karla, especially with this being such a sensitive topic it makes me so emotional seeing her say her story. sending my love and support to the both of you God bless the you all for sharing this. LOVE YOU BOTH !!!
@jessicamonroy306510 ай бұрын
I never liked Jr he always gave me the ick & toxic vibes. Happy to know you left that relationship babe & doing so much better! you deserve so much better 💗
@vanessamontes146310 ай бұрын
Yoo foreal man
@familyfirst34210 ай бұрын
He gave me like he didn't like girl vibes lol
@Maria6301410 ай бұрын
@@familyfirst342SAME😂😂😂
@nikrae39259 ай бұрын
Gay vibes…for sure That’s prolly why he gets so angry at times cuz he mad he can’t be who he truly wants to be with..guys
@CindiRuViolet10 ай бұрын
His mom is the reason why hes like that.
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
His hard working mom doesn't need to be disrespected at all junior is a great man he did absolutely nothing wrong karlita abused him and exploted him and she plays the victim
@magywhatever653910 ай бұрын
54:01 when she starts talking about her past relationship! Edit: The rest of the video is her talking about it!
@lfrancechy444610 ай бұрын
Ty!
@emuhlees210 ай бұрын
I was looking for this thanks
@cristalmedina349210 ай бұрын
Your the best for this lol🫶🏾😭
@Joy_esprida10 ай бұрын
Ty ❤
@casy62038 ай бұрын
Yes thank you!!!
@dgreatest68348 ай бұрын
As a man who grew up watching his father put his hands on his mother in an alcoholic rage, I always told myself when I grow up I would never put my hands on a woman. I was in a toxic relationship where she put her hands on me but I refused to put my hands on her I ended the relationship and it was the best thing I ever did. Respect yourself first!
@joannahernandez826810 ай бұрын
Next guess should be Salice rose cause I want to know about her
@Yeah_She_Bites70210 ай бұрын
omg yessssssssss !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
@Lowkeyyoutbbue10 ай бұрын
Yess pleaseee
@aprilmonaehernandez10 ай бұрын
Omg yess ❤
@karlab747810 ай бұрын
YEEEESSSS
@shortyshorty909110 ай бұрын
Watching her , motivated me more to leave my husband . I will never get what I'm asking for , my place as he's wife and respect .
@erikaarteaga1910 ай бұрын
Sameee
@Fatbiyyy10 ай бұрын
Give it a year, you’ll be back
@brianbraseas56710 ай бұрын
You gonna let boxers fly you to Vegas to get fucked 😂😂😂😂😂
@aarreliii.10 ай бұрын
@@Fatbiyyythis is crazy 😂😂
@MkNEAC10 ай бұрын
Have to talk to him?
@jennifergonzalez081710 ай бұрын
Omg Karla I’m so sorry you went through that, seeing the person you love change into a monster hurts and is so confusing so much. Just remember none of it is your fault you do not need to justify his actions. Keep getting through life by yourself and love yourself. Stay strong.
@augustbabies0510 ай бұрын
so happy you are out of the toxic relationship. you deserve so much more beautiful ❤️
@irenepineda801710 ай бұрын
I’m glad she went on this post cast and give us some clarity ❤and she took the time to tell us her side and how everything went down
@gabrielamora897710 ай бұрын
Karla, you are soooo damn strong for speaking out. ❤️ you have a bright future and you should be proud of yourself!
@jocelynserrano47710 ай бұрын
UGH I felt that so bad 🙁 “I was scared when he would drink … let me not say the wrong thing porque no se lo que me vaya pasar” ugh ladies I pray for any of you in that situation 💗 their is better days and life’s too short to handle that bs fr 🙏🏽
@felishathemom739310 ай бұрын
Alan, thankyou for letting her tell her story. you made me gain so much respect and love for Karla . ❤
@pancakemaster95-v8c10 ай бұрын
Hi Alan l am so ready to here what karlita has to say about junior l am so proud of you Karla for being on the podcast
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
Nobody is she abused junior for no reason check both sides she abused him and cheated on him
@MichelleCampos-u8d4 ай бұрын
@@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests Would you stop she didn’t abuse him when all this time watching her I never saw her hitting him bro stop blaming her
@gabrielalopezcornejo607410 ай бұрын
My love&respects for Karla with her going through her healing process ❤ sending much hugs&prayers ❤❤❤❤❤
@Jay-xt2im10 ай бұрын
Jose Bae watching this as Alan says this is the first guest from Minnesota 👁️👄👁️
@vaniimorales168810 ай бұрын
Jose bae is not from mn
@joselinepirin81310 ай бұрын
@@vaniimorales1688yes he is 😭
@gilbertoagundez148710 ай бұрын
He is 😂😂😂he said ahh no deverei
@jessicamartinez409110 ай бұрын
@@gilbertoagundez1487he’s from Iowa.
@BudgetsbyJackie10 ай бұрын
jose bae is from Iowa. Shawty bae is the one from MN😭
@Lilahbaby9410 ай бұрын
Alan is so comforting I love his vibe. Awww I love Karla more now.
@isabelserrano797210 ай бұрын
Proud of you Karla for being strong and vulnerable. ❤❤❤❤
@Tiemposfelices10 ай бұрын
Loved hearing your story Karla, genuinely wish you soo much success and happiness! Alan such good questions and I love the way you interview!!
@cristalmartinez460210 ай бұрын
El que a vivido lo mismo que ella sabe bien ❤ muchas bendiciones karlita 💕 nadie sabe lo que que ella siente y si ella está explicando su side of the story nobody will understand and nobody has to ! So keep rude comments to yourself. I lived through the same! Im also from Minnesota so proud of you to represent us 😍👍🏽💕
@vivianachavez468810 ай бұрын
This episode made me sad 😔 speaking from past trauma I can imagine how she felt each time 💔💔
@josemangum92310 ай бұрын
iam so sorry that happened to you mommas thnk god yu got out beforw je put yu six feet under i went thru that 13years iam proud of yu for walking away❤
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
Nice hope you do good but karlita is putting a victim card watch the interview with junior he has evidence and screenshots that he got jumped and abused by Carly and got blamed for every thing sure the videos were toxick but they were so it's so before you hate on junior heat both sides
@giovannimedina32144 ай бұрын
@@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests FR
@moneyman245210 ай бұрын
Admitting to drinking and driving on a podcast while being on daca is crazy
@_carolinaa10 ай бұрын
I love Karlita, I hope she’s living her best life now!!💗💘
@nicccoe916910 ай бұрын
I just love her spirit, she's such a good person! You can just tell!
@RHEC177610 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 You love liars
@GatoMeowMeow710 ай бұрын
Jr. waiting for this to come out like 👁👁
@ImJojo.10 ай бұрын
He forsure gonna make a video
@joannagalvan132810 ай бұрын
He was probably the first one
@familyfriend717810 ай бұрын
@@joannagalvan1328that’s stupid that your waiting on him to here his side which he said it on his live
@ashleymedina691810 ай бұрын
I can't wait what he has to say
@gluna019210 ай бұрын
Never liked him or his mother 💁🏻♀️
@alexisrios90724 ай бұрын
I think I just fell in love with Allanized!!! I could listen to all your interviews! 🙌
@AlexisIsidoroRios-g1r10 ай бұрын
We need part 2 !!!! Please ! I want to know more about the parents finding out what was going on, and were the dad was like I want his name and were hi lives. What happened next. I'm happy you were brave enough to stand for yourself.
@Cara956.10 ай бұрын
El Chisme al 100😂😂
@ryleighaulena24329 ай бұрын
@@Cara956.😂😂😂
@jaquelinecampuzano19249 ай бұрын
Prayers to Karla. Im so happy she got away from that relationship. Yo go girl! Know look out for you and your mental health. That is more important at this point. ❤❤❤😊
@GINNN70210 ай бұрын
Dude finally I can’t wait 😂 I want to hear her side of what happen with her and Jr.
@vanessaa92310 ай бұрын
The fact he told her she was using him for papers, shows you he USED DF outta her. He assumed she would stick with him till he married her & he didn’t commit because he thought once she got papers she would leave. But she loved him. & got tired of being mistreated and now that she moved on HE MADDDD. Cause he realized she wasn’t with him for papers. She was with him for love. Bet he feels stupid now. You could always sense his insecurities through videos that’s why he’s unwatchable. I’d scroll seeing his videos. Only stopped when she would be in the video ….. Sooooo 👏
@aprilcute830510 ай бұрын
I know but also is difficult to be with someone who doesn’t have papers you never know their true intentions but if he was feeling like that he should just leave her and don’t hurt her
@dezarayhernandez136110 ай бұрын
I love Karla! My Prayers go to her! 💕💕
@annissaochotorena821810 ай бұрын
He’s a narcissist to the people who believe him I’ve dated ones how you guys side with him he trying to make her look crazy so he don’t lose clout
@mariiaserrato728710 ай бұрын
This is so triggering to me because I’m going through this right now. I feel everything she felt and I am so sorry you went through that Karla
@TexasTaste10 ай бұрын
Don't get this JR guy on here, Alan. NOBODY WANTS TO HEAR THE ABUSERS SIDE.
@eduardosantacruz130610 ай бұрын
Shut up with your damn victim mentality
@j.rose_xoxo10 ай бұрын
Omg I hope he doesn’t! I won’t watch that shit
@TexasTaste10 ай бұрын
@@j.rose_xoxo Me either
@Eddie3gz10 ай бұрын
I would wanna hear both sides of the story without making assumptions when you pick a side blindly your not looking for the truth your looking for a narrative to validate your opinion you don't have to be a woman or a man to be a piece of s*** I been in both sides so I don't judge
@TexasTaste10 ай бұрын
@villagzsur13 theres no reason why any man should put their hands on a girl.
@LifeWithNatalie43910 ай бұрын
I love Karlitas story even if she’s lying or not DV is never ok I’m a DV survivor and I understand her pain ❤ some men just don’t deserve good woman
@Gaet64910 ай бұрын
I'm really shocked to hear that she had a rocky relationship with her former mother in law, and threatened to have Karla deported if she ever hurt him, Like wow!😬 It's very true what they say, "a Hispanic's worst enemy is another hispanic"
@kimberly472010 ай бұрын
I believe her. I’m currently in her situation. It’s hard to speak out against the person you love even tho you truly wish it would be different.
@Rolliedoobies210 ай бұрын
Junior reminds me of a sassy guy lol bro is in shambles right now punching the air she GLOWED UP🥶🔥💯
@jazmineislas466310 ай бұрын
Yup😂
@jenniferleon657610 ай бұрын
since she was a victim of a crime here in the US she can start the process of getting some type of us residency/visa. She definitely should try and press charges hopefully she has some evidence.
@trippywonderland84610 ай бұрын
Definitely I would do the same!
@brianbraseas56710 ай бұрын
She hasn’t because there’s no evidence and also no proof she cheated on JR
@karentorres129310 ай бұрын
@@brianbraseas567she literally has a scar on her face and she got receipts unlike mommas boy who doesn’t have shii and was the one who started posting about all this in the first place
@brianbraseas56710 ай бұрын
@@karentorres1293 why no charges have been filed you act like some criminals mind type of cops yall need to chill with domestic abuse claims because we all know both of em are toxic
@karentorres129310 ай бұрын
@@brianbraseas567 we all knew they were toxic from the start if you were listening to the podcast she even takes accountability about being toxic but she never hit him or cheated on him but yet mommas boy was asking for other girls numbers while they were together and hit her with his watch but yall just doing the most coming over here talking shii without even trying to listen to her side I get that everyone needs to tell her side but junior been talking way more shii before she even started this podcast so let her speak up 🗣️🗣️🗣️
@nillatasty928210 ай бұрын
Glad you out and loving your self and healing!!! 💛 sending you hugs and prayers
@melissaramirez688510 ай бұрын
This is so sad on the part of her relationship because it happened to me besides the abusive part. It’s so sad how it’s like normal for us to feel that way to defend this person we think will change. I would always feel this is only me and only I can forgive a person over and over. This was so intense to me and I really feel for her. Had me in tears. I hope the best for her!
@ALLINLV70210 ай бұрын
How’s your relationship
@miriamcastelan377410 ай бұрын
It’s good to hear her side of the story but I would never never allow a man to put his hands on my father 😳 so sad.!
@miriamcastelan377410 ай бұрын
@@sadlyvibes9983 I’m not justifying the father I’m just saying, I would never be with a man that puts his hands on my parents 😑
@sadlyvibes998310 ай бұрын
@@miriamcastelan3774 well gotta look at his side too, imagine if his mom was to get all up on your personal space with an attitude of aggression what would you do? Ofc you wouldn’t allow yourself to get attacked
@miriamcastelan377410 ай бұрын
@@sadlyvibes9983 it seems that you’re taking his side which is fine I’m not taking neither. I feel like there has to be a line of respect when it comes to the parents on both sides he should’ve just walked away because the dad didn’t even touch him 🤦🏽♀️ he just questioned him about not respecting her daughter
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
The father put his hand on junior girls no reason and junior told her drunk @$$ dad to calm down or he will defend himself and junior had to and they jumped him how is that ok make it make sense
@brysanXP10 ай бұрын
my best friend got killed over domestic violence she was only 19 so pls speak up before its to late weather your a man or woman SPEAK UP!
@ruthguzman152010 ай бұрын
I’m so proud for speaking up.. you are amazing and a beautiful young lady. Keep loving your self and get to know your self. You are strong. Keep pushing forward. 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️💪💪Very well said at the end..
@daliamiguel544110 ай бұрын
The moms comment is crazy, “I’m surprised he hasn’t hit you” she condones it
@xogabbyc10 ай бұрын
Dude the mom is so fake! She claimed she loved Karla more than her son & that she supposibly cried when they moved out! 😮
@mayrachavez591310 ай бұрын
She said the family didn't know...they just heard arguing, probably from their room. Which arguing is normal in a relationship...
@heidyvlogss10 ай бұрын
I know I have the same mil that’s how they are super fake I remember she was always telling jr to treat her right and everything
@jackierios808810 ай бұрын
I love karlita so much shes so sweet 🩷I pray she finds peace w all the trauma she went through..Shes so strong …May God Bless her w a bright future
@mitsycruz979810 ай бұрын
Im so glad she was strong to leave him ❤️
@elizabethperez132210 ай бұрын
Take a shot every time she says “like”. I blacked out at 12:34 mins 😂😂😂
@mochi_36009 ай бұрын
And the word “um”🤣
@MariaGasca-Reyes7 ай бұрын
Most Mexican girls talk like that 😂
@cinthiar432010 ай бұрын
Honestly this is why women stay quiet and I’ve been through horrible stuff but I’m happy she is no longer with him because life like that is insane. Women please stop making It seem she made it up. If he has even punched her dad how do you even believe JR????
@alejandradiaz650610 ай бұрын
THIS!!! Women asking for "his side". Wtf is he gonna say he? He was so blacked out he doesnt "remember".
@familyfriend717810 ай бұрын
@@alejandradiaz6506that’s what everyone wants to hear!
@Jonnyleaksoppsaturguysrequests7 ай бұрын
But everyone of you guys are woman listen to both sides you have so much time to glaze her but for junior nobody supports him he got exploted and you can tell in the podcast by Pancho all of the facts are revealed @@alejandradiaz6506
@lizalopez9210 ай бұрын
Take a shot every time she says "like" 😂😂😂😂
@gm0re77710 ай бұрын
I am so happy to hear her story. She is so genuine I love this for her ❤
@tracycervantes588010 ай бұрын
I don’t personally know her but I love you Karla 💓💓💓 Being able to speak up even when it still may be hurting takes a lot of courage. I’m so proud and happy as another Hispanic woman to see you speaking up and telling your story. Your voice, your thoughts, your pain, your side. It’s easier to keep quiet but you finally had the opportunity to speak on your testimony and it couldn’t have came at a better time for a lot of us going through similar pain and growth. Keep going mama may God keep blessing you !! Alan, amazing job 🎉
@theemojiking82410 ай бұрын
Just shows you what alcohol does to relationships it ruins everything never date a drinker it will ruin your life
@minnasmr248810 ай бұрын
But she drinks too. They both drank hella all the time. You are right alcohol ruins relationships therefore they are both in the wrong. & as a woman it looks so unclassy to always be drunk or drinking idk just my opinion. This is why i stay away from alcohol, never leads to anything good
@alejandradiaz650610 ай бұрын
@@minnasmr2488I dont drink either but I would never say a woman looks "unclassy" for drinking. Once again men can get away with murder for being guys. Your comment reminds me of those viejitas who are like "se lo busco".
@minnasmr248810 ай бұрын
@@alejandradiaz6506 girl this is why us girls always lie to one another. We can’t handle the truth. Always gotta be sensitive over everything 🤦🏻♀️. Im not gonna hold my tongue to not “hurt somebody’s feelings”. I said what i said.
@alejandradiaz650610 ай бұрын
@@minnasmr2488 What truth? No one is being sensitive. You just give that "calladita te ves mas bonita vibe". They both drank that night, he beats her and blacks out but shes the "classless" one. Be for real.
@CHAMP_theBULLDOG279 ай бұрын
Junior is a lil boy that can’t handle alcohol
@VPAlAfOX9310 ай бұрын
I honestly didn’t like her videos with Jr. they where some what annoying or I felt like it was always the same and his voice is annoying. The chorizo thing too. It probly wasent even all that. I started watching her videos without him In them and I love them. I feel like he’s just hurt and talking all lies. I 100 percent believe her.
@joshlugo8410 ай бұрын
Just Say you HATE JR
@VPAlAfOX9310 ай бұрын
@@joshlugo84 i don’t know him personally to hate him. He’s just not the type I would enjoy watching. I’m saying her by herself is better
@trippywonderland84610 ай бұрын
I’ve been following Karlita for a while now, I love her personality & better yet we’re both libras October 6 💖😛 Glad to see her enjoying her single era!
@janellekaye723410 ай бұрын
My birthday is on October 6 as well 💗
@tamerayazzie306310 ай бұрын
October 6 too🎉
@reinawilson555110 ай бұрын
Libra also. My son is Oct 6, 2017 and mine October 12th
@geraldinenieto-ayala721110 ай бұрын
me too omgg
@lauragarcia145710 ай бұрын
I could relate to Karlita, it's so heartbreaking when you lose the person you love to alcohol and then you try to forgive and stay because in the back of your head you think they'll change. It's crazy the fact that we keep it to ourselves mean while they act like the victim and involve others when you try not to bring anyone in because you love them. It's honestly a living hell emotional and physical abuse😢💔